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i mean if i dont have one doesnt that mean i’m unattractive? oif i was appealing or irressistible a girl would want to date me and get my attention ive never had a girl call me hot or cute or handsome either
/r/ExRedPill22/07/26 12:42 PM
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i dont demand it at all, it is just sometimes an obsession that i have that sends me into spirals of depression i know that i can’t get it but it sometimes feels very suffocating to realize that, ie nobody liking me on first glance and it sometimes makes me feel worthless and undesirable because i couldnt name a single person who i know saw me like that
/r/ExRedPill23/06/26 09:00 PM
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i would say somewhere in the middle, when i get depressed about no attention i tend to feel sad about not getting any from strangers and try to get validation online but eventually i realize i cant achieve that but i also would like to be seen as attractive by more than one person(hypothetical partner) and that may include some people who dont know me that well, so far 0 people have found me appealing physically / at first sight and that harms my self esteem and self worth a lot
/r/ExRedPill06/06/26 07:40 PM
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I think the idea of being ignored and blending in also sort of hurts, even if its not negative I know when I pass people or talk to people they most likely think nothing of me and I’m not significant
/r/ExRedPill05/06/26 02:36 AM
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i agree, i just dont really know how to accept it, i sometimes don’t even think i desire a relationship without getting this, ie someone liking me as much as i like them with the same intensity and generally just feeling validated off how i look
/r/ExRedPill05/06/26 02:34 AM
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i would say that i am conscious about everyone who sees how i look, everyone i pass by or everyone at work or school, i’m sometimes really focused on how they perceive me and how they think i look, if a nameless person called me ugly for example i think i would feel hurt and its happened before with some people online calling me below average but those close to me are also very important
/r/ExRedPill04/06/26 02:10 AM
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I mean I hear stories about guys being told they have pretty eyes and stuff but I guess it’s not something I have, I guess that’s fair
/r/ExRedPill02/06/26 09:54 PM
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i mean the thing is that i want to be attractive to others off appearances, i always see some guys on social media who get thirsty comments from girls and the such and I just know I couldn’t do that so I sort of feel broken and inadequate I don’t think I’d be happy in a relationship where I didn’t feel validated, I feel like it’s a large part of my insecurities and self-esteem, I also assume women also feel attraction but they don’t see me as cute so I think I’m the issue
/r/ExRedPill02/06/26 11:39 AM
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i suppose so, the rest of my life is in a decent / good spot and i think this is just the main one i sort of struggle with
/r/ExRedPill01/06/26 11:10 PM
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so i have tried to grow it before but usually it loses structure so i dont do this, i dont know if there is a guide somewhere to find out how to do it and what cut to get
/r/ExRedPill11/05/26 12:31 AM
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i usually cut the sides a lot and leave the top low but not too low with low fade, i just havent got a haircut in a bit i’m waiting until i can get lasik becauae i hate having things in my eye(for reference i cannot do eyedrops properly)
/r/ExRedPill11/05/26 12:26 AM
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i mean i think how people see me is kinda how valuable i am esp in the context of dating, it doesnt matter how i see myself if others dont see me as that
/r/ExRedPill11/05/26 12:24 AM
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i think im maybe slightly above average, i have pics of me on my profile
/r/ExRedPill10/05/26 11:12 PM
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i can bench 225 and deadlift 365, i think i do dress well and my hair is decent i just thought id get attention since i also like average or cute looking girls
/r/ExRedPill10/05/26 10:01 PM
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i mean yeah but i was pretty lean and i think my face looked pretty good at the time idk, my friends complimented my jaw being a bit more angular but i didnt get any attention and idk why
/r/ExRedPill10/05/26 10:00 PM
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i get that, i just have no idea how girls generally feel about how i look and ive been unsuccessful with all my crushes, it also makes me feel sorta bad to not have anyone comment
/r/ExRedPill10/05/26 09:58 PM
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i dieted to 152 pounds and was pretty lean, my friends say my jaw is pretty defined but when i post online i never get called cute or handsome, i kind of just dont have much drive to do things because i always feel depressed from not getting anything
/r/ExRedPill10/05/26 09:51 PM
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probably just average, it just hurts me and makes me depressed a lot, id like to be hot but i dont know how to none of my crushes have liked me and i cant name a single person who would date me and wants to actively talk to me
/r/ExRedPill10/05/26 09:47 PM
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