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Usernameisguest/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 05:47 AM
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Usernameisguest/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 10:07 PM
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Right?! I think it’s more “I will be the one that makes him settle down” thing. Last couple of flings I had ended when they started to get real feelings and like I said, I am very upfront in the fact I’m not looking for that at all. They break it off when they start becoming really attached. I won’t introduce any of them to my daughter and will go AWOL often due to my work schedule and custody time. I work a lot of 12’s and absolutely ignore my phone during family time. Mix in the fact I meet th…
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/26 02:41 PM
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I love woman but also really love being single. I don’t answer to anyone and the only other person I really have to worry about is my kid. I have had one serious relationship since the divorce and honestly I will say I am way happier being care free at this time. I have always had pretty good success with finding new woman and I’m always very upfront about everything so never feel like I’m taking advantage. Though a small part of me does feel like they think they will “fix me”…but I know I’m not…
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/26 12:50 PM
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I know you want to be the nice person here but you have to say no. You guys are join her together so she needs to figure this out on her own.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 10:49 PM
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In my state when you out the money in a joint account it becomes joint. Any inheritance money you kept in just your name is just yours.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 09:45 PM
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Engaged but not yet officially remarried. My marriage broke down because we became roommates essentially and didn’t truly treat each other with respect due. We started dating in highschool and did the marriage and kid thing because that’s what you are supposed to do. We grew apart and towards the end didn’t even really even like each other. My current partner is way more nurturing and treats me amazingly in even small ways. The first year we were dating she made a surprise birthday party for me …
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/25 03:54 PM
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My ex is objectively a really good person. Doesn’t mean she was good to me though.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/25 02:12 PM
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Thanks. I don’t see any reason why I would not be able to get joint custody but still was not surprised about her going after primary custody. The her also suing for me to pay to sue myself was just shocking. I have never heard of anything like that before.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 10:28 PM
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This comment is gold
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 05:07 PM
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I didn’t care about her changing it to mine when we married. She did it after the kiddo. It’s not an inconvenience now either. I just don’t like it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 06:26 AM
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Good response actually. I did say it was a petty thing though. She works in a profession where she is called Mrs.<my last name> I just don’t want her to be able to use it anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 06:15 AM
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Same and same. First question to my attorney was “I know it is a long shot but can I get my name back” She wants the same last name as our kid but I really don’t like it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 06:08 AM
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Because if she wants to be a miserable cunt she can do it with her old name. I know it’s childish but it is really bothering me
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 06:00 AM
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If you ever need anyone to talk to hit me up brother. You can dm me and we can talk on the phone if you need it. You don’t need to waste your thoughts on that type of shit man.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/25 04:26 AM
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At the end of my marriage our sex life was the only good thing about our relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/25 03:00 PM
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Depends on the day my friend.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/25 01:04 AM
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That’s actually an amazing compliment. Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/24 03:32 AM
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Most everyone has some narcissistic traits to a degree. When they are your ex you always usually remember the worst parts of them. When all you think about is the shitty part of a person you will look at them in a very negative light. On my side everyone tells me my ex is a narc (and she does have some traits) but I personally don’t like throwing the term out myself. A raging bitch sure…but I don’t like watering it down for the actual narcs that are out there.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/24 01:50 AM
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I have started seeing someone pretty seriously but it happened on accident. I was casually dating a lot and ended up meeting an incredible woman. I’m def not ruching into moving on together for sure but sometimes shit just happens.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/24 04:01 PM
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Exactly how it goes. I never chase at all though I am willing to pursue the right person. There is a huge difference between the two.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/24 08:45 PM
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I live by the abundance mindset and have a ton of success. I am currently moving into an exclusive relationship with a wonderful woman but I was able to find her through abundance. Previous to this I was constantly dating 3-5 woman at a time and they would chase me because when you have options you never come across as needy because…well you are the opposite of that.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/24 02:57 PM
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Boom.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 03:23 PM
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Start having lots of conversations with strangers to start. Confidence comes from competence and competence comes from experience. You will find the more conversations you have with random people it becomes way easier to sound interesting and keep conversation flowing naturally.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 03:14 PM
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I think it is def about 10-20% of guys getting 80% of the woman. I usually keep 3-5 different woman in rotation at all times and have quit a few single friends that struggle with getting a single date. I legit have more options then time to be able to see them all. When you figure out how attraction actually works it opens up an entire different set of dating problems.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 03:09 PM
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I might need to put a little more effort into the apps.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 02:49 PM
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Going for two in the same day right now. Just got back to the house and about to hop in the shower before number two
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/24 11:42 PM
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Do you do many approaches or mainly use online for your dates?
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/24 11:38 PM
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Nice. I actually was a bit worried after mine. I had some heavy chafing on the little guy after that week. I do still usually get 3/4 different over a week still but the perfect week has yet to happen. I’m going to go on a vacation by myself this summer and might go for it then.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/24 11:04 PM
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With you on no nurses or teachers.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/24 08:50 PM
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I don’t know if I have the same level of success as OP but I usually keep 3-5 woman in rotation at almost all times. I use apps a little bit but have found way more success with meeting woman out in the wild. I’m currently dating 5 and I only met one of them from an app. He’s spot on with the fact that confidence and honesty draws them like catnip.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/24 08:48 PM
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I’ve hit 5 in 5 but had the kiddo for the weekend so couldn’t finish the week out. Nice one!
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/24 08:45 PM
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Everywhere. Last few dates I’ve met them as follows: Grocery store, clothing store, gas station and 2 at bars. Surprisingly woman are everywhere. For reference I am 34 so same age range.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 04:15 PM
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It’s likely psychological. Look into NLP
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 03:52 AM
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It works! Great advice.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 01:21 AM
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I’m trying to maintain friendship due to co parenting but it is very difficult at times. She will go from being friendly to massive pain in the ass from one sentence to the next. I maintain the friendly and kind facade at all times but it is very difficult to do when I am being blamed for everything wrong in her life (even though I am no longer really a part of it)
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 08:49 PM
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Take some dance classes. You will be the bell of the ball!
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/23 08:48 AM
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She might still be attracted to the idea of you but not actually attracted to you anymore. Often times a woman’s level of attraction to you can be like a dimmer switch for lights that is nearly constantly changing. She might still be at the 30-40 percent level but the light is not all the way on.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/23 11:58 PM
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I don’t want to reconcile with my sepratee at all and it still bothers me that she has started dating. I have even been dating myself but some days it really hits me in the feels that she is going out with other men. The thing that helps me get through the negative thoughts is telling myself “If she get serious with someone she is their problem from now on”.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/23 06:45 PM
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14 is below age of consent.
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