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| 26 | [FR] Night out at the club. First time I've ever felt in state. | Vecoma | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 01:51 AM | |
| 11 | [FR] Just got back from Vacation, had to write about it. Part 3. | Vecoma | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 10:29 AM | |
| 6 | [FR] No intentions turned to f-close. | Vecoma | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 05:23 PM | |
| 5 | [FR] Just got back from Vacation, had to write about it. Part 2. | Vecoma | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 09:51 AM | |
| 5 | [FR] Just got back from Vacation, had to write about it. Part 1. | Vecoma | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 08:42 AM | |
| 3 | [FR] Just walk away. | Vecoma | /r/seduction | 14/07/12 09:14 AM | |
| 2 | Making a move on a waitress? | Vecoma | /r/seduction | 04/07/12 10:28 PM | |
| 1 | Tips for Carnival Game? | Vecoma | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 12:36 AM | |
| 1 | Hutch - Not Directed at Pickup but it Relates Extremely Well | Vecoma | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 01:35 AM | |
| 0 | Dealing with friends? | Vecoma | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 06:07 PM | |
| 0 | What's your favourite rejection? | Vecoma | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 09:22 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/14/2012When does the next part of your seduction guide come out? | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 11:11 PM |
| 1 | The Universe Doesn't Give A Flying Fuck About YouTwo days ago I got "this is your life and it's ending one minute at a time" tattooed on my arm. | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Quick tip for restaurant datesBar isn't bad. A club is though. | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Would you guys be interested in this sort of thing?What part of Canada? | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Is there anything wrong with saying 'dude' alot in a social interaction with a woman?Bugs me as much as women who say "bro". | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 05:05 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Stick it OutEdmonton. Canada baby! | /r/seduction | 11/11/12 08:48 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Stick it OutI'm not desperate. Just trying to go out every night, it's only a cold. If I can have a good night feeling like that I can have a good night any night. | /r/seduction | 11/11/12 01:21 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Stick it OutIf her hot friend steals her and starts making out with her I may as well make out with both the girls at the same time. | /r/seduction | 11/11/12 12:06 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Stick it OutYea no problem. Wasn't too clear. I think the chicken I made for supper wasnt cooked enough. I've still got a cold/cough though. | /r/seduction | 10/11/12 09:22 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Stick it OutYou're probably right. Figured it could lead to sex with her again. But no luck. | /r/seduction | 10/11/12 06:01 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Stick it Out20. | /r/seduction | 10/11/12 05:59 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Stick it OutI didn't throw up. | /r/seduction | 10/11/12 05:59 PM |
| 1 | 5 Things You Can Do to Build Your Confidence With WomenI'm not disagreeing with you. The purpose of learning seduction/pickup is to do just that, seduce and pickup though. Self development is something a lot of guys start with once they do start learning game though. You don't have to have your life completely together to pick up women. | /r/seduction | 09/11/12 06:16 PM |
| 0 | 5 Things You Can Do to Build Your Confidence With WomenDid you pick any of those girls up in the rock climbing/dancing class? | /r/seduction | 09/11/12 04:42 AM |
| 4 | The Type of Game I want - James Marshall DaygameI was in Houston a couple months ago, me and my friend picked up sisters. They liked our accents eh. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Best tips for girls?Playing hard to get makes you hard to want. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 08:17 PM |
| 3 | First date today, forgot her name, what's my best plan of action?I picked up a girl saturday night. In the morning she asked what my name is. Its only as awkward as you make it. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 08:08 PM |
| 0 | The Type of Game I want - James Marshall DaygameHeight matters in basketball. It really doesn't in picking up girls. Since you already know there is a lot of unattractive pua's out there teaching and even more not, take the video for what it's worth, you aren't going to copy exactly what other people are doing, you are going to take that as example, find out what works for you, what doesn't work for you and improve on that. Watch some of Owen Cooks videos if you're so hung up on looks. The dudes an ugly short ginger. Can't get much worse than… | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 06:03 PM |
| 1 | The Type of Game I want - James Marshall DaygamePeople should learn to accept themselves. I'm not the most attractive guy in the world and that's cool with me. Doesn't mean I can't learn from someone better looking than myself. Don't compare your self to others. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 05:11 PM |
| 4 | The Type of Game I want - James Marshall DaygameThere's a ton of guys out there teaching like that. Stop making excuses. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 01:35 PM |
| 4 | The Type of Game I want - James Marshall DaygameYour point is? | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 03:37 AM |
| 21 | The DJ that can't get laid...Yes! Thank you. Gets annoying being told time after time that I need to stop jerking off. | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 05:27 PM |
| 1 | I don't want to share this sub-reddit!People don't want to fail because of their ego. | /r/seduction | 31/10/12 11:45 AM |
| 11 | AMAZING date idea!!! Tried and testedThat changes everything! | /r/seduction | 31/10/12 11:40 AM |
| 15 | AMAZING date idea!!! Tried and testedThis seems pretty silly. But if it works for you, go hard. Also a sample size of one isn't really tested. | /r/seduction | 31/10/12 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Overcoming the"boyfriend" questionI don't usually apologize for it. I just own up to it. Ex. was out the other night, opened this 2 set, talked for a while, had them laughing. Guy comes over, " are you hitting on my girlfriend?" "Yeah I am, have you seen her? She's fucking hot". Laughs for everyone. | /r/seduction | 30/10/12 07:23 PM |
| 23 | Body language: 15 single men & 15 single women in a bar packed with cameras!I'd like to see something like this except with one of the guys is a pua. | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 11:08 PM |
| 1 | What's the most effective way to approach a group on the dance floor?And get closer. | /r/seduction | 26/10/12 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, what am I supposed to do with my hands/arms during a date?Oh wow! Another im a rapist joke! | /r/seduction | 26/10/12 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Every girl has a boyfriend...So they can sift through the betas. | /r/seduction | 26/10/12 03:39 AM |
| 2 | costumes that help you with seduction/get laidI'm going as Charlie Harper. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 06:53 AM |
| 14 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012I wouldn't even bother with that personally. "one, three, zero..." "huh" "oh, you had your phone out, I thought you wanted my number" It's whatever you like though. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Yesterday was my 18th birthday. I'm finally over my anxiety of crowded situations. I owe you Seddit.You did this. Take credit for it. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 03:00 AM |
| 14 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012Can even open by starting to tell her your number. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 02:54 AM |
| 1 | The 3 dates gameThat sounds like a sweet idea for a halloween costume. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 02:07 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012There's a reason it didn't work the first time. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 02:04 AM |
| 28 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012No love for the 8s? | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 11:55 PM |
| 7 | How to reject a girlReally? You haven't been here very long have you. | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 08:52 PM |
| 1 | What are your go-to "make-her-earn-it" requests?Yes f-closes. | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Old Timer Returning to the CommunityOmg!!! How did you know?! Its like you've known me forever! Give me your phone! I'm giving you my number | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Old Timer Returning to the CommunityYou're just so damn cute I can't help myself! | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Old Timer Returning to the CommunityCare to expand? | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Old Timer Returning to the CommunityYea it's a fantastic read. Every so often you get those books you just can't put down, The Game was one of them. | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 06:48 AM |
| 5 | Do you guys encourage going out even though you are on 4 hours of sleep, and completely deprived, but there is a sick event at a club nearby, and a lot of friends will be there and a lot of opportunities for a closeShould go out no matter what. Just got laid? Get to the fucking club. Tired, oh you poor thing, too tired to hit on girls. Get the fuck out there!! | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 05:11 AM |
| 3 | Old Timer Returning to the CommunityOld school or not, I like it. | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Old Timer Returning to the CommunityReal Social Dynamics. He can read the side bar glossary for the lingo, the game is a good read regardless though. | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Any Sedditors in Edmonton Alberta?So I'm going to take your silence as a yes. Meet you at twist ultra lounge on whyte ave at 10:30. | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 02:28 AM |
| 3 | What are your go-to "make-her-earn-it" requests?"I don't buy drinks for girls I'm not fucking" "I haven't even kissed you and you want me to buy you a drink?!" "I think you've got me confused with every other guy in here" "I don't buy drinks for people I just met" "You're going to have to try a lot harder than this if you want a drink from me" followed by "is that all you got", "that was terrible, 2/10". Tease the hell out of her when she goes for it. "How bout you buy me one instead." | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 02:20 AM |
| 16 | What are your go-to "make-her-earn-it" requests?Don't do this. | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 02:15 AM |
| -1 | [FR] "You can be my wingwoman!"PA? Prince Albert? Where are you from you bastard. | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 12:26 AM |
| 1 | [FR] "You can be my wingwoman!"No! Go meet women! | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 12:25 AM |
| 2 | The simple way to be confident clubs even if alone.You're there on your own, do you want to sit there with nobody, not even the friends you brought? No talk to some people. "oh you're here alone? where are your friends?" "they can't keep up with me" doesn't matter. Shows some extreme confidence going out alone too. Multiple occasions had girls say " you're here alone? omg I could never do that! I'd be too shy". Crazy loud music can be a positive if you look at it the right way. Pull them in, easy kino, talk into their ear, is a good IOI if peopl… | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 09:04 PM |
| 2 | The simple way to be confident clubs even if alone.Last year before I found out about the game I would go out by myself a lot. It's different from going out with friends because you don't have that group to fall back on if you're feeling out of state. I feel like it pushes you to be more social. I'm going to be pretty much going alone for the next 2-3 months. | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 08:34 PM |
| 4 | I asked a girl for 3 things she's into, later another guy did the same, she pointed it out and awkwardness ensued.Seems too much like qualifying myself. Have you tried this in the field? | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 08:21 PM |
| 1 | I asked a girl for 3 things she's into, later another guy did the same, she pointed it out and awkwardness ensued.I've got some good results commenting on things like freckles. Mind you I didn't open with that. | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Any Sedditors in Edmonton Alberta?That's cool bro, let's go out! | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 04:36 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop being a hater? I'm a very cynical and negative person and its affecting my game.Read A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here ever used the techniques / approaches discussed here in order to turn girls down for sex?I wouldn't say I've used those exact techniques, but I've turned a lot of women down. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 05:48 PM |
| 9 | I overcame the "I have a boyfriend" barrier. I have officially stepped up my game."I have a boyfriend" "Okay, I dont though". Friday night sat down with this cute freckled girl for about 20 minutes. Grabber her #, kissed her on the cheek when I left because although we had a great conversation and she seemed receptive to kino, but something just seemed off. She texted me after I left saying how she wished I would of escorted her home, then says she's sorry and has something to tell me. I tell her "I know, you have a boyfriend". She's shocked, and says she didnt tell me earlie… | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 06:50 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Members: Feedback for Link Flair?Seems to work good. Still seeing A LOT of beginner and specific questions though. | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to create attraction with someone who you know isn't attracted to you now?Don't say sorry. | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 06:30 PM |
| 4 | Apparently I've turned into an asshole. No More Mr. Nice Guy technique failed me?Yeah but if you arent getting results you need to adjust. | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to create attraction with someone who you know isn't attracted to you now?When you post in this subreddit there is large red blinking text that tells you to not post specific or beginner questions here. | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Drunk texted girl last night need helpPlease post questions like this in askseddit. Just be straight up with her. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 03:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Looks like not masturbating for over a week makes me awesome. Kiss and number close.With my sex drive it would kill me. | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Is kino absolutely necessary?Canadian here. Touching works very well. | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 09:19 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Looks like not masturbating for over a week makes me awesome. Kiss and number close.No thanks. | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 07:32 PM |
| 1 | I am a musician and a girl asked me to write a song for her. How do I not sound needy in my lyrics, or is this an exception?Well we are PUAs here, not song writers. In your OP you asked about a song for one girl you've been dating. In my unproffesional opinion I would say that yes, a love song would come of as needy and mushy gushy. | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 01:35 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Looks like not masturbating for over a week makes me awesome. Kiss and number close.Only 3 timea a day? That's not very much. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 08:25 PM |
| -6 | Has anybody noticed the influx of new guys who're posting without even having glanced at the sidebar? And whats with all these specific situation questions? Mods?They'll steal your precious karma. I know how much you care about it. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 04:41 PM |
| 1 | What are good items/accessories that you can wear that is good for conversation starters?Waiting for women to open you really isn't the way to do things. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 03:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] on running into the ex in a clubYou still let her dictate your emotions. She was there, you were depressed. She leaves, you're happy. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 03:42 PM |
| 24 | [FR] Looks like not masturbating for over a week makes me awesome. Kiss and number close.You make you awesome. Not not masturbating. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 03:34 PM |
| 9 | Has anybody noticed the influx of new guys who're posting without even having glanced at the sidebar? And whats with all these specific situation questions? Mods?Yes they should. But you'll get downvotes if you tell them that. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 03:33 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] REMINDER: All Beginner Questions and Questions about specific situations belong in /r/AskSedditThank you. I was going to make this post today if a mod hadn't by the end of the day. Been getting downvotes for telling people this. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Shit test? How to respond.Questions about specific girls should be asked in askseddit. That wasn't a neg. I'm going to take a guess and say your first language isnt english. This was a little bit tough to read. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:23 PM |
| 0 | I am a musician and a girl asked me to write a song for her. How do I not sound needy in my lyrics, or is this an exception?Askseddit for questions on specific girls. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:17 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to "I'm waitin for my friend." when you ask a girl to dancePull her in close and talk into her ear, great opportunity for some kino, talking into someones ear is sort of seen as intimate aswel. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 01:58 AM |
| 2 | How to respond to "I'm waitin for my friend." when you ask a girl to danceWell yeah obviously, asking a random girl before you've even said anything ends poorly too. Would be something you would do after you've already opened. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 01:49 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to "I'm waitin for my friend." when you ask a girl to danceExactly, you're in the same boat you would of been if you had acted like a girl when you asked her. I also don't advocate asking a girl to dance as an opener, would be something you would use after you've already opened. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Need advice on how to difuse a douchebag interuptionI wouldn't even acknowledge him. Then re-isolate the girl. | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Getting IOI'd, how to proceed?Specific questions like this should be posted in askseddit. Don't use that line though, show some interest in her. She's going to think you arent interested if you want to hangout to talk about boring old school. | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 11:48 PM |
| -5 | How to respond to "I'm waitin for my friend." when you ask a girl to danceI don't open by asking to dance. If you must, tell her, don't ask. "Want to dance?" Vs "you and me are dancing", taking her by the hand and leading. | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 11:44 PM |
| 2 | "The order of kino"I would say don't get caught up in the steps. You're overthinking it. If I wasn't on my phone I'd link you to a video where Tyler Durden touches on this topic. | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 07:08 PM |
| 1 | A girl who im interested in is coming over Monday and wants to play Xbox and maybe watch a movie. What are some things i can do to let her know I'm interest? I'm trying to cover all my bases so I don't get friend zoned.Post this sort of stuff on askseddit. | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Should I trim my armpit hair?Leave your armpit hair alone and go talk to some girls. | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 03:43 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - Tuesday NightOne of the few FRs that kept me entertained enough to want to read all the way through. I'm going to start going out everynight and I'm going to take your advice of becoming a regular and knowing the staff. Goodluck this week. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Seddit, a serious question wanting a serious answer... How many girls have you F-closed since you discovered "Game"?19 or 20 in the 4 years before discovering game. 3 or 4 in the last 2-3 months since discovering game. | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Patience.Excellent advice. I've thought about how the 3 second rule sort of goes against what "alpha" is. You put it much better than I could of. Good work. | /r/seduction | 28/09/12 10:54 PM |
| 5 | [FR] F-close in a club bathroom, then twice again later at hers. Also a k-close in there.Liquid courage. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 04:34 PM |
| 2 | [FR] F-close in a club bathroom, then twice again later at hers. Also a k-close in there.What part of his game do you think was solid? | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 04:07 PM |
| 6 | [FR] F-close in a club bathroom, then twice again later at hers. Also a k-close in there.24 isn't a cougar though. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 12:57 PM |
| 9 | [FR] F-close in a club bathroom, then twice again later at hers. Also a k-close in there.Sounds like just a random drunken hookup. But goodwork getting laid. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 12:38 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with girls who are flirts?Get in, get out. Then onto the next girl. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Confidence Killers...Hitting on a girl you don't find attractive and getting shot down. Tips and advice?Keep at it, maybe move back to girls you are attracted to. You need to work on being outcome independent, not caring what happens if you approach someone and it doesn't work out like you had hoped. Does that unattractive girl matter? No. How bout that attractive one? No, not her either. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 01:37 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Call her out on her shit.Thanks man, also happy cake-day sir. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 12:51 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Call her out on her shit.The claw | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 12:44 AM |
| 10 | [FR] Call her out on her shit.I hope so. | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 08:58 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Call her out on her shit.I don't know about another level, I feel I've still got alot to learn. I've only been doing this for a couple months now. I've seen some of his videos but none that talk about "rising Phoenix", I'll have to check into it after work. Would you be able to grab a link for me? | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 06:20 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Call her out on her shit.I hit her hip with my hip. And the claw is something Tyler Durden came up with. Just grabbed her arm and pulled her in super close. | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 04:07 PM |
| 16 | [FR] Call her out on her shit.Sorry it's not up to your standards. I'll do better next time. | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 03:30 PM |
| 3 | What do you do when you catch a gaze?Smile and look back, approach, stick your tongue out, mouth "hi" or "hello" at her, staring contest. Just get your ass over there. | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 02:11 AM |
| 1 | 7 Nights a Week?Thanks for the advice. My first week or two is going to be experimenting, lots of changing venues and figuring out what spots are hot. Will be a new city so I dont know anyone or anywhere to go yet. If I find some nights are consistently dead I'll dedicate those days to more daygame and take the night off. | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 03:47 AM |
| 1 | 7 Nights a Week?Yeah I'm comfortable with going out alone. I wont be drinking very much, so I can save money and not rely on alcohol to approach. I don't really so much day game, but I'm going to start doing it at the school I'm going to and the mall. Probably not as much as night game though. Thanks for the comment! | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 01:05 AM |
| 1 | 7 Nights a Week?Yeah I've seen it, very impressive. It's a city of about a million people so I should be alright. Wouldn't want to build up a bad reputation. I'll be sure to shuffle my venues. | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 01:00 AM |
| 1 | 7 Nights a Week?Yeah I'm not asking if I should or not, I'm asking for some advice and if anyone else has done something like this, how it went for them and all that jazz. | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 12:06 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Out alone. Take lead.Well give it a shot man. You've got nothing to lose. Them leaning in is a great IOI, that's why people suggest it. | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 09:58 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Out alone. Take lead.No I agree, I do the same thing. Grab them by the waist or head and talk into her ear. Thing with seduction is a lot of the stuff is just techniques, if leaning in works for you, run with it. If you're not getting results, change something. | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 08:52 PM |
| 1 | pretty demoralized...Breakups can be rough, you've been apart for half a year. It sounds like last night was the first time you've gone out in that time. Just keep going out man, you went out, thats a start, next time talk to a couple people. Don't go out depending on that outcome of dancing with a girl. Because if it doesnt happen you're going to beat yourself up about it again. Confidence isnt just going to come in one night, it takes time, start working out, reading, take up a hobby, meet some more people. Rememb… | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Can someone here please give me insight as to what I did wrong?You were too available. Cut off all contact with her, go out meet some new people. Even if you aren't ready to pickup, go out and talk to people, old people, girls, guys, anybody, and when you feel you are ready to pickup you'll have your social skills, plus some new friends you can go out with. You had more invested in the relationship than she did and it seems like she was using you because you paid. It sucks but you will meet better people! | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 08:36 PM |
| 16 | [FR] Out alone. Take lead.Nothing is wrong with it really, just kind of shows you're coming off needy/too into the conversation. You want to have her interested enough for her to do the leaning in. Make her chase you. | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Best way to go for a k-close?Solid advice. About a month ago I went for the kiss, got cheek, didn't bother me and continued dancing. Saying bye later on, grab her and plant one on her cheek and start walking away, she grabs me and gives me the "is that all I get" face. I continue to makeout with her, pull away and she says "I only wanted a small kiss". "Oh okay" and I go in again twice as hard. | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Anyone got any advice on dating an attractive girl that only has close guy friends?Break that tie, but don't date her if you know what's good for you. | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Is there a time frame to ask a girl out?If this works for you that's great, keep at it. But to me it seems kind of creepy, and alot of work to show up at their work without so much as a number already. Could save you alot of time and effort if you grab their number when you first meet them. | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 11:35 AM |
| 1 | how the fuck do I stop being the nice guy?I would still accept the fb request. Don't initiate contact though. When a girl is with another guy I just assume it's her brother. As for how to not be a nice guy, I'm not exactly sure how you can do that, so I'm not going to make some bullshit up, I'll leave that to someone else. | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Met a girl at a party. Tons of IOI's. A couple of days later asked her out in person,she said she's working all the time. Game over?Push a little more and move on. | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with rejection and how to keep on going?I try to live by the mentality women like to be told, not asked. Comes off more confident, less chance of a rejection because it's not a yes or no question. "You are absolutely beautiful, you're coming to dance with me" grab her hand and lead. I'm not sure what you do before you you ask the girl to dance, but try to build up a bit of kino before asking her to dance, she will be more comfortable dancing with you if she has already displayed she is okay with you touching her. Shaking hands, holdin… | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 11:18 AM |
| 1 | The displaced AMOGNo I understand what you're saying. Everyone doesn't have the same goals though, his goal of getting a girlfriend and having a LTR is different than our goal of banging 100 girls or something. What you learn with all this crap is useful in many parts of your life and shouldn't be forgotten about once you reach your goals as you said. | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 02:34 AM |
| 2 | The displaced AMOGGood post until the last few sentences. | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 06:40 PM |
| 6 | Lying about your ageI lied about my age last year to f-close a cougar. I was 19 at the time, said I was like 23. Told he after we fucked, turns out she lied too. 45, not 38. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 03:48 AM |
| 1 | How do you be confident about something that you dont have?You care far too much about your looks and what people think of you. That's something hard to change. But with time you can get past it. I'm not going to tell you looks don't matter, they can help, but if you look at someone like Tyler Durden he's this short red headed fuck and is great at meeting women. Forget all about the 1-10 scale please. | /r/seduction | 13/09/12 12:48 AM |
| 19 | [FR] dress well, holy mother of god dress well.I want his pictures, not random peoples. | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 10:19 AM |
| 66 | [FR] dress well, holy mother of god dress well.Could we get pictures of your two outfits? | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Tips and Tricks to display dominance and project oneself as a leaderMy boss's, boss's boss and his cross shift both say "right?" and "you know" excessively. | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 12:30 AM |
| 2 | How do you turn down a girl that isn't your type?I think this would be the way to go, just be straight up. | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 06:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Bad Night turned Good, F-closeYeah I felt like it would of been a distraction in this instance, the girl never asked for my number either though. My friend gave them a ride there, he had his car, and I had my truck so wasn't a big deal to give them a ride. I kept them pretty entertained on my own, but you're probably right, lost some momentum. | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 07:18 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Bad Night turned Good, F-closeYou're probably right. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 01:59 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Bad Night turned Good, F-closeWell thank you for reading! | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 08:02 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Bad Night turned Good, F-closeYeah working on it, apple is sending me a new one, but ups is close tomorrow, and I leave for work for 2 weeks tomorrow, so it going to be like 4-5 weeks in total without a phone. I'm using the old one as a coaster now. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Dealing w/ a flake via textCut all contact with her, she's wasting your time. If she doesn't flake at your party I would say hi, be polite but focus your time and energy on other women and guys at the party. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 02:06 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Bad Night turned Good, F-closeYeah I really need to work on the 3 second rule, I tried to get something going with a friend of mine to motivate each other but didn't seem to go over so well. Thanks for the words of encouragement. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 01:53 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Bad Night turned Good, F-closeYeah I have a little trouble with keeping these short. I have mad respect for anyone who approaches, would never laugh, unless he gets blown out and I'm laughing with him. Thanks for the post though sir. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Do muscles matter?Abs and big arms are basically the man equivalent of tits and ass. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 01:21 AM |
| 3 | I got a girl's number on the bus and I asked her out a few days later. I got rejected, but it was such a nice rejection and the whole experience boosted my confidence a bit. For anyone who fears rejection and for any women who's unsure about how to reject a guy, this is the way it should go down:I never said taking a drink and going for it was a good thing either, just pointing out that 30 minutes to feel alcohol is wrong. The point you were attempting to make was very unclear. | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 08:04 AM |
| 5 | I got a girl's number on the bus and I asked her out a few days later. I got rejected, but it was such a nice rejection and the whole experience boosted my confidence a bit. For anyone who fears rejection and for any women who's unsure about how to reject a guy, this is the way it should go down:Nope, I'm pretty sure alcohol enters your blood stream very quickly. Go drink half a bottle of tequila in 5 minutes and tell me how you feel. | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 06:21 AM |
| 6 | I got a girl's number on the bus and I asked her out a few days later. I got rejected, but it was such a nice rejection and the whole experience boosted my confidence a bit. For anyone who fears rejection and for any women who's unsure about how to reject a guy, this is the way it should go down:The great thing about a girls number, is you can always get more of them. | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with friends?They want to be with me until they talk about me to friends and realize I have slept with their friend. I'm not fucking their friends as of lately. Has been over a year ago and has happened 3 or 4 times now. I didn't even know these girls when I slept with the other girls. | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 08:45 PM |
| 1 | How old are you? (basic question)Just curious, Canadian here as well. If you were over in Sask. or Alberta couldof done some sarging. | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 05:00 PM |
| 1 | It's one thing to be confident, but what do you do to stop yourself from drifting away from the mentality?I disagree. I feel quite motivated. | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 02:46 PM |
| 1 | How old are you? (basic question)What part of Canada? | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 02:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Just got back from Vacation, had to write about it. Part 3.Yeah looking back I should of broke off from the HB7 for a little while and went over to the other bar and see what I could pull off. The HB7 was pretty much a for sure lay, hard to pull away from a girl who is all over you. | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 06:49 PM |
| 1 | What are the ways of isolating a girl? How do you do it?I trusted you. Tried and failed. | /r/seduction | 07/08/12 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Canadian Sedditors, I created a guide on where to meet beautiful women in Canada. I hope you find this useful!No shit. We will have to go hit the bars together! | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Canadian Sedditors, I created a guide on where to meet beautiful women in Canada. I hope you find this useful!No Saskatoon? Tsk tsk. Moving to Edmonton in a couple months, I'll give that a read. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 11:52 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with flakes?I would play it off like it didn't matter at all to you then lose her number. She isn't worth your time. Get the baristas number. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 05:35 PM |
| 7 | Sedditers, thoughts on a 10 second F-Close?"Hi, you wanna come back to my place?" "yeah sure" Yup, rape. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 05:29 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Gamed My Way Out Of An Hour+ WaitSame sort of thing happened to me couple weeks ago in the airport. Got brought to the front of the line by this HB8. Would of nearly missed my flight if I hadn't chose to talk to her, the line for security was outrageously long. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 05:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Met a girl at the museum, I like her friend more than her, how do I make the switch! Help me out seddit.Girl, is your type. Either meet some more, or be straight up about your intentions and go for the one you like. | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 02:45 AM |
| 10 | Fun games to play with your wingman instead of boringly approaching?We typically play it with girls who are out on the dance floor. Bad cop goes in, heavy heavy kino, dancing really close, if she's into it, good cop doesnt do anything. If shes not, good cop pushes bad cop off, "hey she doesnt like that bro" or something like that and "rescues" her from the bad cop. It's worked a bit, it's more for our entertainment though. Usually gets us laughing, creates some sweet stories. | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Fun games to play with your wingman instead of boringly approaching?I've always enjoyed a good game of good cop bad cop. | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 12:56 AM |
| 2 | How creepy would this be? (point form)Maybe try a different person from the group. Doesn't seem like a great idea/ worth it to me, but it seems important to you. Just seems needy to me. | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 12:50 AM |
| 6 | How creepy would this be? (point form)Forget about her then. Find some new, better people. | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 12:47 AM |
| 1 | DAE utilize Plenty of Fish to meet women?I work away from home, like 1000km away for 2 weeks at a time. This makes it a little bit hard to meet new women, so I have a pof account. I figure as long as it isnt your primary source of meeting women and you're actually going out and approaching people it shouldn't be viewed as a bad thing. | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 11:28 PM |
| 3 | [FR] First FR at a friend's Birthday PartyYou lost me at "le sigh". | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Using Sarcasm to get aheadThis is pretty much what I have been doing. Girl talking about some guy, good or bad, doesn't matter. "Oh that's neat". | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 04:13 PM |
| 4 | What is the best way to tell a girl you are no longer interested?I had the same thing happen to me. Ignored me when I texted, flaking on plans. I chose not to say anything to her, just cut off all contact. Two weeks later she's texting me, wants to hangout. | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 04:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Night out at the club. First time I've ever felt in state.I will have to work on that too. | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 05:01 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Night out at the club. First time I've ever felt in state.I never thought of it like that! Was intimidated by groups before. But two would be a bit more of a challenge since they would feel bad about leaving her friend alone. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 08:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Night out at the club. First time I've ever felt in state.Thanks bud. I definitely plan to! | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?"I have a boyfriend" "Okay, well I don't" Gets some laughs. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 05:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Night out at the club. First time I've ever felt in state.Yeah I'm usually the same way, I find it a bit harder to approach a group of girls. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 04:41 PM |
| 1 | How much am I missing out because I don't have tattoos? And why are tattoos attractive?Not missing out on much. I occasionally have women pull up my shirt or pull it down to see my tattoos or piercings. Only time it has done anything for my game is tonight. Dancing with a girl, notice tattoo, pulls shirt down, "you have a tattoo?!, that's such a turn on". It can be a conversation piece but I wouldnt say get a tattoo just to meet girls. | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 08:32 AM |
| 2 | [FR] No intentions turned to f-close.I tend to try to be a little bit flirty and stuff with every girl I talk to. No kino though, wouldn't want to piss off my best friend for hitting on his girl. I'm pretty sure I was able to convey I wasnt interested though. Was more just a friendly conversation in my eyes. | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 06:11 PM |
| 2 | [FR] No intentions turned to f-close.That's exactly why I went to find other girls after I cleared things up with my friend. I knew I could go for it now, but I didnt wantto focus all my energy on one girl, would of come off needy. Girls are very jealous creatures. I knew she was into me, may as well play into the jealousy factor just a bit more. But I've got a date with a HB9 in an hour, so thanks for the comment, seeya. | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 09:30 PM |
| 3 | [FR] No intentions turned to f-close."When you do things right, people won't be sure you' ve done anything at all." All jokes aside, I know I'm shitty at this, and that doesn't bother me, just need to work at it and get better. Was my first f-close from a club. Was proud of myself. | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 09:09 PM |
| 1 | With the weekend approaching, let's get our anxiety out of our systems. Tell us the story of the worst blowout you've had and the lesson you learned from it.I was out at a club with 2 friends, we were standing at a table waiting for the shots we ordered. The table next to us there were 3 or 4 girls. Maybe half an hour earlier my one friend and I convinced our socially awkward friend to talk to them since he knew one of the girls. Anyways we are standing there and one girl kept bumping into my friend, she thought she was the shit, low cut shirt, very short shorts, HB9. My friend isn't saying anything but obviously annoyed. I tell him to say something… | /r/seduction | 21/07/12 02:21 PM |
| 1 | A [FR] about a Monday utilizing my machine gun mode.Alright. Thank you sir. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 03:22 PM |
| 2 | A [FR] about a Monday utilizing my machine gun mode.When you say you're twirling her, what exactly do you mean? Like have you got her by the hand, above her head spinning her? I wasn't completely sure what you meant when you brought it up in your last FR. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 02:22 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Girl in my class, f-closeYou could make it into an apple pie. | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 05:11 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Girl in my class, f-closeJust don't get caught. | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 03:50 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Just walk away.Canada. | /r/seduction | 15/07/12 03:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Just walk away.Only a few words were exchanged while dancing because of the noise, had her show me how to dance to the type of music. After we were done dancing I told her I wanted to talk and that we should go somewhere quiet, took her by the hand and brought her to the exit, kept holding her hand, introduced ourselves. Not exactly sure what I said but I had her laughing, tried my best to keep eye contact. Went from holding her hand to putting my arm around her. Turns out she came with the group who bought me… | /r/seduction | 14/07/12 02:04 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Completely unexpected...Why don't we have both? | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 10:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First approach ever...thank you Seddit...so much.Yeah, I suppose that helps. Wouldn't be for me, I've got an over active sex drive, but for some I guess it could be usefull. If I find myself without anything to do I'll check out that subreddit. Thanks for replying. | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 07:58 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First approach ever...thank you Seddit...so much.What wrong ideas would that be? I'm sorry, I just find this really puzzling. | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 06:59 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First approach ever...thank you Seddit...so much.Why would you stop fapping? | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Making a move on a waitress?Actually never been to hooters! Just a few night clubs. | /r/seduction | 04/07/12 11:35 PM |
| 1 | A word of cautionI've had the same thing happen to me, met a girl, started sleeping together, she kept asking to date, I kinda wanted to but said no for my own selfish reasons. Almost lost her, figured out that I indeed wanted to be with this girl, asked her out one night, she said no, slept together that night, and have hardly seen or talked to her since. | /r/seduction | 15/05/12 05:08 AM |
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