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| 14 | Before or After | Discussion | Xiggyj | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:59 PM |
| 10 | Other alternatives | Question for RedPill | Xiggyj | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 05:38 PM |
| 8 | What are your thoughts on Inside The Manosphere documentary? | Discussion | Xiggyj | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:50 PM |
| 8 | Signs of interest | Discussion | Xiggyj | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Mixed signals | Discussion | Xiggyj | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 08:13 PM |
| 2 | What do we think about coffee dates? | Discussion | Xiggyj | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 03:35 PM |
| 2 | What’s your opinion on the friend zone? | Discussion | Xiggyj | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 04:29 PM |
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| -1 | "Game" is overrated.Eh, I’ve seen it. Game is just cute word for charisma and good social intelligence when it comes to women. If you understand what women respond to(their emotions) and you’re good at making them feel safe AND desirable around you, you can get a gf or laid, etc. I’ve seen plenty of dudes get with women way out of their league looks wise and finance wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 11:40 PM |
| – | You only smash cuz she pre-approved you.It’s entirely possible to build female attraction overtime and there have been women who have slept with and dated guys who weren’t their type initially. It’s not a black pill doomerism situation. I know for me I wasn’t physically attracted to my ex AT ALL. It was her confidence, her charisma, and the fact that she made me feel loved and wanted. I would have absolutely had sex with her because of how she made me *feel*. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 11:26 PM |
| 4 | "Women are people too. Just treat them like they are human". Is such anoverblown, and hella misleading advice for menYeah, I would imagine the baseline is treating a woman like a person. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 05:36 PM |
| – | Women, what are your dating issues?Dude… 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 03:25 AM |
| 0 | Are men justified in hating women?I don’t think any one should hate 50% of the population, the vast majority of which they’ve never met. That being said, a lot of the ‘hate’ you see online are women venting frustrations with their personal negative experiences with men or just the attitudes of some men they see and hear online. Women tend to rally together and sympathize with each other’s struggles, so if their fellow woman is hurting, they may be angry for her. Are you wanting to return this vitriol to get back at women for the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:28 PM |
| – | Women, what are your dating issues?lol the way this is framed as though you don’t believe women can have dating issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 04:31 PM |
| 0 | We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected.This is just not true. Given that women carry the babies, they are heavily scrutinized for choosing wrong partners by society. They are even more demonized for abandoning their child than men are, almost as if men are expected to be absent parents. Of course men don’t allow women to get off the hook either. Whenever a woman has a dating woe with an ex or a man she encountered many men’s favorite response is, « choose better » like, come on. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Defending women at all costs isn't protecting women,it's setting them up for when accountability catches upI’ve personally never seen people excuse women keeping innocent well meaning fathers from their children. Usually, if it is a situation of a mother punishing a father and keeping him from his kids for no other reason but spite, we all collectively frown upon that and call her a bitch(considering how many men already don’t want to take care of their kids) we tend to immediately side with the men who do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 04:21 PM |
| 0 | When will people admit that masturbating to lesbian porn as a woman is extremely gay?I’m a lesbian and do not desire sex with men AT ALL, but will occasionally watch gay male and heterosexual porn. I enjoy watching adults enjoy sex. It’s more so the act of people receiving pleasure more than just the genitals of the people doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 05:39 PM |
| 4 | “Be yourself” is the best adviceI don’t like the advice because for many men whom this advice is given to, they have already been themselves and it’s not working. If they are anxious, an asshole, don’t know how to talk to or flirt with women, they are being themselves and it isn’t working for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Do Women Actually Believe Men's Dating Struggles Are Real?To the women doing that, you’re right. It’s totally fine to talk about men’s issues without doing a red herring to the other side. Both sides need space for their issues to be heard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Do Women Actually Believe Men's Dating Struggles Are Real?Yep, I do. And I mostly agree with the struggles they mention. I’ve also seen these same men struggle to empathize with the other side and want all the sympathy for themselves. This very subreddit is notorious for this, hell, the entire Manosphere also. It’s funny, they want the sympathy they aren’t willing to extend to the other side. It’s actually ironic, they place women on pedestals and truly believe women don’t have their own issues and they are being oppressed by them out of sex and romanc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 11:09 PM |
| 2 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.The short answer to this is: you don’t have to care. The longer answer is just a lack of empathy for the fact that men and women have different mating strategies. I still see many men scoff at women complaining that the matches they get on dating websites are just a bunch of duds. And you have these men responding with, “At least you get matches! Ungrateful bitch!” Not understanding that women have way more risk when it comes to mate selection and reproduction. They are smaller and weaker than m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?lol very wholesome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 12:05 PM |
| – | What’s your opinion on the friend zone?Would the same go for if you developed feelings a year or two down the line? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 03:50 PM |
| 4 | Modern women overrate their value way more than menYep, and makes them look weak in her eyes anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 07:09 PM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on the friend zone?This is an interesting female perspective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Negging and shit-testing are the same thing.Are you trolling me? Cause I don’t believe this is a real take from a well adjusted adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Negging and shit-testing are the same thing.So, is not attacking a woman’s self esteem/self worth in hopes she’ll chase your approval not a bad thing? Maybe we have different ethics and morals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 08:41 PM |
| 12 | Women are the ones red pilling menSo, when you say redpill, in which ways did your behavior with women change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Negging and shit-testing are the same thing.You don’t need to humble her, lol. You can raise a woman’s attraction level with good ole fashioned teasing, that doesn’t require you to attack her self esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Negging and shit-testing are the same thing.It’s bad because you are deliberately attempting to lower the self confidence or esteem of a woman to make her chase your approval. In what world is that ever a positive thing? Why do you need a woman to feel lesser about herself in order for her to see you as a dating option? Sounds pathetic to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Negging and shit-testing are the same thing.He tried. A swing and a miss. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Negging and shit-testing are the same thing.Negging is bad because it’s used as a tactic to lower the self esteem of a woman so that she’s chasing the man’s approval. It’s different from teasing which is just playful flirting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Negging and shit-testing are the same thing.Negging and shit testing aren’t really the same. Many women aren’t even aware they are doing the shit testing, but for them it’s to test how safe and confident a man is, or how much she means to him. Negging is a very deliberate tactic to lower the confidence of a woman so she is more likely to choose you. Women will test you, there isn’t a way out of that, however, if she’s the type of woman to put you in dangerous situations or set you up to be humiliated, leave her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 12:17 PM |
| – | fat women are hypocritesLol people are hypocrites. We all want what we want and don’t want to be rejected for qualities about us. It’s called a fantasy. You eventually end up seeing people of the same level dating one another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 09:31 PM |
| – | Women are too underqualified to give dating advice to straight men.You don’t. Be upfront with your intentions. Plenty of women out there who just want hook ups also. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 04:44 PM |
| – | Women are too underqualified to give dating advice to straight men.I super agree with this. The advice is definitely tailored to how they want to be treated by the guy they already want. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easilyOkay, I think you’re high. There are a lot of assumptions being made that I have no idea where they came from. Have a nice day, buddy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 02:39 PM |
| – | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.Judges tend to award custody to the parents who 1. Fight for it, which many fathers don’t do, because they would rather the childcare responsibilities be on the mother and 2. Whom the child spends the most time with, except in cases where the primary caregiver is unfit(drugs and abuse). It would be pretty jarring for the judge to put the child with the parent the child barely sees. Often times it’s the mothers who are the primary caretakers because during marriage the man and woman decide that’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 02:52 PM |
| – | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.Sure, there are some women who do benefit from and uphold the patriarchy. I even agreed with an aspect of this when I said they enjoy not having the burden of pursuing dates placed on them. You then went into a direction saying that men are in these dangerous fields as though they aren’t willingly choosing to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 02:36 PM |
| – | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.Okay, even if women are attributing this happening to patriarchy, that’s for men to fight back against and decide what careers they want to choose. Men have that freedom to go into any career they want. Men decide to go into law enforcement, become firefighters, to work on oil rigs, etc. These are all voluntary, if we live in a culture that encourages or influences young boys towards these fields, that is something we can work together to change to allow boys to know they can be teachers, therap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 02:05 AM |
| – | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.Okay, well, I don’t know how other counties function. My perspective is based on America. Hope y’all vote for some better leaders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.Okay, but are men not voluntarily applying for these positions? Your average nerd is in his room playing Xbox. No one is forcing him into these positions and nor does he obviously feel pressured into them. Only pressure he’s concerned about is his ranking on League. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.The only real point in this is women not wanting to be the pursuers in dating. I do think women enjoy not having that burden placed on them, but everything else is moot. Men don’t have to go into law enforcement, and there hasn’t been a draft for the military in many years, men can be as lazy as they want to be. They don’t have to particulate in dangerous jobs, in fact the IT type guy is the norm today. You also don’t have to go into a government job either, these are all voluntary positions. An… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 09:07 PM |
| 6 | Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easilyThis is a fantastic topic that’s heavily loaded. You’re correct, many women do view men who have sex with men as less masculine and untrustworthy as sexual partners. There is a hyper sexual culture in the gay male community and there is a fear of STDs being introduced to women through bisexual men, it’s not right, just explaining the stereotype. You’re also correct that women will attempt to emasculate a man by attacking his sexuality. Men are unfortunately universally very insecure about their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 11:52 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on Inside The Manosphere documentary?Lol umm, I don’t buy that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 12:17 AM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on Inside The Manosphere documentary?Yep, you’re correct. It’s about quality and the reputation of that man to other women. This guy just wants to sleep around and is trying to justify that. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 11:32 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on Inside The Manosphere documentary?But you’re making these assumptions. You don’t know if experience in a long term relationship isn’t enough for all or even most women. And you also don’t know if 50 bodies will increase a man’s value versus 15, 20, or 30. These are all arbitrary numbers. Actually, there was a study that showed that in general women desired men who had between 7 and 10 sexual partners, having a high body count as a man for them wasn’t preferred. If you want to sleep with 50 women do it, but that’s not based in an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Being attracted to someone vs being just friendly, how to recognize it as a man?Honestly, who knows. I’m still trying to figure that out as a lesbian dealing with women. 😂 I know for me, it’s very obvious if I’m interested in someone, when I’m not, I’m super neutral and treat them friendly, no flirting, no going out of my way to spend time with them, no being hyper aware of them. When I like someone it’s the opposite, I flirt, I tease, I make myself available to spend time with them, I go out of my way to help them and talk to them when they need me. I just make it obvious … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 09:07 PM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on Inside The Manosphere documentary?Women do prefer men with experience, but there isn’t an arbitrary number, sounds more like Myron’s own fantasies. And experience doesn’t have to mean a lot of bodies, you can be in a long term relationship and gain plenty experience from that relationship. Social proof is important if you have a good reputation with how you’ve dealt with the women you have dated, not how many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 07:13 PM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts on Inside The Manosphere documentary?Lol why do you need 50 bodies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 06:21 PM |
| -1 | What are your thoughts on Inside The Manosphere documentary?I don’t know all of the particular creators, I only hover around it. I just know highlighting the more extreme ones only isn’t balanced and that was the main criticism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 05:32 AM |
| -2 | What are your thoughts on Inside The Manosphere documentary?I know they have a wide reach with young guys, it seems that’s why Louis interviewed them in particular. Personally, for dating advice for guys and some self improvement I think Corey Wayne is a good choice. F.D Signifier has made some interesting commentary on Redpill and self improvement for guys, I also like HealthyGamerGG, he speaks a lot about the mental health angle as it pertains to guys, and High Integrity Skills. These men aren’t necessarily in the Manosphere, but they do talk about men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Signs of interestSo, when you’re into someone..what signs do you show? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Invest as little as possible early onThis is true, romantic gestures are only meaningfully from those she’s attracted to already. That’s why gifts and other gestures don’t build attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Women are more sexual than menEven if these are the most popular hobbies for women, there are other dances than twerking, for example: tap, ballroom, salsa, etc. Many women like makeup so they can look good for themselves, etc. Of course women like all kinds of music and so on. I hate to do the ‘Whataboutism’ but since you started this with comparisons, men engage in listening to music that perpetuates sex, many guys go to the gym to get fit to attract women to get sex, men are the ones who pay for sex way more often than wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Bieng a jerk helps a lotThere is a lot to unpack here. I think a really effective combination that works on many women is confidence/indifference. If you can have the confidence to approach a woman, but be indifferent to the outcome, this is very attractive. Women want to know that rejection doesn’t phase you and you won’t turn into a clingy stalker if she turns you down. Also, walking away gracefully subconsciously signals to women that you’re valuable and have options(even if you don’t). These things combined can app… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching women in public is patheticI think it’s fine if dudes cold approach with romance and intimacy being the end goal. I don’t see how that’s inherently bad, it’s how they handle the potential rejection that makes a difference. You need to understand that unless you’re extremely rich or good looking, you’ll be rejected the vast majority of the time and you need the self esteem and confidence to deal with that, cold approaching can help with building that too. I don’t think it’s pathetic at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 06:45 PM |
| – | The red pill doesn't want to change societyI thought we knew the Redpill wasn’t about changing the system, but working within it to get what you wanted at the expense of women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Can women truly love?No. First you have to be 6ft, 6 inches down stairs, make 6 figures, and have a dog. Then only then can you hope to be loved 1%. You know who can love just fine? Men. Find yourself a strong man who will love you the way you need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do women friends share sexual encounters so freely with their sexually frustrated friends?Because you’re her friend. Friends share things with one another. However, if you’d like to be with her/have sex with her, you can’t wait for her to have consideration for your feelings, it’s up to you to set boundaries about certain conversations and opt out of the friendship when those boundaries aren’t respected, or don’t stay friends with a woman you secretly want. I’m still navigating this myself, had to distance myself and go low contact with a woman I have feelings for so I can keep my sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:16 PM |
| 17 | Why are men expected to "chase?"Because there are many women who want traditional gender roles to remain in their favor, it has everything to do with what benefits them. However, your fellow men adhere to this and play by the rules. Many men still believe they should approach women and they should pay for meals. So, a cultural shift has to take place to change this by both sides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 05:41 PM |
| – | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessIt honestly doesn’t matter what anyone thinks they deserve because the only opinion that matters in that regard is the person they are trying to attract. A single mother can think she’s the best option all day long, but a man still has to approach her and agree to take on her situation. And in that situation, HE decides what her value is, same for the women who decide if they want a man who is short and make a certain amount of money. If she is struggling in that pursuit, her children could defi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Women Argue Against What They Think You're Saying Instead of What You Actually SaidI agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:00 AM |
| 5 | Women Argue Against What They Think You're Saying Instead of What You Actually SaidLol oh no…this proved his point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 03:41 AM |
| 3 | Women are denied the gift of failureI think women do get blamed for their failures and held accountable for them. If they get cheated on, they are accused of choosing wrong. If their baby’s father skips town, they get accused of choosing wrong. If they decide to skip town on their child, they are accused of being a horrible mother. If they are divorced, it is immediately assumed she filed and didn’t do enough to keep the marriage together. If she ages past 35 with no ring, it’s her fault that she allowed herself to hit ‘the wall’ … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:15 PM |
| 7 | Why do women say men are single because they are bad/misogynistic. But tons of bad and misogynistic men have tons of women?Very true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 05:45 PM |
| 8 | Why do women say men are single because they are bad/misogynistic. But tons of bad and misogynistic men have tons of women?Because often times those same bad guys have other traits women find attractive, such as confidence and indifference to rejection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything?Lol they do, the women you come across just has low interest in you. Plenty of guys don’t pay for dates or can skip the date entirely and get her over his house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything?Welp, that might be true, but the same logic applies. You don’t have to do anything you don’t want. I’ve heard stories from men who have gone out on dates with women who just sit in his car for an hour to talk, or they walk around the park. If her interest level is high enough in you, she will do what you want to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 08:01 PM |
| 0 | Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything?Just say no to paying. A woman can’t get you to do anything you don’t want. If she wants fancy dinners and that isn’t something you do, then she doesn’t get to go out with you. I do coffee or frozen yogurt for first dates, low investment/low cost for the first few dates until I’m sure she likes me enough to keep investing time into seeing me. If a woman likes you enough, you’d be surprised what type of dates she’ll be willing to go on. She would be there for YOU, not what you guys do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 07:42 PM |
| – | Women are wonderful because they are incompetentI love this sub, the comedy on it is hilarious. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 10:24 PM |
| 0 | Too many guys let normal experiences become their whole personality and stunt their growth.Well said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 04:40 PM |
| 1 | What (I think) Every Nice Guy Needs to HearBecause instead of being pissy and upset about an abuser getting a woman you want, take the traits that draw these women to these guys to get success with women. You can choose to be upset about it, or choose to take what they are doing right to your benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 12:18 AM |
| 1 | What (I think) Every Nice Guy Needs to HearMy point was about men complaining that women like men who are abusive, not the women. Of course you can tell women to chose better all day. I never said nor implied that abusive men should be picked, simply clarifying that their abusive traits aren’t why they are, like many men assume. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | What (I think) Every Nice Guy Needs to HearLol I’m not saying to be an abuser, I’m letting men know that they are focused on the wrong traits of why women tend to chose these men and it isn’t because they are abusive. Men are walking away thinking they have to be abusive to get women and I’m telling them that, that isn’t what these women are gravitating towards, it’s the other traits these men also tend to have that the guys complaining about them don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 06:24 PM |
| 1 | What (I think) Every Nice Guy Needs to HearBecause men are hyper focused on ‘but he’s abusive!’ Not understanding that the actual traits women like aren’t the abusive ones and perhaps those guys can take the traits that women actually look for, adopt those and improve their experiences with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 04:52 PM |
| 2 | What’s with the “I hate lustful men” trend?Well, people have different libidos, there truly are some women who are sex repulsed and don’t know that there is a label(asexual) for that. I think those women are in the minority. I think most women fall in the middle of wanting sexual attention only from men they want or are in a relationship with, and any other sexual attention or pursuit grosses them out or scares them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 08:23 PM |
| 2 | What (I think) Every Nice Guy Needs to HearThose abusive guys still have traits that women find attractive, such as confidence and indifference to her rejection because they always had another woman lined up, or at least they acted as though they did. It’s not the abuse itself that the women like, and I feel like many dudes don’t get this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 07:19 PM |
| 1 | What’s with the “I hate lustful men” trend?Many of the posts I see from men on this sub makes me scratch my head. When women say ‘lustful’ men it is usually men who are aggressive and or inappropriate in their sexual pursuit of women. They tend to think of women as masturbation sleeves, instead of valuing her as an autonomous individual. Just read many of the messages women get on dating apps to drive the point home. It’s fine for men to be attracted sexually to women, it’s about how they express that attraction that can be scary and eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 07:01 PM |
| 3 | What’s with the “I hate lustful men” trend?Many of the posts I see from men on this sub makes me scratch my head. When women say ‘lustful’ men it is usually men who are aggressive and or inappropriate in their sexual pursuit of women. They tend to think of women as masturbation sleeves, instead of valuing her as an autonomous individual. Just read many of the messages women get on dating apps to drive the point home. It’s fine for men to be attracted sexually to women, it’s about how they express that attraction that can be scary and eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 07:00 PM |
| 4 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.Why would they feel cheated out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 09:36 PM |
| 8 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.Possibly, but if you let men tell it…they are itching for women to be their wives and mothers to their children NOW in their 20s, while women are spending their 20s in college and having sex with random guys. The reality is that a lot of men are also just playing the field and do not have marriage or fatherhood on their minds either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 09:28 PM |
| 6 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.I’m listening to the discourse that men themselves are having online and also surveys done about this as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 09:25 PM |
| 15 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.Most women if they want older men it’s a few years older, not decades older. Generally, they’d prefer to marry and mate with men around their age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 09:24 PM |
| 1 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.There is definitely a ‘wall’ for men too, but because they aren’t judged as harshly for their looks, they can make up for it in other ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 05:18 PM |
| 26 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.There’s hypocrisy on both ends. Many men in their 20s don’t want marriage and they are being told by other men to delay marriage well into their 30s and 40s because the honey pot(20 year old women) will be waiting for them at the end of the rainbow at any age as long as they have money, which isn’t the case. Most women in their 20s want men in their 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Don't Take The Personality Pill.We all know looks get you in the door but personality keeps you in the house. Unless you don’t care about relationship retainment, yes, looks matter a great deal in getting attention from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 10:14 PM |
| 4 | Don't Take The Personality Pill.Although I kinda get what you’re trying to say…this just kinds of prove OP’s point. You dated this ‘Chad’ until his personality became too much to tolerate. It seems that you put up with his personality in the beginning in favor of your attraction to him. Unless he did a total 180, there were probably some red flags you let go. At the very least that is the ‘Gotcha!’ OP is most likely going to respond with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 10:11 PM |
| – | The problem with many women hereStop telling women to lower their standards because they just aren’t going to. A woman will find out if her standards are too high when she 1. Can’t attract men who meet them, or 2. The men she attracts doesn’t give her what she wants. These are things she has to discover for herself. Those metrics you laid out that women should look for may not matter to every woman. To be frank, women are way more likely to remain single if they can’t get what they want in a man. Most women get their love and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:28 PM |
| 1 | What do we think about coffee dates?What’s thinner on the ground mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 11:32 AM |
| 3 | What do we think about coffee dates?I agree! I’m all for low cost/low investment first couple of dates until they have shown they can invest time in seeing me, then I can invest more money/creativity in our dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 01:17 PM |
| 6 | Most women aren’t good enough for relationships for most menLol it’s funny, I use to lurk around MGTOW spaces and to be men who were going ‘their own way’ they constantly centered women. It was pretty much middle aged dudes who had been divorced or older incels complaining about women and not much else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 04:23 PM |
| 0 | Other alternativesYeah, the majority of his content I’ve seen gave pretty balanced takes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 12:15 AM |
| -2 | Other alternativesYou ever heard of High Integrity Skills? So far he’s the most neutral. He doesn’t pretend men’s problems aren’t real, but he also doesn’t spend time pointing the blame at women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:49 PM |
| -1 | Other alternatives🤮🤢 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:44 PM |
| 11 | Dating is insanely inequal and unfair for men, yet no one’s adressing it even though it affects fundamental humanThe sooner you stop the mindset that an injustice is being done to you, the better. I noticed you have been avoiding answering about a concrete solution to this that doesn’t involve ripping free will and bodily autonomy away from women. You don’t want a woman who is with you because she feels she has to be, that’s one of the worst feelings. You’ll have to take your love life into your own hands, dress better, learn to socialize better, get interesting hobbies that allow you to meet women, ask fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 05:11 PM |
| – | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter.Usually they do, you can get a good idea on the type of men a woman likes by her dating history and exes. A lot of women will try to tell you that they just ‘happened’ to date a certain type of guy over and over, but often times they put themselves in certain guy’s orbit, or only accept advances from certain types of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 08:22 PM |
| – | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter.I pay attention more to what women respond to and their actions more than what they say. Girls are socialized to be polite and proper, mostly because voicing their real desires can be deadly to them if they come across an insecure man, or can be reputation damaging, such as being called a whore if they want casual sex over motherhood or a long term relationship. So, many women aren’t forthcoming with their desires for fear of being hurt or judged for them. Some women don’t care either way, but m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 05:43 PM |
| – | "Consent" is a thing that more men should reject and more women should enforce according to their respective definitionTea, anyone? 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 11:29 PM |
| 2 | ”Women are freeloading and ungrateful”I thought these dudes complained that women were too independent and therefore don’t need them for anything? Now they are freeloading? 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 06:32 PM |
| – | Mixed signalsIt’s a woman, yep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Mixed signalsI put mixed because at first they said ‘just friends’ but since then has been behaving this way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Mixed signalsThey don’t take compliments well in general. It’ll result in an awkward situation for both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Mixed signalsEven if they said previous it was ‘just friends’ they started behaving like this after that declaration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 11:19 PM |
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