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| 1 | Why are comments like this allowed?I think we can all agree that comment was written by a lowlife... But dude I want to help you address this feeling of inadequacy that brought you here in the first place. EVERYONE has value, yes even the lowest person of the low brings something to the table. The trick is finding it within yourself and loving yourself (cliches I know, but hear me out). For me I think I started loving myself when I saw who I wanted to become and I started making progress towards being that person. (We will never … | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 08:05 AM |
| 9 | Reminder to keep getting checkedyessir, PReP | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 05:16 PM |
| 1 | I am 28 but I look like a 40 year old pedophile. Is there any hope for me?r/fitness r/frugalmalefashion There is definitely hope for you. Your face is fine, you’re just fucking up how you dress and how your boy type is. Put in 10% effort and you will see 50% improvement | /r/seduction | 07/11/17 09:28 AM |
| 1 | If You Want To Be Charismatic, Be More Unlikeable - the simple way of looking at it that enhanced my sex life, and made my social life strongerI don't really get what you're saying about the primerica thing bro | /r/seduction | 18/05/17 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Do I flock to the attractive girls like the other guys or waitI'm curious how you reconcile this with being true to your emotions. If you're ignoring a hot girl you want to talk to, aren't you being disingenuous to yourself? Not trying to be a dick, just trying to deepen my understanding | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 09:50 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on my date night, weigh inMy gut reaction is to say I was chill. I mean if she's setting up plans to hang with Dude B on our date night, she should have the social insight to know she's fucking me over and it's not chill. | /r/seduction | 05/03/17 09:48 AM |
| 6 | Is it normal for a 21 year old guy to have absolutely no sex drive?Psycho-biology uni student here who took a neuroanatomy class where this topic itself was discussed. They took rats with low, medium, high sex drives and neutered them. Then they gave all the rats high amounts of test. Rats that started with low test levels maintained their low mounting behavior despite having a higher level of test in their body. Original high test rats had higher rates of female mounting (but that was true before as well) TLDR: "Studs remain studs, duds remain duds" despite th… | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 08:30 AM |
| 11 | It seems that men with many options (because of looks/game, whatever) stay single more, and settle less.Men choose who to commit to and women choose who to have sex with. It's kinda like when you approach a girl, go on a couple dates and then she says I don't have sex outside of marriage. She's holding the key to sex. You now have the power to commit to her and possibly get that sex or drop out and pursue someone else. If I'm wrong, someone please correct me (nicely lol). I don't want to spread misinformation. | /r/seduction | 20/02/17 07:46 PM |
| 1 | The more I get rejected/ignored the less I give a shit..."Remember that often the way people interact with you has more to do with how they feel about themselves than it does with how they feel about you." Think of that next time you get rejected, it really helps you come back to neutral. :) | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 10:31 AM |
| 1 | At what point in the night do you settle?Yeah having a little trouble in the sense that me and my friends will approach a group of girls. And the girls will pick my taller friends over me. Part of me feels like that's some bullshit in my head or is there some truth to that? | /r/seduction | 03/02/17 06:54 PM |
| 2 | [5/5] The Snapchat Guide to Game: how to get more dates.I think they all serve a purpose, some more so than others but deleting one would leave a gap. | /r/seduction | 14/01/17 11:13 AM |
| 4 | The Difference Between Mastering Pickup & Actually Getting LaidThat seems a little harsh in interpretation. "I'd like you to come home with me but if you aren't I understand" seems a better way to see this Your uber dominant role dehumanizes her and makes her feel like a fleshlight imo | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 06:20 PM |
| 1 | I'm back in the game! Hit me up if you're in the OC/LA California area. I need some wings to go tear up meetups with.What's meet up? | /r/seduction | 14/09/16 02:32 AM |
| 1 | I'm back in the game! Hit me up if you're in the OC/LA California area. I need some wings to go tear up meetups with.I'm in the north LA part. Lmk | /r/seduction | 14/09/16 01:34 AM |
| 1 | How to date “out of your league” and get 9s and 10s — Part II: The Controversy ReturnsTLDR: 1. this isn't high school anymore. If Becky rejects you, the rest of the world will not give a fuck. (I find this only applicable to club game, social circle game could take a hit) 2. Focus on feminity (still needs to be defined better) instead of hotness Can anyone help me define feminity? | /r/seduction | 13/09/16 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Realistically, how much of a success rate should I have?You wanna know something that gets bounced around on this board and no one really listens to? Always be approaching, Always approach the hottest girls you find, Cause you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. For example, I'm basically dating an incredibly hot chick who I would've thought was out of my league a mere year ago. Know why? I saw her at a party, I figured what the hell, walked up to her and started talking to her. YOU MISS 100% OF THE SHOTS YOU DONT TAKE And the shots you take and m… | /r/seduction | 12/09/16 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Yet another reason to not put women on a pedestalEh, I'm a college aged male and while I'm sure this will be more relevant when I get older. Right now I just wanna smash hit girls. Simple as that. I think early in adulthood there's this only want hot girls phase but as you start move towards settling down you're looking for more intrinsic qualities. Or maybe it's just difference preference | /r/seduction | 12/09/16 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Approaching a tabledefinitely not a bad idea Thanks! | /r/seduction | 09/09/16 11:23 PM |
| 1 | My theory on the dating game as a whole.I like the idea of applying the analogy of a game to dating but this is really verbose for basically: Imagine dating with each girl as a game Keep playing and if she doesn't play, her loss, you should be having fun just playing the game If she's stalling, how long would you wait for someone you were playing a game with? Go play another game in the time she's indecisive. (If I missed something, please point it out in a comment below because like everyone else here, I'm always learning too) | /r/seduction | 30/08/16 10:48 PM |
| 1 | "Can you hold my bag?"It's a very situational line, could explode if used in the wrong scenario so yeah if you're not reading the situation well don't do it | /r/seduction | 07/07/16 03:32 AM |
| 4 | "Can you hold my bag?"Be a CHARMING dick "It looks better with me anyway ;) ;)" (gotta do it with a sex smile) "OMG GURRRL OF COURSE! I LOVE HOW THIS BLUE/RED/GREEN COMPLIMENTS MY BICEPS(if you're swole)/MY BLACK PANTS(if you're dressed well) etc.." (Say it in a very effeminate way) "Only if it's Versace" (say it like you're a prissy bitch) "Sure, I could use the extra cash" (pretend to open her purse and look inside for the wallet) There's a million and one ways to handle this, just come up with your own tropes in l… | /r/seduction | 07/07/16 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Creating sexual tension and attraction during the day vs. at nightBut that seems to be attraction to me Not comfort? Idk maybe we all have slightly altered definitions | /r/seduction | 29/05/16 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Creating sexual tension and attraction during the day vs. at nightCan anyone verify this kissing touching is comfort to women? That's a very different way to think about it | /r/seduction | 29/05/16 10:53 PM |
| 1 | What to say when girl on my bed says, "I don't netflix and chill?"You may be seeing these as dates and she's seeing you as a friend, may be worthwhile to ask her (without getting emotional or weird) "hey I like like you; do you like like me?" With a coy smile. ;) you can work from there if she says "nah I see you like a friend" she ain't down for the dick If she says "yeah, but ____" now you know | /r/seduction | 13/04/16 10:27 PM |
| 3 | What do you find attractive in a girl?It's really hard to define attractive outside a set of vague qualities(healthy, friendly, and physically well built) because the very specific qualities that make my Little Mermaid my desire may make her someone else's Ursula Not to mention attraction itself is hard to put a finger on but if you want me to give an answer... I'd have to say it was just how adventurous she seemed. She was on drugs when I met her, had an ass that straddled the fine line between fat and muscular, had a nipple ring a… | /r/seduction | 28/03/16 05:58 AM |
| 7 | When setting up the date should one call or text?I'll be honest, I've tried both. In my experience, at the college level, texting is preferable. Calling for 1st, 2nd dates seems to catch people a little off guard and I've gotten better responses with texts. Just my two cents. | /r/seduction | 26/03/16 06:00 PM |
| 1 | College Nightlife (Minority Report)Coming at you from the west coast, but I'd say join a house It's opened a lot of doors for me | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 09:23 AM |
| 32 | In the past week I've made out with 8 girls by just saying, "wanna make out."Stop making excuses and get results | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 03:20 AM |
| 1 | I thought I was the only one who felt this kind of anxiety around women, then I saw this film...I know it's a drama but still what reaction does he expect going into that? He isn't smiling and his body language makes me think he's got a sex dungeon in his basement. Favorable reactions come to those who look funny and open.(unless you can carry that mean guy sexy look) | /r/seduction | 08/12/15 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Fuck your "she's a tease next girl up" mentality. I just called a HB9 out for leading me on and she fell for me like a flimsy Jenga set.It's from Neil Strauss's The Game. Honey Bunny | /r/seduction | 06/12/15 09:31 AM |
| 3 | Hanging out with girl a lot but she pushes me away when I start trying to move forward with thingsI had a experience like this. Turns out she only wanted to be friends. | /r/seduction | 18/11/15 05:59 PM |
| 2 | 27 M AFC about to give up on datingI think you're misunderstanding. If you spend you're entire life reading about how to fix motorcycles, but you never touch a real life motorcycle, how frustrated will you be? Go out and talk to PEOPLE, not just hot women, but men, ugly girls, maybe even a few children if you can manage not coming off as creepy. Just let your inner you have some social contact with new and unusual people. I think that will help. Social connecting with strangers. Who knows, maybe it'll lead you to a couple hotties… | /r/seduction | 21/10/15 05:37 PM |
| 38 | The Power of SmilingI believe OP isn't walking around with a wide smile all day. Instead (like me) OP has become more prone to smiling upon eye contact with a friend while walking, or in conversation. Try it out. It worked for me. | /r/seduction | 14/10/15 07:24 AM |
| 2 | What to do when girl shows interest but never initiates texting?Is calling really that effective? The times I've called things haven't turned out well. | /r/seduction | 11/10/15 09:06 AM |
| 1 | How to balance expectation with initiative?And what if you're dumbfounded by the interaction and can't really understand it? (Thank you for your answers thus far by the way I really like them.) | /r/seduction | 01/10/15 07:36 AM |
| 1 | How to balance expectation with initiative?So you approach for the fun? The thrill? | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Why you should make your intentions clear (x-post from TIFU)Drunk text her and try to bang | /r/seduction | 27/09/15 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Just stepped out of my comfort zone for the first time and it felt amazing.this is a really good point that doesn't get mentioned enough (or at all)! | /r/seduction | 05/09/15 06:44 AM |
| 2 | 50 Takeaways from ModelsHow do I know that I meditated? | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 06:02 AM |
| 48 | Stop Worrying That Everyone's Having More Sex Than YouInteresting but I think the larger fear is one of missing out. Missing out on the fun happening around you. | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 04:38 AM |
| 1 | [FR] steaming pile of failure with a HB5You didn't fail at all! She simply didn't want to give you her number man. No harm done. The fact that you nutted up and made moves means you succeeded. | /r/seduction | 01/08/15 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Are there FWB date ideas different from GF date ideas?So just hit her up with something like "Let's hangout and watch Netflix."? | /r/seduction | 15/07/15 01:30 AM |
| 7 | [FR] So I just approached a gorgeous girl sitting down with her PARENTS.Lol dude, if I was her father and some guy just came upon my family and started talking like that, best believe I'd shoo his ass away faster than a fly on a hot day. Jacks dickhole was smooth and imo did what he could. | /r/seduction | 11/07/15 12:47 AM |
| 6 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")"Have you seen the new movie the Rock made?" The real reason you won't do this isn't because you think its cringy, it's because you're scared. you're scared that she'll confront you (either softly with "lol whhhhaat?" or with a harsh confused look that screams what the fuck to you nonverbally) and then your brain will freeze and you'll look stupid. Guess what, if she wants conversation, she'll be receptive to that. If she doesn't, she won't. It's that simple. No need to trick her with some fancy… | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 12:51 AM |
| 5 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")I like the floral print on your pants/backpack/butthole. Thanks I got it at Ralph's. Ralph's? That place is so overpriced! You must be rich. Wanna become my sugar momma? | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 06:19 PM |
| 2 | I'm very confident at chatting to girls, very uncomfortable hitting on themEmbrace your sexuality. I read the sexuality portions of The Book of Pook, and it clicked. | /r/seduction | 31/05/15 06:16 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean if a girl mentions she has a crush on someone when you're around?Here's an example. I went to high school with E. Hung out with her a few times, and one time we went to a yogurt place. As we were getting yogurt, I went in for the kiss(bad time to go for a kiss) she got startled "Uh what are you doing Yky?" "Oh I was going to kiss you." And then went about my business of trying the sweet delectable flavors of the yogurt shop. We sat outside and she was noticeably a little uncomfortable but I just kept asking her questions and talking to her and bam! No awkward… | /r/seduction | 29/05/15 09:15 PM |
| 7 | HOLY COW day game is easy! Terrifying... but easy!I know you're 110% right but still, there's a solid 15 seconds I spend just thinking what to open with. | /r/seduction | 16/05/15 09:52 AM |
| 3 | My gf broke up with me 2 months ago, and despite going out all the time i just think about her constantly and how i'll never find a girl better than her.So Grasshoppers do anal? | /r/seduction | 08/05/15 05:02 AM |
| 1 | My gf broke up with me 2 months ago, and despite going out all the time i just think about her constantly and how i'll never find a girl better than her.I don't understand it. Especially that sexually depraved sex act part. | /r/seduction | 08/05/15 04:07 AM |
| 0 | [Serious]How to not get a raging erection when talking to women?Recipe for blue balls | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Effective vs. Ineffective ApproachingThis | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 04:33 PM |
| 2 | What should i do when i pick her up for a "first date?"Cool, take her out to this dessert place and see if you still like her, talk to her and enjoy her company. | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 02:37 AM |
| 3 | How do I respond to someone who said they're busy without sounding needy?Probably because seddit is more of a fan of moving on then trying to fix a sinking ship. I think it's fair to drop a girl after 2 failed attempts. Op made her aware he wants to hang and she failed to suggest an alternate time, on to the next one. | /r/seduction | 24/04/15 07:43 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with "I can't, I'm busy" where she doesn't make a counter offer to meet up?Sorry man, she's not interested | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 04:49 AM |
| 3 | Can't figure this one out on my own.You're trying to be perfect. Don't. Go into each female interaction as a learning experience and just enjoy the moment. | /r/seduction | 18/04/15 03:12 AM |
| 1 | FR:Strike 1, 2, 3, YOU'RE OUTRead Models by Mark Manson for a more in depth explanation. He writes very well about it. | /r/seduction | 17/04/15 12:19 AM |
| 1 | FR:Strike 1, 2, 3, YOU'RE OUTReply posted above | /r/seduction | 16/04/15 05:14 PM |
| 1 | FR:Strike 1, 2, 3, YOU'RE OUTI'll try more of the pushing, the reason I don't is because at my stage, well let's say I'm flirting with a girl I just met and she says "I like bananas" I'd go "reason #356 we would never work out as a couple" slight push on shoulder now if we were standing there's like a 75% chance she'll just kinda turn away and go off. If we're sitting that chance drops to like 65%. The obvious answer here is "well YKY build more attraction beforehand!" And then I guess the next logical conclusion is push pu… | /r/seduction | 16/04/15 05:13 PM |
| 4 | FR:Strike 1, 2, 3, YOU'RE OUTJacking off is a crutch, I was interfering with my approaching, expressing sexuality, and escalation. Why risk rejection and possible embarrassment if you can just jack off in the safety of your home? | /r/seduction | 16/04/15 03:37 PM |
| -1 | FR:Strike 1, 2, 3, YOU'RE OUTOne thing that I feel may be worth noting is that a couple of my HB5 friends (platonic no pussy friends) have called me a 9 or very handsome over the past coupe days. They have said that my looks and confidence intimidate girls. Thoughts? | /r/seduction | 16/04/15 08:32 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Nice Ass and HonestyI agree with the number part but I disagree with the whole not telling her she's cute and telling her to fuck herself. How would I show intent besides kino? And I think the whole fuck you part would just come off as overly assholish. | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 03:39 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Nice Ass and HonestyPosted | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 03:27 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Nice Ass and HonestyFor those of you on the edges of your seats just bursting with anticipation... UPDATE: I texted her 4 hours ago. "Hey (girl's name) it's YKY, nice meeting you today" No reply. | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 03:26 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Nice Ass and HonestyThank you! That's a solid idea which I will try to remember to implement! | /r/seduction | 13/04/15 10:43 PM |
| 5 | My advice to those starting outTalk to everyone you can. I'm trying to fight my fear of being honest with women(like telling my lab partner she's cute) by being honest with everyone. That ripped dude at the gym whose got biceps that would make Hercules cower? Let him know. The nice McDonald's employee that gave you a large soda on the house? Let him know. Your mom and dad that you love a lot but you're afraid to show? Let them know. | /r/seduction | 13/04/15 05:14 AM |
| 11 | Best places/methods to pickup for over 30 ?Overthinking it | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 07:16 AM |
| 1 | I could seriously use some help.What have you read How many nights a week do you go out This sounds a lot like a once/twice/thrice occurrence. | /r/seduction | 31/03/15 05:36 PM |
| 1 | What is proper etiquette for texting between dates?When you say logistics, specifically are you referring to setting up a second date during the ending phase of the first date? | /r/seduction | 27/03/15 06:32 PM |
| 2 | How often should I text herBest answer you'll ever get: "when you're free." Realize that your life does not revolve around this girl. If you're at school, study. If you're working out, bench. If you have a little downtime in between life, text her. | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 06:22 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Asked HB8.5 out whom i've known for years, brought her to the bars, took her home, f-closeI think I do this. | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 05:22 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Asked HB8.5 out whom i've known for years, brought her to the bars, took her home, f-closeI'm curious regarding the no fap section. Do you feel that no fap helped you in some way? Stamina? Pleasure? or did it hinder you and you busted early? | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 10:47 PM |
| 2 | How can I become a better conversationalist?Want to know my secret? I just fucking say whatever comes to my mind (within legal reason). And just build on that. Say the things you'd think are funny! Oh and just be inquisitive about life. Find topics that interest you and learn. It always helps! | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 04:46 AM |
| 3 | How do you overcome long slumps/frustration?This isn't about following a pattern to fuck a girl. It isn't like rub your finger on her nose and her pussy gets instantly wet. The idea of pickup is to increase self-confidence and self-worth. I say it does a pretty good job of that! | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Getting over AAMy personal way: Remember that time that you were running through your hotel, trying to find your room to take a dump, and ended up shitting your undies? And then as you did the walk of shame back to your hotel room, it smelled fucking BAD? occasionally she does the same fucking thing. xD | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Getting over AAit just means I have to work on my approach You can't always control all the variables and therefore sometimes you will lose though. Just a fact of life. | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 01:06 AM |
| 214 | [FR] Trains, French Girls, and Blow.And here I expected a train ride where you did blow off of a French hooker's ass. | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 07:18 AM |
| 2 | How many of you started out good with women, but needed pickup to take it to the next level?My PUA friends in HS joked that I was an "au naturale AMOG" But in reality I was just really outgoing and willing to put myself out there. ahhahah | /r/seduction | 30/03/13 07:35 PM |
| 11 | Is there anyone in the Seoul area that would like to collaborate together?Could someone go into the difference between Western and Korean pickup? It sounds interesting. | /r/seduction | 30/03/13 07:33 PM |
| 6 | [Almost FR] The dangers of over thinking, neediness, and putting a woman on a pedestal. Mistakes I made that may help others.My favorite way to get over approach anxiety, oneitis, almost any pedestal worship is to just remember that she sometimes SHITS HER PANTS. | /r/seduction | 30/03/13 06:39 PM |
| 16 | Seducing a teacher?Watch porn. It always seems to work for those bastards. "Ms. BigTitties, I can't seem to get this French homework" "Well maybe if I sucked your cock, you'd learn better" | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 07:36 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First field report, Kino'd and first K Close in forever. It all started to click but I have follow up questions.hahah sorry! Read this while taking a shit! xD | /r/seduction | 25/03/13 06:15 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First field report, Kino'd and first K Close in forever. It all started to click but I have follow up questions.What does OP apologize for? "Hey sorry I didn't fuck your wet pulsating pussy with my throbbing cock!" No need to apologize either meet up and escalate or just drop her. | /r/seduction | 25/03/13 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Gaming girls you find boring?A couple of questions: Why are you gaming one girl? Game many, spread the fruits of your progress openly among the sensual animals we know as women and your generosity will reward you. We are given 86,400 seconds every morning to enjoy our day. None of that rolls over to the next day, so why would you waste that time gaming a girl you find boring? Either make her validate herself to you as a fun girl or just find a new chick. | /r/seduction | 25/03/13 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Am I fucked?Everyone has problems. Power through them. | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 10:43 PM |
| 6 | [FR] First field report, Kino'd and first K Close in forever. It all started to click but I have follow up questions.Did I do something wrong? You didn't fuck her But still want to remain friends. Since it was just a drunk make out You don't make out with your friends-imagine if a girl took you home, only made out with you and then didn't escalate. You'd be left wanting more. The road from drunken makeout to friendship is one that I have yet to travel so I hope someone else can answer this should I even worry or should I shoot her a text asking if we're cool, saying I didn't mean to make her uncomfortable? If … | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Things took a turn for the worse (FR)Highschooler here, been gaming for 1.5 years now. But enough about my credentials. When you say "ask her out" did you say: *1. "Let's go catch a movie this Friday!" *2. "Do you want to go on a date this Friday?" (notice how #1 sounds much less formal and binding) I'm going to discuss both responses in a little more detail: I would have just suggested a hangout and then sexually escalated in a location where I could get what I want(my car, my house, her room. Idk, wherever you two are alone). No … | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Should I hold peripheral eye contact?Does the pope shit in the woods? One of the main pillars of pick up is to be an approachable human being. If a girl catches you looking at her, you smile and walk up and say "Hey I was born in a church/brothel so my parents named me confession anonymity. What's your name? :)" BTW: I have absolutely nothing against religion, Christianity, or Catholicism. Those are jokes in my neck of the woods so I thought I'd throw them in. | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 07:48 AM |
| 9 | Father trying to intimidate me...The way I'm reading this question "I want to submit myself to the father's completely ridiculous frame, what is the best way to do it?" He is clearly trying to AMOG/intimidate you. And what do we do when someone tries to AMOG us children? We maintain our dominance and show that we truly are the alpha males. I'd start off with a nice strong handshake and "Hello Mr. IFuckedHerWetPussyInYourBedLastNight, how are you doing?" and just spark a nice cordial conversation off that. If he sees you as a ki… | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 06:36 AM |
| 3 | The Art of Non-ResistanceThank you my friend. I have been resisting something in my life too and through the course of reading this, it seems to have just evaporated... Definitely going to bookmark this! | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 05:47 AM |
| 4 | I usually find my self trying to qualify myself to the girl. How do I reverse this and get her to want to qualify herself to me?You're trying to read too deeply into it... | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 10:29 PM |
| 2 | My brain never reminds me of any rejections. But it does remind me of missed opportunities.I totally agree. We have a Sadie Hawkin's dance coming up at my school and I didn't get asked. I was freaking out (because I HAVE to work at the dance and I didn't want to be alone) Today I talked to two girls today and told them to ask me, and while one wasn't particularly receptive and will most likely flake, I'm strangely at peace. I think this just stems from doing everything you can to help a situation and then letting it take its course. | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 10:12 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)What is a "stack forward"? Example please? | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 10:45 PM |
| 4 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Quick FR: Saw a cute girl in the car next to me at a stop light. Checked her out, stuck my tongue out at her. She was completely caught off guard and laughed her ass off. Raced her to the next stop light and then I got her number :) Just live your life man! | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 04:01 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)So do I :D Embrace your inner weirdness, girls love it! :) | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Seduction is a Tool or: How I Learned to Stop Reading and Hate the SedditGood sir, please teach me what these tools are so I can better myself. | /r/seduction | 15/03/13 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Girl told me on date she recently started seeing someone? What should I have done?I'm in a similar situation. (Got close to a cute girl, turns out my friend was her childhood friend, he started getting at her, so I was like fuck it. It turns out that he is a complete fucking beta and by letting him get at her I had squandered the initial attraction) Anyways, now days my goal is just to try to sexually escalate whenever I see her. So I would extend that to you as well. But almost any girl problem can be solved with "find a new girl" I've used this as a lesson to always kino wi… | /r/seduction | 12/03/13 09:16 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "I'm Too Drunk for This"I don't think you should beat yourself up over this man. Personally I would've tried making out with her a little longer(as if I didn't hear her I am a little drunk at this point so I can't be expected to be fully aware ;)), if she shot that down then I would just go home. As for escalation, there isn't a "too fast". You define the tone of the interaction fact. Watch the video from JulienFreeTour on YouTube about "How to get more success on first dates" I think it should help out! | /r/seduction | 12/03/13 03:27 PM |
| 36 | Since writing our top post on relationships, “My Relationship Manifesto: What To Do After You Get the Girl,” I’ve helped a lot of Sedditors via PM. I’m now a professional dating coach specializing in relationships. AMA!I would be interested in a relationship column! | /r/seduction | 12/03/13 03:10 PM |
| 4 | Note passing conversation at library. Please review and tell me what I did wrong or right."What I did wrong" What was your goal with her? Library sex? You got her number. Good job. Where did you fuck up? I don't think you did, a win is a win. | /r/seduction | 12/03/13 03:06 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Texting can WorkEscalate now. Take her out to a movie and gently grab her face and kiss her. "strike while the iron is hot" | /r/seduction | 11/03/13 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Favorite one-liners that always get a laughWoah...why all the downvotes on this?! | /r/seduction | 11/03/13 07:16 AM |
| 1 | You know what, fuck it. Today is the day I make progress.Go out for it bro! I wish you the best! | /r/seduction | 10/03/13 08:57 PM |
| 1 | How long did it take you guys to get your first f-close (from when you first started getting into seduction)I'm right there with you. I laugh at anything and everything. Sometimes people accuse me of being easily entertained or try to devalue me for my easily applied sense of humor. I turn the tables on them(by making them realize how stupid they sound) or ignore it. | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 07:19 AM |
| 2 | How long did it take you guys to get your first f-close (from when you first started getting into seduction)I would advise against that. By being subservient to others, you are inherently lowering your own value and being a bitch. Be yourself man, if you think it is funny, say it. But don't say a weed joke because you think it will make the stoner girl laugh. Say the weed joke because you think it's funny. And if they don't laugh, who cares. Their loss not yours (laughing is good for health) And rejection is just the universe telling you it wouldn't work out to begin with. So don't take it too harshly… | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 09:06 PM |
| 2 | How long did it take you guys to get your first f-close (from when you first started getting into seduction)Oh and I haven't fucked since. What keeps me going? Women should be just a part of your life (in any capacity, even just having girls who think you are a good friend means you have satisfied this) your entire life should NOT revolve around women. If you find yourself doing that, take a step back. | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 08:38 PM |
| 1 | How long did it take you guys to get your first f-close (from when you first started getting into seduction)Learned about PUA from a friend in Nov of 2012 Fucked in Dec of 2012 But it isn't really fair because I'm in highschool and I've always been pretty ballsy with women. My tips 1. Just go out and get experience over and over 2. Always try to be as ballsy as possible 3. Always try to give as few fucks as possible 4. Act on your impulses | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Just "failed" So Terribly, Still FeelsGooMan.jpgProps dude! You did it right :) | /r/seduction | 14/02/13 04:29 PM |
| 1 | days/instances when you're just not really feeling itNo, being congruent to your emotions is fine, if not prefered. Tyler from RSD (look him up but take everything he says with a grain of salt) says that even when he isn't feeling it that he'll let that awkwardness show but he does that so he can let those emotions go and rebound. Sidebar: be careful that your "good feelings" aren't coming from compliments/girls/positive reception to your advances but are instead coming from within. | /r/seduction | 14/02/13 03:58 PM |
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