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PICKME CULTUREValeria_Venn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 11:56 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYValeria_Venn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:57 PM
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🔥🔥FINE AF FRIDAYS🔥🔥Valeria_Venn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 04:45 PM
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Strategy SpotlightValeria_Venn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:05 PM
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She dished out the roast/criticism in such a direct way I couldn't stop myself from showing this to friends. Amazingly well said. Nice guys only have the niceness going on, everything else is highly likely to be mediocre, and niceness is to be expected, not a bonus feature. Why consider niceness to be a great feature, in dating? You're proud to be a good boy, like you actually should be? Weird to say that if you think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 09:57 PM
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Please repost to FDSSuperFans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 09:52 PM
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If you come here to write a paragraph to explain the whole situation and that paragraph is mostly negatives, you're very due for a breakup. Also the monetary value of your belongings at his home, honestly forget about it. Dump him, consider the 500$ lost the cost of your mental peace, and if he returns your stuff, good even better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 05:57 PM
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Insane double standard isn't it. I've seen countless men mock women for buying high quality good stuff. Women that cook are housewives, men that cook are chefs. Women that clean up are doing "what they're supposed to do", men that clean up are "helpful, amazing". Women in research are assumed to be subordinates, men in research are assumed to be leaders. Double standards everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 11:16 PM
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Honestly I consider it very dangerous for the woman: no protection, no legally recognized status, etc. What if he wants to breakup and she's alone? She has a gap in her CV that looks bad to employers and possibly she has children with the scrote BF that dumped her and the legal recourses she has to get child money from daddy that ditched... They're thin. No childmaking, no housemaking without some sort of legal protection. Marriage honestly is better imho for women UNLESS the woman has more asse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 09:00 PM
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Not to say that she settled for the uggo man, that needed her push to glow up. I cringed through the whole movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 04:59 PM
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Easy to find one irrelevant thing to blame all "misery" on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:34 PM
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Attempting to make their point "stronger" and they're being thoughtless of others that weren't expecting sudden noises...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 09:35 PM
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Suggesting therapy is nowadays the lazy way to "solve" things, and ppl do that as a way to not have to call someone out at core. Same thing with depression most ppl are like "go to therapy" but nobody really talks about the mindset changes, environment changes necessary to treat depression and think it's a issue that stems from ppl themselves as if they were encoded to be depressed into their adn lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 05:26 PM
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What an asshole! And you're doing your kiddos a huge favor by keeping them from such a terrible father. The no call on son's birthday is truly terrible too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 10:48 AM
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Aw I like that so much! What ways you found yourself to meet more potentials?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 10:46 AM
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Until around 40ish? years ago in my culture (Quebec, Canada) we used to pick up the husband's last name, but now it is legally forbidden I think. So now, it's only old senior couples that have the same family name. Even if I had the option, I still wouldn't change my name in any way. My diplomas are to my current name, I networked under my current name, and so on. And if a man feels I love him less just because I wouldn't change my last name, he's headed to the trash to be honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 11:58 AM
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30 reports on this post. Cry harder scrotties :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 08:52 PM
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Read the rules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:10 PM
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Me too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:47 AM
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As if 16yos didn't wear nail polish 🙄🙄 shit logic isn't it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:28 PM
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I personally think they might use more physical strategies to induce submission and folding (using physical touch) or share how to abuse women better, via more discreet abuse strategies (financial abuse, psychological abuse, double entendre, etc) that can't be easily proven. Much like rape via coercion isn't easy to prove, they'll use indirect "unpunishable" methods to abuse. I genuinely don't see Redpill guys going for actual self-improvement content and making themselves genuinely attractive a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:38 PM
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Oh sister... You'd be surprised at the audacity of some low value males, I definitely can see how some LVM can see this and buy it for their "better part"".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:55 AM
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Flaired
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:22 AM
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It may sag so much he may need a manbra 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 11:20 PM
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Ew no geriatric dick pls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:29 PM
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Exactly. No tolerance of unsatisfying men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 07:30 PM
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Imagine being such an incompetent man 🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 04:28 PM
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We have insane amounts of reports today 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:26 PM
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Spank the men when they do behave badly, she did good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:13 PM
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I honestly think we should encourage more cohabitation with roommates as a viable alternative to cohabitating with men. At one apartment I lived in, my roommate and I had a rule "no men in the apartment" which kept so nicely PickMe self in check about not inviting men and be exploited.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 03:52 PM
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Seeking a relationship, to be honest. Any FWB/ONS encounter I had in the past turned out to be shit because the guys have 0 incentive to care about your pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:28 PM
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Really glad that you dumped the dead weight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:26 PM
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My sympathies, here too the OLD scene is horrid. Heaps and heaps of LVM scrotties dicking around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:26 PM
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Trash returning to the trashcan!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:25 PM
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"bohoo bohooo muh manhood!" Ah a crappy reason, thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 05:08 PM
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I'd be HIGHLY suspicious of a CF man that adamantly refuses to get setrilization. I've had men tell to my face they refuse to "touch their manhood" to eliminate risks of pregnancy... If all your manhood resides in the integrity of your semen ways, it's weak as fuck sorry mate get it together. It is SO easy for them to get the snip-snip, the surgery costs less, and they're out the hospital within the day and have to take a weekend of rest with a bag of peas. Completely different from what women h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 04:35 PM
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🤏🤏🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 04:28 PM
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Their fragile ego asses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 04:27 PM
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Yeet the manbaby!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 06:12 PM
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Please repost in r/AskFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 02:10 PM
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"ah no, not yet another call of Edward asking about the wolves 🙄"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:22 PM
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VERY real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:55 AM
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We have to manually approve every comment so they display publicly and this is an antitroll measure. Keep the comments up, and a mod will approve them if they're FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 12:29 PM
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And she's a MASSIVE studypo icon to me. Gotta grind like Elle!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:09 AM
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Voilà voilà.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:04 AM
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Yes indeed I'm incredibly shocked at his tackiness, how is he paying for coworkers but NOT for a date, and ESPECIALLY that he invited her? Nah. Just no. Also I've noticed that him saying he's into fine dining AND saying he's fine with whatever restaurant is him saying he's into fine dining to impress her, and revealing his uncultured ass by saying he's fine with whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:03 AM
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WHEEEEEEEEEEEZE how hilarious that they think having an physical preference is akin to abuse 🤡 they need a dictionary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:54 AM
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Funny how they think we're misandrists... If we really were, we simply wouldn't be talking about dating men lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:52 AM
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Nope. Never take the lead especially at the beginning. He didn't text, he isn't that interested. I'd work on buliding the confidence, the more dates you do the more comfortable you'll be doing first meets. But those first meets are obviously the most nerve wrecking. Treat the other as if it was a very old friend you're meeting for the first time in a while, and incarnate that "I don't care much anymore about what you might think, tell me stuff" energy kinda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:51 AM
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There should be a "subscribe" button besides the subreddit's name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:47 AM
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Yes yes... They always are giving free passes to men. I'm sorry for your experience and I really hope hard it won't repeat. Keep that assertive energy 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:45 AM
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Day after day it is gonna get better trust me. The longer the NC is, the stronger you'll be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:37 AM
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Always let go. It's a PUA tactic to either get rid of you (because you're too hard for the PUA) or make you go pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:36 AM
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Removed, please repost to AskFDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:45 PM
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Same thing here. I've done a gym sub for past June but I simply can't do it. I'll upgrade my home gym and bye bye sweaty scrotties!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:49 AM
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That's creepy as fuck of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:15 PM
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Loving this so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:50 PM
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They wanna you to see them doing shit, making sure they get all the credits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:49 PM
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I am childfree myself. I think that besides the whole pregnancy risk that's imposed on us, men also desire a LOT our feminine presence. I've gone on mixed places on the internet (that also happen to be male dominated), and everyday there's always at least one man that cries about craving a GF to have nice dates with and such. Respect towards us women shouldn't be based on our reproduction desire/ability, we should be respected as humans too. Men that don't respect your decision to go childfree s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 02:25 PM
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16 reports on this thread alone. This is a great post, the acrotes are so triggered 🤣🤣 they're acting so butthurt about divorces and marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 09:22 PM
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Yes there's benefit in identifying but clapping back to shitty messages only teaches them how to be better at being shitty. They'll specialize their strategy, their manipulation will be better camo'ed. Fade, get the fuck out, block, delete, forget. That's the only appropriate reply to such people. Clapping back is useless and is actually harmful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:17 PM
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Yep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 01:09 PM
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Asperger's men can absolutely be assholes too. Assholishness doesn't descriminates. Try to get the FUCK out this shit relationship, it may be hard for a while but it's a model of HVMness you're gonna show your son. Imagine if your son learned your husband's ways to be an asshole? Wishing the absolute best for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 01:09 PM
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Oh yes, yes this. I've always instinctively avoided those types, their humor is sometimes very puerile (poop, pee, penis) or just plain gore/depression shit. No bueno.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:42 PM
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Yep exactly! I've never really got the hype around male comedians, and ime female comedians were so much better. But guess who routinely gets bashed down by LVM and Pickmes? The female comedians 🤡 they can't handle that a woman CAN be funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:41 PM
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Yeet him into the sun, asap. This is urgent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:39 PM
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I hope that they divorce and never one.back together. He is not fit for marriagehood and deserves to live single with his rotten moldy mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:38 PM
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Toddler tastes in an adult body 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:36 PM
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If you wanna die from cringe, check out Pete Davidson's apartment tour on YouTube. He is proud to be pornsick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:25 PM
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Ideally he should always be making the first step in everything, from the very beginning. I don't send likes to men, only to women (which is a different dynamic in which FDS principles don't quite apply). I'm not flattering them, THEY should be flattering me lol. I recommend to try to go on very long periods without checking out OLD and checking it sometimes, so that way you're the one matching and not them. Not everyday, but sometimes. I also recommend to declutter the men that didn't send you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:48 AM
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That seriously would be wonderful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:36 AM
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Block. Block. Block everywhere. Set up privacy settings to friends of friends or friends only, check it on every social media you have. Some men are so creepy they will create MANY accounts to harass, stalk, creep on you and this is a negative influence that's absolutely not needed. The break up happened, no need to recap, discuss the breakup, finalize things. It is OVER and those men know it. But they're hoping so hard for a crumble of easy pussy they push and push.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:30 AM
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And if they do have asthma I'm sure they're gonna blame everything and everyone except themselves lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:09 PM
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🤡 expending wasted energy to try to save this clown's awful skin less worse in any way possible so she won't be with a +20 years older looking Scrottie. Ah the pickmeness... You gotta take men as they are, accept as they are, and if that's unsatisfying, goddamn breakup and seek for better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:52 PM
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🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 01:01 PM
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Isssssh that creeps me the fuck out. Wouldn't want my hypothetical child to figure on someone's Tinder profile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 04:16 AM
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I never trust those pictures. Nope. I need to see his behaviour with said animal to actually vet. So many men use random ass pets as props, and when I ask they say "oh it's Cousin's retriever!" Or some bullshit like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:42 AM
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I honestly don't know about this phenomena, I've noticed it too. My personal hypothesis is that they put those pictures to perhaps create some mothering instincts in women that check out their profile. Or "cuteness" factor which makes them seem more relatable, adorable. Or they plain out don't have enough pics LMFAO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:56 AM
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I go watch recipe videos &try them myself, go read Reddit couple horror stories, go on FDS to discuss with fellow ladies, go outside in public places, call my family, take some pictures of my pets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:20 AM
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If he isn't contacting you after that date, don't fret and carry on: he isn't that interested/high value and you don't want such people in your intimate circle that will provoke you into pickme lameness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:14 AM
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No. Once you're seen as fuck meat, you'll stay as fuck meat in a man's eyes sadly. Don't enterain such a man that empties you of your precious mental energy that can be better redirected towards better stuff (you, your life, your career, into seeking HV people). Block n'delete his ass and read the Handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:12 AM
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Keep on commenting and you'll be flaired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:09 AM
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They're already eliminating themselves from your rotation, spares your precious energy that's better dedicated into better prospects!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:06 AM
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Personally I say no to men that call themselves gamers. The Gamer Identity brings in a slew of LV traits, it enables lazyness, assholishness, gaming/computer addiction, porn addiction, etc. I look for men that simply never call themselves gamers or talk about gaming as it doesn't interests me at all and I seriously don't care about the last AAA game. Spare me with that consumer bullshit, Scrottie. Wether it is something to tolerate or not... I'd look if the man is moderating his gaming time to n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:03 AM
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Ish if he can't even give you that compliment... Is he even worth keeping around?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:03 PM
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Blehhhhh how does that affect them seriously lol. Can't take care of their own businesses huh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:59 PM
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🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:57 PM
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Consistently keep on reading FDS stuff or FDS-like stuff. I personnaly do a re-read of the handbook every 2-3 months or so, and browse FDS every week when I can. Write down your own personal standards for yourself (like "don't accept coffee dates, don't accept going 50-50 for romantic dates, don't accept to keep red-flaggy people around" and so on), read them from time to time, add some more if need be. Write standards for your own entourage ("I don't tolerate lying, I don't tolerate people that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:55 PM
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All of this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:49 PM
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"my friends and everything that's mine is here and I don't wanna move, this wife is so inconvenient by desiring to move somewhere she'll be happier in!" Jesus christening, she needs to dump his ass and not stop her dreams just because this Scrottie doesn't wants to have a backbone at work and ASK for vacation time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:48 PM
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All I can imagine is the thin layer of skin cells and sweat caked up 🤢 They need to get it together asap wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:45 PM
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Ridiculous shit, and justice hasn't been done. He can still carry on his life without penalties, besides PERHAPS doing community hours a few times a week and that's it. Ridiculous. Touching a child sexually is inexcusable and should be slammed on harder. Don't care about the profession or celebrity status, justice is justice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:44 PM
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Addiction, addiction, stinkyness, and Coomer shit... No bueno, good riddance. Those clowns really are thinking this is LIFE. Jesus... They need to touch some grass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:43 PM
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I personally think that actually HV prefer a woman that seeks the best for herself, it signifies great confidence, self esteem and good boundaries with herself. Being high maintenance, to LVM, makes them feel bad because they can't even get to your level. They cry out in the hopes you'd lower yourself to their level and accept BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:41 PM
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Jesus that's called having a life, not high maintenance LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:39 PM
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You can do it, and I'm really proud of you! This shit is real hard but it's gonna pay off so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 12:22 PM
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It's insane how a TON of women have internalized to prioritize everyone else above themselves. Really glad that you made the switch, and trust me it will give you so so many positive returns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 12:13 PM
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Keep a eye on his boundary pushing, to me it seems like a potential/actual red flag. It takes consistent practice! The more you do it, the better you'll be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 12:11 PM
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Sadly she's gonna have to learn by herself how shit it's gonna be. I've tried warning so many of my friends but they ended up not listening and having to crash hard to learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 12:08 PM
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It is a cope those mediocre men are using to excuse away their lifestyle choices. Dad bod sounds better than "hey I ate wayyy too much and got that massive belly, oops". It is fine to say no to dad bods. It's fine to have a body preference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 12:07 PM
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Exactly. "Stoicism" by men is just plainly them allowing themselves to be assholes, I would run away from those dudes. The philosophy itself is pretty fine for sure and has great lessons!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 01:40 PM
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This sounds ABSOLUTELY wonderful omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 10:48 PM
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Personally I'd say to let him initiate the exclusivity talk, and carry on dating several people (in your rotation, it is explained in the Handbook if you haven't read it yet!). He might be attempting to create a situationships with those confusing words. Posts in ASKFDS have to be approved by a mod as well, so if you post/comment anywhere in any FDS family Subreddit, it will need mod approval, UNTIL you're flaired by a mod :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:29 PM
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Some people simply can't conceive that a woman CAN be happy without some scrottie weighting her down. Also some people think sadly (because misogyny yay!) That women are complements to men, the "second half" and sympathize with the "lonely man without his second half that refuses to date". Women can be happy single. Honestly I'd laugh at their faces and turn it around on them, like "Oh my god, I've so little time for MEN HAHAHAHA, I've already my career and my precious child to attend to!" Be as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 08:38 PM
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Newcomer comments need to be mod approved before they show up for public view, and it is a way to not give trolls a platform. Also, what's up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 08:32 PM
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Walks are for dogs, not dates! 🐕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 08:22 PM
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Right now: -Upkeeping my home as it is, I've done the whole Konmari process which cleared out so so much and it helped me clear out my mind. I've been working on buliding a solid home routine. -ive started a really intensive workout routine, 2 workouts a day (chill, and low impact but still active!), I've started meal prepping too with healthy complete lowcatb whole food meals. Meal prepping actually helped me restrain from eating junkfood and relapse! -Finishing several books I've bought at the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 08:12 PM
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The comments and posts need to be manually approved by moderators until you're flaired, and this is a way to not give the trolls a platform. Please leave them up until a mod comes across them and approves them :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 02:51 PM
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We're increasing like CRAZY! 🚀📈⬆️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 02:44 PM
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The thing is that, if you have doubts about some situation, odds there's some manipulation strategy ongoing. Not easy to trust, but so so so many times when I had a doubt, it was confirmed later on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:40 AM
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Oh, Im planning to get some Korean food after my work shift today, maybe some movie, cosy it up because it's raining 😊😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 11:15 AM
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DM me your fave pics of him and I'll post them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 10:16 PM
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It's insane how women often treat women SO much better than men, men should get their ego smaller and watch what the ladies do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:13 PM
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Ah what wonderful bonuses!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:22 PM
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They absolutely do. More mature men that got their shit together (mind, physique, health, career, cleanliness, etc) tend to go with same-aged women, but manbabies date down because they KNOW same-aged ladies WON'T tolerate their concentrated bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:06 PM
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This trend of being dismissed has obviously translated into my dating life where guys I would be talking to would randomly say I talk too much and am annoying. Then don't let them into your life or minimize their importance, especially for romantic dates. You only want people that WANT you around and LOVE hearing from you, not some man that half-heartedly listens to you. I've never had girls tell me this, it's always men. Yes, women never did this in my experience, they tend to listen to me more…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:39 PM
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Love the glowup!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:47 PM
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Exactly like Hillary did, I think she did put "mother, grandmother" in her twitter bio.But I've very rarely seen men do the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:45 PM
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Men thirst on the attention we women give them. Nipping the attention stream at the source hurts them a TON, and that's the only clapback that actually works. No attention, nothing, silence, left on read and blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:19 PM
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Yes, it is better to prevent bullying/doxxing towards the original poster :) our male lurkers are a special brand of weirdos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:14 PM
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Jesus christ if he wants to split the DAMNED GAS, he's not ready to date, good thing you got rid of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:11 PM
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Welcome to this subreddit :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:02 PM
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I'm sorry for your situation :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:17 PM
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Hot n'cold strategy? Future faking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:16 PM
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Personnally I prefer to sleep together with my partner, but I see no problem with people that sleep apart (like for diff sleep patterns, night noises, etc), as long as there's heavy work on intimacy. As long as you both know WHY this is happening, in my books all is good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:17 PM
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You hear that...? That's the collective scream of the neckbeards reading that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:21 PM
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That too!! They consider women to be just links
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 12:37 AM
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What the actual fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:17 AM
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Lordy. When will it stop seriously?? I hear more and more of men killing women in cruel violent ways. When will there be harsher punishments for the men participating in such violence? Men get out with tiny teeny slaps at the wrist those times wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:33 PM
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Please read this post, from the Handbook. SeXuAl eMpOwErmeNt, and why FDS does not support BDSM, Abuse Kink, and Performative Sexuality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:46 AM
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Oh Jesus, not the YouTube comments!! It's pretty rare that I find similar safe spaces like FDS where there are sane people. The only other sane circle is my orthionology groups which are so wholesome and we're fangirling over rare birds lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 04:29 PM
56

Sadly this whole AC stuff made me realize that Reddit wasn't that great, much alike a LVM. Yesterday evening I've decided to stay off Reddit except the FDS family subreddits, and focus more on my actual IRL life. Reading scrotes getting mad over bullshit is mentally taxing, even if you don't feel it instantly, it absolutely is taxing. It occupies every thought you have and you waste time away from your daily life and yourself. .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 04:10 PM
23

Good riddance!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:04 PM
3

Happily there's a anti-social media movement taking off those days!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:34 PM
116

Damn girl, I hope you're on your way out, this sounds extremely exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:32 PM
189

He sounds pornsick....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:37 PM
84

Babe it's TIME to dump such a LVM. ***EXPECTING*** sex acts is low of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:37 PM
5

Pretty sure that as men age, their sperm quality decreases and the children have higher odds of birth problems/defects... Men think their sperm has no expiration date LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:12 PM
4

Can confirm this sadly. They use their "nerd identity" as a way to escape all accountability, any social interactions, waste insane amounts of money in useless resin plastic crap that brings no good in their lives besides the "fandom" factor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:46 PM
8

I do recommend "Why Does He Do That" too. I finally knew what my feelings were, what my exes and ex-in-laws did and I can see abuse red flags much more easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:30 PM
51

I can definitively see it. Settling for less to make it hurt less but sacrificing enjoyment...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:06 PM
7

Awwww!! It must look so pretty!! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 12:20 PM
6

At the same time it can be a great strategy to know your opponent's mindset and dating strategy to craft an adapted offensive. (Which is recognizing the RP strategy they're using, then avoiding that guy at ALL COSTS)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:30 AM
2

For special dishes that are rarely used, the Christmas dishes and stuff, flower vases, food I need to keep out of reach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:24 AM
2

It is sadly real. So many guys spend way too much on their hobbies and crap that they have to recourse to such ridiculous and cheap guides like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 01:33 AM
2

I've even heard there's homeless guys that groom themselves and seduce a woman every evening to be fed and bed. Pretty sleazy and disgusting as a modus operandi imho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 01:30 AM
5

The only way to have some sort of positive Reddit experience is subscribing to very niche subreddits and even then you need to be careful in your curation. This is so sad that toxicity is omnipresent in this hellsite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 12:58 AM
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