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🤬🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:32 AM
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Oh my gosh! This makes me SO HAPPY! WAY TO GO!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 10:18 PM
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“I don’t like drama” - I can get pissed, punch holes into walls when I feel like it, or be all brooding and withdrawn and you better come running over to comfort me like my mommy did (or should have). But if you ever feel neglected or have ANY needs of ANY kind... nah, I don’t “do drama”, calm down, and stop acting so high maintenance, crazy, and emotional... it really puts guys off you know...Life’s too short to have to deal with your irrational emotions. Be cool and chill like me.... until I’m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 09:54 PM
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One of my first moments “waking up” to the truth was when I learned in a “Family Studies” course in college that until the 1970’s it WASNT ILLEGAL TO BEAT YOUR WIFE! Literally. Only when a law was finally passed in the 1970’s that finally stated that it was a crime to beat your wife. 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 02:40 AM
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What a fucking asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:43 AM
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SHIT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 01:18 AM
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😂👏 Oh my gosh, I have always kind of thought this too. No offense to dog lovers, but I prefer cats. What I’ve ALWAYS loved about them is that their love has to be truly EARNED. And so when they love you it’s that much more significant and special. ❤️ And I totally agree with this assessment of the parallel to how much work/effort a man or woman is willing to put into their relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:41 PM
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DAMN, YES, THIS. And this is where the marriage of mental health and healing from past traumas and FDS marry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:45 AM
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Oh crap. I’m sorry I didn’t realize that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 05:34 PM
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WHAT THE HELL!!!!???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:06 AM
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SHIT! I LOVE THIS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:02 AM
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Fucking PIGS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:53 AM
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But for three entire months?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:51 AM
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Damn it. Thank you for sharing this. This is SO TRUE and so damn important to understand!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:38 AM
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Have you reached out to see if any fellow FDS queens are in your city!? Maybe your best connection to true friends is on here!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:33 AM
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Yes SERIOUSLY. And that’s something I REALLY LOVE about FDS. Is the outcry FINALLY against porn. Porn is TOXIC, and ABUSIVE, and completely KILLS LOVE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:31 AM
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Eewww what a complete ASSHOLE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:44 AM
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This is AWESOME. And can I add, that I’ve been told by two different men that I was their “dream girl”, and this was on the first or second DATE! That immediately raised red flags for me. Because first of all, just like your analogy, their views of me at that time was as this two dimensional pretty, perfect object “dream girl”. Not what and who I ACTUALLY AM which is a human being with short comings, a temper, personality and underneath my clothes I’m not a perfect model either! I have stretch m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:55 AM
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Fuck, I need to join the army so that I can finally learn to be this badass...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:11 AM
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YEP! Basically!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:08 AM
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GOALS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 08:03 AM
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Damn, I get this... I haven’t experienced anything as extreme as her... but it came close. And I get it. 😞 Especially if you’re struggling with being a “pleaser” and a “pickme”... Men need to acknowledge that we might be “consenting” to something we may not actually WANT TO DO! I know this is where it’s important to become a bad ass woman who firmly expresses and holds her boundaries. However, if you’re not quite there yet and struggling (because of past abuses and wounds) a man shouldn’t even b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 03:56 AM
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YES!!! A HVM in the making. 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 03:32 AM
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HOLY SHIT! RIGHT!!!!!!???? Seriously I mean SERIOUSLY, ALL MEN do this! It’s only us poor women, who have been programmed to be “pleasing” and “compliant” and “nice”, we struggle with it SO MUCH. But BOTH of my ex’s wouldn’t do SHIT if they didn’t want to, it didn’t matter how rude it was, how hurtful it was, how unfeeling it was. If they didn’t want to do it, THEY FUCKING DIDNT DO IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:07 AM
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Damn it, this is SO TRUE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:29 AM
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RIGHT!? 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:29 AM
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Oh my gosh!!!! Congratulations!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:28 AM
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YES!!! I was crying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:27 AM
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And some therapists are just straight up assholes as people... like my ex for example! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:23 AM
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Well let’s just cut the crap, what they really, basically want to say is: “Let me fuck you as much as I want and then spit on you as I walk away.. And don’t be upset about it!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:21 AM
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THE HORROR!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:19 AM
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No, the women go out on missions too, and it’s all by personal choice. I know my own religion. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:11 AM
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OH MY GOSH THIS IS RIDICULOUS!!!! I will NEVER be cool with my guy having a fucking female BEST FRIEND! Seriously!? 😂😂 Um NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:12 PM
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YESSSSS 🤛🏻🤛🏻🤛🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 09:06 AM
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Good point. 😂🙌🏻 Probably true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 07:14 AM
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Well at least “Rev Rell” knows what the hell he’s talking about...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:35 AM
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YES! I love this!!! We need to start building each other up! And loving each other! 🙌🏻💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:52 AM
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Thank you so much ladies. 😭❤️ So many of you inspire me SO MUCH! I’m grateful to be a part of this group. I’m excited to level up! 💪🏻 This is where I honestly DONT understand why LVM and incels take offense at this site...(well ok I mean I can...but) because we aren’t on here just BASHING men!!!! We’re on here talking about being high value women OURSELVES and holding men to that SAME STANDARD! I’m able to admit when I need to level up my life. So seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 12:18 AM
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THIS IS HORRIFIC!!! And DISGUSTING!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 08:21 AM
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It’s painful for me to say, but reading this post makes me realize that perhaps I am and have been a low value woman. 😔😔 I’ve been in two ten year toxic marriages and am recently divorced. I suffer from depression and anxiety. I sleep in most days, accomplishing very little. In my marriages I did these things too. I’d stay up all night just on my phone, and sleep late into the day. I feel awful about myself and am ashamed and humiliated. I feel extremely LOW VALUE. I don’t have a degree or a job…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 08:06 AM
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Oh my GOSH EXACTLY. But you know, that’s the ENTIRE POINT of scrotes! Women are “LeSs ThAn MeN” and so the same rules don’t apply to us... 🙄🙄😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:54 AM
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Yes, me too. Unfortunately, I too found , and was married to two Low Value Men. I was a pickme, insecure, codependent, and a people pleaser. There are most definitely low value men in our church 😪. But I am grateful for the values it teaches men to have. It is unique. But yes, VET VET VET!!! And set your boundaries! 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:33 AM
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YES THIS!!!! See! This is the good that this forum is doing! I was like you, I was with two LVM, well the first was definitely a NVM! This was years before I discovered FDS. But it continues to give me strength, even as I date and helps me know what I deserve and what I don’t. ONLY LVM/NVM would be enraged by this forum! Hey! Low Value Men! Yeah YOU! If you want a High Value Woman, you have to be BETTER. If you find this forum offensive, it just means you’re a Low Value Man, so congratulations. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:28 AM
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Holy CRAP. AMEN!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:19 AM
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Thank you. ❤️ That’s ok, HVM come in all shapes and sizes. And I’m sure all backgrounds. But we all know at the end of the day, whether we end up with a HVM or not, that we’re HVW, and we love ourselves. 🤛🏻🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:15 AM
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Thank you so much for saying this. ❤️ I appreciate it so much. 😭❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:05 AM
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Thank you ❤️ It makes me so happy to find another strong FDS woman with my same beliefs! I’ve often actually been pretty impressed with how much the FDS guidelines line up with EXACTLY what we believe and how we live our lives as members of our faith. It’s nice to meet you! ❤️🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:59 AM
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Yes, it does the exact same for young women. My own 19 year old daughter is at school, not dating (by choice because she wants to focus on school), and earning her pre-med, she is working toward her medical degree to be a neurosurgeon. Women are taught to lead, be independent, that we are valuable, intelligent. and loved and that men should be grateful for what we bring into this world, our unique perspectives and gifts. 😄 I honestly feel like SO MANY of you ladies would LOVE to meet a man from …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:55 AM
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Just a side note. I’m a “Mormon” and no, those are polygamists who many call and refer to as “Mormon”, but actual “Mormons” or members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints do NOT do polygamy. It’s a very common and unfortunate misconception. I actually knew a husband and wife that I went to church with who both grew up in one of those polygamist cults and they were in love, but their families wouldn’t let them marry (probably because of something like what you said, marrying her of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 09:41 AM
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HELL YES!!!! Way to GO!!! I love how you just completely STRAIGHT FORWARD told him how it IS. 🙌🏻🤛🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:37 AM
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HOLY SHIT! That guy is INSANE! 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:48 AM
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ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!!!!!???? EWWW!!! He literally has a STACK OF GO BAGS for all of his one night stands!!!? First of all, ISNT SHE BOTHERED THAT HE HAS AN ENTIRE PILE OF GO BAGS FOR ALL OF HIS ONE NIGHT STANDS!? 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:25 AM
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This columnist is an asshole!!!! What a jerk. And of COURSE he’s a man. Biiiiiig surprise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:15 AM
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This is SO TRUE! 😭❤️👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:43 AM
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Yes 😭 The only males who have ever TRULY loved me are my two cats. They love me everyday and shower me with their affection and time. They’re always there for me when I need them, and they’re always so happy to see me. 😭❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:52 AM
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😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I’m starting to agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:50 AM
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You know the saddest part about all of this? The men seriously WONT CARE! And will it make them love their women more!? Nope! If anything, it could make them love them even LESS. Men are fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:54 PM
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HOLY SHIT! Yeah... that super sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:49 PM
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WOW that is so true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:41 PM
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Women who enjoy receiving stuff like that have allowed themselves to sink so incredibly low on the Pickme scale and bought so much in to the Patriarchy that they don’t even know that deep inside themselves they’re dying and feel worthless. 😞 I’m not at ALL saying that they ARE worthless, because they absolutely are NOT. But they feel this way, and they’ve convinced themselves that they “like it”, because then at least it gets them the a temporary fix of what DOES make them feel worthy: Male Atte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:33 PM
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I AGREE! It’s so upsetting that he’ll still allow himself to treat ANY woman like this!? As long as he didn’t care about her. Why are men such fucking assholes???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:06 PM
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Oh well of course, I mean right ladies, after all our SOLE PURPOSE from the day we’re born is to PLEASE MEN! 🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:51 AM
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FUCK YESSSSS!!!!! 👏👏👏🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:59 AM
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Oh HELL NO. NEVER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:35 AM
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IT IS MOST DEFINITELY INFIDELITY! It shouldn’t be accepted AT ALL. PERIOD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:33 AM
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Ok I am READING THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:31 AM
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So SO true, that is why I am finding you have to follow ALL of the female dating standards! All of my dates insisted on paying, but pretty much all of them were just also hoping for some easy sex (which they didn’t get) and therefore there was no second date. 🙄😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 02:37 AM
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Oh my GOSH!!!! What a JERK! It’s awful, but I’ve just gone thru my second divorce to a very similar man... and do you ever wish you could WARN every woman he tries to “go after”!? But it’s so sad, because it just wouldn’t work, we’d be labeled as the “crazy bitter ex”. I wanted SO BADLY to write a letter to the poor 19 year old girl that my first ex married straight out of her graduating from high school, just like he had done with me ten years previous. I wanted to WARN her that she was me ten …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 09:02 AM
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I am ashamed to admit, especially in front of all of you damn amazing women, that this is something I have struggled with my entire life. I don’t know what started it or quite how to stop it. 😭 Sometimes I feel broken, that I can be so insecure that I have that pickmee in me. That I have for so MANY years of my life based my sole value on HOW MUCH MEN VALUED OR DESIRED ME. It felt like my only responsibility or value in life, TO PLEASE MEN. Wether it is some random ass stranger at the damn gas s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 08:55 AM
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DAMN! Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:56 AM
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Which is what they were giving us up to that point themselves! So why not!? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:11 AM
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Oh my GOSH YES THIS! On some of the dating subreddits guys have talked about how cruel it is... but I’m like, “ok what else would you like me to do...? Try to tell you why I don’t want to talk to you anymore, so you can be even MORE of an annoying jerk to me?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:44 AM
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OHHHH MY FUCKING GOSH!!!!! I hope she throws HIM OUT! Arrogant ASSHOLE! This reminds me of my ex husband. 😡🤬🤬🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:34 AM
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This makes me PHYSICALLY SICK. And terrifies me for future generations 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:10 AM
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YES! Seriously! Spot on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:44 AM
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YES! This! In all my studying of narcissists, that is actually one of the common things they do! They like to convince you that YOU’RE the one who’s been abusing and hurting THEM. I struggled with these feelings for YEARS while I was with him, he fed off of it. Getting this sympathy from his parents and even MY parents because he had to have someone like me as a wife. It’s so hard to grasp onto what is REAL! This is where studying narcissism has helped me so much. Because then I can go down the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:43 AM
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Oh my gosh, I’ve had this happen to me with two different guys... I should have listened 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:41 AM
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Yes! THIS! Why the HELL do they all think we want to go round after round after round!? .... oh yeah.... PORN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 09:12 AM
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Holy crap that is spot on! That’s why it causes that discomfort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:35 AM
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I wish I had read this 11 years ago. 😞❤️ But at least I see it NOW!!! 😭❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:18 AM
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YES 🙌🏻 THIS 😭❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:12 AM
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Yes! He totally would!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:37 AM
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😂😂😂😂😂🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻❤️❤️❤️❤️ SERIOUSLY THIS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:36 AM
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🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 03:55 AM
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OH MY GOSH YES! 😂😂😂😂 I’ve often thought this, buddy... you’re not helping yourself out here... I just want your buddy’s number now... 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 03:54 AM
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THIS IS AWESOME 👏!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:15 PM
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Or just LVM or NVM, because they’ll still leave you even if you’re married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:09 PM
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WHAT THE HELL!!!!!!!!????? Holy shit! How can he be SERIOUS!? This is the most condescending shit I have EVER heard!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:06 PM
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Yes. Sooo true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:34 PM
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Thanks 😂🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 09:02 AM
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That’s where WE can do something about it. Us WOMEN. We create THOSE MEN!!! All of those disgusting men were brought into this world by a woman. They wouldn’t even BE here if it wasn’t for a woman. We need to raise our sons to value empathy and respect women. It’s a battle for future generations, but us women have all the power. 🤛🏻🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:54 AM
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No one respects someone who has no boundaries and is a doormat. You are so fucking right. There are NO rewards for these acts of service and love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:44 AM
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🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:42 AM
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Thank you SO MUCH for your answer and giving me that perspective. It seriously helps. And is disappointing and makes me pretty sad because none of the guys I dated, I can see now wanted anything more from me than sex. 🙄😪😠 And can I ask, what does “PIV” mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:40 AM
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Seriously WHY do the guys think it’s a great idea to show them partying with other women???? Do they honestly think some woman is going to be attracted to that? All that says to me is: womanizer, player, shallow, cheater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:34 AM
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Oh shit, I have a picture of me at the top of a mountain with my hands out and now I’m thinking I better go take it down! 😬😳😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:33 AM
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Hell yes this 👍🏼🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:30 AM
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Yes! I can’t STAND IT when he has several pictures of him surrounded by super sexy gorgeous women... I’m like...ok, good for you buddy... why aren’t you dating one of them then if you’re so popular? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:26 AM
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SERIOUSLY RIGHT!!!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:22 AM
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Another one for me is one or even more than one super aggressive pictures of him holding guns and semi automatic assault guns... I’m like, dude... you know you’re trying to sell to WOMEN here right? Not your “bros”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:21 AM
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I LOVE this. Thank you for sharing this! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:17 AM
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This couldn’t be MORE TRUE! Biggest regret of my entire life is the extremely NVM I married and had two daughters with. He has caused more trauma and pain in their lives that will affect them until the day they die. I will forever regret the man I chose to be the father of my children 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:14 AM
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😂😂😂😂 Well of COURSE they’d think this... I mean after all they’re SO MUCH BETTER than US! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:55 AM
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Can I ask an honest question. Part of my religious beliefs mean that normally I WON’T have sex with a man until we’re married. So that as a major boundary has helped me not give in when men have pressured me for sex. However when I have dated men outside of my religion, and on tv shows and pop culture it sounds like the “general standard” is that the third date is when the guy is expecting to have sex. I have been firm about this boundary, however, naturally, guys who don’t have my same religiou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:48 AM
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Oh oh ohhhhhhh my gosh. In some ways since my divorce I have been and still can be SO DAMN NAIVE and trusting! It actually SCARES me to realize the dangerous situations I’ve allowed myself to be in. Early on when I started dating again I readily agreed to go to their house after the restaurant to “meet their new puppy” etc.... I’m foolish and insanely DUMB. One man in particular was at least 3x my size, if he had chosen to overpower me, there would have been NOTHING I could have done. I am so lu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:38 AM
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You know, even to this day, I see things like this meme, it is very reassuring to me (that I’m not alone), and shocking to me that this has happened to so many women and is exactly what they do. Sometimes I still struggle to realize my own worth after what both men did to me. If I’m telling my story to someone and I say that when I first met them that I wasn’t that attracted to them and that everyone thought that I was way out of his league, I still have that little voice in my head whisper, “bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 03:21 AM
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That ring is BEAUTIFUL! Just like you! And your strength to rise up from hardship and pain! This is awesome! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:30 AM
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This is so inspiring and beautifully written! Thank you!!!! I love all of you beautiful ladies on here! 😭❤️ Let us SHINE!! 🙌🏻❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:08 AM
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How did you find a picture of me and my ex!? 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:04 AM
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Men, but probably especially white men, wouldn’t know oppression if it bit them in the ASS! 😂 That’s why they have to ask!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:29 AM
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What a fucking pig. Can I swear in here? I often find I need to use the “f” word. Hey buddy, what about all of the YEARS us women have lost WASTING them on assholes like YOU?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:50 AM
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I agree that basically in a sense, they can use the unknown (and not responding to you for HOURS or DAYS) or the known, that they’ve READ your message and aren’t responding to manipulate you. The fact is, EITHER way: if they’re taking FOREVER to respond to you and then don’t come back in their response, doing what all of us WOMEN would do - apologizing for not responding and explaining why, then he’s a manipulative jerk. And at the VERY least, definitely isn’t that into you, or care about you. B…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:41 AM
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Me too! Done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:32 AM
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Oh $&@;! I love you ladies!!! 😭❤️🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:48 AM
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I’ll chime in here with all the other ladies and say that you definitely could and SHOULD write a book on what you know! Not only are you a beautiful writer, but even the insights you were giving in the comments on financial spending and our relationships with money were eye opening for me. I realize that I have some significant work to do on myself is that area. On top of all the effed up crap I’ve had drilled into my head from the time I was a child of what it means to be a woman, what my purp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:39 AM
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Oh my gosh, yes, that whole insecure thing is a major theme from my first ex husband. Who get this, after 10 years of emotionally abusing me and gaslighting me, left me, citing that it was because I was the “vampire” who drained him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:27 AM
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I need to re-read this 3x a day... ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:50 AM
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