It’s a deep rooted mindset of mine to be honest. I see all those stories and videos of women getting cheated on in the most brutal way possible and It really makes me wonder if men are even capable of being empathic. I have a few guy friends who are nice to be around but I cannot phantom them ever being emphatic towards women who’d do everything for them. I feel like they only cry because they’ll have to live with the changes but don’t really care that their girlfriend or wife broke up with them in general. Just the fact that they’ll have to live alone and won’t have quick access to quick sex anymore, would be enough to make them cry. Of course, It’s seems really ridiculous of me for saying this but to be honest, none of the experiences I had, suggested that they did felt sadness over the fact that they lost a person instead of a girlfriend. It’s more of a “now I can’t have somebody to have sex with as easily” “who will cook for me now?” “I will never find someone who’ll perform my kink like she used to do” in my mind. But I do believe that there are HVM out there with yet some humane flaws like not being emphatic.