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TomilloDanup/r/askTRP14/06/14 05:49 AM
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TomilloDanup/r/askTRP29/12/17 08:57 PM
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Hey! You already got the answers you need, this guy's are correct listen to them. But while we can tell you you are an insecure little bitch, you don't get to tell it yourself. Because what your mind believes it creates. Take this situation as a lesson if you are insecure think why and fix yourself. Don't gaslight yourself either. You want to see the phone for some reason your instincts and intuition are telling you something. You are the source and solution of all your problems but that doesn't…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 07:05 AM
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Stop overthinking, do what feels right. Don't fuck up your 20's
/r/askTRP26/03/18 05:59 AM
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What's your opinion on Bigger, Leaner, Stronger by Michael Matthews?
/r/askTRP14/03/18 07:02 AM
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Many schools offer professional psychological counsel, for free. At least in my country. Maybe you can research of Therese something similar in yours
/r/askTRP14/03/18 06:58 AM
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It's ALWAYS a risk, but risks can be assessed qualitatively. A ONS you just met that claims to be on the pill? Have you seen the packages did you see her take one at least? That's you you asses risk qualitatively even then I wouldn't do it. On the other side a plate with a IUD you can even feel with your dick or fingers that lowers the risk. I have been there and no pregnancy. At the end value the risk and consider if that risk is worth taking if not lower it more with a condom or pulling out. (…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 09:59 AM
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Exactly this, ask but also try out new things you would like and gauge her response. Calibrate please don't go full anal at first. The first few times my GF and I had sex it was just OK, she blew me like a pro but the rest... Meh. Then I started trying new things out, being more dominant, using dirty talk. Fingering her like a pro, going down on her, commanding deep throats etc, and lo and behold. One day she squirted like crazy, porn like. She told me it was her first time doing that and it was…
/r/askTRP09/01/18 03:27 AM
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Oh man I feel ya'! I had a girlfriend for 8yrs and she didn't blow me she used similar words your GF is using. It never turned arround I was really young and inexperienced, I'm still inexperienced haha. The thing is that you might turn this arround but it's far more easy and satisfying to go get other girls. I spent a couple.of years spinning plates, some didn't want to blow me either but I didn't care, others did even bar pick ups blew me without asking. It's great for your self Steem. Now I ha…
/r/askTRP29/12/17 09:06 PM
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Information security on an international B2B tech company. I'm underpaid but it's helping me build my resumee and they might end up paying for my certs so that is that. I avoided the rat race for years and went for my grad degree you might do that too. Research as an engineer is cool but academia is not for everyone.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 06:13 AM
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Cold bucket of water your answer. Thanks you. Yes, I never thought about her sexuality like that, at first she was very sexual, car BJs, groping, etc. Lots of sex, that actually never changed up until now. Not now, but she has said how much she loves the fucking, and how I treat her on the bed, the way I make her feel sexualy Sad to think or confirm she's broken, it seems Al girls are now days. And she has good qualities, never been a slut, never drinks, present father figure, etc How do you off…
/r/askTRP26/03/17 04:01 PM
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Right now! Thanks
/r/askTRP26/03/17 03:26 PM
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Hey! How do I reward without over doing it (beta) and how dread works? I never needed to dread, I'm going back to the gym and doing my shit anything else like flirting with girls in front of her?
/r/askTRP26/03/17 03:24 PM
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So I've got an awesome girlfriend my second LTR no unicorn. I have a good job and I could earn more money but pays well. This has been my new life. Been lifting for two years. Used to study my masters in my time, work on my rythm, woke up late went to sleep later. felt free without a steady girl although I wanted one. I used to feel awesome. Now not so much. I don't like my Job, I love my girl but worry to much about her, started feeling needy towards her analysing the tinest detail for signs of…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 06:12 AM
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LTR and main plate are two different things, to me for an LTR in no particular order: -Low N count. -Harmony in her family. -Present father figure, +1 if it's a strong father figure. -That she doesn't needs me, she wants me. -Pleases me sexualy, specially BJs -A mother that takes care of herself and her family, +1 if mom is good looking. -She can't be an alpha widow. -No kids, no abortions in her past, no heroin meth or that kind of drug use, not a heavy drinker. +1 if she doesn't drink. -Femini…
/r/askTRP07/03/17 04:54 AM
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Hey the master himself!!! But this was the first time it happened, she was "all naughty boy" before.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 07:21 PM
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Already do. She was just finishing shark week. Perfect clock cycle she gets hornier en shark week but too self conscious and the last two months we fucked on her period I didn't care but she was uncomfortable and felt gross and didn't feel right for her... that's when all of this started to happen Hey nice find!!
/r/askTRP02/02/17 07:12 PM
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Field reports are always enterteining to read, but this was awesome. Loved it. Congrats to you man.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 05:15 AM
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But how? I mean, how do you forgive yourself. I know you talk about a bit on letting go, accepting yourself and lowering the bar. I myself have been trying self compassion (which is totally different from pity) yet has been very difficult not to be hard on myself. I have had some success on it I have com from being my worst critic 100% of the time to just 70% of the time. For example y finished a very demanding masters program from one of the top schools in my country earlier this year, and ever…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 03:16 AM
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Forgiving doesn't mean caving to her wishes....
/r/askTRP28/06/16 04:24 PM
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Avoid alcohol
/r/askTRP28/06/16 08:43 AM
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I'm very concious of the fact that it's much easier adopting TRP principles when you're single than when your thoughts get clouded by a woman. Not necessarily, I found TRP at the 8 year mark on my LTR, I started aplying it while I was still in my relationship, eventually realized that the best thing for me was to dump her. Then I found myself a the bottom of the abyss my life was back then and began climbing up. I just recently reached the top, but now another journey begins. If this girl you ta…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 08:40 AM
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On your betaness: Start reading the main sub sidebar if you haven't already. Also No More Mr.Niceguy is the book that helped me the most at the beggining of my own RP path. Lift, eat, sleep, repeat. Go lift, and lift and lift and when you are done, lift some more. Don't engage her but be polite if you must. If she smiles at you or says "hi" do the same. Then go your merry way to do something else. The school sounds more like a blessing than the excuse you're trying to paint. Be social, start eng…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 08:27 AM
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Stop texting, it's a bad habit you can carry over to your adult life. That said, I belive she's trying to keep you close because she loves your atention, she knows you like her and she gets validation from it. AKA. Being an orbiter. Don't text her for a while, ignore her texts for a few days and see what happens. She might call or talk to you in person and ask "why?" don't fall for it, just tell her you are tired of texting, set up a date don't "ask her out". Tell her to meet you at the nearest …
/r/askTRP28/06/16 06:39 AM
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It also depends on how the images where sent. For example any photos sent through Facebook messenger will get stripped from any EXIF data. I belive whatsapp does the same, they store attachments for 3 weeks or so on their servers, and whatsapp is owned by FB so...
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 06:21 AM
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That male hamster of yours could ruin your life. Don't walk to the nearest exit, run. You are already falling into the trap.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 04:59 PM
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Self deception usually comes with the entitlement. They believe their own story so much that they actually expect the 1000 mangoes. Sometimes the result is far less intangible than mangoes and they manage to device others, sometimes they get what they want and praise themselves or manipulate the results to make anyone think they succeeded when they don't they play it so it's not their fault although they did their best.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 09:05 PM
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I really don't want to be fat again. I used to be 200+lbs at 5'11 I'm now at 154lbs so I actually prefer a clean bulk with the least possible fat. I just want to gain at least 15lbs as lean as I can. Makes sense?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 04:15 PM
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What about diets to gain mass?? I'm like 9kg underweight and struggle to get the 5 to 6 meals in with the 3500 calories I've been said I need. I just feel so full, never hungry I get to dread my meal time.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 07:28 AM
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I get it, there are things that happened in our lives with the power to make us boil with anger years later. It seems life is inherently difficult, even those boys who pissed in your tent or all those "alphas" that got their way suffered in one way or another. But thats not te point, the important thing is you and your life. Your dad made a mistake, he had shortcomings and whatnot the cool thing is that right now you are your own master. You hate to being raised a pussy, well then unlearn that b…
/r/askTRP21/06/16 04:48 AM
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Wtf!! Dude of course you broke his heart. He was there for you, no parents are perfect or the parents we wished we had. But we have them in our lifes and that's most than many people has. Why don't you focus on what your dad did for you, do a fucking list even if it is three items long. Apologize and thank him for it. I know I'm doing that. For some time I had a grudge against my dad because he cheated on my mom and because he didn't send me to expensive schools (I'm not in the US) or paid me tr…
/r/askTRP18/06/16 02:05 AM
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This made me laugh so hard until I realized it could be totaly true.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 02:46 AM
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Read the sidebar on the main sub. The answers are there.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 02:07 AM
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Society endorses steroids at large in some way or another. It's not only this or any other online forum. Just look at the fitness magazines directed to men, those guys in the cover I can bet my ass they use roids and then they where Photoshop enhanced. Actors you get to see shredded in huge roles, they took something. Hell even girls and fitness models at least shoot winstrol to aid the cut. Then mass media comes and tells us all you need to do is follow some fucked up routine and eat clean to l…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 01:47 AM
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You've already got great answers to your question. Remember nothing is easy at first, the road is sometimes a lonely one, sometimes you can share it with other people but at the same time it can be awesome, full of colors and vibrant scenery. Rock on brother, it will get better.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 06:55 AM
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Mixed, some got mad others didn't care at all. The best part of it is that facebook, instawhore, twitter, etc are all smoke and mirrors if you get to use them correctly. People already post what they want you to see. Sounds obvious because it is. You can take it a step further and use it deceptivley (think military deception and denial) crafting that photo, that post, that album to get the reaction you want. Recomended reading: Tzun Zu, the art of war. The art of human hacking. Joint Publication…
/r/askTRP10/06/16 05:28 AM
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Aside from the valuable info some endorsed contributors wrote here, can we get a mod to delete this post?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 01:46 AM
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That poor, poor, ego of yours. HOW DARE SHE!! HOW DARE SHE REJECT MY MONEY MAKING, HANDSOME WHITE ASS!.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 01:43 AM
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Delete the post, delete the account. You gave very specific details and you never know who's reading. Reddit saves IP addresses tied to accounts for at least 4 weeks.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 12:30 AM
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Yes por favor
/r/askTRP02/06/16 08:40 PM
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I've observed that in different groups. Might be coincidence or a confirmation bias
/r/askTRP02/06/16 04:01 PM
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Totally possible. But it's kinda tricky, that kind of friendship has to bring value to you in at least the same quantity it brings value to her if it's not that way you'll be orbiting at worst or she will be using you at best. Women make lousy friends they rarely give value besides their looks or bodies. Have you ever witnessed how even between women friendship is fragile and non existent?. You can easily have 5 very good male friends with whom to bond, etc. Women rarely have 1 female friend the…
/r/askTRP02/06/16 04:38 AM
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I met my ex when I was 18, dumped her 8 years later. IMHO you don't want to get involved in a lengthy LTR so young in your life. I can't answer your question on the risk of marriage but It's very easy to get scared the shit out of anything given the right arguments. What I can share with you is my own experience, stop worrying about things so deep into the future. If you enjoy this girl company just enjoy her, remember you are the most important person in your life. In the moment she stops being…
/r/askTRP27/05/16 06:39 AM
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About debt. Any tips on how to pay credit card debt? I mean pay the smallest one first or make payments into the highest interest rate one?
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 02:33 AM
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I'm balding and even if I do care about geting back my hair, for the rest of the world my baldness is not even there. Sure the haters in my life try to use it against me and once and only once a girl made fun of it. For the other 99.999% of people I meet or talk to it makes no difference. I don't pull mad pussy, I'm just a normal guy in his own RP path. At the end I think I value my erections and libido much more than I value my hair. I'm still saving for the surgery tho'
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 07:44 AM
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Most people write as the would speak, first clue right there. Right?
/r/askTRP20/05/16 02:49 AM
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Just want to tahnk you. Yo do articulate the idea of respect as it is. People often confuse respect with "not being rude, and being polite" instead of what it is, admiration and deference for something valuable.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 02:12 PM
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Hey how do you speak from the balls? I have somewhat a higher pitched voice and want to change it. Is it similar to what Elliot Hulse talks about in his vids?
/r/askTRP09/05/16 06:57 AM
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Sometimes reading through posts on TRP and the manosphere in general the consensus seems to be that an alpha with tight game should always get every girl. The notion that the "Chad's" of the world are laying every girl they set their eyes upon surfaces with phrases like "Every girl is a slut to the right man". So can I mold and adapt and train to be the right man to every girl? Or is it that even those " Chad's" only get 1/3 of their targets? (I say Chad just to exemplify)
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 06:42 AM
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It's a cool transformation, what about your diet? You say no bulking or cutting but how did you eat? I'm 5'11 at 160 at 15% bf
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 02:36 AM
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For the past two years I've been working a lot on myself. Lifting 5 days a week, transformed my body (no masive muscles yet) picked up and amazing hobby and getting better at it. Finished my masters. Etc... Still I don't feel as confident as I wished. Faking over confidence is a very intensive task for me. I'm no self defeating looser anymore but I still find it difficult to walk around the world feeling awesome. Right now after those two years I want to start dating, meeting girls and fucking s…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 10:28 PM
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They are just saying why the want to eat junk food, like pizza, chocolate, beer, etc, and how they feel guilty about it and resort to clean the grease from their pizza with napikings and that shit. Then they ask "Belinda" to get fat and gain a lot of weight because her perfect abs and body are killing them, or at least to not publish the photo sessions. The sociodynamics in mexico are really different from those in the US, most of the higher income population buy all the shit feminist say north …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 08:06 AM
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Too much nice and no fun gets Jack in the friendzone. It's easy to forget the basics. I met this cute 20yr old and ruined it being nice. She preemptively rejected me and then went out with the gym instructor. Well, rejection hurts but I'll make that mistake no more. I'll follow your lead and tap into my inner asshole.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 06:08 AM
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I'm in awe. Congratulations on getting back on track. I have been feeling down latley for some stupid problems, and I mean no disrespect to you, but reading your story actually made me feel good about my problems and that closing paragraph, DAMN! Hit right where it should.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 03:19 AM
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Yea, not everyone I know is like that but most people with enough money to travel to the US go shopping because it pumps their "status" Personally I would like to go to the US on a road trip from the west to the east coast and spend my time and money on experiences.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 07:59 AM
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Latin America suffers from this bad taste too. I mean, wearing them at the gym or in you house... Meh. But out on the street or even your workplace...
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 09:46 PM
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I belive that strictly talking about height, the overall height of the male population in your country or area matters a lot. In my country the average male population is 5'5 (1.65 m), I'm 5'11 (1.80 m) not a big difference but enough to be seen and clasified as tall because the average female height is 5'2 (1.57 m) So obviously a 6 ft (2 m) male (and above) will stand out but at 5'11 I'm not at any disadvantage. Edit: Metric heights
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 04:44 AM
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Did this to my ex. She got pissy, scared, and begged me not no leave her. But she never sucked my dick. So I dumped her. 8yr LTR btw
/r/askTRP29/03/16 02:30 AM
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I'll just add to the answers already provided that... Don't cling to other ideas, notions, people or experiences. At the end everything is temporary and meaningless. Focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 12:57 AM
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Right now as you are reading this. Your brain is making sense of words written on the screen. But those words are made of letters, and letters are nothing but little drawings. When you see them, your mind gives them meaning and purpose. That's how a "T" stops being just almost two crossed sticks and transforms into a capital letter. The exact same process happens with everything that surrounds you. In this case, girls. The object "T" on itself is devoid of any meaning. that meaning is provided b…
/r/askTRP08/03/16 12:33 AM
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How to interpret when her actions contradict her actions? For example when the girl pushes and pulls by alternating hot and cold. Let's say she hugs you from your back then acts cold when you do it. She cuddles up with you and then denies a kiss.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 04:43 PM
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Those feelings are normal. Right now you are in no position to go find and fuck other girls. You need some "me" time. Focus on other aspects of your life for a while like lifting, or your hobbies.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 04:48 PM
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A question. You purpose four different characteristics to be measured and thus evaluate where one stands with a particular girl. But what are the metrics on those characteristics?? For something to be measured it has to be somewhat tangible. I consider myself a begginer so hard actions to be evaluated could be very helpful to fully understand your post. Yes, I believe more experienced men could "feel" where they are in relation to your four characteristics just as we all can "feel" when an hour …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 08:57 AM
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Thanks a lot. I think you are right, special things aren't necessarily good LTR or good women indicators. As always I'm over thinking this. I'll chill out, take your advice and keep going strong on my TRP road and slower with this girl. Thank you brother.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 06:52 AM
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I was writing you a long answer but no, just think about this. Who is the most important person in your life? If it isn't you, leave the girl and go fix yourself. You deserve it. Don't wait until you are 8 years deep into your LTR and realize you are no longer yourself. Will she cheat on you while on Italy? Probably, you are safer believing she will. So fix yourself. Fix your issues. Lift. It will take time. But the rewards are beautiful beter quality woman and relationships. Stay strong
/r/askTRP20/02/16 07:44 PM
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There also seems to be a lot of confirmation bias around. Good advice.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 07:26 PM
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IMO. Hard next, you are now operating under her frame. Why is this girl so important to the point it pisses you off what she does? I think you have an inner game problem, and not a problem with her at all.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 07:01 AM
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Look for something you never saw yourself doing and try it. If you like it then you have a new hobby and a new skill to increase your SMV, if you hate it at least you tried something new. It can be anything, cooking, metal working, making plaster molds, growing bonsais, yodeling, toast at parties, play an instrument, train a dog, etc. For me it was dancing and I ended up loving it.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 07:19 AM
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DEC 12 - Went to my salsa class as usual and met a girl, a 6. I started talking to her and game her, kept it fun and light, included her into my group of aquintances there and made her feel part of the group. Learned a lot about her, she's a butterface but who cares, practice is practice. Learned about her job, hobbies and why she wants to dance. Got her phone. At the end of the class I invited her for an instadate some beers and a chat, she declined because, "She dosen't drinks, it was late and…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 04:36 AM
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Let's say for example that you have never been in a gym, never took care of your diet and over all you aren't a fit person. There is no limbo between "Unfit fantasy" and "Fit Reality" you turn yourself into a fit person, how? BY doing everything a fit person does even if its on your own terms. Fit people wake up and put on their tennis shoes, fit people eat more veggies and less carbs, fit people lift (or run, whatever) every day no matter if they are tired. By doing everything fit people do, yo…
/r/askTRP15/12/15 02:19 AM
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Bichectomy
/r/askTRP14/12/15 06:51 AM
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One thing is "to be the rock" and another completely different one is to be carrying her weight everywhere amd assume the responsibility of her well being. You see, it's selfish of her to put her stress and whatnot over your already stressed self. You feel guilty because you care deeply about her. That is good, retain that ability It will come in handy in the future. But lose the guilt, you already did lots of good things for her, but she's a human being that needs to learn to take care of herse…
/r/askTRP13/12/15 10:09 AM
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Keep it up bro. I also thought my ex would losen up if we got married or moved in together. I found TRP and dumped her..
/r/askTRP11/12/15 11:05 PM
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I really have to make an habit on to update this. I forget my progress before writing it. DEC 9 - can't remember. DEC 10 - nothing. Stayed indoors. DEC 11 - Holy Shit! Experienced a high end expensive as fuck club. Talked to a girl and a friend of my friend. Some people looked down on me because I wasn't wearing the expensive shirt or some Prada shoes. Still managed to make some small talk with a few randoms. I'm still awed about the superficial way of life of some people, the hot girls and the …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 10:37 AM
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Good to know. Lots of info about total.and free test on the internet but not about bioavailable. Thank you
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 10:24 AM
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And how is it going now??
/r/askTRP11/12/15 01:24 AM
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Can relate to this. In my case it never got better. As some people around here will tell you, you can train her. But the thing is she owes you nothing she's in her full right to say no. The only one responsible for your satisfaction is yourself. If that means you have to next her, dump her or search for some BJ or pussy on the side, then do it. Maybe you can give her the "benefit of the doubt" and try again the same scenario, I'm sure someone with more experience than me will answer with advice …
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:29 AM
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Read the sidebar and start your journey through the RP path. Having half an arm doesn't make you any less of a man. More than 20 years ago I met a kid that suffered from a lack of oxigen at birth. Thanks to god, his cognitive and mental habilities weren't harmed but he had to crawl to.move or be bound in a wheelchair and his left arm was horribly croocked. He became my best friend. Through out his childhood and adolescence he went through no more than 15 surgeries to correct his legs and arm. Wh…
/r/askTRP09/12/15 08:36 AM
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Hi, healthcare is different in my country and I can go get a test without an order from a doctor. Many labs offer three different testosterone tests. Total testosterone Free testosterone Bioavailable testosterone Do you know what's the difference and which should I get? Thanks
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 07:58 AM
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DEC 6 - Almost nothing. Spen most of the day indoors, went to pay a CC and had a chat with a cute Adidas sales girl. Nothing of importance DEC 7 - Shit! I can't remember but I did some smalltalk with someone. DEC 8 - Saw a really cute HB7 struggling with her preacher curls at the gym, walked straight to her and helped her, she apologized for her weakness and we talked about how she was new and it was just a matter of time and discipline. Then talked to another girl I have seen before, small chit…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 06:25 AM
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Exactly my point, great example.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 08:52 AM
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It's an interesting point. For starters if she isn't AWALT that doesn't mean she's a unicorn. For the sake of the argument lets say unicorns exist (I love oxymorons) you assume that the unicorn will be attracted to beta qualities, you assume that by believing AWALT you won't be able.to spot the unicorn, then you assume that the unicorn you atracted by being beta won't lose attraction once you turn up the alpha. Those are a lot of assumptions to make about a single person. No one in TRP will tell…
/r/askTRP08/12/15 08:49 AM
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I dont think I'm the right person to address all your questions. Maybe someone more experienced can pitch in, but I do want to say that every generalization in TRP exist because they work, for example AWALT, obviously not Every women on this planet is going to follow the AWALT principle, but most of them will so it's safer to say AWALT because most of the women you'll be interacting with willl follow the principle. It's similar to saying that "gay people are promiscuous" or (if applicable to you…
/r/askTRP08/12/15 08:15 AM
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Girl: "you're so cute!" Guy: "Awww, thanks. You know dogs are cute too" (Fake happiness) Guy: "Come here!" (MAker her reach out to you, for a hug or something, you need close proximity) Guy: (Once she complied) "Good girl!" (With the same tone you would tell it to a dog, and pat her head or her back)
/r/askTRP07/12/15 10:40 PM
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DEC 4 - not much. Talked to two Uber drivers, small talk with one about his job the second one talked to me about his ex girlfriends. Dec 5 - Went to my Salsa class and my teacher was absent, sent someone else to fill in. The dude turned out to be an amazing dancer we talked a lot after class about dancing and how to get better at it. Offered me some lessons on discount hehe. Talked to another Uber driver, an old man new on the job. He told me about how he loves to drive at night through all the…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 09:27 AM
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This is awesome dude. Reframing explained in simple layman terms. Thanks
/r/askTRP04/12/15 10:00 AM
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Dude you need to love yourself. Self hate seems to pour out of your post. I bet that you will get lean, have sex and still be too hard on you and feel even worse.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 09:55 AM
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Decided to comment under my own post. Dec 3 - It was a good day! My gym buddy brought one of her friends to our training. I saw this girl once before but never interacted with her. So went straight for some light kino, she hugged me and was all touchy, exchanged some banter with her, small talk about school and stuff, passed minor shit tests and we both picked and made fun of our friend, basically I was enjoying myself at the gym with the two girls (both HB7's). Tried to make small talk with cas…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 07:24 AM
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Challenge Accepted!! This has been one roadblock to improvement, so I'll do it. Dec 1- Nothing, started today Dec2. Dec 2 - Talked 30 minutes with a small group of aquintances at the gym, supplements, excersise, and whatnot. Then went to one of the bussiest park and landmark here on my city, walked trying to come up to what to say to someone and realized I didn't have a lighter on me, aproached an older couple and asked them for one. Then walked some more and a guy asked for a light and lent my …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 10:45 PM
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Remember, there are different brands of "alpha" you can be an alpha to her and not necessarily through laughter. Nevertheless, making people laugh is a skill, it can be learned and needs to be trained like a muscle. Search for the comedy and comedy writing subreddits. Buy some books about it, Comedy Writing Secrets by Mel Helitzer, Step by Step to Standup by Greg Dean, The Comic Toolbox by John Vorhause. Then watch pure comedy, standups and comedians. Watch their style and what they do that make…
/r/askTRP02/12/15 06:48 AM
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Even Google search terms follow this pattern. I believe there's is an article about it somewhere on Discovery magazine or Discovery channel
/r/askTRP28/11/15 07:00 AM
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It's called flirting dude. The fact that you don't think about yourself as attractive doesn't mean she does either.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 06:50 AM
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You can't unplug minds that aren't ready for it. The matrix defends itself. Overall you really risk losing a friend because people who doesn't want to listen will feel you are attacking their core beliefs. I tried it twice and lost a friend and completely alienated another one. Now I take a more passive aproch a nice girl once used on me. State your opinion. "Dude I believe she is being disrespectful, you don't deserve that" and leave it there. For many people they still won't listen, for others…
/r/askTRP27/11/15 08:42 PM
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Nice question. I recently met a girl a the gym, the girlfriend of a gym buddy. Nice cute HB7, 7 years younger than me a single mom with two kids. I never felt any attraction for her and she was the gf of a buddy so we became friends. Then the dude dumps her and acts like a douche to me just because he never was my friend. But this girl became my new gym buddy and we started to hang out and then the window to hipergamy, solipsism, slutiness, and what not opened to me. Through our conversations, s…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 08:50 AM
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Just wanted to say, thank you. Even when we have never met and our situation in life is really different. Some of your sins rang so many bells that this felt like a big breath of fresh air. Thank you for telling me what I needed to know, and over all for teaching us through your experience.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 08:27 AM
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YYou have been told what you need to know. You sound so much like my early self. Don't worry to much, take care and protect yourself but don't worry It will make sex much more pleasant and enjoyable.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 06:55 PM
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Then by all means do it. Don't ask for it, state your intentions the next time you are having sex and do it. She hasn't said no yet, so this might be easier than you think and take it out of your system. If she refuses, by all means do not act hurt or angry just continue having sex. Don't try to reason with her why she has to give you anal. Just next her. Leave her. Yes she might someday allow you to stick it up her ass but it will never be with true desire just compliance and that my friend suc…
/r/askTRP20/11/15 06:22 AM
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Dancing, salsa, casino and Bachata. Those are so RP, let's me meet and practice my game with different girls, it's an excellent form of cardio, and your brain needs to work out so many things at the same time that I forget my problems and relax. I also feel very passionate about my professional career, I breath, eat and sleep cyber defense and information security.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 09:06 AM
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Yes, a bit. Change "anal" for something like "skating". Would you still want to go skating with her just beacuse she has done it before with other guys even if you don't feel like it? Not likely, but possible. Maybe you want the sexual submission that anal entails? Or feeling you might enter an LTR without something sexual she has done before? You have never done anal and want te experience? Endless possibilities. All of them your male hamster spinning. Focus, your are the man. She follows. Do w…
/r/askTRP19/11/15 08:39 AM
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Yes please. I've been learning a lot from your posts.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 04:41 AM
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If I got this rigth, I need to increase my SMV as much as I can in order to increase my chances to be perceived as unattainable. What do you think are the top 10 traits one should strive to get better and improve in order to increase SMV? Some of them are obvious, like working on confidence, putting on some muscle, dressing better, etc. That's the main reason why lifting is given as an advice to begginers. But what other thing are there, less known, but that can have an impact on SMV perception?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 04:43 PM
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I think that becoming the best version of oneself is a long hard difficult path and many, many guys are just lazy to even think they need to do it. So they resort to quick fixes, "if I do this, then I'll be Chad". It's like poping weight loss pills instead of fixing your diet and hiting the gym.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 08:20 AM
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This is brilliant! I hope it dosen't gets downvoted to oblivion!
/r/askTRP09/11/15 08:10 AM
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Why do you care why? Remember women use covert communication so this thread can turn into a circle jerk about why she did it, too many reasons some might be right but useless at the end. Whatch what she does. Is she flirty? Is she attracted? Does she has fun dancing with you? Ask her out, something fun. And BTW, Bachata lends itself so easily to be RP with girls. You lead, she follows, you execute, she enjoys. Sensual Bachata helps a lot to learn and apply kino. Just do it.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 03:58 AM
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Yea get up and leave. But sometimes just for kicks I go up to them and randomly touch the screen. Tap it with all your fingers, then meet their gaze with a shit eating grin and leave or do whatever you want.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:13 AM
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What is the mindset? I can't tell you what to think, you will have to come up with that answer yourself, the beauty of it is that you don't need one to start seeing results. As you have been told, date, meet girls, share a cofee with the butterfaces, chat with more mature ones, don't limit yourself to women, meet other guys in settings and contexts you've never tried before, like salsa dancing lessons or BJJ, and over all HAVE FUN!! Do, say and beahave anyway you want as long as you amuse yourse…
/r/askTRP03/11/15 10:26 PM
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Our emotional responses are caused by our THINKING about a situation, not the other way around. There's a saying out there, "You have to believe before you can see". Right now you are only meeting " dumb, boring, alpha widowed" girls because you truly believe that they are all like that and thus all the girls you meet are indeed dumb, boring and alpha widowed. Once you change your thinking, girls that adhere to your "quality standards" will start to pop up. This doesn't mean that suddenly you wi…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 10:21 PM
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Stop seeing yourself as a victim. Right now. Stop. Get out of the victimhood. 2.Lift 3.Read sidebar. 4.Rinse and repeat
/r/askTRP28/10/15 04:09 AM
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While on my LTR I was one of those "I'll never gonna dance" guy. Second thing I did after I left her, dancing lessons. And It has been awesome!! So pick up a hobbie you've always wanted to do or you didn't see yourslef doing and try it. Dancing is a good cardio exercise, and you have fun, much more fun than running on a threadmill.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 03:47 AM
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There's no way TRP can "specifically" adress your anxiety problems. You can work on it like any other thing that needs improving for you to become the best version of yourself. So imagine this, you are out there, out of your comfort zone, talking to people, holding a drink and suddenly you start thinking about what your are going to say next and BOOM! Anxiey kicks in. Instead of leaving or running away, force yourself to stay there, ride the wave as much as you can and then leave, but go and loo…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:56 AM
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Maybe we are hamstering but it's still fun to believe that our ex's are full of us and won't forget us. I broke up with mine after 8yrs of relationship she was a virgin when I met her so up to that point her n count was 1.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 09:41 AM
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Hi, maybe you could enjoy making the videogames. Software exists so you can begin right away even if you know nothing about programming you can learn. Google RPG Maker, GameMaker Studio, Stencyl, PlayCanvas. There are others far more technical like Unity or jump right into engines like Unreal Engine or the Source Engine. Away from a computer, I enjoy dancing. I've learning Cuban Salsa (Casino Dancing) and Bachata. Casino is not as popular as traditional Salsa, but It looks so much awesome, IMHO.…
/r/askTRP04/08/15 01:42 AM
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He's dancing bachata, not salsa. And women surround him like that because he's the two time bachata world champion (along with his wife). But you're on point, a good lead will have some girls drooling over him. Altough not as many as Daniel Sanchez.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 11:41 PM
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In dancing If you don't make the mistake your body wont learn the correct way to do the movement or step. You fail, and then try again and, again and, again and when you finaly master it, you move to the next more complicated step or pattern. It's like lifting you lift heavy and heavier over time. It's like with girls, you fail and practice until they become second nature. I'ts like TRP you may start as a massive blue piller and eventualy little by little you turn yourself into a RP Alpha. No on…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 08:08 AM
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You should try it. I've seen musicians become good dancers in less time than the rest of us. I think i'ts because people who can make music are so used to hear timing and rythms in songs that it becomes second nature just to match a foot step with something you already do efortlessly
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 08:01 AM
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Yes!!! This!! I'm taking dacing lessons, Casino style salsa and Bachata. It has been a very rewarding expirience so far. Just as you said, dancing with many different girls, geting used to a bunch of them being solid 9's and geting desensitized to their beauty and just leading them. Many of the benefits of dancing have already been told in this thread so I'll just add one thing: A man that can really really dance, can make any girl shine on the dancefloor and that kind of status can't be beaten.…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 07:55 AM
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So I'm doing a masters degree on cybersecurity. I have this classmate she's a 6. I had a heavy make out session with her once, and then she threw several shit test, but a 6 is not even worth it. She always told me "looks don't mater" "I care more about intelligence" "I value people on what the do or say" and that kind of shit. She bailed before I could fuck her, irrelevant to this post. A week a go I needed a girl so a friend of mine could get a discount on the price of some bachata sensual danc…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 08:37 AM
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IT Security here. Nerdy maybe but I love security from management to pentesting to forensics and so on. I don't get to work on every cyber security field there is but having a passion for the job is essential. I think you can "paint" IT jobs in her mind as awesome and amazing or as boring and dull as you like. Don't consider this as advice, it just my 2¢
/r/askTRP06/04/15 06:23 AM
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Awesome field report. I think you actually won a big victory over your old self. As you said, going out, setting up the date all those things that got you out of your comfort zone are the ones that push you forward. Abundance mentality you didn't escalate or make out with this girl but there are plenty more.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 06:15 AM
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This somehow reminds me of the PDCA cycle (Deming circle). You've already outlined the "Plan" and the "Do" I believe that the"Check" is implied because your actions will always have a reaction either favorable or not. There's only missing the "Act" where we would evaluate if the action we took is actually an improvement of the baseline (or where we started) and it will Always lead us to the Plan again. Plan : I want to approach HB 8/10. Do: Walk towards her. Check: what happened? Is she aware of…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 07:32 AM
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Haha! What I usually do is take the best bits of advice from almost everyone who bothers to answer. Good luck anyway.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 04:42 PM
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Dude please just stop feeling sorry for yourself, you won't achieve anything of value thinking what could have gone wrong. Maybe she's a crazy bitch, maybe you were so "in the clouds" you fucked up big time. Knowing won't give you peace of mind. It won't help you because you'll just fuck up again in the future, differently, we all do. Go to the main sub, read the side bar. And stop this crippling oneitis nonsense. Move on, keep lifting, do things you find fun and stop your mind whenever it retur…
/r/askTRP30/03/15 06:39 AM
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Bitches are crazy. This "friend" also turned into a huge slut with many slutty friends and she never introduced me.to one. Now that I think of it almost all of the girls that I met on school when I was a kid (7 - 12 years old) became sluts. So I'm happy I don't have important female friends.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 08:47 PM
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Dancing lessons are doing it for me. It's not the only thing I do but I signed up for casino style salsa. I've met cool guys, fun girls and salsa helps you to be more dominant with women and most importantly tunes your body language skills. Then you can search for social dance gatherings on Facebook. Latin music clubs gather very diverse crowds and girls digg dancing. Just picture this, if you can dance, any girl that can't will shine with you. And they love it.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 08:59 AM
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Yes, it was easy for me though. I had only one female friend that I considered important I knew her for about 12 years and she was there for me on important moments in my life. When I introduced her to my then girlfriend.of 8 years they became friends. Then I broke with my ex and guess who also stopped talking to me and sided with my ex. AWALT. The RP path has been a rough but rewarding and fun road.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 08:45 AM
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Are you by any chance an engineer or work on a STEM field?? If so what do you do?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 08:35 AM
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Some of those girls are fun to fool arround with. Can they be considered for a plate?
/r/askTRP23/03/15 08:57 PM
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I believe that one of the challenges of taking the pill is finding balance within oneself. As PopeOfNope said it's easy to get lost in semantics, so I just stop and think "how does this " selfish" action from my part makes me feel" and then act accordingly. Since taking the pill I've changed into someone that likes to have fun and find amusement and laughter on almost everything. Sometimes that means I amuse myself on expense of others and It seems that I've crossed the line with some people. It…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 01:09 AM
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You've got great answers. I'll add. Trust your mods, trust your community.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 09:16 AM
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You're totally right. I think that this sub lacks "game" posts but the good news is that the blogs on the sidebar do post about it. Heartiste has tons of good posts about game, same with RM and ROK. I don't know why many people here instantly assume that game = PUA and are so eager to dismiss PUA's. I've recently started reading an early edition of the Mistery method and it says many RP truths.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 07:42 AM
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I try to make friends, strike up conversations and do things that get me out of my comfort zone. In a much more traditional answer I'm learning salsa casino style dancing. So I hear a lot of Cuban salsa, watch videos on YouTube and practice with any girl I can find.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 02:07 AM
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Hahahaha "my unit". Adding it to my long list of penis nicknames. I prefer " Bald headed yoghurt slinger" , love muscle, member, man meat, tonsil tickler.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 09:26 PM
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This is so cool to read. It's like "back to basics".
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 09:02 PM
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Yes, exactly. I never got mad with fake porn, it was just amateur. This is so true, thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 09:35 PM
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I think for me it's been good, healthy and fun. I used to do it every day sometimes even twice. BUT I did it using porn. I never thought that porn was a problem, I've never had ED or anything. But near the end of my LTR I would get so mad at myself because I was fapping to some amateur video where the girl gave BJ's or anal or anything my girlfriend wouldn't do with me. After I broke up with my girlfriend, I tried to go nofap and then realized it is a bunch of bluepill bullshit. The book "Models…
/r/askTRP14/02/15 08:25 AM
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I've got answers for some of the best TRP Endorsed posters on askTRP no point for a megathread.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 02:03 AM
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You can find a PDF through googleing. It's a must read for IT Security professionals but it has lots and lots and loooots of knowledge applicable to seduction. Seduction is akin to pentesting he he.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 08:57 PM
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The Art of Seduction is good but really "heavy". I alsolike: How to win friends and influence people - Dale Carnegie What Everybody is Saying - Joe Navarro Social Engineering The Art of Human Hacking - Christopher Hadnagy
/r/askTRP11/02/15 07:27 AM
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Not delusional at all. He just got the math wrong in the percentage but a million women is still less tan half of 1% of the world female population. By 2011 estimates is 0.02907461% . Note we are talking about just a million women without constraints on the data. That is this number is not classified by age, country, looks, etc.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 06:31 PM
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Salsa lessons, focusing on correct form and technique while lifting instead of puting on more weight, working on my MSc thesis, going out of my comfort zone and accepting that I'm a sexual animal, and being the best version of myself I can be. I still need to get over my aproach anxiety, being more disciplined on school stuff. I've had a great month. 6 months post break up of my 8yr LTR. I feel much more alive and happy. Wow now that I look at it I've accomplished a lot in a month. Thanks TRP an…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 10:31 AM
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Be who you want to be. Relevant https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/04/09/fake-it-till-you-make-it-the-scientific-evidence-in-favor/
/r/askTRP31/01/15 12:01 AM
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Don't go nuclear before you try some dread.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 11:47 PM
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I have seen working PoC using Face++. The biggest problem is that scraping is almost always against the TOS of any service. Best case scenario, your scrapper gets blocked. Worst case scenario your scraper is considered a DOS attack an you can get in trouble. So the real problem isn't the face detection, its the massive amounts of requests to OKC, POF, Tender, etc. To some excent the processing power to find the needle in the haystack can come expensive even using Cloud services.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 04:49 AM
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Im no lawyer but I think that technically, yes. But you have to prove you are both fagots living like a couple. Anyways many judges are corrupt as fuck so he can easily pay to give you nothing or even get you to pay.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 09:07 PM
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Mexico city has concubinage laws. After two years of cohabitation the concubine has full food and succession rights. If the concubinage is broken then they have the right to alimony for the same lenght of time they cohabitated unless they marry, gets into another concubinage, or has been ungrateful (the law doesn't says what is an ungrateful behavior). The "good news" is that the city is very "liberal" and it applies to gays too. So it's gender neutral and the concubine that receives alimony is …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 05:24 AM
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I had a very tall girlfriend, I was taller than her by 4 or 5 cm. Some positions where awkward. Never got my death by snu snu.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 05:08 AM
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Thank you again. One last quick question. I've read the side bar, Models, No More Mr. Nice Guy, The rational male. Is there something else I should read??
/r/askTRP25/01/15 06:39 PM
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Thank you, a lot, ♂ I'm not shocked, after swallowing the pill and reading like a mad man and even taking steps towards becoming the best version of myself this, what you talk about makes perfect sense. Although I feel like I understand it on the "theorical" level, I'm still lacking on the practical. For example. "Sex should be ingrained in every action of your life you do for fun" yes I know it's true, but the "how" comes a little difficult. I think I still have a lot of work to do, finding thi…
/r/askTRP25/01/15 01:28 AM
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Not RP but a very interesting read the P.E.T book by Dr. Thomas Gordon. You can learn to use the "I-messages" to turn male overt communication into female covert communication.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 07:57 AM
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Great insight!! What are your thoughts on "pushing for sex" ?At first sight there seems to be a contradiction there but your description of confidence and escalation fits.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 07:37 AM
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Hey I'm also from mexico city!!! I live at the southern end. There are many great places to practice daygame. I'll be cool If we can all hang out or pickup chicks. Puedes practicar tu español si deseas. Mucho exito.
/r/GEOTRP24/01/15 05:30 AM
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So I have mixed to oily skin. Since I was 20 I tried a lot of products like Neutrogena, eucerin, biore, etc. Then I discovered the "top notch" beauty firms have products designed for men. For a few years now I've been using Clarins products. They might be expensive but everyone around me can see the difference. I've gotten comments from girls about how good my skin looks. I use: Nettoyant exfoliating cleanser. Everyday. Lotion Tonique. Everyday. Pink Clay Mask. Once or twice a week. Shaving Crea…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 09:08 PM
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Wow!! You have a friend that is a "natural" so now you have a choice, learn from them or learn from this sub. Stop posting this nonsense.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 06:53 AM
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AWALT is a generalization, more like a stereotype we use to describe a behaviour. Does that mean that each and every women on the planet "are like that", of course not. We use AWALT because if more than 90% of women fit the sterotype its safe to asume any girl you (or any of us) find she's in that 90% pool, and not on the 10%. Does that mean you have a special unicorn, I don't think so. She's still young, she can get bored and date up, or jump right into CC. You can find out. At the end who care…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 06:46 AM
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Do any of you guys have taken kravmaga lessons? What do you think of it?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 09:31 PM
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You might be interested in Social Engineering. There are some good books written about it.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 08:16 AM
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Study comedy writing. There are a couple of subs dedicated to that. Read the book "Comedy Writing Secrets". Watch comedy movies and TV shows for their craft (not their RP content). Watch witty and funny comedians. Example. Ellen Degeneres is very witty on her remarks and non scripted comments. The Tonight Show has really good writers. Comedy is all around us, keep your eyes open.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 08:12 AM
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♂ Dude you are awesome. Each time I click on a post I relate to, I find your answers to be spot on and right what I need to read. Thank you.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 07:54 AM
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Hello, I belive that what really hurts you it's that you don't feel desired by the girl yo do desire. For someone on your "state" (circumstance, dah spelling??) that is one of the worst things you can feel. I know it because I've been there. I had a girlfriend that I really loved, we met young and we were togheter for 8 years it was overall a nice relationship. She had problems, low self steem, body issues, strict upringing blah blah. Since the beginning sex was lacking, blowjobs where a no no. …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 10:18 PM
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How do you cheat smart? I don't have a girlfriend but it's interesting.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 09:04 PM
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Very rarely on the oceans. Landmass is the way to go. Shores are OK though.
/r/askTRP07/01/15 07:21 AM
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Live and let live...
/r/askTRP07/01/15 07:19 AM
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Yea!! Well said. I don't like to think in terms of goals because personally for me I feel like it turns into a burden. Instead I think about what I want and everyday I do my best to get there. That said short term goals are the best. My first six months on the gym all I wanted to do was loose weight. I did strength training and lots of cardio also got my diet in check. I lost 14kg. Now I want to get all my noob gains. As strong and big as I can reasonably get in another six months. I like the si…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 09:58 PM
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https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/03/04/i-think-bjs-are-gross/
/r/askTRP02/01/15 08:40 AM
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Hey! This is a interesting read. In one of the comments you said your ex whife cuckolded you. How much time took you from being that man into the man you are now spining this plate?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 08:24 AM
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Been there, done that. Walk away dude. Seriously, I broke my 8yr LTR mostly because of the exact same reason. There where other issues but she didn't blow me, so I left.
/r/askTRP27/12/14 09:47 AM
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I'm no expert. I've lost 13kg (28.66pounds google tells me) in the last 6 months and still have some more to go, this was also a concern of mine. My dermatologist and some other people I've talked about it told me that first of all, skin is a living organ just as your heart or lungs so it will adapt over time to your new body (the internet agrees on this). I've also learned that for many people loose skin is nothing more than the last layer of stubborn fat that still needs to go away, so more we…
/r/askTRP19/12/14 12:35 AM
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I spent 8 years on a relationship like that. It was a good LTR specially for the first 4 years although sex was lacking. I found TRP googling about "my GF wont blow me" and after month of reading I broke it off past may. I doubt myself from time to time and still miss her. It's this kind of posts that make me think I did the right thing and that Im on the right track. So yes, if you are on an LTR that dosen't bring satisfaction leave it and learn from it, stop rationalizing your atachment and go…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 07:39 AM
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So your interactions were months apart. She has ignored you and disrepected you on occasion and now you are worried whats you did wrong and what to do if you find her again? I'll assume by your question you are really young. (16 to 18yrs) so for your own mental health here it goes. Stop worring about one stupid girl. Let her go. Right now, stop. Start growing yourself. Lift, read, get a hobbie, rinse and repeat. Read the main sub sidebar. The blogs. The RP books. I like No More Mr. Nice Guy and …
/r/askTRP29/11/14 02:49 AM
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Why are you against no fap?
/r/askTRP25/11/14 08:21 PM
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Hey nice answer thank you. I'm actually at the end of my first 4 months. I've seen a very good progress so dar with a clean controlled diet and lifting, also some cardio for my extra fat. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 05:29 AM
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How much time did it took you to get in shape to the point you are right now?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 04:42 AM
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Enjoy the car. Keep it clean, wash it and detail it by yourself. It's an awesome feeling to wash, polish (by hand) and detail and just sit back and admire you'r work. I got a 2006 EX Civic as a gift from an aunt and it's awesome who cares if it's not a sports car, it's mine!!
/r/askTRP20/11/14 06:58 AM
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No. Some things about game change. But not muchas, remember "AWALT".
/r/askTRP20/11/14 06:51 AM
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I don't think you'r trolling per se. I think you'r lazy and just don't want to bother reading and practicing all of this. Before you go ahead and lurk TRP or read the sidebar think if you actually want to change yourself. Maybe it's not the right time yet. Because if you go read (let alone practice) you'll just overwhelm yourself and throw everything into the trashbin of you'r head. IMHO, many men over here actually had some kind of expirience that made them hit rock bottom before taking the red…
/r/askTRP20/11/14 06:44 AM
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IMHO, It looks good to me. It actually reads like a flirt. Maybe it's all in you'r head??
/r/askTRP17/11/14 08:45 AM
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For what you wrote I't seems to me that you are being too hard on yourself. Please relax, you made a mistake. We all do, you lost your focus and fucked up. It's ok, the best part of this is you'll learn from it. You already took the right steps but she isn't the real issue here. Move on and stop over thinking it. Men have hamsters too. Keep on rocking it bro.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 08:42 AM
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I suspect you are doing the dread wrong. Soft NEXT then read you'r ass off. The side bar, heartiste, the rational male, etc. Many good books out there. No more Mr. Nice guy, models, the art of seduction, bla, bla.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 08:53 AM
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Read the sidebar...
/r/askTRP15/11/14 08:47 AM
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You should turn this into a post.
/r/askTRP10/11/14 07:58 PM
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TRP is a framework for you to have a more fullfiling life, it's not a bunch of rules written on stone. The most important thing is "Why do yo do what you do". If you do it to please, and to be liked and bla bla bla, then there's a problem. If you do it because that's how you live your life and you choose to be like that no matter what, then there's no problem. Just don't turn into and emotional tampoon. Edit: Spelling
/r/askTRP10/11/14 07:30 AM
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Why is a seat so important to you? I mean, sure we all have our favorite spots but, this is no biggie. This is not a shit test, its only a human being sitting where they please. Ask for your seat back. I'ts irrelevant if a girl or a guy took it. Just ask. You are the little kid crying for his seat, just that instead of mommy you came to TRP.
/r/askTRP10/11/14 07:19 AM
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This is a very unique and personal question for any of us to give an explicit answer on what you should do. Now, that said, if your gut is telling you to leave then do it. It sounds to me you've already grow beyond what this girl and your relationship with you could give you. It's ok to grow past people and leave them behind, it's normal on the red pill road. On the Rational Male, Rollo Tomasi talks about commitment to youself vs the commitment you have to your girlfriend, plate, spouse, etc. At…
/r/askTRP10/11/14 07:13 AM
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You'r missing the point.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 07:16 AM
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Maybe you can have Gym dates. I've never done it but one guy at the gym I go brings girls as dates. They all have fun, always laughing, and of course he escalates and feels them up "teaching them" who to do the exercises. And we all validate the guy when he bench presses's (spelling whaaa!!) the girl. Girls leave exstatic and he takes them to his home so they can have a bath in a clean private shower. Yea shure.... He's a natural, and really built. But, hey we all can try, learn and have fun in …
/r/askTRP29/10/14 09:27 PM
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Some time ago I read this book. "What Everybody is Saying" a book on bodylanguage by an ex FBI agent. Here's the link on amazon http://www.amazon.com/What-Every-BODY-Saying-Speed-Reading/dp/0061438294 It was a very fun read. So now, for fun and practice when I'm surronded by people or talking to someone I pay atention to every detail on their body language, and try to change mine accordingly sometimes to mess with them or ease the interaction. Try it. Edit: a word
/r/askTRP29/10/14 09:14 PM
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Dude, I read your post and somehow I identified with it, then I read the coments and felt so relived. So thinking a little bit more about it, I'm in a rough spot myself, maybe you've been in one your whole life but it's all in our heads. I can't remember where I read (some years ago) "80% of game is inner game" and thats right. Right now I'm trying to raise my SMV, sure, but my goal is to feel confortable with myself. Imagine that you get to meet your identical self, would you be friends with hi…
/r/askTRP29/10/14 06:10 AM
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Thanks a lot!
/r/askTRP25/10/14 07:47 AM
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Siempre puedes practicar con algún hermano redpillero
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 06:42 AM
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Thank you x 10000000.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 07:26 AM
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It's a tricky question. It depends on the context. if you don't want to be traced then yes, public wifi is the way to go the trace end right there. But public networks can't be trusted, you never know who is monitoring the traffic. On a public network some can hijack your sessions, steal your passwords, read anything you send on cleartext, etc. You might consider it a tradeoff between "privacy" and "security".
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 09:42 PM
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I have no need to prove anything to you. Instead I invite you to do your own research on the subject and draw your own conclusions. The recent security advisory from the TOR project itself and the Blackhat talk that got pulled are good starting points. Right now I believe TOR is unsafe, you might think otherwise and that's ok too. Relax.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 07:07 AM
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The use of privacy and security tools is not enough to ensure our digital privacy. We have to change habits and treat online safety with the same care we treat our physical safety. There are some simple rules that can be followed to be safer on the net. First of all you should always assume you're being targeted, some level of paranoia is helpful. Of course that being targeted by your ex is not the same as being targeted by an intelligence agency so you are the one and only one to assume how muc…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 05:01 AM
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Duly noted professor, thank you.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 10:01 PM
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Wow!! Great, thanks for your detailed answer. You'r totally right.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 10:01 PM
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I shaved my balls once, it looked kinda cool and even my ex liked it but I didn't so I just trim now. But this could be about anything not only pubes and balls. Why men like to wear chinos and others jeans? Why some wear boots and others moccasins? Even if its important not everything has to do with cultural programming. In the end, TRP is about "Do whatever you want" specially with self image.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 07:31 PM
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Maybe some men shave because the're programmed to. But I dont think thats the case for most. For example I trim my pubes so my dong looks bigger and I shave my face because I have a beard that grows in patches. Everyone has its own reasons, either programming or phisiology.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 07:38 AM
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Wow!! Thanks for the insight, as it has been said, "clear and direct". It would be great if more Red pillers your age shared their experience with all of us. This should be the stickied post of the week. edit: a word.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 11:30 PM
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Did you read the stickied post about "Text Game"? If you didn't at least read the Chateu Heartiste links. Now this is the perfect comeback IMHO: Gay I don't like to text to much because it's so easy to fuck it up. Follow Goldfulgore advice. Text her the image if you can, and go read the stickied post.
/r/trpGAME12/08/14 11:26 PM
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Yes, I think is easier just to start over with someone new, but some form of dread is worth to use (with caution) with FWB, plates, girs you date, etc. As I see it, it all boils down to her knowing you have options. So yes, first increase your SMV and stop playing her games, go full radio silence for a while. Go lift, go, right now, go.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 10:57 PM
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This is OSOM!!! ♂
/r/askTRP11/08/14 08:52 PM
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Isn't this the kind of post where somebody throws in the "DREAD GAME!!" advice? Well, I'm no expert myself, you can go read http://therationalmale.com/2012/03/27/dread-games/ and think if it applies to your situation because she's kinda doing it to you. good luck
/r/askTRP11/08/14 08:46 PM
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Awesome!! I was told "Somebody is going to fuck her, so it better be you."
/r/trpGAME26/07/14 07:03 AM
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Thanks!
/r/askTRP25/07/14 07:38 PM
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I think you can get her back. I also think you are on the "bargain" phase of your duel. Give yourself some time. That's what I'm doing right now.
/r/askTRP19/07/14 10:19 AM
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The nice part about CS is that you can do many things after geting the degree. You can work on IT, or do research, or get into cyberwarfare, or work for a defense contractor. Any major industry employs "some form" of CS; New and novel control systems for hollywood animatronics, you've got it. Want to design the brains for the next Tesla sports car? yep, you can do that. Want to improve AI for the next Valve game? yea sure. The physicists at CERN use computers to monitor and control de LHC. Someb…
/r/askTRP17/07/14 04:08 AM
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Some ideas about interesting stuff you can do with your friends: canyoneering, go for a hike on a national park, white water rafting (thrilling, dangerous), wall climbing, go to the gym together, ice skating, laser tag, bowling, play billiards, gotcha, go to a museum or a science center, arcade games, sky dive, learn a sport, learn hand sign language, etc. Now for your lady friend, she's still a girl, so choose any activity you want and tell her that instead of cofee you are doing that. Lead.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 03:26 AM
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IMHO, you can start by reading the sidebar specially the blogs listed. I love The rational Male and Chateau Hertiste. But all of them are equally good. Take a RP dose every day and start lifting ir you are not already doing it.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 06:18 AM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP07/07/14 05:23 AM
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My mother is a very down to earth woman, she divorced my father after he cheated on her. Since then she has been working hard to be a better person through seminars, therapy, courses, gestalt psycology and so on. We talk a lot and she tells me many Red Pill truths like "don't spoil a woman going to great lenghts to see her, make her put some effort" or "respect yourself, and get your needs met, otherwise say good bye to people who stop you" and many more, wise woman my mother. My sister (actuall…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 05:42 PM
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Hi, both the main sub and this sub's side bar are a good place to start. The blogs listed on the main sub have "game" categories that are fantastic. And I think TRP is not just about game, its about you. So no need to wait to use it on any women.
/r/trpGAME06/07/14 04:54 PM
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Yep, I think I'll try again in a month or so. But you'r right, Im working on getting my own number up so the 9,s and 10,s are easier. Althoug I've been thinking lateley that this whole dating, gaming, hooking up has to be so much easier than it seems and I'ts just me overthinking and making it more complex.
/r/askTRP06/07/14 04:39 PM
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Girls that are into an abusive guy aren't worth your time man. Exactly, and I also think she has severy daddy issues. Her father died when she was only 13.
/r/askTRP06/07/14 04:35 PM
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Agreed. It's just that right now I dont have a lot of options and tought this was a quick and easy hook. But Im working on geting my plates and so on.
/r/askTRP06/07/14 04:32 PM
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You can't challenge her choice in men directly. Because then she can't trust her choice in you. I never thought about it that way, thats awesome. Thanks!
/r/askTRP06/07/14 04:29 PM
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I totaly agree with you. How do you think I might be able to escalate the next time I see her?
/r/askTRP06/07/14 04:28 PM
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Thanks a lot for the LMR tip. If PUA theory is a starting point, then what resources are the best to keep geting better? I've read the main sub sidebar and the manosphere blogs. Any thoughts on how can I turn this into a lay?
/r/askTRP06/07/14 04:27 PM
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Thank you. I'm at stage 2 right now, I belive.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 10:52 PM
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Which one is stage 1? And how many stages are there??
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 06:56 AM
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