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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | What should I wear to clubs?I sweat too much for that :( | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Some advice on cues?Sometimes I just feel awkward initiating contact like stroking but I guess that's just something I need to work on. Thanks for the tips! | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 05:12 PM |
| 1 | What should I wear to clubs?Hm. Short sleeves included? I'll experiment and see if I can rock it (I already lift) | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 05:05 PM |
| 1 | What should I wear to clubs?I may just take your advice on this tailoring. I have a nice body and would like ways to show it off, I'm assuming this may help a bit? | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 07:18 AM |
| 1 | What should I wear to clubs?Yes to this, been to MFA but I want specific examples of what people wear. I have been using this as a go to as well (button down, watch, jeans) | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 07:17 AM |
| 3 | What should I wear to clubs?Ah haha important clarification needed. I'm a guy. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice on being with more than one girl/choosing one [x-post from r/sex]"In the end we all have to do what is right for ourselves." Therein lies my problem. I was self-less for most of my life, but wasn't getting what I wanted/needed. I accidentally went too much the wrong way I think and now have been too selfish and am trying to find the balance between doing what I think is "right" by other people and doing what I want and need. I'll check that site out, thanks again. | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Need some advice on being with more than one girl/choosing one [x-post from r/sex]Thanks, I vascillate off and on with seddit so sometimes I forget some of the rules. Probably need to read up again. I'll post it there, thanks! | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Need some advice on being with more than one girl/choosing one [x-post from r/sex]Oh my god. Thank you for this super helpful post. Yeah, I don't see any feasible way to help Lauren accept Janet. I thought about trying to get them to talk but I'm not sure how that would go. Me and Lauren tried to not be involved anymore because we both said it was not healthy for her but we couldn't seem to stay away from each other. I'm not sure if I should just actually push her away or not; I know how she'll react and she will be lonely and will also be extremely upset. A lot of it is my f… | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Keep the state alive, midtown Houston [FR]awesome strategy! Thanks, that makes a lot of sense. | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Quick question about push/pullAh, good to know. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 20/11/12 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Quick question about push/pullThanks, good input! | /r/seduction | 20/11/12 08:48 AM |
| 2 | Quick question about push/pullWhoa. That's a sign. DGAF is my mantra. | /r/seduction | 20/11/12 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Keep the state alive, midtown Houston [FR]You don't have to say, but just out of curiosity what bar? I too visit midtown from time to time. Where would you say is best to game? I'm a college student so sometimes I feel a bit overwhelmed and underwhelming in bar/club scenes since I'm so used to the college campus party scene. | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Bad at telling if someone is flirting? Here's some help [open to comments, I'm not exactly super experienced]!Yeah I agree. I actually rewrote that sentence multiple times over and ended up with that as the best way to summarize it with the caveat "assuming the relationship is healthy and going well." There are many shitty relationships out there, but I think the ones that are good are really good. Plus, its less AFC and boosts your confidence which seem to be the main goals of a lot of people here. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Drinking - hurting my game. What should I do?So against what most would tell you, I advocate drinking - it's all about experimentation. Monitor relatively closely your food intake pre-drinking and your alcohol consumption. Caffeine helps combat the negative effects of alcohol while still giving you that "liquid courage" feel. For me, there's a zone right before black out (if I have caffeine) and also right before I begin to slur words (if I don't have caffeine) where I game the best. On the other hand, try going out one night and only have… | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 03:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] College partying; No sex but had a really fun nightSorry, I was hungover as fuck and have been lazy to fix it since then haha | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 03:26 PM |
| 1 | How do I keep her interest in college? [short FR]Saving this; I'm interested in the answer too | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice with sealing the deal...Good reply | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 04:10 AM |
| 1 | How do you get girls to notice you? Not necessarily in a good way, but just to look up and make eye contact in the first place.Thank you, very useful comment | /r/seduction | 26/08/12 10:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you get girls to notice you? Not necessarily in a good way, but just to look up and make eye contact in the first place.Problem solver. I like it, thanks for the tip | /r/seduction | 26/08/12 10:16 PM |
| 1 | How do you get girls to notice you? Not necessarily in a good way, but just to look up and make eye contact in the first place.Thanks, quite informative | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 11:15 PM |
| 1 | A question about facebook (not necessarily game) game. More specifically about initial intentions/attraction (and a question about an FR I had today in class).This is up there on the most useful replies I've seen. this needs to be sidebar material | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 06:54 PM |
| 1 | A question about facebook (not necessarily game) game. More specifically about initial intentions/attraction (and a question about an FR I had today in class).Yeah so I'm a university student without a car so I need to figure out something that will work for us both. Thoughts on planning what we do for the date together (as long as I have some ideas I bring to the table already)? | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Need a wingman?sorry, that link just takes me back to this thread :( | /r/seduction | 16/04/12 07:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR]...Kind of got gamed...lol yeah I always feel like I did so much better the next day. I'm getting better, still pretty AFC in my opinion though | /r/seduction | 16/04/12 07:09 PM |
| 1 | [FR]...Kind of got gamed...oooohhh I like that. So instead of saying "want to get our of here?" say "ready to fuck/get out of here?" (obviously not as brash lol) but that may help my game out a bit. thank you :) | /r/seduction | 16/04/12 07:08 PM |
| 2 | [FR]...Kind of got gamed...aw,stopit.jpg thanks man, i'm still a newbie though. Trust me, having it rewritten the next day is probably a lot cooler than the way it actually went hahaha | /r/seduction | 16/04/12 12:46 AM |
| 2 | [FR]...Kind of got gamed...fuck also, just realized I did the whole [FR] green text thing wrong lol facepalm | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 05:56 PM |
| 1 | How long do you game? (also, is there a name for people like this?)Yeah I just reread one of the guides on like opening and I'm realizing my problem isn't that I am boring, it's that I'm afraid of having a boring conversation but I need to drill it into my head that like normal/mundane conversations are easy and are ways to lead into more; despise not small beginnings. Thanks for all your help | /r/seduction | 03/04/12 11:26 PM |
| 1 | How long do you game? (also, is there a name for people like this?)Okay, very useful post. A few quick follow up things: 1.) Not sure what OP means (aside from original poster, couldn't find it in the glossary), so what do you mean by "break out your OP a little"? 2.) I may have been slightly mistaken on the definition of oneitis but I had the majority of the gist down. I probably don't have it for the girl in my spanish class at all, I think I may be over my oneitis finally (which was for my ex) and it's starting to feel good :) (minus the whole having to work… | /r/seduction | 03/04/12 10:55 PM |
| 1 | How long do you game? (also, is there a name for people like this?)Yeah I was starting to get confident in what I'm learning but now I'm like blatantly reminded of how much of a newb I am thanks to StPaddysThrowaway's question lol | /r/seduction | 03/04/12 10:17 PM |
| 1 | How long do you game? (also, is there a name for people like this?)19 years old, I've slept with 3, but like 6/7 if counting sexual stuff but not sex. | /r/seduction | 03/04/12 10:16 PM |
| 1 | How long do you game? (also, is there a name for people like this?)very useful thank you, I feel like I may try to rush too much sometimes and I'm afraid it will come off as needy but I will work more on (I'm hoping this is the correct point to take) "going with the flow" and if there's an opportunity take it; if not it will come (?). I suppose I'm a bit worried I may try too hard to force an opportunity and I can't see that going over well. | /r/seduction | 03/04/12 02:21 AM |
| 1 | How long do you game? (also, is there a name for people like this?)yeah this is definitely something I need some more help with, which I find ironic considering I'm usually really apathetic. I can't quite say I know how to just like have fun but when girls are thrown in the mix I'm not quite sure; I don't know if I just put too much value on sex or what. I'm not sure how to just change that in myself though. | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 11:49 PM |
| 1 | How long do you game? (also, is there a name for people like this?)Yeah, I might have to wait till I get a car to actually be able to like sober game girls. Sobreity requires going places, but getting drunk only requires having alcohol :P | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Picking up shy girlsYeah I think I'm guilty of being a try hard texter lol | /r/seduction | 22/03/12 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Picking up shy girlsOk great to know. And yeah this girl isn't interested, she hadn't replied like... ever so I'm just going to delete her number from my phone to keep myself from texting her again. thanks for the info :) | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Picking up shy girlsThank you, very helpful. Is this a general rule or are there kind of different circumstances? I recently had a text conversation with a girl (she initiated it but I had my hand in keeping it going). Long story short it was flirty and we both already know we want to f-close. We didn't make concrete plans (which may have been my downfall) but were both like oh hey we're both staying for midterm recess, we should hang out. | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Picking up shy girlsWhat is your opinion on text game with shy girls? Better or worse? I don't really see her except at parties, so I'm usually drunk (I think she is usually tipsy). She seems like she isn't interested, that or she thinks I'm just trying to get in her pants (which I sort of am) but I'm also interested in getting to know her so if getting to know her is what comes first I am happy with that outcome. But she hasn't replied to my texts about parties, and I won't get to talk to her for a while most like… | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 12:24 AM |
| 2 | A thanks to seddit and motivation for new members (like myself)yeah i am getting over oneitis too. shit sucks | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 05:29 PM |
| 1 | A thanks to seddit and motivation for new members (like myself)yeah AA is rough. I know that a lot of seddit will say to get your sober game down first so I won't advocate drinking too strongly but for a quiet person like me alcohol is awesome because A.) Everyone else is drunk B.) It helps me filter what I say less (which can be good or bad I guess and C.) Everyone is more sexual when drunk, or less inhibited rather. I would advocate not getting like too fucked up or black out, get to a good place and maintain it | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Dancefloor IOIs?ah, this sounds like an area I need to start paying attention to. Make out game. | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Dancefloor IOIs?Ah, also on a re-read I would note on the whole "I don't usually like being dance floor makeout guy. It's like a sexual release valve for her that I would rather open when we're in bed.", I don't have too much experience with this. Sounds like sound advice but probably don't make her think that you are rejecting her kiss advances, try to be cool and calm about it, not like jerking your head back or anything. Don't ruin your chances with her for the prospect of other girls. | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Dancefloor IOIs?and you win the most useful post about dancing your prize? an upvote! but in all seriousness holy shit thank you, this just helped me out a lot. I don't have too much of a problem starting dancing but during it I'm never fully sure how to escalate the energy so it stagnates at us grinding for a while. Now I know how to take it to another level, dancefloor beware | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Amazing opening tip I learned from an experienced PUA. If you tell a girl she's friendly, she will be.pimp priming? prime pimping? take your pick. but yes it is called priming | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Dancefloor IOIs?I suck at dancing but this fellow is right; don't hang with the mouth breathers, the middle of the dance floor is best. More dense areas are better because all you have to do is sort of walk/dance around and it's like easy kino initiation. Once you start kino, it gets kind of easy to escalate and it really does make HB's more receptive to you. Though, kind gentlecat, if you have any tips on how to dance they would be much appreciated. | /r/seduction | 19/03/12 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Advice for someone who can't keep/start a conversation?/thread both replies are the best that I have ever read (and I've been trying to find something on conversation for a while) | /r/seduction | 14/03/12 05:12 PM |
| 2 | College, partying, and alcoholuseful reply is useful. thats interesting that you feel that way, would you say you are generally an inhibited person when sober or no? For me its my inhibitions that get in the way while sober | /r/seduction | 12/03/12 01:40 AM |
| 2 | College, partying, and alcoholoh yeah I went through some of them | /r/seduction | 12/03/12 01:37 AM |
| 2 | College, partying, and alcoholsorry, maybe I'm just being stupid but I'm not sure what on the sidebar you're referring to | /r/seduction | 11/03/12 11:58 PM |
| 2 | College, partying, and alcoholOh one more thing, that last part can probably be summarized as : How does trying to PU someone affect possibility of later friendship/dating potential? Should you keep girls you want to f-close and girls you want to date/be friends with separate? | /r/seduction | 11/03/12 11:26 PM |
| 2 | College, partying, and alcoholAlso, I realize I should have posted this in UniSeddit first but I think it'll be useful in both places because a lot of the discussion will probably pertain to packed clubs and other situations like that. | /r/seduction | 11/03/12 10:58 PM |
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