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I'm googling it a bit everything says it's a "financial clique". Is this what you mean? I'm living in Japan and haven't heard of it before so it's interesting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 09:19 AM
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What's a Zaibatsu?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 09:13 AM
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I live in Japan and you are bang wrong. After you live here for a few months, you adjust and the women not only age but become fucking stupid as well
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:56 AM
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You stand to get bored in a marriage or bored as a single person. Whatever you do you need balance. You need to find out what makes you tick for yourself. If you get married then you have that heavyweight responsibility. If you stay single then you have the opposite, no responsibility but you might get lonely. Keep Tindering and meeting new girls? Focus on living like you couldn't if you were married. That could mean keep using tinder, it also means lots of travel and making the most of your hob…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 10:30 PM
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Everyone seems to be terrified of becoming a "cuck" or having a woman trick them into getting them pregnant. This gives us a possible reason why high n-count is looked down on. People are saying it's an in-built biological thing. As I understand it, pre-contraception casual sex carried significantly more risks. Does anyone care about the N counts of childfree women? What about childfree men? Do they give a shit? Generally the dating pool narrows as people get older, and by the time you get to da…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 10:00 AM
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Could you expand a bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:21 AM
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They have dildos and sex toys of all shapes and sizes for women. Men can just use their hand and a bit of lube. Men are probably jacking off more than women . Plus the whole enormous porn industry is geared at men rather than women. Women are so horny some of them flash their tits at concerts. Isnt this just doing something wild that they cant do usually? When going home with a guy, one of the first things a woman will say is "We're not having sex tonight". Her mind is already on sex. If she's g…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 04:45 AM
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No it's fine. Most people take it into account anyway but aren't explicit about it. I think that guys are starting to factor it in a lot more now too. Why get with a low-earning woman when you can find one who can pay her own way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 03:23 AM
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I'm not sure about this. Remember that readily-available contraception is fairly new. By establishing a system of social shaming for promiscuous women, men who would otherwise be left were able to keep spouses in relationships they'd rather have left. Promiscuous women were likely to end up pregnant, and it makes sense that guys in the past would want assurances that a baby he was charged with raising was his. Likewise, a woman who got pregnant by a man would want some kind of assurance that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 03:01 AM
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Cuckolding. You don't want to put all your resources into raising a baby that isn't yours. On the female side, I think they do have some aversion to players in the sense they don't want to get used. Plenty seem to make the guy wait. This could be a similar thing , not wanting to use resources for no longer term gain. I dont think you can talk about just this aspect though, there are some strong cultural elements involved. Men who are promiscuous are viewed as high value as they get what they wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 02:43 AM
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I'd probably go for the daughter as there's less chance of her spiralling into depression . Moreover, if she is a dickhead then you essentially get to wash your hands of her when she gets married anyway. Whereas the son sounds like he'd be moping around well into his 30s. If he was just a nerd though, I could handle that. I'd coach him in PUA. Encourage him to try out being gay. Take him to a brothel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 10:38 AM
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Because the car usually isn't trying to fuck them. Are men able to consent when drunk?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 10:25 AM
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In the end they might just enjoy the buzz of it. I don't care that much about it myself. But I've found that I don't tend to get on that we'll with girls like that. I've had a few LTRs and some casual things, in the end someone with a similar experience works well for me as we are generally on the same page. Girls with a lot of experience like that tend to be too much for me, very extroverted and in your face. You might even say too confident. Girls with no experience are annoying to handle as y…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 10:13 AM
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That's right, the horror
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 09:44 AM
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Sounds like you have some big issues with relationships, no offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 09:18 AM
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It puts them in a different light as a person. Your past shapes who you are, you can't get around that. Women have judged me for things I have done in the past, and that's up to them. For example "once a cheater always a cheater". In my opinion, if the guy doesn't want to date her anymore he should break up with her and that should be that. Even if it's just his gut feeling, it's up to him to choose how to deal with it. I'd wager most guys could put it behind them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 09:11 AM
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Let MGTOW fags be fags. They're harmless .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 02:30 AM
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It's bullshit but not far off from the truth. If I were a celebrity then I'd be keeping all records of consent. If women get their way though, they'll be able to withdraw consent AFTER the fact though so you'll still be a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 02:26 AM
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That is of course the innate threat of feminism. We're establishing social standards of our own which include treating men who act like this like men who exhibit what we consider to be glaring red flags and potential dealbreakers on our side. That's all. Something we have every right to do. But when our ideas become something of the standard of modern dating and what people expect, well you can see from the thread some people got upset with him for not conforming. Feminism isn't changing everyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 02:21 AM
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There's a lot of girls that have that kind of thing on their profile. The way you put it there, I think it's fine. Fair enough if she knows what she wants and she is going for it. The ones that are annoying are the ones who say "I want a rich man. I'm a strong, independent woman who deserves to have a rich man look after her" type girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 02:16 AM
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Nah, fuck you. He has the right to walk off if he wants and it doesn't make him a shitty person. It just means he has standards. You don't get to judge his standards, cos you could be wrong. Well, I guess you do but he doesn't have to listen . He could be wrong, but he should be free to make his own mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 02:09 AM
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In the end, men aren't allowed to act on their instincts. Or rather, they are but theyre better off not whining about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 01:59 AM
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Right. The thing about nice guys is that they don't see women for what they are and they don't realise that many women will put up with a lot of bullshit if they like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 01:49 AM
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In the end he had a visceral reaction to it, he's allowed to have feelings like women are. It clearly bothers him a lot, why is that childish? Should he just bury his feelings then? Men aren't allowed to have gut reactions or feelings, that is clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 01:43 AM
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Why would having orgies and a lot of consensual casual sex mean someone can't be a good spouse or parent? Lack of moral standards. You don't want a ho raising your kids. Someone who has slept around as much as she did is a slut, and you don't wanna bet your life on her changing. She can always change back. This kind of judgment of the past is almost always done exclusively towards women so I do think it is sexist. Bullshit. I've been dumped before when I let on about my past. Girls will dump a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 01:36 AM
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This is completely random thought that has nothing to do with OP, but high-key I am really jealous of high school sweethearts. I see two getting married on my Facebook feed, and I see my little's sisters high school sweetheart's still going strong in college. Makes me sad that I did not get that kind of love, just short relationships :( What's this waffle ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 01:28 AM
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I'm a fan of orgies and I have the most well adjusted kid I've ever met soooo... Course you do, everyone does This guy though, is an emotional child who holds her responsible for his own emotional reaction. He felt bad and blamed her. This refusal to own your reactions is a halmark of straight (especially white) men and to a lesser degree men in general. How dare he
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 01:26 AM
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It seems like it is mostly beta men who want to have children. What do you base this on? In my experience, women are more aware of getting the family started at an appropriate age and instigate the start of the family. Most guys I know do seem to count having children amongst their ambitions too though. This is quite interesting because it kind of contradicts the narrative from some evolutionary psychologists that women want to lock down beta men in order to secure financial security for their c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 06:08 AM
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My boyfriend loves watermelon flavored candies (I think they're disgusting It's not sweet that he has this preference it's a red flag. They are disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 05:56 AM
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MGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 05:52 AM
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Men mostly want to get into discussing stuff and women prefer to post pictures of themselves on social media. It's the different ways we get validated. Women want the approval of their group for their looks and their lifestyle to confirm their social standing, men want to look deep and like they have important ideas to confirm they are leading meaningful lives .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 05:18 AM
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They draw conclusions about those people without having met them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 02:00 AM
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And yet we have a whole anti red pill movement, the members of which probably have had little to no real life interaction with the guys involved in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 01:52 AM
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Being ignored is worse I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 01:45 AM
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Like others have said, it's.most likely asserting your needs. If you are very considerate of women's feelings then you tend to overlook your own. Example - A friend of mine was dating a few girls, one wanted to be exclusive. He said no, he still wants to sleep with other girls but also see this one. She gets upset, he stands firm. She comes to accept it. This could be asshole behaviour in that people might think he's taking advantage but essentially he was just asserting his wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 12:31 AM
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From the summary of the advice you post it sounds like waffle although it's good in one way - if she can shift her way of thinking then she might feel better. It might be dishonest to her core values but it might give her some breathing room. My advice would be she needs to get a realistic view of her career potential and start on a path. One that is comfortable financially but gives her some kind of satisfaction. Sounds like she thought she was more talented than she is, and clung onto that for…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 12:19 AM
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This is interesting cos I always say "women never marry up." I guess it's inevitable that that will start changing. I do wonder how accepting women are of these changing times. Do they tie masculinity into status and if so do they view men who are not doing as well as them in life as lesser males? My job is not the best paid and plenty of people do it as a stop gap or cos they can't do anything else. When I was single, just saying what my job was could get me deleted on tinder. On the other hand…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 12:03 AM
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AskMRP is generally quite entertaining. Tough love. TRP is entertaining in small doses.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 03:29 PM
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I think it's ok to mention what you'd like in the future early on sure. Do you have filters for people who brush it off though? If you started talking about kids id say "yeah I want them some day" or something vague like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 08:39 AM
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Expert advice here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 08:20 AM
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Salvadorean with pride
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:56 AM
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Have you stopped jerking off ? What do you do that gives you satisfaction in life (hobbies etc)?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 12:01 AM
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Ebb and flow is how I'd best describe it, albeit I've not lived with a girl more than 4/5 years and not been married. In my experience, it's not always the girl's fault. My drive can lower when I'm working a lot or having a busy time socially. Also, it's essentially on tap, so I think less of where the next fuck is coming from. I can think "hmmm, I'd like to have sex" and be having it within 30 minutes, whereas when you're single you are basically planning your life around it. I cut back on jerk…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 10:57 PM
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Both sexes make poor choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 10:49 PM
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As a guy on a reasonably modest amount of money, I'm not looking for a woman who needs my financial support either. Not in today's world where she can have a career . That's just going to lower the quality of my life and turn me into a walking bank. It doesn't make sense for a guy to LTR with a girl who is significantly worse off than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 10:57 PM
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It depends on the circumstances. If youve been seeing someone a while and there are clear, well-intentioned feelings then I think you are owed an upfront rejection. If you find out someone is cheating on you, then ghosting is justified as it denies them the chance to hamster their cheating to a place where they feel validated. If youve just been on a few dates, it's a shitty thing to do but having been on the recieving end many times it doesnt feel that bad after a while. You keep your hopes in …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 05:48 AM
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Where I grew up there wasnt much of a culture of bullying, which I realise now was quite nice. It might have been because everyone was trying to become adults, so bullying seemed wrong. If you thought you were harder than someone then theyd fight you, but to avoid that you just had to not walk around like you were a hard guy. Most of the people who were like that had left school by about 15, so whatever bullying there was left was just people who had jokes made at their expense. The real terrors…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 04:33 AM
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Red pill is primarily concerned with how to keep men on the upside of a power dynamic during dating in a world where more than ever before you have to create such inequalities because they do not exist. Id say that men are on the wrong side of the power dynamic in nearly every respect, the pendulum has swung to the other side. "Equal" relationships are usually ones in which the woman has more power due to ability to branch-swing and other things like custody laws. On top of that, men often dont …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 04:03 AM
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It seems that the suicide rate is rising for women, particularly older women, any thoughts on why this might be? What could explain the higher rate? At a guess, maybe that women now have to face up to the same pressures that men do and it makes them depressed. I urge any woman who believes that having an equal working life is going to be golden era for women to be cynical. One thing you can bet on though - women will get help for it much quicker than men have ever been able to. In fact, the best…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 03:54 AM
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I was going to write something about women needing to start a family before it's too late, but 50 is unlikely a good age to start a family right? So it's probably women looking to benefit from his life savings and comfortable lifestyle as they age. From my mid-30s point of view, when I was dating a lot it became a real drain on my time and energy so I had to become more picky if only for that reason. I had to limit it to about twice a week or it intefered with my normal life. I imagine a 50 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 02:54 AM
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Maybe that's what he's into.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 01:56 PM
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Yeah it's not an easy position to be in. But for example, if he had a more simple record of how much they were having it then he could say "look, this isn't enough for me". Clearly the way he went out to blame her directly wasn't a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 11:14 AM
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When I was younger I used to focus on getting the woman off as some kind of achievement. I realise they didn't like it as much as I thought. There's pressure on them to actually have multiple orgasms for a start. Then I realised it was actually kinda selfish in that I wasn't letting them feel the way I felt about being able to give . On top of that, while there is a place for marathon sex sessions it's certainly not every time you have sex. I also think it can get pretty boring for them having a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 10:55 AM
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Probably not the best way to go about it but we dont know what was happening during the time he was making the spreadsheet. I had an ex who had an app on which she would mark when we had sex, something to do with her period I think. It was kinda fun to see when our best and worst months were. I think it could be a good idea to do something like this to keep track of things. With the app one thing that was surprising was what you can forget. Like you had it every night one week a few months ago a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 10:28 AM
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The truth is that women are happier than ever before. Why? Because they reason society exists the way it is today is because women want it that way. This is one of those things that you cant really measure . On top of that, the exaggerated examples you give makes it difficult to take you seriously. That you write "bucko" as well, just compounds it. All in all, I have seen guys get triggered by this kind of post; but this is one is way too OTT.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 09:22 AM
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Go watch a happy old couple that's been married for decades. Watch the man's eyes. Sure, he may appreciate some young woman's ass in yoga pants or whatever...but watch his eyes when he's looking at his spouse. If you're paying close enough attention, you can almost see the filter click on when his gaze settles on her. In that moment, he's not seeing the same frumpy empty-nester that you or I see - he's seeing something wonderful. To me this could be projection. He don't know what an old couple f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 10:19 PM
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As a mid thirties guy myself, it's sad to hear that your confidence is so fragile. You probably need to rethink your values a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 11:16 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 08:09 AM
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Dating based on racial stereotypes is pretty dumb and happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 10:55 PM
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As with most threads about age gaps I'll say what I always say - most people stick to people their own age give or take a few years. That's clear. There will be some people who don't. I wonder does this start happening in the 30s when some guys start letting themselves go? Could be one reason for it, there are probably many others. I wouldn't bet on drawing any realistic conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 10:48 PM
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What do women imagine when they watch it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 02:11 PM
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I've read a bit of your posts and from your point of view I think that the answer is yes. Some of the points are contentious though. For example, whenever I've moved in with girls the cost of living has gone down or remained similar and quality of life gets a bit of a boost as you have someone making food for you and doing half of the hosiework (at least). Plus I've wound up with more space or at least a lot more.privacy than if I share with randoms. I could afford my own place but where I live …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 09:05 AM
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Yeah wouldn't surprise me. I doubt much at all has changed in dating except the tech
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 11:59 PM
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No way hahaha. That sounds like fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 07:49 AM
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They're both ok. Just different experiences. If it's a slow build up then that can give you a buzz cos you are more mentally involved. You might not know for sure if it's gonna happen but then boom it's happening. It can also be good for it to happen really fast though, cos again you might not be expecting it and suddenly you're getting your dick sucked in the shower in some hotel somewhere. I used to love waking up unexpectedly at a new girls house after.just meeting them and going through thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 07:47 AM
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(AKA if she was easy before but it is hard to get now, I am not interested in her) How would you find this out though?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 07:39 AM
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My strategy for now is to keep being social and active/busy, hit the gym, hang out with people and spend less time with the girl. Without plating anymore. Is that fine? Sounds alright yeah, quite a good balance. One thing I like about having a relationship is that I have more time to do other stuff than chase tail. You will need to be quite firm about not spending that much time with her though, as you'll probably find that is the first thing she tries to encroach on. She might expect increasing…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 07:09 AM
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While I'm not a big fan of the wall idea, using models in fashion shoots to prove the point is pretty lame. 9/10 women are not going to look anywhere near as good as that, at any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 06:44 AM
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When I started people didn't even have mobile phones, so you had to call the girl you wanted to ask out. This meant you had no obligation to text which was good. Without online dating the pool of potentials was much smaller, so you made do with the options you had or you went without. It wasn't hard to hook up though you just went to a club and spoke to people and something would always come along. You had the five to two (1:55am) girls for example, who were a bit ugly but if you got to that tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 06:14 AM
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Well plenty of them make poor choices with their men so in that sense you could say quite a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 11:09 PM
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Meh, it's probably not going to be an issue if she has the good sense not to overshare about her past anyway. Your claim is a bit silly though, the thing is that girls will do any shit for a guy if they're really into him. Refusing to do something she did before indicates that the attraction isn't really there, she might be just into you for resource purposes/comfort. It's not hard to understand it. Think of something you really like in bed that's a bit out there, then imagine asking your partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 11:00 PM
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I think there's a case for sending unsolicited dick pics yeah. It's reasonably cut and dry cos the conversation is right there so it'd be clear if she wanted it. One ex of mine said she used to exchange pics like that with fully grown men when she was as young as 13.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 09:41 AM
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A few months ago I was chatting with a female friend and she was asking about my gf. I decided Id show a pic of her, completely forgetting I had also taken a dick pic quite recently as well. You can guess the rest. The worst thing was there was no reasn for me taking the dick pic as I didnt show it to anyone (intentionally anyway). Let's just say she was very kind about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 09:37 AM
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I think that's quite a nice idea. I work with some overweight people and they always moan about it, but if you suggest doing activities to them they always shrug them off with excuses. They're probably on some forums like this , where they can moan about shit and feel accepted for being a waste of space. You can only lead the horse to water.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 06:43 AM
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Who exactly is saying this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 06:35 AM
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That sounds about right. Also, there's an obvious shitload of virtue signalling that goes on . She's a slut, look at me I'm so much better kind of thing . Women slut shaming is just how it goes. If men do it it's suddenly a crime of the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 06:19 AM
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My thoughts are that men don't give that much thought to it, it's nearly always women who slut shame each other. Like 90% of slut shaming is done by other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 03:26 AM
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My bet is that a lot of men and women are not that good at sex but rather think they are. My honest advice for men is to stop trying to get the woman off everytime and just focus on getting yourself off. She'll be just as happy having occasional orgasms. I used to jump through hoops to get women off every time, I realised they often don't mind if I just get off. If I'm having a sexual relationship with someone then I think it's better to view it as a whole sex life rather than a one off deal whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 03:18 AM
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Then it'd be shit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 09:14 AM
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It's not a poetry forum
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 09:02 AM
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Men don't explicitly say it matters but most people stick within their economic bracket. In terms of long term partners I mean. So there is a dealbreaking baseline of success for most men. Women make it more explicit, often specifically stating they want someone who is well off or at least comfortable. Many seem to feel entitled to it even. For some it seems to get them wet. Furthermore, women know they have a chance of marrying up whereas men know there is little to no chance. So they never hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 12:15 PM
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I spent some time reading that sub and a good deal of the posts are LDRs, and a fair amount of them are kids whose high school sweetheart has gone off and promptly started banging everyone. It's basically branch swinging. One keeps the other one hanging on cos they provide emotional comfort and deeper levels of friendship. They're basically wanting to make sure they get something genuinely better ready before cutting the cord. It seems like the issue is the guy hasn't learned to set any boundari…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 10:25 PM
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"Single post wall women are no longer attractive and settle for the bottom of the barrel while married post wall women some how manage to get a man better than the one she got in her youth" Who are you quoting? Women who branch swing go for someone better than the guy they have at the time. It doesn't mean someone better than the ones she had in her youth. So they're not really contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 01:38 PM
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http://lmgtfy.com/?q=Freeze+fear
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 04:58 AM
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If your head is all fucked up like you say, it's best to not read any of this shit. Go cold turkey. In the end, if you can't make up your own mind then you'll always be a chump.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 04:51 AM
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Well ideally I need to cum about twice/three times a week to be at my optimal. Once a week at a push. I quit beating off so it's a good job I have a gf. If there was no such thing as masturbation, guys would be a lot different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 10:29 PM
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It doesn't look good demographically. Don't take it all at face value though, it's a weird place. One thing I found is that sex is less of a big deal generally in Japan than in , for example, the US. People don't seem to attach as much importance to it. Plus there is also the staunchly popular pay for play scene. It's Asia, so there are blowjob bars, happy ending massage parlours and prostitutes all over the place and they're not expensive. The dudes who pay for weird stuff and masturbarmtion ai…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 10:18 PM
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The new taxonomy of Japanese sexlessness also includes terms for groups such as hikikomori (“shut-ins”), parasaito shinguru (“parasite singles,” people who live with their parents beyond their 20s), and otaku (“obsessive fans,” especially of anime and manga)—all of whom are said to contribute to sekkusu shinai shokogun (“celibacy syndrome”). Ill mental health and a shitty economy. The biggest factor I have seen might be that the hassle of getting married and having kids just isn't worth it now. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 11:55 AM
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Id say women are more assertive at the moment as a lot of men are not, raised to be nice guys. That isnt to say that women are defacto assertive, plenty of them are pasive-aggressive and manipulative. You also have this thing these days where women want to be seen as being assertive and standing up for themselves even if it's completely unnecesary. Often it takes the form of virtue signalling. Men tend to pay it down a bit more IME. Do you think these findings from children could be applied to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 08:57 AM
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Would feminists have better luck in changing male behavior norms if their message was framed in more of a "here's what you SHOULD do if you want to attract women" sort of way? They already do this. It takes about 3 minutes of considering it before you realise they are talking bullshit. In my view, those in the latter camp simply haven't been taught the right skills and protocols for interacting with women Looking good and not being autistic. It seems to me that, if framed in the right way, these…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 10:02 PM
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You havent had any period of time where you did casual dating or even had much fun in your life yet right? You need to focus on that first, sort yourself out and learn how to enjoy yourself. Judging from your post, if you did fall in love with someone and went out with them, there is a good chance they would walk all over you. This left a very big disappointment in me, and I didnt care about girls for 5 years. ( I know its a lot ) This is essentially a giant temper tantrum. You need to stop bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 09:54 PM
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But most people I know who are dating, knew each other for a while first. Sometimes years. This might not be the 'nice guy' strategy at all. Did they go out from the start thinking that they'll just be patient and gradually win her over? Over those years, were they staying celibate and showering her with attention and friendship? Unikely. More likely is they were just in the same social circle and it just panned out that way. That isn't a nice guy dating strategy particularly. Why do you treat i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 09:51 PM
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People want to believe that they'll make one big change in life and that will solve all their problems. They'll find one job that will fix all their money problems, they'll find one unicorn woman and their sex life will not be a problem anymore, they'll move to another city and everything will be better. I guess people want to believe that there is a pay-off for all of the struggles they go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 09:36 PM
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I would love to find a significant other, but it seems like so much work. Working out, having multiple hobbies, being financially well off, cold approaching, being witty and confident, being her best option, being Alpha, going to social events, and a bunch of other stuff. So do you mean you dont do exercise, are not focused on your career, dont go to social events and dont have any hobbies? Forget about women for a moment, you are still young now but if you dont do any of these things you have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 09:31 PM
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Usually they are the emotional punching bag. The women they are with never seem to know what they want or what's keeping them from being happy. What's going on? They're betas who never learned to set boundaries or manage expectations. They probably give in too easily, so their wives never had a good framework on which to pin themselves to. They probably do too much to please their wives, so their wives have become entitled. Their is a constant need to keep their wife happy. This just spells it o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 09:17 PM
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There is this dude who comes over once In a while to buy alcohol for her. At first I thought my aunt became some kind of alcohol hooker. But she said explicitly to him in front of me that she doesn't find him attractive, and she would never start anything with him. She told me personally how she declined his advances every time and how she made it clear that nothing will ever happen. She says he is disgusting to her, and she wonders why the fuck he sticks around but she doesn't care because of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 03:41 PM
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Interesting, but those women are very very young, not adults yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 05:51 AM
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If you go to Korea, China, Japan and have even partial game you can tear it up. Haven't had much experience of Thailand but when I went it seemed like most girls are basically whoring themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 05:42 AM
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Alright. Make sure you have fun while you're on the hunt!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 05:37 AM
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Not sure about Asian women. For sex, anyway. East Asia is the easiest place to get casual sex for Western guys, without a doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 05:36 AM
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Nah you can definitely get laid in countries like that. You still need game though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 05:20 AM
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Alright. I'd say don't get your expectations up too high. I've lived abroad for a long time now and it doesn't always go like you might think. On Tinder you'll get matches purely out of curiousity a lot of the time. From your initial post and my knowledge of Poland, my guess is if you moved there you'd fall for the first 6 out of 10 that you slept with and you'd get betaed hard. Poland isn't that poor, and my guess is that the girls aren't too fast to put out without getting something (like comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 05:09 AM
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What was the conversion rate in Poland? In other words, how many did you sleep with?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 04:37 AM
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Nice revenge fantasy. How's the anger phase working out for you babe?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 02:36 AM
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Like heaps of compliments, talking with them all the time, and wanting to be with them all the time (which is strange because I'm very much a shy introvert). But only if I'm sure that the like is reciprocated by her. Yet I've noticed that there enough women who are turned off by that behaviour that I've taken note of that and dialled it back. Look at it from their point of view. Why is this kind of behaviour off putting?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 01:47 AM
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What? Who? What people ? What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 12:36 PM
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I agree, but most guys will get at least some kind of honeymoon period of as much sex as they can handle. Not that they are often aware of this, as they assume commitment defacto equals sex. Which can be wrong, as you say. If nothing else, reading RP ideas made me more aware of the value my commitment holds. If I had one chance to spread an idea, Id have to say that is the most valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 03:48 AM
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Nah. She's just in her "monogamous phase" like she was in her "slut phase" during college and then she'll be in her "open relatinship phase" next or some flakey shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 11:47 PM
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Neither, theyre both ruined goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 11:40 PM
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This is probably correct. In my view this could be because a lot of men believe that commitment is the gateway to sex-on-demand (which it often is). Guys need to realise this and put a higher price on their commitment. They dont tend to though, cos they're unaware of what they've got or haven't got.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 02:31 PM
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Choosing unsuitable partners and then whining about it on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 02:03 PM
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Really? Pretty much every guy I know does stuff about the house. Do you live somewhere "traditional"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 10:20 AM
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Well can't they vet for it better? If it's that important seems that they should find someone who believes in sharing the duties. Unless you're complaining on their behalf and they don't really mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 09:49 AM
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What does MOG mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 09:26 AM
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Do you mean you cant find a dude who pulls his weight around the house?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 09:21 AM
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Most men view household chores and taking care of children as effeminate and think it’s the woman’s responsibility. He could be only making 12/hr while the woman is the breadwinner and he would still view it as the woman’s job. It would be her own fault for marrying a guy with old-fashioned attitudes in that case. No modern men I know see doing chores as effeminate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 08:31 AM
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Compared to when? 2017? 2008? 1998? 1958? 1858?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 08:25 AM
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The woman also has a lot of strain in the relationship; she has to clean, cook, bear children, be pleasant, provide emotional support, manage finances, take care of both the household and her career and so on. This is what women wanted. If a woman is more financially stable, but is just ugly which brings down her SMV/RMV to men, she will only be burdened by the low income low value man in life. SHE will be the one to have to clean up after his messes and provide for him. Many low value men are N…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 08:17 AM
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I totally got a boner reading this. DM me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 04:02 AM
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No. I never thought it was scientific.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 12:47 AM
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I disagree. I think most women are sexually attracted to the men they marry. I do too. But in some cases the question is - to what degree are they attracted?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 11:56 PM
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Bonus Q4Men: Would you also prefer a girl that you'd see a future together not sleeping with you from the first date? An indication of interest is very good because I'm probably talking to a few girls and time is limited. But it wouldn't bother me either way if we had sex on the first date, probably wouldn't make me judge me too much either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 11:39 PM
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I'm sure there's all sorts of weird and out there things going on there. My guess is that the communist legacy gives them certain working rights and probably other rights, but the guys seem like guys and the girls usually seem quite feminine. I don't know much though .
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 01:17 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Western_world Do Western anti-feminists and RedPillers think that women are oppressed in Russia, Poland, Mexico, Argentina, Cuba? Are they oppressed in the city of Prague? In Rio and Buenos Aires? Id put Poland and Czech Republic in with the West these days as they're both EU. Russia Im not sure about, seems like the gender roles can be quite traditional. The sheer size of it prohibits generalizations though. It seems like in Latin America there is a lot of macho ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 12:01 PM
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A pregnant woman could be a liability to a company
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 10:55 AM
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It’s only one of many patterns you see in hetero couples and hardly the most dominant. Could you point me towards some other examples ? I'm a bit sick of reading about RP stuff these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 08:04 AM
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Yet if someone complains that all his job applications are being rejected, would people tell him "you're not entitled to a job!!"? Yes I would and have.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 07:40 AM
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I'd say 'ok' and then probably forget about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 07:38 AM
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That means you don't neg Making fun of women flirting does work a lot of the time. you don't intentionally wait X hours to respond to a text No, but if you always respond right away you look needy. you don't act disinterested to "game" women Never heard of "play hard to get"?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 07:37 AM
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I've seen a lot of people use it to explain why they blew it though. The common scenario is "When we got together I was all fun to be around and focused on myself. Then I let the relationship take me over, stopped standing up myself, let myself get boring, got weird."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 07:28 AM
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You could say that at your age it doesnt apply, because you are probably living off your parent's money? I have two older sisters. They are routinely embarrassed when looking back at old photos of themselves with various guys. They weren't as picky with guys when younger. They are with some dorky kind of unattractive guys, but back then, they didn't see them that way. I guess. I think this has truth in it. Looking back on when I was growing up, I could say what I saw was groups of people dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 07:18 AM
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You would think twice about starting a relationship at work from now. But also a lot of guys would do well to keep their interactions at work with women strictly work-related. If I were in America then I'd probably consider recording my workplace interactions or something. Basically, no evidence is needed to bring you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 10:31 PM
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As someone perhaps about the same age as you, I think that it comes down to health more than looks. People know that they have to try if they want to keep their weight down after 30. My parents generation are all messed up from smoking and drinking way too much. People know a lot more about nutrition than before. Health seems to be much more highly prized than before. As for being treated younger, it's always been a positive if people treat me as a bit older than them. You get more respect and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 10:19 PM
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Maybe not. The shift to more automated working is going to come soon and someone I don't think companies will be in a hurry to share the wealth so that people can live easier lives on less money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 11:11 AM
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Family not so much. They tend to like everybody (especially if they drink) and still ask about exes I haven't spoken to for years. My friends have always had some influence on it cos they have to hang around together at some point so it's a decent measure of character. If my friends don't like her then something is probably up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 10:56 AM
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I think this might be true, but agree with the other comments here that this post is in itself a desperate plea for validation yourself. If they're that sad and pathetic , wouldn't you just ignore it altogether? You clearly spent quite a lot of time and energy on this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 10:46 AM
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My n count isnt that high, and I dont tend to get on with women like that. It makes sense that youd LTR with someone who has a reasonably similar amount of experience as you. I have reason to believe that as long as a woman stays hot and keeps your balls empty This is assuming they are good in bed. It's a tired old trope that women like that are better in bed or that they get better with experience. Most men would go for the younger model every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 07:28 AM
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Have you ever felt envious/jealous of a partner? How did you handle it? No, I try and support them and share in their success. Have you ever felt the brunt of your partner's envy/jealousy? How did you get past it? Just tell them to get over it and make fun of them. We are adults
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 03:58 AM
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Id do it like married red pill. Where they quit blaming women for everything cos AWALT, and they hold the guys to account for being the orchestrator of their own fuck ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 03:52 AM
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TL;DR - Sometimes it is said that men who defy the gender norms display a "security in their masculinity" which is sexy. People who say this are sticking up for faggy guys cos they get bullied. Goth guys are fags, and it's only their culture that affords them to be like that. They want to "make a statement" about their gender and are basically attention seeking teenagers. Isn't it funny how like 95% of them drop the act when they get to the age when they need to work full time? Phonies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 03:43 AM
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Go on then. Tell me how it's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 02:06 AM
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Back in the day (1900's-1980's) American families generally followed a traditional family model: A husband, wife, couple kids all living in a nice, picketed fenced house. The husband would go out to work, earn the money while the wife stayed home and took care of the house and kids. During that time there weren't too many complaints (though there were still some issues) regarding dating and sexuality. Everyone seemed to have a place and whoever played their role well had a sense of maintained ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 09:29 AM
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35 RP I'm British, so pretty much all I do with my friends involves alcohol. It's been that way since I was 15. I reckon I'm good fun but im feeling my age a bit, I can't really handle a lot of being social it works better in small doses for me. I spent most of my twenties drunk or high, and I'm kinda over all that now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 04:34 PM
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No, fuck that shit. Im not in a hurry to give away my upper hand!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 04:31 PM
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Ive read red pill stuff and comment here, but I wouldn't tie my identity to it. You walk around telling people you are any kind of "pill" and you're going to look like a fucking moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 04:27 PM
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Blue pill is by definition someone who rejects reality to live in their fake world. So it's not likely .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 02:24 PM
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For instance, I’ll be going to a party in about a week. People are beefing and already talking about having guns and daring to shoot each other. This makes a ton of people excited, but it makes me soooooo uncomfortable. this is something ive never ever had a problem with. This sounds like some American shit. The problem youll have with conflict is if you cant be assertive in your relathionship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 03:07 AM
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it's alright, she wasnt that fun anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 12:58 AM
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Exactly, fuck that. Id rather roll wit the punches in the free world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 12:52 AM
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My nan is dead, so yours is probably more fun now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 12:51 AM
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its nothing to be scared of
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 12:46 AM
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I guess one definition of non-hypergamous could be 100% loyal. So a dude could join a religion or culture where that is enforced. For example, Islam seems to have hypergamy quite well-controlled.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 08:31 AM
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Women being hypergamy isn't a negative point. It's just the way it is. It means you should make sure you are doing well yourself, dont let yourself slip or you'll wind up getting fucked over. Guys who get upset about it don't understand what's going on. They still think life is all about loyalty and One True Love, they don't understand women. You have to learn to embrace female nature and hypergamy comes with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 08:19 AM
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Clearly not invite only https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 08:10 AM
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The sidebar is freely available and Im not sure what you mean by it's purple
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 08:10 AM
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Yeah I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 01:39 AM
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They try and change you. Some women seem like they have found good raw material and the project starts now. Like a toy or pet or something. They constantly need attention. Even if they are sick of you and hating you they want to hang around you all the time. They constantly need to go shopping or to go out and do some stupid shit for no good reason. And then get upset if you tell them to go alone or with someone else. Bean counting with chores. Childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 02:36 PM
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whether you like it or not - it is the god damned truth. The species is fucking with natural selection. Hell, I'm helping to fuck with natural selection, too, as a biochemist. And that's generally a good thing - fewer weak and diseased humans is good in my view. Is this truly species-wide yet or is it not limited to the richer specimens? Also, do women select for health or looks? We might be better-looking but it doesnt mean healthier. and men would get stuck in a traditional lifestyle, and howe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 08:41 AM
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You need more sinking in time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 10:25 PM
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You are the man. Now, let that sink in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 10:04 PM
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As people have said, you can aim younger if you don't want an LTR. The other option is aim for the ones 40 or just above who have given up and are usually just up for casual. It's also not that hard to find women who are in denial about age mattering with babies and who think theyve still got another ten years. As for the group you identified, I have found that plenty of them won't state upfront that they want a baby as they know that'll put you off. Plus, there are women who would rather be sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 09:39 PM
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Something like "ok I get where you're coming from but sometimes you need to be a/the man". And let it sink in don't force the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 11:41 PM
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You asked if we look back with regret
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 12:42 PM
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Why would I regret it? I miss those days not particularly cos of the girls, but just the feeling of not giving a fuck about much and just going out to get fucked up and have a good time. The girls were always just a bonus on top of that. The best time I've had with women in terms of quality and quantity has been since I got single again at 33. But the adrenaline rush isn't quite the same as when I was young, there isn't a big gang of misfits anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 12:09 PM
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Status for most people doesn't exist in a meaningful way like it used to and the concept of the male hierarchy is something that primarily exists among men, for men, and they're the ones actually paying attention to it. Why is it so rare to see women dating down in terms of social/economic class? I contend that is all untrue for the majority of women and that modern dating centers around the seeking of connection and companionship But you need to get a foot in the door before a woman will consid…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 09:31 AM
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Could you give us a clear definition of what you are criticizing? Ive read a lot of red pill type stuff and Im not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 09:05 AM
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Guys can hide their insecurity pretty well. It's not uncommon for a guy to get dumped cos he turns out to be soft as shit when he lets his mask down to his gf. But they get some loving before that. Been there and done that. I guess guyshave a higher tolerance of it but I dont think girls get away with it wholesale. Insecurity can manifest into jealousy, possessiveness and other nasty behaviour that can and does put some guys off. Another point is that girls who are insecure about their body are …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 09:00 AM
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I believe she wants to be my equal because she has stated that, it is possible that she feels she can't express the truth or doesn't know the truth herself. Well Id take her word for now. But that is the kind of stuff that gets talked about! If she can't express her real feelings because they are taboo, then youre in for a rough ride down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 10:26 AM
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Well there is something to think about in your post here. You say the sexes should be open and cooperate more, but what makes you think your partner wants to be your equal? She might, you might, but if one of you doesnt really like that arrangement then would you really be willing to go against the narrative? You never know, in the end she might want someone to look up to or a leader more but she can't admit that because she has been conditioned. Im not trying to get at you, but this is the type…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 09:46 AM
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mean most people get married right?. I understand the idea is that the women are just "settling" but it would seem odd to me that women would get married just to leave once they have a shot at an alpha. I mean I read a lot of r/relationships and r/relationship_advice and all those marriages and relationships fail because one person is a total jerk to the other. Like they make 0 effort, and their partner still works so hard to stay with them and to make them better. This is true for men and women…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 09:02 AM
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Well it cuts a bit deeper than that. I guess most guys will have an idea of attraction but most guys will have been led to believe that there is someone for everyone, they'll find their one true love, etc. Basically if you keep being a good, nice and etc person it'll work out for you. There is the idea that you find someone, settle down and it's happy ever after. What often happens in reality is you find someone, think you've found someone ideal and then it all goes to shit in some way. And that…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 08:42 AM
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First and foremost, due to politics and socioeconomic circumstances, women no longer require a man for support. Without agency for a man, women now look to them solely for companionship. This is an idealistic and unrealistic statement. First of all, just because a woman can have a career it doesn't mean that all women will have successful careers and not need the support of a partner. Second, a single woman having a successful career could still very likely have trouble keeping up with married c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 07:15 AM
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Right
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 10:28 PM
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They originally came as two separate legs that you put on one leg at a time and then tied together at the waist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 10:23 PM
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I don't think the stigma will go away any time soon. Women don't want their husbands using resources on other women/sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 10:17 PM
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Deep. This could be a good Kill Your Ego red pill post if it was trimmed a bit and had a bit about lifting in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 08:32 AM
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Women are fucking useless at using tools
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 04:01 AM
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Did you check the PDF? http://advances.sciencemag.org/content/advances/4/8/eaap9815.full.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 11:42 PM
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Honestly I think you're probably right in a way. From my view, purely from opportunities a younger guy stands a much better chance. Someone in my age bracket just won't meet that many 18-22 year olds. That's not saying it can't be done, but it's unlikely. Once you get to your 30s, you're just not going to be hanging out in those circles and you look dumb if you do. The thought of going to a club where young 20s girls hang out makes me feel a little naseous and it's tiring to even think of that. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 10:29 PM
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Dude, purge week is over already
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 10:15 AM
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Oh trust me, I know all about that!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 01:46 AM
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According to 80/20 posts I've read, you're automatically in the top 20% if you can get casual sex. So I'm in the top 20%. I never thought of myself as top 20% before that, in fact I hadn't considered how attractive I was much whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 01:37 AM
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Right, I understand thst. So, here's my advice to you - now you know there isn't unconditional love, what are the conditions which you would accept for a relationship? And i mean any kind of relationship. If you don't want something serious you don't have to have it. Figure that out and you can move on from the anger phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 11:56 PM
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Then how have you ever bought into the fairytale of unconditional love?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 11:11 PM
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Yeah we got fed some bullshit, we also got taught how to think critically about things and make judgements based on our own experiences. The type of love a parent has for their child is essential because the child doesn't know anything except for what their parent teaches them. Someone you date is usually a fully grown independent person. So of course it's different. And we aren't taught that that is the same kind of love anyway. Do you wanna date someone like your mom? I mean have you ever thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 11:00 PM
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Well, I don't know. I don't have any kids. But I'd think that it's probably a good thing to love children without conditions yes. Now what's the connection to loving your children unconditionally and your romantic partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 10:44 PM
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You don't talk about children in your post. And loving your children is very different from loving someone romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 10:27 PM
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I'm only still in touch with 3 or 4 people from Uni now. Basically what happened was everyone moved back to their home town or went to somewhere else to work. I have a few on Facebook but they're all married with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 10:22 PM
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Love is unconditional accept for EXTREME circumstances This is a young man's viewpoint. I know because I was one once. You will realise if you love unconditionally, then that is exactly how abuse and neglect happen. This is because you can't draw boundaries and you let your standards slide because you're wrapped in a fantasy. My own experience with "unconditional love" was that it is the honeymoon period, where you get a strong rush of that feeling. It wears off after a while, and it's definitel…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 09:46 PM
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Did you mean dying alone or growing old alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 10:49 AM
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Yeah sure, I agree. Doing things directly for getting laid though, usually don't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 03:23 AM
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Because when girls and guys realise that you work out to get laid, you look like a fag.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 03:15 AM
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Caring what women think about you doesn't make you unattractive. Spending five years getting pumped up in the gym for the primary reason that you think girls like it is not a good mind set.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 03:12 AM
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If you can prove that she did it intentionally, can't you take her to court anyway in some capacity?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 12:27 AM
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www.indy100.com/article/most-popular-sex-positions-europe-uk-us-map-7520976%3famp Overall, more than a third said doggy style was their favourite. Missionary came in second at 23 percent, followed by cowgirl at 19 per cent. Cowgirl there is apparently the third most common. I think that you could potentially refer to that as the woman being dominant but you have the problem with BDSM having cornered that term. Most think of dominant as being a power balance thing, as another user says you might …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 11:06 PM
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You don't really say why this would be better. Or did I miss something?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 10:54 PM
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So, the people I’m talking about are mothers who intentionally lead men to believe they are the fathers of children they’re not, for whatever reason. If you can prove she did it intentionally you wouldn't have a case anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 10:51 PM
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in fact my belief now is womenn are more concerned with face and height over muscle and body fat where as for men it all about weight and youth (I am only talking about physical attraction) , Feel free to correct me if I am wrong. You might be right. You might be scrambling to think of why you've put all the work in and not got the results you wanted. It might be both. I dunno. But what is obvious is that you always did and still really, really, really care what women think of you, so you won't …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 03:02 PM
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The tall woman probably has it hard because she's embarrassed to go out with shorter men, despite there being loads of takers. Boo hoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 02:30 PM
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Well sorry you got offended but you did ask. I guess if it works out then you have a good experience somewhere new. But not only are you risking money on these jaunts but also the time sink. Easy enough to find someone close to home no? Unless you live somewhere small town.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 06:31 AM
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Personally I've had a ton of success with dating over forums by just PMing a ton of girls then getting to know the ones who PM back. Sure it helps that I make enough money that I can buy plane tickets and it's no big deal if everything falls through and I lose that $500 or whatever. But I've met 10+ different women all over the country this way and only had one bad experience. I've met women from reddit, I've met multiple women from this sub, I've met women from many other forums and I've been m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 05:24 AM
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Little confrontations that you avoid because you don't want to upset your partner or you don't want hassle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 02:01 AM
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It matters because it's directly linked to happiness. I think you need a good awareness of some of these things or you could be bound for living an unhappy life. But for me I'm not sure it has mattered for a while. Your priorities must be different then, and that could be a good thing for you. But then can I ask you - what brings you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 10:25 PM
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Don't you get a buzz out of meeting someone new that you like?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 10:13 PM
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Meh, you'll see bickering about these things in the forum. Going to the gym is one of the easiest ways to look better and feel better. It sounds better to say "Lift!" than it does "Exercise!" or "Go swimming!" For masculinity it's probably better to do martial arts or some kind of boxing and girls certainly like guys who do that. But the results aren't as fast and efficient with time. If you're training a beginner, maybe you don't want the nuances. If your prodigy still has basic puppy fat and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 10:10 PM
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Seems like he was quite helpful to the guys who were outright being abused though no?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 10:21 PM
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Well elite levels of success might require that sort of talent but not without training and hard work. I guess a lot of people are happy with the improvements that they can be afforded to their talent. Don't you remember that Michael Jordan quote ? I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 01:57 PM
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Probably a little more specific to their industry/field rather than "achieve the giant within" shit. A lot of them are mainstream best sellers. The Carnegie book is a sales book originally I think. My point being that this kind of self-improvement is very very common place, it's just that there is a taboo on it. People want to see people as being naturals. You honestly think people will get worse at social skills if they train at them the right way?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 01:33 PM
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Well if you know people doing well in the business or sales world, chances are they've read stuff that could be described as self-help. Also, think about areas like fashion, exercise, look at how popular meditation and the like is. What about TED? Look at how quick everyone on Reddit is to advise counselling. "Mindfulness". The whole women's magazine industry runs on articles about how women can help themselves. Seems like a narrow view to think it's useless. Yes a lot of it is clever marketing.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 01:04 PM
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People say stuff like this a lot but the people I know with possibly the best social skills etc. have spent time studying stuff that could be bracketed under self-help. Usually they do it for work purposes but end up with quite wide ranging benefits. People I know who have learnt about finances are usually better with money. People in business often read books about social dynamics and communication. Makes sense to study something if.you wanna get better at it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 12:35 PM
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Alright then you carry on. I was just pointing it out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 11:09 AM
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Seems husbands can go off their wives as well
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 11:04 AM
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I take the cash to pay for both of us but usually they'll offer to pay half. Then I'll suggest we pay for what we wat cos I usually eat and drink a fair amount more and it's only fair. I've paid the whole for a fair few dates. The ones who've bought me dinner were usually older than me. Once she was married and it was on the husband's credit card.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 11:01 AM
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On the dead bedroom sub there are a lot of female posters too, just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 10:58 AM
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Ultimately, I just think men are fuuuucking jealous and angry they would spend their teens and twenties lusting for girls which they know could get laid much more than them, and they just need some form of payback. This might be the case, but it doesnt mean they can't use n count as a dealbreaker if they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 08:38 AM
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What kind of sexual history does your partner have?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 02:03 PM
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I'm just even more confused than I was
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 08:45 AM
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So because he made a show of himself and cried then he's a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 05:25 AM
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I like doing the dishes but not the greasy pans. Vacuuming is kinda therapeutic. Sorting the garbage out sucks a bit but doesn't take any time. So, maybe ironing. I don't mind the act of doing it but it just takes a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:35 AM
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And no matter what you do, you can't escape this realization. You can't avoid this stuff, your brain will continue to fixate on what you don't have and how you pale in comparison to your more successful peers. Sure you can "cope" but coping doesn't last forever does it? You'll always be reminded in some way or another of all the sex and experiences you're missing out on and will never be able to experience in the same way as more successful men. I've managed to not get too upset by it so far . T…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:30 AM
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Age usually
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:24 AM
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I genuinely do like female company. I grew up with lots of female friends, without much of the social divides that seems to permeate American culture (jocks and all that shit). I just need a balance between male and female company. Essentially I think guys fuck up relationships cos they don't really know how to handle women and assert themselves properly. Now I'm not saying that you should have a relationship if you really don't want one, but just realise that there are plenty of guys out there …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:46 AM
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Alright then I choose all 3 to the maximum amount
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:32 AM
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Divinely beautiful with just a dash of dazzlingly clever. Can't mix and match. Bog standard looks or intelligence?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 12:44 AM
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But if they're dating you, don't they automatically hamster that they're in the same league as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 11:35 PM
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Agree for the most part She then has the power to leave him for anyone else that will be ready to fuck her within 1 hour, and she has that bargain over the cuck for his entire life. If you've got a few casual fuck buddies, they're probably fucking someone else right? That's not ideal. Because afterall, you gain nothing from it, only lose. My LTRs have all been with decent women so not much to regret. The sex was very good, it's good to have company. Used the time I would've used with casual on g…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 11:14 PM
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In case of a situation like this, as you said, they weren't victims at all were they? Read your own post. We both know that girls like this are severely damaging to the cause of getting such crimes taken more seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 05:04 PM
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I support this due to the fact that I've had about three conversations related to feminism in the last five years. You have to go and look for it to find the outrage (in my world anyway). I've literally never met a woman who is hardcore feminist. The most feminist person I know is a guy who creeps girls out at work by trying to get them to talk about equality issues. Likewise the women who rail against the red pill. I can't believe you've had more than two or three real life meetings with a red …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 04:40 PM
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This is probably a question that would be better for step dads, don't you think? Unlikely that an actual grown up would have the time to be dicking around on this forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 04:32 PM
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But they're lower tier girls themselves. They just seem better compared to white women. Hang out in any of the places long enough and you'll adjust. The hot girls stick to their own kind, the lower tier ones bed up with white guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 04:17 PM
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It's a narrow minded view
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 04:12 PM
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Without a doubt. But on PPD talking about race is banned so it doesn't cone up. Speaking from personal experience, it seems like the dominant race gets preference in the place they reside though. If you go to Japan, for example, the hottest girls are all with Japanese guys. White is still predominant in America so it's to be expected. Also, you can't mess with someone's (women's) sexual preference so that side of it is more left alone. If someone (a woman) only wants to date within a single race…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 04:11 PM
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No real man wants to do that. They think it's a good idea cos they can play their childish games all day and not have to talk to adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 04:01 PM
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But being young girls, none of that would stick whilst your son would probably still have a shit reputation for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 03:54 PM
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Disregard sexual assault victims in case of a situation like this? Not likely. Maybe hang back and not ruin his life until something has been proven, I thinks that's the law. Also, it's very very clear to me that false accusations do harm to genuine accusations. Maybe try and make sure that blatant false accusers like this are properly punished ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 03:52 PM
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Very middle class post
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 03:45 PM
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Sobered up yet? he Hubs was finishing an instance in World of Warcraft so I decided to make a quick post before we watched the new South Park. Right I take it back. I should've written "Mommy's drunk again..."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 09:08 AM
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If I suspected it might not be mine, I'd just do my own swab test.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 08:57 AM
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Can't you buy swab paternity tests anyway? Just buy one and do the test when she isn't there. If it comes back that the kid isn't yours then you see a lawyer. If it comes back that it's yours then she need never know about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 08:56 AM
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If you wanna go to a club go to a club . Don't need to navel gaze this much fucking hell. the
/r/TheRedPill05/10/18 10:01 AM
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Are you talking about single mothers ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 09:54 AM
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Am I drunk? Yes. Belligerent? Maybe Is this the women of PPD? Your husband's gone to bed early (again) cos you're ranting (again) so you're taking it out on the forum?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 08:55 AM
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Bullshit are you 46. This is a troll post.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 10:35 PM
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sips sparkling water At least they drink adult drinks, whatever colour they change to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 01:20 AM
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