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That last bit made me laugh hysterically !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 01:07 PM
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That sounds awesome! Thanks for the recommendation. I read several versions of Sanditon about 25 years ago and they all felt wrong (over the years I've read all of her books multiple times). But I literally felt disgust for this latest PBS one. Now I'm continuing to watch it to witness the sheer train wreck. I mean, just how far are they (the writers and producers) really going to go? I mean, they showed people having sex on the floor in season one! They seemed to have not realized it's all abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 10:09 AM
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Even PBS is all about pick-mes with "Sanditon." What a disgrace to dishonor Jane Austen like that by writing the ending to her unfinished novel and creating such shite modern storylines that Jane, herself, would never do. I even actually heard the line "you're not like other women!" Gag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 04:33 AM
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I lived in India in the late 80s as a college exchange student. It was a year of constantly being grabbed and one flat-out attempted rape (by a pilot in uniform). The theory back then (worldwide) was that women shouldn't fight back because they might make the man mad and he might hurt you. Well I had grown up with a lot of brothers so I decided I couldn't follow that advice. I would not only fight back, I would punish them. So if I was grabbed, I'd turn around and sock the man in his face! They …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 04:45 PM
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I think it's time to be rude to your mom and tell her exactly what the dating scene is like in graphic terms and that you believe the Geneva Convention gave you human rights and you aren't just a body, existing to be abused. Not by men, and not by her. She doesn't give you the love you need so what does it matter? She is a vassal of the patriarchy and thinks you are of no import, just a means to get grandchildren that you'll end up having to slave over. Stick with your career and the fun you can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 05:53 PM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 05:26 PM
4

Here, here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:41 PM
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If you're over 18, you're an adult. If you're over 21, you're even more of an adult. Don't let anyone make you feel otherwise because the law certainly won't. Own your womanhood. If you're 30, you've made it this far, be proud of yourself. If you're 49, own it; you've made it even farther. Be proud of yourself. Life is hard, don't ever be hard on yourself. Resiliency is the key. You are enough. Stand tall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:40 PM
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And you don't need to do any of that unless you want to do it for just yourself. You are already a beautiful, worthwhile human being. You don't need a man's validation and be proud of your 26 years. You don't exist to be satisfying for a man's desire for kiddie porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:36 PM
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I hadn't thought of husbands spanking their wives in the past but yes, I remember watching the show "I Love Lucy" and Ricky would spank Lucy right on camera. It wasn't hard but the message was clear, she was his subordinate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:29 PM
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I'm almost 54 and was married twice for a grand total of 25 years and have 3 sons and a step-son (He's 25 and I'm still involved in his life even though I divorced his Dad, especially since I helped raise him since he was 3 and his mom passed away when he was 14). So I have 4 sons, really. My take on it all is that society has this fucked up idea that you need to find a man and marry him and that you aren't a complete, fulfilled person until you do. This is bullshit. Enjoy your life when single.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:19 PM
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This is slightly off-topic but WTF is up with men who don't listen to you when you flat-out tell them you're not interested? Do they think you're too stupid to not even know what you're thinking? Where do they learn this shit, the movies? I recently just stopped messaging a former co-worker who is 18 years my junior because even though he wants to (at this point) "just be friends" I can't even see taking him up on his offer of dinner, because what would we even talk about? Football and his dog? …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 03:14 PM
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I was married for 25 years and then in a 5 year relationship. After that I dated some pretty miserable men I met OLD. Then I hurt my ankle and started staying home over the last year. It was seriously the first time in my life I ever had NO plans to try to be with a guy. And all my gf's were freaking out that I wasn't "trying." I told them I'd had plenty of time being with a man and it's not like I wanted to take a walk with a man or do anything that included walking; I was in serious pain! And …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 03:05 PM
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That's awful. Where do they even learn that shit? Meanwhile I watched a movie with my 2 teenage sons last night and started pointing out all the sexist bullshit. This is how boys / men learn "what a good woman is" and how girls / women learn how a good woman "is supposed to act" (i.e. hold their tongues, pretend the idiot in charge is actually smart, tell the men "I have your back" (when they actually should have been in charge)). The whole thing was just pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:16 PM
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I once painted my nails and the guy I was seeing said, "I like your nails painted. It makes your fingers look less stubby." I told him that I would never paint them again, then. I also refused to wear earrings. He was obsessed with them, but honestly, I don't like having things dangling from my skin, and I have long, straight hair which hangs in front of my ears, so what's the point? He would point out women wearing earrings that he admired and I'd say, "sucks to be her!" So he didn't succeed wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:04 PM
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I check a lot of the same boxes as you...almost 54, married twice for 25 years and then a 5 year relationship (which traumatized me). I've traveled, earned advanced degrees, own my own place. And I'm not going to put up with any bullshit. I'm over guys and all they have done to me, and I'm extremely suspicious of them now. How are they all receiving the same playbook, that even the so-called vanilla ones should jackhammer me? WTF? I also look young, and am attractive. Honestly I don't find any m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 05:26 PM
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I feel so sorry for the kids. They have to be put first, not romance. The chance of it not working out was so high....and she probably doesn't have any legal standing if she's not on the lease or mortgage (which I would assume she isn't since she doesn't know).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 05:08 PM
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They think chicks will dig that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 02:38 AM
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I first heard that phrase on OLD and I had no clue what it meant so I just ignored it. It seemed to only be in men's bios, they didn't say it in person. It made me think they must have been OLD for a long time....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:04 PM
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You're right, there isn't a bat-signal. That's why I carry pepper spray
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:57 PM
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Pandering? Scrotes LOVE to think a woman is dEsPRrAte to feed their needy fucking egos. She may have been inviting him to invite her, or she may have just been being nice in the friend zone. But the guy has to publish this for others to see? WT actual F? He sees this as that important? This makes me not want to reach out to any human with balls and a dick forevermore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:49 PM
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She's not a person to him, doing a regular-ass thing like going somewhere. She exists for his amusement, his entertainment. She entered his car for the sole purpose of making his day and that was pre-ordained by God. She is a treat, eye candy from the heavens for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:42 PM
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Yep...that's why I "don't get a second date," lol. I let it all the feminism out and watch them squirm. It's hilarious 🤣. I don't want a second date with them, either but even if I did, they should know what they're dealing with up front. So I don't hold back. The patriarchy is mentioned numerous times and that's usually the un-deal clincher. I'd rather know if they're a scrote and not waste my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:36 PM
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Since when do men even read books like that? Immediate red flag that they're liars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:21 PM
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Yeah that's more frequent than nursing a newborn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:17 PM
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This would be your first introduction to him, like on OLD. He doesn't even bother to look up your name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:10 PM
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You should definitely write, you have a storyline which would resonate with many women and you have a way with words. You're a great storyteller!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:41 PM
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What a hilarious story! 😆 I mean, you could write a play about that triangulation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 04:32 PM
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Well said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 04:27 PM
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Go to Europe. Like next week
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 04:24 PM
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He also admittedly has Autism Spectrum Disorder. Super hard to have a relationship with someone who doesn't consider your point of view. I had a brief relationship with a man on the spectrum and basically his actions and responses to me were baffling. Three weeks in he told me about his diagnosis and it all became clear. I began to realize what a future with this man would be like. I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt but there was no way that relationship would be satisfying to me, so I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 04:20 PM
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She was a fool to get mixed up with him. Youth, ignorance...bad combination.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 04:11 PM
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Geez, if my husband or bf locked himself into any room for even 15 minutes it would be immediate divorce court. Immediate red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 04:08 PM
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Teens are unblemished and "not jaded" and it's all fucking fantasy about submissive women doting on them because they're so "special" and real women in their life don't acknowledge their "specialness." And said women have scars from C-sections, etc. Caused by them, in fact (or let's even be generous and say they're 50 percent responsible). Yet these bald, fat men are just as handsome as they were when they were 20, right? And teens know that as well, right? My last boyfriend admitted he would ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 01:48 PM
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He did it. Clear as a bell. Put him in jail for life. Put him on death row. Hopefully an inmate will take him out and save us the tax dollars that women unfairly shell out to support so many men in the prison system. The very same men who rape and kill us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 11:32 AM
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I think so, too. I wouldn't date a man who games. I would be ashamed of the idiocy of a grown man sitting there for hours doing that. No way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 11:26 AM
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I agree but dad comes to his rescue (when he's at his house) and I'm "the bad guy." But I don't care. My responsibility as a parent is that he be able to support himself in three years. Personally, I wish he had never, ever, been introduced to gaming. The new harsh rules regarding gaming in China seem about right to me (no more than 3 hours a week, and not on school nights).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 03:13 AM
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He's gone to doctors and there's no issues. Just wants to play games. Can't seem to think about or care about the future because the games will save him from those thoughts, rights? And I assume you're a woman because that's who is supposed to be on here so you're not fitting the profile I'm talking about, which is male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 04:08 PM
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I have no patience for my 15 year old's obsession with gaming and "forgetting" to do his homework. WTF is wrong with him? At his age I was a hospital volunteer, I babysat to earn $ for clothing (since my parents stopped providing that since I was 12) and I had straight A's without any interventions from my parents. A year later I was earning junior college credits after school, working at a Mexican restaurant, still volunteering and still getting straight A's. WTF is wrong with so many males?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 11:23 AM
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He gave you the UTI out of ignorance then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 11:13 AM
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He gave you the UTI out of ignorance then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 11:13 AM
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And women get UTIs from men which mean a trip to the doctor for antibiotics, then a yeast infection from the antibiotics so you have to go buy miconozole from that. And they also give you bacterial vaginosis which means a "fishy smell" which they act like is inherent to you, but really they gave it to you. Another fucking trip to the doctor for that special rx to be used for 7 nights (if you're lucky, might take a refill). I've been celebate for a year (first time since I was 18) and NO UTIs, ye…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 11:07 AM
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Divorce. The sooner, the better. No more days or nights with that asswipe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 03:56 AM
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All talk...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 05:36 PM
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Maybe she'll date outside the fold now. She's obviously been sold a load of shite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:35 AM
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By law he should have has a working smoke detector in his glorious home instead of acting like he was God's gift to smoke detecting and she had to pay the price for his parents aLmOsT losing their home to fire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:30 AM
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Having a disgusting person you wouldn't want to even have a conversation with, stick his penis into you and pump on you and grunt and groan and ejaculate (even if wearing a condom) WOULD BE DISGUSTING! You couldn't pay me enough money. And then you'd have to do it again with another disgusting pig. And again. And again. I'd rather just be dead. If sex work is so great, then why don't the men go offer up their asses for sex work to any man with money? Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:22 AM
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Happy your life will be your own now....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:16 AM
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It was a date, not a paid "exposure therapy" session. It's good that she saw what her role in such a relationship would be. Because it wouldn't stop with a side dish, would it? How about buying a car? Who would suddenly have to handle that? It would just go on and on. No way...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:11 AM
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I sent an email complaint to Silver Singles for having a woman on their ad thank Silver Singles for "getting her life back!" I got an email from a customer service guy named David who asked me to log into my SS account. I replied I was complaining, I wasn't a member. Then I got an email from SS asking how well David did in resolving my problem, and I gave him a zero because he hadn't even bothered to read what I wrote. (He probably only deals with women complaining about men on the site?). So th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 09:00 PM
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I went on a date once with a guy and we had a nice time at a swanky event. The only weird thing was when we were driving back, he tried to justify having a relationship with his high school teacher, which he didn't see as pedophilia, he saw it that she thought he had more to offer her than any of the men in town (not the first time I'd heard this from a guy btw)). Said guy bought concert tickets for the following week and said he'd pick me up at 7, etc. etc. The day of the concert he calls me an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:57 PM
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Snuff films..and there are so many snuff film shows, it's horrifying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:26 PM
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That's STILL mind-blowing? Really? Gawd. Men still don't recognize women as human and with the full rights of men? At what age do they see the stamp across our foreheads that proclaim we are a sub-species type of droid slave?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:04 PM
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That's awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:16 PM
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Yeah, that way male residents won't steal your underwear if you leave your laundry unattended. This actually happened to a friend of mine!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:13 PM
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Omg you are so perceptive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:49 AM
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I agree, even a female roommate would be tough because I am enjoying having everything my way too much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:28 AM
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They always think we want them. It makes them feel superior because then they toy with the idea of rejecting US! Lol. I once went on a lunch date (last summer, during covid) and we got Indian take-away and ate in a nearby park. He told me about his children age 17 and 19 and about how much anxiety they had (to the point that they wouldn't leave their rooms to go to school and were seemingly incapable of getting part-time jobs, etc.) I thought to myself, "I don't want to get messed up with this b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:24 AM
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Oh the poor babies, can't find a place to live. I hope you let them have it. "Yeah I prefer pee not being all over the loo and even on the wall behind it."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:10 AM
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😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 03:48 AM
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One time a woman I knew said that at the local high school, girls were just "giving it away!" So I said, "as opposed to selling it?" Basically women can't win, either way, it seems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 03:40 AM
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I have seen men advertise rooms for rent where they flat out ask for an arrangement for sex to knock the rent price down. I agree with you, women are sold a bill of goods that says "catch a man, live in a nice(r) house." But it's a trap. What are we, fucking sex slaves? We went thru the industrial revolution for this? The answer is that more women need to share housing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 03:38 AM
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I had the worst 2 sexual experiences of my life last year with 2 separate guys I tried to date (one and done for each of them). I felt so disgusted and traumatized and thought I'd "get back on that horse" but didn't. Then months went by and then I found out i had to have surgery and stopped trying to find a guy, entirely. And it was such a relief, I didn't expect that! I suddenly had this strange feeling that I "owned" my own self. It's like I've spent so much of my life seeing myself from the o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 12:51 AM
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I heard they are bringing wives in from Vietnam and they don't speak Korean and don't know what rights they have, are being physically abused, and can't leave with their kids, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 12:08 AM
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I know...if I were there and I heard a man whining over the sausage making him feel bad I would just laugh, and laugh and LAUGH AT HIM! 😅 That would be the worst! (For him).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 12:16 PM
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Sorry! Someone just copy and pasted it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 12:14 PM
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Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 12:13 PM
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I would, if I were them. Who needs that shit in their life? Imagine what it would be like to live with one of them..always needing their egos stroked...no thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 12:13 PM
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Bunch of whiny babies, honestly. They need to get a real problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 12:11 PM
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I know a Korean woman here and she divorced her husband because he was physically abusive. She's living a great life now, without him. Good riddance, foul excuse for a human being!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 12:10 PM
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WTF? I hope the women really fight back. What a bunch of whiny babies, crying about their perceived genital size...whoever heard of such pathetic victim hood?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 12:08 PM
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Thank you, I didn't realize people couldn't read it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 12:05 PM
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I know...and as though it matters to the rest of society!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 12:01 PM
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I saw an ad on TV today for "Silver Singles" where the lady is sitting next to her grey fox beau and says, " Thanks to Silver Singles, I've gotten my life back!" So every young girl and woman is being programmed by the (likely) man who wrote the ad. Thanks patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 05:06 PM
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You're right! Women punish themselves in so many ways...often deciding they don't deserve food, etc. But in general, we never lash out at others
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 02:11 PM
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I know it's illegal in the UK but I think you should get a gun or some nice machetes. No fucking way would any guy tell me I'm going to have to date in secret! And meanwhile he doesn't? No way. Make him afraid of you. You can't live the rest of your life like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 04:00 AM
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Boo hoo...they're so afraid of their SOs...she tells them what (and how much) they can eat, drink, what they can wear that might entice women (or not entice women). These terrible women make their men wash, fold and put away their own clothes. They force them to go shopping, put the food away, and then cook it and do the dishes. They have to go to work each day and not spend their earnings on anything frivolous, like beer. And at the end of the day, if they don't please these women the women wil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 03:51 AM
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Child support didn't used to be enforced (perhaps in your mom's case) but today wages can be garnished. The thing is, having no settlement as to custody means Dad could reappear and you wouldn't have any legal standing. And I have friends who are social workers and they supervise visits all the time. If he has a history of DV, he has to pay for any rehab, treatment, DV classes and supervision costs. I used to run DV classes, so I know. 99 percent were court-ordered and the guy paid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:47 PM
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I don't get it...so they just sorta keep the kid away from the dad and hope he doesn't come looking for them? How would that define who could or couldn't see the child or financially support them? Seems like that would be a pretty dicey standing. I would assume this happens more with unmarried couples? I would never do that! If I'm going to mother a child, financially support the child, etc, the other 50 percent of the DNA donor has to, too. And if he's unsafe then he has to pay for a person to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:34 AM
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Then she needs to see a lawyer and Pronto!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:28 AM
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Then she should charge extra for pain and suffering. Pregnancy really sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:27 AM
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I wouldn't stand for that...you need legal documents, for sure, spelling everything out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:26 AM
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How else would you get child support except thru the courts (via a divorce)? Do you mean don't try to have wages garnished? So you never finalized your custody with legal proceedings?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:38 PM
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She can open up the divorce again and ask for child support. It's not final. I know people who did this...i.e. changed the terms from joint custody to full custody or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:35 PM
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Fuck that. She'll be hurting economically EVEN WITH child support!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:33 PM
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WTF...you should charge him for gestating his child. Don't surrogates get 20k minimum? That is messed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:32 PM
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It happened in 2016 Olympics Marriage Proposal 2016
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:28 PM
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Sadly, this isn't the first time this was done Olympics Marriage Proposal 2016
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:26 PM
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Men sure love to "inform you" of every physical flaw, don't they? I once painted my nails and my bf said he liked it because my fingers didn't look as stubby. (Nice backhand). I've often been told my baby-fine hair (which I love, as it's as smooth as silk) is "thin." I'm very fair-skinned and I stay out of the sun but one guy told me my white skin wasn't pretty because it's ruddy (freckles), not alabaster white. WTF was I supposed to do about my skin, un-ruddy it? So he dates me and then tells m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 02:49 AM
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And everyone puts the toilet seat and lid down. And you know you're dealing with a scrote if, when you tell said scrote you've fallen in the toilet at night when the seat wasn't down, he laughs. Am I the only one who has experienced this? It's the way they let you know you're inferior because you don't have a penis so you have to be so lame as to have to sit down when you pee. But when I have ever met a man who acted like he could fucking pee better than me (as though he were biologically superi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 11:22 PM
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What a tool. He needs to get a life and so glad you didn't saddle yourself to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 11:02 PM
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I think men are actually quite stupid about how heavy and rough they can be...they're fucking clueless because they think we're an inanimate object or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 10:57 PM
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True...that way of thinking is only just beginning to be accepted. I think what some people looking at assaults (all kinds) from the outside don't realize, is that there can be a disconnect between realizing you are really in a bad situation that you didn't expect, and deciding to deal with it (fight back)...like you're in denial and are just hoping this isn't really happening and if you don't address it, it will go away. And that can happen afterwards, too, when you're trying to figure out if y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 10:00 PM
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One problem I've had is that when I am finally intimate with a man, they think they have carte blanche to grab me at any time. Like we could be discussing something serious and I was listening to him, intently, and then when I'm in the middle of speaking, he just reaches out and grabs my boob and squeezes it. Pretty clear what I was saying was of no importance at all. Just grab my boob and I'll shut up or something? And now it's time for sex when we weren’t being even remotely sexual? Like I was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 09:49 PM
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True...all of it true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 09:41 PM
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Omg that's awesome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 09:40 PM
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Personally, I think the odds are that nowadays, the marriage won't make it, so if you're a betting woman, the odds are not in your favor. Realize that when you get married, you're creating an institution, like a corporation, and it is hard to dissolve. If he develops bad credit during the marriage, it will reflect upon you when you get divorced and it will take about 7 years to recover your good name. So you will pay more for everything, even insurance. Think long and hard about it. You will be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:31 PM
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I once was talking to a Black man who said he got pissed off when he entered an elevator and could see a lone woman in there tense up. He thought it was because he was Black because he was always just by his lonesome self whenever it happened. So I told him it was any man. Being Black wasn't the common denominator in making a woman afraid, it was having a penis and being bigger and stronger than her. I think he believed me. It seemed like it, at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:18 PM
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Yeah, we're not supposed to cover the news about vicious murders like that of Shanann Watts, her unborn son, and her two daughters because of the male fragility of half the viewers. We shouldn't even talk about it because "NoT all MeN!" The thing is, it could be any man, ESPECIALLY a husband or bf. Chris Watts was "not all men" all the days of his life before those murders. So how are we supposed to have a "not all men" "detector?" The only way to be 100 percent safe is to avoid ALL men! They're…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:13 PM
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Omg there's a fetish for that, too? WTF....oh like he would be my sub? God damn that's funny!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:05 PM
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Thank you! It's a tough job with very little praise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:01 PM
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Men don't believe that what starts out as a consensual act of sex can turn into rape. There was a court case about that a few years and the defense lawyer argued it was cruel to not let a man "finish" and I believe the judge ruled in the man's favor. This is a slightly lengthy read but basically it says that in the US, the majority of states say that once consent is initially given, it can't be considered rape at a latter time during the act. So essentially men can get as violent as they want fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:58 PM
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Whenever my 14 year old son treats me like I'm "germy" I like to remind him that he's made of my germy ovarian egg, lived in my slimy uterus for 9 months, came out of my bloody vagina, had his mouth on my breasts and then drank milk (essentially secretions) my body made for him for a year! Germs be fucking damned! He needs to respect my germs! I hope my version of "exposure therapy to the truth" begins to penetrate his brain. Raising boys is tough, let me tell you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:33 PM
59

My ex-husband (when we were married at about 3 years into the relationship) once picked up a pair of my clean underwear and gasped at the normal staining underwear gets after a year or so. He made a horrible face and said, "LOOK!" I was like, "what, are you trying to shame me for a normal process? That's normal! Where would you get the idea that wasn't normal?" He then told me his ex-wife wore panty liners every day and her underwear looked at snowy white in the crotch as the day she bought them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:27 PM
10

Omg I didn't even think of that, you are so right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:18 PM
9

WTF? We're not human...We're just dolls you put on a shelf and take down when you need them, and the best dolls are the least able to defend themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:14 PM
5

You lived in India when that happened? I think even having one boyfriend would have been "turning it into a brothel" back then (in the minds of the patriarchy).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:31 PM
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And maybe they enjoy inflicting the pain of starvation on women. I've been super slim (118 on a 5'4" frame) and I know I skipped a lot of meals to get to looking that way. Maybe such a masochistic guy thinks "I'm worth starving for." Reminds me of that cult leader of NVIUM (or however it was spelled). He only allowed the women in his harem to eat something like 800 calories a day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 10:16 PM
20

I think it's true. We've been socialized to value men's opinions of us above all. And the WORST thing a woman can do is be FAT. In fact, if you're super skinny and looking for a guy OLD, I would bet the guys who are interested in you, are most interested in that very one trait you have. Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 10:11 PM
18

So sorry to hear that. I hope he's on death row.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 09:58 PM
47

I lived in India for a year in the late 80s and all I can say is that while there has been some progress, there is still much to be done. Back then, my Hindi teacher said she couldn't get her own apartment so she had to live at her parent's home. The reason an unmarried woman couldn't get her own place was because landlords would be afraid she'd use it as a brothel!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 08:48 PM
7

Oh my god. I gotta add that to the laundry list of things that are not allowed to be done to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 08:21 PM
5

He was so devious...he would call my husband in the morning each day and ask him when he was going ato the hospital to visit me and he'd say he would meet him there. We had a one year old baby at the time so his schedule was pretty rigid so if he was going in the morning, that was when he was going. So when my ex-husband's best friend knew he was coming in the morning, he went in the afternoon! So devious. What a criminal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 08:19 PM
4

Thank you! It's a hard job, for sure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 08:16 PM
6

I was on a thread once about assaults in India (throwing acid, etc "when a lover is spurned") and chatting with a US doctor. I told her what happened to me and asked her why the hospital didn't tell me about having a restricted guest list? She said sexual assaults happen in hospitals all the time but if they are transparent about needing one, it will make women fearful to come to a hospital! In other words, it's a type of business decision. They'd rather get our business even if we're assaulted …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 08:14 PM
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He's coming over tomorrow (and my older son). I'll ask them both about it / their dating lives. My older one is conservative and dislikes talking to me about "liberal shit." Well all I can say is that he isn't too successful with the ladies even though he's an engineer and fiscally responsible (puts away some serious cash each month, wants to retire early). If he listened to my advice, I think he'd have a gf by now (he's on Match and seriously wants a gf). First of all he needs to not live like …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:38 PM
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Agreed, and I wouldn't want him licking my ass, either. Fucking disgusting. I had a boyfriend who was miffed because I refused to bite his nipples (super hard) when he was on top. I had breastfed 3 babies for a year each and there was no way in hell I would do that to someone else. WTF is wrong with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:31 PM
6

I'm conflicted, as I said...I think if you want until after marriage their true colors come out then. And damn, divorce is such a headache. I won't do marriage again. You are so tied together and some states even make the couple wait 6 months to see if they can reunite first. Talk about nanny state, jeez (yet conservatives (who love the term "nanny state") don't think restricting your right to physically or financially being able to be separated from a motherfucker is the true definition of nann…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:28 PM
20

Or amniotic fluid...that's clear, lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:20 PM
18

He's a predator and obviously everyone coming to him is in pain and probably on meds....and he's in a position of trust
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:19 PM
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Also, if you're in the hospital after a surgery, make sure you have a restricted guest list ahead of time so "visitors" don't visit you. They will come up with any excuse. My ex-husband's best friend came up with the idea that he was my "reflexologist" and came to the hospital and sexually assaulted me multiple times (over multiple days) after a BACK FUSION while I was sedated on morphine. I was so sedated I never asked for the TV remote for 8 days. All I felt was pain, and this a-hole came in a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:31 PM
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I suppose I've had a lot of experience with men...2 brothers and 4 sons! (Counting a stepson). No sisters and no daughters! It's always been male in my life. I'm sure the lurkers think I am a feminist because I can't get a man but it's quite the opposite...I am very good-looking so I've never been short of male attention. So I've probably been there, done that (seen that, experienced that). But I won't put up with any bullshit. Any bullshit that has happened to me sexually, happened when I didn'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:14 PM
4

What do they think "exposure therapy" will teach you to accept rape? Omg our society has really lost it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:33 PM
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Also, I need to add this to the list: no cumming on my face! Disrespectful at best, cruel at worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:29 PM
31

I've never heard of that...what does it even mean? Like trying to make her gag?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:24 PM
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I argued with a guy about this once. I told him it was bullshit and he said it was real and I told him he got peed on. What a sucker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:23 PM
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I've always been baffled by men who seem clueless that vaginas have lips and at the beginning, if there's no foreplay and no lubrication and they plunge themselves in unexpectedly, that your lips will go in, too AND THAT FUCKING HURTS. Are they literally that stupid that they can't tell what would hurt us? Answer: they don't care, or they hope we're in pain so they can remind us they're in charge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:22 PM
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A sign: if he pulls your head in while you give him a bj (choking you unexpectedly) or tries to thrust during a bj ("I couldn't help it.") They're not seeing you as a human being with a throat, they're seeing you as a means to an end. I need to add that to my laundry list that I now go over before sex (no slapping, pinching, biting, choking, hair-pulling or anal).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:18 PM
18

Part of me thinks living together before the commitment of marriage is a bad idea and part of me thinks it's a good idea. Their true colors come out in that first year of living together...that the house takes care of itself and all free time (not at work) is his time (riding off into the sunset with his mountain bike buddies). Sure, occasionally he'd clean the gutters, but that's a once or twice a year task...what about the rest of the housework? (Answer: it didn't exist). What about my free ti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:57 PM
30

I never go to gyms because the default setting for the size of the equipment is MEN. I simply don't fit the machines and I'm normal height (5'4"). I try to use the arm machines and my elbows don't even reach to the part you push on, etc. Or the machines for legs don't contract down all the way (and, I have to contract them if they do...because the men leave them at the default setting (theirs).) Waste of time going to a man's gym. I work out at home with a treadmill and stationary bike and free …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:46 PM
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I have three sons and 3-4 years ago,, when my middle one was in high school, he started talking like an incel. At first he said he was just reading this funny sub to laugh at those guys but after a while he started calling certain guys "Chad" and mocking the women who dated them, etc. He said things like he would have a girlfriend if only for Chad. Women can have more sex (if they want it) and ThaT'S nOt fAiR. My response? "TOUGH." or "TOO BAD FOR YOU. The audacity, thinking he had a right to wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:41 PM
12

Well to get an MBA you have to go to college first and that's 4 years and the MBA was something like 2 (he did all that before I met him) so yes, that equals 6 years of higher education. Should have been smarter and known not to spend money sent to me, that's not kosher.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:22 PM
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Sure but by the time he finished he had 6 years of college under his belt so you'd think he would have learned something (anything !)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:13 PM
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I had a cyst from hell on my ovary and had to have surgery to have it (the ovary) removed. My father unexpectedly sent me me a check for $500 to help cover the bills and my ex-husband spent in on mountain bike parts. How a person with an MBA was so bad with $ is beyond me...because of course those medical bills came due and if anyone was entitled to spend that money on something frivolous, it was me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:44 AM
5

You are right! The sexy costume thing is just wrong (a friend from India commented on this once and frankly I felt embarrassed for my country). But strangely I've actually never seen any women wear them and I go to some pretty great parties on Halloween. I only see them on the internet (for sale).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:36 AM
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I would tell your mutual friends and his family what he did. He's no HVM....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:30 AM
16

That was sweet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:03 AM
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Lol I haven't looked at that. Do they parody every post? Is it (let me guess) Male Dating Strategy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:53 AM
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It's like the attack on the Capitol..."it didn't happen." If we don't talk about it, it doesn't exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:08 PM
4

Incels hate "Chads" though (the men who have it all). And they hate the women who love them. They have to be punished for another crime! If they didn't love the Chads, they'd love them, right? (Only we might just prefer a cat).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:06 PM
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I wish I could say it will get better...but not sure it will. I was in college in the late 80s and I NEVER went to a Frat party, that's for sure. I think I became aware of how likely you are to get raped when I was told that they had done a poll of all the men at the university (25,000 students total) and the number that said it was okay to "have sex" (rape) a woman if she was passed out (and wouldn't remember anything) was astounding! It was like 55 %! So you would have a better chance of being…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:03 PM
3

And they will be famous, like Elliot Rogers! Everyone will know their name and that will make up for the unfair label of "virgin" they previously had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:53 PM
2

We had lower expectations in the first place (?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:51 PM
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Very true! Sexual access to women's bodies is a rIghT! I dumped a guy once because I couldn't get over his admission that he had contemplated going to Vegas to do the prostitute thing. I didn't want to be with a guy that thought it was fine to rent a woman's internal cavities and who would enjoy the woman acting like she cared about him for an hour. Who does that? Psychopaths? Are woman not full humans? Who rents a human to use for an hour? That's just fucking wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:45 PM
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Very true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:40 PM
45

Exactly..that was local press. Will the rest of the nation care? Nope...there was some sort of big basketball game recently. That's what I see being mentioned. Male fragility. Makes men uncomfortable to hear about other men murdering women. "Not all men," etc. But the thing is, that guy, Chris Watts, who murdered his wife and two little girls (and unborn son) and threw them into an oil well in Colorado....he was "not all men" just the day before he did that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:29 PM
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Agreed. As far as I understand how the law sees women right now, it's written under the pretense that we're all victims of crime equally. Truth is, women are inordinately killed (and raped) by men. I once did some digging into the numbers and more women are murdered EVERY year in the US than all the soldiers who have been killed in the last 20 years in Afghanistan and Iraq. And our culture decides which deaths to venerate and which get no mention. Of course when policemen and women are killed it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:38 PM
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Yeah! The only reason I found out about this sub was by reading an article about this "terrible misandrist sub" on Reddit. Instead of convincing me it was terrible, it made me think "now that's my kind of sub!" I'm sick of pretending the elephant isn't in the room. And for any lurkers out there, just be aware that we're onto you. We do want relationships with you but not under the conditions you would prefer. Being abused emotionally, physically and sexually isn't worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:28 PM
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Yeah...our hormones cycle over a month but theirs cycle over 24 hours. So if you believe in hormonal excuses for behavior, you never know which character you are facing with a man: Jekyll or Hyde.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:24 PM
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Exactly. Then their property is threatened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:22 PM
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Exactly. And even if a woman were to be a misandrist, it is almost 100 percent in response to physical (including sexual) and emotional abuse by men. I.e. it's self-preservation and the logical response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:21 PM
13

Well unless there was a prenup, she owns half of their assets (and debts). Seems like a credit check of hubby is in order. And likely a trip to the lawyer, as he sounds like a dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:58 AM
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How awful! So glad you're rid of that bastard. I think maybe most men have no empathy gene?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 08:33 PM
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There's your problem...it's a big world out there....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 08:24 PM
26

I think it's just a line guy use ("some / most women like it.") And no guy makes me feel bad for drawing a line (calling me "vanilla," etc.). I'll be like, "oh well, looks like you ain't having vanilla sex with me!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 07:39 PM
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Apparently modern sex means that women are supposed to be okay about being choked, bitten, slapped, pinched, having their hair pulled, viciously pounded doggy-style ("the only thing that will make them cum") and anal. What I didn't expect was that this is all considered de rigeur, and not clarified ahead of time. So that means I've had to clarify ahead of time (the aforementioned laundry list) which means that I'm unfuckable because he says "he would be too nervous about making a mistake." Ladie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 07:35 PM
12

Fuck that... turning a sport into a leering event. And we're doing that to our underage daughters?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:43 PM
15

Any man who dares to give me dieting advice will live to regret it. Especially one who has never had a surgery or a baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:41 PM
47

In some places...there is public transport
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:15 AM
3

I lived in India as an exchange student and was constantly harassed and groped as long as I was outside. It is what made me such a strong bitch today. If anyone touched me, I hauled off and slugged them. They were so shocked! The more I fought the harrassers, the better I felt. Fuck those guys. I felt like not only should I defend myself but I should fuck them up as punishment. So years later I carry myself differently. I live in a part of the US where this isn't an issue at all, thank God
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:52 PM
13

You did the right thing...and congrats on your hard work paying off. This isn't the year 1900. We are so equal we can talk about our successes. This isn't the 1950s, we don't need a man at all costs and have to be coy and cateringto him. You just keep succeeding and speak freely about whatever you want. Men do, why should we act differently?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:28 PM
9

They could find the "two" deleted videos very easily....and the rest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:07 PM
4

Like we want you at all! Really not tempted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:10 AM
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I did that just today at a doctor's office in Kaiser. The waiting room is huuuge and we're supposed to be social distancing and this creepy man comes and sits in the seat opposite. I didn't feel like entertaining him so I just got up and sat way far away. I don't care if I hurt his feelings. I don't exist for his pleasure. I exist for mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 05:58 AM
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I have my own place and the freedom I never had when I was married. I don't need a man. I'm open to having a relationship but I'm not actively seeking one. I certainly won't put up with any bullshit. I don't need to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 05:43 AM
3

Who would date a mall cop, 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:40 AM
12

My ex said he traveled for business on purpose, too...and then he had the audacity to say (when something travel-related didn't go right) "welcome to my world." Oh, I forgot to feel sorry for him. I thought he was a big, whiny, baby, actually. The smallest inconvenience would send him over the edge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:21 AM
2

It was even later in the US....'93
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:17 AM
5

Sounds like it was good you confided in that creep because you found out he was a loser sooner rather than later
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:52 AM
8

Jeez, why would you want to date one after she told you that? Was she trying to swear you off them or what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:39 AM
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I've discovered that if you tell potential relationships anything about yourself in these regards they just drop you because they don't want to deal with it. In other words, they don't care to get to know you, what unfair things have happened to you, etc. They just want to make sure they can do whatever they want to you with as little resistance as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:38 AM
10

Omg I would not have been able to control myself. I'm sure I would have done something that would have landed me in jail
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:35 AM
13

Who'd want to be with a guy with a 5k tent and an 81k truck anyway?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:26 AM
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And she's paying for that education? Title IX violation for sure. We don't need to pay for that. And that's only tech...I wonder how much worse engineering would be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:23 AM
31

If I had been there I would have told them all that I was going to turn that recording in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:19 AM
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I don't even believe the second amendment is interpreted correctly (I believe the founding fathers said "militia" meaning a type of national guard, not every Tom, Dick, and Harry.) But because they have guns, and everyone has guns, I'm planning to get one, too. Mainly because my brother has threatened me about "women's lib," because I said SNL isn't funny. Isn't that rich? I was saying maybe "dick in a box" was funny once...but when it goes on and on (that type of humor) it's not funny. So he wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:13 PM
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That's why I'd want to punish them myself, because the law won't. I speak from personal experience (I'm sure all of us here have been sexually assaulted to one degree or another, multiple times).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:02 PM
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I punched a man in a bar after he told me to "go home, take off my shoes, and have a bunch of babies." I said, "I already did that," and then I punched him! I did it on behalf of women everywhere. I did it because he was belittling the life of women. I did it because I had already had 3 children (he didn't know that) and he was belittling my life experience! He pushed me down and I popped back up and punched him in the nose again. Then the bouncer threw me out. Luckily I wasn't charged with assa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:47 PM
17

And sadly, it's not just for being attacked by random strangers, it's for being attacked by potential love interests. And if 50 % of murders of women are by their husbands or SOs, then maybe all women should be wearing them at every minute! It may not have saved Shannann Watts, but if she pressed it while he was strangling her, it may have saved her two little girls. How awful that we have to discuss such things. And then there was that "comedian" Louis CK who mocked women for being so stupid as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:41 PM
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Very cool but it's not set up for Android yet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:34 PM
8

Very true...and I'm currently taking a break from trying to find a bf after having ankle surgery. A friend said I should try to find a bf online and I laughed because he'd be auditioning for a role as an orderly (helping me onto my knee scooter, to the toilet, to the shower stool, haha). And in this recovery where I've been on my own I realized I'm tired of having "to perform" for a bf or SO...like shaving my bikini area, not drinking things that have a taste (so I'll stay slim), not accidentall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:25 PM
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I've heard this is very bad in London. I think if I lived there I would carry a weapon like mace or a knife (I know this is illegal but I'd do it anyway). I wouldn't only carry it as self-defense, I would carry it to punish the attacker if I got attacked. I wouldn't care if I went to jail. Hopefully I would be a cause celebre...or at least I'd have some self-satisfaction. Men should be afraid of us. They shouldn't be treating us like we're dogs and they shouldn't be attacking us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:13 PM
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They should be afraid. They should fucking be afraid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:07 PM
50

Attack him back so he understands he is vicious! Bite him, punch, kick him in the privates! Punish him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:06 PM
9

Run, run!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:07 AM
12

I dated a guy on the spectrum and it took me 3 weeks before he told me he was...suddenly everything made sense! He didn't give a shit about me and it became almost funny to see how far he would push it. Like he ordered a pizza to my house and ate it, with it sitting on his knees and he never offered me a slice! I didn't ask for any because I wanted to see if he'd notice he had bad manners! This kind of funny business went on for 3 weeks and then he told me about his diagnosis and finally it all …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:05 AM
15

Omg how awful! What a fucking pig. You should be able to say anything you want. Fuck that guy...glad he's your ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:58 AM
30

Omg! That is shocking! Have incels been talked to like that by women? I think not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:49 AM
45

Reminds me of that saying" the only way a woman can get into the MET is nude." You have to ask yourself why men say this about the female form. Why are we we so often reduced to just our physical forms? And if it's all about beauty and nature then why is breastfeeding disgusting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:46 AM
2

But she said women laughing at them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:55 AM
8

That is true...Margaret Atwood's words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:35 AM
3

Truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 08:49 PM
4

That made my day...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 08:47 PM
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It's shocking that we have to have these lists...and that the lists are so long. I'm beginning to wonder, what do men want from us, anyways? It seems like they want us to be an underling. They say they support equal rights and all but when it comes to their own personal relationships with women, they want another "human being" (of sorts) to take their anger out on. Bad day at work? Remind the bitch you're on top. He gets to eat a full, unhealthy meal and a beer...you? You get a salad or you're l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 08:47 PM
6

I hope she called the cops! Those guys should be jailed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 08:37 PM
13

True...but it doesn't happen in reverse. Men I talk to just complain about "fake profiles"...yeah, they're too good to be true because they're not real women! Seems like that would be easy to spot but these women tell them what they want to hear and they are their "dream woman." I ask them how they eventually know they're fake and they say they come up with preposterous stories about why they need money. I wonder why that's never happened to me? (Because I have a good bullshit meter?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 08:33 PM
93

Yeah, they're too good to clean their own toilets but expect you to be comfortable using it. Time to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 08:28 PM
90

Exactly...why do we even need a safe word with a bartender if we don't like our date and are creeped out? I'd enjoy telling the mother fucker to get lost. Oh, and don't say I should be afraid of him, he should be afraid of me. Btw, men with designs on you don't like dealing with women who aren't pushovers...that's like one of the golden rules of a PUA (pick-up artist). They even try to pick up women by insulting them to see what they'll say / do. If you are obsequious and politely argue, you're …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 08:26 PM
1

It happens, but men are counting on the idea that they can intimidate women and I think it's time they are intimidated by us, especially as guns are a great equalizer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 08:16 PM
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Ugh, why did she think he was the best she could do? How is the patriarchy this strong that it would socialize a woman to think she needed a man at all costs? Did she feel like a spinster at 30? Better to be a spinster at 30 than have to kiss a homeless man. As if.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:36 PM
5

If a driver cuts me off or does something otherwise aggressive, I act aggressive back and cut them off. When I tell my friends about it later they say "you should have been scared, he could have had a gun!" And I reply, "He should have been scared. I could have had a gun!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:03 PM
5

How many men have I met that say they have PTSD? Usually it's any Veteran (and how many of them REALLY saw hand-to-hand combat?). And once they tell you they have PTSD, it's the greatest excuse for misbehavior, ever! I don't go around saying I have PTSD. But I will tell any woman who is going to have surgery to get a restricted visitor list (not really an issue these days due to covid). Because when I had a back fusion 8 years ago, my ex-husband's best friend came to the hospital and sexually as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:48 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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