| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | What make a woman unattractive? What turns you off? Do you set standards for the women you date/have sex with?I don't feel like either of these are problems but to be honest I don't have enough experience to say so | /r/seduction | 26/09/15 12:48 PM |
| -9 | Im 27M and tomorrow I get braces. I'm doing this for myself after years of Saving!Also what's your address and phone number? | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 09:51 AM |
| 1 | NYT article: "To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This"Same! I'm actually excited | /r/seduction | 10/01/15 05:37 AM |
| 12 | NYT article: "To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This"It's linked in the article http://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/11/fashion/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html | /r/seduction | 10/01/15 05:24 AM |
| 0 | 5 Tips to Make the Right Girl HornyAllllll totally depends on context and delivery, man. | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 04:33 AM |
| 2 | One thing I've never quite understood: Girls who take forever to text back, but still do.If she's gorgeous I highly doubt it's her texting habits that are helping her out. You'd be really surprised. Though it's a fair assessment to make, I think you're overestimating how easy it is for her to attract people. | /r/seduction | 25/12/14 07:02 AM |
| 7 | One thing I've never quite understood: Girls who take forever to text back, but still do.That's a really broad generalization. She's one of the hottest girls I've ever met, and she's also one of the most honest and trustworthy - otherwise she wouldn't be my best friend. People are multi faceted. One undesirable feature doesn't make a person "not worth your time." She does it because it works for her | /r/seduction | 25/12/14 05:24 AM |
| 27 | One thing I've never quite understood: Girls who take forever to text back, but still do.Yes, she is. Yeah, she just carries on the conversation. But it gives the illusion of being busy, and of course, being "hard to get." She usually stops when she gets super close to somebody, but even then, sometimes she'll do it because she's a bit peeved at the person for whatever reason. | /r/seduction | 25/12/14 05:03 AM |
| 39 | One thing I've never quite understood: Girls who take forever to text back, but still do.they could do it to play hard to get. My best friend does this all the time, and it works miracles. | /r/seduction | 25/12/14 04:31 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First date with HB9, ended in K-close and confidence boost."This is one of my favorite songs but it always haunts me because it brings back bad memories of the past. Could you do me a favor? she nods Could you make this a good memory?" Holy fuck, congrats :) | /r/seduction | 09/12/14 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Tips for kissing a particular girl for the first time?Nope! But I ended up kissing other girls along the way, so no big deal. :) | /r/seduction | 16/11/14 09:07 PM |
| 6 | This has been circulating on Facebook. TIL if you're a 15 y.o. boy, you can't be sexually harassed if the offender is an ex-cheerleader.That's not what I mean. I'm talking, specifically about determining whether person A, who is 15 years old, is mature enough to have sexual/romantic relations with person B, who is 25 years old. Because while the absolute vast majority of the time, person A will not be mature enough, there are going to be exceptions where they are. But we don't have the resources to take it into trial every single time that a 15 year old has sex with a 19 year old to determine whether or not the 15 year old is ma… | /r/MensRights | 09/11/14 07:25 PM |
| 1 | This has been circulating on Facebook. TIL if you're a 15 y.o. boy, you can't be sexually harassed if the offender is an ex-cheerleader.It can't only be judged by a headline, but you also can't make a legal case out of every single decision that we make that's debatably wrong or right. The law needs to be drawn somewhere. We simply don't have the resources to be so elastic in our enforcement of the laws. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/14 07:04 PM |
| 11 | "When you put somebody on a pedestal, they have no choice to look down on you."Oopsie... | /r/seduction | 05/10/14 10:07 PM |
| 4 | "When you put somebody on a pedestal, they have no choice to look down on you."It's less-so about the actions and more-so about the subtle social cues that you send when you take this attitude. I'm hungry and tired and writing music, so I don't really have the energy to give you any real-life solid, answers to this question, so I hope someone with more thinking power can answer this question better. But things like valuing their opinion too much and looking for their advice way too often, and about everything, instead of acting independently and making your own decisions. … | /r/seduction | 05/10/14 10:07 PM |
| 1 | What is happening?You put up a defense mechanism because of your bad experiences with girls, and/or your attitude towards approaching people has changed, and you need to change it back (whether it be gaining confidence via working out, talking to people, etc. or whatever) | /r/seduction | 05/10/14 09:51 PM |
| 10 | "When you put somebody on a pedestal, they have no choice to look down on you."Well you have a couple of choices. One, you could suck it up, and go with a less satisfying relationship. Two, you could still think of him as an equal, with more knowledge in X subject than you. For example, I bet you know more about engineering than I do. I can certainly ask you some questions, and if I wanted to learn from you, I could ask you to chat over some coffee sometime. Maybe I'd ask to shadow you on your job for a little bit and you could explain what was going on. But, doing that al… | /r/seduction | 05/10/14 09:29 PM |
| 21 | "When you put somebody on a pedestal, they have no choice to look down on you."Sometimes it just needs to be heard again. | /r/seduction | 05/10/14 08:37 PM |
| 1 | "shut up and be grateful."Then explain why you feel the way that you do. | /r/seduction | 02/09/14 11:29 PM |
| 6 | "shut up and be grateful."Having a good sense of "inner game" will put you farther ahead in relationships, and life, more than anything else, really. | /r/seduction | 02/09/14 11:14 PM |
| 19 | "shut up and be grateful."This is actually an incredible read; I was really skeptical looking at the title, but Mark Manson absolutely nails the points on the head, and delivers a powerful point with a powerful delivery and a powerful punch. I'd recommend anyone to give this article a second chance if you gloss over it. | /r/seduction | 02/09/14 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Decent looking guy picks up model - smile technique (thoughts?)It really depends on the kind of girl you're talking to, the kind of personality you have, whether you can pull it off, and what you're trying to achieve, etc. Sounds like a really good idea for developing lasting relationships with people. People love and dig the friendliness that comes with it. | /r/seduction | 16/08/14 11:28 PM |
| -1 | One year after reading 'Models,' life is a lot better, but....seems projecting. Uhh...??? Clearly not, because it got ten upvotes. I'm not the only one who agrees with my interpretation. | /r/seduction | 14/08/14 05:57 PM |
| -2 | One year after reading 'Models,' life is a lot better, but....Goal: "I'm going to act confident so I can be successful with women." Your wording: "I am now successful with women, I have made it." His wording: "I am now confident, I have made it." | /r/seduction | 14/08/14 05:52 PM |
| 2 | How to turn small talk into smart conversationMy friend answers a ton of questions like this, and most people say he's the funniest person they've ever met. It works - just with a certain kind of person. | /r/seduction | 05/08/14 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Do some of you guys ever feel like you're never going to be successful at this?Have you ever been here before? Not necessarily. "Confident," yes. | /r/seduction | 12/07/14 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Do some of you guys ever feel like you're never going to be successful at this?Uh... no? Where are you even getting this from? | /r/seduction | 12/07/14 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Do some of you guys ever feel like you're never going to be successful at this?...There is, and that strategy is not "accepting that you're never going to be successful at this." | /r/seduction | 12/07/14 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Do some of you guys ever feel like you're never going to be successful at this?If he's someone who's bad with women, and he accepts that part of himself and doesn't try to change it, he's just going to be bad with women forever. But clearly he wants to be good with women, so why should he settle for who he is now? Is a fat person expected to "accept who they are?" No. They're expected to take healthy steps in trying to lose weight. And you don't judge a fat person who tries to lose weight because they "won't just accept who they are." It's the same mentality that the deaf … | /r/seduction | 12/07/14 03:11 PM |
| 12 | Can F-close, but will definitely reck the girl, is this beta?It's always been the pretty common philosophy here. | /r/seduction | 09/07/14 12:55 PM |
| 1 | When the girl brings up her boyfriend/other guy...Agreed. I don't know how I feel about it hahaha | /r/seduction | 04/07/14 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Tips for kissing a particular girl for the first time?Sorry about that! I guess I missed that stuff | /r/seduction | 03/07/14 11:47 AM |
| 0 | Why men need to stand together, no matter where we are....I don't really know what you're talking about. Can you elaborate, please? | /r/MensRights | 28/04/14 03:43 AM |
| 6 | I was raped last night. I'm engaged. I'm a man. (x-post /r/sex)I read it as, "I remember her being particularly flirty in highschool." | /r/MensRights | 27/04/14 04:00 AM |
| 1 | A question about emotional investment and seduction successIt sounds like you're pretty bitter, dude. The reality is that you're simply undermining another person's hard work and success for stupid reasons. It's not "luck." It's called "being good at it." | /r/seduction | 26/04/14 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Is it me, or is it a lot easier to flirt and/or have a conversation on the phone than in person?Persuasion is more than having good knowledge, it's having the techniques to convince the other person that you have something worthy of being heard. I see why you think that flirting is 9x physical and 1x verbal. Clearly you don't get it. | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Is it me, or is it a lot easier to flirt and/or have a conversation on the phone than in person?It's not that I don't like your advice. It's that you were an asshole about it. | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Is it me, or is it a lot easier to flirt and/or have a conversation on the phone than in person?You're really, really condescending. Verbal flirting is what I'm good at, and I am very good at it, being funny and charismatic. And I've never said anything about not knowing how to read body language. So please don't be a jerk and stop making assumptions. | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it me, or is it a lot easier to flirt and/or have a conversation on the phone than in person?Ahh particularly I meant talking on the phone like, vocally, not texting. | /r/seduction | 17/04/14 04:50 AM |
| -7 | Five years of hell come to end: man cleared of rape because jury not told alleged victim previously made false claim of indecent assaultI don't agree. Why not just leave both names anonymous? Truth is, as much as /r/MensRights doesn't want to admit it, there's a pretty harsh rape culture against women, too, that you probably don't really see (in the same way that there's a very harsh rape culture against men that many feminists and women don't see). | /r/MensRights | 18/03/14 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Remember when feminists pledged to fix wikipedia because it was "very masculine" and were having a "mass edit wikipedia day"? Look what I found in the otherwise completely scientific article about FertilizationI think you miss the point of Wikipedia. | /r/MensRights | 16/03/14 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Weird situation... How to be confident and assertive and escalate on a date with a rape victim?Thank you. :) | /r/seduction | 16/03/14 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Weird situation... How to be confident and assertive and escalate on a date with a rape victim?This is really, really brilliant. Thank you very much. This advice - even if it only has to do with sex - has weight that pertains to all of my concerns. Thank you so much. :) | /r/seduction | 16/03/14 02:31 AM |
| 38 | Remember when feminists pledged to fix wikipedia because it was "very masculine" and were having a "mass edit wikipedia day"? Look what I found in the otherwise completely scientific article about FertilizationPerhaps the concept is not horrible (I don't know enough about the science to say), but it's a really, really pointless distinction where common knowledge on the subject really has no reason to be changed (it sounds like some of those extreme feminists are looking for excuses to be offended), but the execution certainly is. They cite and quote a lot of unscientific and/or irrelevant quotes and sources to obviously push an agenda. | /r/MensRights | 16/03/14 01:34 AM |
| 101 | Remember when feminists pledged to fix wikipedia because it was "very masculine" and were having a "mass edit wikipedia day"? Look what I found in the otherwise completely scientific article about FertilizationIt was really hard not to instinctively downvote this. That's horrible :\ | /r/MensRights | 16/03/14 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Boy bullied at school for having a My Little Pony bag, school blames the victim and bans him from bringing the bag to school. (x-post /r/news)Thanks for doing us the favor. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/14 08:42 PM |
| 9 | Boy bullied at school for having a My Little Pony bag, school blames the victim and bans him from bringing the bag to school. (x-post /r/news)Looking at your comment history, you are one of the most judgmental, sexist pieces of shit I've ever seen. Dude. Get out of here. You don't even know what the MRA movement is about. You're just a fucking misogynist. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/14 04:45 PM |
| 10 | Boy bullied at school for having a My Little Pony bag, school blames the victim and bans him from bringing the bag to school. (x-post /r/news)You sound so cool, dude. Are you proud of that? | /r/MensRights | 15/03/14 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Boy bullied at school for having a My Little Pony bag, school blames the victim and bans him from bringing the bag to school. (x-post /r/news)DAMN | /r/MensRights | 15/03/14 04:38 PM |
| 9 | So apparently there's a Men's Rights club at my school nowBoth parties need equal representation, and 1. They probably already have a feminism club in their school in order to have this, and 2. Women would get much more attention during the club if it was "gender equality," and it would also probably be mostly women in the club. Having two separate clubs is really for the best. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/14 12:02 AM |
| 1 | I'm having trouble with the combination of "being yourself" and "not overwhelming them." A little bit of help for a dorky/awkward fellow, please? :)Sorry! I misread. My bad! | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 05:00 PM |
| 1 | I'm having trouble with the combination of "being yourself" and "not overwhelming them." A little bit of help for a dorky/awkward fellow, please? :)How does somebody get to know you by the kinds of questions you're asking? That's something that kind of went over my ahead in the information. | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 04:09 PM |
| 1 | I'm having trouble with the combination of "being yourself" and "not overwhelming them." A little bit of help for a dorky/awkward fellow, please? :)Thanks. It's not really nervous though. I think it's like, hyperactivity? I'm usually not too nervous. Does it just usually come across as nervous energy? | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 03:50 PM |
| 7 | 5 years ago, I was a beta male with no girl friends who hardly ever got laid. This is me today. Thanks r/seduction!You take this too seriously. | /r/seduction | 11/03/14 03:29 AM |
| 4 | Is it good to have no expectations when going out?If you're about to do something nerve-wracking, think "Get excited" instead of "Don't be nervous." I'm a musical performer, and this advice helps every single person I've ever given it to tremendously. Some people tell me it has changed their life. It isn't just about music. | /r/seduction | 01/03/14 06:01 AM |
| 0 | Teacher gets probation for having sex with student - Students Think It's Too lenientI don't know about the majority of the subreddit. A bigger portion than most would like to admit of /r/Mensights is pretty sexist/circlejerky, so for me, with every single piece of news/discussion that comes on here, I tend to look at it with an incredibly critical view so I can better myself. Your post doesn't really make all that much sense to me, sorry. Maybe my reading comprehension is off today (I'm very sick) or you're not really making any sense, but I'll try to answer what I can. A lot o… | /r/MensRights | 25/02/14 09:05 PM |
| 11 | Teacher gets probation for having sex with student - Students Think It's Too lenientWhen we talk about "power," we are not just talking about in the literal sense that, "The teacher technically has more power over a student because she has the ability to grade his work." Like, duh. It's obvious that the teacher technically has more "power," but what we are talking about is the idea that, subconsciously, people in positions of power hold a different kind of social status than people without it. Like, when you talk to the police, or a judge, or a lawyer, or a teacher (if you are … | /r/MensRights | 25/02/14 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Wow these guys did it right! Signs of progress.Obviously, this is not always the case––sometimes the emotions are just unbalanced and your partner feels more for you sooner than you do. But if the pushing or rushing feels really uncomfortable, and if it's persistent, or worse, relentless, you need to back him/her off very firmly. I did. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/14 09:06 PM |
| 21 | Wow these guys did it right! Signs of progress.That's not really necessarily abusive. Different people have different needs in a relationship - if somebody was being abusive towards you, they probably wouldn't dump you because you didn't want to have sex, they would probably manipulate you into feeling like shit for it until they get what they want. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/14 07:37 AM |
| 3 | At least one female gamer gets it....You make very good points and you phrased it very eloquently - I upvoted you, even though I don't necessarily agree with it, I believe that both schools of thinking have legitimate backing and it comes down to. there is no being a right or wrong. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/13 08:12 PM |
| 1 | [Off topic] Keeping a girlfriend once I've got oneI just won her over really, really hard throughout the day, so she stopped chasing after that guy. | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 08:04 PM |
| 1 | [Off topic] Keeping a girlfriend once I've got oneI replied! XD | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 07:48 AM |
| 1 | [Off topic] Keeping a girlfriend once I've got oneWhat do you like? A lot of places like bars, libraries, bowling alleys, etc. have events for you to go to, to meet new people. I mean why wouldn't they? It's their best interest to bring people in - isn't it? Bowling "leagues" I think (I'm not too familiar with bowling) are a decent place to meet people. Bars are great, and so are clubs. "Meetup.com" seems like a good website for meeting new people who have an interest, but I've never used it. A lot of places (like guitarcenter and certain colle… | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 07:43 AM |
| 1 | [Off topic] Keeping a girlfriend once I've got oneWhat area? Around Minneapolis? What school did you go to? :) | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 07:40 AM |
| 3 | [Off topic] Keeping a girlfriend once I've got oneYes I was! :) I'm from Minnesota. You? | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 07:20 AM |
| 3 | [Off topic] Keeping a girlfriend once I've got oneWARNING: SUPER LONG READ! This is just my own personal story. If you just want to skip straight to the advice (which probably wont hurt you in any way), read the TL;DR I was on Speech team at a speech tournament, and I was flirting with this super cute girl who had a flower in her hair and who performed amazingly. I was talking to her, and I performed well, and I exuded confidence, when I realized I was probably coming off really strongly. I asked for her number and I decided to leave her alone … | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 07:00 AM |
| 13 | [Off topic] Keeping a girlfriend once I've got oneThis, but at the same time, I think a lot of PUA techniques not only improve your "game" but improve you as a person. Warning: Wall of text of pure anecdotal experience Acting confident and being decisive is a skill that's going to help you in all aspects of your life, and I think that's something that everybody should attempt to achieve (unless of course they are truly not interested in but, but it's whatever). Being witty and charming and funny is something that most people would like to be, a… | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 12:01 AM |
| 8 | At least one female gamer gets it....The point is that the media is setting the standards for beauty, and they are usually very, very photoshopped and unattainable leading to a very high level of frustration to women who try to look what they perceive as beautiful. It's a subconscious thing, and it's a real thing. Modern feminism definitely has some things right, and the acknowledgment of that is one of them. Of course the shortcomings come when we try to recognize a solution, simply because sometimes there isn't one. Acknowledging… | /r/MensRights | 30/11/13 11:41 PM |
| 13 | I am a bad shit-test taker. Can someone explain to me "agree and amplify" for someone who seems to be completely clueless?Pretty much this, but of course, the most important part about it is how you say it. | /r/seduction | 26/11/13 06:28 PM |
| 1 | CNN: Boys (especially black boys) perform better in single sex schools: near perfect graduation, 80% go on to college. Kimmel, feminists, screech misogyny....Why would this be downvoted? There's literally no room to disagree with anything here and nothing you said is even remotely controversial. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/13 10:23 PM |
| 2 | How feminism worksSorry. I don't care enough about my claim to do the research considering sleep is due, but it makes sense that most redditing men that hate women would flock to r/MensRights in the same way that many women that hate men flock to r/Feminism. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/13 10:44 PM |
| -2 | How feminism worksI think it's fascinating. Unfortunately, especially prevalent in the /r/MensRights subreddit, misogyny is a very real thing. I wish we could all just believe in equity and as she said her AMA, I'm afraid the Mens Rights movement is becoming too big and too vague to become an all encompassing term. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/13 08:59 PM |
| 8 | How feminism works"Pizzey says it was after death threats against her, her children, her grandchildren, and the killing of her dog, all of which she states were perpetrated by militant feminists,[12][13] " It's funny how the sources conflict. That's interesting. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/13 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Hi MensRight! As a long-time subscriber, writer & poet, and highschool student, I need your help!I'm proud of you. I hope you understand that :) | /r/MensRights | 01/03/13 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Hi MensRight! As a long-time subscriber, writer & poet, and highschool student, I need your help!I plan to have an introduction before my "poem" starts. It's going to be more of a speech/acting thing considering I've been working with speech team for so long, but it's going to be good, poetic, and intimate. I grew up with depression. Depression and self-blame is what I know. I plan to take the audience into a setting of a happy man after hooking them in with a teaser, and slowly progressing into a state of irony where the man is not aware he's being abused and he's not aware of the red flag… | /r/MensRights | 28/02/13 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Hi MensRight! As a long-time subscriber, writer & poet, and highschool student, I need your help!I have no intention of downplaying women's issues. They are as legitimate, if not, a more legitimate concern than men's issues. But they're both issues, and they're both things that we as a society need to work on, and to get people on my side, I need people to understand I'm not biased or misogynist. Ya dig? | /r/MensRights | 28/02/13 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Hi MensRight! As a long-time subscriber, writer & poet, and highschool student, I need your help!I'm thinking about starting off with something along the lines of (but of course significantly more polished), "Abuse is a real issue. It has been shown that 29% of women have been mentally, physically, or verbally abused in some way or another over the course of their relationships. According to the Huffington Post, 62% of these women have been hit, slapped, or shoved, 33% of those women have been choked, 11% are currently afraid of their partner, the list goes on. You hear about issues like th… | /r/MensRights | 28/02/13 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Hi MensRight! As a long-time subscriber, writer & poet, and highschool student, I need your help!Thanks :) | /r/MensRights | 28/02/13 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Hi MensRight! As a long-time subscriber, writer & poet, and highschool student, I need your help!This one's pretty short. http://www.reddit.com/r/Poetry/comments/1834n9/ink/ | /r/MensRights | 28/02/13 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Hi MensRight! As a long-time subscriber, writer & poet, and highschool student, I need your help!My last poem was quite long, and honestly, not up to my standards, and not only that, I don't have it online. Sorry >: But do you want some of my other writing from r/poetry? I could link to that. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/13 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Hi MensRight! As a long-time subscriber, writer & poet, and highschool student, I need your help!PS: This is probably going to be performed in front of 200-300 people, so I want to make it top-notch. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/13 05:19 AM |
| -6 | Can we please stop using the word "Feminist" in relation to "Women who want special privileges for being a woman"https://www.google.com/search?q=define%3Afeminism&rlz=1C1CHFX_enUS495US495&oq=define%3Afeminism&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8 I'm sorry to say, but your "personal definition of feminism" doesn't change the actual definition of feminism | /r/MensRights | 06/02/13 06:43 AM |
| 9 | Reddit White Knight humiliatedTo be fair... it isn't. That doesn't make it right. But it's not even a fair comparison | /r/MensRights | 15/01/13 08:16 AM |
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