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| 78 | Did anyone else go into Nesting Mode when their frontal lobe developed? | DISCUSSION | Twilight_Rose99 | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/25 05:52 PM |
| 52 | How to initiate sex without initiating sex...? | LTR/MARRIAGE | Twilight_Rose99 | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/22 04:08 PM |
| 30 | Girlfriend vs Fiancé duties and privileges (we’re getting married!) | LTR/MARRIAGE | Twilight_Rose99 | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/24 11:36 AM |
| 21 | How to make it up to my boyfriend after an argument? | RELATIONSHIPS | Twilight_Rose99 | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/24 12:26 PM |
| 15 | Ladies and gents, what are different ways that men/husbands show that they value and appreciate their wives/women? | LTR/MARRIAGE | Twilight_Rose99 | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/23 04:07 PM |
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| 1 | The Temperament of You & Your Husband - It MattersMarried life is wonderful🥰 we make sure to prioritize communication and quality time and we’re great | /r/RedPillWives | 30/10/25 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Did anyone else go into Nesting Mode when their frontal lobe developed?I was thinking maybe but like it hasn’t even really started yet, I don’t have any clients. It’s like I’m staring down a big dark empty tunnel and even though I know there’s an end to it I don’t even know if I want to see. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/03/25 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Did anyone else go into Nesting Mode when their frontal lobe developed?I hope this isn’t an intrusive thing to ask, but what business did you create? I think it’s fascinating and performance is definitely where my heart is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/25 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Did anyone else go into Nesting Mode when their frontal lobe developed?Interesting, I did the opposite. When I went to college I was a radical feminist. The only good things that came out of my degree was the ability to live abroad and meeting my future husband. Then when I was done I realized feminism was actually a burden and hinderance in my life, I unsubscribed from it, and haven’t looked back since. I’m way better because of it. That being said, I truly do hope that you’re happy and living your best life :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/25 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Did anyone else go into Nesting Mode when their frontal lobe developed?You and I seem to be cut from the same cloth. My mom was also a doc but was the breadwinner, I’m a trained performer, and my fiancé is currently working as a builder so he can build our dream home lol! Thank you for sharing💕 | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/25 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Did anyone else go into Nesting Mode when their frontal lobe developed?Hi Golly Ned, I’ve tried a few. I’ve worked in administration, sales, teaching (which I did enjoy, but the thought of teaching public school sounds like a nightmare, it would have to be in my subject, which is Performing Arts). The only career path that has ever lit me up is working on set, it’s what I’ve always done. I’ve been an actor for almost 15 years, I work as an extra when I can, I’ve worked as a PA (which is hard work but in an environment I enjoy), and stand-in. In an ideal world I wou… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/25 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Did anyone else go into Nesting Mode when their frontal lobe developed?Hiya, thank you for this :) I’m Canadian though what do those acronyms stand for? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/25 12:35 PM |
| 4 | Did anyone else go into Nesting Mode when their frontal lobe developed?Hmm do we really? Perhaps we’re from different geographical areas but where in North America is a family able to have a working parent and stay home parent, a home, and an adequate savings on an annual income of less than $200,000? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/25 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Did anyone else go into Nesting Mode when their frontal lobe developed?Thank you, I’m aware of that. It’s been a long time coming but that motivation is just gone now. It’s been dwindling and I used to be able to force myself but now I just can’t without feeling existential dread. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/25 10:01 PM |
| 1 | "Girls Girl" mSorry? I don’t really understand what you mean | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/25 06:09 PM |
| 2 | "Girls Girl" mIt breaks my heart. The amount of times I’ve been called a pick me for saying a bold and controversial statement like “men are people and are deserving of respect” is far too much. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/25 04:20 PM |
| 45 | I’m overwhelmed by the change of becoming a SAHMFor the record, you are not responsible for your husbands health. He is a grown adult and it’s his responsibility and choice about how he takes care of himself. You are the mother to your toddler, don’t fall into the trap of trying to mother your husband too. Good luck 💕 | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/24 11:41 AM |
| 1 | The Temperament of You & Your Husband - It MattersThank you for this! I’m a sanguine who will soon be married to a choleric (the same temperament as my mother, ironically.) | /r/RedPillWives | 23/07/24 08:33 PM |
| 3 | My (28F) boyfriend (28M) isnt masculine enough for me. Give him time or break up?You, as a woman, have no idea how to evaluate masculinity. Zero. What’s more important is how he makes YOU FEEL. When you’re with him do you feel protected? Lead? Guided? Provided for? Valued? Are you allowing yourself to feel those things? If not, then that’s the work you have to do. Lean back and allow him to do those things for you instead of forcing him to (topping from the bottom). | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/24 12:37 PM |
| 9 | boyfriend keeps giving me mixed signals and criticizing people for wanting to settle down at an "early" age, we're still new, am I overthinking ?With respect, he’s telling you exactly what kind of a person he is and what he wants. If that doesn’t align with what you want then you have to make your own decisions about how to proceed. Do you also want to wait that long/possibly never get married? Or do you want to be with someone who wants marriage and wants it earlier? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/24 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend vs Fiancé duties and privileges (we’re getting married!)This is to what I'm referring, thank you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/24 04:29 PM |
| 6 | Girlfriend vs Fiancé duties and privileges (we’re getting married!)Hiya! Thank you for your advice! What I mean by privileges are things like starting a family or combining finances, which are things that really should only be done after marriage. Duties being for example after courtship has been initiated (boyfriend/girlfriend) exclusivity is an obvious duty to be upheld. Things along those lines but relevant to engagement :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/24 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend vs Fiancé duties and privileges (we’re getting married!)Thank you so much!!!❤️❤️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/24 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Just broke up… why does this keep happening?Please do not ever give a man your are dating money. Ever. The only time you should share your money with a man is when you are married. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/24 09:29 PM |
| 2 | I'm New To The Dating Scene: Is It A Red Flag That He Follows An Insane Amount Of Instagram Models?Oh honey, delete and block that man. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/24 07:48 PM |
| 3 | I'm New To The Dating Scene: Is It A Red Flag That He Follows An Insane Amount Of Instagram Models?Oh my goodness, after reading your update about him saying he can teach you how to be a strong, confident woman? Ick. I think you made the right decision. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/24 07:44 PM |
| 7 | If men can pump and dump, can't I just do the reverse and use them for dates and provision, etc without giving my body?Don’t harden your heart or your spirit. Using people solely for your own personal gain is not only selfish, but immature. You’re better than that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/24 07:50 PM |
| 1 | How to make it up to my boyfriend after an argument?Thank you for this ☺️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/24 12:51 PM |
| 1 | How to make it up to my boyfriend after an argument?Hi there. To answer your question, I had said something in the heat of an argument but not to hurt him, I never stoop to anything like name calling, belittling, or any gross behavior like that. I felt unappreciated for some favours I had offered to do for him (get groceries, and cooked some meal prep for him), he didn't ask me to do them, I offered, but he thought it was out of line for me to ask him to help me with something that he felt inconvenienced him. I told him he was right, I offered an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/24 01:12 AM |
| 1 | How to make it up to my boyfriend after an argument?That's okay, thanks for sharing anyway! I've asked what his love language is before but he believes love languages only apply as languages being displayed by the person, not what the person wants to receive. I have my guesses but they aren't absolutes. Thank you though, I will definitely do some research on them! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/24 12:52 AM |
| 3 | How to make it up to my boyfriend after an argument?Honestly, the ye olde sacred STFU would work well for me too. Thank you for the suggestion to clean up around him and make his space better, he really appreciates tidiness and orderliness and I think it would help. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/24 06:29 PM |
| 3 | How to make it up to my boyfriend after an argument?Hi there, perhaps you didn't read the whole post, he's not interested in intimacy with me during these post-argument times so that's off the table. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/24 06:26 PM |
| 2 | How to make it up to my boyfriend after an argument?This is absolutely accurate. Thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/24 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Is it a red flag that the guy I’m talking to follows a lot of cosplayers and models?Agreed | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/02/24 01:15 PM |
| 1 | I feel more like a man than a womanAnd… that’s how you think men think? Interesting. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/24 01:15 PM |
| 10 | I feel more like a man than a womanWhen you say “think like a man” what do you mean by that? What does that look like to you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/24 07:46 PM |
| 2 | should i live miserably? or not and give up on love all together?Relationship gurus Sri Namaste and Baba Richard Moore recommend avoiding men who follow the teachings of Kevin Samuels, he doesn’t appreciate women and he handles them abrasively, that will leak over into the man you’re dating. He will also handle you abrasively. I recommend looking into Sri Namaste and Baba Richard’s work, search “Sri Namaste Moore” and “the Infinite Couple” on Facebook or YouTube. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/23 02:38 PM |
| 11 | I think I triggered his fear of commitment and scared him awayNever assume you’re in a relationship with someone. If they want to be with you they will make it clearly known. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/12/23 01:06 AM |
| 10 | How do you find a man to pay for you?I suggest Seeking Arrangements, there are plenty of men there looking for sugar babies. But may I just say, if you’re willing to objectify and disrespect men this intensely, do not be surprised when they treat you in the same manner. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/23 03:59 PM |
| 3 | What’s your reason of living?Because life is so deliciously juicy, and rich, and delightful. Every day I’m given to love (autocorrected from live but I’m keeping it) is a gift. My reason for living is that it’s so damn fun and I enjoy it! | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/23 06:55 PM |
| 2 | I desparately want a baby but husband isn't readyTrust him and his timing, this isn’t something to push about and you’re a team, this is arguably the biggest decision you can make together and you want to make sure he feels on the same page. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/23 03:14 PM |
| 1 | What do i do when he dont make me orgasmed?I need more info on this | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/23 03:44 PM |
| 1 | CheatingHigh value implies that he also has strong values, unless you both agree on a polyamorous/polygamist relationship, cheating/adultery/infidelity is quite a low value character flaw. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/23 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Single ladies, how do you deal with high sex drive?Super personal and nsfw question for you, but how are you touching yourself? Is it the quick “rub one out to get to sleep” mindless touch or are you taking the time to mindfully tend to yourself without excessive use of vibrating tools? The second one is much more satisfying and the effects last longer. Take the time to explore yourself and see if you can learn how to climax in different ways. There’s nothing wrong with having daily orgasms, they’re actually super healthy for you, but taking the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/23 11:06 AM |
| 11 | NSFW: sex is unbearable for me (F18) to the point where i feel so weak and i can’t satisfy my partner (M20)Go to a pelvic floor therapist, vaginarehabdoctor on Instagram is great for instructional posts and videos on it | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/05/23 12:02 PM |
| 3 | Why Your “Fat Reduction” Workouts Aren’t Working.This, absolutely this 🙌🏼 I started a weight lifting booty program after taking a year off of regular exercise (former dancer) and worked my muscles so hard I essentially injured myself. Once I was healed enough to start again I did pilates for a few months before re-attempting and it helped so much. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/05/23 01:32 PM |
| 18 | Am I ignoring red flags?Yeah, this guy isn’t it love. He will cheat on you, he said it to your face, and (I say this with love) it’s on you if it happens because you decided to give him a chance to do it (as in, you ignored the warning). It’s like being with a man who says he doesn’t want anything serious and getting upset because he hasn’t committed to you. You feel me? Best of luck, there are so many incredible men out there that want monogamous relationships with a beautiful woman, so don’t give up❤️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/23 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Can someone kindly assess me unicorn list and tell me if I need to lower my standards?Okay love, I just read your edit, I really mean it with love and kindness when I say you need a feminine therapist, counsellor, or mentor who can help you with your self love and self value. That is where you need to start. A romantic partner will not fill that hole for you. I personally recommend the work and spaces of Sri Namaste Moore, I think her work would be really beneficial to you. She is iamnamastemoore on TikTok and I think it would be a good place to start. Best of luck on your journe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Can someone kindly assess me unicorn list and tell me if I need to lower my standards?So, and correct me if I’m wrong, if you meet a man that has all of your requirements but is of a different racial background, you’re not interested? I think you’re doing yourself a disservice by having these traits in here, there are plenty of loving, devoted, masculine men in this world and many of them are from different backgrounds than your own. You’re really shortening your potential roster with these. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/23 05:17 PM |
| 5 | Can someone kindly assess me unicorn list and tell me if I need to lower my standards?Height, ethnicity, hair amount, and potentially weight. Moral and value standards are SO much more important than those. I would say you’re allowed to have one, but not all 4, if you meet a man that has all 4 then that’s great but tbh they should be last on your list. About weight, if you desire a man who prioritizes health and fitness then that’s completely understandable, and it’s unlikely those type of men would be overweight, but they may not be built like Greek gods either. I get the impres… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/23 11:14 AM |
| 1 | looking to date again; how to express my no sex (ever) boundary to prospective dates before meeting?Hey love, sorry about the harshness of my comment last night, this is a sensitive subject for me as well and it got the best of me. It’s understandable why you would feel this way after experiencing sexual assault, your body naturally goes into preservation mode when it feels unsafe, but living it a state of perpetual fear and protection will hinder you in the long run. Continue with the therapy. Sex is meant to be a loving, fun, connective experience between spouses and is very important in rel… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/23 02:57 PM |
| 2 | looking to date again; how to express my no sex (ever) boundary to prospective dates before meeting?Okay so I’m going to be real with you, you seem confused. Perhaps I’m confused. You say you enjoy sex and that you’re not asexual, but you never want to have sex again. Huh? I mean like that’s your business, but it is incredibly unfair to seek a monogamous relationship with someone who is not asexual. My advice would be to continue doing therapy and healing, further understand your own sexuality and maybe start seeking a partner after you have a better understanding. If you’re still completely a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/23 12:37 AM |
| 10 | Advice for being softer & more feminineCultivate and practice mindfulness, when you are mindful about speech you not only sound how you want but also say things in a more intentional way | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/23 04:27 PM |
| 3 | What traits of femininity are usually good for you but can sometimes also become a weaknessIt isn’t about which traits cause weakness, it’s about having necessary things in place like boundaries that are important. I’m a very agreeable, loving, and forgiving person, none of these are inherent weaknesses when paired with solid boundaries. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/23 04:25 PM |
| 2 | He said he is going to marry meIt’s posts like this that make my day, this is so special❤️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/23 12:49 AM |
| 2 | How do you dress to the gym?I either have my legs showing or arms showing, and usually a slip of midriff, but never both. It depends on the weather tbh. I like wearing matching sets because it encourages me to work harder (the confidence boost, ya know?) a pair of biker shorts and a boyfriend T or hoodie is usually a solid fit, or baggy sweats with a form fitting t or crop. If you’re worried you can always bring a sweater to wear or tie around your waist to cover your bum. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/23 10:54 PM |
| 0 | Do people in traditional marriages feel more content, but bored, compared to feministic marriages where there's more drama?Relationships don’t get boring when you understand that your spouse is an ever growing, ever changing human, and put in the effort to get to know about them and understand them every single day. Also, make the effort to grow and evolve yourself every day. And make an effort with your spouse to grow together, instead of just separately. Set individual and couple goals. This is exciting, it leads to new experiences, newfound passions, constant curiosity, etc. Boredom is the absence of curiosity. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/23 03:02 PM |
| 4 | Moving onBest wishes, you’ll be missed❤️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/23 01:19 AM |
| 1 | My (20) boufriend (19) seems to not want a SAHM and it’s the only thing i want. PLEASE ADVISEIt doesn’t matter how good other people say he is, you’re the one in the relationship. You see things they don’t, to the magnitude of what they’ll never understand from him. I was in 2 abusive, LTR when I was in my teens, both of my ex boyfriends threatened suicide regularly. It’s an abusive manipulation tactic to appeal to your empathy. I’m sorry to tell you but it’s a much bigger red flag than his potential dislike towards you being a SAHW/M. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/23 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Internalized misogynyThank you for sharing! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/23 04:47 PM |
| 33 | Internalized misogynyFeminists regularly hold internalized misogyny themselves. Believing that: Women are victims? We have no power? Killing ourselves for the corporate world is more valuable than building a fulfilling family structure? Femininity is vapid and weak? That’s much more hateful than anything we post about. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/23 04:29 PM |
| 2 | All about being FeminineYes I love Evie! | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/23 03:21 PM |
| 6 | All about being FeminineI’ve been really into Fascinating Womanhood’s YouTube and Instagram channels. I absolutely LOVE Dixie and Cherry. Also, Sri Namaste Moore is THE feminine guide. No one compares to her and her wisdom. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/23 11:06 PM |
| 1 | How do I upgrade myself and become a HVW?Hiya! Just a quick question about this: you mean at a time, right? | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/22 09:15 PM |
| 1 | [NSFW] Is there any benefit in NoFap for women?LOL I just realized this post is like 3y old. Take this info as you will😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/22 03:32 PM |
| 1 | [NSFW] Is there any benefit in NoFap for women?Mindful masturbation and orgasms are super healthy for you, but masturbating like a dude to quickly “bust one out” can actually lead to less satisfying experiences, causing the need for more orgasms in one session whereas you’d usually be fulfilled with one or 2. Also I think it needs to be said that the regular use of vibrators can cause clitoral numbness and lessened satisfaction. I’m not saying they’re bad, but they (much like porn) are like sexual junk food, great to indulge in every so ofte… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | How often are you asked about your sexual history?Okay love, I’m going to level with you without judgement. I think, if you haven’t already, join SAA meetings and get yourself a therapist/counsellor that specializes in treating SA. You’re feeling these things because likely you think they make you unworthy of being loved as a wife or partner. This isn’t true. The work that needs to be done is inside, you need to come to terms with and learn the lesson that is being presented to you through this trial. You can make it through this, if you try an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/22 01:27 PM |
| 6 | How do I get my boyfriend to propose marriage?Aweee thank you sweetness!! Best of luck with everything! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/22 12:54 AM |
| 32 | How do I get my boyfriend to propose marriage?Hi love! I only bring this up to ask because men and women regard this topic differently. How many wins does he have? (Graduations, promotions, a good job, goals accomplished etc) and does he have enough money to support you and the bills? Being able to provide for a woman can play a factor in marriage for younger guys, if he does have the intent of you being his wife. I know for some women, we see marriage as a “we will do what we have to do to make the rest work, but I want you and only you fo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/22 06:00 PM |
| 3 | How often are you asked about your sexual history?Hey love, unless you have an STI or reproductive damage from one, I wouldn’t bring it up unless you personally want to to a man who has offered commitment to you. Disclosing that to a potential person you’re dating is very different from a boyfriend or fiancé, personally if my boyfriend asked I would ask “are you sure you would like me to tell you?” And then have a mature conversation about it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/22 01:06 PM |
| 5 | How often are you asked about your sexual history?Regarding that last sentence I completely agree. But in that same instance, a woman with a higher body count who doesn’t have any lasting repercussions (incurable STI, STI damage, child out of wedlock) may have much favourable values than a virgin who would bed anyone who’d have her, or blow anyone who’d ask. Low body count doesn’t always indicate sexual purity or morals. My point (that I may not have explained very well) is that you’re going to have a better indication of someone’s values if yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/22 12:53 PM |
| 3 | How often are you asked about your sexual history?I’ve been asked, but never on a date or anything romantic. Usually in a casual setting by other girls. Edit: My love still doesn’t know about it because he said it doesn’t matter to him. He’s never asked. If a man really is serious about you then he will not see a reason to ask, and if he’s a guy who it REALLY matters to then he’s going to have to have lower standards for a lot of other qualities. Guys having the standard for his wife being a virgin is like a woman bearing the standard of only m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/22 11:10 PM |
| 1 | What do you like to wear for just lounging around the house?If you’re in warmer weather I find patterned cotton maxi dresses a cardigan, and some cute house slippers/slides are sweet. If you’re somewhere colder, matching soft sets (like cashmere or a copycat fabric) are nice and classy but still warm. Someone else said some legging or flattering yoga pants (the V waist bands on some new ones make you look super snatched) maybe with a crop top and long cardigan. Those are my go tos. I’m trying to find some second hand sets because, well, the chemicals use… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | What do you like to wear for just lounging around the house?Currently enduring the beginning of winter in Eastern Canada. I usually wore cotton maxi or midi dresses in the warmer weather but it’s difficult this time of year to wear something other than sweats :( | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/22 02:24 PM |
| 4 | I have a higher libido than my bf but I still caught him wathching porn instead of having sex with meYou’re not alone honey, I understand how much that hurts. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/22 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Adhd housewife failingHey babe! Similar boat here, I’ve found that morning and evening routines are essential. If my morning routine is disrupted I’m off kilter for a couple of days motivationally. Also a couple of other things I’ve found helps me: • Set alarms/events/notification reminders on your phone for specific things you have to remember. • Reduce exposure to procrastination triggers (mine is social media on my phone, I have time limits set and have the apps deleted) • Have rewards in place for specific tasks:… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/22 01:50 PM |
| 3 | How to initiate sex without initiating sex...?Yes, that is what I’m saying. I have the higher sex drive in the relationship and there is very rarely a time I’m not interested in sex or physical intimacy. I keep myself on ‘simmer’, if you will. He is situationally turned on. It’s almost like, how you’d think the situation would be for female and male sex drives are swapped. But I still am submissive and want to be pursued, and he still is into being the pursuer😂 it’s a complicated dilemma. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | What birth control method(s) has been highly effective and comfortable for you?Natural cycles!! I love and it’s 100% hormone free, plus it feels incredible to be in tune with my own natural menstrual cycle (no pun intended lol) just be sure to use condoms, a diaphragm, or abstain during your red days. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | What birth control method(s) has been highly effective and comfortable for you?Natural cycles!! I love and it’s 100% hormone free, plus it feels incredible to be in tune with my own natural menstrual cycle (no pun intended lol) just be sure to use condoms, a diaphragm, or abstain during your red days. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Question: What is femininity? What is submission?Femininity is what pertains to women. It’s simple as that, and it’s infinite. Women do not have an inner masculine as is the popular belief, and anything and everything in your life can be done from your feminine. There is a feminine Yin and Yang, fem. Yin is what is typically seen as ‘traditional or stereotypical’ femininity and the fem. Yang is what most would consider their inner masc. which is business, money, leadership, strategy, etc. This philosophy is from Sri Namaste Moore, she’s on Fac… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Joint Finances: The Stay Plan Can Be the Go PlanImo, having a secret, back up bank account is like your husband having a secret back up woman. It breaks trust and would be absolutely crushing to find out about. The only reason I would have individual bank accounts with my spouse is if we were both able to financially benefit from it (both making interest, saving on taxes, etc.) The words Secret and Husband should never go together. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/22 01:27 AM |
| 20 | What are your views on grooming and how do you deal with facing sudden fears about your relationship after watching RP content?I hate to break it to you love, but if you dread seeing him so very much that you vomit when you go to see him then that is a very bad sign. 39 years old is a fully grown man, not a boy. I have nothing against age gaps but you two were together before you were legally an adult, and that rubs me the wrong way. A responsible adult wouldn’t put a minor in that position, you deserve a responsible captain. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/22 10:56 PM |
| 2 | How to initiate sex without initiating sex...?Ou girl, if you haven't tried this yet I would definitely recommend: coat your lips in vaseline or aquaphor and wait a lil bit, then rub it off with a wet washcloth lightly exfoliating as you go. After that's done add another layer of aquaphor or another lip balm, apply a liner, apply your lipstick then voila! It always makes my lips look so soft and plump, and keeps your lipstick on for longer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/22 11:32 AM |
| 2 | 17 Attraction TriggersI know this is an old post that's been deleted, but can we please reupload it? I'm curious as to what it had to say. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/22 07:13 PM |
| 1 | How to initiate sex without initiating sex...?I love this thank you! 🙌🏼🙏🏼 | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/22 11:27 AM |
| 5 | How to initiate sex without initiating sex...?Thank you for your insight I really appreciate it🙏🏼 I have talked to him about it and he usually says he doesn’t know😂 I’ll just do some random thing that’ll sometimes turn him on, he won’t know what I did and neither will I. Tbh, just seeing the amount of women that feel the same way as I do has helped so much, sometimes being the HL woman can feel like you’re broken or strange or something lol so it feels really relieving to know I’m not alone💕 | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/22 11:26 AM |
| 2 | How to initiate sex without initiating sex...?I’m glad you understand, thank you! Casual nudity works but doesn’t😂 he likes seeing me naked and I’m a bit of a nudist around the house but it doesn’t usually lead to spicy times. It’ll get him going when he knows I’m ‘doing the do’ myself and there are definitely times where he’s joined me and that’s always fun. I think he’s more turned on by the thought of me pleasing myself than him pleasing me. Cute stuff is a fabulous suggestion tho, he’s told me that my cute sunshiney personality in the m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/22 11:22 AM |
| 8 | How to initiate sex without initiating sex...?Love this | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/22 11:09 PM |
| 4 | How to initiate sex without initiating sex...?What a great suggestion, thank you! I think I asked him to do it a while ago, it was mostly vanilla favouring dominance/predator and mine is like 100% brat lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/22 09:33 PM |
| 5 | How to initiate sex without initiating sex...?Lol same! Gotta do the 10 step routine every night! My bf said to me a couple of nights ago “can’t you just do that stuff tomorrow morning?” I’m like “ that’s not how it works”😂 So the thing is, I’m very comfortable with initiating, I actually like it and it makes me feel sexy, but he doesn’t like it when I try to initiate, I think he’s turned off by feeling chased. It’s like I have to initiate in a way that makes him feel like it was his idea and he’s in control, you know what I mean?😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/22 07:55 PM |
| 2 | How to initiate sex without initiating sex...?Lol I think you might have but it’s okay, I appreciate you taking the time to contribute💕 | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/22 07:26 PM |
| 3 | How to initiate sex without initiating sex...?Thanks, I’ll give that a go! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/22 06:37 PM |
| 11 | How to initiate sex without initiating sex...?I’M SO HAPPY YOU UNDERSTAND. My bf hates lip products and will barely peck me when I wear them (but he will very sweetly kiss my head which is nice) and doesn’t like the feeling of lotion/oil/sticky skin of any kind so slowly applying lotion in front of him is out😂 The thigh highs work but unfortunately that can’t be the only tool in my box lol so I’ve come here for more inspo | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | How to initiate sex without initiating sex...?Can you please elaborate?😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/22 06:16 PM |
| 5 | How to initiate sex without initiating sex...?Haha okay thank you that helps. I know what you’re saying, but they problem is getting him to actually want to do that. I don’t just mean like PinV intercourse, I also mean like being involved sexually. That includes manual stim, oral, hot dog taco😆, etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/22 05:26 PM |
| 4 | How to initiate sex without initiating sex...?He’s pretty vanilla when it comes to kinks, he usually tells we when he does and I’m eager to try it lol. Thank you tho for the sympathy, sometimes it can feel lonely being a woman with a higher drive then your man, like I’m broken or something. So thanks for making me feel not so alone💕 | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/22 05:21 PM |
| 6 | How to initiate sex without initiating sex...?…hot dog taco? Lol tried the ear thing, he really doesn’t like having his ears touched or whispered into | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/22 05:12 PM |
| 70 | My bf(20 M) doesn’t like how I dressHey beautiful! I went through something similar, I made the mistake of swapping my vibrant, fun, girly wardrobe for one that was, frankly, plain (t shirts, jeans, sneakers) all to please my boyfriend at the time. It felt awful. I felt so unlike myself that even after we broke up I was too self conscious to wear what I actually liked. I personally would not recommend doing what I did, he made me dim my shine to make him feel more comfortable, don’t ever do that for anyone. If he can’t get past wh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/22 12:53 PM |
| 2 | High Body Count Woman (27 years old)-Advice on finding a decent guy where we can accept one another's pasts?Sending support and compassion, thank you for sharing your story. Letting you know, 8 isn't considered a high NCount so I wouldn't worry love. Also, I know you said about your experience at 22 (I think) when you woke up being penetrated but don't consider it assault, that's your call. Something similar happened to me, though I didn't consider it to be assault either I still felt violated from the experience, it's okay if you feel violated from it (or not). Even fully consensual experiences can f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/22 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Black femininity/traditional channels?Sri Namaste Moore! Most of her stuff is on Tik Tok and Facebook but she has the most solid, holistic view on femininity that I know of and it’s so beautiful. More Soft Life less Boss Babe content. She is very married, but she does offer a lot of advice to single women. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/22 04:41 PM |
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