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scenny/r/seduction28/12/13 08:38 PM
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scenny/r/seduction17/12/13 10:23 PM
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1

You like to watch?
/r/seduction10/07/14 01:33 AM
1

I live and work in Toronto and have absolutely no problem meeting attractive girls while wearing jeans. Or going out with them while wearing jeans. Not sure what you're talking about. I agree it's a bit of a superficial city but I've never had any issue to this extent.
/r/seduction20/06/14 05:50 PM
11

A condom
/r/seduction19/06/14 08:45 PM
1

"She honestly sounds like a slut"..."the slut shaming is just a term men use to be like 'bitch don't cock block me I'm trying to get laid'" Game, set, and match right there.
/r/seduction18/06/14 06:39 PM
1

I think it's mostly the idea that these guys don't seem to care what other people think of them, which is attractive. It prevents them from seeming clingy/needy/seeking approval, etc. They don't filter what they say. They take lead in situations. Aren't willing to do shit to make someone happy, etc. You can achieve these things without being an asshole. It's the qualities that asshole's have that can be attractive, not the part of being an asshole. TL;DR don't be an asshole. Improve yourself.
/r/seduction20/05/14 09:17 PM
1

Cat string theory bruh
/r/seduction15/05/14 02:07 PM
1

Take the shit I've been holding in.
/r/seduction15/04/14 12:16 PM
9

She ignored you, you went off and found a new girl. She came upto you, and you ignored her. This was likely her showing interest. Your move of showing abundance worked. But when she approached you, you rejected her. So she played you at your own game, and found a new dude to show you the same thing. Then you expected her to reapproach you and possibly get rejected again? Not many girls are gonna do that. Your options were to re engage her when she approached you, or since you chose to ignore her…
/r/seduction05/04/14 03:44 PM
5

You should probably pay some attention to what women say.
/r/seduction04/04/14 12:00 PM
2

If you're doing it to be an asshole, you're an asshole.
/r/seduction04/04/14 11:58 AM
8

Finally, I can get the boyfriend I've always wanted!
/r/seduction25/03/14 06:16 PM
1

U of T? I wouldn't bother with frats up here, personally. Much different in canada vs the states. Just go to the parties they have and you'll benefit just as much but don't have to pay for friends.
/r/seduction08/03/14 08:39 PM
1

Upvote for T dot!
/r/seduction08/03/14 08:38 PM
1

Most people are usually receptive to meet someone new. If it doesn't seem to be going well, you can just say nice to meet you, and go find someone else to talk to.
/r/seduction08/03/14 08:26 PM
1

Sounds like a shitty person. Next time just eject with a "pleasure to meet you" and walk away. Honestly, if someone needs to feel like they one upped you to make their night, let them have it. They're probably a lot further off being confident with their self than you.
/r/seduction08/03/14 08:22 PM
1

You're thinking about it too much, but yes. If she lets you kiss her head and cheek, and she's touchy with you, the next natural step is to escalate into kissing her on the lips. She lets you do that, you escalate into more sexual shit. Keep escalating. That's how it works. You don't escalate you lose interest or get friend zoned.
/r/seduction07/03/14 06:54 PM
31

I think you're getting oneitis for /r/seduction bro. Get out there and view other subreddits. Practice abundance mentality.
/r/seduction07/03/14 05:02 PM
0

31 is the exact opposite of practicing abundance mentality. You don't want to post about it because you like her so much and you're worried she'll find it? I don't actually care about the approach, but it has hints of oneitis in the description and portrays a lack of inner solitude.
/r/seduction07/03/14 04:03 PM
4

Kiss her on the lips.
/r/seduction06/03/14 08:15 PM
1

She said lol?
/r/seduction05/03/14 06:55 PM
3

Upvote for calling him a weiner.
/r/seduction04/03/14 02:57 PM
1

There's some good value here, not sure why it's not upvoted to the top. Looking forward to reading your next posts.
/r/seduction04/03/14 02:51 PM
3

I'll check it out.
/r/seduction28/02/14 11:17 PM
1

"Why haven't we had sex yet"
/r/seduction27/02/14 05:25 PM
1

How'd she take that?
/r/seduction27/02/14 12:33 AM
30

You ignore them, because they're only seeking validation and aren't actually interested in you.
/r/seduction26/02/14 08:09 PM
1

How short/tall are you?
/r/seduction26/02/14 03:04 PM
7

She set herself a rule, and told you she doesn't go home with strangers, but made a point of telling you she had a good time. Sounds like she was going out of her way to verify she'd be happy to see you again. You met on the internet too. Keep in mind girls are often concerned they're usually not as quick, or strong as guys, physically. Some dude she met on the internet she's been out with once could still be a potential danger. You blew yourself out here, homie.
/r/seduction26/02/14 01:54 PM
2

Rejections are entertaining, nothing to be ashamed of.
/r/seduction26/02/14 01:36 PM
1

Make a move n her when she comes over. Why do you need to be out? Just get high and then kiss her. Sit beside her while you smoke. Then kiss her. Doesn't need to be a perfect moment. Or even better, give her a super, then kiss her. Also, for future reference, this would belong in /r/askseddit
/r/seduction26/02/14 02:51 AM
2

You're not being physical with her at all? No kissing or kino or anything? The non physical time is putting you into the friend zone.
/r/seduction25/02/14 07:07 PM
3

Maybe you're lacking building trust and comfort? If they sense that you're only interested in sex then it wouldn't surprise me if they feel like you're being formulaic and treating them like a number than a person.
/r/seduction25/02/14 05:30 PM
1

We're out like 3-4 times a week. Not necessarily sarging every night but we're both more than capable of taking a set or two off to watch the other. Only 8 upvotes, don't tell the girls. That's definitely the anti-DHV, bro.
/r/seduction20/02/14 06:02 PM
1

Thanks for the post Billy. You don't seem to get enough recognition on here for one of the guys who consistantly give good advice and contribute. I definitely need to talk to my wing and have him look at body language and shit a bit more - we wing each other great but I've never thought about looking at it as an analytic tool, usually we'll just point one or two small things out after the interaction to each other.
/r/seduction20/02/14 01:36 PM
26

"Real or imaginary?" "Battery operated or plug in?" "That's ok. Pretty girls are allowed two."
/r/seduction19/02/14 05:01 PM
0

You're not asking her, you're telling her. She'll do anything you want. "Come over Friday, we're gonna watch a movie." Feel free to add something, maybe "I hope you like kissing as much as I do." but that would be dependent on your personal frame and attitude.
/r/seduction19/02/14 04:58 PM
1

Cool, MSG me your number
/r/seduction13/02/14 04:09 PM
2

Ladies/guys are interchangeable, you're over thinking that part.
/r/seduction12/02/14 04:44 PM
4

I live in Toronto. Let's get together and you can practice.
/r/seduction12/02/14 03:03 AM
3

I don't disagree with you. I was simply stating that I would expect someone who has his shit on lock to be comfortable with the size of his dick. It wasn't a shot at either of you personally. I'm sure your dicks are fabulous.
/r/seduction10/02/14 09:26 PM
4

All you need to do to cold read is make a general statement that someone would want to apply to themselves. It's much easier than you think. "I bet you're spontaneous, but don't like to be too unorganized." "You're probably very protective over your friends, and you stand up for them just as much, if not more, than you do for yourself." "I bet a lot of people think you're kind of shy, but when they get to know you, you really open up to them." Etc.
/r/seduction10/02/14 07:32 PM
36

Swallowin your semens, bro.
/r/seduction10/02/14 07:05 PM
1

Inner game, confidence, being the fucking man.
/r/seduction10/02/14 05:28 PM
1

If you're worried about the size of your dick, aren't you kinda doing it wrong?
/r/seduction10/02/14 05:06 PM
1

Just carry it out like a normal date. Don't make a big deal about it either way. If she brings it up, play it by ear, but I'd just be honest and laugh it off.
/r/seduction10/02/14 04:36 PM
12

The issue with this is if she was looking forward to actually having a date on valentine's day. Then you're already going to make her feel rejected and she may back out of meeting up with you, period. If she already agreed to the date, I would just go ahead and do it. Just don't make any big deal about it. Messaging her and rescheduling would be making a bigger deal than just going through with it. I personally wouldn't have done it, but I've done it in the past - just got drinks at a few bars. …
/r/seduction10/02/14 04:33 PM
0

Not with that attitude you can't. Personally, I don't do coffee shop dates. They're not my style, not my environment, I wouldn't feel comfortable kissing a chick in a coffee shop. Kino and then bounce to another location. Just escalate using kino. Last week I went out with a chick I talked to for maybe 5 minutes before I got her number. Invited her out for drinks. We talked first, I touched her hand when I could (we were across from each other at the table, sitting beside would've been easier). …
/r/seduction10/02/14 03:56 PM
51

This is a cold reading technique that's been around forever. I'm pretty sure it's mentioned in Strauss's the game. It's not exactly to qualify someone, it's about making them think you have a deeper connection with them. The point is that the statements are usually so general, yet seemingly based on their responses, that they're easy for the target to agree with you. They usually fit with anyone though, and if you tell someone something "about themselves" - they're most likely going to agree wit…
/r/seduction10/02/14 03:11 PM
2

If your tone isn't confident and your body language is weak, you're going to seem unsure of yourself. If you don't seem confident no one is going to bother listening to whta you have to say. Work on your body language and you should see a difference in people's reactions. I'm on my phone or I'd link you to some shit. I'll do that later if I need to.
/r/seduction10/02/14 02:52 PM
1

There's an article called Kill Beatrice that I would link that's a very good article to read, but I'm on my phone. Search seddit and you should find it. Also: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQdSKOJIX0k
/r/seduction05/02/14 05:59 PM
1

I had a girl in my bed. Both of us drunk. Making out. Me, not thinking, mentioned her boyfriend that I had just found out about earlier. "I wish you didn't have a boyfriend"...instantly I knew I fucked up. Never recovered other than flirting with her when I see her at work. Moral: sometimes it DOES matter what you say. And don't bring up their fucking boyfriend.
/r/seduction05/02/14 04:17 AM
1

You must have nice hands, then.
/r/seduction05/02/14 04:01 AM
1

Unrelated to your post mostly, but where do you train out of? I do MT in TO as well. Edit - like these dudes are saying, while you did slip up, learn from it for next time. But this time you certainly dodged a bullet.
/r/seduction05/02/14 03:52 AM
1

If you play basketball, shooting 50% is way above average.
/r/seduction31/01/14 01:33 PM
1

First off this is oneitis. You barely know her, you're not in love with her, so stop thinking she's aphrodite. Secondly, don't do that shit again. Are you in high school? Thirdly, send her a private message "hey, I think you're cute. We should go out this weekend/next week (pick a day or two that work for YOU and suggest them), message me your number and I'll text you to set something up."
/r/seduction29/01/14 04:24 PM
38

Don't allow her to set the frame. "It's in a church!?" And "there are too many people here" aren't shit tests. They are literally complaints. This is her being a whiny bitch when you were taking her out for a fun night. I would have told her that I was going to stay, but she was free to leave. Be prepared to let her walk, and enjoy your night. The rest of the comments I would actually view as more bitchy than shit-test-y, as well, and if that's her common attitude I don't think I would put up wi…
/r/seduction29/01/14 04:14 PM
1

Get her number. "Hey, I hate having to log on here all the time. Give me your number and I'll text/call you to set up a date"
/r/seduction28/01/14 02:13 PM
7

How old are you?
/r/seduction25/01/14 07:10 PM
1

Late, but relevant: Http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N5magAtuOaI
/r/seduction25/01/14 06:53 PM
1

In that case I'm going to google translate to italian "hey baby suck on my hot dog"
/r/seduction24/01/14 08:01 PM
1

Why would this be her first assumption?
/r/seduction24/01/14 03:33 PM
4

Be the better man. Competition is none.
/r/seduction24/01/14 03:30 PM
3

Touch them.
/r/seduction24/01/14 01:46 PM
1

Reading the lines - they suck. I'm agreeing they wouldn't work. That being said, if he uses the right body language and delivery, anything can work... But then I don't see why these are the lines he would choose. TL;DR: I agree with you.
/r/seduction23/01/14 03:57 AM
2

Sarcasm
/r/seduction22/01/14 10:59 PM
1

Oh yeah, it's definitely your fault. /s
/r/seduction22/01/14 02:53 PM
4

"I know, just the other day I made out with a dude and he didn't like it. What a fag!"
/r/seduction22/01/14 02:22 PM
3

You're overthinking this too much.
/r/seduction22/01/14 02:21 PM
2

If a chick says "I'm not sleeping with you tonight" then the idea of having sex with you is in her head, right then. Say fuck. Spend more time with foreplay - if you can eat da pussy and get her off a few times before you even start to fuck her, it won't matter If you're gonna finish quicker than you would like.
/r/seduction22/01/14 02:10 PM
1

I use the second option: we should do x tomorrow at time. It's leading and you're more likely to get a positive response as she's complying with you. Probably leave it alone, text the day of for a confirmation. If she messages you, respond, but be "busy." A long text convo can end up causing more damage than good, usually - especially if the date is already set up.
/r/seduction21/01/14 06:29 PM
2

Relevant username?
/r/seduction21/01/14 02:35 PM
1

Hot girl in bed? Check. Get her shirt off? Check. Grab phone and take picture instead of banging chick? Check.
/r/seduction20/01/14 01:44 AM
2

Well, to be fair, a text saying "hello" doesn't really require a response. It's the equivalent of "k." She might have just assumed you were shooting her a text so she had your number. If you want to text her again (and not a lot of people on here would recommend a text convo, but I find a little banter back and forth doesn't hurt if you don't overdo it), shoot her something fun, or something that, while it doesn't require a response, may peak her interest. "What if the hokey pokey really IS what…
/r/seduction16/01/14 02:58 PM
2

Online dating turns 6's into 10's with the amount of msgs they all get. It allows every girl to be more selective, so if you don't instantly have the physical qualities they're looking for (read: 6'0 and above average looking) then you don't get much of a chance to use any charm that may work in person. That being said, I only really use any online dating sites if I'm seriously bored at home. I've had one worthwhile connection online, and that was recent so I've yet to meet up with her. I'm good…
/r/seduction15/01/14 01:59 PM
1

I would like to celebrate this friendship with the adding of chocolate to milk.
/r/seduction12/01/14 06:13 PM
4

I have field tested this.
/r/seduction11/01/14 05:10 PM
1

if you're just throwing yourself at me, chances are I won't want to sleep with you unless you're super hot. Make me feel like you're a bit of a challenge. Guys like challenges, we're competitive. When you come up to us and say "hey I'm Stacy lets go fuck" I'm likely to be like, wait, something is off here.
/r/seduction11/01/14 05:09 PM
58

Send back a picture of your nipple.
/r/seduction11/01/14 04:53 PM
1

Learn from it and remember how many more people live on this planet.
/r/seduction10/01/14 07:36 PM
3

Congratulations! You have subscribed to Cat Facts! Cats have over 100 vocal chords. If you would like to unsubscribe to Cat Facts, text 'stop'.
/r/seduction10/01/14 07:23 PM
8

I can't tell you why but I can suggest that you avoid asking things like that. IMO, at least, it appears as if you're insecure or seeking validation for something. She'll tell you why on her own eventually.
/r/seduction10/01/14 07:02 PM
15

If your friend is interested in her, you should probably bring it up with him or just leave it alone. Not worth ruining a friendship over.
/r/seduction10/01/14 06:55 PM
6

Ignore those asshats. Please post more.
/r/seduction10/01/14 06:53 PM
2

Tell me, what is so amazing about this girl? Lots of women are gorgeous, smart, funny, and hot. You two cearly haven't spoken much, and have never done anything physically together. How do you know you're compatible if you barely know her?
/r/seduction09/01/14 03:44 PM
3

Winter picnic if you don't mind braving the cold. Dress warmly, get a thermos of hot chocolate, thermos of soup, go to a park and watch kids toboggan or skate or something. Or find a skating rink and watch shinny. Head back home and warm up with some sexy time and cuddling. Source: I'm Canadian.
/r/seduction08/01/14 06:49 PM
1

This belongs in /r/askseddit
/r/seduction06/01/14 03:53 AM
3

TL;DR be honest with her, don't be an asshole unneccessarily.
/r/seduction06/01/14 03:40 AM
50

The elusive hot babe 87 million
/r/seduction04/01/14 05:02 PM
4

This is actually next in my pile of 20 or so books to read. Looking forward to it.
/r/seduction04/01/14 05:00 PM
2

You're over analyzing too much. Don't smile so much you look like a fucking goofball ( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PMxJzdVYtXY&sns=em ) , but if something amuses you, or you want to appear friendly, or you're making a comment that she should be aware is playful, then smile. Smile on the approach as well.
/r/seduction03/01/14 07:01 PM
1

Hopefully your penis doesn't disappoint her too much!
/r/seduction03/01/14 06:56 PM
2

Here are a few I haven't seen yet in here. Feed ducks Cooking class Winery/brewery tour fruit picking (actually a lot of fun) Go karting Ropes course Crappy movie night (you each pick a movie you think sounds really bad in a funny way, spend time making out and making fun of it) Maze if there's one near you Paintball (Only good if she's sporty and won't mind a few bruises, not a good first date), laser tag is an alternative option Sporting event Quiz nights at bars. Lots of fun easy to demonstra…
/r/seduction03/01/14 06:49 PM
1

/r/askseddit
/r/seduction02/01/14 05:37 PM
2

With a lime.
/r/seduction29/12/13 06:38 PM
2

You are two separate people, with two separate lives. Live them that way, and enjoy the time you spend together as equals.
/r/seduction29/12/13 06:30 PM
0

Haha, isn't this like every girl ever?
/r/seduction29/12/13 06:27 PM
1

If you're having fun, they'll notice. Joke around with your friends, with people around you, etc.
/r/seduction29/12/13 06:22 PM
4

I think his point is, although that can happen in other venues as well, first it starts with the guys buying her a drink. This leads her to talking to them. Now she's flirting with them, soon she becomes comfortable with that. Then maybe next time she may meet a guy that she has a good connection with, or he's attractive, or whatever, and she gives him her number because he was nice and so forth. Maybe nothing goes any further from that. But now she gives another guy her number and things go a b…
/r/seduction29/12/13 06:12 PM
1

Why wouldn't you pay in this situation? It's a coffee. It's not rocket science here. That's the point of the post.
/r/seduction29/12/13 07:52 AM
8

Thank you a bunch for your input. I wish we had more female input on seddit. My first date rarely totals over 25$. If it does it's probably because I know something is happening afterwards.
/r/seduction29/12/13 01:56 AM
1

Agreed, specifically the last paragraph.
/r/seduction29/12/13 01:54 AM
10

This is a good point and I often use this if the girl is meeting me out on a group date.
/r/seduction29/12/13 01:51 AM
2

A few months is a much bigger investment than a few dates. Coffee date 1, two drinks date two.. Date three she'll probably pick it up. Or at least you know her interest level. Are you dating people for "a few months" without knowing they're interested? I also have never done online dating. Anyway, do what works for you bro.
/r/seduction29/12/13 01:50 AM
1

They are not mutually exclusive. Also, this belongs in askseddit.
/r/seduction28/12/13 09:07 PM
1

Possibly, but if so I didn't notice myself. The thing with getting over oneitis, is you start to realize how many great girls are out there, which leads to you getting over your crush.
/r/seduction28/12/13 09:06 PM
1

"that will get you laid more than any other" is bullshit.
/r/seduction28/12/13 04:18 PM
6

Ah yes, but don't be too pushy if you want to touch the pussy.
/r/seduction28/12/13 04:13 PM
1

Read the sidebar, go talk to more girls.
/r/seduction28/12/13 04:11 PM
1

What kind of passive aggressive shit is 10 day silent treatment? If you send a text that requires a response do you get one? If you send a text that doesn't require a response, you shouldn't expect one. People get busy. Sometimes I'll forget my buddy texted me and reply hours later. I don't really get why this is a problem for you, but your attitude towards it, and the fact that it even is an issue at all, suggests you may be acting a bit needy. Which would be a reason people wouldn't respond.
/r/seduction28/12/13 04:09 PM
2

What are your inner game problems? You didn't give us enough info/details to help determine what the issue could be.
/r/seduction28/12/13 04:04 PM
2

Well, call or text her so she has your number. Ask her her plans for the night. You said you were going to the pub with your friends, although that wasn't true. So if you do go out with your friends, you can say "this is what I'm doing tonight with some friends, you (and your friends) should join us!" Then she can choose to, or she can not. Either way you do what you wanted to.
/r/seduction28/12/13 03:53 PM
3

Invite him to the wedding so he can sleep with the bridesmaids! Wooooo!
/r/seduction28/12/13 03:32 PM
4

Great post. I know sometimes I struggle with logistics if I don't know the girls plan for the night, so I try to make it a point to find out if she's sleeping at a friends or something earlier in the night. It can actually hinder your game if you go for the make out at the bar, and have no where to go for the SNL. Next time you try to invite the girl out, she can be hesitant because of the perceived expectations she may have, especially if she was drunk and doesn't feel comfortable with you.
/r/seduction27/12/13 05:56 PM
2

Sweet now we know your non-throwaway account.
/r/seduction27/12/13 03:41 PM
0

Based on the title alone, this is bullshit and I'm not watching. There's no "trick" that gets you laid. You may have something good in the video, but I'll never find out if you're trying to sell everyone snake oil.
/r/seduction27/12/13 03:38 PM
5

This isn't necessarily true in everyone's case. I think the point of your post is the right idea, but the way you presented it is flawed. Finances take time to "have down." I live in a major city, so the majority of my friends aged 23-30 don't own a place. Sure it'd be great, but just out of university it's not easy to get a job that pays well enough to pay rent where you currently live, pay for a car, all your utilities, and save up to buy a place at the same time. In this big city a car isn't …
/r/seduction27/12/13 03:33 PM
2

My Facebook is a fake name, because 1. I'm looking for a job in my field and don't want companies to see my Facebook, and 2. I don't really want girls I don't know well creeping my fb page. Maybe this is an option? That way if you want to have them on fb, you have to give them the fake name. If they ask and you don't, just say "I don't have Facebook".
/r/seduction27/12/13 03:17 PM
1

Go out and do something to get your mind off her. Go to the gym, or do that hobby you like doing. Stamp collection growing! Or approach. Or every time you think of her, if you can't go out, do 20 push ups. then remind yourself why you shouldn't message her. Then go back to doing whatever it was before you Thought about her.
/r/seduction26/12/13 05:59 PM
1

How would you respond if your friend said it at a table of guys?
/r/seduction26/12/13 05:55 PM
2

I think if your frame is you enjoy giving gifts, you should continue to do so. Nothing wrong with that. As long as it is coming from a place of you giving a gift because you feel like it, not with any expectation in return. I wouldn't get a girl a gift before I know her well, though, because for me, the gift would be something I saw that reminded me of her, or I thought she'd like, and I would need to know her well to do so. If it's your girlfriend, I would suggest you give her a warm welcome ho…
/r/seduction26/12/13 05:52 PM
2

I think the biggest issue with seddit is the lack of guys willing to make mistakes so they can learn from them. A lot of guys jump on seddit hoping to get the perfect answer for the next step with each specific girl. Improving yourself and learning shit like this is about being willing to make a mistake or try something. If it works, nice. If it doesn't, you have to have that abundance mentality so you don't think it's a big deal. Im not sure how many people in /r/seduction saw Billy's post a we…
/r/seduction26/12/13 04:11 PM
2

I think if we do this, just do 1-3 days a week. Every day would get a bit cluttered, I think.
/r/seduction26/12/13 03:56 PM
33

What mood are you killing if she's on her phone all night?
/r/seduction24/12/13 09:17 PM
1

Isn't there /r/okcupid for this? Also there's a bunch of online game advice in this forum on profiles.
/r/seduction24/12/13 04:22 PM
1

Search for house party game. You're the host so you're already giving value. Introduce people to each other, etc. be awesome. Don't worry about messing up with the one girl, focus on having a good time.
/r/seduction24/12/13 04:19 PM
1

The posts that belong in this subreddit are ones that give value to the community, rather than seek it. You know how one of the rules of becoming a more attractive and better man is that you give value to others around you? Yeah.
/r/seduction24/12/13 04:11 PM
3

Body language is important. Try to communicate more without using your words. You can search the sidebar, pretty sure this comes up once a month or so.
/r/seduction24/12/13 03:54 PM
3

Good stuff broheim. I wish I had a wing like you, haha.
/r/seduction24/12/13 03:52 PM
1

This belongs in /r/askseddit Talk to more girls.
/r/seduction22/12/13 11:30 PM
1

Only buy them a gift if you want to. Thanks will do otherwise.
/r/seduction22/12/13 11:28 PM
0

This belongs in/r/askseddit
/r/seduction22/12/13 11:24 PM
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Read the sidebar
/r/seduction22/12/13 11:19 PM
1

Everywhere except the men's locker room and the million man march.
/r/seduction20/12/13 02:00 PM
1

What are you hoping to deduct from this post?
/r/seduction20/12/13 01:43 PM
1

Use the search option. You can talk about whatever you want. Literally anything. What are you interested? Talk about that. If she tells you something that you know about, discuss it. If you know nothing, ask about it.
/r/seduction20/12/13 01:33 PM
1

How would you talk to your friends? Do that. Escalate sexually. Add Kino. Read the sidebar - there's a bunch of info on this. Get out in the field and practice.
/r/seduction20/12/13 01:32 PM
0

Read the sidebar. Use the search function on "approaching" or "opening." "Hi, I'm (name)." Is always a good one.
/r/seduction20/12/13 01:29 PM
1

Is this seriously a topic? If you're asking about this, you probably have much worse sticking points. Figure those out and ask us when you get there, AFTER trying to figure them out for yourself. This is the least of your worries. I've called girls dude, bro, man, whatever.
/r/seduction20/12/13 01:26 PM
1

Talk to more girls. Read the sidebar. Maybe in the opposite order.
/r/seduction20/12/13 01:22 PM
2

Read the sidebar. That has all the information you're looking for.
/r/seduction20/12/13 01:20 PM
1

This isn't exactly a field report. You can answer all your questions by reading the sidebar(!!!!! Do this!!!) And learning through experience. For future reference, posts (about a specific situation or girl) like this belong in /r/askseddit
/r/seduction20/12/13 01:16 PM
2

2 sets may be easier because they'll feel a bit more comfortable with a friend there, and theres one extra person to help the convo along. Anyway, you're not as bad as you think. Everyone starts somewhere, it just takes time to improve. Don't get down on yourself. Today you focus on opening. Next week you focus on the next step, having a 3 min convo. The week after you ask for their number, etc etc etc. everyone gets stuck man, keep it up and keep your head high. Soon you'll be so used to openin…
/r/seduction20/12/13 04:08 AM
2

I agree.
/r/seduction19/12/13 06:14 PM
2

It was an example, not verbatim. And that movie is a classic.
/r/seduction19/12/13 05:45 PM
5

Dude. You live in NYC. Girls are everywhere. Take the train to a neighborhood you can find girls in. Go to williamsburg and hit on hipsters. Go anywhere. For starters you should leave the house. Tough to meet girls without doing that. Find something you need to do, like say, buying a book, and instead of going to your corner bookstore, go to manhattan and find it. Then approach. It's not like you don't have any free time...
/r/seduction19/12/13 05:30 PM
2

Ask whatever you want to know. The questions about what I want to know would probably differ from yours.
/r/seduction19/12/13 02:50 PM
3

TL;DR Take chances. PS - the way you only mention your dad making moves on your mom, I hope the FR is an FR of your dad picking up your mom.
/r/seduction19/12/13 02:45 PM
5

Well done dude. It's always a good sign when her friends have a similar sense of humor to you, usually means yours won't go over her head and she'll likely think you're funny.
/r/seduction19/12/13 02:29 PM
2

I wouldn't have said that if that were the case. I would've gone to the bathroom, came back, and ramped things up again. It was happening either way, she just didn't want to be judged.
/r/seduction19/12/13 04:31 AM
1

nothing wrong with saying thanks. I have a pretty cocky frame and saying "I know" with a smile almost always gets a laugh, or a "oh you" type look. It's congruent with me and the girls can tell I'm just being a fucker about it, but I actually appreciate the compliment. Saying "I know" like "yeah whatever bitch" would not work, however. I do say thanks all the time, though. I'm Canadian.
/r/seduction19/12/13 04:29 AM
4

You're asking too many closed ended questions. Questions that have yes or no type answers. 2nd approach: what are you doing in the mall today? This wasn't terrible, but chanes are the two answers you'll gt are shopping or working... Follow this up with something like "oh, me too! We should help each other out, who are you shopping for?" then you can respond to her saying "my bro, sis, mom, and dad" with "do you have any ideas for them? I have to buy everyone stuff still, I'm so bad with Xmas sho…
/r/seduction19/12/13 04:13 AM
2

"hey Laura, I realized I forgot to tell you my name. I'm TheAmadeusMan. Now we're on a first name basis." while smiling. Then you can walk away if you're feeling too shy or, if you're like a badass, because you are, and she likes you, you can say something like "anything exciting about your day today?" or, "you doing anything exciting over the break?" then listen to her response, and see if you can get a conversation started. If it goes well, after a few minutes you can suggest hanging out. You …
/r/seduction19/12/13 03:31 AM
2

I don't have this problem, so someone else may have better advice from experience, but here goes: If one flaw in every person is going to prevent you from dating them, you'll never date anyone. Just like if Anyone refused to date you for one flaw/disagreement in personality, you'd still be a kiss less virgin. Figure out say, 5 or 10 qualities that a partner MUST HAVE a number of to date you, and 5 or 10 MAJOR problems that would prevent you from dating someone. Make a list. Go from there. If the…
/r/seduction19/12/13 03:23 AM
1

Try /r/BostonSeddit maybe?
/r/seduction19/12/13 03:17 AM
6

Plenty of Fish: turning 6's into 10's since forever.
/r/seduction19/12/13 03:13 AM
2

The field.
/r/seduction18/12/13 06:58 PM
1

I never approach from behind. But to each their own, that's just me.
/r/seduction18/12/13 03:53 AM
1

No harm in suggesting a hang out another time. Some girls will tell you, some won't.
/r/seduction18/12/13 03:05 AM
1

Good stuff dude. One thing I avoid is saying excuse me. I find it sets the frame as if you're bugging them for something. I prefer to just say "hey" followed by whatever it is youre intending on saying.
/r/seduction18/12/13 03:00 AM
1

This is great. Ideally, those non-field tested, no value posts should be moved into ask seddit, if anything. But I definitely agree with billy on this one - I will do my best to lead by example. I think if enough of us do that, it will improve the community and help others understand how seddit should be used. I contributed today with a FR, and will try to keep it up.
/r/seduction18/12/13 02:45 AM
3

Haha, it doesn't happen often, but if you're enjoying yourselves that much it can. I found out the next day that "Angie" approached the table because she thought we looked like a lot of fun, and my buddy was hot.
/r/seduction18/12/13 02:05 AM
2

Why would you fight them? Firstly they out number you. Secondly that would show you're insecure about your relationship with her. Thirdly, the way you handled was proper. You essentially showed no reaction, confidence, and that you weren't intimdated. Any woman that expects you to "fight for her honor" is not worth being with.
/r/seduction16/12/13 06:16 PM
0

Oh bro so alpha
/r/seduction16/12/13 04:13 PM
8

It is with that mentality
/r/seduction13/12/13 08:20 PM
3

You move on
/r/seduction30/11/13 03:48 PM
2

Awww man, so that's what I've been doing wrong. Too much murder and stalking.
/r/seduction20/11/13 12:08 AM
3

Basically this. I open the comments before I open the article. I don't understand why so much dumb shit is getting posted. If you're promoting your own blog, you probably shouldnt have that blog in most of these instances.
/r/seduction05/11/13 02:47 PM
1

Well you either cut her off now, when she knows way less info about you (like where you live) and risk seeing her again in the future, when she is probably long over you... Or you string her along, causing her to become more infatuated and attached to you, and when you eventually break it off she knows a lot more shit about you and can probably cause you a lot more stress. Your decision.
/r/seduction29/10/13 02:45 PM
2

Put condom in her mouth. Have her put her mouth on your penis. Condom on. Profit.
/r/seduction29/10/13 02:36 PM
1

Does anyone know if Models, along with Mark's other books (the travel one particularly comes to mind) can be purchased as a hard copy? I can only seem to find ebook versions, and I like to have hard copies of books. Thanks
/r/seduction29/10/13 02:31 PM
3

The "hey fuckface" or "what's up bro" as /u/penisweed (great name) suggested should work. Go with that a few times, for a week or two or whatever.. While I advocate against fighting as much as possible, especially once you're legally an adult - If that doesn't work, just scrap him.. Assuming you have any knowledge whatsoever of how to fight. Hit him first - aim for the jaw, extend your arm and connect with your two front knuckles (index and middle finger). Don't kick him or stomp him while he's …
/r/seduction29/10/13 02:25 PM
1

I'd definitely pick it up myself if it was available in hard copy. I can't seem to get into ebooks though. But travel advice is always great to hear. I'd imagine it's pretty awesome coming from him. Let me know if you check it out.
/r/seduction17/10/13 03:11 AM
2

What's the title/can I get a link?
/r/seduction17/10/13 01:10 AM
2

Say it even if it's not that strong. She'll laugh unless she's comatose.
/r/seduction17/10/13 01:06 AM
2

Since Bily is handling #1.. 2-smile and say thanks. Nothing to it. 3-record yourself speaking. Listen and think while you talk. Take pauses and speak slower for emphasis. Think as if you're trying to get a point across to a group of people. Or you can take a speaking class like toastmasters or whatever.
/r/seduction15/10/13 02:45 PM
1

A little late but I don't think anyone posted this: http://www.futuristicwords.com/2010/12/kill-beatrice/
/r/seduction12/10/13 03:54 PM
2

It's all good. You I'd wait til tomorrow night or Friday and shoot her an invite for something. Something along the lines of "I'm going to (blank) on Saturday at 8pm with some cool friends. You should join us." She'll respond or she won't. No big deal either way. You did good, buddy.
/r/seduction02/10/13 11:25 PM
2

My most used opener is "hey, I'm Scenny" extend hand for handshake. Doesn't have to be anything original. Also, stop thinking of those girls as someone you're interested in before you talk to them. They may look cute or whtaever, but they might be as dumb as a giant panda. Or maybe they have nothing in common with you. Maybe after you talk to them you'll be like "well, she sucks." They're the same as everyone else until you get to know them better.
/r/seduction01/10/13 02:32 PM
1

Don't acknowledge that it might have been a bad text. Did she respond to the text?
/r/seduction01/10/13 02:25 PM
3

I see what you did there
/r/seduction27/09/13 03:10 AM
1

If she just moved there/is new to the country, she probably doesn't want to move too fast as you're one of the few locals she knows. Sometimes you just need to be a bit more patient. Different cultures and all that, shits strange. I'm dating a Brazilian exchange student right now who comes from a rich family, and she won't do any PDA in front of her friends beyond a tiny kiss, because it's seen to reflect poorly on her family, in her mind, back home. Not much I can do except isolate. Edit - I've…
/r/seduction12/09/13 12:42 AM
6

yeah, this. The worst part is, the guys with oneitis don't want to listen to anything except how to get that one girl, and a lot refuse to admit it is oneitis.
/r/seduction30/08/13 04:56 PM
1

It's not sidebar material, I agree. But it's annoying and belongs in /r/ask seddit if anything
/r/seduction26/08/13 06:21 AM
0

Can we sidebar a tinder thread or someshit? There are at least two or three threads a week about it. And clearly dudes suck at using the search option.
/r/seduction25/08/13 05:52 PM
1

Maybe accepting one of those ONS wouldn't only be good for your potential at dating the girl afterwards, but also may push you out of your comfort zone a bit, which would improve your social awkwardness/anxiety (awkward reduces with experience), and moreover, your confidence as well. Good on you for working on your level of fitness.
/r/seduction21/08/13 03:57 AM
3

Another tinder post? Sheeeeeeeit. There's been a bunch on this in the last few weeks, use the search bar. I don't use it, but a buddy does, and what I can gather bAsed off my short interrogation, is you can pretty much say whatever, since girls can be extremely picky with who they like.. So they're already attracted to you if you're a match with them. Seems like if they're close, all you have to do is get a bit of banter going, then invite them out. "hey, I'm heading to (bar nearby) in an hour f…
/r/seduction21/08/13 03:37 AM
1

You said you're socially awkward - are you only socially awkward until you get to know someone better? Aka, are you just shy? A lot of people use socially awkward like others use ADD. And is it just stemming from a lack of confidence, perhaps?
/r/seduction21/08/13 03:27 AM
2

How do I get to virginia?
/r/seduction20/08/13 04:23 PM
1

You and a buddy can also play girls 2 on 2, so it can be a good way to meet girls.
/r/seduction20/08/13 04:17 PM
1

Yup. I'm never thinking "what should my arms or hands be doing" while I'm talking, unless it's in reference to kino. And even then it's natural.
/r/seduction15/08/13 05:24 PM
9

Try to avoid asking questions that give one word responses. IE, instead of "do you like baseball?", you can ask "so what do you do for fun?" she responds..."we'll, I like to go for hikes, go to baseball games, and collect rare coins." You now have 3 topics you can expand on...a) hiking, b) baseball, and c)rare coins. Let's say you go with baseball.... "oh, that's cool! I was at a baseball game last week and it went into extra innings and some cool story I can relate to this point." then you can …
/r/seduction15/08/13 05:23 PM
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I'm white, and I'd be pretty unattracted to any sort of racism in a girl. It just doesn't line up with what I'm looking for. I wouldn't go as far as saying these girls are racist, as everyone is entitled to their own preferences and so forth, but I wouldn't waste my time with girls that are seemingly proud of completely excluding a race from potential dating partners. I think the word you're looking for is discriminatory.
/r/seduction15/08/13 04:48 PM
4

This. I game waitresses often enough, and you just come across as a dick, at least in your post. Not sure why you feel the need to be condescending... You can demonstrate value by not being an arrogant POS. Lying about fucking girls because it's "necessary"? What part of the game is that? She probably looked butthurt because she got a shitty tip for putting up with an even shittier customer.
/r/seduction12/08/13 05:49 PM
1

So then just ask as you would anyone else.
/r/seduction10/08/13 05:18 PM
2

I'm 5'8-5'9, generally I find most girls your size or shorter won't have a problem with it. Some will, but plenty of girls do. ThoseL girls you probably wouldn't want to waste your time with anyways. There are also chicks taller than you that won't care you're shorter. Just game on like usual.
/r/seduction10/08/13 05:13 PM
6

I'm sick of being involved in this love triangle!
/r/seduction09/08/13 06:38 PM
1

She can also take her hand away from yours, if she would like to physically thwart this particular advance.
/r/seduction22/06/13 03:34 PM
1

So in this instance "her actions" are the permission. Can "her actions" also not be the permission for sex? Or is this a double standard because it makes sense to prove your point?
/r/seduction22/06/13 03:30 PM
0

Your posts are always excellent, billy. You know your shit. Thanks!
/r/seduction21/06/13 06:45 PM
1

Ask her to picture war/use snapchat. Might be a bit more unique to her than boring old text messages.
/r/seduction21/06/13 05:29 PM
4

Not doing day twos for your reasoning is bullshit. 1. A date doesn't require her to give her friends an explanation. 2. If you're as boss as you were being last night, and she sees you in that frame, who gives a fuck if you're 5'3" and Asian. You're still the coolest dude in any given room. 3. Why wouldn't you try to get a day two? Giving up before you even make an effort is only going to result in a failure down the road when you meet a girl you want to date, and don't know how to get a day two…
/r/seduction16/06/13 09:39 PM
4

This. Figure out a gameplan and stick to it. If he wants it more than you, let him have it. Don't be greedy, be a good friend and wing. There will be plenty of girls at the bar.
/r/seduction15/06/13 05:34 PM
12

id prefer the wingman chapter for sure.
/r/seduction14/06/13 08:23 PM
1

2 months is a long time to wait. Forget about it til she comes back, then pick up where you left off.
/r/seduction11/06/13 05:38 PM
1

It can only get better!
/r/seduction08/06/13 06:28 PM
1

thanks dude, much appreciated. Feels good to know I did about all I could. I even joked to her "so when I bring you home will he be waiting outside the door" and she was pretty much like yup. Anyways, not too sure about going on a date with her, probably more of a "a bunch of us are going out to a bar, come tag along" since she's on vacation/in a foreign city and I find thats a better way to approach girls that want to, essentially, party.
/r/seduction08/06/13 06:16 PM
1

Hey tofu, always appreciate your insight and posts, looking forward to the book. Ran into this yesterday. Last night I met a chick here for a month. Made out with her, she was with a dude who was clearly into her. She was definitely into me, but he wouldn't let me isolate and was full on cockblocking. My wing was high on coke so he wasn't much use either. I had her agree to come home with me, but she felt bad about leaving her friend as she's the only person he's met here (no surprise there). I …
/r/seduction08/06/13 05:47 PM
3

Take her out to do something she's never done - something adventurous. Go to another town/city and explore. Or go zip lining or rock climbing or something. If you want her to be social, then when you go out to a bar with her, sit at the bar and open other sets. Show her how fun it is to be outgoing. She won't change instantly but you should notice a difference. Sometimes these are tough to calm down. Especially if you're going out partying. You can always have a quiet night in with a bottle of w…
/r/seduction05/06/13 08:40 PM
2

"excuse me, I have to attend to something" then walk three steps away, whistle to yourself and check your fake watch. Really though, a simple "it was nice to meet you, I should get back to my friends." is fine for bar/club. Or anywhere assuming they don't know if you're there alone or not. Can always add "talk to you later" if you want to leave the set open.
/r/seduction24/05/13 07:38 PM
1

Short term swole!
/r/seduction24/05/13 07:31 PM
2

Up vote for always looking for an excuse to drink!
/r/seduction23/05/13 07:15 PM
4

Opened for the roots before. Thought is mad cool. I'm not surprised he did that cuz he's nice but I doubt it's an ordinary thing so that's awesome!
/r/seduction01/05/13 04:52 AM
1

Ask her. She's making it obvious she wants a date.
/r/seduction30/04/13 03:11 AM
1

A step in the right direction is a success.
/r/seduction28/04/13 11:55 PM
6

Don't talk to her about her art form. Just regular ass shit. Pretend you have no idea shes an artist (not literally, but in terms of conversation).
/r/seduction17/04/13 03:46 AM
6

Change "do you guys wanna be my friends" to "you guys seem cool, mind if I hang around with you for a bit." or something similar to that.
/r/seduction12/04/13 08:07 PM
5

I would exclude the sorry. I just disagree. Youre setting a frame that she can expect you to text all the time, and thats boring, predictable, and if you date her for a while, not the expectation you want to set. No need to apologize. "good morning :). I was swamped at work yesterday and didn't get a chance to text you (or say hi, or whatever you prefer here)." you can even add "hope your day was exciting." or something, which, although it's not demanding of a response, if there's something inte…
/r/seduction03/04/13 04:30 AM
1

I live in TO. I can't really say by I haven't noticed much of a difference, but from what I've read it's harder compared to other places. One thing I notice is eye contact is not the norm here, it's almost seen as aggressive/weird by some girls. Be confident and you'll be cool. Once theyre receptive youre in. I'm away end of march but if you're here after April 1st ill kick it with you guys. I'm 26. Otherwise pm me if you have any questions.
/r/seduction14/03/13 04:14 AM
1

Main thing is kino. Kino kino kino. Even high fives and shoulder touching. Just get them used to you being a touchy person. It's won't be creepy if you don't act awkward about it. It's all a natural thing, happens without you even knowing.
/r/seduction22/02/13 04:31 AM
1

I live downtown. What type of atmosphere are you looking for?
/r/seduction22/02/13 04:09 AM
3

Stop calling her "the one." shits weird and sounds like you caught oneitis for a stripper. Edit - your tldr says you got 4 dances because you tipped her twenty.. I'm confused.. You made it sound like you paid her for the dances too...
/r/seduction10/02/13 04:11 PM
1

Hope this went well. I know when I was in sobe in november there were a ridiculous amount of pros. Made it more difficult. Wish I saw this earlier to help you out.
/r/seduction12/01/13 04:40 AM
1

So you either did awesome so you're fucjing her non stop, or it didn't work out... Hope it went well.
/r/seduction12/01/13 04:33 AM
2

It's only awkward if you let it be. Fuck it.
/r/seduction27/12/12 05:10 AM
4

in terms of k closing, one thing that has worked well for me is play the five question game, then when the chick fucks up and loses and claims it's not fair, suggest you try again. this time, on question 3, you ask "how good of a kisser are you on a scale of 1-10?" whatever she says, you say someshit like "i don't believe you" or "really?" or whatever, and bam... move in. or you can just do this the first time around in the game.
/r/seduction10/08/12 02:51 AM
1

i practice Muay Thai, play in a co-ed baseball league, i'm learning a new language (first is spanish, followed by thai, and then german), training for tough mudder, and i make music.
/r/seduction23/07/12 05:35 AM
1

just search seddit for push pull here's a start. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/u76du/lets_compile_a_list_of_linesroutines_for_pushpull/
/r/seduction14/06/12 03:48 AM
2

what he said. but you're also mostly teasing/pushing, do a bit of pulling too.
/r/seduction14/06/12 03:07 AM
1

same deal with me, only i live in toronto. any way you'd be willing to ship them up here me and eandi could pass it off to each other after the first one. edit - wanted to add this is very generous of you, regardless of who ends up with stuff.
/r/seduction02/04/12 09:08 PM
1

i'll do it with you if you want. sent you a message
/r/seduction07/12/11 07:06 AM
1

i am not, wish i was. let me know if somehow this happens though. thanks and good luck
/r/seduction01/11/11 05:16 PM
2

any chance of getting a blackberry version of this? I write shit down on my phone in my notepad but it's a pain in the ass going through each of the different files or scrolling through a cheat sheet. it'd be greatly appreciated if it's not too much trouble (not sure how difficult it is).
/r/seduction01/11/11 12:47 AM
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