Especially if they aren’t financially stable or have some type of problem. The woman also has a lot of strain in the relationship; she has to clean, cook, bear children, be pleasant, provide emotional support, manage finances, take care of both the household and her career and so on. This is double the problem if the guy has serious issues in life like being unemployed, low-income, very old, no car/house, an alcoholic, drug addict, or criminal. By definition, a low value man will have a low income. If a woman is more financially stable, but is just ugly which brings down her SMV/RMV to men, she will only be burdened by the low income low value man in life. SHE will be the one to have to clean up after his messes and provide for him. Many low value men are NEETs dropping out of society, not attaining their education or are simply terrible at managing their finances. Some low value men are straight up abusive and HARMFUL to a woman's life. What good is his commitment if he can't add anything positive to her life and only brings her down? The relationship will be absolutely miserable and she'll be in a worse spot in life than she was before.

Men should ask themselves what makes them worthy of commitment first, because a man will be supported the nurturing love and care of a woman in his life. Men are human and they also need emotional support, genuine affection from someone who truly cares about him, soft nurturing arms to depend on, and he will be completely dead and empty inside when he can’t have that for the rest of his life. If he has to die alone without the love of a dependable wife and children, or even just a girlfriend who helps him out whenever he needs it, he will be ultimately unhappy. Endless casual sex is hedonistic and a nice temporary band aid, but it's a sad and empty existence if it has to be that way forever, this applies to both men and women. Women look at a man's education, career, assets and general place in life and ask themselves if they really want him to be the father of her future kids or husband, if he doesn't measure up then he isn't chosen as a LTR option. Men's commitment is very inflated, they are only the gatekeepers of commitment if they have their life together and are financially successful.