The wife finally told me she was done and didn't care weather I was at home or not anymore. Been married 18 months together for 3 years before marriage. We have a 1 year old. I'm fucking mad bro. Why even have this beautiful child with me and then pull this shit.

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Her reason is that I wasn't there for her when she needed it. Her postpartum journey wasn't what she wanted it to be. Was working 60 hour weeks to supplement the income she wasn't able to to make because she wanted to be home more with the baby. Mad that I couldn't just leave work when she had bad days, felt alone that she had to take out baby to get vaccinated on her own. Felt as though I wasn't an active partner because I was working all the time.

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She's done and now I'm moving into our spare room. She wants to Co parent under the same roof and I'm not fucking keen on it. Can't grieve or heal if we are in the same space.

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Now Its just weird silences and the way she's interacting with our child almost feels fake? Like over the top of that makes sense?

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She's been saying she's done and want to call it quits constantly over the past couple years, she then comes good again and things are good for a month or so then boom the threat of leaving. She didn't understand that I said the constant threat was damaging and made it hard for me to fully commit to trying to fix the issues.

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Anyways will see how tomorrow goes I guess

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