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Lol Op posts vagina to all of reddit and then asks about avoiding hookup culture. Can’t make this shit up - come on Op this must be a joke 😂
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 08:47 PM
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Haha boom headshot 😂
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 08:12 AM
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I like to think of it as natural selection - back in the day the danger was a lion eating a man. Now stupid men who don’t understand the risks get married without researching and then get shafted. They then get financially torn a new hole until they’re no longer desirable to anyone and can barely look after themselves. The smart ones don’t get married. If Brad Pitt, Jeff Bezos, Jonny Depp and Channing Tatum ended in divorce, what chance did you think you had? 😂 If I told you your plane might cra…
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/20 11:46 AM
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How much did it cost?
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/20 06:43 AM
3

Always remember this: if she says see unhappy, there’s already someone else in the picture and it’s over. Lawyer up and leave.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/20 06:43 AM
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It’s normally meticulously planned - you just don’t know about it. This includes the financial rape in divorce settlements. It’s the equivalent of being smashed by a semi truck when you didn’t even know you crossed the road lol.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/20 02:16 PM
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Whenever they say they’re unhappy - be very careful - it’s usually a sign they’ve planned monkey branching onto someone else.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/20 02:08 PM
4

Lol took the doormat. ​ Sorry to hear though man - keep ya head up and focus on your kids. ​ Also don't let her come back into the house or take the kids off you - will help you in settlement court.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/20 04:07 PM
4

No - all you can do is avoid marriage literally at all costs. Makes too much money for too many people, wedding planners through to divorce lawyers.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/20 06:45 PM
1

Yes sorry meant Daniel! Corrected now!
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/20 06:42 AM
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Trust your gut - if it feels wrong, back out now. Also watch Daniel Sloss’s Jigsaw comedy sketch - it might just save your life.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/20 06:43 PM
0

Daniel Sloss’s Jigsaw on Netflix sounds true.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/20 07:36 AM
2

I think you’re fighting some tough mental demons bro. I’d suggest therapy first to help reestablish your identity and that will also help to build a plan to recover!
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/20 07:33 AM
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Ouch.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/20 07:35 AM
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She’s going to bury you I’m afraid - no way around it. Lawyer up and never make the mistake of getting married again.
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/20 07:34 AM
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Look, when push comes to shove, it's about how to squeeze you financially (marriage and divorce). ​ If you want to avoid the risk, the simple solution : Don't get married. A system that makes money off you isn't going to be brought down. For those who already have and been through the meat grinder that is divorce, don't get married again.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/20 06:44 PM
7

Trust is eroded and this is over - it’s now just a matter of when...now or another 5 years.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/20 07:31 AM
4

Jesus 8 years is an absolute war.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/20 07:26 AM
2

Sounds like you’re more worried about how the relationship is perceived societally than the logistics of you two. Some thought needed on whether you’re looking to tick the box of marriage for yourself rather than the best interests of both of you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/20 01:32 PM
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I think he might have already fucked up the trajectory to be fair - 8 years is a long time.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/20 11:49 AM
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100% this- this is the real reason why he's not committing even after 8 years together - like it or not.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/20 11:48 AM
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Men don't fear marriage - they fear divorce. ​ There's very little upside when marriages go south and about 50% do go south (no matter how much you think you're different, statistics don't lie). ​ Ask yourself what you get from getting married. Are you willing to lose a long term partner over it? If so, then you already know what's next.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/20 11:46 AM
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She might even have waited for 10 years to guarantee that you are given a life sentence of payments so she can milk you fully. Treat it like you’re at war and suggest you lawyer up quick.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/20 07:47 AM
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Guessing she’s the one that suggested getting married too?
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/20 07:09 AM
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She's fucking him - time to leave.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/20 10:59 AM
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This fails unfortunately once the guy either gets bored or finds someone else who doesn’t play games around sex.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/20 06:32 PM
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Lol if you don’t give a guy sex, why is he going to stick around. Easier to go elsewhere and get it off someone else instead.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/20 06:31 PM
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How many times do you think you need to get married and fucked by the system before you learn?
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/19 05:23 PM
1

Get married again?
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/19 08:40 AM
5

Throughout that period and the rest of our marriage it has repeatedly been a battle to keep her faithful. ​ This is all you need to know - this isn't normal in a relationship. ​ Leave once you've saved up enough for divorce costs.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/19 04:35 PM
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Why are you still with her again?
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/19 08:11 AM
1

That doesn’t look like a “good” woman to me lol.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/19 07:40 AM
1

Ridiculous that you are paying mortgage and bills on a house you're banned from living it. Sounds like you've learnt the hard way that you only meet the real partner during divorce. Out of curiosity, what motivated you to marry her?
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/19 07:42 PM
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No benefit to men - it’s purely for the state and women to benefit from.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/19 07:28 AM
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You’ve been used good Op. Suggest you lawyer up and take back what’s yours (what’s left of it anyway)
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/19 07:32 AM
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Really simple solution - insist on splitting this one because you want to. Easy - now there’s no way for him to feel like he’s being used for money.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/19 07:26 AM
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You meet the real woman during divorce. Suggest you learn this as a lesson in the dangers of marriage going forward. Out of curiosity, why did you wish to get married initially?
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/19 07:18 AM
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You need to start shelling out on a solid lawyer who can fend off this financial raping.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/19 05:42 PM
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You’d think - the problem is they’re not always truly content themselves. So it’s a bit like a light going out once they’re single again - they rely on having someone to make them feel good rather than work on their own contentness (which is far tougher and resource intensive). It’s a bit of a lazy way out - someone else will make you happy rather than doing it for yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/19 06:01 PM
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They won't plummet - there are too many stupid ones out there who will marry. ​ Just look at divorce men - plenty who have already failed marriages and would happily marry again.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/19 04:20 PM
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Haha welcome to the harsh lesson of life. ​ There are plenty who married again and failed - at least learn the lesson for next time even if it cost you 11 years and 50k of your life.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/19 08:12 AM
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No - leave the house and expect financially raping. ​ You're demonstrating the house isn't required for you live a stable life and therefore the priority need and asset will be give to the one who does (by remaining in the house).
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/19 06:27 PM
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Deffo - just got to take it day by day rather than planning long term for now. Defend your finances as a start point and work from there!
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/19 04:04 PM
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I would defo go for maximum custody - will also reduce likelihood of her squeezing you for money!
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/19 06:31 AM
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You posted previously and took my advice so well done! No matter how comfortable it gets - do not leave until lawyers have decided and agreed what’s fair alimony etc.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/19 06:30 AM
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Don’t you have a key? Let her call the police and tell them it’s your only home. What are they gonna do? Do not leave the home or you’ll be losing your financial security post divorce. She knows this and has realised how to squeeze the $$$ out of you - you’re a cash cow needing to be milked in her eyes now.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/19 11:55 AM
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Never leave the home - it’s a way to financially rape you as the court will see it as you having alternative accommodation and therefore the house can be given to her. That’s why they’ll pressure you out - get back in as fast as you can until lawyers have decided what to do.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/19 11:52 AM
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Out of curiosity, would you get married again?
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/19 08:33 PM
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I have to be honest - don’t feel sorry for you. You didn’t learn the lesson from the first time round so it’s kind of your fault. Hopefully this divorce will hurt you badly enough to learn a lesson but not so badly that it derails your life.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/19 08:25 PM
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Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:28 PM
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;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:56 PM
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Lol 30 year old women gonna get salty AF in here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:04 PM
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Fail post faggot - needs more insult/raping for my liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:35 AM
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Haha ;))))))
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:31 AM
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Doesn't happen - whores trying to milk some lawsuit monies
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:15 AM
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Shut the fuck up faggot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:14 AM
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Get the Vaseline and a solid lawyer ready - she's about to rape you good.
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/19 10:54 AM
1

Decent wank over a pornhub supermodel always solves the problem haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:07 PM
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Haha nice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:06 PM
3

Well said Op needs to shut the fuck up haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:05 PM
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Marry her then. Just don’t come back like the other poster once it’s failed again.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/19 05:02 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:01 PM
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Ops sounds sour haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:51 PM
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Why rock the boat if it’s smooth sailing then?
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/19 02:49 PM
1

Haha beautiful misery loves company.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:07 PM
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Is there no way to stop working before you die? That's pretty sad if so.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/19 02:06 PM
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Don't do it - learn from the mistake. Has she hinted at it out of curiosity? I bet she has hasn't she. ;)
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/19 02:05 PM
2

Lol white knight looking to get some pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:38 AM
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Boom headshot rinsed haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:37 PM
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Except making a sandwich in the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:16 PM
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I reckon it’s not that men’s SMV goes up. But rather women realise the wall is approaching and need to lower their range to get someone reasonable to settle with. That or they stay single and risk not having a family or kids. Which essentially comes back down to alpha fucks beta bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:16 AM
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Their bitches - move on lad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:12 AM
1

Lol if you really believe that 😂 If he could fuck a supermodel with you being OK with it, he would. He’ll never admit to it obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:05 AM
1

Haha this is the most savage one I’ve seen. Re-living the rape 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:02 AM
1

Op forgot the critical point. Most Women don’t give a shit about fucking around past their 30s. The wall creates issues because they struggle to get commitment not sex. Also you’re right - guy’s experience that level for most of their dating lives but they are used to it so for most of them it doesn’t hit them hard like it does with wall women. As said many times before, women are gatekeepers of sex and men are gatekeepers of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:59 AM
1

Dirty cunts haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:24 AM
1

The main reason for women is simple. If you end up single in your 30s/40s and seeking a partner, do you want to be reduced to a bunch of sexless emotionally damaged guys? Or would you rather have a psychologically healthy pool of single men to build a long solid long term relationship with?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:17 AM
1

You are fucked. Get a really good lawyer and first focus on her not financially raping you on the way out. And try to keep your kids as much as possible.
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/19 06:20 AM
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Use the lawyer to keep your son - else you’ll be financially raped on child support/alimony.
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/19 06:17 AM
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Not a chance - tougher dating is nothing compared to constant periods, mood swings and pregnancy risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 06:22 AM
2

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 06:03 PM
2

Yeah exactly cleaning shit every day whilst you get sleep deprived and have no alone time whatsoever for your own interests. One might even ask why you bother doing it eh? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 06:26 AM
4

You meet your true partner in divorce/separation. Learn the lesson well.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/19 03:40 PM
3

This - guys don’t want to be tricked and getting with a 8/10 only to find she’s a 2/10 naturally. Essentially glamming up more than 1 or 2 points above your natural state is a recipe for disaster if you seek a proper relationship. Guys will feel conned and think they can do better - and eventually find someone or cheat so best to be honest upfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 12:01 PM
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Why are they crying lol? Haven't they got anything else going on in their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 08:13 PM
6

Can you share any stats on the collapse so far? Would be interesting to read based on the numbers!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 08:09 PM
-1

💯- this is the best response so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:24 PM
1

Damn right -get back in the kitchen while you’re at it. :rollseye:
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:11 PM
7

Lol hilarious for you. Unlucky for that guy when he gets smacked with a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 03:44 PM
8

Lol more like don’t get married. Or marry tactically so you end up better off in a divorce. Like so many women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 03:26 PM
3

Haha spot on - how much does she pay you to get angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 03:25 PM
49

Lol exactly - it’s a flag that indicates how likely she’s likely to divorce rape you once she’s bored and lacking excitement in the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 01:47 PM
1

You think people can switch off their needs for a lifetime just like that in the name of some bs like love? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 07:04 AM
1

I suspect you’d do it for a few years. I find it very hard to believe you could take sex off the table for your entire life just like that. Easy to say it online but doubt you’d follow through in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:04 AM
1

Lol what a terrible analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 07:09 PM
1

Bad analogy. They are paying you but you just don’t get other benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 06:32 PM
1

What if you want the romance but not sexual side of a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 12:34 PM
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For how long though? A month of no sex? 20 years? A sexless life? That argument is pointless because it’s relative. But where could you draw the line in the sand?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 10:58 AM
1

Lol nice username haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 09:44 AM
1

This makes more sense - I suppose it’s tied into deadbedrooms where so many guys complain about it but don’t actually leave and just put up with it. So sounds like they will under the correct circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 09:03 AM
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Surprising as there are so many posts arguing the case that you can have a fulfilled romantic relationship without sex across the reddit subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 09:02 AM
2

Yeah this post is really good. These are what you could call societal pressure to behave a certain way because it’s perceived as normal. Guess what happens if you stop paying on first dates? Some women give you a cold look and won’t speak to you again. Others don’t care because they understand equality - guess who’s winning/losing out here in the long run? Essentially once you make decisions for yourself rather than what society expects, you’ll be far more confident and content in living your ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 05:57 AM
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Have been listening to this all morning - what’s surprising is that it takes 1 hour 45 minutes to reveal the critical information: She’s having marriage trouble. Just goes to show the level of craftiness from her - she’s been fine for 20 years manipulating and lying to her family whilst SHE FELT good. All of sudden she doesn’t feel good, she’s happy to ditch her marriage and ruin her kids lives disclosing this information. The valuable lesson here for both genders : Be responsible for your own h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 10:04 AM
1

Never settle - that applies for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 05:22 PM
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Yeah - a lot of guys lack confidence and feel the need to justify why they are single. Or can’t deal with it and settle out of loneliness. Ultimately I like to think of it as Darwinism at its finest - some settle for less, some get financially divorce raped. The best ones will avoid both and either enjoy single status or end up with someone in their league. I always see guys look awkward walking down the street when they know they’ve settled for an unattractive woman but still hold her hand - it…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 12:37 PM
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Don’t think so - see plenty of guys walking down the street with less attractive fatter women than they could get. If anything, it suggests the opposite - that men are willing to settle below what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 12:32 PM
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Thing is - most self respecting guys with confidence don’t speak like that (attached photo). They understand that a woman is great but never put them on a pedestal above themselves/life. The thirsty ones don’t know any better so they try to get what they want through desperate measures. Of course this comes across terribly but they don’t really care as some women are equally desperate enough to respond to it. Agree that if they stopped doing it, it’d probably solve a good proportion of issues in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 06:14 AM
1

Ouch 23 years sounds like you got burnt rough lol
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/19 04:26 PM
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“The cheapest woman tends to be the one you pay for” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 04:23 PM
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Women shouldn’t allow emotional intimacy to influence their actions. See what happens when you play that line....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 05:33 PM
1

Sorry dude make sure you keep your mental health in check first. Best to reach out for support if you need it with a professional.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/19 01:28 PM
1

Jesus Christ - if there’s ever an example of why not to get married.....what a gold digger. Sounds like a full on financially raping and not sure what you do other than suck it up tbh. Tell me you at least get to see your daughter - if you can spend more time with her, that might reduce your contributions?
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/19 01:09 PM
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Oh shit I thought you meant you were contributing $1k a month rather than negative equity. Suggest you speak to a financial advisor or late life is looking very bleak for you I’m afraid. She’s basically forcing you into retiring without any money to live which is barely a life. Why is it for 16 years? That’s insane.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/19 12:42 PM
1

Jeez $1k a month for nothing
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/19 12:26 PM
-1

Then stay single or find one of the few lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 10:49 AM
-1

Emotional stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 10:32 AM
1

Lucky git. 1) wait until you hear the words “I want a divorce” 2) count how lucky you are.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/19 06:37 AM
1

Lol calm the titties. This human being articulates very well though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 06:35 AM
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I like to think of it as financial Darwinism. The less intelligent chumps will happily spend all their cash on women who use their wallet nicely and get nothing in return. Then they’ll end up broke too and no longer desirable. Filters out the riff raff haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 06:29 AM
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The girl that you pay for tends to be the cheaper one. Most betas just want sex - may as well get hookers instead of going broke tying to be a provider all your life. The quality of sex will probably be better too since the hooker is experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 06:03 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 08:51 PM
1

Lol so true. Trying to manipulate by witholding sex only ever fucks both of you in the relationship. Intelligent guys will leave and find someone who respects them instead of treating them like a monkey haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 07:34 PM
1

+1 - gotta put out or you're getting kicked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 07:32 PM
0

No the masculine personality would put me off the attraction so no amount of arse, vag or tits would mitigate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 07:14 PM
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Very important - women who are masculine aren’t attractive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 05:08 PM
1

Haha 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 06:56 AM
1

Did the tinder experiment. ​ Although the 20% get matched against 80% of women - they still have to put effort in to getting laid (e.g. Messaging first and initiating). ​ They are now just competing with the top 20% of guys rather than 100% of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 07:24 PM
1

Lol there isn't one.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/19 03:39 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 03:37 PM
1

If you want to scrounge off your partner fair enough 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 01:36 PM
1

💯😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 01:36 PM
0

Agree however men are more agreeable with the concept of working for a lifetime - most likely driven by the lesser desire for family /child raising. Across my workplaces, I’ve seen women leave due to pregnancy stating they’ll “definitely” be back but not a single one ever returned lol - most likely because they would rather not work for a living to look after the kids whilst their partner provides for the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 08:47 AM
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Key word is “can”. Most would rather not work and live the easy life freeloading off someone haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 08:10 AM
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The fact she needs to monitor your internet usage says it all. The right one won’t - divorce and move on before you’ve got a child in the picture to worry about too.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/19 08:42 AM
1

War has begun on the financial raping. Better start discussing with your lawyer to make sure you don’t rinsed like a dishwasher.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/19 01:43 PM
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Nicely done man - glorious victory haha!
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/19 06:26 AM
8

Op deserves a medal.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/19 05:47 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 08:53 PM
1

Lawyer up good and gather as much evidence as you can on the cheating. Will stop her financially raping you on the way out or using your kids as leverage and emotional manipulation. Oh and buckle up, this is going to be a rough ride sir - good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/19 06:52 PM
1

Oh my god why the fuck do you lot get married so naively?
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/19 01:04 PM
1

Lol you are a moron if you pay that too. ​ How many years of alimony rape are you going to have to go through before your dense brain realises? 15? ​ Tell her to STFU and pay it herself then hang up.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/19 01:03 PM
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Yes this is about to be a divorce rape WAR. Lawyer up and empty the bank accounts so she can’t pillage you into oblivion.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/19 06:20 AM
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