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WhatsFairIsFair/r/seduction15/07/12 04:29 AM
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Men ask with actions not words. You asked this girl (prematurely) by taking her pants off. Don't listen to sparkiesdarkies.
/r/seduction23/02/14 08:26 PM
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It's simple man. Find different activities to fill up all your time that consist of different social circles. The same way anyone makes friends. Being a bartender should lead to social connections by itself, but you should have many social circles not just one. It's ok to make friends with people in uni. Just do the things that you want to do, and friends will come naturally. If you like to do nonsocial activities, just try to do them in social places. I've gotten opened multiple times when I wa…
/r/seduction23/02/14 08:24 PM
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Don't let random strangers AMOG you over the internet. It's obvious that dude's a douche and I'm sure that was your first thought on reading it. So why did you react apologetically? Are your opinions worth less than his? Learn to value yourself more than you value nonconfrontation.
/r/seduction08/01/14 01:34 AM
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What was the reason for being banned?
/r/seduction07/01/14 12:09 AM
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I wouldn't just go for a number. It's not really as much of a milestone as you are making it out to be. The only time I get a number is when there's good chemistry and I ask them out. Something like "can I buy you a drink some time?" I would say go for that if it feels right. As for the other thing, you should just go for the 5 second talk rule if you are genuinely trying to improve. Increasing the amount of trials is the easiest way to reduce anxiety and increase experience. It's also the most …
/r/seduction23/12/13 05:30 AM
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I dont think it's a game killer, just a handicap. Gather some data in the field. Can you meet people? Can you converse past the initial weird eye phase? If you can do those two things people will stop thinking of you as the guy with the lazy eye and as a person. If it's too hard with the lazy eye you might try an eye patch and white lies about why you're wearing it, but that might be too incongruous for you. Every question in your post could be answered by spending an hour in a bar or other soci…
/r/seduction23/12/13 05:14 AM
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I would treat it as a don't shit where you eat scenario. Given the low population go in with the assumption that you will see every person you talk to again at some point in time. Do approaches with the intent of meeting new people. As you get to know people and women you will find out who you have chemistry with. If you are labelled a player then you are labelled a player, it really doesn't mean a damn thing but it's always good to have your reputation precede you. Ultimately people's impressio…
/r/seduction19/12/13 07:42 AM
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nah, it doesn't evolve unless you want it to. I hope given everything you've just said you wouldn't say yes to someone who asks you to be in a closed relationship. Just tell them you don't really want to commit to anything right now.
/r/seduction31/07/12 10:06 AM
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Why is it fortunate that she leaves in a month? Solid DHV game, I'll remember it when I'm out not approaching.
/r/seduction30/07/12 10:36 PM
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I agree with this. But honestly I think it's too damn hard to find a good wing. Much easier to simply go somewhere with friends and sarge around while you always have that social group to fall back on.
/r/seduction29/07/12 05:11 PM
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Congrats man. It's all uphill from here. Keep going out!
/r/seduction29/07/12 04:59 PM
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Jesus, man. You painted an ugly fucking picture. If you don't think the girl is hot don't go for her. You see hot girls? Talk to them instead and give us better adjectives than ugly and fat. Work on not caring what other people think when you talk to girls. If you can't do that at least twist it around and see it in a positive light. When people see you going up talking to different girls they think oh shit now here's a confident guy. He must be worth something.
/r/seduction29/07/12 04:51 PM
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Really really great reads on the next post by the person who created the thread. http://www.rsdnation.com/node/98734/forum
/r/seduction22/07/12 04:51 AM
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i would have given him the whole fucking pack.
/r/seduction19/07/12 10:37 AM
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This is a work environment. If you make a bad impression or make things awkward are you willing to be around those same emotional connotations for the next year? If the answer is no then you shouldn't be trying to get her number. The whole abundance theory relies on you believing you can get tons of girls. With that being true why go after the girls that have the highest risk with the least reward? If you have abundance you can afford to make smart decisions.
/r/seduction18/07/12 10:24 AM
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Of course it's repetitive. These are free tours given to newbies who are just getting interested in pickup. The hardest part about pickup is breaking out of approach anxiety and the negative spiral. It's only natural that it's the point that will be focused on the most.
/r/seduction18/07/12 02:00 AM
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When I play the day game (which is the only game i play right now) I usually use an indirect opener. Sure, I can give you a tip for a situation like that. Stop thinking. You could have condensed the problem of that situation down to 4 words. "I had approach anxiety." If you don't open a girl, you missed the opportunity and in the end nothing happened. If you open a girl and get rejected you explored the opportunity and in the end nothing happened. GO OUT AND HAVE ADVENTURES, OUTCOME INDEPENDENCE…
/r/seduction17/07/12 12:57 PM
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Superbly well written FR. I'll reference this when I'm writing some of mine. I have no criticism to give. You're hundreds of opens ahead of me. I enjoyed reading it though and your detail in regard to openers really helps. Please write more!
/r/seduction17/07/12 02:49 AM
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Yes. Simply thinking about being the center of attention in a group brings up negativity and anxiety. Two emotions that I used to have a lot more of.
/r/seduction16/07/12 08:08 PM
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You might have better luck taking pictures of them the night of than you will getting their last names after the fact. Your text message trying to find out her last name comes off as needy.
/r/seduction16/07/12 10:04 AM
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It seems only the last paragraph is relevant to your text game. You use far too many asterisks, I can't really understand what you're trying to say when you use so many asterisks. If they are supposed to be names you should just make up fake names or something. "I didn't catch you're last name what is it so i can add it into my phone." What was the purpose in saying this? You wanted her last name so you can see what she looks like on facebook? Why?
/r/seduction16/07/12 03:31 AM
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Do you have any negativity that's been building up? Close your eyes. Create an image of what you think the perfect man is. Think of all the reasons why he's the perfect person. Then open your eyes and start doing those things. What I mean to say is that sometimes having a bad habit, even if you like doing it, can lead to negativity and impact other areas of your life. e.g. never cleaning your room can cause you to be more negative because you are ashamed of yourself for never cleaning it and thu…
/r/seduction15/07/12 11:40 PM
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You're thinking too much. Stop thinking. Smile more as this will also lead to you being in a happier mood and saying nicer things. Go in with the goal of making the people you are talking to smile. Interact with people more, and analyze each situation after you have it. Write about it in a journal and think of ways that you could have done better. You obviously have the intention of becoming nicer so the more you practice and work at it the nicer you will become and the more natural and confiden…
/r/seduction15/07/12 11:10 PM
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The first thing you need to do before anything else is to recover from this negative swing. Forget about girl 2 and 3, simply stop texting them. Get in a calm happy energetic state in whatever way works best for you, then get out there and meet some girls. Online dating is nice, but you are limiting yourself to a small fraction of the whole.
/r/seduction15/07/12 11:04 PM
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I agree with the seclusion aspect and was hesitant to go for the kiss because of that. But if I had one goal for this date it was to go for a kiss and I'm proud that I accomplished that goal. It's hard for me to think of secluded places in public areas though. I don't think I'm going to go for a second date, but if I was I would take your advice. Thanks for the feedback Radikus_Rex.
/r/seduction15/07/12 06:02 PM
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You hit the nail on the fucking head CoolJazzGuy. I admitted that I made some mistakes throughout the night but I was abdicating most of the blame onto her. You just snapped me back to reality. I really need to work on my talking game and giving value. I'm usually the guy that sits in the corner and doesn't talk unless talked to in group settings. It's going to be rough to overcome that comfort zone. I certainly didn't feel like the most interesting person in the park. Thanks for the great advic…
/r/seduction15/07/12 05:59 PM
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You could always confront your wing and give him advice on what he needs to work on. I hope you told him what you were planning to do and what type of game you'd be playing. Then after each set you could tell him what he did wrong and tell him to improve it for the next set. I would only ditch a friend if they refused to improve not if they simply messed up once or twice.
/r/seduction15/07/12 01:56 PM
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That's great man. Sounds like you've really gotten rid of your AA completely and you had a great night. Opened a lot of sets, I'm envious of you.
/r/seduction15/07/12 01:52 PM
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Get rid of those negative energies Spivey. You are amazing! You could conquer the world if you wanted to.
/r/seduction15/07/12 01:47 PM
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I agree with this. Think about it. If I don't watch porn for a while the desire increases substantially and makes me really want to masturbate. However, maybe I can turn all of that desire and energy into amping up my game instead of into a balled up tissue in the trash can. I used to masturbate every day and approaching women wouldn't matter because I would look at someone and go "oh man, she's so hot" "I'm going to go masturbate to something like that when I get home." It negates the motivatio…
/r/seduction15/07/12 01:44 PM
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The best action is never inaction.
/r/seduction14/07/12 08:32 PM
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You can take it. Get over the girl and focus on improving yourself. I don't care how cool the girl was chances are there's a shitload of cool girls that you are ignoring because you're hung up over just one. Get over being a virgin because it's a social stigma that you are using against yourself. When you walk up to a girl they have no idea how many girls you've fucked. Go meditate away all of your negative energies. Ask yourself why you can't get girls and focus on improving whatever answer you…
/r/seduction14/07/12 08:29 PM
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Focus on every negative emotion that you were experiencing in your panic attack. Rationally think about what you can do to fix it. Do all of those things, make all of those commitments. Do this for yourself. Ask yourself why "you are a chode" and if you have the answer to that question work on improving the answer until you don't have a single answer left.
/r/seduction14/07/12 08:19 PM
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Here's what I'm thinking buddy. If you or I were her boyfriend we probably would have picked up on the fact that the relationship is strained and losing interest. Maybe we're a bit hung up about it maybe we're completely smitten with her and want to spent the rest of our life with her. It's obvious this relationship is gone though. The faster that she dumps the guy the faster he can move on with his life and stop wasting potential money and time with a girl that is no longer interested in him. D…
/r/seduction14/07/12 08:05 PM
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I agree with Kolire. No smiley faces. As for texts try to keep it as short as possible. Like with the first text. You already knew that you wanted a date with her and that she was interested in you. You could have just said: "Hey Umi, this is X. I wish we had more time to talk the other night. Lets get dinner on Saturday at 8pm at [restaurant]." Bam done, thats it. Don't even bother asking her when she's free. If she's not free on that day she will suggest other times if she's interested. Or if …
/r/seduction14/07/12 07:55 PM
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Very inspiring story. Thanks for sharing. I hope more than getting to see a master that I will ever get over anxiety and rejection.
/r/seduction14/07/12 07:08 PM
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First of all I wouldn't try to pick up girls on the dance floor. It may get you a dance, but it probably won't lead to anything other than that. In clubs you want to open up sets in the bar areas where people are talking. Opening by going directly to them dancing has a high chance of failing as you are basically asking them a yes or no question. Even if they answer yes, it's not easy to convert that into a conversation. Some guys are just douches, if something like that happens it's probably bet…
/r/seduction14/07/12 07:03 PM
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I don't get what the big deal is. Life is not black and white. You can have pot smoking friends that you smoke pot with and have pua friends that you get girls with. The only way they are holding you back is because you are either taking them with you to try and get girls, or you don't go off to get girls without somebody by your side. You are holding yourself back, don't put this on your friends. Just do what you want to do when you want to do it. If your friends complain that you aren't spendi…
/r/seduction13/07/12 03:17 AM
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It's not just a stigma in society though. It has an evolutionary basis as well. A female who has sexual activity with many different partners has less of a chance to bear children for any one male than a female who has sexual activity with just one male partner. A large part of our evolutionary framework is around sexual selection so it makes sense that promiscuous behavior is looked down on and will continue to be looked down on. I typed this in rather an inelegant fashion but maybe you get my …
/r/seduction13/07/12 03:03 AM
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