UnreadChapter Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Telling the Kids without Wife	UnreadChapter	/r/Divorce_Men	02/08/25 08:41 AM
7	Wife reduced hours	UnreadChapter	/r/Divorce_Men	10/11/25 05:22 AM
6	Opinions	UnreadChapter	/r/Divorce_Men	28/11/25 10:01 PM
6	Teenagers, Divorce, Household	UnreadChapter	/r/Divorce_Men	14/10/25 05:04 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	She pulled the pin today Hard luck man, we all made bad choices here. I get you on the performative parenting and you’re the problem. I had this. Take the opportunity to get away from this woman, break the bond while you’re in the early stages. You’re lucky, you’re still young, I played along with her nonsense till my 50”s and she pulled the plug then. It’s sounds like she might start playing games around access, be careful.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/26 09:56 AM
1	Oh, Now she wants to deal... From the pen of a woman ?	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/26 05:34 AM
2	26 years together meant nothing 22 years married, wife filed out of the blue. You’re 46, still young so you’re lucky. Get out quickly. Move on. Some good woman will want your children.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/26 10:08 AM
4	I think it is time The resentment over retirement got me. My wife hated me working from home, I dreaded retirement for this reason. Her parents had a shit relationship, she tried to create the same situation in our marriage. Do what’s right for you, it doesn’t sound like your wife has your back.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/11/25 06:07 PM
2	Opinions Yes the desire for revenge after a silver bullet divorce is strong. My wife is an out and out narcissist so she combined the what was the harshest discard with false accusations of aggression and intimidation. Shes not the brightest however and was easily led by a manipulative sister and a snake of a lawyer.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/11/25 09:52 AM
12	Making it... somehow For me it ended very abruptly, she refuse to engage in therapy for herself or us. She is a narcissist and this was the final discard. I later discovered I most likely raised another man son as my own for 20 years. I’ve learned the hard way that my wife was wired for deception, contempt, and self-interest. She was an opportunist that would do anything for admiration from other men.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/11/25 08:22 AM
1	Opinions I will but don’t want it messing me up just yet.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/11/25 10:24 PM
1	Second divorce. Struggling and hurting. Would like some advice or thoughts. Was she really choked & raped? I daren’t think the lines my STBXW will spin about me.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/11/25 11:46 PM
5	Divorce to have freedom. Regrets? Oh, if only to have a woman that “loves me dearly”.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/09/25 06:35 AM
2	Telling the boy Just went through this. My wife’s refusal to tell our late adolescent teenagers was a feature of her controlling both me and the narrative. I asked her to go to counselling so we could agree a path forward which would include telling the children. She refused and threatened me. I sent her an email with this proposal including a date I intended to tell the children. She could be there or not. She didn’t respond, I sent a reminder giving her more time. She didn’t respond to the reminder. I discuss…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/25 07:39 AM
3	Almost divorced and wife is not moving a finger to save it From what you have said here it’s game over. You might be better off practicing radical acceptance and moving on. If you get sole custody of your son that’s a result many of us could only dream of. Your wife seems to have totally exited the marriage. A woman that prefers to live life as a single, and is content to give up the mother child relationship with her son is very odd. It’s tragic. My wifes behaviour in our divorce is very strange and the welfare of our children is surprisingly taking a …	/r/Divorce_Men	03/08/25 09:36 PM