| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | I never want to go out! Any tips on changing this habit? | Wild-card_bitches | /r/seduction | 08/11/12 02:48 AM | |
| 5 | How have you changed? Before and after learning pickup. | Wild-card_bitches | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 07:30 AM | |
| 1 | Failed [FR] but I'm thinking positive | Wild-card_bitches | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 07:26 AM | |
| 1 | What am I missing about conversation?!? | Wild-card_bitches | /r/seduction | 01/11/12 09:20 AM | |
| 1 | Girl talks about past/potential hook ups in front of me. Bad sign? | Wild-card_bitches | /r/seduction | 21/07/12 11:05 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | I never want to go out! Any tips on changing this habit?I go to the gym 3-4 times a week to lift weights and often I use that as justification not to go out as it will negatively effect my fitness goals. It's like I don't trust myself to have a good time when I go out but I always know I can have an enjoyable time at home. I want to break the habit but my will power is terrible when it comes to this. | /r/seduction | 08/11/12 05:16 AM |
| 2 | As a joke, girl is asked to pick one of two guys if they were the only men left in the world. Instead, she picks me, how to respond?"You can't have me!" - cocky/funny style Of course this is in hindsight, on the spot I'd probably say something retarded. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Shit's finally starting to happen for me. Here's whyHow the hell do you muscle through that awkward feeling? When I go onto the dance floor I feel lost in a crowd and it freaks me out. Maybe clubs just aren't my thing but that's where all my friends go. | /r/seduction | 02/11/12 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Failed [FR] but I'm thinking positiveI have no problem dancing but I do have a problem going up to a girl and dancing with her. Did do a few approaches tonight and got blown out of them but I gotta say, after the first couple I pretty much lost any fear I had of approaching. My inability to maintain any sort of conversation after that is what is really holding me back. | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Failed [FR] but I'm thinking positiveThank you, this sounds like exactly what I need. | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Failed [FR] but I'm thinking positiveI guess I didn't mention it but, I wasn't drinking so that definitely held me back a lot. However, I'd rather work on the sober me than use alcohol as a crutch. | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 07:09 PM |
| 1 | I'm 0/70 this summer in approaches. Any advice so I can get something going before I wasted my whole summer?It would probably go something like this: Me: Alright I gtg meet back up with my friends, (start pulling out phone or already have it out as if you got a text message from a friend) give me your number and we'll talk some more. (smile) Her: Ok or say you talked about rock climbing or watching a movie any other activity during the conversation then it might go something like this: Me: Well I gtg but lets go rock climbing sometime! Whats your number? (as you say this be handing your phone to her) … | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 03:51 AM |
| 2 | [FR] 'state' is truly a controllable mindset. From Mr Cold/Nogame to F close.Thanks for the tips. I usually end up at clubs and bars like this because my friends enjoy them (although they usually end up just hanging out by themselves so I don't get it). Next time they drag me along I'll try to put this into action. | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 02:06 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Not giving a F, Text-GameThat last text makes no sense out of context... | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 01:10 AM |
| 1 | By request from another redditor."According to experts on slang etymology, the term “pussy” derives from the Low German "puse" (pronounced like "puss ee"), meaning "vulva"." | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 01:08 AM |
| 8 | How to stand out in a crowd?Now obviously you don't just tell everyone to leave but one girl. "Can I have everyone besides Becky leave please? I'm trying to F-Close tonight!" | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 01:03 AM |
| 28 | [FR] 'state' is truly a controllable mindset. From Mr Cold/Nogame to F close.All I could think about during the first half of this FR: http://i.imgur.com/mzIRU.png Awesome FR though man, really makes me want to go out right now! But I'm at work. Maybe you can help me out a bit though, if you don't mind. When I go to clubs/bars it always seems too loud to talk and it makes it hard for me to open. Maybe my hearing isn't the best but I always end up saying "What?" a lot because I didn't hear her. Is the answer to just get in closer? I don't want to creep her out by doing th… | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Being better at group game?Man I would love to know what to do in these situations too! Hell sometimes it will happen when I'm with a group of friends. I'll be talking to one and as soon as a couple more come along I end up on the side of the conversation, trying to get a word in when I can. And when trying to pick up girls, do I just sit back and listen, waiting for a moment when I can interject and steal back the conversation? | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 09:20 AM |
| 1 | How have you changed? Before and after learning pickup.Find solace in the fact that you are having a conversation with another human being. Do you ever find it hard to feel interested in a conversation you're having? Sometimes I'll talk to a girl, or a guy even, and find I really don't care much about what they have to say. Actually it happens more often than seems normal - feels like a fake talk. | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 08:42 PM |
| 1 | How do you become as determined as Neil Strauss?If you're doing 3 miles a day, averaging 8 minute miles, you shouldn't physically have a problem going 5 miles. | /r/seduction | 21/06/12 09:35 PM |
| 1 | As requested turned this into a post: If your starting very socially wrecked, this post is for you.Great points, definitely some inner stuff I need to work on myself. I think the hardest part is going out there and being that person you want to be. In my case, I understand that I am awesome and I TRY to genuinely care about other people but sometimes it's really hard to be that person. Got any tips on what has helped you make the transition? Also I ftfy: it was the worst experience and threw me into an anti-social anti-life depression, but I grew out of it stronger than ever. | /r/seduction | 21/06/12 09:04 AM |
| 21 | How do you become as determined as Neil Strauss?That's kind of a poor representation of the quote: “Bruce had me up to three miles a day, really at a good pace. We’d run the three miles in twenty-one or twenty-two minutes. Just under eight minutes a mile [Note: when running on his own in 1968, Lee would get his time down to six-and-a half minutes per mile]. So this morning he said to me “We’re going to go five.” I said, “Bruce, I can’t go five. I’m a helluva lot older than you are, and I can’t do five.” He said, “When we get to three, we’ll s… | /r/seduction | 21/06/12 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Top 5 MPUAs You've Never Herd OfYes because he was obviously being literal here. Besides that, a crime does not automatically constitute the worst possible offense. Hell, in some places it is a crime (see misdemeanor) to jay walk. | /r/seduction | 18/06/12 07:39 AM |
| 4 | [FR] 2 F-Closes this weekendMan, it must be nice to have places open till 4am. Thanks for the FR, very informative. | /r/seduction | 18/06/12 07:16 AM |
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