Finally got a chance to write this one down. I'll try to add more details as was suggested in the last one I wrote. 

So this last weekend I head over to my friends house at about 8pm, we have plans to do some pre-drinking at his place before we head to the club later. 

It's just us guys hanging out until a HB6 and a HB8 show up, HB6 has a boyfriend she came with and I'm under the impression my friend and the HB8 have something going on between them so I say hi but keep my distance. 

We grab a cab and head to the club. We grab drinks and a table, but I get bored quickly and tell my friend we are going to meet girls. Talk to a few girls, no #-closes, no k-closes, whatever, we're having fun. 

Head back to the table, grab a round of shots and everyone kind of goes off to do their own thing, leaving the HB8 and myself sitting alone at the table. Make small talk, asking what she is going to school for, stuff like that. I've got no intention of picking her up. I get bored and grab her by the hand, "lets go dance" and drag her from the table. 

We dance for a while, just having fun, I've still got no intention of doing anything with this girl. And then she kisses me.. I push her back and tell her no. But she does it again, again I tell her no, she goes for a third try and I push her off and walk away to go look for my friend. 

At this point I'm very confused, my friend had been telling me about how he and this girl had slept together already and how badly she wants to date him. I find my friend and let him know what happened. He laughs and says "no there's nothing going on with us, go for it". 

As it turns out he never actually slept with her, and I've already done all the work without realising it by playing hard to get and acting not interested. 

My friend and I decide to go find some more girls, end up taking a pair of HB7s' to the dance floor. The HB8 comes over and tries to get between me and the HB7 who is grinding on me. I tell her no, I'm busy and she can wait her turn. Which results in me being in the middle of a grind-sandwhich. 

The night ends with a heavy makeout session pushed up against a speaker in the club and a f-close back at her place. 

I guess what I learned was don't assume things, if you don't know for sure, ask!  Girls don't like being told no, drives them crazy and aren't used  to it. And that have fun, do your own thing, people will want to be a part of it.