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I was hoping for a Its Always Sunny reference before I clicked this
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:09 AM
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Bedroom pop, late night jams, R&B She usually wont care.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 12:42 PM
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Yes it does. It's mainly the subconscious feeling of shame that gets lifted that really gets me
/r/askTRP29/09/20 12:15 PM
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You seem like a genuinely kind person but that "nice guy" is definitely still lurking within you. As a man you have to set boundaries, principles, personals rules etc. You have to stop trying to hold onto this nice guy image. It will get you walked on, taken advantage of and get you no where in life. Next time after you get asked a favor stop, think (do I have something going on right now? Do I really want to do this? They can do it themselves etc.) How they feel if you say no is THEIR PERSONAL …
/r/askTRP26/09/20 01:51 PM
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You good
/r/askTRP24/09/20 06:57 PM
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Don't go monk mode but do take the "Focusing on yourself" route . You don't have to hole yourself up and be 100% dedicated to self improvement (unless that's what you want to do) instead of that be more stingy with your time, your favors, and your fucks to give. Yes, keep dating. Have fun but remember who and what comes first: Learning, Lifting, online business... Etc. What ever youre going to do.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 03:20 AM
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Embrace your height . Be confident. People like confidence and walk like a man whole doing it
/r/askTRP26/08/20 04:12 AM
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To a certain degree but women are more opposite than us they want a man that haven't been with too many women BUT at the same time be experienced but look at you as a loser if you haven't been with many women, AND they want the world to believe they're these sweet little angels when they're fcking around with the "bad boy" that you will NEVER know about while stringing Tommy NiceGuy along but anyway, "To fck more women" is most likely the initial "Why" when some men take the red pill and that's …
/r/askTRP23/08/20 02:10 PM
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Welcome to your new comfort zone . (Which is better than a lot of others' comfort zones) Adapt and use what you have now to your advantage in this zone Or start brainstorming how you can break out and get into better things.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 11:07 PM
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You're seeking validation because you're probably thinking "oh boy this could be the one that does sex with me, I can't mess this up" so in turn without even realizing it your rose colored goggles are in full effect and you start getting needy which is a BIG turn off for women. The best way to get through to a woman is NOT seek validation (it shows confidence). Women are the ones that do validation seeking DON'T GIVE IT TO THEM. Do your thing, have fun and if you see a woman giving any IOI's (In…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:57 PM
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I read this wrong my man. No. Hanging out with low SMV women lowers your SMV. Whoever you're trying to dread will laugh at those women on the inside because she knows she has a higher SMV
/r/askTRP19/06/20 08:25 PM
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My man, we probably lived the same life to a T. Constantly moving growing up, the substance abuse, the depression, having a bunch of older friends (or they have their shit together type friends), Lost a lot of friends or just cool friends that faded away, and I have still have a few of my "drug friends" who are super cool but at the end of the day I'm not trying to live like that 24/7 like this is highschool still. I've been a "drifter" most my teen to young adult life (24/M) so I was DEFINITELY…
/r/askTRP14/06/20 11:30 PM
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If she's not truly emotionally connected to you then no[Simply because the thought of losing you doesn't matter to her] but if you want to try it you're going to have to father the fuck out of that bitch (because she hadn't had one) until that emotional attachment is engrained in her... it might take a minute.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 06:42 PM
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First yes, don't take tinder so seriously most of these women are looking for attention but you're getting the ball thrown in your court a lot so I assume your good looking.. good.. DON'T reply right away but reply when you can. If she gives you (a): 1. Silence 2. Shit test 3. Logical/Platonic text 4.positive text/flirty Take these actions in accordance: 1.ping value into the void[NO QUESTIONS, NO PLANS, Make sure it has something to do with you two] 2. Pass that shit test [agree, exaggerate, NO…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 06:37 PM
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She really likes you but yes.. she is VERY insecure. The more you let her be needy the more she's going to do all those examples. In her woman brain she thinks as long as you're still around she's doing something right. When she does all that lovey-dovey shit she most likely believes she's in the right and therefore you should do something equal or better in return. [The same way BP men friendzone themselves]. Yeah man If I were you I'd drop her or use her insecurity to you're advantage.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:33 PM
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It's because bald men (when done right) look badass I think it's just stuck in our head from years of bald action movie stars or criminals.. they're sometimes bald in movies
/r/askTRP24/05/20 02:47 PM
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Just accept them for what they are. Women are master manipulators, emotional, and indecisive. Some of them don't even know they're doing it. Absorb that info and use it to your advantage. Stop taking women so seriously.. <---- drill that into your head. Live your life.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:38 PM
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Of course but you have to do your best to lead the relationship and DON'T get married.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 08:28 PM
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How you can: Let her persue you more than you do her [she's a single mom, you don't want to be calling her having play time with her kid or something.], treat her like any other plate, don't hit her up after sex [she'll get back to you if you were good enough in bed.] when she does text or call you back [if she's not crazy, the text will most likely be positive or neutral and not one of those "So are you not going to talk to me anymore" texts] ask what her schedule is like and if you can squeeze…
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:40 AM
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"not right now" "No, I'm good" "No thanks I'm staying in today" "No" "In your dreams" "You can't hang"
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:16 AM
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Yeah man stop playing, make a move and don't worry you feeling like an asshole is your blue pilled side sneaking up on you. Don't take women seriously, they're emotional so all you're going to get is emotions if you fall into her chaotic frame. Keep teasing her but keep it light. Make a move, or make some moves for something to happen.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:29 PM
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Well yeah because semen retention is semen retention. Now if your going to spill your seed sex is much better than masturbation (mentally)
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:19 PM
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Thank you to all those that know your T spikes at about a week.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:16 PM
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People say don't take life too seriously notice that "too" there . You still have to take it somewhat seriously because not being taken serious is DANGEROUS as a man. You don't want that. You want to be able to assert yourself in life so nobody walks all over you. A big one is to stop laughing at your jokes even it a joke BOMBS keep it silent, keep it cool. Be slightly more serious, have a strong masculine frame, no over the top gestures. You're either a James Bond or an Ace Ventura.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:10 PM
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It's a shit test to see if you chase (Don't) Something or someone better came up. She genuinely was concerned she had work so she didn't come. I would put my money on 1 or 2 because I believe a horny woman is a hustler. She will find a way. But if your confident she's DTF.. good. She's become a plate on your shelf. Keep talking to other women, don't hit her up, and when she does get back to you (She will, even if it takes months. She will) don't make it easy for her AT ALL. Make her work for you…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 10:57 PM
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Fuck her. Who cares if she friends with your ex that's your ex, you are single now.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 10:21 PM
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No. Your sexual history is exactly what it is; History, the past. That's your business. Don't fall into that trap even if you're in a LTR. It's just you and your SO now.
/r/MGTOW206/05/20 05:42 AM
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Do you workout?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 05:29 AM
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Only eat pussy in an LTR. Rarely.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 05:24 AM
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You're doing much better than most. A good chunk of men masturbate every single day sometimes more. You have to understand that it's EXCESSIVE masturbation that will really destroy you and that semen retention is HARD and requires great discipline. Yeah man, Somewhere about close to a week of no masturbation you gain a massive spike in testosterone that definitely explains the strong urges. You have to challenge yourself to fight that motherfucker . Go for a walk, do some pushups, go look for so…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 05:22 AM
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Alpha pretty much summed it up so I'll give you this: POST LITTLE TO NO SELFIES
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:33 AM
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Don't take women seriously. Most women don't know how to "roast" in a comedic way, that's just how nature goes. They may say something, yeah, micro insulting is a good way to put it because they're emotional and reactivate she's going to give back what you give out but as long as you're holding frame, smirk while teasing her (so she knows your joking and it comes off as sexier than a big Kool aid smile on your face), and basically having fun you're good. Now if she's literally verbally attacking…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:26 AM
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You're doing fine. Keep your mind focused on improving yourself. I believe a horny woman is a hustler. She will find a way! If she REALLY wanted it she would be over in a jif. Now if you can't drive due to your state that's one thing and I'm not saying Covid 19 isn't a valid excuse but I'm seeing more and more of that being an excuse LTRs not being together over an extended period amount of time. And if she made the words "one person" stand out or used them in general. Yes. Comfort test. Keep up…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:05 AM
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When women gives you any kind of sexual attention or initiate you have to slow down some, man. Tease her, prod her, dare her to unleash her true promiscuity. She should be writing what she's going to do to you. I take women initiating as a test 8 of 10 times. Sure, y'all are in a relationship but you're not seeing each other regularly so take that as a test. What I mean: She probably saw/did something that night that sparked a little arousal then she thinks "Oh yeah, I have a boyfriend" she init…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 12:32 AM
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Less is more
/r/seduction05/05/20 11:17 PM
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That's fucking awesome man! I'm glad you're getting yourself out there and reconnecting. that's one of the hard parts. Keep it up and your chin
/r/askTRP03/05/20 10:53 PM
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DON'T LAUGH AT YOUR OWN JOKES. give a nice James Bond smirk.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:17 AM
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Sure having money helps, being a millionaire would help even more but it all boils down to.. Are you going to talk yourself out of the pussy (80/20 rule) Are you holding frame Are you passing shit tests Are you being too friendly Are you pedestalizing her I GUARANTEE there's millionaires out here right now STILL struggling to get laid. Truth is.. Money, Status, Good looks. It's bait, it's to get your foot in the door. Hell if you have all three you might as well walk in that mf. True, money help…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:15 AM
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You're not wrong at all. Y'all been together for 2 years. Never rely on a woman's words but her actions. A woman truly horny for you WILL FIND A WAY. Trust me. Or at least help out. All those nudes and "I miss you" texts are just reassurance.. for you. She wants to make it seem like she's yearning for you. Now I'm not trying to accuse your SO of fooling around but don't be surprised if you find out. What MIGHT be going on is you're being more needy than she is. The more needy you are, the less s…
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:56 PM
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[Late] I would tell you tell her straight up but since you know each other. "Friend". I would say keep playing it cool if you're fucking already but when she hits you with that ultimatum (What are we?, Where is this going?, What am I to you?) Then you tell her straight up. Something like: "Look, I'm liking what we have going on but for right now I'm not looking to be exclusive." Some women will be cool with it and continue fucking you until they can "monkey branch" to the next one and give that …
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:36 PM
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IMO you shouldn't eat pussy unless its a LTR. It comes off as validation seeking and too submissive in the beginning. You're trying to hard please her. She should posting on here. "How to suck dick better" it's not about her pleasure it's about yours. Women want to be DOMINATED. That's how you get HER chasing YOU. She'll want to pleasure you better. She'll want to submit to you and only you. Only if you dominate her sexually into submission and eating her pussy is not going to get you there.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:25 PM
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Just be yourself man. Keep that strong masculine frame, take up a lot of space and be seen. Make people laugh, yeah but don't be goofy with it and start laughing your own jokes. Don't worry, women ask questions like "why are you so [x]" or say "you seem so [x]" because they are CURIOUS they can't figure you out. Remember curiosity killed the cat. Just make sure your intentions are clear with women and DON'T BE FRIENDLY(that how you friendzone yourself) be Flirtatious, Bold, find a comfy spot bet…
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:15 PM
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(kinda long) You're around feminine energy all the time your going to absorb that and eventually thrive on it and get moulded by it. You have to understand women bring little to no value in your life, only you do, and that brings in women that are actually interested in you and not the ones looking for a 'safe male bestfriend'. Women are master manipulators. Those girls that are your friend probably have you wrapped around their finger. Set Boundaries and don't be afraid to enforce them. Look ma…
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:02 PM
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Next time hold frame and keep joking with her more if she starts texting back less and or blatantly being serious about "blowing up" on you, tell her have a nice day and move on with your day. If she falls into your frame and keeps texting you (She's still texting = attraction) keep your responses short and witty, blocking her every advancement to gain dominance in the conversation. You should always speak to a woman in a Man-to-Woman frame... either business or sex. You choose.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 09:25 PM
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Sounds like she's just crazy
/r/askTRP02/05/20 08:20 PM
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