I met a girl on reddit and we hung out last Sunday. I got nervous because im no good around girls and i didn't make a move (which I feel shitty about). She is still showing interest and saying i should come down and visit her at her college (she lives 3 hours away and was up here to see her family) and I should stay a couple days there. How often should i text her and should i be the first one to text even if she doesn't text me at all during the day? I can't call because my phone only has so many minutes and i need those in case my work calls.