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I think it starts with credible journalism about the problem. But I am a journalist so I am biased. I am trying to find an angle to get it into mainstream conversation — by “it,” I mean the massive world of problems the porn industry has created. (Not solved) and who the victims are. It may take a while but I think that would help a lot; to tell those stories. Stories have so much power if done the right way. I think the more we can educate, the better. I’m probably naive, but that’s always wher…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:53 PM
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🙋🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:00 AM
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If Roe gets overturned, I’m quitting my very successful career in journalism and taking my talents to Planned Parenthood. ETA: big if. I’ve been anonymously funding PP and anti-choice measures and groups for years. I think women will revolt, the county over, if it happens. I hope SCOTUS isn’t that short-sighted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:58 PM
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🫖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:20 PM
44

Only way to win is to stop playing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:18 PM
4

Yes I have. One, when I was in great shape in college and hit just the right spot with this one guy (he didn’t do anything lol it was all me) while I was on top. Two. I hooked up with a very hot professional who only used his hands on me, and didn’t ask for anything in return. He made me twice. Won’t ever forget that. We’re still friends. He’s in another country and I am too; he’s got a gf, and we talk only at the conference we both usually go to, or a few times a year otherwise. Three. My ex ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:02 PM
4

🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:15 PM
5

Exactly. Saving face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:17 PM
2

This gave me goosebumps 10x over!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:20 PM
55

“I was just thinking about when I was going to ask you” sigh yes he did seem annoyed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:57 AM
87

And asking “is this a joke?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:55 AM
139

Legit. Ask me again why I don’t want to “have a family.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 04:10 AM
6

No, sorry if confusing. He was trying to make it difficult for her to live there, essentially. By changing the locks AND removing the heat dial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 04:01 AM
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Even when you mention it to other women, I’ve noticed, they sort of reel back with that, “whoa, you’re into THAT?” Mentality. I’m like yeah, I bet you have no idea what you’re talking about. How’s OLD treating ya?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:32 PM
14

Very much the same, and trying not to spend too much time with pickme friends. Taking their (unsolicited) advice or what they say with a big grain of salt. Not agreeing to do things I don’t want to do. Canceling plans for a “girl’s night” with a pickme friend who bailed on me for Galentine’s Day, after saying she had to work and work on school, only to spend the day with her fiancé. Fiancé also literally heard us talking about and making plans for Feb. 13. So when does he decide they’re going to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:30 PM
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This is it. Ladies, take it from me. I’m 7 years graduated from undergrad (in the states, born and raised, and still here) and have not been in a relationship since. My life has been. BEAUTIFUL. I have been able to experience so much more than I otherwise could have. I have also had lots of men try to get me off of my path. One of the two times I’ve ever met up with someone from OLD, I backgrounded him; TURNS OUT he changed the locks and removed the dial to adjust the heat/AC when his ex was liv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:20 PM
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Would also support her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:32 AM
37

Every single part of this was perfect. Give this man an Oscar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:26 AM
68

I love that fandom love is in here!! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:44 PM
16

Honestly me too and I’m traumatized myself, i swear. Just bc he is so disgusting. Poor Mia and her children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:51 PM
66

“We have rules on Reddit” hahahahahahahaha I had to stop there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:39 PM
6

Man can’t succeed with me if my 11-year-old cat doesn’t like him. And she’s only getting judgier as the years go on. 😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:01 AM
5

This. My last LVX expected me to suck his dick and fuck him while he watched movies. I wouldn’t. I can’t imagine involving porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:52 AM
6

If I had a daughter she would get a lot of stuffed cats 🐈 😹several real kitties too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:45 AM
5

CF, Catholic-raised here, too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:44 AM
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Whenever I talk about OLD with anyone, I say, do you enjoy playing in garbage? I don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:34 AM
47

Let’s go to a field I know, I’ll bring the molten lava cake from Chili’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:23 AM
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Agree that it’s this. I also agree with PinkBlair down below that it’s the dick. It’s also, yeah, missing having a big strong but somehow also cuddly tree trunk in my bed to hang on to. Fucker always hogged the bed though! They never come without a liability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:17 AM
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Your Randy Jackson quote 😂🙌 I am 30, unmarried, childless, and so happy. Not sure why all the lady colleagues of mine are so so so intent on chasing dick and locking it down. I am saving so much money and stress by just not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:14 AM
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Shameless is the definition of poverty porn. The way they made Fiona look like such a badass for keeping her family together was so fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:35 AM
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These ladies on tiktok are just slaying me and I want to have a brunch with all of them when this is over. (A girl can dream eh)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:29 AM
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I keep watching this bc I kind of can’t believe it. You can tell her bit is “hi, I’m here, I’m just pretty, that’s all I have to do lolz” and his is so obviously “uhhhh, hey, I wouldn’t be putting this all over the Internet unless she promised me a BJ, ya know. And it’s her choice! She wants to be here!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:35 PM
3

Lmao yeah. Gardening, cycling, teaching dance fitness, writing my book, my bullet journal, lighting candles, taking baths, reading. Playing with my cat. But no hobbies, no. I’m so boring!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:12 PM
1

Oh goodness she’s so pretty and is nailing it. Yaaaasss girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:10 PM
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Get a career so you can have your own money baby. It’s much better. I promise. And it feels better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:23 AM
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Lolololol, oh fuck 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:23 AM
21

“Send the lava cake to the Walgreens at this address. I’ll send my other Ryan to come get it and drop it off to me”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:21 AM
9

Love it when men are standing in an aisle, gazing at the products open-mouthed, and I know what I need. So I say, “excuse me, sir,” dart in front of him, grab what I need, and go to checkout. I always do my research before I go in (not at all indicating that you don’t, OP — the mansplainers will get us anywhere, anytime; no matter what) and it’s satisfying to breeze past them. ETA: I will say one buffer that may help with this is if you ask a hardware store employee about the products. A woman, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:47 PM
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🙌 one trait that is a non-negotiable for me, now, is a man who attempts to understand — at least gives a thought to — the lived experience of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:44 PM
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I don’t deal with it. ☺️ OLD is garbage. Do queens choose to interact with garbage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:26 PM
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🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:14 PM
5

“So the brown pillow works for that” Works for what, son. Works for WHAT. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:27 PM
4

You can’t eat pussy with that beard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:06 AM
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🫖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:05 AM
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It was my post (here, of the screenshot). Glad it spoke to you! Hit me in the feels, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 06:41 AM
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Damn. Clinical depression is a thing. I’ve never been in the severe throes of it but I’ve been depressed; like, didn’t give my place the good deep cleaning it needed for months, kind of depressed. I cannot imagine it going so far as you can’t even will yourself to get up to use the restroom. I have sympathy, and am glad there was an intervention; at a certain point, we have to realize people just literally cannot help themselves. (But I mean medical-grade intervention. Not pickme-style intervent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:04 PM
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This makes me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:23 PM
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Men do literally jerk off in front of each other too. So weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:21 PM
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Her hands just say “I’m not doing any more of the bullshit. Okay?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:21 PM
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bowing down to the queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:16 PM
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I still can’t believe the pee jars are a thing. I’ve never met a man who does this. Regale me with your horror stories, please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:12 PM
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Hey. She used the correct further/farther, which is impressive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:10 PM
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Fuck American idol. She’s right here! Would def wanna hear all her songs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:59 AM
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There is something really soothing about, when I am in a moment of panic, knowing that I cannot call anyone who can make me feel better than I can. There is something really soothing about being able to self-soothe. I don’t understand, and I’ve never understood, why it’s looked down upon to stay alone. If you can support yourself entirely, with friends, pets, hobbies and career to keep you happy (just to name a few) what are you doing wrong? I’m nearly to the point where I want to be (have a lit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:51 AM
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Wish I had an award
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:40 PM
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God this is weird and terrible. Sorry you had to deal with such an awkward situation sis. Why are men???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:39 PM
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Strength training, working on personal projects, cooking myself a really nice meal. Not even necessarily fancy ingredients; just quality ingredients and time invested into preparation Desserts, too! 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 05:35 AM
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Excellent point. Somehow never thought of it this way; they say we ask for too much, when it is simply the bare minimum! Lordt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 05:30 AM
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Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:06 AM
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I did not say it was not fair! Just simply that I’m not a fan of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:44 PM
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Great response. Borrowing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:58 PM
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I am sure this is an unpopular opinion but I do not like meme free Mondays 😬 we get on a lot of heavy topics in here; the memes help balance it out. Just my 2c and I am not arguing against MFM at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:31 PM
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No where is “COVID safe” yet, no matter what; just so we are all clear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:57 PM
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Too bad cause I use LaRoche, boy, I’ll take it if you’re not going to use it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:51 PM
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The ETA shows the entitlement. “I know now I am indeed the asshole for even asking the particular question I asked, but can you just answer that question, already?!!” Bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:58 AM
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Yeah that’s not convincing him to get a skincare routine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:44 AM
4

I wish I would have dumped my ex the time I asked him to SAY MY NAME during sex and he could not. He would say “miss (last name)” but never my first, which is what I want to hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:25 PM
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Most of us have had plenty of sex and have reached the “no thank you” point, now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:17 PM
5

I understand what love languages are, sis, thank you. I still think everyone should speak all of them fluently and using one particular “language” is typically a red flag for abuse. Just my experience and 2c!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:13 PM
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Great post, especially the last graf. I have a couple of friends who just got engaged (I only know him bc of her and I’m super sus of him, still) and they met on bumble. Their faces were PRICELESS when I said “I think there are going to be so many more and better opportunities to meet people, when all this is over” yep ya should have been patient but you just had to get that ring on your finger and settle. ETA: some people who meet on dating apps have long, great relationships. That’s great. I j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:05 PM
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Love languages are bullshit IMO. Everyone in a relationship should speak all of them. Fluently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:59 PM
12

Those things are NOT the same, pal. But sure. You do you. Edit: or, I guess you do your...your doll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:57 PM
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Had two guys try the random-af texts, and literally just after Valentine’s Day. Felt so good to not respond, block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:54 PM
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Ahhhhhhh I loved it, almost got burnt just watching it! Would love to be best friends with this guy, I have a feeling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:43 PM
6

My thoughts exactly, on both counts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 08:43 PM
7

Forever fiancé situation. Since she proposed, he knows she’s all in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 08:43 PM
6

I just can’t stop thinking about this for whatever reason. He literally rolls his eyes — a sign of contempt — at the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:44 PM
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I googled hentai last night and just laughed. These “men” are literal jokes to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:34 PM
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I am not suggesting this is true for you, but I had the same things happen when I was depressed. I’m on medication and have been for almost a year, now. I was opposed to it for so long, but finally realized true chemical imbalances, that are not my fault, exist. I also quit my hormonal birth control bc I was able to, during lockdown, and I’m crying a lot less, now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:31 PM
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Been here, sketched out, so many times it is insane. Sometimes you can basically see what they’re thinking. It’s awful. Borderline feels like assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:50 AM
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WANT that coat/jacket
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:42 AM
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Nurse practitioners are the shit. They’ve always been the most helpful and knowledgeable and caring people I’ve come across in medicine. Huh, funny how they’re all women, isn’t it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:36 AM
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I had a gay guy friend say “we’re eating ass now, grandpa” in reference to something else, and it made me stop the conversation immediately. Like. It made me feel mildly ill. That is so unhygienic, no matter how much the person cleans. There’s so much bacteria 🤢 ETA: am I the only one who thinks people get off on this bc of how degrading it is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:20 AM
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I love this!!! Made me big BIG grin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:38 AM
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I feel like she did it more so she could make the tiktok with this remix 😂 girl NO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:36 AM
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Reading these comments, and seeing the awards, is giving me goosebumps all over. Made my night. It spoke to me so much, too, and will help me re-frame anger, when it comes. Thank you for being here, ladies. 💯💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:29 AM
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🫖 🫖 🫖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:24 AM
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If a man says “good vibes only” I throw him all the way out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:24 AM
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That does not apply here. Abusive anger is not valuable or more importantly valid anger that anyone should listen to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:13 AM
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Also, and this is also extremely last resort: hitting or smashing or even biting or pinching the actual dick itself won’t disable a rapist — you gotta hit a guy in the actual balls, that’s where the sensitivity is. That’s what makes them always collapse into a useless heap for a few minutes. ETA: once they’re down, you can throat punch or find another way to disable him/protect yourself (frying pan, lamp, etc) while you move to safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:56 PM
5

Ok — that’s entirely fair. Porn is def where the issue is coming from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:55 PM
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I really, really, really love this post. Thank you for sharing it. It struck a chord with me because I’ve been feeling much the same way; it all seems like a game, no matter how much value a person brings to your life. They always want something from you, and men, deep in their little pea brains, think they deserve more from women than we deserve to get from anyone. And even in a relationship with an HVM there’s still that obligation of being in a relationship right? Having to tell someone where…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:08 PM
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That sounds like a message from a man. Not saying it definitely is, but if it is a woman...wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:57 PM
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Also always carry pepper spray or a small knife or a gun, if you carry and can safely operate and store it. Absolute last resort. But you don’t want to be defenseless — ever. ETA: test your spray (on a non-windy day, pointed away from you! 😂) and replace every 2 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:55 PM
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In so many of the songs on my “power” playlist, there are lines about “you are all talk” — TLC’s No Scrubs is the best example. “Always talkin bout what he wants and just sits on his broke ass, so, no, I don’t want your number...”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:43 PM
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Oh. Marriage is a scam for American women, for all women; alright, but not for these reasons, IMHO. It’s the lifetime of servitude and maid-work you’re signing up for that does it for me. Can I find a husband who is ok with me yelling at my boss (yes, yelling at my boss; it’s rare, but arguments get heated in my field) and then hanging up the phone, sitting my ass on the couch to watch the game, and hey babe while you’re cooking dinner bc I’m so tired from my LONG DAY AT WORK can you also bring …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:10 PM
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Agree 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:05 PM
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Not sure why the blanket blame on millennials, as if this depravity has something to do with when we were born? It’s the Internet, ma’am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:55 PM
15

🫖 nailed it sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:53 PM
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Yep. And the Internet/porn has legitimized these desires. So they are freer to go out and pursue women in public who are way way way too young for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:52 PM
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I hate “Bad Guy” for these reasons. LOVE “Burn” and “Lovely” though. When we are focusing on her vocals and talent is when I love her most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:50 PM
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This is a great analogy. I did not know this tale. Thank you sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:48 PM
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I disagree, simply because people who go to college and get a degree over a lifetime will earn more. No matter what. Even welding jobs will be impressed you have any kind of degree, and may pay you higher just bc of that. A degree shows perseverance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:44 PM
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I think you’re def right about Bumble. Lady friends I know who ended up in relationships from Bumble do allllll the work in the ship. Otherwise, honestly, I just feel like OLD is a waste. There’s no place for “good” conversation there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:40 PM
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Making the first move (online) is exhausting. Mmmkay. I see where this is headed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:41 AM
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Lmaooo way to out yourself, bud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:16 AM
7

“okbye” I love her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 05:58 AM
2

This, sister. “I’m sure you’ll find someone out there eventually” and “aww bb it’s hard out there right now. I had a ton of shitty dates before I found mine!” And “mine” is an LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:00 PM
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100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:59 PM
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Ditto to this. Zero love life right now. Fine with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:52 PM
4

Handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:54 PM
4

Same, almost spit out my sandwich
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:51 PM
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Yes, but what’s your point, here? They’re using the statistics to make an important point and bring up an important issue. Also; this is the data that the reporters have. They may not have the stat you cited. Good book recommendation, for sure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:48 PM
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🫖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:33 AM
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Got a random Facebook message this morning from a random guy I talked to while I was at junior college for two years before I finished my degree at a university. He had no license bc of a DUI back then and the DUI was like 8 years gone, ha. His message today said sth about how he used to be so good at communicating, but wait no he wasn’t, bc he spoke negatively to me and said harsh words. I did not deserve that as his editor and friend. Hope life is going well take care, -name- That’s the closes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:21 AM
13

Thank you! This is what I want. PHat sure yeah Being a bitch is my kink...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:26 PM
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Again. Watched the Shanann Watts doc last night. Dude turned on her after they were together for years and had multiple children. I don’t know if I can ever trust enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:24 PM
11

I feared there was a Chris fan club and god damnit, of course there is. This story makes me so sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:10 PM
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Been following FDS for about a year now (made this throwRA recently foe safety reasons) and have never felt so good in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:47 PM
58

I basically lost a friend (or potential friend) who said word for word she wanted us to be OLD misery buddies. Said we could go to lunch every week and talk about all the bad dates we had been on! I tried it for a few weeks but because OLD is OLD I had to stop. So low-quality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:46 PM
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Hope your new guy continues to be great. Continue vetting! How much time, if I may ask just out of curiosity, did you spend alone between relationships?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:44 PM
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I just watched the Netflix doc about Shanann Watts last night and that was the scariest shit of my life. That doc alone has scared me off of men for a good 5 years at least. My lesson from it is just fucking leave when things start to go south. Don’t even try. Just go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:36 PM
6

I want a print!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:30 AM
14

Is that Marilyn Manson, it has to be. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:28 AM
9

You worded it all perfectly. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:12 AM
25

I do feel this way. Setting boundaries is hard but it’s the only way. And even still, they try!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:56 AM
137

Hope you’re on the way out the door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:03 AM
37

Amen sis, me, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:02 AM
13

Saw these the other day, and audibly guffawed in the store. I wanted someone to hear me and ask, “what?” so I could roast them out loud. (No one was around, sadly.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:18 AM
115

She joined it just for the memes. Look at the CONTENT of the memes. Why are they so dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:16 AM
45

My high school friends all turned out to be Dick bags (it’s a very long story and if I post it here, it could identify me) and more than 10 years later, they’re all still blocked. And I’ll never change my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:14 PM
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Thank you ma’am, my thoughts exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:26 PM
27

Right?? Like bro we all know you have Ks on Ks sitting in the bank. Do something for your woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:19 PM
85

Literally Jack’s mother (Jack, the man who invented Twitter) is on Twitter bragging about how her husband made her breakfast. It’s some greasy ass, nasty looking omelette on a styrofoam plate with a couple biscuits out of the can. Your son created Twitter, man. You can order her in a fancy breakfast. ETA: ordering a fancy breakfast is just one thing he should be doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:13 PM
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That I do not owe anyone — man or woman — anything, inherently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:28 PM
99

Lmaoooo all over Instagram this morning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:27 PM
6

Picking up candles I got filled yesterday, enjoying my apartment that I cleaned yesterday, working on my book, prepping for big interviews I have tomorrow (am a journalist) and practicing new choreography for the dance fitness class I teach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:05 PM
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Argh this is so fucked up! I’m sorry you had to deal with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:15 PM
12

Lmfao I love this account so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:47 AM
6

Thank you ma’am
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:25 AM
6

I’ve never wondered about that, Denzel. Why are you wondering about that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:40 PM
10

I hate everything about this. It’s Andy from the office but only the bad things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:36 PM
20

This is the tea, sis, and I’m chugging it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:34 PM
22

I am a cat lady currently; just one, but I love her to the end of the globe and she’s my soulmate. I live alone and pay all my bills. I have a tight group of friends and people I trust. I don’t go out a ton, or didn’t pre pandemic. I have never been happier, investing my time in myself and my space. I am big into gardening and can’t wait until it warms up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:12 PM
11

🙌🙌👏👏 louder sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:10 PM
6

It’s strange to me that this is her take (except not really; she doesn’t seem to have any kind of sexual health or psychology or sociology background — and her editors above her likely pushed this garbage cannibalism piece) and in another thread she’s criticizing Timberlake up and down for his misogyny and saying he would not have a career without it — which I don’t necessarily disagree with entirely. I think he would have a career but certainly not as big of one. TLDR she’s a confused libfem, I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:15 PM
6

Oh my fucking god, bless Wendy’s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:12 PM
12

I mean it’s not any better or any worse. I’m new to it though, lol, just turned 30 recently
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:11 AM
45

These companies are run by m e n
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:08 AM
37

I had a guy tell me I didn’t need to worry about him anymore, after I broke up with him. He had a past suicide attempt where he had been hospitalized that I knew about. He blocked me after dropping his extremely thinly veiled hint. So I sent paramedics to his front door. I was in Illinois, he was in New York City. Then, after I knew he was in their hands and ok (he told the doctor to call me) I blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:06 AM
35

A good option for these men, I might add, is always to just shut the fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:19 PM
9

You can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:18 PM
1

Baby girl needs to leave. One of my first high school boyfriends (turned out to be gay; then killed himself, Jesus — what a plethora of issues, there) slapped me one day, and I walked out, never looked back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 04:04 PM
3

This. Is it so much to ask for a man with a fulfilling job, hobbies he is passionate about that are not detrimental in any way, friends of his own who are also quality individuals, who takes care of himself and is also always trying to level up? They want all that from us plus more. Notice how good dick and orgasms aren’t in my list. That’s just a major bonus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:57 PM
2

🥺 men who use this emoji get an automatic nope. Because it’s almost always used in this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:53 PM
4

I’m excited for V-Day. I’m going to finish cleaning my place, light some candles (I’m going to a really neat event this weekend where I can get candles filled in vessels I thrift!), work on my book, learn some new routines for the workout class I teach and just enjoy time to myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:49 PM
8

What she said at the end hit me like a ton of bricks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:47 PM
9

Literally used the second tip to carry me through my job interview — for my dream job. Got it, still have it. Working on my 4th year with the company.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:52 AM
2

This has been posted here before and I hate it even more now. Though I’m convinced it was staged, I feel bad for her. Wish she would have thrown their “plates” on his white comforter. Also, sorry if this is tactless, but that man sounds like a gay man. Right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:36 AM
6

Then, if you saw him and flipped him off, YOU would be considered rude. How dare you be disturbed by someone getting in your space!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:48 PM
12

9 pounds. I was 9 pounds 🤣 my mother is a saint (also had c-sections with me and my bro, who was 8 pounds, so doubly the saint)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:44 PM
3

It really bothers me when people say “well you’ve never been married” or “you don’t know what it’s like as a wife” as a way to throw any logical concern under the rug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 06:02 AM
10

She essentially does do that; this time she specified that we do a “girl’s night” 🙄 the first few times we hung out it was just the two of us. Then he moved to town, we hung out one more time just us, and he’s tagged along ever since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:21 PM
27

This is becoming a friend of mine who got engaged. She can’t decide to have a drink with me without checking to make sure her fiancé didn’t decide THEY are doing a dry February. (Drinks at my house for Galentine’s Day WAS our plan — COVID still outta pocket where I am)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 03:50 PM
4

Lol I love the last woman’s comment, and how she ended it. I love all these ladies actually!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 03:48 PM
90

“Do not be bothered” by any man... “Disregard” any man... “Discard any man...” Not sure why I have the ... because these are complete sentences. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 05:50 AM
122

Therapy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:06 AM
21

LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:04 AM
18

I will never ignore Her (my intuition) again!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:07 PM
17

“Ok. I’ll file you into the ‘when I’m desperate for dick’ category, then. Thanks for letting me know!” But of course you’re not serious. You’d never be that desperate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:06 PM
19

You’re spot on. Just bc the victims don’t believe it is abuse does not mean it is not abuse. In fact, that’s incredibly common for abuse victims!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:02 PM
20

Even worse is when other women internalize the misogyny themselves, and end up asking other women the same stupid questions a man would: “why didn’t you report it when it was happening?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:21 PM
10

Girl no. We aren’t judging people based on what kind of cars or how old their cars are, here. I drive a 2005 Honda Civic. It’s not pretty, but it still runs well, has few miles for its age and its paid for. I will drive it until I can’t. You’ll still find people who judge others based on the car they drive but god I hope we are moving away from that. We need to focus on getting the maximum use out of our cars, not the maximum ego boost — for the sake of the environment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:15 PM
6

😟 I am sorry you have to deal with this. What a burden. Stay safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:35 AM
18

🔥 🔥 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:29 AM
21

Mine too, she was so accurate it was scary!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:23 AM
35

Lil penis syndrome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 05:21 AM
10

His music is fucking awful There I said it (Sorry if any queens enjoy(ed) it)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 05:19 AM
14

This is a great post and perfectly describes how I feel about “sex positive” folks and how FDS is cast as sex-negative. The post also introduced me to the term “toxic positivity” which also perfectly describes why the people with “good vibes only” in their bios just piss me off. Thank you for writing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 03:08 AM
51

Yes, I said the same thing to my ex. He blocked me right after. 🤡 (that’s past-me, for shacking up with that idiot)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 03:06 AM
2

Damn, this is the perfect answer, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 02:17 AM
13

Shocking, said no one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 10:19 PM
29

And people wonder why I am so vocal about my desire to be child- and partner-free — on social media, in the workplace, in my personal life. I make it known I am a career woman. This is the world we live in — sucks, but true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 09:52 PM
43

And you’re young enough to get a great life started of your own, at 24 — man-free. Hope she gets it and then goes out and GETS HER LIFE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 09:48 PM
46

I always fuckin hated this game some of them played; trap me into complimenting you and almost begging me to stay with you. It always felt wrong. In the back of my mind I would quite seriously think to myself “well maybe you are not good enough! Bye then!” But I never said it. Feels good now to be awake. Feels good now to say it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 07:22 PM
15

Joking, but hilarious answer would be: “omg you like to go with the flow?!!!! Boy I’m so glad to finally hear that cause I LOVE FUCKIN IT UP WHEN I’M ON MY PERIOD!!!!!” 🥰🥰🥰 — just cause most guys are soooo disgusted by our bodies doing their natural body things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 07:19 PM
4

Yeah I’ve never even been close to getting on twitch but seems like a bad platform
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 06:06 PM
20

What is that image tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 07:10 AM
33

I did a legit little evil cackle when I saw this, and said, “yesss” ahh this sub gives me life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 01:46 AM
15

Ugh good try, I didn’t even think of that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:59 PM
55

Turn this man into the police. RIGHT TO JAIL (like in that Parks and Rec scene with the Venezuelan leader) In all seriousness though I wish we could have a watch list for potentially violent and predatory men. Except oh wait it would basically be all men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:33 PM
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Seriously tho. Reminds me of dude who got caught screaming at his kid on twitch. I posted in a diff thread here about how a YouTube vlogger was doing a video about the guy. He kept saying “moment of rage” — stop acting like this is just once in a while, out of the ordinary, for these men. It’s simmering right beneath the surface, constantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:26 PM
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Love this post! A friend of mine recently got engaged. She took her boyfriend out to the jewelry shop the day before he proposed; and told him everything she wanted. He had already bought her a ring and it wasn’t what she wanted (she says every time “it’s not what I would have picked out for myself but I tell everyone that makes me love it more!”) but he just went with it anyway, I guess. Not even sure why he took her to look at rings. In their engagement selfies he looks super smug and it makes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:23 PM
59

This is really well-written and highlights lots of important points. Potential handbook material flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:18 PM
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🤣🤣 this is one of those genius things another goddess says, and I think, “that is so damn obvious and thank goodness for these ladies” lmao, this is SUCH a good point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 07:57 AM
24

This is the message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 09:23 PM
13

Amen sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 09:22 PM
1

But do revolve it around one or many goals ☝️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:03 PM
1

I don’t even totally understand what this man is trying to say in most of this?? And *behooves — just for one example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:02 PM
13

Had a lot of this happen with my shitty ex, too. Glad we are out now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:17 AM
28

My ex was needy and hated when I spent time with or even spoke to others. Huge 🚩 I will not ignore again, that’s for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:14 AM
11

Inability to make plans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:05 AM
11

What is this from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:43 AM
6

Amen sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 09:14 PM
5

BLERTY SEAMLESS this sub just absolutely puts me in stitches
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:00 AM
26

I love those scenes of hers, and that movie, so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:45 AM
2

Thank you. I started bullet journaling about a week ago and I’m like lol a man would never ever do this. ETA: I’m single and childless. So to the moms out there, holy shit. Y’all the real MVPs. I can barely keep my life together!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:39 AM
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Been thinking about this all day. Thank you for the update. I hope it’s true, too. How did I know she was at work. How did I know? Ladies?? How did I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:24 AM
6

Hallelujah thank you queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:19 AM
7

Side note: “seashellronan” had me laughing WAY too hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:16 AM
36

I guess. It just amazes me you can make money making videos about a video someone else made of themselves playing a game. The gamer culture is so fucking wasteful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:23 PM
21

Stopped over at a friend’s house to drop off some radishes from my CSA share. I don’t care much for them. Stepped into her apartment and she was cooking dinner. I asked what they were having, and she told me cauliflower rice risotto. She said “he’s not thrilled about it, but he’s hungry!” And laughed. As she cooked, I could see him craning his neck at her as she poured milk into the pan, very much in a “what the fuck are you doing??” manner. This man plans to be a doctor and take over his daddy’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:12 PM
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Un fucking believable. ETA: some dumb twitch YouTuber (god, how does that exist??) said the guy “supposedly” had his child in his lap. It’s in the fucking video my man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:57 PM
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One time got hit on while I was walking to work downtown in my, what I call, sleeping bag coat. It’s for those blustery cold days where you want a shield of armor against the cold. It was such a great purchase. My hair looked incredible the day I got hollered at, so I’m like fuck. I cannot enjoy anything without it getting disrupted, can I? Thought for sure I would be safe in that coat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:53 PM
4

Giiiiiiirl we don’t know. Let us know if you figure it out! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:51 PM
1

I always liked Craig Ferguson’s show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:21 AM
9

All of this. YES. If you bring up any of this around any of your married friends, too, they’ll be like “well, my husband isn’t perfect, but...” and list bare minimum things he does. Or that he makes all the money or works so that she can “have this life.” They have been brainwashed into it, too. That’s what happens to me, anyway. Married women or paired women always ask me why I’m single or why I don’t date. I give my reasons, and then am met with the denials above, or “they’re not all like that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 04:13 PM
8

Just read up on all of it, and wow. Jamie is King Scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 03:26 PM
10

Why it’s bad to date right now, just don’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:44 PM
10

Etsy has some good stuff under “empowering charm bracelet” or “feminist charm bracelet” https://www.etsy.com/listing/738053802/goddess-charm-bracelet-divine-feminine?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=feminist+charm+bracelet&ref=sr_gallery-1-1&organic_search_click=1&cns=1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:38 PM
2

Ahhhh I got you. It could be a comic, I suppose. Horrible theme for a comic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:49 PM
1

“Reputable papers” don’t publish memes at all. I’m talking about the Washington Post, the NYT, the WSJ, USAT. Just so we are all clear on what a reputable paper is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:32 PM
4

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:29 PM
11

It is. Like, ok, glad you did the work for me. BYE NOW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:13 PM
3

The last sentence. See? You already got it. Keep going, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 07:35 AM
41

Dating is terrible. Don’t go on sites “just to see.” I used to do it too and it had the same effect it had on you: it made me want my shitty ex. Work on yourself instead. By doing that, you will not take the risk of the “this guy sucks, everyone sucks, and it makes me miss my ex even more” thoughts at all. You will spend your time and energy making your life better and THAT is worth your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:29 PM
20

Love the last line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 10:30 PM
36

You will learn to cast this guilt away, especially now that you are aware of it. Or I hope so; it’s what happened to me. It wasn’t a change overnight but once I realized it, it was a pretty quick change: I don’t owe anything to anyone on this earth just because I was born on it. Not my time. Not my energy. Not my body. Not my money. That is all. for. ME. Keep leveling sis, and one day, the guilt will be gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:48 PM
10

Thank you MA’AM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:44 PM
16

I also did EMDR after a car accident and without it, I probably would still be so angry and sad that I could not function normally. I couldn’t before EMDR.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 06:49 AM
8

Right. This. I don’t even go to those subs. It depresses and bums me out. I come here before I go to bed to browse Queen shit and then I go to bed lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 06:11 AM
4

Wish I had an award.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 06:00 AM
11

Oh, I'm sorry. You must have misunderstood. I meant "ok" like "okaaaaaay?! that's what I'm saying!" lol. Meaning, I agree with you! Thank you for saying it's a threat to public health* and safety, that was my first thought. And I guess yeah Reddit doesn't gaf about that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:56 AM
6

Y’all I would post the link to the sub here but don’t want to break any rules. I found a post that is absolutely sickening, about strangers having sex in a local porn video store/theater. I know what to do now, though; this is bigger than Reddit (local authorities)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:39 AM
4

Ok? Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:31 AM
16

Lmaoooo damn I never noticed this but laughing bc you are so right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:24 AM
4

Same on straightening head hair. Love my curls/wavy texture now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:24 AM
9

This sounds so lovely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:21 AM
19

There’s a Reddit thread dedicated to organizing group sex in my community, and they’re doing it right now in covid. Group sex is someone’s preference, I suppose — not for me — but I think organizing that right now with COVID is just so bad bad. Reported it. Nothing was done. ETA: the woman spearheading it is young and vulnerable and using drugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:13 AM
10

People don’t like it, but those people can step off, anyway. Go, Queen. Take what is yours!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:10 AM
8

I just keep watching this, queens. I want them to make a tv show or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:08 AM
4

Never heard it explained this way. Makes total sense. TIL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:21 PM
83

Argggh 20,000 more of these! These ladies are IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:17 PM
10

A guy found it funny once that I made sure to shout “NOT ON MY SHIRT, NOT ON MY SHIRT” as he was getting ready to. Ha ha, funny! My disgustingness could destroy the $60 you spent on that top. Tell me again why I like dick. It’s becoming more and more difficult to stick with it each day. “It” being my own sexuality that I cannot change. Sigh. Can’t I just get rid of it? Like...slough it off. Use a “sexuality exfoliator” or something??? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:51 PM
30

I love her! That guy has never had a woman look at him, not even once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:27 PM
6

Incredible work. I never see any gross posts either. They’re good at what they do! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:34 AM
25

This is what it is for me, the “video game” adrenaline rush. Not for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:29 AM
47

Why we always gotta drive ourselves from now on. And back in the day day, men were expected to drive. Pick you up in their nice car that they vacuumed, washed and waxed for you. Drive safely and slowly. If you’re minors, have her home by her curfew — no, before. If an adult, you’re done with the date when you want to be. Suddenly now it’s “nah let’s go back to my place so I can assault you” — what the fuck happened?? And the stupid LVMs reading this that say: “FEMINISM HAPPENED” No. Just because…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:27 AM
2

Be like Dorothy, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:17 AM
83

This. We look good as a result of caring for ourselves not for any other reason. Was literally walking into a massage when I left this message!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:57 PM
27

Right. I’m having a quarter-life crisis here, and it’s that all of you men are shite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 07:19 AM
19

She’s damaged, too. That guy undoubtedly did a number on her. Also the sexual innuendo here is massive yikes — GET THEE TO A THERAPY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:58 AM
12

Yeah this is so sad and pathetic. But you know what, we can blame men, again. They created society, porn, the gendered roles that led us here...incels are incels bc men are failing to keep pace and level up with women. Men are just stagnating and yet they’re like wHy iS nO wOmAn InTeReStED???? What happened though, ladies? Why did this happen? Why are men just so low-value most times, but most women you come across have got it together? I’m answering it already, myself. Bc men were trained to si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:18 PM
5

There are a lot of holes in that story and in this theory. I’m not coming at you, but don’t be fooled. You have no idea what she has promised to or told the men she calls her customers. If you have to sell your soul to get that $1 million, is it worth it? Sex work is not easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:35 AM
24

Never developed an ED, really; definitely some disordered eating. Have always had a sizable chest, and have always carried shame because of it. Men sexualize me immediately (I think they don’t know it sometimes, but I can see it and feel it) and it disgusts me. All bc they grew there without my consent, my control. These harassment magnets. These things that make nobody actually take me seriously. They’re just a pain in my ass, really. Edit, the next morning: still thinking about this. And how o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:10 AM
4

I’m not sure I believe she’s making that all from OF, you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:58 AM
16

This is why I basically don’t participate elsewhere, on Reddit, with this account. So funny how WE stigmatize gamers but they aren’t stigmatizing women who follow FDS (not to mention women who dare call themselves feminists or set any kind of boundaries.) No, not at all! 🙄 the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:38 PM
3

Ahh the classic “love language” horse shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:38 AM
1

“He will probably do this to me too but you would ignore that for a while, right? Long enough to develop strong feelings, perhaps plan a future together and/or enter serious long-term commitments — you know, make it extremely difficult and painful, for myself, in the end? Great!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:18 AM
10

Preach it judge!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:13 AM
3

Lmfao stop 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:04 AM
13

Actual lol “earth is ghetto” fr tho girl let’s go, we will get us a HVM with a space ship 🚀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:02 AM
15

This never even happened and religion is not real so yeah good job men in committing crimes and atrocities based on a fairy tale someone taught you in Sunday school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:30 AM
9

I’m with you sis. Thanks for posting this cause it’s how I feel and good to know I’m not alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:58 PM
10

And that you should — especially important to obtain that before you involve a man in your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:50 PM
1

YES thank you. Huge red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:47 PM
7

Yeah my sister in law gets Botox and she’s 30 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:43 PM
15

Lol see, this is why I would never want to meet someone on OLD. If I met a guy on bumble and got engaged (a friend legit just did get engaged to her bumble guy) and then this news came out, I wouldn’t want to tell people we met on bumble/would be ashamed of the company that is responsible for us being together. NAH SIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:41 PM
2

This!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:36 PM
89

0/10 would not fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 10:18 PM
12

I feel so sorry for some women who get into these situations. There is so much better for you out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 10:16 PM
15

The look at the end made me scared for my life lmao. Also when can I get drinks with this man, let’s be best friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 04:19 PM
3

At the end of the day, do you have the bare minimum? Then shut up, lady. Who takes advice from this joker?? Fr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:25 AM
13

Him trying to get into my money. 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:22 AM
16

I love this movie, and your comment. Wish I had an award!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:21 AM
4

This. Thank you. NYT is not “propaganda” — please look up the definition of propaganda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:19 PM
39

Yes. My PickMe friends all only ever wanted to go drink drink drink, let’s go to the bar, all the time. Nothing else. And their diets and exercise habits were just bad. All-around toxic and unhealthy ladies. Buh bye!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:16 PM
65

My thoughts exactly! I would feel disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:12 PM
48

I think it’s a waste of time right now, but let us know how it goes for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:10 PM
2

Yassssss keep these Queen tiktok videos comin’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:16 AM
5

“You have a great brain for this” — my boss, about my work “She is so put together” — my mom describing me “Scrappy” — a professor “Intrepid” — another professor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:14 AM
11

Yeah like ask me again why I don’t date men (but somehow that’s what I’m still into)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:13 AM
6

Did this once, good idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:06 AM
11

I’m in this picture and I don’t like it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:04 AM
14

I feel like some guys anticipate and want this. They feel power over the woman bc they got her pregnant. My ex (found condoms with holes poked in them, at his place) is one of those people, I suspect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:03 AM
74

Not too long lol so like three sterile-feeling licks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:38 AM
18

Yikes where did this come from
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:37 AM
11

Yep. I have a friend who met her fiancé on bumble. She sets up all their plans and everything. When I took care of their plants and apt while they were gone, I saw her packing list. Had tons of stuff on there for both of them — and only her handwriting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:01 AM
5

Yes. He will be mad at the type of flowers she bought. “I would have at least bought you roses” well you didn’t. So.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:59 AM
5

Hahahaha so funny!!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:58 AM
5

Can’t live anywhere but by myself. Tough to do financially but I make it work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:57 AM
25

My high school boyfriend never ever could. Four long years, on and off. I hand jobbed him so much I am surprised I don’t still have superhuman forearms. His friends once joked to me about his massive porn collection, and everyone got quiet. It wasn’t until I found this sub and made the connection between his problem and what was happening between me and the first boy I ever had sex with. He came probably 2 or 3 times from sex the whole time we were together. I’m so grateful for this sub. And hon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:47 AM
4

Phew wipes brow, remembering the close calls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:37 AM
14

Lol. That’s a ring a 5 yo wears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:23 AM
6

Congrats sis. Happy for you. And inspired. I need to know they’re out there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:21 AM
5

This is me 100% so goddamn, fucking thank you. The looks I get when I say I've only had 2 maybe 3 serious relationships, and I don't date, actively; people shudder and act like they've seen a bug. It's crazy! Context; I just turned 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 02:32 AM
6

Couldn’t agree more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:04 PM
61

Slammed his fist down on my kitchen table and said he didn’t want to talk about “it.” “It” was him taking shrooms without my knowledge while we were on a group trip to Six Flags, and me demanding he tell me the truth. He finally said “see? You already knew. So it’s not like I really lied” lol amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:55 PM
38

Ahhh I love her. The music, her accent is gorgeous, her eyelashes. The whole thing yells QUEEN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:53 PM
2

This sounds a lot different than what you originally posted. I can get on board with this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:49 PM
13

Ahhh perfect. Well done Queen 👏👏 all these ladies so gorgeous, to boot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:09 PM
23

See, this is why no marriage for me! I need to pay off about 5k more in credit card debt in the next year and a half. I have a plan to do that and it’s working. Then I’m going to save for a little while, then buy a house. This is so much a simpler plan than getting a man and all the other bullshit involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:41 PM
67

There is no point in doing anything but this. Gonna spend 50%? Ok, I’ll just buy the whole thing, and really get what I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:40 PM
5

Reminds me of Jack from Twitter lol (which bravo dude for finally banning Trump but took you long enough. Otherwise Jack seems pretty scrote-tastic)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:38 PM
2

Haha I just loved her presentation, loved this video. Yasss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:37 PM
275

No woman wants a man. That’s it. End of sentence. That’s what it’s becoming. And that’s what they fear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:27 PM
2

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Glad he got what’s coming to him. Wish this would happen to more men, honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 11:04 PM
10

He went to my alma mater. The college refuses to take his money; last I heard. Though they need it, badly, and it could be put to good use, I love them fiercely for turning it away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:05 AM
43

They want you to let them play video games and trash the house. Shit in a bucket and you wipe their ass. You’re just there to cook for them. Swear to god this is their ideal. And still in this delusional fantasy they will be called men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:20 AM
45

Man I want to get on tiktok just for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:18 AM
56

My now-ex, in the beginning, stopped calling me and started doing the LVM distancing thing. I also distanced, went to Chicago for a show, and hooked up with a college guy friend I had always had a little thing for. It was so fun. We had sex on the 93rd floor of the John Hancock building 😝 coming (he’s so good with his hands) while watching boats sailing on Lake Michigan was um insane. When I got back and told NVX I had hung out with straight guy friends (didn’t even tell him about the sex, then)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:47 PM
4

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:42 PM
35

“If you want” is a man’s way of saying “I don’t want you to”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 03:54 PM
3

🙋🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:54 AM
13

This sounds fucking horrible. Glad you got out of it, sheesh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:49 AM
24

Any man who says “I’m back on my bullshit”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:35 AM
48

She reminds me of or is the woman who worked at the jewelry store and “mixed up” girlfriend/wife names.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:14 AM
10

I want OLD to die a quick but painful death
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 12:53 AM
32

Yes so much this on putting on condoms. I always sexily say “let me do it for you” because I used to be a sex educator and know how it is done. Pinch the tip and roll down y’all! Make sure you begin with the condom looking like a sombrero, not a hoodie, so the collection tip works correctly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 12:48 AM
85

I am on this train too, re: doubting if men are capable of love and empathy. I mean, knowing my older brother and dad like I do, I have to say yes. I was standing next to my brother as his best woman when he bawled his eyes out reading the vows he wrote to his wife at their wedding. My dad cried when he opened a framed photo of his brothers that my mom had gotten him for Christmas. I wonder if this is a nature vs. nurture argument, you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 12:42 AM
17

This looks almost exactly like a friends engagement ring but...better! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 12:38 AM
436

Byeeee well he got that part right lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:15 PM
2

“This is a weird question but are any of you mad that your husband doesn’t care about you or your kids at all? He also seems to mooch off of me lol he doesn’t have a job. Should he? Some people play games all day, right?” She knows the answers, I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:13 AM
3

When I found out my now-ex watched anime I was immediately revolted. Should have bailed then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:09 AM
8

Yep! My ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 03:57 AM
22

This 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 03:57 AM
99

Yes she is so gorgeous! And seriously. It’s hard enough out here for a lady trying to just take care of herself and pay her bills. Sheesh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:09 PM
23

A family man who watches football and drinks beer? No thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 09:02 AM
5

This sounds like a bad attitude and bad breath fest. Fun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:31 AM
1

Okay! You may very well be right 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:18 PM
1

This is too much of a blanket statement, IMHO. I’ve met some quality, and short, HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:11 PM
12

Got this one recently. “I was just joking. Most girls I know like to play” you must mean most pickmes you know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:08 PM
5

This is a nice post but reminder that you do not need to do anything anyone says you need to do to look good. I don’t use any makeup at all or do anything to my face except cover up breakouts when I need to. I pluck my eyebrows. That’s about it. Also don’t dye my hair or do anything to it but get it trimmed. Of course if you want to do these things, go for it! Just making sure all of the ladies out there who are the same as me, extremely low maintenance on looks, hear the message: it’s okay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:06 PM
6

“Oh. Well most men are grateful to even smell my pussy, so”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:02 PM
7

Journalists love this. Do it. Help Nick; he may even be open to telling the story of FDS. What we are trying to do here, and how everyone calls us a hate sub. Bc his story and FDS are so closely connected IMHO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:52 PM
3

All of this is so true and spot on. I also hate the men who complain about spending on dates. It makes me feel so small and terrible, and like they hate me. Typing this out makes me realize it’s their test. How much of their hate will you tolerate?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:49 PM
4

Was fucking a man who was a law school student while I was in undergrad. He was also my TA (it’ll be a good story for my book, you know? 😝) He claimed to develop feelings for me when really he just needed emotional support for the summer while he studied for the bar. I went to NYC to see him for my birthday, found his online dating profile open on his computer (after he told me to use his computer for schoolwork when he went to work, so he wanted me to find it) and flew out a few hours later whi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:43 PM
3

I’m making good money, myself, and carry myself with confidence. When I want something I go after it. People do not like women like me. They just don’t. I think it’s because we are the opposite of what they think we should be or the role they think we should play. I have learned the best thing I can do for myself is keep to myself, do good work, save money, and not tell a single soul about any of my future plans. That way, nobody can sabotage. It’s worked pretty well so far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:35 PM
1

I’ve never found a time when it’s better to just be quiet. Loud, angry, NASTY women ftw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:26 PM
3

This. Is. So. BEAUTIFUL. ✨💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:02 AM
429

We at a new low. Also I want to be best friends with this woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:00 PM
113

Yeah when my mom got sick with MS it was hard on my dad. She’s still all there mentally but needs a lot of help physically. You know what my dad did? Yeah he grew some more hair on his chest and took care of the mother of his children. When they were at their angriest fights (loooong before she got sick and was diagnosed) and even I would say why don’t you guys try some time apart, he would say, she’s the mother of my children, I can’t. That is a man. Whoever made this post is scummy scum scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:48 PM
83

LOL and same sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:46 PM
77

That’s not a beard 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 01:25 PM
2

I kind of wonder if she’s holding on as a last-ditch attempt at holding on to pride. She just doesn’t want to admit that he is just as bad as everyone has said he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:48 AM
2

Seriously. If I find a man who has one of those qualities I have to tell myself not to get too excited.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:46 AM
20

Yeah it’s a great cope actually lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:26 AM
6

The use of the word “cope” makes me want to throw my phone out the window
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:25 AM
7

To stop saying “like” so much because I have a great vocabulary and I don’t want to make it any easier for men to think I’m stupid/an easy target. Read every day, every morning. Write my book. Work out 4x a week. Develop and actually sustain good habits. Covid and taking time off dating have forced me to develop healthy routines and I’m glad for it. I cling to them, now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:24 AM
24

Thank you for saying this! No wonder we’re so damn tired at the end of every day 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:15 AM
12

Welcome, glad you are here. 🙏 thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:07 AM
23

Reminder that a ring can be anything for you. A ring is symbolic of what a man gives you. It IS what a man is expected to give you. If that’s not your thing, it’s okay! Buying a ring doesn’t appeal to me whatsoever, but I spend my money on living alone, furnishing my place as I see fit and other nice things I want. Just seeing a lot of ladies almost shame themselves for not having the money to buy themselves a ring and it’s okay. No ring is also a good option! 🤟👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:56 AM
4

Y E S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 06:03 AM
8

Ok mike butler enjoy your hand forever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 06:01 AM
4

I didn’t start lol until I fully absorbed the illustration of the man next to the text, lmfao the snake out of the trousers 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:40 PM
29

This. Whenever literally anyone tells me they play, my brain goes “oh...” and I have a vision in my head of my eyes getting wide and me turning away from the situation with an embarrassed look on my face. Cause I’m embarrassed. That you as a grown adult has this as your hobby and allow it to take up so much of your time. (Emphasis on the last part. Nothing wrong with enjoying a game; I know some of us game occasionally — everything in moderation.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:38 PM
32

Wow. Wild. I watched Cruel Intentions last night for the first time, and almost posted here about how completely and utterly fucked that movie and his character is. I know characters are separate from actors but ehhh he played that one awfully well, lmao. I was angry I watched the entire movie honestly. Edit: also, I’ve just become such a huge Reese fan in these past few years. Her, and Jennifer Aniston. Boss ladies!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:24 PM
17

It is crazy town out here rn. This man has got to be out of his mind!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:19 PM
16

Yeah! I was excited to turn 18 to be able to buy cigarettes and get my family’s name in another language tattooed on my shoulders! That’s the kind of shit kids should be excited about. Edit: also she is beautiful, and I love her voice. I hope she starts a podcast about this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:13 PM
13

Can confirm, this was my ex. He has a terrible, misbehaved dog. I only orgasmed w him bc I’m a) a Scorpio and b) he had a great cock. But he touched my clit all of like two times, went down on me three. Together more than a year. Looking back now I LOL. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:05 PM
44

Go to HR. I was harassed by a man at my workplace too, and I was new and am pretty young in my career; so I said nothing. The day after he left I broke down and bawled and told my (male, and extremely supportive) boss. We have that kind of relationship where he asked me “how are you?” And I just lost it, bc I didn’t realize just how much I hated having to work with this guy, and just how relieved I was, until he was gone. Here’s my point to you: my boss told me I had good reason to go to HR the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:59 PM
94

Yes. And when all this pandemic lockdown business is over, I hope the men have to wonder “what happened to women??” — simply bc we are not putting up with LV shit anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:56 PM
7

Amen, you’ve said it perfectly sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:44 AM
14

This is a stupid hobby that benefits no one and invites 0 personal growth. Until I see evidence otherwise, I am going to die on this hill. These boys and men could be spending their time in much more productive ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:29 AM
13

Yeah I really wish these young women would stop normalizing this decrepit behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:27 AM
38

Reminds me of that tiktok someone posted here weeks ago of that ugly gamer bro and his gf arguing about him...peeing in their bathtub. If I ever find myself arguing about that kind of shit with a man I sweater god y’all I’m gone just walk right into traffic 🤣 because how did I let it get that far
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:17 AM
3

That, and we all meet such different people, with stories good and bad, all the time; I think that helps us be more empathetic. I feel lucky to know many good humans. Finding one to attach myself to, hoo boy, though. That is a whole different story!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:14 AM
24

Local journalism. The people I’ve met in my newsrooms are some of the best people I’ve ever met.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 06:10 PM
4

My ex already looks like this 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:56 PM
23

I’m a journalist and we need to stop hiding behind this. Let’s out the men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:49 PM
8

Gorgeous ring. Happy for you, queen. Onward and upward!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:48 PM
54

I have this too. I also take traits from men I respect and adore at work. I work with a lot of HVM who treat their ladies like queens and their kids are the center of their world, so I learn from them. I also work with a couple HVW who never settled and I hope to be as happy as they are. I talk openly with them about the dating world rn. They’re both in their 40s (the HVW I’m talking about). And they always shake their heads, say “I don’t know how you do it out there right now. It sounds so roug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:37 PM
11

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:51 AM
6

You just know they would come out of the woodwork; “well you CANT DO THAT BECAUSE REVERSE SEXISM” k bud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:43 AM
6

Thank you for being honest about this. 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:36 AM
11

I see my occupation listed no where in the post, good 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:31 AM
7

Right. I hope when this is all over; I come out of it and people are like DAMN I will have whatever she was having during quarantine!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:40 PM
6

Lmao well same goes for us scrotes 🤪 you best believe all I did was flirt. Then turn around, forget about you, and go back to focusing on me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:35 PM
15

The masturbation addict-NoFap stuff just kills me. I keep thinking about that scrote who posted his masturbation schedule on TikTok. I only keep thinking about him when I need to channel my anger or hate. I just really can’t believe that much of a waste of a person is taking up resources and space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:26 PM
45

Pick me friend shamed me for consuming cannabis. I do it after work and in my free time, sometimes. Now she eats edibles and makes mistakes in her work bc she’s dating a guy who is into it. Told other pick mes about her revelation and then they start asking me if I’ve ever tried. Sigh. We don’t talk much anymore and that’s ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:14 AM
30

Throw the whole man away sis. FDS rescue mission, anyone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:12 AM
2

I’m just not dating at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:00 AM
14

Help us oldies: what’s FYP and KAM? Also, glad you’re here, young blood!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:55 AM
28

She maybe also wanted the experience of knitting it herself but this is sweet and she seems happy about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:33 AM
22

My dad is in the Christmas spirit now and has been for a while — 33 years of marriage — but when they were together, at first, he was awful at gifting. Her spirit and love for the season and the holidays, and his desire to make her happy and give her what she wanted, made him better at it. She still out-gifts all of us, in terms of surprise and thoughtfulness; though each year, she has the largest pile of presents. As it should be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:23 AM
26

Finally! You don’t care!!! Fuck!!!!! This is the day I’ve been waiting for. I’m excited! It sounds like all men in all board rooms will finally sit down, shut up and stop taking credit for our ideas. They don’t care we are in the C suite, and we are better at it than them. Hooray!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:18 AM
85

Yes. I’ve even flirted my way out of a dangerous situation. I know that sounds really stupid and I don’t do it anymore (or maybe I would resort to it again in danger, who knows) — you do what your instinct tells you to do in the moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:15 AM
42

🤣🤣🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:15 PM
68

Yeah this woman isn’t in anything with anyone. A long-distance polyamorous relationship is literally nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:11 PM
62

Men and their obsession with “getting a plate” makes me ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:08 PM
1

Yep to all of this. You nailed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:05 PM
2

I know a pick me I used to work with and every picture she posts of her and her man, he looks grumpy and miserable. He fucking hates her. He will turn away from the camera and not even look at the lens when they take photos sometimes. She and I never got along, but I hope she wakes up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 07:43 PM
2

If someone asks you why you love a man and you start saying things like “he’s nice, he’s funny, he’s smart, he has a good work ethic” just get out. You don’t love that man! You’re trying pretty hard to love that man, though. And it shouldn’t take trying to love a man. And the qualities you love about him shouldn’t take effort for you to conjure. They should roll off the tongue: “I love how I feel when I am with him. I feel safe when we are together bc he does x y and z. I know he is serious abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 07:15 PM
4

Thissssss. While I was Christmas shopping this year, I did A TON for myself. It feels so fucking great, to spend money on me, and know it’s a worthy spend, than spending and thinking, “I sure hope he likes it.” I had more energy and money to spend on my family gifts, too. I knocked it out of the park for all of them (got a really good raise this year, and I’ve been on my own for almost a decade now; so this was the first year I could really splurge) and it just felt amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:57 PM
2

Oh, yes. Even my pick me friends who still swear by online dating knew my NVM was bad all around. My parents and brother, too. I still didn’t listen. It took him trying to get into my money (he did not succeed) for me to walk away. Glad I realized when I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:54 PM
11

I think it’s like a lot of the rest of the internet. Hiding behind a screen/keyboard gives people power to hide, to become someone else. I think you hit the nail on the head, here. “Oh, it’s just entertainment, and they’re getting paid, so it’s justifiable” but for so many reasons, as we know, it’s not justifiable. Just bc you’re hiding behind a screen or staying anonymous doesn’t mean nobody is being harmed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:51 PM
11

T h i r s t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:48 PM
16

Same re balding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:34 PM
37

The math? AINT mathin’ lol never heard that. I work with data so totally stealing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:33 PM
61

My brother is kind of a house husband (wife is a private pilot — he still works at a uni job with good benefits) and seems to absolutely love it, most of the time. He complains about housework to me occasionally but in the next breath will say “but I could never have this lifestyle without her”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:22 PM
6

This is so pathetic. He has fully accepted that he is not going to level up or even try to improve himself or his life. I find that so goddamned sad. Who hurt you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:23 AM
17

That part sent me, too 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:13 AM
2

Sure ya do bud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 11:59 AM
2

“Sometimes I take a washcloth and get it nice and soapy, and grab an asscheek and go to town! Get it?” But frfr is this fake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:40 AM
5

This isn’t a very nice post and I’m not sure what its purpose is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:31 AM
4

I’m so thankful you are here. 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:28 AM
11

Well “real ass females” don’t even get those things, trust me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:24 AM
44

I giggled so loudly when I read this. I would say “I am already a cat lady, so” flicks joint roach at man, walks away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:42 PM
9

It never stops. 🛑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:41 PM
41

Reddit is the wild Wild West
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:40 PM
34

He should be happy and contributing to this. I’m 30 and luckily with my parents this year. We were reminiscing on all of our great Christmases, and they told me how they always told each other around august to start putting money away because “we gotta get these kids some presents.” We were always fortunate that they did that for us. But my dad was saying that bc he was saying it used to be such a hustle for them and they were so proud when they watched us open them and enjoy them. Now, they’re …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:37 PM
4

I get angrier every time I watch this video. I hate it so much and the kid in it makes my blood boil. The fuck is wrong with you? Your mother and father teach you this — they proud?? All they raised is a little jack off of a son who doesn’t care about anything except jerking off enough to track it all fucking year just to make a stupid tiktok about it. Hope his future employers find it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 01:21 PM
1

I really, really hate these “found a guy, told me I was a starrr” format videos. Like I get what the point is, and ironic, ha ha. But they’re just sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 12:27 PM
6

He is not even attractive before he posted this 🤷🏼‍♀️ enjoy being alone forever scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 12:17 PM
1

Speaking to the defendant is often next to impossible, and/or they’re advised by their lawyer not to, and to only speak if it’s through the lawyer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 05:59 AM
14

“I am not shit so no one will date me. That’s it. That’s my problem”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:11 PM
20

Beaker from the Muppets 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:10 PM
7

I read the title and a few lines, and don’t need to finish. You don’t help them. Most can’t be helped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:07 PM
132

Truly. If I tried to go back to the me I was a year ago I would just lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:02 PM
3

🥲💕💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:54 PM
15

Yes exactly. Men would likely fuck it up anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:53 PM
145

I’ve had people say shit like “your career can’t make you coffee in the morning” never met a man who has even asked or tried to do that, in my roughly 15 years of dating, soo. Career can buy me a coffee machine I can set to make me coffee in the morning (and it has!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 09:16 AM
22

Yeah so “uplifting”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 09:12 AM
5

This one is in my queue! Will have to watch it while I’m off ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:26 AM
12

I hate the statements issued by people afterwards in these things. I’m a journalist and i luckily work for an outlet that would have cut them down a lot more than this one did. I hate including them at all, but I understand it’s also out of fairness, and that is my job. Personally, though: you spoke when you did what you did. That’s enough. Remorse is meaningful, when you can hear it in someone’s voice. Here, with these statements, so often they just read like canned PR (and some v likely are)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:25 AM
19

Ambition and “you know what you want, see, I don’t” have done it for me several times too. I’m always like sigh, okay, bye weak man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:21 AM
56

“Skin hungry” ok serial killer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:19 AM
196

I took this attitude - literally these words - into my interview for my current job. It clearly works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:16 AM
12

a m e n
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:53 PM
3

I do not understand how anyone wants to watch anyone game. I used to do it with my HS bf and my mom was like “that sounds boring. He needs to take you out!!” She was so glad I finally bailed on him. Me, too. It is so boring!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:50 PM
6

He sounds boring and terrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:46 PM
47

Congrats, lady. That takes immense strength. Good for you, seriously, for maintaining your maturity for your son. That’s a damn good mom. Get into therapy if you need — or go scream into the wind, sometimes they feel like the same!! 💕 glad you are here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:37 PM
88

Found condoms with holes poked in them in my ex’s last place. Noped out shortly after, for a lot of reasons. I tried to ask him about it and he turned so white, I knew I had caught him. Luckily I was on hormonal the whole time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:34 PM
6

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:29 PM
7

Seriously though. I get some real random dudes too. One who was a coworker for a summer when I interned, and he messaged me bc he had recently...gotten divorced. He talked about his kids a bunch and ranted about his soon to be ex, and I was basically like “k have a nice day” then finally after found FDS blocked and deleted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:57 AM
8

Well shit FDS for president
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:53 AM
4

You’re not career-driven. Okay Billy. Are you eating-food-and-sleeping-warm-and-dry-driven?? FFS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:50 AM
2

🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:58 PM
11

I very much get this vibe from this man, who is also a cop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:57 PM
23

You know, I had a guy basically say this to me. I was vetting him hard thanks to FDS and was able to block/delete early in knowing him. One of the 🚩 for me was when he said he was letting the relationship with his daughter’s mother “coast” at this point. I was like oh, I thought you said you weren’t together just a minute ago? And he said oh we aren’t. Oh. Oh okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:31 PM
5

You know what to do, babe! Kick. Him. Out!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:20 PM
82

Just about snorted out my soup at “never want to visualize you pushing that down the street”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:17 PM
4

Dead eyes are a dead giveaway for me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:55 PM
47

Good doctor, good aunt. Hope your friend leaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:51 PM
26

Hahaha my now 33-year old ex left my toilet bowl covered in piss every time he came over. Disgusting. Now my toilets and apartment are so clean all the time because, no men are here! Just me and my cat. Perfect!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:47 PM
31

Nah girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:45 PM
19

The racist bullshit at play here is yikes. Look up the concept of Sapphire. I don’t always love Vice but this one’s good https://www.vice.com/amp/en/article/wnw3v4/how-flavor-of-love-exploited-the-worst-stereotypes-of-black-women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:00 AM
4

Oh; we have different thangs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:54 AM
17

Wellllll “femininity” does not pay the bills, sweetie!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:50 AM
40

He doesn’t like career women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:46 AM
30

What...did I just read. Whatdidijustread. Don’t even know which sentence or graf to copy paste bc so many bad ones. I am a journalist for a mid-sized metro in the US. The worst I’ve done is take advantage of men flirting with or harassing me. I would just flirt back or go along until I got the info I needed — and always identified myself clearly. This is so bad in so many ways ugh honey why. Why! As a woman. As a journalist. Why?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:46 AM
28

Maybe once upon a time Shia was hot but now he’s just sorta a washed-up Josh Groban?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:28 AM
59

Just go level up yourselves, boys, so you can keep up. I know it sucks to hear, but clearly your mother isn’t giving you the tough love you need. Go to therapy. Reflect on yourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:15 PM
4

Lmao excuse me for posting a rant to a Reddit sub, I am sure you have never done that, you perfect specimen! I just meant, the first question I saw here was sth about “is porn damaging?” Like oh my god. We don’t even have comprehensive sex education for kids in my country or worldwide, yet, we wonder if porn is harmful. Y’all kill me!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 06:46 PM
2

The questions asked in this sub are so dumb I could never see my self participating here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 06:25 PM
31

Will be interesting in 5-10-20 years where women are in their careers and lives and where men are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:35 PM
2

If someone brought this up to him today, he would give some PR-written speech about reflecting on himself, something something about his mother, and “I do apologize.” But it would mean nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:28 PM
13

Get her over here stat. This woman needs help before the inevitable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:15 AM
1

Never tell a reporter anything you do not want them to know. Especially if you do not have an established relationship. Why trust this completely random man? I’m not saying she “got what she deserved” or anything like that. I just think some details are getting lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:26 AM
45

Honey nobody ever said men don’t need therapy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 12:46 AM
4

This is really sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 12:42 AM
20

The whole thing 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:07 PM
-5

He didn’t doxx her? Everything in the story was out there already on her social media accounts before she did the interview. Which she agreed to and spoke to him knowing he was a reporter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 07:55 PM
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I made the distinction in other posts. I have said it all nicely, in previous threads on this specific story. Look, I think this is way different than saying a woman “deserves” rape — I think we have to recognize as adult women the risks we are taking by posting NUDE PHOTOS OF OURSELVES AND ATTACHING OUR NAME AND IDENTITY TO IT. She did this. I am at a loss with you all. She promoted herself hard on Twitter and insta; she wanted all the attention until she got it. 🤷🏼‍♀️ sorry but I stand by my o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 07:53 PM
-1

Well, I didn’t say that, so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 07:49 PM
-4

I have empathy that she got duped like this but that is where my sympathy for her ends. Look at the shit on socials she was posting prior to the Post story. She did not care how many people knew about her OF then, and WANTED to get a ton of exposure. Idk how she’s the victim here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 04:27 PM
4

Haha I’m sorry but no. “OF is legal sex work” as if that makes it okay or a good idea for women? She knew what she was doing posting her “tiddies” online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 04:26 PM
-25

Reminder: We have had this debate on this sub many times. This is why we don’t support sex work or OF. It will never end well for women. Whatever rumors of rejection you may have heard; he is a reporter with a job to do. This is a pretty good story — she’s engaging in sex work because she can’t make ends meet — as an EMT working in a pandemic? Done correctly, it’s a good story. He didn’t do it correctly, clearly. But she agreed to the interview. She promoted her OF on Twitter prior to the NY Pos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 03:16 PM
9

Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 03:16 PM
16

All the guys I’ve ever known my friends/family to meet on OLD — they end up divorced. Lots of pretend-HVMs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:10 AM
14

You’re not funny, you’re ugly and your memory probably sucks. So enjoy never having another orgasm again. Alas. It is what you deserve. I cannot believe this is how men spend their time and think it’s okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:01 AM
5

Cool, I will dump this hot soup in your lap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:58 AM
43

I was literally depressed when I was with my ex. I am not now. I would never put up with what he did to me, now. I was not well when I was dealing with a broke man 🤣 the two problems are circular
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:50 AM
37

This is it, every time, she nailed it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:47 AM
10

My brother, the most high-value man I know, says “happy wife, happy life” ☺️ he tries so hard to make her happy, they are so cute. They are my goals!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:31 PM
5

Lol yes ma’am my thoughts exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:29 PM
17

She agreed to this interview. She promoted her only fans on her Twitter prior to the story running. So at any moment she could have been “exposed” by any reporter. I know that you don’t like it, but when you put something out there on social media you are effectively telling that story to anyone who wants to listen. I don’t really have a lot of sympathy for her. I only have sympathy because she is just another young woman who got duped into believing this was a good option. TLDR don’t get naked …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:07 PM
6

I think this all the time. “Should I be basing my opinion of men, off of things I read on the Internet? I mean. They out here just eating up all the nasty, sick porn they can. The fact that I know any one of them and probably most of them could be looking at that stuff behind closed doors — that’s ruined men for me, now. I swear to god I’ll be alone forever and it’s fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 03:04 PM
28

Again, I think we give too much credit to “men know” here; men don’t know shit. They get desperate, at a certain time, or because of certain circumstances. Why do we all think men lack empathy and feeling, but upon meeting the “right” woman, he suddenly gains those qualities? No. Nonetheless, situationships are a waste.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:50 PM
18

Lol “I’m just like picking out fruit!” Lmfao love her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:46 PM
8

This man’s an idiot (both of them) leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:32 PM
15

Also Snapchat the fuck outta here with that classic cheater bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:24 AM
4

She’s on Snapchat with him so yeah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:24 AM
53

I did it on and off through my 20s, as well, and by the time I hit 30, I had not participated in it in a couple years. I’m better for it. Don’t miss it. It’s hollow and pointless. I agree with above commenter; let’s reclaim prude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:14 AM
11

This is a one way ticket to never getting married or being taken seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:23 PM
11

I’m past 6 months of no-sex myself, and I feel the exact. same. way. Onward and upward, ladies!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:47 PM
62

“Oh I just clicked, I don’t know why, I don’t fancy kids” or “the children seem to be smiling” well they’re lying to you, on the first one, and the second one makes me fucking sick. The depravity knows no bounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:40 PM
32

I had to stop reading bc no logic at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:33 PM
6

I love grey rocking men. It’s so fucking fun. Edit: I say this just bc it is, but also bc they don’t expect it. I just love seeing the light in their eyes, which is there because they’re expecting me to return their advances with a demure, gracious, sweet, let-them-down-gently response, go out when I give them a big grey rock instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:31 AM
5

“Good vibes only” and “positive vibes only” make me seethe with rage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:30 AM
25

Ugh she’s so wonderful. Why is everything terrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:19 AM
32

I’m like this too, my lady. I think our time will come and we will know it — to be hippy-dippy about it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:18 AM
4

Yeah but she will be happy and glowing when she dies, instead of chained to a sorry sack like you, Gino fucking Rafael. The fuck outta here with that name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:17 AM
9

YES THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR WRITING THIS. I’m sorry to yell, but I’ve had this exact thought so many times. I once yelled at a man, recently, and said “it’s a goddamned pandemic!” Because after I said “hey, don’t do that!” He spread his arms like “what??” And I felt good about it. It was while walking into grocery store, he was walking out, plenty of people around. They either thought I was nuts or correct or both and I couldn’t care less! Hope he thinks twice in the future. ANYWAY, yes. Agreed. Y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:12 AM
8

You sound like you’re doing better and that’s what matters. Glad you’re here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:09 AM
25

👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:03 AM
6

Yes, let us please rant! It’s also not even that good, in terms of entertainment value, IMHO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:58 AM
1

Yep, exactly, all of this. She just thought she could make some money off of her hot bod scot free. All. Actions. Have. Consequences. And. Selling. Your. Body. Has. Big. Ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:20 PM
1

Yes, thank you. My comments may be harsh, but there’s truth in them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:11 PM
5

Ok. Just let this be a lesson to all of you to never speak to reporters. This is what happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:10 PM
68

Yes re: woman journalist But please see my other comments below. This is why OF and SW is a bad, bad idea for women. No matter what! It’s always going to bite you in the ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:45 PM
25

Yeah, but I have no idea how this went down. I need more detail. If someone identifies themself as a reporter, you are always on the record. Assume that. Do not give them any info you don’t want out there. Edit: I know because I’m a journalist. I would never do this to someone, but I obviously can’t speak for all who identify as a journalist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:44 PM
-4

A few things though. One, his editors likely made the story a lot more sensational, for web clicks. Don’t blame the reporter entirely. It’s an entire staff of LVM probs. But also. We don’t support OF here. This woman is seeing the natural consequences of choosing to engage in sex work. This is why you don’t do it. This proves the point. It’s not empowering in any way; people will not read this and say “wow, good for her, go get it girl!” They’ll say “what a ho” — this is just me saying what real…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:10 PM
4

Yeah where’s the lie on here tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:56 PM
5

Bitcoin is also how my friend’s ex screwed her out of a ton of his assets when they got divorced. She unfortunately didn’t care that much bc she just wanted to post a pic of her and her new bf to social, to show off to her ex. Not to mention: the guy she is with now? Yeah, he’s the ex of the women her ex cheated on her with. So. Big yikes all around here. If your partner is into Bitcoin, especially if you marry, look out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:48 PM
6

Is one guy actually saying we don’t have a need for banks anymore? Does he know how lending and finance work in the US (which is a pretty big chunk of the world economy?)? What a fucking idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:45 PM
23

Yep. Ex used to ditch me for entire weekends to spend time with his mom (he says — and sadly, I bet some of the time it was actually true) Has photos tagged with her on Instagram “mommasboy” 🤮 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:29 PM
18

Actual lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:25 PM
13

Visualize where you want to be one month, two months, three months from now. What do you want to do? What did you miss? All of this time to develop and love ✨ you ✨ starts now! Work toward developing into that person you want to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:50 AM
16

Here’s some Crisco sauce to top it all off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:46 AM
32

Corelle is the best ✨🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:43 AM
36

Bucket even has a handle, “ion” think that is supposed to store food, brobro Edit: saw someone else commented it’s a reused ice cream bucket. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:42 AM
161

You feel like a monster because you are one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:38 AM
23

Right I know, I am just making sure people know that! 👍 thanks for the assistance!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 11:04 PM
64

Same. Every. Fuckin. Time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:17 PM
21

The advice that would really help single women got me HOWLIN. Bitch, please! That’s the advice if you want to get stuck in a miserable life you hate, mhm, sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:15 PM
13

Ugh girl did you leave my ex? Lol. Good for you. We got out and that’s all that matters. Onward and upward!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:11 PM
64

Do not date until you know you are better than any man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:10 PM
5

I also smoke and would hate to get this as a gift from a boyfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:08 PM
2

Oh see I think marriage is just, for men, basically a contract for endless sex and housework. Like literally that’s what I think men think marriage is, they don’t get into it for any other reason than sex with that person forever. My point is their thoughts are driven exclusively by their penises and sexual drives; even when we say a man “knows” he doesn’t know anything, except that he wants to stick his dick in that woman for the rest of his life. That’s it. Marriage is a sham and women need to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:15 PM
3

Pick up some delicious cannabis, order myself a great dinner from a local artisan restaurant, complete with my favorite drink, light candles, pick a movie I actually want to watch, turn off my phone, be bothered by no one ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:13 PM
5

I just mean desperate for women’s attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:02 PM
9

See, I think men are always desperate. Every. Single. One. Of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 02:02 PM
9

Ah right. With pictures of them on it? Weird way to make a relationship memento
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 01:59 PM
3

What an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 01:52 PM
4

What was that tray at the end..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 01:51 PM
23

I think we put too much stock in “men know” in this sub. Men don’t know shit. They may be picking women at the most convenient time for them, or they may be picking women cause mommy really said it’s time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 01:48 PM
13

🦁 be like “not in my kingdom!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:19 AM
28

Same. My broke ass ex used to harangue me about getting dressed to go to work (Um, hello?!) but never getting dressed up for him. Yeah you want me to get dressed up so I can sit on the couch with your? No loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:05 PM
51

A man who gives the camera the finger is gone, in my book. This is one of my pet peeves. What are you, 12? Also if he says “I’m back on my bullshit” at any point, ever. How about you are never off of your “bullshit,” guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 02:59 PM
2

This is what it is. It’s also just an easy low effort question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:37 AM
7

Why did you use “female” though? And I’ve been wondering why it’s “female” dating strategy when most women I meet here agree it’s kind of gross when men use that term?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:33 AM
43

I have an incredible temper, and I’m learning to control it, because although I think I have every right to walk around goddamned pissed off all the time, as a woman, it’s not mature to subject others to my behavior that results from it. But deep down, on this point, I feel my anger is justified. I’m essentially walking around as prey, 24/7. And people ask why I don’t go out, why I don’t date, why I keep to myself. Like...have you...looked around. Or existed as a woman (if it’s another woman) la…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:10 PM
65

When he slammed his fist down on my kitchen table, hard, during an argument. I had plenty of space from him, across the kitchen, as I learned to do from growing up watching a physically abusive relationship — when arguing with a man, take your space. I said, “I know you didn’t just slam your first on my furniture in my house.” And ended the argument right there. The relationship ended not long after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:00 PM
73

This just really gets my goat. Like you are just one big, thick cock, with legs, walking around, aren’t you? I would also like a clean home and hot dinner when I’m done working at the end of the day. You know how I do that? Myself. I clean the house thoroughly every two weeks, and I bought a Roomba. Some days I use the crock pot (the ultimate come-home-to-hot-dinner tool!) and other nights; I cook a whole meal when I get home — and I have come to enjoy the cooking part, too. I doubt I would if I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:52 PM
11

Why is this woman in education ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:42 PM
21

The last one really takes the cake for me. Like guy...it’s not that you’re not meeting people bc you’re in the wrong job. You’re not meeting women bc we don’t like losers 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:39 PM
19

Just don’t date right now, ladies. It’s not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:29 PM
14

I’m short but not stereotypically feminine in most ways. I provide for myself and make good money; I have everything I need and more. Men do not like that, I’ve found. Rather, LVM don’t like that. Must be a sad sack of a man if you’re threatened by a woman who can take care of herself. Edit: I also do not wear makeup (I had horrible, painful acne as a teen, so of course I’m going to enjoy my life makeup-free, now! Plus I have very oily/“dewy” lol skin and it never stays on)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:27 PM
30

You can just tell she doesn’t believe it, deep down. Really sad. Edit: if it’s even a woman. Someone else commented here it sounds like a man, and now that you say that, it sure does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:12 AM
1

My thoughts exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:17 PM
1

Bc bRo lol you would not believe this guy is basically a gaming god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:09 PM
119

She’s gorgeous, love her hair and eyeliner, and she deserves better. Glad she bailed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:18 PM
4

Also if this fuckwad had a real job he wouldn’t be getting “roasted” in front of 27k people. Also god your adhd doesn’t make you a special creature. Don’t shit where you eat. Or where you clean. Common sense, you shit-for-brains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:19 AM
7

This. “Ya hop on the hub” oh do you now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:16 AM
1

Also “imagine telling our kids” stop it ya weirdo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:02 AM
36

I have never and will never date a gamer/streamer/influencer/etc. those are not real professions or jobs and the people who hold those “titles” always seem to be arrogant and entitled af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:43 AM
8

For real. This is disgusting and not normal and yeah girl please leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:41 AM
19

Damn this is an extremely hard choice. Some really tough competitors, here. But I have to say his decision to speak of himself in the third person, and therefore act like someone else would actually say these things about him, takes the cake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:38 AM
153

Idk what point he’s even trying to make? Fucking nasty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:39 PM
4

She just told me he proposed on a hike while they were taking selfies 🤦🏼‍♀️ they went to eat afterward. She said it was perfect, very simple and very us. Again, if she’s happy, I guess...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:20 PM
6

This man is a trash bag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:12 PM
6

This got me lol sis thank you 🤣🤣 “blunt guts”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:11 PM
2

It was!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:15 AM
12

Both ladies should throw the whole man out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:15 AM
3

Just now thought of the best response (which we don’t give, and of course I think of it weeks later): “Okay, so you like sex. But to be with me, you need to love eating pussy.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:39 AM
7

Cool 😎 thank you for making me feel welcome. I like hearing that women like you (like me!) exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:20 AM
32

Yes. This is why I left my high school sweetheart. Never looked back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:29 AM
14

Yeah. I like her guy and all, but she seems to have made most of the effort in the relationship. She even sacrificed her own COVID principles bc his mom was like “I know other kids aren’t visiting home for the holidays, and Dr. Fauci is right, everyone should not travel...but YOU ARE” so they flew cross country. She’s finishing a semester at law school while halfway across the country. He’s getting his medical degree so he can take over his dads practice. So yes she will hang on to this one for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:15 AM
27

This so much this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:18 PM
6

Well said sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:30 PM
14

Right?? Like, and if it’s a tactic, does it ever actually work? The poor ladies who are like “lol well I could hElP u and ur poor peen w/ tHaT”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:48 PM
11

Actual lol, thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:47 PM
6

Yes ma’am, I’ve read the handbook. I may not execute the FDS strategies entirely perfectly yet but hey, the man didn’t get anywhere with me. That’s the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:42 PM
38

This is it. There’s currently 0 benefit to me having a man in my life. I am doing completely fine without. Why bring on additional stress? Men have never caused me anything but stress. The last one disrupted my peace and my house, and I’m not having that ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 01:18 PM
150

I run into this attitude all the time — hating on child free women, by single dads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 01:14 PM
5

100% this, it’s laziness. Nobody has never used the internet to look up places to go. Come on <men> I mean boys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:29 AM
60

Got one cuddling on me right now, and couldn’t agree more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:26 AM
7

Ladies if he wants or needs you to buy him a PS5 Throw the whole man out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:37 PM
2

Haha damn this is it, right here! I need this question answered. NEED 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:08 PM
2

“This prize” lol get em Abby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:05 PM
32

So, my ladies. I want to believe this is not real. But within the last couple of weeks, after my cute neighbor and I exchanged numbers, and began chatting (texting) about our hobbies, he said to me, and I quote: “you’re going to judge me, but I really like sex” — I used to be a sex educator, and went in that direction with the conversation, and suggested therapy, after he said “I think it’s what’s wrong with me” I then blocked and deleted, but am still trying to wrap my head around this one. He …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:48 PM
11

Same. When I see good-looking men, now, I hear the guy from the Geico commercial being like “you don’t know him! You don’t know him.” Completely different context but it helps and makes me laugh. They all come with some kind of nightmarish baggage it seems tho fr fr 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:27 AM
3

Yeah, I hate that this was written by a man, and Kristof completely lost me when he said “the issue with Cosby, Weinstein, Epstein was consent” — maybe he meant exactly this, but like, dude, most of those victims, if not all (bc of power structure and dynamic) were UNABLE to give consent. The problem with Epstein? That those are literal CHILDREN. I just wish he would have bashed the audience over the head with this a little more rather than being like “the issue is consent.” Most people in gener…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 05:50 PM
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