I'm starting to want to just give up and stay home all the time!

I will try to talk to these girls but I can't fucking lead the conversation to a point where we are just having a natural, fun conversation. It always turns into an interview where we just ask each other questions and never elaborate. Whenever I elaborate she backs off and it's over.

Am I just a boring person? I can usually converse with other guys alright but women I just don't know what to say. It's driving me nuts.