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| 83 | How do I respond when someone says that alimony should be paid, even if the lower earner is at fault for the failure of the marriage? | Marriage/Children | Vose4492 | /r/MensRights | 12/02/24 11:37 PM |
| 47 | This is good news, sort of. | Legal Rights | Vose4492 | /r/MensRights | 19/03/26 01:07 AM |
| 12 | How to avoid alimony and child support. | Social Issues | Vose4492 | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 06:37 AM |
| 6 | I heard this great joke today. | Feminism | Vose4492 | /r/MensRights | 21/05/23 04:07 AM |
| 5 | How do I refute this pro-alimony argument? | Marriage/Children | Vose4492 | /r/MensRights | 12/02/24 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Is being put in an awkward situation worse than having no way to support yourself? How do I make an anti-alimony argument? | Marriage/Children | Vose4492 | /r/MensRights | 12/02/24 11:42 PM |
| 2 | With regard to alimony, How do I respond to the concern about the lower earner being unfairly screwed? | Marriage/Children | Vose4492 | /r/MensRights | 12/02/24 11:39 PM |
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| 1 | This is good news, sort of.> Therefore, legal paternal surrender can benefit women too. That is one thing that feminists fail to realize. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/26 01:05 AM |
| 14 | I think a lot of people underestimate just how harmful is it that feminists are fighting so hard against violence committed by women being properly recognisedTell me that feminists only want equality when it benefits them without telling me feminists only want equality when it benefits them. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/26 02:44 AM |
| 1 | This is good news, sort of.> Taxes don't exist to shield people from poor choices How do you know that the people who invented the concept of taxation did not intend for taxes to shield people from poor choices? If the fire department comes when a fire occurred due to negligence, that fire occurred do to poor choices. In that regard, taxes are being used to shield people from poor choices. In the event that one parent wants to give the child up for adoption and the other wants to keep the child, it makes logical sense for… | /r/MensRights | 20/03/26 02:32 AM |
| 3 | This is good news, sort of.The child will live in a society where a woman raping a man does NOT result in the completely blameless victim of rape being forced to pay child support to his rapist. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/26 08:28 PM |
| 1 | This is good news, sort of.> Besides cases of rape, I think the people who create the child should be the ones paying for it, Opting out of parenthood should only be allowed in cases of rape? How would that work? Do you have to prove that you where raped before you can be exempted from financial responsibility or do we start with the assumption that you are telling the truth and then exempt you from financial responsibility until and unless it is proven that you are lying? > not our taxes. Technically, taxpayers supportin… | /r/MensRights | 19/03/26 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Feminists who claim that feminism just means a belief in gender equality are being disingenuous.This day in age, feminist has become a pejorative. Let me tell you what I think. I sincerely believe that men and women should have all the same rights and opportunities under the law. Equal treatment extends past just legal issues, social equality matters too. The first wave of feminism, which began in the 1890’s, was a wonderful thing. The primary focus of the movement was on gaining women the right to vote. It was mostly active in the UK, the US and Canada. It gained women civil liberties, in… | /r/MensRights | 12/12/25 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Feminists who claim that feminism just means a belief in gender equality are being disingenuous.Feminist: If you believe that men and women deserve equal rights, opportunities and protections under the law, equal pay for equal work and that trans women are women, you are probably a feminist. Me: If it really is that simple, why is it that even feminists themselves can’t seem to agree on what feminism is truly about or what the ulitmate goals should be? Feminism is fragmented into different denominations, with conflicting beliefs and dogmas. Some feminists are liberal feminists ( https://ww… | /r/MensRights | 12/12/25 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Either both spouses should abandon their duties after divorce or neither should.> You can’t make a housewife continue her household duties after a divorce. Do you literally mean that such a practice is unrealistic? Or, do you simply mean that that is not how it works currently? I have, in my mind, an idea. Traditionally, when you demand alimony, it is not granted automatically. The lower earner has to go to court and demand it. When the lower earner makes that demand, the lower earner must explain what sacrifices they made in order to help the higher earner get where they d… | /r/MensRights | 11/12/25 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Either both spouses should abandon their duties after divorce or neither should.> What would your model look like? Read the original post, it sounds to me like that is what OP is trying to figure out. I have, in my mind, an idea. Traditionally, when you demand alimony, it is not granted automatically. The lower earner has to go to court and demand it. When the lower earner makes that demand, the lower earner must explain what sacrifices they made in order to help the higher earner get where they did in their career. I am pretty sure that is how it works. At that point, if t… | /r/MensRights | 11/12/25 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Either both spouses should abandon their duties after divorce or neither should.Yes, both spouses have to continue fulfilling their spousal duties following the divorce. That sounds like a great idea. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/25 10:20 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid alimony and child support.A lot of young men (young people in general) find that marriage and having children is a fulfilling life path. Even if you do not want to have children, you still might want to get married. That said, discuss your values very early in the relationship, so that you will decrease your divorce risk and make it more likely that, if you do get divorced, it will probably be amicable. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/24 04:01 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid alimony and child support.How did the taxpayer have a say in it ? In the hypothetical which I described (the father wanted the mother to abort and she gave birth against his wishes) the father had no say in the mother's decision to bring a child into the world, neither did the tax payers. The father and the tax payers should have equal responsibility to the child, since they had equal say in the decision to bring the child into the world. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 06:31 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid alimony and child support.I would like to add one more point. I did not mention this in the original draft of my post, but after one commenter brought this to my attention, I edited my post so as to add this point. If the prenup would literally leave the lower earner with no way to make ends meet in the event of a divorce, there is a very good chance that the prenup will be deemed unenforceable. That said, if you are anti-alimony, you should talk about that before getting married. If you would like for both you and your … | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 06:26 PM |
| 0 | How to avoid alimony and child support.I would like to add one more point. I did not mention this in the original draft of my post, but after one commenter brought this to my attention, I edited my post so as to add this point. If the prenup would literally leave the lower earner with no way to make ends meet in the event of a divorce, there is a very good chance that the prenup will be deemed unenforceable. That said, if you are anti-alimony, you should talk about that before getting married. If you would like for both you and your … | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 06:25 PM |
| 0 | How to avoid alimony and child support.I would like to add one more point. I did not mention this in the original draft of my post, but after one commenter brought this to my attention, I edited my post so as to add this point. If the prenup would literally leave the lower earner with no way to make ends meet in the event of a divorce, there is a very good chance that the prenup will be deemed unenforceable. That said, if you are anti-alimony, you should talk about that before getting married. If you would like for both you and your … | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 06:25 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid alimony and child support.I would like to add one more point. I did not mention this in the original draft of my post, but after one commenter brought this to my attention, I edited my post so as to add this point. If the prenup would literally leave the lower earner with no way to make ends meet in the event of a divorce, there is a very good chance that the prenup will be deemed unenforceable. That said, if you are anti-alimony, you should talk about that before getting married. If you would like for both you and your … | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 06:24 PM |
| 4 | How to avoid alimony and child support.If the father signs his name on the child's birth certificate and agrees to take care of the child, he should not be allowed to change his mind later if he regrets that decision. However, if the father wanted the mother to abort and she gave birth anyway just to spite him, it makes logical sense for each tax payer to have as much financial responsibility to the child as the father does, because each tax payer had as much say in the mother's decision to keep the child as the father did. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 06:23 PM |
| 6 | Viral Video Blames Feminist Movement For Why Women Hate Men, But The Real Reason Is Way SimplerHere are two sentiments that are equally offensive and make exactly the same amount of sense. There is no such thing as misandry, just women who have had bad experiences with men. There is no such thing as racism, just white people who have had bad experiences with black people. To see what I am talking about check out these links. https://youtu.be/rQv8VuLpKN4?si=cvxNdUjizqdEMrvr https://youtu.be/qVKvEaokV6I?si=kg40VCa6dA4Rnk-L | /r/MensRights | 23/02/24 05:25 PM |
| 76 | Men are blamed for beauty standards but women refuse to associate with other women who dress a certain way or have too many ugly features.There is legitimate empirical data to suggest that the majority of body shaming is done by women. https://www.bbc.com/news/technology-36380247 | /r/MensRights | 23/02/24 05:22 PM |
| 1 | How do I respond when someone says that alimony should be paid, even if the lower earner is at fault for the failure of the marriage?Remember, child support and alimony are not the same thing. I for one believe that you should be able to opt out of financial responsibility to an unwanted child ( https://www.reddit.com/r/PoliticalOpinions/comments/17d9ezv/you_should_be_able_to_opt_out_of_financial/ ). Alimony can be paid, even if the couple has no children. The point about child custody makes sense if the person with whom you are arguing is in favor alimony being paid exclusively when the couple has children, but not all suppo… | /r/MensRights | 13/02/24 07:47 PM |
| 1 | How do I respond when someone says that alimony should be paid, even if the lower earner is at fault for the failure of the marriage?This argument took place online, so I do not know what genitalia the other person had. You should know that I have a vagina and I pushed two babies out of it. I am have a husband, a 4 year old daughter and a not even two year old son. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/24 07:43 PM |
| -5 | How do I respond when someone says that alimony should be paid, even if the lower earner is at fault for the failure of the marriage?Eterna_Caelestina. Remember, child support and alimony are not the same thing. I for one believe that you should be able to opt out of financial responsibility to an unwanted child ( https://www.reddit.com/r/PoliticalOpinions/comments/17d9ezv/you_should_be_able_to_opt_out_of_financial/ ). Alimony can be paid, even if the couple has no children. The point about child custody makes sense if the person with whom you are arguing is in favor alimony being paid exclusively when the couple has children… | /r/MensRights | 13/02/24 12:28 AM |
| 3 | The loss of men's spaces, and who it hurts most.Shoe On Head some quite a bit to say about this issue. https://youtu.be/rQv8VuLpKN4?si=TspZVJv0XwZx5bBG https://youtu.be/qVKvEaokV6I?si=KRBF_-vOViYzapP9 | /r/MensRights | 03/02/24 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Help me understand, what are the law-related issues that men face?I happen to advocate for the right to opt out of financial responsibility to an already born child ( https://www.reddit.com/r/PoliticalOpinions/comments/17d9ezv/you_should_be_able_to_opt_out_of_financial/ ). | /r/MensRights | 03/02/24 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Double standards in relationshipI would recommend asking a woman what she means when she advocates for 50/50. To me, 50/50 means that you are equal in authority. That is where a spousal relationship differs slightly from a parent child relationship. If you have children (particularly if you have them the old fashioned way) then true equality of outcome is impossible. Females can give birth and males cannot. Statistics show that less than half of women believe that it is the man's responsibility to pay on the first date. Men ar… | /r/MensRights | 02/02/24 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Imo the word creep is thrown aroundTo hear some helpful advice on how to flirt without being creepy, check out this link( https://youtu.be/BVYuMhjk58o?si=UEid-5k9Ytaf0m4_ ). | /r/MensRights | 02/02/24 01:17 AM |
| 0 | The gender gap in life expectancy is closingThe statistics showing that women live longer than men are true across the animal kingdom. In pretty much every species, the females outlive the males on average ( https://www.bath.ac.uk/announcements/scientists-investigate-why-females-live-longer-than-males/ ). Based on that, it is logical to assume that this is a side effect of testosterone, either as a direct chemical interaction or the behaviors to which testosterone predisposes you. However, I think that there is more to it than that. In pr… | /r/MensRights | 02/02/24 01:15 AM |
| 1 | It's worse to be sexually abused by a woman than by a man. You become a living taboo. You can never speak your truth without being silenced or shamed. You are forever marked as a pariah by many womenThere probably exist people who believe that women cannot rape men, but I do not think that the people who hold that belief are in the majority. I have never seen any statistic to show that most people believe that. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/24 01:05 AM |
| 1 | How many people here believe that woman were opressed?America has a racist and sexist history. Women were not allowed to vote until 1920 ( https://www.law.cornell.edu/constitution/amendmentxix ). Many other countries have just as bad a history. Saudi Arabia did not lift the ban on women driving until very recently ( https://www.bbc.com/news/world-middle-east-44576795 ), women in Afganistan cannot show their faces ( https://asiafoundation.org/2010/01/27/womens-biggest-problems-in-afghanistan-2/ ) and female genital mutilation is very common in Somol… | /r/MensRights | 02/02/24 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Taylor Swift & Elon Musk - Gender SwapSwift's music promotes domestic abuse? What are you talking about? | /r/MensRights | 02/02/24 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Misandrist female coworkers make white collar work feel like high schoolThis is just one of many reasons why professional relationships and friendships do not need to and probably should not overlap ( https://youtu.be/PnEEQ3RUBaE?si=jbVDbrJxEpNbX2M9 ). | /r/MensRights | 02/02/24 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Why is the "Who are you protecting us from? Oh yes OTHER MEN" card seen as a good point when it's just low IQ?That is so true; https://youtu.be/eg0jsXNxzLI?si=DZE-OtA_uzlYu7aJ https://youtu.be/8Ftr5Ywr5OY?si=RLjWYI77zdxByjNJ | /r/MensRights | 02/02/24 12:55 AM |
| 1 | No matter how much women’s sports is pushed on society. It will never be as popular as men’s.Someone has been watching Bill Burr ( https://youtu.be/I745Ajeq_B8?si=3iTAmJbOoc1o089K ). | /r/MensRights | 02/02/24 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Could you discuss what loneliness means to you in your own words? Can you describe a few of your own experiences and feelings with loneliness?To hear a nuanced and carefully examined explanation as to what loneliness is, from Rachel Oates, click this link ( https://youtu.be/d2yApMSTUNY?si=KJYX2kmna7PUlLYS ). To hear about the epidemic of loneliness among young people today, check out these links; https://youtu.be/rQv8VuLpKN4?si=_9eaIGvjMh44Xzch https://youtu.be/qVKvEaokV6I?si=gFIYUs_3WrWM8GX2 To hear some helpful advice on how to form meaningful connections, check out these links; https://youtu.be/XoqPL0nczfY?si=zU_eFrZM1o5vBASq https… | /r/MensRights | 02/02/24 12:51 AM |
| 1 | It feels like 90+% of young women in the US hate men, and society cheers them on for itWatch this video by Sydney Watson ( https://youtu.be/E4xYz6WFlcY?si=M3NCObsuf7UowRQj ). | /r/MensRights | 02/02/24 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Rant: Women should be held accountable for their part in the sex trade since they are the majority of pornstars and prostitutes.In the case of prostitution, I do not think either the prostitute or the john should be arrested. In my view, it makes no sense that you can be arrested for selling something that is legal to give away for free. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/24 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Rant: Women should be held accountable for their part in the sex trade since they are the majority of pornstars and prostitutes.I think prostitution should be legal. Consensual sex is legal, paying someone to do you a service is legal, paying someone to have sex with you should be legal. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/24 12:44 AM |
| 1 | is it just me or is men's rights activism or the "manosphere" on the rise?There exist people who believe that men's right activism and the manosphere are the same thing. That is not to say that that is necessarily what OP claims, but there exist people who believe that. They are in fact two different things. https://youtu.be/EkgffFSYRRM?si=HdWaIdPu9x5GVVEd https://youtube.com/shorts/Dlht4D60lMQ?si=n_xOjPfIBRJex4V5 https://youtu.be/kyPeKKH2PEU?si=5e45EJM4gwnh_-JY https://youtu.be/iumH0BS8OVk?si=DlAC6wvDeqtdn7L4 | /r/MensRights | 02/02/24 12:43 AM |
| 33 | Double standards in relationshipIt is like Bill Burr pointed out, feminists claim to want equality, but in reality they view a man's life like a buffet. They only want the good stuff about being a guy. https://youtu.be/FjLT-xI8_MA?si=zTe6BnVturAZ-RIq They feel that women should get paid the same as men, but then men should still be expected to pay for everything when they go on a date. They complain that most CEO's and politicians are men, but they are suspiciously okay with the fact that most people who work in sewers are men… | /r/MensRights | 02/02/24 12:34 AM |
| 12 | Double standards in relationshipThere was that one episode of the 90's situation comedy Home Improvement where Brad (the oldest of the Taylor boys) began dating a girl who embraced traditionally feminine roles like cleaning up after him. Jill (the mother) took issue with this, even though the girl whose name I cannot remember said that she was okay with it. I have never seen any sit com where a teenage boy decides to take a girl to dinner and pay the bill and the parents of the girl take issue with that. Think about that, it i… | /r/MensRights | 02/02/24 12:32 AM |
| 1 | How do I make a good argument against alimony?Marriage is a very fulfilling life path for the majority of people ( https://www.inc.com/melanie-curtin/want-a-life-of-fulfillment-a-75-year-harvard-study-says-to-prioritize-this-one-t.html ). Dangers like alimony can be avoided if you get a prenup. There are several ways that a prenup can be voided, so talk to a lawyer and make sure that none of those apply to your situation. Getting a prenup would not be necessary to avoid alimony if alimony where abolished. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/24 03:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I make a good argument against alimony?You dont make arguments against alimony. Sure you do. You make arguments against alimony, because it is an outdated system. You tell any man you can find about dangers of marriage and alimony. Those dangers can be avoided if you get a prenup. There are several ways that a prenup can be voided, so talk to a lawyer and make sure that none of those apply to your situation. Getting a prenup would not be necessary to avoid alimony if alimony where abolished. If men dont marry there would be no alimon… | /r/MensRights | 27/01/24 03:44 PM |
| 36 | How do I make a good argument against alimony?If you quit your job, you no longer receive a paycheck. That is because reaping the benefits of having a job is supposed to carry with it the expectation that you keep your job. Similarly, reaping the benefits of married life is supposed to carry with it the expectation that you will remain married. If you wish to reap the benefits of married life without the expectation to stay married, you are the one who should have to put it in writing that you will have your cake and eat it too. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/24 07:59 PM |
| 0 | How do I refute the argument that the child has a right to financial support from all of his/her parents?You can disagree with the facts and reality of life What fact of life is bigelow6698 denying? It is a biological fact that sex carries with it the potential to procreate. However, to claim that consent to sex equals consent to parenthood is a philosophical proposition that cannot be proven or disproven. In some previous comments, bigelow6698 made some good points that you did not address. Point #1: Imagine if a child is brought into this world, both biological parents want to give the child up f… | /r/MensRights | 12/11/23 10:46 PM |
| 1 | If you walk out on your child, is that different from opting out of parenthood to begin with?Milk and Honey. I am glad that you are in favour of paper abortion for men. However, I take issue with your statement that it should never be normalised. Imagine three friends of yours (two males and one female). The female tells you that she is having an abortion (even though the man who impregnated her wants her to keep the baby). This is a tough decision for her, because she knows people are going to call her a baby killer. The first male friend tells you that the woman carrying his baby is h… | /r/MensRights | 12/11/23 10:44 PM |
| 16 | How do I refute the argument that the child has a right to financial support from all of his/her parents?The custodial parent seeking financial support from the non-custodial parent is the only way for the child to receive support. Imagine two hypotheticals. Hypothetical #1: The custodial parent chooses not to seek financial support from the non-custodial parent. Hypothetical #2: The custodial parent seeks financial support from the non-custodial parent and the latter does not pay the support. In both of these hypotheticals, the child does not receive financial support from the non-custodial parent… | /r/MensRights | 03/11/23 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Is the 80/20 rule real?To hear about the 80/20 rule from someone who does not agree with it, click this link ( https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/yk4mnh/8090_of_women_only_date_the_top_1020_of_men_and/ ). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 02:37 AM |
| 7 | Tik Tok feminist tells men not to approach strange women in parking lots.I have a son and a daughter. I hope that my daughter grows up to be nothing like these feminist idiots and my son grows up to be repulsed by women like this. A lot of people are petrified of strangers because of trauma. If you where molested as a child and now you are so afraid of people you do not know that a stranger yelling "excuse me" triggers you to run for the hills, then I understand. I am sympathetic to the tale of someone who is that traumatized. We, as a society tend to name call peopl… | /r/MensRights | 05/04/23 06:23 PM |
| 2 | The old tote that "you are only being creepy if the other person isn't attracted to you" is only partially true.I know exactly what you mean. I will tell you that it is not particularly fun being hit on by random strangers in public. Usually when I tell a man that I have a husband, he backs off, realizing that he cannot possibly compete with the man who I already know and who fathered my children. Trying to win the heart of someone who is already married to someone else would be like trying to sell a car to someone who already owns a car. When I tell the man that I am married and he still remains persiste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Is the manic Pixie Dream boy problematic?You mean this video ( https://youtu.be/SrB50nnBLjk )? Yeah, I watch that video. OP only instructed us to watch from 1:33- 2:15, but I watched the entire video. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/22 06:55 PM |
| 0 | Is the manic Pixie Dream boy problematic?If women are expected to be agreeable and primarily focused on a man’s happiness, and she is held to this expectation specifically because she is a woman, that is problematic. However, when a person makes a movie and features female lead who is agreeable and fun, focused on her man’s happiness and only there to support him, that does not mean that the people who made the movie believe that any woman (real or fictional) needs to be that way or that it is problematic is a woman fails to embody the… | /r/MensRights | 07/08/22 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Is the manic Pixie Dream boy problematic?When someone says “If you object to one, you should object to both,” they aren’t saying that they object to either. They are saying that anyone who is offended by the manic pixie dream girl trope but perfectly okay with the male equivalent is guilty of an unfair double standard. That is called gender equality, where the punishment is meant to match the severity of the crime, not the genitalia of the victim and/or perpetrator. I see nothing wrong with that. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/22 01:12 AM |
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