TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

XionGuard Archive

View 1 posts and 80 comments by XionGuard on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
322

XionGuard/r/seduction09/01/14 08:03 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

you can save links or comments on to your reddit account
/r/seduction19/05/14 04:54 AM
3

Yeah. I get the feeling that we as human beings spend too much time being locked into a screen and becoming so detached from that level of human contact. People don't realise how much time they spend constantly checking their phones for whatever purpose. I am guilty of this myself because I'm on reddit right now too. Although I acknowledge this, I want to cut down and focus more on just human interaction, because I don't think technology can beat millions of years of evolution.
/r/seduction18/04/14 01:56 PM
1

I actually try to use asian stereotypes to my own advantage. People expect you to be a certain way but you project yourself the opposite and come off extremely polarizing. People will find that attractive since it really surprises them.
/r/seduction10/04/14 04:09 AM
3

We must condemn you for improving your social skills!!!! How dare you make another human being happy!!!
/r/seduction08/04/14 02:23 AM
1

now i feel like the biggest pussy in the world
/r/seduction01/04/14 02:55 AM
2

The author probably hasn't gotten laid in a while. His insecurity runs deep.
/r/seduction27/03/14 02:08 AM
1

You get on your knees, start bowing and say: "Please! Make way for the Queen! All hail before her presence!"
/r/seduction27/03/14 02:00 AM
1

Yeah. I think girls kinda mistake confident guys with assholes. And nice guys are most often needy, which girls in general find gross.
/r/seduction27/03/14 01:46 AM
1

Flip a coin. And in that moment the coin is in the air.. You'll know which one you really want.
/r/seduction24/03/14 08:42 PM
2

Wrap it in the latex or she's gonna get your paychecks!
/r/seduction24/03/14 08:38 PM
10

Holy shit you dodged the bullet. I was getting nervous you were gonna say the opposite.
/r/seduction24/03/14 08:36 PM
-1

Just pretend like they're a good friend you haven't seen in a long time. I assume this serves more for an anecdotal purpose? You shouldn't treat her as a friend for too long should you? I'm afraid I'd get friendoned instantly. I suppose this is just something I have to gauge correctly.
/r/seduction24/03/14 02:37 AM
1

Why am I having so much trouble being direct with girls when it comes to school? I tend to be such a little bitch and can never get myself to project my actual intentions towards girls when it comes to school, but in a social environment I don't have much of a problem doing this. I feel like i'm just friendzoning myself. Help?
/r/seduction13/03/14 11:06 PM
1

I know me doing this might seem egotistical, but I feel like it might need to be addressed again. Here's a post I made about 2 months back talking about this issue with certain people in this subreddit: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1utkhh/a_problem_ive_noticed_about_seddit_lately/
/r/seduction12/03/14 06:40 PM
1

So what exactly is the point of this post? While I think it's good you're successful in this situation with Pickup, you should always be humble and free of ego. I can't help but feel this post reeks of your egotistical manner. Besides being an 'inspiring' post, I feel there isn't really much for me to learn from this. How exactly does this post contribute to any new pickup guys? You didn't explain any intricate details that led you to getting laid whether or not you're lying. If people call you …
/r/seduction12/03/14 06:24 PM
0

Yeah, I also feel like this is an egotistical and pretentious thing to do even if someone is joking. It's pretty much asking for accolades after some anecodtal success with a girl.
/r/seduction07/03/14 03:12 AM
1

Do you guys usually go with your gut when it comes to telling if a girl is interested in you?
/r/seduction06/03/14 09:52 PM
1

refers to physical escalation with a girl. touching, holding hands, being physically close, the usual
/r/seduction06/03/14 09:52 PM
6

Set up a date. Make it a declaration, and not a question. :D
/r/seduction23/02/14 03:32 AM
1

The longer you wait, the harder it becomes. Talking to girls is fun, so go out there and have fun! This isn't a chore.
/r/seduction11/02/14 08:13 PM
2

Personally I disagree, it's only difficult if you think it is and see pickup as a chore. Just go out there and HAVE FUN! It should be fun talking to girls and the like, and if you're having fun, you're bound to get better no matter what.
/r/seduction05/02/14 05:25 AM
1

For clubs try to have high energy, it isn't the day time when everyone is calm and quiet.
/r/seduction01/02/14 04:38 AM
1

Palm reading is good, but I like to end it off by saying "I'm just using this as an excuse to hold your hand." I think if you're actually trying to do magic tricks and palm reading it can be weird, so I do that instead.
/r/seduction01/02/14 04:35 AM
1

Yeah. If any girl said that to me I'd assume she's instantly down. But that never happens to me. :(
/r/seduction21/01/14 05:07 AM
9

I disagree. I love video games and I'm not going to be insecure about it, I'm going to be confident about it and let her know if she asks about my interests. I think some guys tend to stray the conversation away from their interests and hobbies because they deem girls wouldn't like that subject of interest in a conversation. But if you're a confident mother fucker who says he plays video games confidently, the girl will not hate you for it and may be even more attracted. And if she's shallow eno…
/r/seduction19/01/14 01:27 AM
1

If you think it's creepy, then it is. But if you don't, girls will be completely fine with it.
/r/seduction13/01/14 04:56 AM
1

You gotta warm the oven before you start baking the cookies. You can't just turn that shit on. And how good of friends are you? Do you guys chill often? If so, she may feel comfortable being alone with you knowing nothing will ever happen because your friendship has been like that for ages.
/r/seduction12/01/14 05:17 AM
0

"I am ugly as fuck, what are you talking about? Why else would you think I'd hit on you?" Then give a tiny smirk.
/r/seduction12/01/14 05:13 AM
2

I really need to work on this. I think I come off as a creepy pedo on the dance floor. I think you should have some high energy too (which I lack), especially since it's a party environment.
/r/seduction12/01/14 05:04 AM
1

I wish I had a girl who would sit on my bed instead of my chair. Life would be so much easier. :( She already skipped Step 1 for OP! Honestly I think he fucked up big time. OP, you should have physically escalated and went for it. She was down. Don't feel bad though, it's a good learning experience. I once cuddled with a girl two nights in a row and did not go for it. Yep.
/r/seduction12/01/14 04:56 AM
1

Well, you can't get any worse, so you're only going to get better if you keep trying. Have a positive mindset. Not every night is going to be perfect. And I'm not sure what "trying too hard is". If that means machine gunning your way hitting on 20 different girls at a club with a lot of people, then I would consider that good. Don't receive rejection so negatively, it's a good thing.
/r/seduction12/01/14 04:49 AM
7

I think it's fucking badass if someone doesn't have a Facebook and is also a cool person.
/r/seduction12/01/14 04:41 AM
2

You should try Push-Pull. It's important to show attraction and resistance. I'm not even sure if this makes sense, but I think both girls and guys like this even if they don't subjectively think they do. Things are no fun if it's too easy. Make love the way YOU would want to be made love to. I think this depends on how the guy values the girl. If he sees her just as a f-buddy, then he's more likely to treat her differently as opposed to someone who he values as a potential girlfriend. I also thi…
/r/seduction10/01/14 07:58 PM
3

Thanks! I'm glad you guys enforce a positive environment in this subreddit.
/r/seduction10/01/14 12:21 AM
1

I don't think it's bad if he texts her two hours later and keeps it light while setting up the date and leaving her alone for the while until that date. I'd say it's a good thing because if you wait a day or longer, some girls will partially forget about you. Now if he texted the shit out of her two hours later then I'd say that's a problem.
/r/seduction09/01/14 08:37 PM
3

Stop her on the spot. Make her stop walking. And then go from there. It's highly suggested to not walk with her unless she asks you to do so. Most situations like these you will get the number faster since you may be going somewhere and she as well, or you could also be rejected faster as well, which isn't a bad thing.
/r/seduction09/01/14 08:12 PM
0

If she is ready to settle down very soon.
/r/seduction05/01/14 02:58 AM
9

Fuck. I am so guilty of this. Thanks OP. I'll keep this in mind.
/r/seduction01/01/14 07:19 PM
3

I think number 9 should be the most important. Fixing your life and living a good and healthy life is probably the most important before any other steps. Loving yourself, being happy by yourself, being a person that people actually want to be around. Everything falls after that.
/r/seduction24/12/13 07:32 PM
1

Why do you disagree? I would like to know. From my own experience, being indirect with a girl only leads you to be friendzoned or rejected. Not stating your intentions the moment you meet her will result in that. I wanted to be near an item I was actually interested in and close to the girl at the same time so I can actually talk to her but it didn't work out. I don't understand why OP couldn't just walk up to her and say: "Hey, you're cute. Whats your name? Obviously as you can tell, I'm not he…
/r/seduction21/12/13 03:27 PM
1

It's not that bad. I mean, what's the worst that can happen? Nobody is trying to shoot you, nobody is trying to blow themselves up in front of you, drones aren't launching missiles at you. It's just a hot girl, calm down. Talk to her like a normal human being and be flirtatious. Let her know your intentions right away, or else you'll get friendzoned.
/r/seduction20/12/13 12:32 PM
-1

Don't ask the girl out. I just say "me and you are going on a date" this day and that's it. If she's busy, tell her to cancel her plans like a boss, and if she still can't go that day then just reschedule. If you 'state' instead of 'asking' for a date over text, it's so much better and it still works.
/r/seduction20/12/13 12:20 PM
-1

One thing I would say is don't beat around the bush. Whoever gave you that advice has it wrong. Talking to a girl about what clothes you should buy isn't going to get you laid. You have to be direct with a girl and let her know your intentions. Girls like a guy who knows what the fuck he wants. You want HER, not no overpriced A&E shirt. Remember that you're there because you want to get your penis inside her vagina and not to buy clothes. Tell her that you're not there to buy clothes/makeup/ling…
/r/seduction20/12/13 12:16 PM
2

He's only 16. I think he'd have a tough time with women at that age. At least I know I would.
/r/seduction19/12/13 09:45 PM
2

In this silent situation it's nice to see how she reacts, girls will also take notice in your reaction and see how you handle a silence in the convo. Some people feel extremely awkward over a silence in a conversation and will go through such lengths to fill in that silence which can make it even MORE awkward, while some people can handle it like a boss. Try to maintain confidence while socializing, and that includes silences. Sometimes later into the date, a silence can also give you the perfec…
/r/seduction17/12/13 02:08 AM
25

Just remember that a moment of silence between you and the girl isn't the worst thing in the world. It's really not that bad or awkward at all. You don't want to say something unnatural due to a silence in the conversation. It makes you seem nervous and insecure.
/r/seduction16/12/13 05:20 AM
2

You won't need hope. Just be a boss. Short guys who have a lot of confidence is very appealing to girls. When a girl sees: "wow, that guy is short but he's got confidence", it's even more sexy because they question something that should be seen negatively but isnt to you. Take your insecurities and flip em around. Make it apart of your tool kit when doing PU.
/r/seduction16/12/13 04:02 AM
6

I'm about 5'5. I don't give a fuck.
/r/seduction15/12/13 05:24 AM
6

Socialize with others. Don't be that weirdo who has his drink in his hand and just stands there looking at girls for the perfect time to approach. There is no 'perfect time'. Just go do it. Also, don't buy girls drinks or offer to buy drinks if they ask. It makes you look like a toolbox. Instead, if she asks you to buy her a drink, you'll do so only if she makes out with you, and then you don't buy her a drink in the end like a boss. Unless she's super cool.
/r/seduction14/12/13 09:06 PM
34

It is when you're 19.
/r/seduction14/12/13 09:04 PM
3

It's a good opener, but you shouldn't expect a girl to fall on your dick because of one line.
/r/seduction14/12/13 06:12 PM
1

You should remember that getting the number is important, but don't weigh that over the girl. I know situations where I've gotten the number and just dipped, as if getting her number was actually more important than talking to the girl. Your interaction with her is extremely important, and it's what keeps her interested. Just because you have gotten the # doesn't mean you need to dip out. Still try and engage in the conversation afterwards and then leave. If she is busy and has somewhere to be A…
/r/seduction14/12/13 06:06 PM
1

She doesn't want your cock. "Maybe later" was just a pussy way of her saying "no".
/r/seduction11/12/13 07:03 PM
1

So if I read every book on Basketball I can hang with LeBron James?
/r/seduction11/12/13 06:47 AM
11

I think you're fine as long as you are setting up dates with those girls who are initiating texts, because even if you don't reply she still knows you both are going out Saturday night for example. I think it's a good thing to really push a girl away over text. She'll question whether or not you are truly interested, and that peaks her interest. And when you see this girl on the date and you're pulling her in and being caring towards her after seeming "cold" and unresponsive over texts, she'll b…
/r/seduction11/12/13 06:41 AM
2

Honestly, I know what I'm going to say isn't what you want to hear, but if value your job I would suggest leaving her alone. If you want to have every day be awkward seeing her then by all means go ahead. Now if you didn't give a fuck about your job then yeah, go right ahead full speed and hit on her. But since you do, I would suggest you leave it be because honestly, a lot of us posters here on Seddit have gone through or are going through oneitis. It can be the plague, oneitis. There are so ma…
/r/seduction11/12/13 06:29 AM
6

No would be perfectly fine too. :) Don't say that. It makes you seem like a pussy (no offense I'm trying to help you). Girls/Women like a guy that knows wtf he wants. It shows you're confident and that is attractive. Do not use emoticons or "lol" often as well. Be confident in the words you type and that they will understand the message you are trying to get across whether it be funny or sarcastic. I thought you asked her in person. Always ask her in person. It will increase your chances that mu…
/r/seduction11/12/13 06:07 AM
3

Is she a confident or shy person? If she's shy, she might have just said "yes" because she doesn't want to be mean. But if she's confident. She's probably into you. But honestly, even if she IS shy she's probably somewhat interested. The fact that she is going out with you for coffee alone says enough IMO. Just act yourself. Girls are human beings too. Don't worry about what to say, and don't worry about keeping a conversation flowing. Just talk about ANYTHING and be flirtatious. Also silences a…
/r/seduction11/12/13 04:23 AM
1

(who doesn’t know you from Adam) I believe I have seen that from another subreddit. You genius. I have read 1984 as well. It is a great book and I completely agree with you.
/r/seduction11/12/13 04:17 AM
3

Don't put her on a pedestal, because if she leaves you then you'll be crushed. If you are doing Pickup stick with it. Try and stay constantly approaching girls every week or so, it will get your mind off of her. If you guys aren't dating then you have no reason to not be approaching other girls. Personally, I think the less attention you give her the more she'll want you, and if you've had sex with her already then she'll probably be wanting you badly by the time you get back. Text her once a we…
/r/seduction10/12/13 09:53 PM
8

"How do I keep her around" is a bad mindset that you shouldn't have. Don't be needy.
/r/seduction10/12/13 01:15 PM
1

If you can do BJJ you can approach girls. I'm still a lowly whitebelt but I'm learning too. Believe it or not BJJ is a lot like pickup. At first, you're going to suck and get rejected a lot. When you first start BJJ you're going to get tapped a lot. Getting rejected is a hit on your ego as well as getting tapped in the beggining phases of both. It's normal, but you have to go through that phase to get better. Starting off BJJ and PU is hard, but once you get good it starts to get fun. When you s…
/r/seduction09/12/13 05:17 AM
1

Best advice I have seen in a while on here.
/r/seduction09/12/13 04:44 AM
2

Martial Arts, specifically mixed martial arts (MMA). Or try Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (BJJ is submission grappling and I love it). It gets you in shape, you learn how to fight and defend yourself, you become self aware, disciplined, and respectful with more confidence and less ego. MMA and BJJ is about more than just fighting, you'll know what I mean if you ever commit to it. People who do legit martial arts are very nice people, you would think the opposite because it's fighting but you'd be wrong. Y…
/r/seduction07/12/13 09:17 AM
1

You have to start somewhere don't you? I can tell you that the first number I got changed the way I perceived everything about pickup.
/r/seduction06/12/13 03:57 AM
1

Shoot a text, if she replies in a decent time, then call her.
/r/seduction06/12/13 03:47 AM
1

If a girl rejects you and doesn't text you back, why bother saying "I won't bother you anymore, I get the message"? To me that sounds like you have a giant ego. Who cares? Move on, not every girl will like you and you have to accept that.
/r/seduction06/12/13 03:40 AM
2

That has to be the worst excuse ever. "She's on her phone" So what? Who cares? Are you going to let your potential future wife/gf/lover walk away because she was on her phone? Stop making excuses for being scared. Don't even think about it and just go do it.
/r/seduction06/12/13 03:36 AM
1

Oh really? See, the local one in my town we can't do that. In a way it's good motivation to up your game as well with seeing and never touching.
/r/seduction05/12/13 04:01 AM
2

OP, I want you to read this very amazing article by Simple Pickup. It really changed my views on this topic. I'm an introvert myself, and I agree on everything they say. http://www.simplepickup.com/other/introverts-vs-extroverts-2
/r/seduction05/12/13 03:27 AM
1

Anywhere really, wherever you see them. If you are in College it should be easy to just stay at your campus and try there.
/r/seduction05/12/13 03:22 AM
2

Me when any girl looks at me: "OMG. She is so into me!"
/r/seduction05/12/13 03:16 AM
1

I would say just go to the club/bar and hit on girls. Why waste money on fake intimacy?
/r/seduction05/12/13 03:13 AM
-2

Don't act threatening. Especially if she's one of those cute foreign asians.
/r/seduction04/12/13 03:41 AM
1

Tips - build Sexual Tension, silences aren't horrible, get physical with her to help with sexual tension, kiss her and don't wait till the end of the night to do it.
/r/seduction03/12/13 04:59 AM
2

Say super confidently you're a bum whose career is living in his mom's basement. You won't be insecure about this subject because you know where you actually stand. When girls persist on questioning your actual career see how it goes. Some girls will be impressed by your confidence. Play around with it.
/r/seduction03/12/13 04:42 AM
2

What exactly are you trying to gain? A girlfriend? Vagina? Or what else? Personally, I think there are a lot of other tools you can use instead of 'vunerability' to get girls ultimately attracted to you. Vunerability is something you shouldn't be talking about with a girl when you've only met her recently or on a first date. I don't know the length of your relationship with this girl but it sounds like it may be short. This girl may barely know who you are and you want to talk to her about your …
/r/seduction03/12/13 02:50 AM
1

Sarcasm can be seen through your facial expressions. If you look and sound serious, then she'll think it. If you have a smirk or smile on your face, or extend the sound of a few words in a sentence while teasing a girl it helps her to figure out you're being sarcastic and lightly teasing her for fun.
/r/seduction03/12/13 02:40 AM
18

Make boring statements into exciting statements. Example: When a girl replies "Nothing much, you?", instead of replying "I'm eating dinner.", say something like "I'm eating the best fucking fried rice ever made" or some sort. It doesn't have to be specifically eating, but you get the idea. Example 2: "I will pick you up in my Lamborghini/Private-Jet/Ferrari", and then you show up in your 1995 Toyota Corolla. Example 3: Instead of you saying: "Hey, how are you?" shoot a funny text such as "I saw …
/r/seduction02/12/13 08:45 PM
3

What you should have said was: "That's innapropriate. You're digusting. What you did was sexual harrassment." And then get real physical with her and go for the makeout.
/r/seduction27/11/13 05:39 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter