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DISCUSSIONTradJenna/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 12:49 AM
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DISCUSSIONTradJenna/r/RedPillWives03/02/18 10:46 PM
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LIFESTYLETradJenna/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 07:02 PM
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ADVICETradJenna/r/RedPillWomen18/01/18 03:15 PM
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ADVICETradJenna/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 08:04 PM
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Thank you, you sound like you have a great relationship
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/18 06:43 PM
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Good explanation
/r/RPChristians01/02/18 12:13 AM
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Great explanation
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/18 10:51 PM
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Sure, but why up the odds by opening your relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/18 10:12 PM
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I respect that you’ve asked this question and it seems like you love him a lot. My first marriage ended because my spouse wanted to open up our marriage. I said I’d think about it. He took that as a yes. A month later, when I said ‘no’ he was already sleeping with a woman. 4 months later, he left me for her. It isn’t something I’d consider ever again. Foot down and a hard no. You’re gambling your marriage when you open up like that. If you don’t have parameters, it is a runaway train. I don’t fa…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/18 09:04 PM
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I get the impression you’re still very new. Offer to make him meals, rather than going out so that he understands that (a) you can cook, (b) you may not have the money, (c) that you don’t expect him to treat you (all the time 😋) That’s how my husband and me started. Then when we got engaged he sat me down and talked to me about his needs and desires about money. He didn’t want me to spend money on certain things and because he manages the Master budget he wanted to be in charge of dinner’s out. …
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/18 03:29 PM
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Well, one idea is that you could just ask him what you could do to help him make more money
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/18 04:44 PM
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For my husband and I, we talked in-depth about what our sex life would be like once we were married. We both weren’t promiscuous people but learned we’d longed for an intense and amazing connection. Because of that I told him that if I was to give myself over to him, completely - I’d need a solid commitment in place. That he’d never have a lazy lover with me but one who would hold our union in the highest regard. A symbol that he wasn’t just any man to me, but my husband and my leader. He was th…
/r/RPChristians29/01/18 04:36 PM
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I know that guilt so well. People would ask, “why aren’t you writing?” And you’re right, how do you stop them and give them a lesson in Maslow?
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/18 10:01 PM
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I think you need to let your man do what he needs to do and fall in behind him. Ask him what household chores and tasks he wants you to do. For me, I"m so involved with the kids, doing dishes, laundry, etc - there is no shortage of things for me to do as a woman. If he has OCD, then it's our job to "work with it". It's very doable. I wouldn't stress.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/18 04:54 PM
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You know, I have a son and I think I would love to raise him to understand this dynamic. It will make him a better man. Thanks for the insight!
/r/RedPillWives27/01/18 04:52 PM
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I sense you care about him very much and would like an opportunity to see if theres something for the two of you. Have you considered just reaching out to him and saying: "Hey you'll never believe it, I've just accepted a position and it's an hour away from you. I'm not very familiar with the area too well, would you be up for showing me around? It'd be nice to have a friendly face. And someone I could call on if I have an emergency." Gauge his reaction! He might divulge that he's being praying …
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/18 04:41 PM
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I can share with you what happened with my husband... He was very diligent about not sleeping together until we were exclusive and better yet, engaged to be married. It was sooooo hard to stop sometimes. But I figured if I expected the same level of self control from my children, I could do it and speak with authority on the subject. My boyfriend (husband) knew what he wanted. He didn't believe in sleeping around but what that also signified to me was that he was in control - full alpha male. He…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/18 04:31 PM
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I agree very much with this sentiment. I remember when my first husband and me split up, I had to prioritize things in my life. I went back to work, but I stopped my favourite hobby which was writing. It broke my heart. I even stopped working out, another important hobby. I had promised myself that when I finally met someone, I would pick up my hobbies again. Dating took a lot out of me, mentally, physically and financially. When I met my husband, things fell into place again, and I picked up se…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/18 04:22 PM
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Oh okay, I’m just gonna stay here. Too many social media places isn’t my bag. But you guys have fun
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/18 03:14 PM
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It’s okay, I don’t know what discord means. I’m too simple for this so I’m just not going to change anything
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/18 03:12 PM
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Omg I have no idea what any of this means. Can’t we just stay here?
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/18 02:18 PM
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Okay so he wasn’t guilty of mate guarding, just infidelity, lol. Point taken, thank you for clarifying.
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 09:03 PM
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I think mate guarding happens all the time. Even today. I think there are more extreme forms than others - ie. David killing Bathsheba’s husband. Today, husbands won’t invite their wives out to certain places, for fear men will woo her away. Maybe she’s just kind to all men, but men take it as sexual interest and then it sets the husband off. Today, in the Muslim culture, women wear hijabs and niqabs so other men can’t look at them inappropriately but also, so the woman can’t entice men to Want …
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 08:21 PM
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I’m sorry I feel like this thread is taking on many different angles. Can you tell me, again, what are we trying to discover? In one sense I feel like we’re discounting Bathsheba saying she’s into hypergamy, next we’re discounting David for mate guarding. I’m not arguing either way, I’m just a little lost on what we’re talking about and how the two relate
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 07:45 PM
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I believe the first verse is about humility. The second is about turning your eyes from things that can lead you down a wrong path.
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 03:44 PM
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Yes, I agree. What does it mean “kick you when you’re down” but also, what does it mean when you say “fall back into some old ways”?
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 03:43 PM
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Just wanted to add my story... My husband and I, were married only a few years ago. It’s my second marriage. We aren’t religious but we’re both old fashion. We have a deep spiritual bond and we always know what the other is thinking. Anyway, my husband, before we were engaged, we simply dated. We only cuddled and spooned and kissed while we were courting. Then, when we became exclusive and almost engaged, that’s when we had sex. We didn’t want that pressure. We knew we had good chemistry, we wan…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 04:33 AM
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I agree with this post!
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 04:19 AM
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I think the old fashion method is very appealing. I think dating as a single is important because the spaces between (the times we don’t see each other), give us perspective and space to say “yes, this is what I want” or “no, this won’t work for me”. If we jump in and play house too quickly, there’s no time to feel confident in the commitment. I think courting is a lost art. Once you’ve decided to go steady, then great.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 04:13 AM
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Thank you for these
/r/RedPillWives24/01/18 07:48 PM
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I see them in images, though if I were to give them an adjective, I’d say I see Men as angry, and in many cases, justifiably so. I see trp women as accommodating and soft. I remember when I was embarking on a dating website. I met a man and talked to him by phone first. He was very harsh, commented that he thought it was silly that I was a thinker. He later carried on something about women and needing prenups and post nuptials. I was so turned off. I felt like he wanted a dumb SO and nail her to…
/r/RedPillWives24/01/18 06:34 PM
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I'm going to try a pumpkin spice low carb cake recipe I found - but I'd never make it for just myself - or I can eat it all in one sitting! If you like carrot cake you'll likely enjoy pumpkin. I have made lots of recipes with pumpkin. To the point I have it in my cupboard all year round now. So, zucchini, pumpkin, carrot and some people do black beans. low carb, gluten free pumpkin spice cake with frosting
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 05:15 PM
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Hahaha, funny you should ask. I won’t eat it either if it doesn’t taste good. So sometimes I’m experimenting. But that website “chocolate cover Katie”, her stuff tastes awesome. If my husband wants something heartier, I’ll make it and put some in the freezer. I usually will only treat myself once/week. On a Sunday usually. I’m happy to make what he wants tho
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 04:42 PM
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I’m not a very big drinker but I feel it’s important to be social. I’ll often have one vodka tonic or a spritzer. Sometimes two. If I’m driving, I let my husband have my shots or I take a sip and pass to him. My thing is I perspire with too much alcohol - yuck! Some of my husbands friends enjoy cannabis for various reasons, from medicinal to recreational. Again, I’m no one’s mother. I will say cannabis isn’t my thing because I seem to have a bad reaction from it. But I’ll never harp. Though I pr…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 03:46 PM
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Oh neat! I have been subscribed to the keto lifestyle and lost quite a bit of weight with it. When I’m in”maintenance mode” I plan to adopt the paleo lifestyle. Those recipes sound great.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 01:52 PM
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This is so sweet. I had dated men over the years who hated me baking anything like that because they didn’t want to become overweight. But I always felt like my hand was cut off when they wouldn’t let me! Since I’m conscious of my own health though I had decided to subscribe to healthy baking blogs. I will note that when we have company I bake the full on decadent recipes. So here are some of the healthy recipes I’ve made: -pumpkin spice cookies (gluten free) -low sugar candied pecans -black bea…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 11:35 AM
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Don’t feel bad. You know what you want. It’s like when people truly want to lose weight. When they want it bad enough they say “no” to foods that make us overweight. You got this. Saying good bye to him is just one step closer to you having what you want.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 03:38 AM
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I believe that men and women have different views of what red pill means. Being a woman, I prefer the woman’s version of course. I’m also sad some days that men and women can’t be more understanding of each other. Love each other, even when it’s difficult. Now, I know some days life can be unbearable but I can’t imagine it without my husband. Anyway, I don’t get sentimental too often. So I’ll try to keep it to a minimum 😂
/r/RedPillWives24/01/18 12:46 AM
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Let him worry about what he doesn’t want you to worry about. He has a dome around you and will let you out when the time is right. Wise words someone shared with me last year.
/r/RedPillWives24/01/18 12:42 AM
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This is good advice. I’ve learned that when my anxiety gets the best of me... I’m best to go silent. It beats nagging. :)
/r/RedPillWives23/01/18 09:57 PM
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Might I suggest you limit the number of feminist friends you surround yourself with. This may mean an overhaul of hobbies and friendships. Also, eliminate the things that are causing you extra stress. Often times, were so anxious and stressed we seem unapproachable under pressure or we end up projecting. Projecting is pushing our internal negative energy on an innocent bystander instead of dealing with the situation head on. For example, right now, the idea of having another child is not doable …
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 02:21 PM
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I honestly don’t have much to offer this conversation because I’m older. I’m 36. I will say that I didn’t think anyone would ever want to marry me, again. That I was damaged goods - on a few levels. So I took up the helm, believing I needed to be self sufficient because the only man who’d ever want me was a beta. At times I’ve been hard and brash. There is no doubt I’m opinionated but it’s because I’m quiet and observant. A reason I write, though I digress. I think it’s important to have frame, …
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 12:17 PM
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Good food for thought. I hope she was getting raises if she brought in big revenue and they could attribute it to her performance. No doubt,
/r/RedPillWives23/01/18 11:46 AM
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I agree with you and him. It’s hard to be a man these days
/r/RedPillWives23/01/18 11:44 AM
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I was always brought up to believe you are paid based on the value you bring to the marketplace. I mean for employment. So if I’m a pro-tennis player and I’m top in my sport, I’m going to help stadiums sell seats and I’m also going to have millions of eyes ( watching on tv), looking at my every move. Let’s take Serena Williams for example, she has 39 grand slam titles. Her prize money has been over $84 million and with endorsements her earnings are exponentially more. I can sit and justify or ta…
/r/RedPillWives22/01/18 08:09 PM
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This is wonderful to read. Way to go!
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/18 08:18 AM
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It's not ra-ra. I don't think this is about ra-ra or falling out of love. I think that people have dull spots in their relationships - for sure. That's just the eb and flow of love. I'm not saying "throw the baby out with the bathwater". I am saying that she has to weigh her mental health against the situation. If he can't come through for her, she needs to take care of herself. Do you want the conscience of this girl being in a body bag because she's depressed? Hmm? She can stick it out with hi…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 08:08 PM
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She isn’t ungrateful. I’m sure he’s a good man but there are millions of good men. Yes relationships take work, but my question is... how do you really know someone especially when they’re 4000 miles away? What the heck does she have to fight for? She doesn’t know because they don’t have a foundation for their relationship. He doesn’t even have the money nor does she, to fly back and forth to make it happen. Waiting 2 years for him is absolutely ridiculous because what happens if at the end of t…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 12:56 PM
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Thanks for your message here. I’d be happy to share with you but I’ve decided to not contribute anymore. I feel as though I’m a traditional woman and the red pill movement is sobering, but that some views aren’t entirely helpful to women. Talk of women “hitting a wall and peaking”. And while this is somewhat true, it is far from helping today’s modern woman in having a positive outlook on themselves. I believe all women have the ability to be beautiful and attract a good man when they take care …
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 10:46 AM
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I think that you have a responsibility to yourself, first. He’s in no position to take care of you and have the kind of relationship you need. You are a 10 of a woman too and you need to believe it first, then the rest of your physical appearance will catch up. Stop putting in your mind that there is a timeline for beauty. There are good men out there, though I do believe you will have better success when you feel good about yourself. I know it isn’t easy moving on. It hurts and it aches, so it’…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 10:21 AM
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Here's an update: My friend canceled her dating site membership. She said she had to reprioritize her life a bit. Enough men for now and just work on herself. She said she's not in a place to let a man in her life right now. She doesn't hate them, she's just not physically or emotionally equipped to invest in one. I feel like she's had a big shift. She's booked all kinds of engagements with friends. Also, 2 trips she's very excited about. I'm just happy she's stopped waiting for the perfect man …
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/18 05:29 PM
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This seems like it was a process for you but I’m glad you’ve found peace in your relationship with him. It’s not shameful to need someone. He does more than offer you financial support - he believes in you. I’m sure you’re a great partner in return., giving him what he needs 🙏🏻
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/18 11:09 PM
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Right, that’s helpful advice. Thank you for the clarity. I haven’t online dated in years so it’s hard to understand what she means. She did say she hasn’t been enjoying it like she thinks she should. Like she’s anticipating another “frog” not a prince. No enthusiasm for the cause right now
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/18 07:49 PM
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She sent me a screenshot. She paid for a one month subscription. Are you suggesting she look through the apps recommendations instead of looking at all the ones who “like” her?
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/18 06:50 PM
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Sorry, my response was to everyone, OP. Just more food for thought in that vein. Sorry if I put it It in wrong spot.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/18 06:45 PM
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I believe this is okay but still work on building some kind of income, if your spouse/boyfriend will let you. It will help carry any extra burdens. If your spouse insists you don’t work, then you need to talk to him about your fears. Most men want a prenup nowadays. But if you give up all your income earning then you’re left without a net. If he wants you home and taking care of the home, he’s going to have to put something at risk too. Here’s what I mean. My husband and I are absolutely committ…
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/18 05:34 PM
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Why don’t you two sit and talk about what you ultimately want? Tell him it would make you more comfortable if... Then each of you sit with one financial planner at separate times. Pick a reputable one that your boyfriend respects. Then let your boyfriend lead a joint plan which includes marriage. I know for myself, any Starbucks I’ve ever got is from a gift card. I make almost everything at home and I have a machine that makes me low cost Cappuccinos at $1 each instead of $5. Buy him a ceramic S…
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/18 05:22 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/18 03:16 PM
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Lol, what’s your question? You want to date your sisters boyfriend?
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/18 12:09 AM
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I’d remind myself that there are still good men out there. That just because I’ve been hurt doesn’t mean they’re all the same. It is possible to love and trust again.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/18 10:18 PM
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So I’ve been thinking a lot about this post and I’ll share with you what my spouse and I do and then I’ll share with you what a friend of mine does with her husband. And both are OK with me. It’s up to you and your husband and what works for you though. So, my husband is a computer programmer. And he works from home. I work very hard to keep the house quiet for him so that he can get his work done. I also don’t nag him and don’t put a lot of pressure on him. He is free to come out when he’s read…
/r/RedPillWives16/01/18 08:00 PM
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Don’t leave. There is hope even when it seems like women “are all the same”. We’re not. Just like no man is the same - I have to keep reminding myself this.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/18 07:25 PM
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Thanks so much for explaining all this to me. I have a hard time finding friends who aren’t feminist, I always feel like I need to fit in with them to even have female companionship! Sad, isn’t it? I have one single friend who is redpill and still looking for her mate. I feel for your broken heart. I really do. 🙏🏻 You know, I was married before my current husband. We owned a business together, he hurt me very badly, I was very traditional. I worked for him but never took a pay check, raised his …
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/18 03:36 PM
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Wow, thank you for this explanation. I know men need sex and I recognize this as a fundamental truth, whether married or not. If you don’t mind, how come red Pill women talk about obedience and kindness and pleasing so much? Is it because men need this submission to fulfill their red pill manifest?
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/18 05:51 AM
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I agree with these whole heartedly. Make sure the two of you are talking, truly.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/18 01:51 AM
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I think it’s nice he told you what he wants you to work on and that he’s dissatisfied. Some people give up and I relate to stress much like you. I have some questions: 1) does he visit you and talk to you voice-to-voice regularly? 2) what’s the plan at the end of the 6 months? Do you move in together? 3) are you happy with the way things are between the two of you? Ie. does he follow through on commitments because if you work hard on yourself, will he follow thru? I ask this stuff because I know…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/18 08:04 PM
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These are nice stories. All of them.
/r/RedPillWives15/01/18 07:44 PM
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This is a dream
/r/RedPillWives15/01/18 07:43 PM
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Thanks for letting me know!
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/18 07:00 PM
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Sorry, @1stofficer, I guess it’s better to go to a bdsm group. People will find you there and I’m sure would love to hear more. I’m new here too, so while I’m opening to listening, it seems like it’s probably best somewhere else.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/18 12:05 PM
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Sorry for your loss.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/18 11:59 AM
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Oh it’s okay, I think this is fine to leave here. Sometimes people come to redpill from a Christian upbringing and some come from kinks. What’s important is the ability to stand down and let him lead. There is nothing crude about your post ma’am.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/18 07:44 AM
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I think if he’s telling you to leave him, you should. You can’t wait forever. I know for me, I wouldn’t want to see him with other women, so my gut would be to not see each other, at all. Time to take care of you. I wish you luck. Truly.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/18 01:56 AM
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Thanks for the insights! Much fruit in your post, here.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/18 08:12 AM
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Makes sense.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/18 10:18 PM
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Well he shouldn’t worry about carrying things. Men and women working together is a wonderful picture. I will say I do think RPM are defining themselves and many are prideful of their place in society. They want to also be an example for younger men. So like I say, it’s about him and what message he wants to send to the world. I find RPM are very serious about being an example and influence cultural change. Because of that, I’m interested in how I can support my husbands goals, so I’m not going t…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/18 09:22 PM
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Some men don’t like the look of their wives paying. Or they’re okay for their wives to pay for breakfast or coffee but not out at dinner. But I’m sure the two of you will come up with something!
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/18 09:08 PM
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Happy Birthday! It’s the little things, they’re the best. I’d give you feedback but I don’t know your relationship dynamic. Some men won’t allow their women to pay. Some men give their wives money to manage and are okay with it. And some men are okay with it and encourage it. This is a redpill group so, why not ask him? I appreciate your wanting to pay though. We like to make nice gestures too!
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/18 08:57 PM
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Yes I believe we need to earn his guidance and support. For sure. If we’ve picked the right man we will absolutely want his direction. I’m assuming we would have the right man because if we’ve vetted and courted sufficiently they should be the sexiest man alive!
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/18 03:50 PM
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Great idea! I bet I can find some great pieces
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/18 03:44 PM
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I hope your husband has a speedy recovery and heals in the way he needs to. Both of you seem strong, symbiotic almost. I’m glad you’re getting help where you can. This way you can have a bright smile for him.
/r/RedPillWives13/01/18 01:31 PM
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You have a massive responsibility to take care of your health and look your best (when you can) for you and your husband. Create a good life for yourselves, without children! There’s so much you can do at home when you’re up to it. You can host dinner parties, you can read, write, paint, go on short trips, go for lunch with friends, take up photography! Everyone has responsibilities and everyone has 24 hours in a day. Taking care of yourself and your husband is a good life on its own. Children c…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/18 01:12 PM
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Thank you 🙏🏻
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/18 10:36 PM
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I like this answer. Though you are okay to feel what you feel and it is okay to tell him you’re hurt and that in the future you’d like things to be different.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/18 03:57 PM
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Thank you. I’ll try that. I think it’s becoming obvious my mom was never a sewer. I’m the only one in my family with a sewing machine :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/18 02:17 PM
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Okay thank you for your insight. I will leave the group then if I have it wrong about people running around saying they’re red pill with this kind of behaviour. I thought redpill meant having a moral conscience about our place and gender. What I hear you saying is men can’t be genuinely kind and thoughtful, that they have the right to seduce any woman outside of their marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/18 01:02 PM
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Why not follow etiquette until you’re feeling better. When you receive a compliment, simply smile (even a little one) and say “thank you”. You don’t need to give one back, out of obligation. Etiquette says don’t push the compliment away or explain why. Just a simple “thank you”. :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/18 11:42 AM
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He uses redpill sexual strategy, unfortunately that’s where it stopped. He’s good at that, but he didn’t do anything else (for her). Maybe he did for his wife, butt friend has been left in the dark, wanting a ghost of a man for a few years. That’s the part That isn’t redpill. Unless he has some valid explanation but he’s never shared it with her.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/18 06:38 AM
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Thank you. This is great and I will give it a go. :))
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 11:30 PM
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Thanks!!
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 09:58 PM
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I’m 36. You vet them by answering questions. See if they show up for dates when they say they will. If he promises you a holiday, does he follow through or does he cancel for a lame excuse? If you suspect you’re being told a lie, do your research. Facebook will tell you lots. For example, I dated this guy once who told me about his friends, he said we would hang out with his friend and his girlfriend. Except that his friend was married to another woman, not dating a woman by the name my guy said…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 09:18 PM
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I agree with all the comments. Don't move in with him unless you have a plan of marriage or better yet, an official engagement. An engagement is an announcement, which holds you both accountable to your commitment. Read fascinating womanhood, or a more up to date read "the Surrendered Wife". Both are great. Make sure to outline how you will structure your home, budgets, boundaries. Ie. if he says don't go in the west wing, don't go in the west wing! :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 07:11 PM
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I'd ask my boyfriend what their favourite wines are. Where I come from, bringing them homemade biscuits for tea (British style) are a nice touch.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 07:06 PM
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Expect things? Well some things come naturally to me, like taking care of kids and sex. Somethings I've learned through trial and error. But somethings he had to tell me, even in a subtle way. For example, when we were dating, I never thought in a million years he'd want me to stay home and contribute there. I just didn't know red pill men existed. I thought they were extinct, lol. We have two kids, a boy and a girl. I think, maybe, my husband might want to have another. He talked about it a lot…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 06:56 PM
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You're a good woman. Hang tight and get help where you can to help with your home duties. If he needs you, he needs you. It sounds like you have an aptitude for business or whatever craft your husband has. I don't have much in the way of advice, just that when he's ready to step back in, give him full reins. As well, if he's up to it, talk to him regularly about what's going on in the business so when he returns he's abreast of things.
/r/RedPillWives11/01/18 03:47 PM
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Working for someone else is risky to me. At any point they could be pulling the plug on your employment and you have no control over it. Being self employed is the only way I've ever held employment. It depends on what is going on in my life, that's what time I get up. Lately I've been staying up much later (working out) and so I don't get up until 8am. But, that hasn't always been the case. I used to get up at 5am but my brain doesn't work at that time anymore. So 6am is the best compromise. Bu…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 03:18 PM
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I'm actually waist training as I sit at my desk. I wear full Camelia corsets. They aren't the best brand out there but they fit my budget. I waist train when I know I'm having an office day and sometimes when I'm feeling diligent, I sleep in a corset but it isn't idea. It isn't ideal for housework or going to the gym either. I tried a "hook and eye" waist trainer but it was a workout just to get the thing on.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 03:01 PM
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My logic is in tact. I’ve lived and experienced what I’m sharing. Are you sure you’re not responding to my directness? I supposed I’ve used the wrong terms. Men should vet women. Even though I’m not a feminist, I too have a right to vet a man. Which involves, seeing if I can trust him. If I can trust I can depend.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 01:52 PM
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I’d talk to your man then. Ask him what would work best for your home. Tell him that you’d like to do something fulfilling along side of taking care of him. I’m sure he would agree with self employment. This way you and your husband have control over your hours. I like to write so that’s my job. I can do it in any country and at any time of day (though I work best in the mornings :)) I write and I make money from it. My husband handles the money for me. He sits with me monthly and shows me how h…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 01:48 PM
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I have none, but those cards sound kinda awesome.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 10:54 AM
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I think it might but it might not. I’m incapable of too many things. Too many details or responding to too many bosses or managers. As a result my homelife struggles. Some women, many, can be a domestic goddesses and have good work and keep it in balance. ie. don’t bring your work home. Also having passion for the right job could mean you can do it with little effort or grind, because you love it. So if your skin glows because your happy, your apt to put that effort into your domestic responsibi…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 10:53 AM
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Encourage him. Treat him like the strong man you married. Make sure your words and tone don’t hint at disappointment. Up your womanly skills, (cook his favourite meal, sex, football game snacks etc.) when you do, his need to provide should come through. This isn’t a tactic or a ploy, just a behaviour check to see if you’ve fallen into a bad habit and are contributing to his thinking. Experiment!
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 10:38 AM
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Yes this is what I mean
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 10:28 AM
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A prenup is okay with me because I’m never divorcing my husband. I would only marry a reasonable man as well, so if he expects me to stop working, I’d need some reassurances. Yes going to do things on the side to generate income but if it becomes a full time job then I can’t take care of him the way I want. I know my words can come across hard at times, it’s just because red pill doesn’t mean doormat. Soft - yes, he has the final word - yes. But up front, there must be some boundaries set,
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 03:53 AM
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Oh I should mention she prides herself in being red pill and he’s stated the same. Neither of them behave like they’re red pill. I’m okay with letting my husband take advantage of me too, but he’s earned it. This man has not. I blame her too, because men are men. She can’t run around saying she’s redpill while she doesn’t hold him to a much higher standard. To me, he’s LVM. his behaviour is all I have to judge him on. I don’t know his true name or what he does, all I know is he lies to get in he…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 01:25 AM
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I think she is giving rp a bad name for putting up with a low value man. I think there are men all over the world who take advantage of women. I think she needs to be stronger and cut him off at the knees. He’s proven his worth to her time and again. So yes, I’m actually blaming my girlfriend, she’s better than this. Good news is she’s blocked his number and his friends number and email accounts.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 01:00 AM
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I was raised this way and saw the goodness in the people around me. I can only RP with someone like my husband. He doesn’t take me for granted, he’s kind and he’s genuinely interested in making me as happy as I am him. He doesn’t play games or toy with me. He’s sincere. I had to let go of men who constantly abused my trust and insecurities. I’d make excuses for their abusive behaviour. My husband, now, would never ever take advantage of my vulnerability and he guards me from predators that try t…
/r/RedPillWives11/01/18 12:40 AM
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Which means walking away sometimes. We can’t confuse attachment with love. They’re distinct.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 12:34 AM
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I don’t think you can. Nor can you assume someone is being a victim. Maybe they are in the midst of transformation. It’s not your job to teach them personal resilience. Only life can do that, and their “own will to overcome” can teach them that. Then they read books like, “the art of not giving a fuck”, and rid of the toxicity in their life. That’s where resilience comes and it isn’t from a teacher.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 12:32 AM
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Sounds good. In all honesty I can see the resignation in her eyes. She’s not one to wallow for long once she knows what she wants. The trouble is she doesn’t want to be set up through friends and wants to be left alone to find her way.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 10:07 PM
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I’ve felt this before, where it’s turned negative. I once had a boyfriend like this who talked about his perfect 10’s and what made a woman beautiful (plastic surgery, being blonde, etc) ... the thing that killed me is I didn’t fit his exact definition of beautiful. What hurt me is that I thought I was already beautiful - without his input. I actually would have been happier not knowing how he had dated models and perfect 10’s. And while I’m committed to being an attractive woman and open to vie…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 08:46 PM
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I think if you’re in love, you and your spouse will make it work. But there must be a high level of trust and an ability to handle travel costs or I can’t see it happening. Good luck to you.
/r/RedPillWives10/01/18 08:28 PM
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I will encourage her to set her realistic goals and join a local site around my community and get dating ASAP. I’m sure it will help her see how dysfunctional things have been. Thanks again!
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 08:21 PM
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Okay, point taken, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 08:18 PM
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I don’t see her as negative at all. She’s having a moment of reflection. She has come to an understanding that she prefers living with others. No where in this film does she says she’s “unmotivated” or giving up. If anything she’s giving insight to people who may or may not want to live on their own. I’m confident she will move in with others again. Just because one persons path to greatness looks different, doesn’t mean they’re unmotivated or directionless.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 08:16 PM
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