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I just edited my comment to give more info
/r/seduction23/07/26 07:58 AM
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Honestly no-one should be on a pedestal. In regard to beauty they should only be more attractive than other women that’s it. Their beauty says nothing bout them s a person. That’s how you escape that mindset. If you want a better answer, just be willing to walk away. You can approach women and have standards beyond beauty. You can also become comfortable with being rejected, which requires putting yourself out there and failing.
/r/seduction23/07/26 07:57 AM
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Please be normal
/r/seduction21/07/26 04:07 AM
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No bro you just arent using the term game the way OP was. Youre talking about something completely different….
/r/seduction18/07/26 11:26 PM
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No. Youre just talking about physical appearance and the game of dating. The post is talking about game in regard to having the ability to seduce a woman by what you do and say. Come on now bro
/r/seduction18/07/26 06:37 PM
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Thats not game….
/r/seduction18/07/26 03:28 PM
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You need ti let people know what you mean by attractive.
/r/seduction18/07/26 12:08 PM
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Have you ever considered that the girl who called you gay is a human capable of being judged as a mean spirited asshole?
/r/seduction18/07/26 12:07 PM
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This post provides no new data or insight into anything helpful. Its just buzzwords and its honestly bad advice. Shoot your shot at whoever tf you want and dont care about rejection.
/r/seduction18/07/26 11:55 AM
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Whatever dude
/r/seduction13/07/26 06:55 PM
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If you fear rejection, thats why you should do it
/r/seduction13/07/26 03:35 PM
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I see. So rather than be forward and indifferent, be indirect, neurotic and never shoot you shot.
/r/seduction13/07/26 03:35 PM
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In part. I guess the issue is that people need to know the purpose of the book and their own goal with it. Imo, as someone whose been prwcticing zen for a while, being in the present without worrying about thoughts makes you a profound listener and very socially attractive. Some people approach women and just get wrestled around by their emotions and they become anti seductive. If they could power out of that, find their stillness, and mindfully seduce them they would get more from their interac…
/r/seduction13/07/26 03:33 PM
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I wouldnt say so. Sutting down meditating is an incredibly boring practice and when done for a long time, the amount of will power to forego your emotions and impulses in order to stay focused, at least in my experience, is much harder than actually being bold in life because, in meditation, you learn to be okay without needing intense momentary pleasure that is so tempting. Ive been meditating for a decade, and recently sarted 40 minutes of zen every morning. Through this detachment, ive lost a…
/r/seduction13/07/26 03:31 PM
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I dont understand the question. What would need to be different about how you implement it there versus the advice I just gave? At the end of the day, if you want to flirt and seduce women, you have to follow the steps I layed out and that simple pickup will teach you eventually. You will have to approach and you will need to express interest and escalate. But at Work is a slippery slope. Dont even think about them right now. Honestly its a bit odd that its people you work with you want to apply…
/r/seduction13/07/26 03:28 PM
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Honestly, follow simple pickup project go on youtube. Go to their playlist here https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLPvPi1qnjwR1T7UMSodSh0KFZN-tyHcop&si=Lmm54SAEjYrtufkS and then watch the project go episodes. I have watched tons of stuff online for pickup, but the only people who managed to incentivize me to get the fuck up and approach girls and get dates were them. They have good tips and after going over those fundamentals they have videos of themselves actually approaching women. They essent…
/r/seduction13/07/26 02:58 AM
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Just approach. Girls will appreciate confidence 10/10 times and if she rejects you its not personal.
/r/seduction11/05/26 04:47 PM
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Get your priorities straight dude. For me personally, sex isnt worth putting in effort into a girl I dont feel I could date and thats just me knowing me. Emotionally it would drain me. You need to know yourself. I recently was talking to someone and they were clearly into me but I wasnt them and it influenced how hard I even tried to pull her. After that going wrong, I understood how my own lack of interest played a part and, personally, I made a choice to not even try to push myself to go for g…
/r/seduction11/05/26 04:41 PM
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PUA have always been right. Back in the day simple pickup was the standard. Nowadays theyd get laughed at even though they would be getting a ton of dates today
/r/seduction11/05/26 04:17 PM
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Expressing interest and moving the relationship forward.
/r/seduction11/05/26 04:16 PM
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Not really true. To take action you need courage. Confidence typically comes after noticing positive results from your actions.
/r/seduction06/05/26 04:58 AM
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I think you’re glossing over the process of what trial and error taught you that would actually coincide with learning those things like your blocks, avoided emotions and behavioral problems. In fact these are just phrases that are factors in a naturally process for building a good relationship.
/r/seduction06/05/26 04:54 AM
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Healthcare (including fitness), education, law (maybe), marketing, music, acting
/r/seduction13/03/26 03:56 PM
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Trust your gut. Personally I would just communicate to her you dont appreciate talking about other people she’s seeing. See how she responds to that. I wouldnt appreciate it either and it has happened to me before. Its a game.
/r/seduction28/01/26 01:17 AM
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Personally I dont believe its classy to talk about other people youre seeing to someone youre seeing. If they both know they arent looking for anything long term then fine, but it’s still not right. Its inviting a feeling of the person competing with someone else. Its playing games
/r/seduction28/01/26 01:12 AM
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??? Stfu
/r/seduction15/07/25 04:56 PM
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Confidence, emotional independence, courage/bravery, showing off skills/talents, being playfully challenging, oh yea and confidence.
/r/seduction11/07/25 04:37 PM
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Just to emphasize points made here, its when you take care of your weight, fitness and appearance and are nice energy to be around.
/r/seduction27/06/25 07:29 AM
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I feel like this is inadvertently the wrong thing to say because youre letting the dude know you think highly of the girl.
/r/seduction09/07/24 03:38 AM
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I try and meditate every weekday morning for 30 minutes, and every weekday night for 10. But you dont have to start out that long as a beginner. I suggest trying the 5 minute meditation first and seeing whether or not that time works or if you should go up or down in length.
/r/seduction31/10/22 01:54 AM
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I try and meditate every weekday morning for 30 minutes, and every weekday night for 10. But you dont have to start out that long as a beginner. I suggest trying the 5 minute meditation first and seeing whether or not that time works or if you should go up or down in length.
/r/seduction31/10/22 01:54 AM
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Im there with you. Its really to just keep pressing on and to find one improvement you can make everytime you go out. Whether it be going out and simply being comfortable in your own space, and then next time going out and then making the next move to simply talk to more people, and then going out and then having the incentive to not care as much about how other people see you. If you persist and continue to find areas you can improve no matter how small, you will continue to grow. Just pay atte…
/r/seduction29/10/22 05:09 PM
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I agree with the other commenter. Meditation should help you if you practice it regularly. I as well used to have issues standing up for myself and being pretty beta. Its the working out, meditation and habits like cold showering that built up my emotional resilience. Working out should help a bunch and is the most recomended in my book as that has an extreme anount of benifits, next I would say meditation because that is scientifically proven to lower activity in the amygdala and promote sereto…
/r/seduction29/10/22 07:55 AM
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Stop trolling
/r/seduction03/10/22 02:55 PM
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Not here to give advice, but to admire your mentality to improve yourself.
/r/seduction19/09/22 12:20 AM
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Masculinity is somewhat frowned upon even though its the most effective way to get women is being masculine. Most men are taught that their basic masculine urge of desire is wrong, and they reject it.
/r/seduction23/07/22 12:26 AM
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Bro the fact that you are wanting her to approach you again after she stated she was married with kids is pathetic. Please just move on to the next.
/r/seduction23/06/22 05:08 PM
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They like the attention. Take it from them.
/r/seduction23/06/22 04:48 PM
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What do you mean by “comes around whenever I see her again”?
/r/seduction23/06/22 03:37 PM
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My general goal is to build experience gaining my confidence in flirting with and approaching women. Its primarily to build up my game. Getting a girlfriend would be a nice plus but I wouldnt want my first serious relationship to be with someone who has a kid lol. Ive had relationships before, but they were not mature relationships. I had no game in the past and was, and still sort of am, bad with physical escalation and all of the good stuff that led to having sex and making out and so forth. S…
/r/seduction07/04/22 10:49 PM
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You realize that youre being fucking selfish. You want her so bad to the point where you dont care what she has to deal with if she were to get caught cheating with you, how it would effect her relationship with he family most importantly. She has her own life, she found someone else because she realized there could be someone else and you still havent rralized that yet. Edited: I have read other comments and can acknowledge that this one is aggressive. But sooner or later you will realize that …
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:28 PM
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🔥🔥
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:20 PM
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My thoughts are that you should realize that you were dumb here. Accept that reality and dont make that mistake again. You need to make it your goal right now to unlearn the need to overthink and to learn how to stay present with the situation.
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:18 PM
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I agree you have to feel something, thats why I advocate for balance. Its not good to be an emotionless void like I said. And at this point after practicing so much I can be intensely energetic when I feel I genuinely want to be because I have taken more risks to know myself a bit more. Thanks for the response. I think I still have some figuring out of myself to be done. I have just learnt that a cold predisposition tends to come more naturally to me, so Im trying to be as genuine to myself as p…
/r/seduction05/03/22 03:18 PM
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Like another post said, you have that self awareness of your shortcomings that is, surprisingly, somewhat rare because people often cant be objective when they are rejected. All you need to do is keep at it and learn from your mistakes.
/r/seduction11/02/22 01:27 PM
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Being interesting is a part of the having personality and personal interests
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:11 PM
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Something about what you list makes me think that your system of thought revolves around girls being attracted enough to face value things that they will eventually do all the work to make it happen for you. As someone who isnt even that successful with women, I’ll tell you that that doesnt work. Be confident that you’re already an attractive dude, and work on other things like being present in a conversation and being playful and confidently flirtatious. Women are emotional creatures and, while…
/r/seduction18/01/22 03:20 AM
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Bet. I needed this. Thanks bro.
/r/seduction31/12/21 04:03 PM
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Thats not really the point. Its moreso about how society views these things as bad and how its necessary to learn it anyway. Im just trying to reinforce whether or not its necessary to cold approach. I dont walk around fearing death, I couldve used any other example, I just chose something relative to what I like to do, which is train martial arts for fun, and I used a stigma people have around the morality of fighting, but why its necessary to know how to fight.
/r/seduction31/12/21 03:21 PM
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Waxing I hear is much better to reduce hair growth than shaving. Height: Well how old are you. If you are under 20 you can maximize your height by streching your spine. There are videos online. Pretty much in your teens the cartillage in your spine hasnt fully hardened yet, so there is still room for growth of that cartillage to enable growth in height.If you are over 20, you could maybe add half an inch by the same means, including having better posture. Gym: calisthenics should be enough. Most…
/r/seduction30/12/21 06:06 PM
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I agree to just work on the fundamentals like body language, eye contact, vocal tonality like down talking instead of up talking, probably even more smiling cause that can go a really long way. Just focus on one thing each pickup cause it seems you already do it often and youll improve. You have a good mindset about this I believe.
/r/seduction21/08/21 02:51 PM
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