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If you're having sex to get anything other than joy in the act of having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 01:43 AM
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What about when your wife refuses sex with you because she's not feeling it? Will men like you be more willing to handle the reality of that because they knew her rating and still bought a ticket on that ride? And your own rating... if your own rating is high and some of your daughters have high ratings too... will you be more understanding of their behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 12:08 AM
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It is a hypothetical and you don't have to talk about it if you don't want to... rest of reddit is thataway and there's a real world outside too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 12:01 AM
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When I say that, I mean I may find one but she doesn’t want it back. You're significantly lower value than her in that particular marketplace or you don't meet her needs. You maybe need to find places where you can meet and get to know the sort of women who aren't using the dating apps in a serious manner... those who don't use them at all or the "shits and giggles" crowd. There are far fewer women using dating apps seriously than the app owners would have you believe. BTW the women who are into…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 01:26 PM
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Not fucking transactionally but instead doing so as an expresison of genuine feeling is one form of caring about sex. Fucking transactionally is another form of caring about sex. If he wants a whore who will without a murmur of protest treat sex like making burgers or screwing widgets on wah wahs or processing insurance claims... a duty to be done and done well in order to get material goodies... if he wants someone who will mainly care about it in that way... then he should look for a whore str…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 01:07 PM
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It isn't taboo. Women are quite happy to give their opinion. What is taboo is admitting to being or recommending being a fucking dipshit asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 06:37 AM
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Look at this dude, he carried a gun for IS and would have bought a sex slave if he hadn't been so stony broke... and he absolutely believes New Zealand will let him back in and only lock him up a few years. His argument is that he's sorry for his hot-headedness, well I guess that's a version of boys will be boys. Men and their male entitlement right there eh? https://www.radionz.co.nz/news/national/383879/new-zealand-jihadist-mark-taylor-captured-in-syria-and-jailed-in-kurdish-prison?fbclid=IwAR…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 06:31 AM
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No, but you don't know anyway whether your partner is honest about his/her sexual his One can still ask for assurances and attempt to divine the truth of it and sometimes that will work too. Testing is by no means one's only weapon the war against ending up with a crotchful of every std known and unknown by science. Testing does not protect against undiscovered germs at all, only caution in regards to counts, ones own and others, offers even a little bit of protection against that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 01:18 AM
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This is a silly argument. In these days you TEST for them. There's no longer a need to make guesses about whether has an STD or not. It's silly to even make this guesses. Better safe than sorry. https://www.healthline.com/health-news/new-sti-can-make-women-infertile There's new stds still being discovered or being identified as causing more harm than previously thought therefore now requiring to be tested for. Who knows what is yet to be identified as a risk? And not every std is treatable. Test…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:17 PM
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2nd rule of misogyny: Women saying no to men is a hate crime. They also think women not saying no to men is a hate crime. 11th rule of misogyny: Basic pattern recognition skills are cruel and evil when they hurt men's feelings. sporfle
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 06:48 PM
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But I find it equally hypocritical when people call out others on their sexual lives when they themselves are practically doing the same thing. But I'm not? I've got a fairly sedate sort of n count. It's wrong to forbid others to have sex But I don't? Fuck as many prozzies as you want, just don't expect that everyone will like that about you. It isn't a selling point. It may make you feel sexier and more accomplished but not everyone is going to agree with your self assessment there. while on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 05:08 PM
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What makes it all not happen for some is that people have floor prices. There's a partner quality level past which people choose not to fall. So between people's floor prices not always being low enough to get them a partner (note, this is maybe not a bad thing, better no partner than one who will make you unhappy) and the good ones getting snaffled up quick, a lot of folks leave the market either voluntarily or involuntarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 04:49 PM
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But you seem to be straight out sexist, since you approve of sexual experience for women with plenty of hook ups, yet you are grossed out with men who had sex with escor I approve of people having the freedom to do a whole bunch of things that might make them unattractive to other people. Having the freedom to do something is not the same thing as having the freedom to do it and still be seen as attractive by everyone. Sometimes people just got to make decisions. Eat that donut or stay slim. Get…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 04:42 PM
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Women there seem to be saying sex work doesn't make them incapable of a relationship, and here they are saying they wouldn't date guys who purchased that service. There's no contradiction in that. There are any number of things that do not make a personal incapable of having a relationship, that I am not up for having a relationship myself. I mean think about it. Obesity, for example. Do obese people have relationships? All the damn time. Would you have a relationship with an obese person? Maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 04:01 PM
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Fucking whores is icky on multiple different levels. And btw, my n count is 2. If ever I'm on the market again, keep your prozzie poking penis the fuck away from me, ewww gross. GROSS.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 03:53 PM
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Are men not entitled to sexual experiences when they are in no position to date? There are any number of things one is entitled to do (run up one's credit card debt, get large facial tattoos, become obese, let one's teeth rot etc) that are legal but unattractive and will harm one's SMV and/or RMV
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 03:47 PM
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Pretty common sort of theme in the male-centric bodybuilding part of the manosphere. We're all going to make it, brah,
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 08:09 AM
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Nope. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 09:54 PM
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Well obviously there's a fair amount of woman hating out there and that it annoys women a bit is seen as a plus by some. But also there's the same reason that the first teenager to show up in his friendship group with a beater car he bought from his earnings at a part time job had half of his friends be appreciative and half tut tutting about how it isn't shinier, newer and better. Guys sometimes like to tear each other down and one of the best ways to do that is tell other guys that they could/…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 09:50 PM
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Well yes I and most other women do demand more commitment as time goes on. Some things are only possible through commitment. Buying a house, raising kids, saving for retirement. This is the nature of growing up, being grown up. The good deal is that someone like me is committed to these things to. You get the house the kids the retirement, with help from each other to make it happen. I am unlikely to be giving a dude more and more on top of that as time passes, unless I too am getting more and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 09:33 PM
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I did feel resentful but there was something curiously generalized about my resentfulness... I knew somehow it wasn't just him, it was all guys. That AMALT. That they are only ever going to try to fix it after it breaks, not stop it breaking. That they are like hoarders who want to own a bajillion of the things they want, but will just throw them in a pile... but then cry like babies when they realise something broke because it was thrown in the pile. Why'da all have to be this way guys? Why'da …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 12:30 AM
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Men do not have a problem with this. Actually they kinda do have a problem with this. Every time they complain about crazy insane hot bitches that key their car or seduce their friends they are having the problem with how they've made hot a virtue beyond all others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 11:09 PM
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and guess how much he cared when i cried. 0. seeing him cry when i finally broke up with him was like seeing a fascinating bug in the wild "oh look at it, it does have feelings, interesting" Oh gawd, that pretty much covers how my major breakup went too. Well looky look, the heartless beast who didn't give two shits for years and years when I was falling apart really does have feelings... but too little too late, if he'd really cared he'd have cared when i was the one hurting, this is interestin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 10:29 PM
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I get foreign dude vibe from this guy and not because he is in Australia, all the Aussie guys I know are drunks or manwhores, ten buck says he moved to Australia from non westernville. I'm Australian. I get the foreign-dude vibe as well. If he's an Australian man he's a bizarre one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 06:10 PM
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maybe Austrlian dudes really, really, like shopping. cough splutter no I mean there's always someone who breaks the mold. And every dude has something he likes to spend his money on. But for the most part, as soon as a woman moves in with a guy here there's an even chance he'll nudge off all his clothes shopping onto her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 06:01 PM
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Sigh. So you think men shop in a manner you feel is more virtuous. And because of that you think only men should shop, and you are proposing that it become the male role... despite the fact that under the current system, the majority of men detest shopping except for a very narrow range of things and gladly handball the task to women in their lives. So what you're saying is couples should live like you want them to live, not like they wish to live. You know what else? Style is a legitimate conce…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 05:56 PM
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Why are you assigning shopping as a male chore when quite clearly it is a chore that men currently tend to avoid?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 04:50 PM
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Well I guess if you try to get this outcome by some sort of uprising I'll be out there as a counter-revolutionary, killing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 04:22 PM
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Would take a pretty big golden hello and high salary to have any interest in being a day-care-daddy to modern inner city kids. There's plenty of unemployed graduates out there and more being added every year. I mean just saying, unemployed millenials are a dime a dozen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 02:00 PM
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Define "have". If by "have" you mean "be artificially restricted to by law and social pressure" then no, it is not appropriate, I would fight against that tooth and nail, as I age the more I come to the conclusion that I would literally take up arms to stop that outcome. If by "have" you mean "gravitate disproportionately to different careers/activities/family roles even when equal access is carefully preserved" then yeah sure, there's always going to be more women willing and able to be hairdre…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 01:57 PM
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The ones that don't want to be in a profession that uses their looks and don't want to marry up by a considerable amount tend not to bother with makeup, flattering hairstyles, etc. I mean why would they? If you're happy to work a job where looks don't matter, marry an ordinary sort of moderately successful guy, and have your 2.4 kids and raise them in an ordinary sort of way you really don't need to be more than a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 01:47 PM
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I used to. For decades. Then a year or so ago I told my narcissist father to go fuck himself I don't want to be involved in his life any more, ever, for any reason, and I don't give a shit if he cuts me out his will, life's too short for his bullshit. Currently the misery level is under 50%, and getting better all the time. I'm suddenly creative and productive. Life's good. Should have done this years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 05:56 AM
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what if it's just talk to weed out the pussies? You're right, pretty much it is a weeding out process. Not just to weed out pussies though, it weeds out a lot of pairings where one or both are not ready, or the couple are not compatible. Buying a ring is a hurdle that is in place because society does not think people should be allowed to commit without having engaged with structured activity that involves them communicating their needs and wants to each other and coming up with an appropriate co…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 06:24 PM
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If she's not sexy enough to you to outgun red dead 2, maybe it isn't meant to be. Maybe that leads to you splitting up, maybe it doesn't. And there's nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 09:19 PM
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From what I've seen, guys are just less likely to try to form beliefs full stop. I mean even generalisations about the world and the meaning of life that aren't really anything to do with the what is best described as woo woo but are all to do with success or standards setting or the human condition... like "happiness isn't as important as fulfillment" or "if you don't even do simple things like the dishes to support your efforts could you really expect any better than failure hmmm?" I mean it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 09:16 PM
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I interact with women every day Every day do you say? Well how about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 01:15 PM
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Women who are attractive enough to have a lot of options prioritize guys who are physically attractive AND offer potential for a nice relationship. Being at the gym all the time is only couples fun if you're both doing it. Also the guy who manages to stay looking hot without spending all his time at the gym is more likely to stay looking hot even if he goes through a time when he just can't get to the gym all that much. He's a better choice for long term attraction through good times and bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 11:44 PM
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Well yes there's some guys who value it a lot and a lot of guys who value it a little and some guys who value it not at all or accord it negative value. But the guys who value it a lot tend to be socially maladjusted control freaks... even if you find a rich one that doesn't make up for them being controlling because rich controlling men are a shitshow which is in many ways even worse than the shitshow that poor controlling men are. And the guys who value it a little... well it is just one of ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 10:46 PM
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She should seduce the 29 year old herself behind his back, and THEN dump him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 10:37 PM
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Even pictures of grumpy cat, if liked regularly. There's a freaking limit to how damn impressed a person should be by some things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 05:50 AM
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Having people like the way you look is not income. It can sometimes be turned into income, but it is not income. Any more then knowing how to fix an engine is income, or being able to cook great bolognaise is income, or being fertile is income, or being young is income.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 05:48 AM
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We should give tax breaks to ugly husbands? Are we trying to encourage ugliness? And why aren't we giving tax breaks to ugly wives and ugly single people? Oh and ugly kids, why no tax break to make you like a kid who got beat with the ugly stick? This is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:40 AM
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I could never be with someone who regularly likes any sort of generic sappy shit on facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:34 AM
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Some of them would have been passive wives. Not every girl is fit to do smuggling, espionage etc. You're going to shit yer drawers when one of them does make it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:18 AM
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It has nothing to do with women at all. Men on dating sites are mostly homely. The end. This. From what I've seen most homely women tend to remove themselves pretty quick from dating sites once they've worked out from chatting to dudes where they stand and what they can expect there... they are gone gone gone even before the pretty ones get snapped up. The ugly ass 40 something divorced guys with bad haircuts. paunches, knock-knees and squinting-into-the sun out of focus photos tend to stick aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:15 AM
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It doesn’t make logical sense to assume ANY of them are merely brides. It makes sense not to assume in any one individual case... hence the need for them to individually front up to a court if they want to argue their case. However in terms of the entire population yes it does make sense to assume some of them will just be brides and very little else besides. How many teenagers would you trust with a smuggling mission, intelligence gathering etc? Surely you must see that some of them would have …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 03:50 AM
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So drop the angle that I want them punished equally. They already ARE punished equally. The second does not disqualify the first. You're desperate that none of them catch a break for just having been fucktoys, the equivalent of a dependapotamus and nothing more. I prefer people to be punished for what they actually did. Those who were the equivalent of passive military wives? They were noncombatants. That a soldier may have found it comforting to fuck them signifies little... US grunts find it c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 03:44 AM
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You are wrong in assuming these women are merely brides. I'm not assuming they are all merely brides. Just that a fairly large number of them are merely brides. The dudes? NONE OF THEM ARE MERELY BRIDES.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 03:35 AM
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Well if they should be treated equally, then that defeats your point that they should be treated differently because they were brides. They would be treated differently because they did different thing to the guys because ISIS recruited women primarily to be brides not soldiers. You understand this? ISIS sexist. Sexist gender roles a-okay by ISIS and by most of those to whom ISIS was appealing. Some women would have gone beyond that but a lot wouldn't have. Women were integral in their war effor…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 11:58 PM
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I don’t think they joined isis because rich chad wasn’t available for them haha. Neither do I. I don't think they wanted even Chad. They are being treated equally as the male fighters, as they should. Yes they should be treated equally. In both cases they should be allowed to have their day in court and place whatever evidence they can gather before the court about what their relationship to the legalities involved is. However the women's stories are going to be for the most part very different …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 10:18 PM
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Dude, they just evoke in you a sense of rejection so you're over-reacting. Like every girl that ever rejected you only this time they've rejected you, every guy who is like you, even alphas who are like you, your religious background, your country and your entire view of society and what an appropriate future is. They didn't want you or anyone like you. They were willing to walk away from EVERYTHING... every family member, every old friend, every old mentor, every boy who may have smiled at them…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 09:59 PM
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Aiding and comforting enemy combatants still makes you one. Traditionally, if that aid has been in the form of ordinary spousal activities, the person is not regarded as a combatant. You’re assuming these women were not enemy combatants I'm assuming that not a lot of women in the IS movement were trusted with weapons of war, and I think it is a very fair and reasonable assumption indeed. Most of them were likely not even trusted to drive a vehicle. Dude I know you desperately want these girls wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 09:46 PM
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I think we just deport them to the country they came from regardless of whether or not that home country recognizes their citizenship. So those ISIS brides should be sent to their countries of origin whether or not they are still citizens there. There are clear rules for having your citizenship revoked. One of them being becoming an enemy combatant. If someone is married to someone who is a combatant they themselves are not a combatant unless they manage to be a combatant in their own right. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 09:16 PM
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Tell me this... if an asylum applicant shows up on your national doorstep and investigation shows that the applicant is probably a criminal from country X and not a genuine refugee ... would you enjoy it if country X said quite firmly "oh yes... him... we've just revoked his citizenship under legislation we put in place to never have to deal with our criminals again unless we rreally really feel the need to... enjoy him he's yours now" What about if other countries take to just revoking their ci…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 08:36 PM
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Female terrorists is old news. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Judith_beheading_Holofernes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 08:27 PM
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Well that's the thing, you're higher on the list than anyone else so tag you're it. Them's the breaks, that's living life with an ethical compass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 08:26 PM
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You're probably not responsible for compensating the person unless it can be proved you've contributed to the situation in some deliberate way, but if the dog gets brought to your door you are in my books responsible for sorting out what happens to the dog from that point on. Because it is your dog and in terms of the list of "who should take responsibility for this dog" you're still ranked higher than john q random citizen who just happened to get close enough to a savage dog to put a leash on …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 08:08 PM
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Whether or not you are able to find them guilty of anything, if they are yours you should be responsible for them and shoulder the burden of monitoring them for further wrongdoing. I mean who else should do this... except the country who they are a citizen of? This sort of shit is like when your dog starts biting or your cat starts peeing on the floor and yeah it is a hassle and you don't know what to do and you're dicing up either the big needle or build an outdoor run and imprison it forever, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 07:51 PM
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I said it was more credible not that it was particularly credible. A person is going to make the most credible argument they can muster. And of course anyone making that sort of argument in a treason case is going to need to convince a judge by detailing the particulars of how they were recruited and attempting to back it up with evidence. But yes, anyone who can convince a judge, with that or with any other argument, that they didn't head off with intent to be an integral part of a war effort n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 07:23 PM
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Treason by law makes no distinction between fighting and aiding and abetting an enemy. Then bring them back and prosecute them for treason. That's what I'm saying. If they are citizens they are still yours, and their treason is your thing to deal with. "Let's leave them where they are because we don't want to take responsibility for trying them." is just bullshit. Sure but it seems clear to me that we entertain a woman's plea as more valid. Well obviously in this sort of case we'd entertain the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 06:46 PM
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I feel quite strongly that citizenship stripping of a citizen who has not voluntarily renounced citizenship is in most cases wrong, and an attempt by a country to avoid responsibility it should rightly shoulder. If they have not specifically renounced their citizenship themselves, they should be allowed to come back (and face any legal consequences and also inevitable close monitoring by law enforcement of course) because countries should take responsibility for their citizens both good and bad.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 06:30 PM
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I've found it means whatever the person using the term thinks it means in terms of having agreed to parameters for the relationship. For one person it might mean agreement that they are not going to date anyone else but it is still just a dating relationship and ending the relationship is fine, for another it might mean they are bonded for life with no infidelity and no escape. I think the very subjective and fluid interpretations of what "commitment" actually is allow for a good deal of prevari…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 08:48 PM
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It is a laughable accusation I wouldn't be bothered defending myself against. Of course I'm allowed to be "lazy" and not go to a speed dating event if for whatever reason I'm just not feeling it. So is the next person. What I can't really do without warranting criticism is whine there are no speed dating events when really there are, but I just can't be bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 05:07 AM
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Of course men aren't obliged to show up. May I point out that the primary reason the person whining is whining clearly isn't because she missed out on getting herself a man... it is because something she very publicly organised fell flat. My guess is that because it is usually getting women to such events that is the problem, the organisers didn't bother much sourcing men. I don't think it is the fault of either gender. How about wording it this way... podcasters organising speed dating events a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 04:52 AM
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I had and still have few and simple goals. Be myself as best as I know how to be. Speak my truth. Create some art. Stay interested. Try to understand. Weather any ill health and disability of self or loved ones with as much dignity as is possible. Minimize the presence of toxic individuals in my life. Try to help a few people. Have some kids and raise them to be thinking, feeling independent individuals. Hope I learn serenity before death catches up with me. It isn't a plan that leads to the hei…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 02:50 AM
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Lol, did you just imply I had unplanned pregnancies? Nah dude I use contraception just fine, and if I ever had lapsed I would have aborted without a second thought anyway. Every baby a planned and wanted one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 02:07 AM
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I think the issues at stake are best discussed without using either of those terms, they are each designed to strip nuance and force the adoption of a particular range of attitudes... and in each case the result tends to be having to defend a bunch of indefensible stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 09:00 PM
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It is a very common dynamic. Just such an easy lie to tell and it deals so directly with getting a little revenge for the key hurts involved in being rejected. And of course it gets flung at women more often because women are the ones more often being immediately approached by a really good candidate for love after a relationship breakdown. And the really awful thing about living through being on the receiving end of it is that it feels like now you're suffering for all those years of being disc…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 07:58 AM
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Well for starters they've got control of all the data and they only release data they feel release of will supports their business activities. Of course the data they release is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 07:39 AM
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I find it immensely amusing that I call something bullshit and you jump to thinking I'm calling it redpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 07:37 AM
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This has been explained multiple times before, it is bullshit for the same reasons it was when it was explained then. Rather than handing ALL the data over an independent researcher and letting that person draw a few conclusions including maybe some that aren't terribly flattering or useful to the whole business of theirs, OKcupid has cherry picked what they want you to hear in order to support the requests they wish to make or the conclusions they wish to lead you to draw. In the case of the "w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 07:34 AM
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The OKCupid data releases are still bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 02:42 AM
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It is just really difficult to hold people (in general) accountable. I mean let's look at one of the biggies that almost everyone agrees on in some way or other... thou shalt not kill. As a species we pour billions and billions of dollars a year into holding people accountable for homicide, for waging aggressive wars, for various forms of genocidal atrocity etc. Have we managed to stop murder and war? How many killings do not result in someone held to account? Now think about how much more defin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 02:23 AM
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The trouble with you is you're looking for certainty from human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 01:45 AM
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To be fair, I do with the benefit of hindsight think that the trusted friend started showing up to the regular movie night meetups of the friendship group real regular as soon as the cracks in my marriage became obvious. He was waiting to catch me as I left. And that he did, the day I announced it to everyone that I had left. If I'd never left it would all have been seamless and no-one would have known why or even thought about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 09:25 PM
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I didn't leave to be with another guy, but my ex says I did. During our last week together my ex went on and on about how I would never get another guy. I was upset and hurt and depressed and therefore I kind of believed him but I left anyway because my ex is a piece of shit and I decided I was better off alone. When less than 48 hours after we split up a trusted mutual friend made his move... well I thought "Hey why not? It will probably be a rebound short term thing, and the ex will be furious…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 08:52 PM
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Statistics show that women don't date jobless men but men don't mind dating jobless women Swings and roundabouts, when you get a job you'll do better with women. Only a problem if you're never getting a job, in which case you got bigger problems than finding a woman. Also if I was giving out sympathy fucks, I'd fuck paraplegics and the like, not guys who just have a little joblessness or shortness to contend with. Just saying, the whiny guys aren't even top of that list.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 12:44 PM
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Now the Red Pill claims that you have to lift for yourself,but we know that is one big fat lie,because as men, we just want to have sex. Women don't like men who only want to have sex as much as they like similar looking men who have more full desires in life. Having a normal or above average range of desires is going to help not hinder you, and the longer you function with a fuller range of desires in life the more it will help not hinder you. If you can find it within yourself to also want a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 11:40 PM
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Well duh haven't we been telling you guys this on PPD for ages? Men are mainly visual, women are mainly attracted to stories. The question shouldn't be "why so maybe women get scammed" it should be "why are so many men so retarded they don't know that women need a good story" I mean seriously, all it takes for most women is a convincing and appealing story that involves the future being better if they are with you and they will be all over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 11:16 PM
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If what you need to feel comfy in the world is a conspiracy theory that absolves you of blame for any lack of accomplishment or lateness in coming into your own, hey knock yourself out, you do you. You go ahead and believe you were given no messages of self improvement and being a man and getting out there and being social when you were a boy. You go ahead and ignore the fact that every time your mother told you to clean your room she was telling you one of the things Jordan Peterson tells his f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 12:58 PM
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Every post mentioning that people are downvoting instead of engaging in debate to show disagreement. Downvote. To be fair, that's the sort of thing that just invites people to be contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 02:08 AM
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Yup. Even if he looks good he's got something wrong with him if he's relying on it. Same with any woman who is relying on online dating. The only real excuse to be there is shits and giggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 02:04 AM
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Probably not, I'm not really in the market for more sex from anywhere right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 01:57 AM
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Nothing much would happen to it other than women would extract more resources from low value men. The men who want to use prostitutes but are too gutless to under current laws are not the men women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 01:51 AM
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Everyone and I mean everyone, feminists, normies, red pill men, that I have spoke to on this says no don't let her in. Britain has for many decades supported numerous international conventions, treaties and suchlike to eliminate statelessness. I think that taking her back would be consistent with maintaining moral authority in their efforts towards this goal, and therefore they should do it. There. Not everyone supports keeping her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 05:44 PM
1

But seriously you're way off base. Abstaining for a few days can lead to short term T increase Hence my suggestion that keeping it to twice a week is probably a massive improvement for any guy who is having manliness problems. I'm not off base at all. You're just doing that guy thing where you don't want opinions on your junk from a woman and look for any excuse at all to make her wrong. Because your junk is your guy thing and you don't want women commenting even when they are right. If you were…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 04:20 PM
1

Yeah Eugenia is going to die if she doesn't get help and may die even if she does get help. She has damaged herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 09:17 AM
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I'm not in a position to explain that to you in a way you will understand and accept. I'm a woman and you know I'm a woman. And I can't be bothered coming back with a male sockpuppet to make the attempt. But given that this is a pointless exercise because you won't accept it... there's a complicated connection between orgasm and testosterone levels. And this connection is precisely why discouraging masturbation was such a thing in previous eras, why in an era without much entertainment they were…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 09:16 AM
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Two things are for sure, I'm never touching a skank-slimed dick again. And I'm never going to give the slightest concern to presenting to the world as a faithful spouse if my partner isn't doing the same. Whether we stay together will depend a lot upon whether the individual man can handle those consequences of his actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 10:32 PM
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Because they feel vaguely upset at being judged at all by women, but haven't yet fallen as low as those incels who whine that women expect men to not be NEET.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 05:19 PM
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Why is nobody talking about... Well obviously you're talking about is soooooo... Anyway, gals are rather inclined to let guys speak up for their own junk because fuck do we hate it when guys presume to talk for our junk. But hey, since we upset and annoy each other on the regular here, I'll say what I think for once. The solution is likely to be something along the lines of "spend less time on the computer and more time physically moving" and "cut the wanking down to a maximum of two orgasms a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 05:11 PM
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https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/dating/guys-dating-advert-goes-viral-for-appalling-list-of-requirements/news-story/4c19548dda7fb2215a517fe9d98e0dec
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:00 AM
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It is impossible to be in a relationship with a man and not occasionally want to beat him to death, women sadly just lack the upper body strength to make this a reality. A plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 01:47 AM
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https://youtu.be/nxVaUhvLOKk
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 05:13 PM
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The short dude will probably find it easier because physical fitness is good for t levels and t is a hormone that helps a person feel driven and goal directed rather than just frustrated and deprived.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 10:04 AM
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No. Neither. I was introverted, both of them would have been a horror story.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 08:31 AM
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In her latest video Eugenia's legs are bright red. Apparently that happens when you're starving yourself to death. Tess is... well idk... at least she's well cushioned and not likely to break from physical contact?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 10:53 PM
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Have you seen where he lives? You learn a lot about someone and what they can reasonably expect and what changes they have to make to expect more from where they live.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 10:07 PM
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If you don't want to feel this way any more you need to realise that the times you were treated in ways that led to you being unhappy were comprised, as ever, of a varying mix of up to three things... reasonable self interest on the part of the person who you interacted with, anger or other negative emotion on the part of that person and malevolence on the part of that person. You need to come to terms with each of those three things as things that are HUMAN not purely female. You got treated th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 06:43 PM
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Eugenia Cooney has been slowly killing herself via what is probably anorexia for some time now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 03:18 PM
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Sigh. About 5 percent of men that are 40 years old have complete erectile dysfunction, and that number increases to about 15 percent of men at age 70. Mild and moderate erectile dysfunction affects approximately 10 percent of men per decade of life (i.e., 50 percent of men in their 50s, 60 percent of men in their 60s). Erectile dysfunction can occur at any age, but it is more common in men that are older. Older men are more likely to have health conditions that require medication, which can inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 07:44 AM
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So long as balls don't touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 07:37 AM
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Most low effort posts are more or less just requests that people circle jerk about a topic. Didn't there used to be something in place to discourage low effort posts? Some sort of rule or procedure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 07:37 AM
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Eh. I think what you are seeing is the result of women refusing to have sex with distressed men. If women were as willing to have sex with distressed men as men were to have sex with distressed women, every troubled young man would replace a lot of his binge wanking, binge watching and binge gaming habits with binge fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 07:04 AM
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Explain Well that's a high effort post right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 06:32 AM
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And here I was thinking the Illiad was mainly about Zeus not wanting to deal personally with any of the messy shit he sets in motion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 06:27 AM
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https://youtu.be/NXNlBnyTINE
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 05:50 AM
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Pretty much. If she needs to "find herself" it is going to be a bit of a rollercoaster in one way or another, and at the end she's going to come out of it drastically changed. She's going to have to kill whole swathes of stuff about herself, and let other stuff grow in its place. After all that, which may take years, there is going to be no assurance either of them will still want the other one. Ending the relationship is going to be the best choice most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 09:02 PM
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Tess Holliday or Eugenia Cooney.... choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:01 PM
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Sure you can have standards, you can even state those standards on dating sites, just if you want to not annoy the people you are trying to appeal to you need to word those standards in a polite manner. I mean for example... if you were a woman who wanted a tall man you could word it negatively "no disgusting little manlets!" or you could word it in a less loaded manner "I find tall men attractive, you must be taller than me when I wear heels, over five foot ten preferred." The hostility in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:45 AM
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Well... I've never used that phrase but the times in my life it would actually describe were usually times I'd been spending too much time in proximity to and caring about narcissists, control freaks, people with faulty but very strong belief systems, that sort of thing. You can lose yourself pretty easy when you've been around those people a while, particularly if you're around them when you're going through a period of change or vulnerability such as childhood, depression etc. You can end up s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 09:22 PM
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Did you delete your post text yourself or did someone do it for you? If you did it yourself why are you expecting anyone to continue interacting with you over it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 08:46 PM
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Red: Men not getting their penis touched is a major social issue. Blue: if you're not willing to treat women well you're probably going to have to handle that problem yourself, loser. Purple: I reserve the right to offend you both. Black: Am I edgy enough to be sexy yet? Pink: Yeah whatever how do I get a guy to buy me a nice house and send the kids to expensive private schools?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 08:07 PM
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She'll be 22 years old and still childless when she divorces him because she grew up and he did not. She won't ask for or get any alimony or childsupport, but neither will she need it. He'll be bitter and aggrieved but when he listens to other guys talk about how they got "divorce raped" and lost the house the car the kids the dog he will become very aware that she really took nothing away but herself. She'll go on to live her life and never look back. He'll be in his early 30s and will have bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 07:54 PM
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We're talking about actions that don't constitute harassment or other prohibited conduct under the law. Approaching an adult of the opposite sex, for example. That's the most natural and reasonable thing that could possibly happen, yet the idea that it's immoral is the majority opinion! You know what? If you consistently do it in a way women dislike enough to reject you because of it, you've failed and are a failing failure of a fail-man. You're still a man, a normal man... you're a normal man w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 07:29 PM
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Depends how much you actually like doing the stuff involved. I mean there's a lot of learning about makeup, wearing makeup, trying on clothes, etc. If you actively detest shopping and thinking about your appearance, if makeup, heels and tight clothes make you want to scream, then it could, if you lack help from good genetics, be very hard to be in the top 20% unless you're going to live a life that makes you miserable 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 04:44 AM
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A lot of the purpose of public protest marches is to draw in people new to the mindset who then make contacts with other likeminded people. They increase the connectedness. Slut walks functioned admirably on that level, feminism became more connected at the local face-to--face level.. Of course we've never seen virgin men organise a virgin walk so how well virgin walks would function on that level I do not know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 04:33 AM
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Exactly. Teenagers working at burger places after school and in the holidays, and their parents will pay for everything really important if the job goes? They get to fall into and out of bed with each other without a second thought. The employees at the same burger place who genuinely rely on that job to keep homelessness at bay? They need to think very very carefully about the risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 04:07 AM
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If you've got the sort of family members who hassle, they will hassle you no matter what. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 07:23 PM
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I disagree that this is something women learn. I think it is so reproductively valuable that it is inbuilt. It is a valuable behavior that supports pairbonds. Not feeling much empathy for men as you reject them is a necessary component of loyalty to a husband. If your husband is to be relieved of the irksome responsibility to mate guard, then you're going to need to see off any approaches firmly and without the slightest amount of wavering. Since a lot of men require very firm seeing off and are…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 07:18 PM
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Avoiding parties altogether is a bad idea. You're going to want to take the opportunity to learn how to be comfy in that sort of environment, even if you're not drinking. You're going to want to know what that side of the social life looks like even if you don't jump full into it. Parties are things that exist over a timeframe and a party can be quite different half an hour after starting than it will be half an hour before ending. Getting drunk takes most people a fair while, the people who sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:55 PM
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Don't date or flirt with people from work. I mean how hard is this for the average person to understand? The average person lives in a city (well at least the average person from my country does) and has access to many thousands of other dating prospects. There are few people who have an excuse for dating from work. Chances are if you're keen on someone from work it is more due to them being readily available to fantasize about than to them being particularly compatible. If you haven't "got enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:45 PM
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There's market value which comes from various markets (labor market, relationship market, sexual market etc) there's your value to yourself, there's your value to people who care about you and then there's various sorts of mystical/spiritual/religious/philosophical belief in your value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:59 PM
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Nope. If I'm in a situation where I'm considering sharing, it is only going to take about 30 minute's thought to come to the conclusion "nah you have him"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:36 PM
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You need to stop and consider, most advances get said no to even when the man is theoretically higher in value. There's not much difference between rejecting a guy who is being rejected because I've currently got someone, rejecting a guy because he reminds me of my brother too much, rejecting a guy because bloody hell this month is already a mess and I don't want to risk adding another factor to it, and rejecting a guy who is being rejected because even if I didn't have someone I sure as hell wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 10:17 PM
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I will continue to have "Adopt and Grill April" month from the local pound. Which subreddit will you be posting the pics to?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 03:34 PM
2

Vegans will say anything if they think it will persuade people to not eat meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 03:11 PM
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I think a great number of men who will never have enough assets to make a prenup relevant, and who will probably never marry, waste far too much time thinking about prenups.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 04:17 PM
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Some people just can't bear to see someone in pain without going out their way to make the pain a bit worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 04:14 PM
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Pretty much. And a height preference is even less shallow than a preference for blue eyes, seeing as height has more functional significance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 09:20 PM
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Women literally disqualify hundreds and thousands of men because their legs aren't long enough. If an attractive young woman is to be monogamous, she'd going to have to disqualify millions of men in the world who lack egregious faults and would gladly have her. I mean quite literally she does not have time to sensible screen them all at the rate they present themselves to her... much less screen them all and occasionally take a bit of time off and just enjoy being single. Would it be less shallo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 03:47 PM
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Historically speaking, I'm talking in terms of the timeframes our sexual desires as a species has evolved over, having a backup or two or more with whom nothing went further than just a few smiles and some tension and just the awareness of possibility was not in the least bit incompatible with monogamy. This was how people made sure they would not be totally lost, with multiple children but without any sort of plan if their spouse died.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 07:45 AM
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All the personality in the world doesn't mean shit if you don't look good. Wrong. Personality and commitment are just for long-term relationships were women eventually settle with a guy. If you want casual sex and aren't a looker or particularly charismatic, just pay for it. Simple easy hack of the system. They would rather be having sex with that broad shoulder guy. Well duh. Of course anyone would rather be having sex with their chosen partner but just a bit better on some axis... everyone wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:23 AM
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Nope. Don't feel bad unless you're doing something like making her spend her life's savings on stuff for you or making her work for hours a week at your business for free. She's quite capable of increasing the distance between you two, of taking more time for herself etc. In fact it is possible for her to do this without you even noticing it, without it changing anything between you. The friend zone does not exist except as a self imposed thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:55 AM
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It isn't that hard for most guys to have a body that is good enough that it doesn't actually get in the way of other attractive aspects of them such as personality, an aura of power etc. Just have enough muscle that you don't look totally sedentary, and not so much fat you have a beer belly. After that point you can choose to cultivate any aspect of male attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:17 AM
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The government reimburses that chump for any money that was legally required to be paid outside of a relationship with the mother (sorry dude but if you married her/shacked up with her just because you got her preggers that's your lookout, in that situation a DNA test is something you should have demanded) and then assesses the bio father (if he can be found) for child support from the date of birth of the kid. If the bio father can't be found the DNA stays on file in case he later can be found.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 01:43 AM
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Oh ffs. It is not shallow to have standards and only date those who meet them. It is not shallow to have aspirations and date those who can help you with your aspirations. If you're looking for someone to share your life with there has to be some degree of attraction and ongoing mutual exchange of worth there for it to be a good life affirming match. What would be shallow is if you totally discounted as people those people who don't meet your standards. If you regard them only as defective cogs …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 01:17 AM
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But I have no problem if other people enter voluntary arrangements. The thing about most of the informal "fucking to get through college" arrangements is the guys don't usually realize that the arrangement will terminate shortly after she's got her first really decent job. There's no real advantage in a woman telling a guy she's going to discard him, if she doesn't tell him then he's going to invest in her in a lasting way not just pay for stuff in the moment. There's also no advantage in her te…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 12:42 AM
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Alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 04:17 PM
2

Oh well then. I'd keep it long enough to prevent sunburn, comb it roughly with my fingers once a day and and hack off the white girl dreads close to their roots as they form, giving no regard to how the resulting style looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 03:23 PM
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I think it’s worth contemplating a hypothetical scenario: if a given young woman was stranded alone on a desert island and knew she would not be rescued or ever found, so there is no one around to give a shit about what she looks like and there never will be, but she had a pair of scissors so she could cut her hair however long or short she wanted...how long would she choose to keep her hair? Long of course, you'd want to have the longest strands possible for making yarn with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 02:16 PM
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In Australia most of the teens have really long hair. I suspect it is mostly because of school uniforms. You're just not allowed all that much about you that is, well, YOU. You can't wear makeup that is detectable as makeup, you can't wear your skirt short, all your clothing is the same as the next girl, you aren't even allowed to dye your hair a weird shade, most schools even dictate what jewelry and hair accessories are allowed. Having a lot of hair that you can mess around in styling is one o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 12:43 PM
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Why do women have a tendency to "learn" that they don't like Chads and "fuckboys" at around the same age? They don't? I mean from what I've seen of my female friends, the learning process ranges from immediate (as in they meet their first pretty sleazebag intent on bedding them and take an instant dislike) to, well, never. There's a big flush of those who realise immediately, another big flush after their first shitty relationship, another big flush after their first shitty relationship that inv…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 12:30 PM
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It is what it is, a vehicle to make money for owners/investors. Just remember, it isn't really there for you any more than the casino is there for the gamblers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 01:59 AM
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Emotional satisfaction of course. I'm not putting up with feeling the effects of any of the major emotional poisons (selfishness, vindictiveness, contempt, betrayal, lies etc) 24/7 just for a few hours a week of halfway decent sex. I mean what is wrong with you people who would... crap at rubbing one out?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 02:09 PM
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Most girls just don't want guys to look like sixteen year olds who have never lifted anything heavier than a games controller and who they could break in half over their knee. Look maybe like you actually carry groceries to the car or mow the lawn or do some vacuuming occasionally? I mean jezus some guys nowadays don't even walk or drive a car their activity level is so low, their mother still drives them places. I'm a woman who has a life where she does stuff but doesn't work out, so I've got v…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 10:54 PM
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the whole discussion is baffling to me Some guys just want mama to do it all for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 09:26 PM
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Society only cares about regulating men's behavior, and is perfectly fine with women's problematic behavior Men's problematic behavior, if left unchallenged, is more inclined to end in them killing or injuring someone. I mean just saying, men's problematic behavior is frequently a significant issue in a way women's rarely is, there's really no sensible way of arguing that it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 05:44 AM
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What do? Stop being such a damn whiner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 11:52 AM
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IDK dude, you're pretty much asking me "If I met you in real life, would I perceive you as an example of what I described and give you that advice?" well IDK IDK I haven't met you in real life have I? Have other people met you in real life and told you pointedly that you need to be yourself? If so I'm forced to conclude maybe in real life you come across like yer faking it badly. If you're faking it badly then of course you should elect to be yourself instead. If that means staying home a few ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 06:01 PM
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I think if I approach someone on the street for the time of day or directions I probably get treated with more friendliness and less caution than a man my age/race/social class would. I don't think it is a huge difference though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 07:40 AM
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They generally only get treated that way in any active sense if they are uncomfortably pushy about it. If they realize that the amount of no strings sex they can get does not always relate directly to the amount they want, and accept that situation with good grace, then they become just another person accepting that the world isn't going to give them what they want... at which point they are in pretty much the same boat as the woman who can't get a billionaire and so has given up and now owns fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:57 PM
2

Both men and women encourage dependency although the ways in which they encourage dependency and the times at which the encourage dependency tend to vary. It is a strategy and a lot of times not a particularly nice or ethical one. The older you get and the more long term relationship breakups you see, the more you realize that dependency is complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:53 PM
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I'm more purplish than blue, but TRPs tend to see me as quite blue. I'd tell her I'd found it, tell her at what point I stopped watching, and then I'd do an awful lot of listening to her and try to understand why. I wouldn't see it as my role to punish her for it or to try to stop her doing it again. I wouldn't be on the whole pleased, in my opinion sex work is something that rather tends to require a person become less thrilled with intimacy, but that your grown-up kids might do things you aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 10:12 AM
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As soon as his sons start coming of age, Billy is toast.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 07:15 AM
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I bought a condo that needed tonnes of cosmetic work. I wanted somewhere to live right then. an income source while later raising kids, some assets that belonged just to me and a bolt hole to run to if a relationship ever turned bad. I would have bought a house with a garden if I could have afforded it but that wasn't possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 07:12 AM
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Maybe you could actually increase your value and become the real deal? There's no fake to detect there then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 11:07 PM
1

Well I do think I need to start with the standard disclaimer... there's less wholesale plundering of men's wealth out there than men claim. Of course it makes a man feel good to say "she took everything" but in a great many cases when you examine the facts she took pretty much her fair share (women work now too, and caring for the kids and doing housework is not nothing either) plus a small amount of child support for a limited number of years and he's griping because he used to feel richer when…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 11:05 PM
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When we say "just be yourself" that means "stop this stupid charade you've been playing at because it is fooling no-one, anyone can tell before you even open your mouth that you're the thing you're pretending not to be and when you start the faking and boasting it just gets worse" At no stage does "just be yourself" mean "stay exactly as you are for years and years and never grow, change or improve in substance" and if you heard it as that you played the game of hearing what you most wanted to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 10:53 PM
1

Don't get your meat where you get your bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:48 AM
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Seems like people who have a hard fast rule about not socializing with people outside of work (even just friends, much less dating) do it because of prior bad experiences, even just one isolated incident. I have never been willing to date via the workplace. It just doesn't make sense. At one stage in my early twenties (I'd been employed 5+ years by then) my then partner was unemployed and got a job at my workplace, that kinda sucked in an irritating way ("You tell him that the job he did on thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:45 AM
1

Because men who still have to learn ARE inferior. Yup. It is hard to come to terms with but "I'm learning the social skills necessary to be appealing to other people but I've only just started." is in some ways the same as "I'm 300 pounds and I've started my diet today, I meal prepped broccoli and chicken and had my first dinner of it five minutes ago!" I mean great, fine, if you bring it up online in any place other than those devoted to fitness /health/diet half the people will say "yay!" out …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 08:48 AM
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Fat women have the ability to lose weight and become more attractive. Why can't men do things that make them more attractive as well? Fat men can lose weight. It helps a lot. Gaining a bit of muscle too, goes a lot further than it does on women. Look, we don't mind if you go about learning social skills. Just don't expect us to be hanging around like a greek chorus to play a supporting role in your grand epic of becoming no longer socially retarded. Because that's like... really really boring an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 05:29 AM
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that will feel left out in the dating market when they were younger, these guys will feel like they were never... feeeeeeeeeeeeeeelz If the awkward young dudes who are now whiny older men had back then put as much effort into being social and physically adept as they had in to screen time, they'd have been getting laid too. You snooze you lose. Play the hand you dealt yourself. There's only so many women who want you and the women who picked unwisely in their youth are gonna be the bulk of your …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 05:16 AM
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A ten year age gap at that point in life does tend to mean that later on, about the same time you're in your fifties and finalising your retirement planning, the kids are getting old enough that they can reasonably be latchkey kids and she'll be looking at getting a job and regaining some power and maybe doing a few things she wants to do... travel, have a really nice car, etc. She won't be a pliable malleable sweet young thing any more, she'll have been through the maturing that raising kids br…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 04:53 AM
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However, if you had removed his legal right to pick which one he would have spent millions suing to get it back. Hardly matter? I think not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 04:37 AM
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Well duh, prey animals with broken wings get attention. Are you ready to take on ALL of what it means to be a prey animal, not just the convenient bits?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:26 AM
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From that very link you posted "If police officers acting in good faith (bona fides) rely upon a defective search warrant, then the evidence acquired may still be used under the good-faith exception."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 11:23 PM
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RPW was notorious as a place where RP men role played at being stepford wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 11:09 PM
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I thought there was an exemption from the exclusionary rule, where the evidence was obtained via a warrant that police had obtained from a judge and executed in good faith? That such evidence isn't seen as being "fruit of a poisoned tree" by virtue of the judge being independent of the police and independent of the investigation in general? I mean I guess you might be able to overturn it if you could show the judge was was co-operating with the police to the point where some sort of collusion be…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 11:05 PM
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Any thoughts or additions? I don't take advice on makeup from men who aren't gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 10:35 PM
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read some red pill women That's the subreddit where male TRPers roleplay at being women? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 10:34 PM
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No, and if one of my daughters did I'd be looking to break up the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 09:55 PM
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Oneitis is portrayed as indefinite, not temporary. Nope. It is portrayed as something you can get over by, for example, fucking another ten girls. Or going no contact. Neither of which is regarded as a solution to being hung up over some guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 09:53 PM
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Alpha widow vs oneitis. They characterize being badly hung up on some guy as being a permanent condition, and being badly hung up on some girl as a mere temporary inflammation. You haven't provided anything to this conversation but proof of what I said, for those who use those terms it is all about portraying women as more pathological at the exact same level of actual damage and loss of function. Fact is, people who are down the bottom of the RMP, both male and female, are probably going to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 09:40 PM
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It is a term that means I'm talking to someone who wants to pathologize women in particular for being people while giving men a pass for the exact same stuff. Men and women can and do both experience heartbreak and sadness and longing for previous partners that lingers in ways that disrupt future relationships, the dynamic is a very common human one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 08:42 PM
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I don’t care how good a mother and housekeeper Bezos’s ex-wife was, her efforts weren’t worth $70 billion or whatever she’s getting. This does also rather raise the question whether the efforts of the super-rich in general are are actually "worth" the money that is paid them. I mean just saying. There's plenty who have doubts on that score.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 05:24 PM
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The point is Bezos could have replaced Mackenzie with practically any other upper-middle class woman and still be pretty much at the same spot. That would be a relevant argument to make if upper-middle class women were assigned randomly to billionaires and potential billionaires. Maybe even in a culture where they are assigned by the man's parents not by the man himself. They aren't assigned that way. He picked the one that he thought would be most supportive to his general mission in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 05:20 PM
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But she had NO contributing factors when it came to how he earned that money besides providing a uterus, which makes the payout astounding. The following isn't actually an argument that reflects particularly well what i believe but I think it could do with pointing out at this point because it is something to mull over in terms of whether or not other people should be making other arguments in slightly different contexts. We regularly see many different TRP influenced types arguing that unless m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 05:12 PM
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We also, many of us, have better colour vision. The best sort of colour vision takes two X chromosomes to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 03:48 AM
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There's nothing there that indicates she's be upset if he did similar talk with his friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 03:45 AM
1

Well she is busy... being attracted to people who aren't you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 03:43 AM
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Bowie wasn't just a musician, he was a charismatic front man. Put the classical music and opera on hold for a while and go watch a bunch of videos of really great front men holding the attention of audiences that fill entire stadiums.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 06:13 AM
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A simple enough truth, yet why do so many people refuse to see this? They don't want to have to consider that maybe they aren't as likable as they think they are. In order to avoid considering this they will do a wide range of mental gymnastics. But if you didn't go through this pointless charade... What... not replying is a pointless charade? Dude, what's she gonna have to tell you eventually if she replies but really isn't feeling it at all... that she's finding it a waste of time? She's going…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:40 AM
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He's being way girly, and not even the normal range of girly oversensitivity. I mean seriously, celebs are attractive. Them's the breaks, it is reality. He's losing his shit about something that is just... true. I'd want him to have his T levels tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 03:00 AM
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You'd expect a normal well balanced human being to be at least a little interested in factors other than aesthetics. And it isn't that he's just doing this on one issue, everyone has something they have only one priority on. A fuckboi is all about da fuc on every issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:44 AM
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I think there's a sizable chance I might be stuck making lattes for the rest of my life. Are you at least making progress in your workplace? Are you in charge of other employees, do the bookwork, are you a keyholder for opening and closing shifts, do you do stock control, do you write the rosters? I mean I get it, you need another gig, but while you're still stuck in this one you need to become someone in your workplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 09:52 PM
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He had options for reducing the impact. He could have put the money immediately into trust accounts for them as a reassurance this was not a disowning of the role based side of the relationship between him and them. He just didn't think about the kids' feelings at all until the adrenaline rush of fighting with their mother was over and he was left to ponder the fact he's never going to have kids at all unless they aren't his genetically, and they are as much his kids as any kids could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 09:43 PM
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Fuckboy is a male who is actively only looking for sex. It is more specific than that. It isn't just that he's offering only sex to women... he more or less only has sex and sex related attributes and things he does to support his sex related lifestyle to offer himself and the world in general. So he's got a job but it isn't a career and he's got no eye to promotion and pretty much it exists to pay for gym, car, sharp clothes, going to nightclubs. He's got an apartment but there's really nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:33 PM
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Slurs are often somewhat flexible in their meaning, but generally you know what the particular person who is using the slur means when they use it. Anyway, when i use the term fuckboi it is usually about guys a younger relative of mine is laughing about on tinder, bumble etc and applying the term "garbage" to. A fuckboi is a dude who has about the amount of mental capacity necessary to know he want sum fuc, and not a lot left over besides and all he has left over is being devoted to getting sum …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:01 PM
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Not all the time but the times it does happen are very real and one wishes to avoid them. I've not dated a lot of men so I haven't really had dating situations when it has happened but I've had plenty of creepy assholes on the street pay just a little too much attention, follow me staring at me from the other side of the street when I walk home from the bus late at night, attempt to box me into a public transport seat so I can't extract myself while they talk, I've been approached to be asked if…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 01:47 PM
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Generally it is easier to convince someone that you have started to pay attention to good and/or dutiful feelings that you didn't realize were important before due to immaturity than it is to convince them that a major abandonment of years of good and dutiful feelings was meaningless and didn't matter and shouldn't change anything. I mean who do you hate the most... which would you be most likely to rekindle something with... the girl who went on one date with you ten years ago, she was really e…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 06:45 AM
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Because if men really are as you say they are, they've got something wrong with their perceptions of the consequences on third parties of their actions during marital breakups.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 06:36 AM
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Might help you get an outcome in which you don't feel suicidal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 06:28 AM
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Skirting your child support by declaring "this child is not my child in a way that involves responsibility" cuts right to the heart of the relationship in a way that skirting it by just pretending you've got less income does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 06:28 AM
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IDK. Would it help if I used the word bourgeois instead? Middle class has admittedly experienced a downward drift in terms of who it seems to refer to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:49 AM
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Ah, the crazy comes out. eyeroll I'm not obliged to like either of them. That he had an unpleasant thing done to him doesn't turn him into the good guy, plenty of stories don't have a good guy. The post, however, focused on him, what he should/shouldn't do or expect. So of course my reply focused on him. I knew I wasn't talking to a reasonable person. I tell you what, Imma give you some very reasonable advice, if ever you're in his situation, ask a woman to walk you through what your proposed ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:46 AM
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Just tell me you agree with my assessment of the situation, right now, Here's what I want from you to continue any discussion, and to have my respect. I want you to admit You can stop replying anytime you want, and I don't care whether I have your respect. You do understand that? The wife doesn't sound at all like a good person, but the husband is a piece of shit too. He's told the media he's feeling suicidal because of what.... because those lads took him at his publicly sworn word that the fat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:13 AM
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No I wouldn't think that because I'm a man so I know how men think. But yeah maybe you would think that. So men in conflict situations don't think ahead to the consequences of the damage they do to third parties. The kids are sort of collateral damage and he's having a whinge and whine that he set the bomb off and now they are too hurt to function in the way he had become accustomed? He only works it out once they are not performing as expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:02 AM
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They're fully grown, They are 19 and middle to upper middle class, they are probably still in schooling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:43 AM
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Concealing an affair is one thing, but screwing up bc that badly? She says they were using condoms but what kind of failure rate is 2 pregnancies? To be fair, if her husband was shooting blanks it could be that her condom use was systematically bad in some way and if he hadn't been shooting blanks they would have had accidental pregnancies earlier in their marriage before the affair started. But to be blunt, the timing of it makes me I think she ran off to get an alternate source of sperm after …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:41 AM
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See, I'm a simple man Simpleton, you mean you're a simpleton. If he wanted to maintain his relationship with all those kids, he absolutely must not ever do anything that repudiates them. NO genetic link + repudiation is a relationship ending combination. He's free to do so of course, and it is effective in terms of getting his money back and getting some revenge on his ex. Having a big fucking whine about this natural and predictable consequence is just ridic. Oh no he's feeling suicidal IDK... …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:36 AM
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The older lad probably feels less abandoned right now because he's older and less needful of a father. Also I wouldn't assume that just because the older lad is willing to keep in touch a bit means he'll longterm have the sort of relationship his mother's ex wants to have with him. Chances are he won't see the guy as the grandfather of his own kids, for example, and not want him round them much because the whole situation isn't good. The ex husband just seems totally idiotic to me. You'd think s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:14 AM
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fillers and botox?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:28 AM
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Why do you girls keep stating this over and over and over? Sigh. When they found out he wasn't their father genetically, the entire continued father/son relationship relied upon them all firmly saying "we are still father and son because we say we are and we won't allow anyone to say differently" and that's not what he said... he stood up in court and publicly (very very publicly it turns out) repudiated them in order to get return of the money that was used and still to be used for their upbrin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:21 AM
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If you've not yet got some sort of mutual understanding of exclusivity then the assumption is you will have other options and avail yourself of them and as one casual relationship descends another will ascend, no fuss no muss. If you do have a mutual understanding of exclusivity then ghosting is very rude because it put the person being ghosted in a very difficult and ambiguous position, unable to move forward with someone else without breaking an agreed on rule of your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:04 AM
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I really can't believe how many lines you have written going after the father in this situation. At no stage have I said she has done the right thing or that her kids shouldn't have issues with what she has done too. I think he should have a right to sue for return of some of the marital settlement. I've gone after one aspect of what he has done... he has done actions that lead to a sense of abandonment in lads who he still wishes to have access to in the manner a father has access to his childr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:54 AM
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Like I said, they are likely going to be pissed at their mother too, her choices have hurt them... however they are going to also be ambivalent about her because her choices made them too. But the guy who all their life has told them they could rely upon him, that he wouldn't hurt them unless it was for their own good... has dragged them and their main family relationships through the mud publicly in the most spectacular way to get revenge/recompense from their mother for himself... and the ethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 11:35 PM
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Because he was tricked, he did, and now has a relationship with them that he cherishes But does not cherish enough to do what it takes to avoid a court case that splashes the details of their conception all over the media. Look I get it, he's got a right to ask himself "am I the father of these kids" But they also have the right to ask themselves "Is this man my father?" and they've decided that he isn't, that he has done things he would not do if he was their father.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 06:32 PM
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I have no idea how this made them turn on their "dad" He's stood up in court after they have had some of the most disturbing news of their young lives, named them very publicly as pretty much being illegitimate, the court case has become a public spectacle and the media has covered it so all their friends would know, they now can't really discuss with anyone who their father is without this shit cropping up ("hey isn't he that dude who...") he has asked for and been granted return of the money t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 06:04 PM
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By growing up and realizing that it is a simple human reality and present in everyone (including men... including YOU) and all things that relate to human desire and perception of self and others. There's nothing exceptional about women and sex in this regard. Men do it all the damn time, for example they say (and goddamit seem to even believe) they want and value low count women who are low drama and don't wear makeup but at the party they are clustered around a whore in a tight dress and red l…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 05:05 PM
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Not being flexible on the whole kids/stepkids thing makes anyone's dating efforts difficult going into their late 30s. Even guys, they get a little more leeway but not as much as TRPers say they do, and especially not if they aren't excellent in at least two of the three big ones... physical, social, or economic. I mean just saying, most people breed for a bit then stop breeding and want to raise what they've got. If you're not willing to fall into lockstep with that when your cohort is doing it…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 03:47 AM
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And what are your thoughts on polyandry? I've known some MMF triads, the women in them seemed very happy. Two betas can be as good as an alpha, who'da thunk it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 02:16 AM
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What I'm hearing you say is marriage is a terrible idea? That's not what I'm saying. I'm not saying it is a great idea either, BTW. Do you think there are marriages that exist that don't reach this juncture? Men, women and children used to live and work together. Families worked together from sun up to sun down. And in environments where the genders split up to work (often hunting vs gathering activities) the individuals were with the social group of their own gender. People were embraced by fam…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 12:18 AM
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The insistence that women should just suck it up and do it is very similar to behavior you see when kids are trying to hassle their parents into doing things. Dividing the request up into steps and stages and then focusing all the pester power on one stage at a time. We all know the next thing after a woman deciding to give occasional duty sex in response to the berating will be more berating about how she has to look more enthusiastic, how she has to give the duty sex more often, why can't she …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 09:22 PM
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[–]StunningLaughScrooge [score hidden] 4 hours ago I don't have social media, nor do I have a questionable past, however my main reason for not having it is to avoid people such as yourself who would trail through things I did 10 years back to vet me as a person. LOL am I?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 07:48 PM
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I act really insecure around guys is that a turn off? It isn't a turn off in terms of the number of men you will attract, but it is a bad idea. You'll attract guys who are more predatory than usual. And you'll turn off some of the ambitious guys who want a woman who is as effective as them and can work with them at getting on in life. And i dont wanna die alone You probably will die alone. There's usually a couple of years age gap between most couples, and men tend to die earlier than women, mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 07:16 PM
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I meant before you got together. Well why didn't you say so? In that case he's not my husband he's just a rando guy and if he's getting too worked up about getting answers when we aren't even anything at all to each other yet (not even someone who we'd like to date a while exclusively to find out about) then bye bye, he can naff off. Maybe the next girl he will be more tactful with while he's still pretty much a stranger to her. It's absurd you don't think auditing a man's social history is equi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 07:10 PM
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On so many levels this is THE story of going from adolescent to adult. The reason most problems (be they personal, political, environmental, financial etc) are still not solved isn't because people lack motivation or are terminally stupid, it is because everything is harder than it looks from a distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 06:12 PM
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He's my husband? Damn well hope he knows I'm not a virgin any more, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 06:00 PM
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Because someone who doesn't fuck unless they know the story it leads to is a good one is far more likely to be capable of being sexually faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 03:59 PM
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But because or society is so easy to move around in, jobs change frequently, locations change, your peer group changes, and then add in the internet to find new groups, you can escape your reputation far easier than even 30 years ago. No. As soon as email started being a regular thing among ordinary people, people started becoming more connected across distances.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 03:47 PM
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Edit: Istn't it somewhat common for people to look up a potential partner online. Completely normal nowadays. First thing most young people do once they've decided they like each other and want to keep seeing each other is add each other online to a variety of social media platforms and use that to work out what friends they have in common and how they each made those friends and what they each think of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 03:41 PM
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If you're obviously avoiding being vetted at all that will reflect upon you. If you're too open and live too much in public, it also reflects upon you. Them's the breaks in this modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 03:38 PM
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Well, if you get a really bad rep among a group of people it damages the payoff from the time and effort you've put into those people. If you get a good rep, then those people will often help you and provide social proof for you. That's the first thing. Look upon ruining your rep it as taking $100 bills out the bank and burning them. Will you be able to earn more? Sure. Will you always be $100 behind on where you could have been? Yep. The other thing to consider is that social media makes the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 03:18 PM
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Chicken Biryani.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 11:14 PM
1

Consider inviting women who seem to be decent people and about your age (you don't need to be hugely sexually attracted to them) around to your place occasionally for a homemade meal (something cheap and easy like pasta) and possible watch a movie even though sex is going to be unlikely. It doesn't matter if your room mates poach them from you. You're trying to change the gender dynamics of your social circle, your free time activities and your household. If one of your housemates gets a girlfri…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 10:50 PM
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Being “creepy” is an inevitable part of young men learning to speak to women they’re interested in.... ...Young men shouldn’t allow women who’ve never had to be the pursuer shame them for trying and not being perfect at it on their first tries. I don't give a shit if it is his first try or his five hundredth, the only reliable way a woman has of making sure he is unlikely to repeat his creepiness is to firmly make her revulsion known in ways he just can't ignore and for a lot of men that means u…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 10:36 PM
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You should be wary of humans who don't say that too, humans are scary shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 10:14 PM
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You smell like curry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 10:13 PM
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WERE YOU RAISED BY PEOPLE FROM A WESTERN CULTURE?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 09:03 AM
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Not much different to what it is now, other than that those who favor the plastic look would be shit out of luck. There are a lot of guys who favor the plastic look. You can't for a moment convince me that the girl they are talking to in the nightclub who is wearing three layers of foundation plus two different types of face contour, five different eye makeup products and a plumping lipstick that is applied in a two part process is seen by them as a fresh faced natural beauty. Oh, and the poor w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:35 AM
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2) "committing" to a new partner every year (<-- this is the current situation) There's a form of commitment where neither of you has sex with anyone else but the relationship has not progressed to a permanent commitment yet and probably will not. Those relationships serve a very important role in modern Western lives. They let young people work out what relationships are all about and still most of them avoid the most serious consequences of commitment (mortgages, children, weddings) before the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 04:59 AM
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I define the lover as the guy who provides casual sex. These are the promiscuous guys. This is the guy that girls would feel lucky to be in bed with for one night, even if he dumps her ass. These are a minority of guys. There's a lot of people having FWB or boyfriend/girlfriend sex which is on some levels casual (there is no permanent commitment but there is a sort of temporary monogamy) who are not in general promiscuous. The majority of guys are not promiscuous. But the majority of girls are T…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 04:04 AM
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After red pill has opened my eyes to the male perspective There is no one "male perspective" any more than there is one female perspective. The tack the terpers tend to take is just one of many perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 03:46 AM
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They're not boring because they're stable. They're boring because they're boring. If it makes them feel better to tell themselves stories about how they're single because ladies can't stand their lack of drama, fine. But it's usually just because they're not actually fun or interesting, and literally no one wants to spend their lives with a person they don't find fun or interesting Yes. Also, if they really were thoroughly decent, would they be expecting another human being to put up with a bori…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 03:22 AM
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This may be a bit of a shock to you, but when they introduce themselves, human beings of any degree of social competence tell you those bits of their truth that advantage them, not those that advantage you. None is going to up and say "I flip burgers" unless they are a fucking moron. Also, to be blunt, the working class spend a lot of time in serial monogamous cohabiting relationships. It is a hard old world out there for someone flipping burgers, even if a relationship is doomed and the people …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 08:37 PM
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This. It is what you say to the guy who is doing crazy shit and destabilizing his marriage because his wife's hoo-ha is out of commission for six weeks after giving birth and she's tired all the time and falls asleep mid handjob. Sex is not the big deal... that baby and your new family and your wife's health is the big deal. It is what you say to the 38 year old guy who is going to lose the fulltime job he got three months ago and is the only good fulltime job he has ever had, because he keeps p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 07:19 PM
1

Men differ in their resource level and general happiness spending on those sort of activities even when only paying their own way, women differ, parts of the SMP and RMP differ. He should spend as much or as little as he decides to. He should not spend more than he can afford. He should pay attention to WHY he is spending what he is spending and what that means about him... is he spending more because it makes him feel he has done more to get an outcome, does not doing this make him feel anxious…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 04:51 PM
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IDK, is he outgoing, optimistic and fun to be around or a sad introverted pessimistic sack of shit with no people skills? I mean don't get me wrong, there's lots of girls for whom height is important, but short guys who are outgoing usually do fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 11:18 AM
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for one thing, it has never occurred to me to make such "guesses" about anyone, What, not even in the privacy of your own mind? Most people are making continual rolling guesses about people they interact with. I can assure you the guesses some people share to annoy you are already present in the minds of a large number of people. It is just that online the social consequences of sharing those guesses is pretty damn minimal. others are wanting to shift seamlessly from discussing ideas to ridiculi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 09:30 AM
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try to keep up. Nah dude, if you start wandering off no-one gonna follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 09:15 AM
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they actually think they are able to discover your motives and character traits from your mere mention of something they would prefer not to discuss. They make a guess, sometimes they are going to be way out and sometimes they are going to be painfully spot-on. This is a result of reddit's anonymous nature. That sort of social risk, of just accusing someone of being a 5 foot tall curry munching incel, or accusing them of being a fat blue haired feminist, is no big deal here while it would be a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 08:58 AM
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i'll continue to participate in online discussion with mgtow well then go https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/ and as long as i am here, i will talk about whatever i want to whomever i want. Not everyone is going to want to discuss, bicker, debate, whatever in precisely the way you want to. Given the nature of reddit... anonymity, ease of making new accounts and just general attitude that you're gonna have to be a little bit sturdy, if you're going to be stepping foot outside heavily moderated enviro…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 08:43 AM
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if, for example, I say anything about child support enforcement, I will be accused of sleeping around out of wedlock Huh? Nobody but hardline religious fundamentalists give a shit about things like that. I'm not in the business of dealing with the fact you can't seem to tell a god-botherer to fuck off then forget all about it. but if i say anything about divorce law, i will be accused of being divorced Huh? A lot of people are you know, I'm not sure how that is an accusation rather than just an …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 08:27 AM
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Before you tell me to look for women from environments where women have lower social status, I'll tell you that it would probably work. But I know that I'd have to go down so far that I would be left with women I wouldn't understand and can't relate to, with whom potential relationships are destined to fail from the start. Look for women who through the fault of their parents are in that economic strata, but who have many of the values of your own economic strata. They were well off, had all the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 05:02 AM
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You don't own -sexual, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:52 AM
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Oh ffs, nobody owns the right never to have another person use a particular suffix for word creation just because they are very interested in certain words that end in that suffix. And anyone who is not flipping retarded should be able to understand use of suffixes in English, and that suffixes are altered hugely by attached prefixes, it ain't rocket science. You don't own -sexual, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:52 AM
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And sometimes you're looking for an old envelope to write a shopping list on but that doesn't mean old envelopes are in undersupply and not to be thrown casually in the recycle bin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 03:21 PM
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What a stranger set of perceptions you have, from your long distance away from women and off the the side there alone. Feminists are pretty big on punishing other women with character assassination and ostracism for stepping out of line, and they never, ever fucking forget anything, ever. I mean seriously you're supposed to know a huge amount of rules and ideas relevant to current feminist thought, you're supposed to know them as soon as you start hanging out with feminists, and you're supposed …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 03:18 PM
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Men are garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:58 PM
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Yet evolution refuses to provide anything better. Surely it is obvious that every time a man dies without reproducing while another man has fathered three or more kids, evolution is in the process of providing us better. And thus we have progressed. These things take time. https://youtu.be/hSSzn4bIwZg
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:53 PM
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But demisexual is a word that implies lgbt status. How?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 09:49 AM
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If they feel the need for a specific label to force a little more respect and understanding for the fact that casual sex with a stranger is just not and likely never will be an option for them, they feel the need. I never had to have such a word to describe me but quite frankly if I was growing up in this current era I might be using the term to describe myself. Things are different now. Lives get played out in front of facebook audiences. To be understood and accepted for what one is presents a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 09:47 AM
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Well duh, you're a relapse waiting to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 07:36 AM
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Why are you commuting to buy groceries dressed indistinguishably from a woman who exchanges sexual favors for currency? The majority of sexworkers I've seen up close were low price callgirls visiting clients at a hotel I worked at, overwhelmingly they wore jeans, sweater, sneakers and handbag. Pretty much the same outfit most women wear to go buy groceries. You're naive as fuck if you think the stereotypical hooker is how sexworkers look most of the time on the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 01:25 AM
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I did a fair bit of social sciences at uni. I've encountered the idea of conformation bias. I don't really count my uni reading as reading any more than I count reading my TV's instruction book as reading, it was part of a broader something. Men really are garbage though. Smelly, dirty, often they carry germs, and only the best are worth upcycling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 03:03 PM
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Well what can I say... I discovered that men are garbage and had a full time job at the time. Something had to go so the sf and fantasy went. Real world take priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 02:56 PM
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I read a whole lot when I was in my pre-teens and teens. Mostly science fiction and fantasy, also a lot about crafts and aesthetics. Less in my twenties, and about two thirds of it feminism related. Almost nothing but things applicable to real life and my job in my thirties when I was raising little kids. Now I'm back to it again in my forties but to be blunt I kind of prefer audio books now we've got the technology to make them almost as accessible as the written word.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 02:03 PM
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Not like it changes when you do ovulate. I mean it takes some attention for a few months and reading the info to work out how your mucus looks when it is fertile, but once you know how it looks then well, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 02:12 AM
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I mean it seems pretty complicated to get US or MR to monitor that birth control is working and ovulation is not happening. FAM method at its most basic just involves knowing what your cervical mucus looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 01:52 AM
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An individual woman who cares to put in the effort to learn about her body can usually tell if she's ovulating via FAM. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fertility_awareness If a more scientific check is needed then https://www.parents.com/getting-pregnant/ovulation/fertile-days/ovulation-pros-and-cons-of-ovulation-predictor-kits-opks/ And if you want really very accurate results you get a scan. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/7409241
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 12:59 AM
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While in a failing relationship, people learn what they don't want. Each of those girls was willing to give you a try... was attracted... and then you taught her that she'd made a mistake. I want you to think about that for a moment. Those girls didn't know to pick that sort of guy straight up. They picked you, and you taught them what a bad idea you were... and then those girls went to the opposite of you. So why don't you answer me... what did you do to teach those girls that someone like you …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 01:01 PM
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I've spoke to quite a few secular traditionalists who are upset by the way the stay at home wife setup is seen as evil in and of itself by feminists and many MRA-MGTOW alike. Traditionalists have a tradition of dishing it out, now they gotta learn to take it too. There's always going to be someone who thinks you're doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 09:02 AM
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How can women not all come to the same consensus on hottness like men do? Why should we? Seems downright counterproductive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 08:57 AM
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So her videos seem to get under a thousand views. Except that one. What can I say? Let them hate so long as they pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 09:46 PM
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If you don't care if you live or die, why should any woman allow you to do the thing that potentially replicates yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 04:01 PM
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Was she actually saying she didn't consent? Because it sounds to me like she was just saying she wasn't enthused. Did she pro-actively tell you she wasn't enthused or did you press her for answers? This happens a fair bit in casual sex according the people I know who have a fair bit of casual sex. If sex is being had and it isn't being good sex, often the person who is unimpressed just sits back and lets the other person finish and then excuses themselves and any further contact will involve the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 09:53 AM
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This is gonna sound rude, but I see it as a sign of low self control. This entire post is about your lack of control over your reactions to rejection. If you ate a chocolate bar rather than turned to shitposting your anger and hatred on reddit every time you felt that way, you'd be fat too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 08:23 AM
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It is kind of complicated. Women can get it easier. So women have more chances to partake. But on the other hand... the women who don't partake you know for sure they have some sort of loyalty happening, that's not necessarily true of a guy who does not partake he may just never have had a chance and is one skanky cow away from being a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 08:14 AM
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And then he said that when your girl isn’t texting back, she’s probably sucking your friend off. Ah yes, the delusional world where it is more likely she's sucking dick than it is likely that she's gone to a movie with a friend or she's taken a nap or she's at the gym or she's gone for a run or she's reading a book or she left her phone somewhere or she's at her mom's and mom doesn't like the phones at dinner or she's got really absorbed in some task or... I mean just saying, even if she's carry…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 07:12 AM
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All these girls turning me down builds a lot of anger and bitterness in me. Tough shit. No, really, this is just how it has to work mathematically. Most women have strong monogamous tendencies and this means you're going to get turned down a whole lot no matter how attractive you are. Most of the time you are not going to be The One, and most of the time most women have someone or have their eye on someone they are sending indicators of interest to who they think is or might be The One. I was du…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 04:33 AM
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Nah. Women need to admit that the SAHM goal is a version of the pretty pretty princess goal, and then get on with the real lives we lead and leave fantasy to idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:59 AM
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I think a lot depends on what sort of sex work it is. I mean I'd be just fine with someone who writes romance novels, then it is all downhill from that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:45 AM
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Thank fuck at least one person is being sensible about this. People shouldn't chase after just anyone because they feel lust. Some relationships just don't go together in certain conjunctions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:42 AM
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Nope. If a father gets together with his daughters best friend it means a trusted person who was once very close personally now has vastly increased influence over things like her educational provisions and inheritance. In terms of messing with power flows and bringing personal relationships into power relationships they were never predicted to be involved in, it is pretty much dot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:39 AM
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So did the post it is based on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:37 AM
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That's the whole point of it. She's crossing the streams of authority in a very similar way to the way her friend is if her friend marries her father. Could her friend influence her father to spend more or less on her education? Give her more or less inheritance? Change whether sh is allowed to move back home in times of financial or health stress? For sure. Could she influence the boss about her father's employment? For sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:36 AM
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Given that India is one sixth of humanity, and that many of PPD participants are Indians or Indian Americans, facts would disagree with you. Yeah but this community is generally for them having a big old whine about Western dating culture, if they want to get someone from the old country or go back to the old country to have a family... bye Felicia! Indian criminal law is based on English common law (which also strongly influences US, Canadian, Australian, etc laws). Australian law don't give a …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:34 AM
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Stay out of the ladies lav dudes, you're not welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 08:38 PM
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In the current legal climate once she gets pregnant the woman has absolute control over her destiny, the baby's life, and the father's destiny. This is a gross power imbalance that needs fixing. I'm sure humanity will get around to fixing it in about the same amount of time (or slightly less) than it took humanity to get around to fixing the problem of how the inability to safely and legally terminate pregnancy used to result in a power balance that went the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 08:33 PM
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That's India, it is kind of a shithole and irrelevant to the most of our sex lives here on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 07:51 PM
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Virgin. 30 is a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 07:13 PM
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His daughter should get revenge by fucking his boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 03:41 PM
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I don't think I could have, I'm a fairly extreme introvert, that's too many people for me to let in close and still stay sane.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 03:39 PM
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yes, not every man can afford to have a SAH wife Don't weasel around the truth. Most men can't afford it. Of those who can afford it... who comprise a minority of men... most of them aren't going to be able to afford to give good life opportunities to more than two kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 03:37 PM
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no one is saying that women should try to be a SAHM for some loser 20 year old dude working a shit job that only pays $40k a year. that's basically poverty level. The median male income in the USA is not quite $45,000 The age at which their median income is highest is 55 to 64 years, when it is not quite $59,000 I mean just giving a little perspective here. There's really an awful lot of dudes who can't afford a SAHM. if you can't lock down a guy in your early to mid 20s, the answer is NOT waiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 08:15 AM
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My BF is the type of guy who is adamant that men are the most oppressed group in Western society He’s also been pretty dismissive of racial issues when we’ve had such discussions Why are you even bothering? I mean surely at your age you've got better things to do than be with some racist sexist jerk and be centering your learning efforts around his need to be smacked down. Just dump him and move on. If you want to learn how to argue well and get a grounding in some area of knowledge, go get an e…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 08:05 AM
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Pretty much every woman has a floor price. That's the point at which she looks at the guys she can get and just says a blanket "nah, none of them are better value to me than spending on myself the effort I'd spend on them would be to me" then considers the guys she can get if she does what she feels is reasonably self improvement to the purpose of being more attractive, and also dismisses that as not being worth the effort. She's hit her floor price, from that point on unless the market changes …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 04:35 AM
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Most wage earners will never have enough money to free up another adult with kids to be relaxed and happy. Even in the past, except for a few rare economically expansive period of time in particular locations, most men didn't have enough money for that. The working class and the lower middle class to middle middle class have always been pressed for time and money. Being a stay at home on a very tight budget can be a grim life. I think it says something that the majority of women who do it nowada…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 03:43 AM
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Yup. If you marry young to a young man there's a fair chance he's not really got the slightest clue what being a husband and father is all about... he's high risk for becoming unhappy later on and running off. If you marry young to an old man, there's a fair chance the cunning old dude has deceived you about his character. Whichever way it goes, you need there to be adequate provisions upon separation or the whole deal is crap. Might as well earn a bit, save a bit, build up a decent resume, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 03:16 AM
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I think people should spend a fair bit of time in nightclubs with friends before they start trying to make that environment work for them while they are alone. It is sort of an altered reality? Or it aims to be one anyway. The sound, the lighting, the temperature, etc, it is designed to not be a normal situation, it is designed to alter how people think and behave. Anyway my advice is don't drink a lot if you're going in alone, and don't let your glass out of your sight. You may think that as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 05:15 PM
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I think socially adept people move between roles easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 11:38 AM
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You appear to not understand the meaning of the word "shortchange"... how much change there should be depends not only on the value of what you are getting, but also on the value of what you handed over in the first place. If you're low value of course you're going to have to compromise on a great many things. Most men nowadays are not in the least bit shortchanged by eventually finding a fat dumpy charmless school secretary with an attitude problem to hurridly marry and have two kids with when …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 11:36 AM
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Ah, but what if you say you'll be there at 9am, but then at 10pm you discover that the promotions your boss have been promising are just around the corner are a not consistent with his behavior in running the company? Let's say he's been running the business down, selling off assets and preparing to skip town. So you just decide not to go in to work any more. There's a continuum. At one end, baldfaced lies done for your own benefit, at the other is having been thwarted by acts of god. In between…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 11:24 AM
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It was something that she believed at the time but turned out to be untrue. That's not a lie. For example if at 5pm one day as you leave work your manager asks you if you'll be in on time tomorrow and you say "yeah I'll be here at work at 9am tomorrow" and then at 8am homeland security detain you and question you for the next four hours about the CEO's business dealings with certain middle eastern businessmen, you weren't lying when you said you'd be at work... it was just something that turned …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 06:49 AM
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Not wanting to have women be keen to fuck you is unmanly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 02:34 PM
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I don't see a problem with using numbers and probability to try to understand people better. What makes me wince most is the way many of them are so convinced that they've got the formula and now can't lose. Chess is not a solved game, why the fuck would humans be?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 02:18 PM
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It doesn't matter if it's me or not. Why should any man listen to a man whose attitude to sex is so unmanly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 02:05 PM
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Any man who is even considering a woman who has over 15 past partners for marriage has already lost. Life's a losing game, no-one gets out alive. We've all lost already.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 01:56 PM
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Thing is though, he doesn't care about losing his job because the job sucks and he can get another job that sucks easily. So really our hypothetical man doesn't have to do anything. Well it is probably wise if he holds a bit of money back from his pay to deal with a day his parents aren't there any more to help him through periods of unemployment. I guess he doesn't have to do that either though if he's happy to risk soup kitchens and homelessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 12:29 AM
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People are free to care if they wish. That's one of the joys of this sad unfair life, you can still care if you want. just don't go round assuming that because you care unfairness won't find you anyway. In the example given, if he's making customers uncomfortable, women should tell his manager. His manager cares because his manager is being paid to care. If the manager does not care and does nothing, tell head office. Eventually he'll grow the fuck up and realise that it is controlling his flirt…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 12:06 AM
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The thing is, what happens if they put in all the work and it still doesn't go for them? Then they'll still be in a better position than if they didn't. They'll have better social skills, better self control and their work life will probably be better. They'll probably go into retirement with a higher eventual salary and more savings. How can you ask a person to not burn the world down once they've played the game and still come up short? There are always going to be people coming up short. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 03:27 AM
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When you're at work and on the clock you're not on your time you are on your employer's time. You shouldn't be taking social risks on your employer's time with the employer's customers or employer's workers or employer's suppliers unless your employer directs you to. The employer doesn't want you to chat up customers because the employer isn't paying you to try to get laid, the employer is paying you to give the customer a pleasant, non-awkward shopping experience that flows easily without any f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 01:42 AM
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In general, all the highest n-count girls I know found extremely prosperous and moderately sexy husbands. They did pretty well. That's the reality. The skills obtained by slutting, if a woman has an IQ over about 90 and can actually learn, overtake the damage to desirability done. The girls find guys who fall in love with them and are willing to deal with the number.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 01:01 AM
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Women who choose not to have children as a fashion statement will often regret it bitterly when they grow old and can no longer become mothers. They choose not to have kids because for pretty much all of history, women have had very little choice n whether they had kids or not, so genes to actually want that sort of thing specifically are rare. I mean sure there's ample genes for loving them once you've got 'em. But not so many for wanting them. Turns out that once social pressure is removed, fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:48 AM
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Fucking and partnering up pre-dates the labour market.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 04:28 PM
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Like a food they know ain't good for them, don't even think tastes all that special, but at the buffet they keep stuffing it in their mouth anyway and ask for a doggy bag, and then buy more at the supermarket and end up with a store cupboard full. Men like the high n count girls, they also like complaining about the high n counts of the girls they only liked so much in a the first place because the girls were well experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 04:27 PM
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Well yes I must admit my circle is mostly white, working class to middle class Australians. Public servants, nurses, computer programmers, computer technicians, teachers, call centre supervisors and the like. Maybe things are different in some of the less Anglo migrant groups, or for the very poor or the very rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 04:06 PM
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That's an article written to appeal to a certain mindset. What I see in my day to day lived reality is that my single female friends are happy and in control of their lives at a greater rate than my partnered female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 03:27 PM
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Yes they exist, but most women will admit it’s unfulfilling to sleep around sans any commitment. I'm sure it is fulfilling on some levels but not on others... just like a stable lifelong LTR is fulfilling on some levels but not on others. They put on a front like they are A-okay but they recognize an emptiness deep down and usually that fuels even more hook-ups in an attempt to feel a deeper connection with another person. Life is empty so that it may be filled, that it is part of the human cond…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 03:07 PM
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Why else would any woman in her right mind stay single after 29, 30, 32 and even 35? She's not overly keen on kids... I mean maybe she'd accept them as part of a marriage but they aren't a big draw to her. She's become financially stable without need of a financial partnership in life, and decided that in general, her energies are better spent pleasing herself than pleasing a man. She is unlikely to be outlived by any man she marries, and thus must face dying alone whether she marries or not. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 01:27 PM
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People who are kind of desperate or lonely often have a hard time understanding this--that you can be seeing someone completely attractive, pleasant, and inoffensive and just not be feeling it. So much this. It is particularly awful when some guy loses his shit about a face-to-face rejection and you just know it is because he feels the woman who rejected him "thinks she is better than him" and he doesn't feel that way he thinks he is better than her... maybe she's fatter, older, not pretty, bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 01:16 PM
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On Tinder you will be flaked on. You could be 10/10 on every measure and you will be flaked on. I mean let's start with the fact that not everyone is who they say they are on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 12:04 PM
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Most normal men don't like high n count women. What a load of shit. They like them just fine. It is always the biggest ho in the room they look at first. They fuck them, they fall in love with them, they marry them. High N count women know how to manipulate men. Of my friends, the highest N count ones married the highest up the social ladder. And I say this as a low N count woman. If I had my time over, knowing what I know now about how things turn out, I'd have to seriously consider making a de…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:40 AM
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It is irrelevant what you prefer and why if you're not a quality product yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 12:54 PM
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I'm fine with dress codes so long as they aren't particularly onerous in terms of added expense, discomfort or fussiness. I approve of the reduction in visual "noise" School uniforms are a good idea too. I don't think that a dress code will reduce sexual harassment all that much though. Harassers harass because they enjoy doing so, they look for opportunities to do so, if there's no-one with a low cut blouse around they will harass someone who is showing only her hands and face. What a strict dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 12:24 PM
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I'm starting to lose hope in my dream life of actually being with a woman who loves me and understands me. You're 18. There's almost no you to understand yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 04:51 AM
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So they only feel good if other people desire them, thereby meaning they essentially want the validation that comes from that. Errrr no dude. I mean not saying that there's not a particular sort of pleasure in being desired by others, but a lot of it is about liking oneself. It feels good to most women to be in a desirable state even when they are alone. Even single women who have embraced being WGTOW will if they have the resources do things like buy nice sleepwear that looks good and feels sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 04:49 AM
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Common BP responses may be ''Most girls who go nightclubs anyway are immature anyway!'' I'm in my late forties. Yes those 19 year old girls look almost like babies to me. Did I occasionally get caught out wearing not quite enough clothes when I was in my teens/early twenties? Yeah, a handful of times. I was never trying to dress sexy though, or suitable for a nightclub... nightclubs weren't my thing and I spent most of my youth in relationships... just I'd not check the weather and then take a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 04:38 AM
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Women can't be responsible for anything, not even their own fucking orgasms. Awwww. Do you think a woman isn't taking responsibility for her orgasm unless a man witnesses it? How sad and male-gazey is that. Pathetic subservient men brainwashed into believing their value is determined by how well they please women. If you don't want to be of value to women that's fine, just don't go being whiny, pitiful, manipulative and sometimes bullying to drag out relationships where the woman has noticed how…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 06:34 AM
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Feminism promised us women who could play an active role in society and in the bedroom, It promised women who would be active when they feel like it because of genuine arousal, not women who would be active just to please you even though you're not being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 06:30 AM
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Exactly. There's no good that comes of pretending you're more thrilled with a man than you are., even if that pretending does not extend to faking orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 06:28 AM
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Men don't want to have their cake and eat it too. Oh ha ha ha all humans want their cake and eat it to, it is a human thing. Men want to be wanted. Doesn't everyone. It's not about enthusiasm in bed. It's about being able to initiate sex. It's about giving a passionate kiss and getting one of equal value in return. Your kiss is not of equal value to that of a good woman if you aren't pulling your weight. Sex for men isn't about busting nuts, it's about ego. And sometimes when a man is crap, he's…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 10:53 PM
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Didn't you read my comment? It started with "Bye!" simple as that. If you're truly miserable, leave. git gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 10:39 PM
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As I've said in other parts of these threads, people sometimes hide what they are, people sometimes change or aspects of them that weren't immediately obvious come to the fore once the pressure is on. They marry on easy-mode... no kids, usually no debts, jobs that are low pressure. Marriage isn't a fixing in stone of the situations that were in place at the start of the marriage. Life's not like that, people aren't like that. A lot of people turn out crap once the pressure is on, and guess what.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 10:38 PM
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They don't want to marry a whore but they want a woman willing to feign vastly more enthusiasm in bed than she feels so that the marriage can continue to provide non-sexual outcomes to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 06:07 PM
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Nah, I'm just chill about the fact that sometimes shit happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 05:41 PM
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Why? Honesty. If she was faking orgasms before and now that is making it difficult for her not to fake them, she could say what she was doing and why she was doing it. Start on a new slate. That does not necessarily mean that she was not enjoying the sex before. But she wasn't faking them before. If she was faking them before she'd just fake them now. She doesn't need to pretend to orgasm, but she can still recognise a responsibility to have sex with her husband and perform that duty. Duty sex i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 05:40 PM
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Like I said, you're delusional. Divorce exists and people marry knowing it is an option, it is part of the risk assessment both on the pro and on the con side. People marry and sometimes discover that they weren't so suited after all. That's real life and I'm OK with that. I don't actually see the threat to terminate a relationship in which long-term duty sex was expected but not forthcoming as any real sort of threat at all. I also don't have a problem with the thought of an ex finding someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 05:34 PM
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And if a woman really feels that way, she felt that way BEFORE she married him and she never should have married him in the first place. That's on her. You seem to live in a fantasy world where marriage fixes everything in stone and nothing ever changes after the rings go on. You're delusional. That's not how people work. And if she really feels that way, she should cut him loose because she's a selfish bitch She could. Or she could just tolerate the dead bedroom while hoping he gets his shit to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 05:12 PM
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Bye! Those crack hoes gotta get their money somehow. Like I've said in the past, if a woman is going to have to pretend she's getting off on unsatisfactory sex with an unattractive partner, she's going to have too much contempt for him to want to see his face every morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 05:02 PM
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I can do this all day. Yes I'm pretty sure you get off on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 04:59 PM
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She could just say that she was faking it before Why? The past is what it was. No point lying and saying she didn't used to have fun. What aother aspect of reality is she supposed to lie about to keep his fragile ego safe? or not pretend to begin with. Well I'm in favor of that... don't pretend to be aroused and willing when you aren't... but the OP seems to be intent on saying women should fake it a little... if not the orgasms then what leads up to them, which is just ridic because eventually …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 04:56 PM
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She is responsible for her own orgasms. Then he can be responsible for his... in a different room so he isn't getting in the way of hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 04:45 PM
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Dude, sometimes you just can't fix something as fast as another person seems determined to break it. Guys need to bother being attractive, that's all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 04:44 PM
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Oh ha ha. If it isn't there when previously it used to be, eventually they work out it means they've become crap. And then they obsess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 04:22 PM
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Oh, you're saying women just don't try hard enough to be aroused. Well I disagree, quite firmly. Usually they've been doing that all along, there have always been lulls. Deadbedrooms are when that stops working. Someone else's arousal isn't just a given that can be relied upon no matter what. There's times when no matter how deep you reach there's no more arousal to find. Spend too much time trying to find arousal once this point is reached and all you're doing is becoming acutely aware of how l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 04:20 PM
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If the woman acts enthusiastic, the guy is going to be looking for that orgasm. No orgasm? Time after time? It will all end up centering around that orgasm or rather lack of it. So what's she supposed to do when he starts getting really into trying to wring an orgasm out of her and it just ain't gonna happen because she ain't turned on? What lie is she supposed to tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 03:51 PM
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That's a lot of words to say "fake some orgasms"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 03:45 PM
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She's holding it together for the kids, not for you and not for herself. When they aren't kids any more? Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 03:04 PM
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it is a very naive thing to say he needs to romance her when shit is hitting the fan. If he wants passion then he's going to need to inspire it. Simple as that. Passion either is or it isn't. How old are you, are you married and how many kids do you have? Late forties, two kids, not formally married but that's never been an issue that mattered to me. Your mindset is about playing house. No dude. Your mindset is that it is the job of the woman to give you you sex of the sort you prefer, at the ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 02:42 PM
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You know what? Back when marriage was purely a monetary and family creation exercise organised between families, starfish sex was obviously fairly normal. You just have to read between the lines in descriptions of love and marriage in the Norse sagas... they married and then eventually they maybe fell in love... or maybe they fell into hate and disaster resulted. Damn right the sex would have been quite passionless and passive on the part of the women most times. That is really the most you can …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 01:52 PM
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Men with higher levels of AQ (Autism Quotient) were better at judging people by how they acted and thus being able to overcome lookist biases. Yeah whatever, when given the choice between a pretty but evil girl and an ugly but good girl, guess who they choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 01:36 PM
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Because for many many generations of our evolution in most parts of the world, the urge to acquire children mattered very little in whether a woman had kids or not. It was not particularly relevant to whether she bred successfully or not. Marriage was necessary for social and economic reasons, babies usually happened whether they were convenient and joyful additions or not, they were dealt with as best as possible. There was no reason for the genes for a woman to feel strongly driven to delibera…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 05:01 AM
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It's about we're not going to genocide them so we have to figure out a way to avoid them destabilizing our social and political life. Meet bare minimum material needs, allow entertainments, and then let dopamine addiction do the rest. This is how you warehouse human beings. Bread and circuses. Any of them that break free of the dopamine addiction probably also have what it takes to find a woman, well done they are no longer losers. If they become troublesome then legalise pot, that's a drug that…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 11:33 PM
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The fact is men are primarily motivated to work by obtaining the affections of women. Some men are only motivated by desire to get sex. We can lose their genes. It takes more than a desire to fuck to be fully human.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 11:06 PM
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Behave strategically as well as tactically. Like grownups do, right? I don't know enough about his broader situation to formulate a good strategic response for his situation, maybe counselling would do it, maybe getting her some mental health assistance, maybe it is time to start working out how to break up. All that takes far more info than I've got right now. What I do know is it is highly unlikely that what he did was a good strategic move. Even just going to dinner would have been a better s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 03:32 PM
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The following quote by the female poster... and you ask... or are women just too entitled Can you maybe stop a while and realize that she's one woman and if you want to know why she thinks the things she does, you can ask her? Anyhow, I think it is bad business not to at least occasionally give any of the punters who aren't totally icky a chance of swiping on a real hottie. Have a paywall for sure if you want the money, but don't totally ignore the free users, they have their role to play. I mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 02:03 PM
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I smell palak paneer and papadums.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 02:40 AM
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Australia. Like 90% of Australians I'm a comfortable and cheap public transport ride from the ocean... which is full of shark that bite, jellyfish that sting and octopus that will stop your breathing. Don't get me wrong I love the beach. The ocean itself can fuck right off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 10:27 PM
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Some guys will just say whatever they can to drag down a girl's boyfriend in her eyes. It just seems like one of the instinctive sexual strategies. I wouldn't think too much of it other than he wanted to stick his dick up you and that was the best he could do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 06:12 PM
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The ocean is so full of weird living stuff that it puzzles me that anyone is willing to go deeper than knee deep in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 04:58 AM
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Shower sex: it's overrated. Slippery, water flying everywhere. More trouble than it's worth. Showers, baths, swimming pools, hot tubs, forget it!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 04:51 AM
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I don't care if you don't want to date women who have had a lot of partners. I'm a low count women and if I was on the market again I would not be looking for a man whore. I also think most women don't care if a man prefers low count. Most women ARE pretty much low count. I'm pretty sure there's more 50 year old women out there who have had less than five partners than who have had more than five. I do think you're ridiculous if you hold this viewpoint yet want to have a lot of partners yourself…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 10:59 PM
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Most people date to a large extent within their nationality, class and culture, possibly also within their religion, all of which are heavily associated with race. For example my restrictions were "Australian citizen. Non-theists from families of Non-theist, Christian or Jewish tendencies. Family must have been in Australia at least 20 years. Speak English with the local accent. Must have middle class opinions on the value of education."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 02:45 AM
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Well yes it pretty much has. But that's OK. As a species we're not exactly running a decent safety margin below the current carrying capacity of the planet for our sort. A few people deciding to masturbate their entire lives will not be missed. A few people deciding to be deliberately childfree will not be missed. Its all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 02:18 AM
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Nothing. Losing my vagina would reduce his value to me too. Either it works out we've got enough left to be going on with or it doesn't, I'm not going to be jumping through hoops.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 07:43 AM
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Yeah well, it also isn't as if I'm not facing some adverse response here either, there's plenty of folks having a good old sook and a whine about it. People just don't like the idea that people get rejected over things that are difficult or impossible to change about themselves... despite the rather obvious logic that things that are hard to change are exactly what one should be making rejections over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 10:31 AM
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Well it is a good thing I don't give two shits about whether fat women get laid or not, then, isn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 09:57 AM
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The older a woman gets, THE MORE fussy she gets about who she's willing to date. Have you ever heard a bunch of teenage girls talking about how pathetic wrinkly old men (ie, 25 year olds) are? You'd better be getting botox and fillers on the regular from your early twenties if you want to chase after teenagers, teenagers are hella fussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:15 AM
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Dude, I'm not expecting of guys anything I don't expect of myself in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 12:53 AM
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eyeroll Anyone with any sort of perceptiveness can tell that most incels are spoiled brats with unreasonably high level of expectation that there be one special woman will volunteer to soothe them in whatever way they need soothing and expect little in return. That's just what they are. Spoiled brats are made, not born. The fact they start off their adult lives that way is definitely most often down to their mothers (and of course... their fathers... for not taking a big enough role and leaving …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 11:06 PM
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Oh some of their fathers shielded them too. Those are the ones that turn out incel AND fascist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 10:21 PM
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So in effect, timid men pay the price for the fact that men have a greater drive to control women than women have to control men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 09:19 PM
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I'm quite capable of making my own mind up whether to talk about my feelings, I expect any man of mine to be my equal in this and be able to make up his own mind whether to talk about his feelings. Children are different. They start off totally dependent on the tit. Then you wean them, so they can become productive adults who aren't always running back to mum every five seconds. I've got a family, I'm not currently on the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 09:14 PM
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Don't fucking come to me for reassurance about this, talk about the things you want to talk about and accept that it won't always bring a positive response. FFS "should I talk about this should I talk about that?" WIMP. STOP BEING A WIMP. Aaaaaaaargh. Mummy does not want to hold your hand, you have to be a big boy now, got it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 08:32 PM
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Do you think that this expectation to always be strong, never weak, and courageous could be the cause of what many women call “toxic masculinity”? Nobody expects you to be always strong. Just don't be a fucking milquetoast ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 08:14 PM
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He wouldn't be having sex with her which would be just fine if he really does believe she is a pitiful coward... but really out of politeness he can skip proatively telling her why it won't work and just give her a miss... unless of course she's on a specific mission to get answers to why and is pretty much asking questions anonymously online that elicit the truth in which case he absolutely should tell the truth. I mean what else is there to say? You choose a partner then you are (unless you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 07:47 PM
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You know what? There's a simple solution to being asked to buy girls pizza on Tinder. Just don't buy them pizza. Zero sympathy from me to those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 06:08 PM
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I honestly don't know why woman who aren't interested in casual sex are even on tinder to begin with. There's "being on tinder" and then there's actually using tinder to get sex. A lot of women are just in it for shits and giggles, to sit round laugh at the men who are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 06:02 PM
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He's going to be a bad father and he's not going to do jack shit to protect people he cares about. He's going to be more like a son than like a husband. And now you or some other one of the small army of whiny men who only find their courage online are going to get all shrill and yell "BUT MEN DON'T FIND TIMID WOMEN DISGUSTING! OMG WHY SO UNEQUAL!" to which my response is... well idk why guys are so dumb as to like timid women. I mean seriously anyone with half a brain or more should be able to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 05:58 PM
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OK. Imagine a 2x2 grid. Goodness/evilness and wimpy/gutsy. The guys who are good and courageous? They've got no problem finding and keeping partners... jobs... friends... respect... social status. They generally aren't complaining. The guys who are good and wimpy? Well they're good. But being with them is a bit like having a timid teenage son. It isn't a particularly sexy thing unless the woman really likes to be dominant and run the whole show. However they are good not evil, so they actually t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 04:57 AM
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Reading comprehension not actually your strong point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 03:05 PM
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Women aren't so bright to know a difference between the gang bang and a threesome. eyeroll
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 09:24 PM
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doesn't have the testicular fortitude That's the defining nature of his problem that brings him to /r/relationships, yes. He lacks the fortitude to make a decision that has consequences and that he will have to life with. Either path requires him to be resolute and accept the consequences. End it? Maybe he finds someone better and in a decade is looking at her on facebook being a divorced woman with a kid and a lot of drama in her life and an acrimonious divorce and he is glad he dodged a bullet…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 04:05 PM
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If it's a deal breaker, it's a deal breaker. But it hasn't impacted your relationship for the past two years, so it's clearly not some big indication of her character which you are otherwise content with. That was the comment. Any sort of decent adult human being should be able to handle the thought that someone might generally validate their course of action but point out one small thing about an emotionally complicated situation that then maybe leads on to other questions that are awkward... s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 03:55 PM
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3 people is a threesome, not an orgy or a gangbang.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 02:15 PM
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Honestly, we had never really spoke in depth about our sexual history/past before He's an idiot and well deserves the loss he's going to be taking on that ring. If a number like 20 is a dealbreaker then you need to talk about this shit before you propose... yes it is a statistically highish number for a 23 year old woman (that was her age when they started together) but it is not so high that there aren't plenty of women around who have had that many partners. I don't care why he doesn't want a …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 01:29 AM
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Wine glass in one hand, phone in the other. Oh the humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 05:39 PM
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I think your post is just links and quotes, and no actual commentary or effort of your own. Edited: In fact I'd probably be reporting your post to mods except for the fact the report form doesn't allow proper room for explaining why a bunch of slab-like quotes linked by "AND" is not enough explanation of linked content to meet post guideline number 4. Shitpost. When people shitpost it makes baby jesus cry. When people shitpost a fairy dies. When people shitpost their dicks shrivel up and fall of…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 03:33 AM
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Any MGTOW who wants to be proven wrong either needs to prove himself wrong or as an individual have enough value to motivate a woman to go to the effort to prove him wrong. There is literally ZERO percentage for anyone in going out to en masse prove these guys wrong. So a bunch of guys dropped out of the RMP. No one cares. Other guys don't care, this advantages them. Women don't care, those guys are both mostly low value and even before they became MGTOW were remarkably ungrateful for the things…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:06 AM
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Oh there would definitely be more abortions. It will also raise the rate of those abortions where the woman never even tells anyone other than her doctors that she is pregnant. I mean why tell a guy at all if it just leads you open to being led on then abandoned without even child support? One of the most user friendly aspects of abortion for women is it takes a highly fraught and stressful situation and creates certainty. One week you're stressing about how a everyone will react, how you will b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 01:49 AM
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Well fuck, you ARE insecure.You can hide it but it will leak out anyway. And hiding it too much is just going to make you more insecure and make you come across like you're hiding something. You're here asking us to speculate on why she did what she did... asking us to put our minds to making you feel even more insecure. There's a zillion possible reasons she followed that guy. At one end of the range? She's already fucked him years ago and just wanted to get in contact with him again to fuck hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 04:29 PM
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Let me guess... you're stalking her insta that closely without her knowledge, and you're too gutless to admit it to her so that's why you're asking us not her why she did what she did? Why would I want to do or say anything that might save this relationship for you? I mean... why? Either you're both garbage or just you are garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 03:49 PM
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Oh well, in my country is is your job to tell the truth to public servants and their job to make correct decisions based upon the truth you have told. So if you are wondering whether you are entitled to disability payments or unemployment benefit or anything like that, you can just lodge an honest claim with no idea whether you're actually eligible, and the public servants will sort it all out. No need to run around the internet asking randoms for advice and getting told a bunch of dumb stuff by…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 07:44 PM
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either lying about taking it or she is being totally reckless. Casual sex is a reckless thing. I mean just saying, if she goes home from a bar with you and gets pregnant, she wasn't the only one being reckless. Also, to be blunt, sex is the thing that makes babies. If you absolutely do not want to have your sperm make babies then putting it in a vagina that belongs to a fertile age woman is kind of inherently reckless. The 1% figure is a very real risk in itself. So in my opinion, a woman should…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 04:25 PM
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That pesky confusion between "want", "expect", and "deserve".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 04:07 PM
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Ooooh all the jobs I've worked... Never be rude to anyone who has anything to do with your food. The bedcovers get washed when visibly soiled. It is not fraud to make a claim for a government payment you are not sure you are entitled to, that is called "testing your eligibility" and it is a great choice. It is fraud to lie on a claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 01:29 PM
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Doubt it. Both are causing undue stress by not being fully honest. Yeah, but if you ghost the crap relationship eventually ends, if you just let the relationship go on and on that's a life of misery. If someone needs a relationship to end and they can't handle ending it more openly, ghosting is much much better than continuing to go through the motions. Ghosting could turn you into a ghost for reals. Oooooh is that a threat? That someone who is too scared of the other person's reaction to get ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 01:06 PM
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Didn't we have a rule about no incel content? I think this post is no longer just edging up to being incel content, it is inviting incel content. Let's enforce the no incel content rule again, they have become tedious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 10:16 AM
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As a method, it has to be one of the worst ways to end it. Still beats not ending a relationship that really has to end.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 07:21 AM
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Women desiring men out of desperation and risk taking is still women desiring men. It isn't desperation, it is just honestly not giving two shits about the consequences. To that standard, the same can be said about all men desiring young women. Messaging all young women and not giving a fuck. Menopausal women tend to take on a more male attitude to risktaking but keep the female take-it-or-leave it attitude to sex. That can’t be the definition of “desire” because it’s then incoherent and young w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 11:32 PM
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You don't. Simple as that. Age and wealth are the number two and number three factors restricting how successful a woman's breeding is. Factor number one is desire to have kids. One of the clearest, easiest solutions if a woman wants several kids is to marry a man who has more money than her because he is several years further along in his career. Women who do that are always going to produce more babies on average than the Ms Antoinettes of the world. The women you don't like are going to outbr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 11:26 PM
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When you go through menopause your hormones change and you become more shameless and less risk averse and just a tad angry and looking for trouble. Sorta like men. Message them all without reading their profiles then tell the losers to fuck off as soon as they start saying dumb things? Sure, why not.What you got to lose but some wrinkly old fart getting angry at you? Just call him dickless then block him. It isn't a peak in male desirability, it is a peak in women not giving two shits about a bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 11:14 PM
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I wonder how Snapchat feels about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 07:17 PM
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I think a lot of women would not be down for another woman to see their messy house Then hire a guy. Also, that can get expensive. If the reason she's stressed is she's earning tonnes of money and it is all going into renovating a joint asset, then just pay the damn price. Ultimately it's each spouses responsibility to have sex on a frequent basis. You're a couple. If one of you is falling down, it is the job of the other to help them get up... not just fold your arms and tap your toe and look i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 06:36 PM
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They do make excellent prospects in many regards... money can make a huge difference to how nice life together can be... but if you want the money AND the sex you probably need to hire some housekeeping help over periods of extra stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 03:56 PM
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I thought it was abundantly clear to every adult with half a clue that when women get tired, overworked and overstressed and remain in that state for a few months, all swimming with stress hormones, they lose their drive? Nature announces loud and clear "Don't have babies now, not a good time!" I mean seriously is there no-one who does not know this... that a woman who is being the career woman and the household manager and the household drudge and the project manager for a major reno and is try…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 01:50 PM
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Advice from women is much better than advice from highly unsuccessful men of the types both men and women don't like, and advice from successful men who you do not wish to be like because you feel contempt for them. Advice from women is on a par with advice from men who have had highly limited success. Both have major blind spots in terms of what you want to learn. What you want most of all is advice from men who are successful AND are the sort of men you don't feel contempt for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 03:51 PM
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She invited me when she didn’t know me. She's an extrovert. They're kind of odd that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 08:42 PM
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So is my problem being too nice ? No, I would not describe what you were being as "nice" unless I was doing so ironically. You didn't want her reality to get in the way of your fantasy about her. So you ignored her reality until she made it impossible to ignore, and then you complained that she should have hidden her reality. That's not nice of you. Exactly what have you been played for? Your precious time? You're 17 and you chatted a bit online not actually wasting real time like you would if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 08:25 PM
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The biggest danger in helping women and children has always been that another man will beat hell out of you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 07:53 PM
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I tried getting to know her for the last 2 months. Hinting to her that I liked her, but she didn’t really get it or so I thought. Hinting that you like her is not "getting to know" her. It is trying to get her to want to get to know you. Her inviting me to her party and talking on insta, made me think I have a chance with her. It was her 18th birthday. That's one of the big ones. Of course if she had a big party she wanted a lot more people there than are in her usual daily social circle. That's…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 07:41 PM
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Someone whose very existence makes you aware of what a weirdo social leper you really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 08:44 AM
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In my personal life? I don't wanna date. It all seems so tiresome. In the world in general? Facebook, definitely facebook, people stay in contact more and have a more extensive social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 05:59 AM
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So just walk up to a girl like: "Hey, I think you're attractive and all I really want to do now is fuck you." Well if you're not willing to do that to save time you can hardly complain when she's not willing to come straight out and say "Hey what I really want is boring comfortable relationship where we both get a better standard of living and accomplish more through sharing the hassle and costs of life.... I'm kind of over the whole passionate fucking on the beach stuff." The reality is no-one …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 05:48 AM
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From what I've seen of young women, a large part of the reason they are on dating apps is that apps lets them see what is out there but only be approached if they want to be approached. The apps also let them more quickly notice patterns in how some sorts of guys communicate about themselves and try to sell women on the idea of fucking them... pattern recognition is good. So Tinder participation is largely as an information gathering exercise with a small side serve of "maybe one of these guys i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 04:08 PM
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What do you do to bridge the gap between men and women? This gap between me and you? Between him and her? Is there for a reason. I like the gap. It helps me live a life where I don't find other people's fingers in my cookie jar (cookie jar = aspects of my mind, body, intellect and spirituality that are mine to control) unless I've given them permission. This gap means that if you're intent on crossing that boundary I've got a fair chance of seeing it coming and enforcing the boundary before the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 03:39 PM
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LOL. Patriarchy gives men the power. Some of them choose to protect women. Others don't. And there's no recourse for the woman in the second situation. This. Unless your father or brother (if you still had one... mortality was high) was willing to offer you support and sanctuary and risk dragging his entire family into armed conflict for you and risk death and no longer being there for the rest of his family, you were shit out of luck when your husband started to beat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 11:37 AM
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Why on earth wouldn't you insist on a working mother with similar earning potential so that the financial blow is greatly lessened? Because pretty young slim virginal docile women who are also high earners are higher value than the TRPs can lock down. That's just not an option for those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 06:38 PM
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Well yes, fat girls with aesthetic faces generally have no problem too. That doesn't mean that being fat is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 06:20 PM
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Skinnyfat guys aren't OK either. Sorry, but it is the truth. A guy doesn't have to be ripped or systematically lift to be attractive but he does need to carry a bit of muscle and look like he is physically competent. Men put on a bit of muscle pretty easily if they aren't living sedentary lifestyles and sometimes actually lift and carry ordinary things like grocery shopping, boxes of stuff, move furniture around, do carpentry projects, mow the lawn etc. There is nothing so indicative of a man wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 03:28 PM
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We're all of us, men and women, less bored in our own homes than at any time in history. Seriously, a lot of stories that end in sex involve someone being bored at some stage in the story, and deciding to go out and see what they can find to relieve the boredom. If you're not bored at home, you stay home.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 03:14 PM
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Girls give each other hell about appearance issues well before sexual attraction to men becomes an issue in their lives. There is, for most of us, no moment that we can remember when whatever it is that is the least attractive things about us (BMI? Buck teeth? gangly limbs?) wasn't in our awareness as something that would seriously limit our opportunities with other people. I mean quite literally if you've got an older female sibling you've probably been called podgy when you were six months old…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 11:45 AM
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Evidence that he is more adult, he earns more. Evidence that she is more adult, she can somehow manage to cook dinner without dirtying every pan in the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 01:21 PM
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Don't complain that they are playing a "game" as if you aren't playing a "game" too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 09:17 AM
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At the moment for me personally? None. NO men are worth dating. I'm happy with my current situation. In general for the average woman who is dating? Well I guess 10% are out due to just being more trouble than they are worth. 10% are out due to physical repulsiveness Take away another 10% because of logistic difficulties... they live way out on the other side of town and don't or won't drive, they work different shifts to you etc, that sort of thing. Take away another 10% due to quirky personal …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 02:30 AM
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Am I just stupid? Probably just egocentric.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 02:13 AM
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https://youtu.be/yVIG8Ar-teE What's Gonna Happen to Chris by Garfunkel and Oates
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 04:55 PM
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So is everyone on the planet a coward for lying? Did I accuse everyone who lies of being a coward? No I bloody well did not. I said he, in particular, is a coward. He's under no obligation to. Nobody is under obligation to be anything other than a snivelling coward... but those who are cowards end up paying the price. You keep using this word like it means something, but it doesn't. It doesn't have to mean anything to you if you don't want it to, but it means a fair bit to many and has done for …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 04:20 PM
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He's a coward. If he wasn't a coward he'd have told the truth about why he needs to be alone after sex. If he wasn't a coward he'd call her up and have straightforward conversation about what sort of relationship he is willing to have with her. If he wasn't a coward he'd not be the least bit upset when a girl he previous described as "too clingy" and who he only wants casual sex with just doesn't call him for three weeks... he'd think "oh she's worked it out" and then he'd call her when he wante…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 01:14 PM
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Are there a few women sleeping with all the guys? Prostitutes were probably not being sampled as much as their users. If a man uses prostitutes, he will have significantly more partners per year... even if he always asks for the same girl there will be times she isn't available or she moves on from her brothel or on from the job entirely. It wouldn't surprise me in the least if a guy who gets a prostitute once a week for forty years ends up with a count of about 150 even if he tries to use the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 02:50 AM
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A lot of girls (including young relatives of mine) go on it about a year after their first period which could be as early as age 11 in some cases. If you're really not liking what your monthly bleed is doing to your life, that's the next option after hot water bottles, ibuprofen and sympathy. Doctors have finally got it into their heads that periods can make schooling difficult for some girls, and are fully on board with that. So there's going to be lots of girls who've been on it five or six ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 04:09 AM
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If someone wants more, they violated the terms of the relationship and it is not the others problem or responsibility. Not being needlessly cruel is everyone's responsibility... well at least it is the responsibility of people who do not wish to also give others cart blanche to be needlessly cruel to them. I mean sure if you had an agreement to try not to get feels and then someone gets feels ending the relationship is probably a good idea... that's not being needlessly cruel it is just being se…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 02:38 AM
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We do what we've been doing... when someone makes an accusation of rape the police investigate and if they feel there might be enough evidence they refer it to their prosecutions department who might decide to go ahead and take it to court and if it goes to court it needs to be proved beyond a reasonable doubt. What a bunch of MRAs seem to be asking for is a life where they can interact aggressively in a physically intimate way with people they don't know very well and are mostly physically weak…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 04:43 PM
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If women are naturally likely to freeze well we should teach them the opposite Well good luck with getting that added to the school curriculum, there's a lot of guys out there that don't want their pretty princess daughters to have to contemplate the possibility they might be raped (I mean that stuff happens to those OTHER girls, you know the ones in miniskirts with a red cup of beer... don't walk alone at night or go to frat parties and it will never happen to you Tess) or don't want their litt…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 02:52 PM
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You say you've heard of one woman who did one thing... and because of this one woman what do you expect... for us to make it that just freezing up is totally disregarded as something that can and does happen and just not to give a shit about the times when the guy says "but how was I to know" and we all know he damn well should have known? Seriously, this is why we have judges and juries, to puzzle through the cases where it is difficult to tell what happened and the people involved disagree. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 01:11 PM
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Probably. I mean I'm up the aggressive/assertive end of the range as women go, translated to being a male I'd be a punchy little shit who gets into bar-room fights.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 12:02 PM
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but if you really feel like you are getting raped imo you are not gonna freeze It is pretty common during any sort of violent incident that people spend some time frozen... be it a sexual assault or a mass shooting or combat or a large brawl. I mean we've all done it in some sort of context... right? You're somewhere and something goes wrong... you hear a bad noise in the dark while you are walking in the woods or a noise at night in your house that is so wrong for the situation and you just fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 11:14 AM
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I'm nearly 50 years old. All my connections with the world are on the basis of being female. I'll just stick with what I've got.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 10:37 AM
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What I said was "I'm guessing you've never had a woman relax fully around you." if you interpret that as me saying you're a virgin then that's down to you having really bad reading comprehension. If I wanted to call you a virgin I damn well would. I would not mess about being indirect. Although come to think of it now... in your reply to me you've revealed rather more about yourself than you probably wanted to. If you don't understand that having sex with a woman doesn't necessarily mean she's l…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 10:35 AM
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Men in the workplace must constantly suppress our natural selves in the name of "professionalism". "Guy chat" would get men fired. Women chit chat however, is tame and safe for everyone. Oh you're a funny one you are. I'm guessing you've never had a woman relax fully around you. As an example, women might like to discuss which guy in the office is cute, which is fine. Men would like to discuss which girl in the office has the best ass, which is unacceptable. Or y'know... maybe the girls would di…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 10:09 AM
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In that subreddit? Yeah they are pretty much about ragging on women for expressing any sort of specific desire or preference or indeed just being present on Tinder, if they can't find one reason they'll find another. There's a guy over there who is arguing she's presented herself sluttily because she's made a few simple but not overdone efforts to be appealing. She put on lipstick and showed a tiny bit of cleavage, now she's not allowed to say she isn't after a hookup! https://www.reddit.com/r/W…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 01:19 AM
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"A bit off" when someone is outside your inner circle will usually be magnified to "Houston we have a problem" if you let them in your inner circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 04:25 AM
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Try to avoid thinking about yourself and your situation at all, while answering the question "What events should cause a human being to grieve the rest of their life?" Then after you have answered that quite extensively... lots of things you know should cause it... death of a child, fleeing as a refugee from a much beloved homeland, being in certain sorts of combat scenario, certain sorts of physical abuse or assault, certain types of really bad marriage breakup etc Ask yourself "does this reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 07:58 AM
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You can try it if you want, but expect a whole lot of being frozen out. There are all the standard problems with cold approaches, compounded by the fact that people who use public transport a lot tend to end up with very firm and detailed opinions about what is appropriate behavior on public transport including what sort of reason one should have before engaging ones fellow passengers in any way is warranted. Talk to me about jesus and save my soul? Yeah fuck off. Want to stick your dick up me? …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 06:08 AM
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Learn how to use watercolour paints and record the trip using watercolour paints as well as the usual photography. You'll have a great record of the trip, and have picked up a skill that lets you be out in public but not be seen as loitering. Also arting in public attracts attention in a good way, with a ready made topic to discuss. If you get the feeling on the trip you've tried the same things over and over. it gives you another option.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 05:12 AM
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CAILLOU THE GROWNUP GOES ON A DATE https://youtu.be/f0KdA6Aoohk Umm, not particularly smutty or violent but I still wouldn't watch it at work
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 04:58 AM
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Pretty much. Why don't women want him? Because he's quite likely a ticket to being part of a "man kills family" headline when his overblown and narcissistic expectations aren't met.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 01:34 AM
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False rape accusations are rare, false rape accusations that are not almost immediately obvious as lies are rare even within that original rare set, false rape accusations that result in conviction are rarer still. Can you answer me a question... do you have a license to drive a car or were you too timid for that? Because that's riskier on so many fronts than the risk of false accusation of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 05:14 PM
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You know (based on prior history... he's 25 and a fat shut in, he ain't been listening to anyone all these years of "sport is goof for you" at school and "get out in the sunlight to play with friends'" at home) that he ain't gonna do jack shit of what you advise and is just going to blame you if he makes a listless attempt and fails. So what's left? Find a way to answer him without confronting him enough for him to tanrtrum, then leave promptly. "Personality matters most" well yes it probably do…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 07:16 AM
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You asked what consequences men have for sleeping with women then leaving them. Child support is a consequence. Whether that's why child support exists does not alter that a child support assessment is a consequence of no longer being with the mother of the child. Men who regularly love em and leave em, specializing in creating intense feelings in the honeymoon phase of relationships but not the follow through tend to end up with child support assessments as a consequence of their lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 06:14 AM
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You asked what the consequences were for men, I told you. That's a consequence, they pay child support. Does a good job of reducing their future reproductive effectiveness too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 05:51 AM
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If it really is that common then everyone who has been out in the world for any length of time would have seen cases of it in their circles. I've got enough to say you're full of shit on this issue. I don't care if you are refusing to admit you are full of shit... deep down you know it and you know I've seen that you are full of shit. You're advocating timidity and to do so you spew a lot of bullshit. People like you are really damaging to young people who haven't yet seen enough of the world to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 05:46 AM
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But like I was saying earlier, men don't have any consequences for sleeping with women and leaving them. Child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 05:38 AM
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I've never heard a false accusation among the people I know or the workplaces I have worked at, not in all my nearly fifty years of life. A couple of times where people disagreed about the essential nature of an incident but in those cases they agreed about many of the details and nobody was making an accusation of a crime or saying that anyone had meant harm or acted in bad faith... and one of those incidents involved a guy who felt he'd been pressured not a girl. Where are you getting that it …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 05:34 AM
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You're the one not making sense. The number of false allegations is small. The number of them that gets taken seriously for any real length of time even smaller. Courts still operate to beyond reasonable doubt. On campus, which seems to loom large in a lot of people's minds despite its time limited and location limited nature, the consequences of that environments peculiar set of quasilegal procedures is limited. If you don't behave like a rapey sort of person your friends will still be reluctan…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 05:27 AM
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What I'm saying is that the risk is real but it is small and particularly when it is sensibly managed it is too small to stop a person who is not excessively timid from having a normal life. It isn't something to fear, any more than getting struck by lightening is something to fear. Those who do fear it? Not just think about it occasionally to check their habits aren't needlessly increasing their risk? There's something wrong with them, they behave more like rabbits than like humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 04:53 AM
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Sort of like how rape hurts but women still have to go about their lives... getting to and from work, shopping, trying to get fit, going to sleep at night, driving places, taking public transport, all often without the money to do so in the safest possible ways. This is life, life is risk. The risk of a false rape accusation is very low, and the things one can avoid to reduce the risk aren't actually things that are essential to living well. It is a risk but it isn't a huge risk. You can be scar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 02:35 AM
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Well yes obviously it is going to hurt if a branch falls on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 02:07 AM
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When accusing men of wanting insecure women, what is the picture that is playing in your heads? (If you don't make this accusation, then this question is not for you). She's 20 (or 19, or 22, somewhere about there) and her family are crap and her education or work aren't playing out the way she wants. There's reasons for that and they aren't really about her innate talent or persistence, she's been sabotaged in a bunch of ways by family and circumstance and is catching up... only she doesn't kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 02:04 AM
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The rate of something does not have to be zero for the chances of it happening to be far far less less than some people would have you believe. People love to panic other people, in particular timid people who do not wish to appear timid love to panic other people, it makes them fell better to know that everyone else is now as timid as they are. The sky is falling, the sky is falling. Hey everybody the sky is falling, panic panic panic with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 01:30 AM
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all the childfree, fetches popcorn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 07:45 PM
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Risk assessment is an odd thing. At one of the lowest ebbs of my life I was walking through a parkland full of very old eucalyptus trees (mostly River Red gums) and it occurred to me that despite the frequent exhortation not to camp beneath such trees because they shed huge branches, camping beneath such a tree is probably a really unreliable way to kill oneself. Anyhow, if you avoid doing the things that tend to be most closely associated with false accusations, such as consuming of large amoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 07:41 PM
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Have you taken offense? Well whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 12:30 AM
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Well yes sometimes simplifications are necessary when you're dealing with simpletons. It is pretty hard to get across to the average man that the sun really does not shine out of the hole in his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 12:04 AM
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Fair on who? The prisoners? The guards? You?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 12:03 AM
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Spergs can work extra hard on being less spergy just like a girl whose fat tends to her tummy rather than thighs and butt can work extra hard on being skinny. Getting together the cultural baggage and outlook of the middle class is hard but do-able, a lot of women are faced with that one too if they want to avoid looking for matches in the underclass. IQ can be improved by diligent application of oneself to thinking about difficult things, yes there are limits but there are also educational opti…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 03:18 PM
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America, love it or leave it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 02:59 PM
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Why do you think this double standard exists? 'Cos guys don't kick up a fuss about it and gals do. I know why gals kick up a fuss... public toilets are one of those places that sexual assaults by male strangers are known to have a greater chance of happening because toilets can be lurked in and are kind of private. Since we really would prefer to be able to pee while out of home without getting raped there's a bit of a consensus that being extra strict about no guys in the women's toilets makes …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 01:53 PM
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on the other hand women are more devastated when its about emotional intimacy and not too much about the sex,why We're devastated by the physical cheat too. I've been there... it was like that dick was polluted, ugh, gross. We are more devastated than you by the intimacy stuff because that's like you bringing unexploded ordinance into the house and expecting us to use it as footstools. I mean sure things are fine right now but you want us to be OK with the upcoming explosion?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 04:15 AM
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For dating purposes (ie, a mix of RMV and SMV) an 8/10 22 year old man might be one who has some sort of reasonable level of both good looks AND can in the time it takes to ask for the date convey without being clumsy about it that there is very solid hope of economic advantage in his future. It is reasonable to expect that, for example, a man with halfway decent social skills (not a sperg) a not unpleasing face who has been going to the gym regularly since age 17 (but not using lots of roids) a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 04:10 AM
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That's just the reality, the years between 18 and 26 are golden in a woman, they are the years in which she looks great and still has time to produce 2 to 3 kids without much hassle..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 04:08 AM
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Are you capable of understanding that when you talk about the dynamics of couples, you are talking about a man and a woman? Probably not. OP listens to the gripes of mainly the men, mainly men with traditional expectations, so he perceives men's adverse experiences of the dynamic. His perceptions being limited to men do not mean the problem is limited to the men. If he goes trying to solve the problem for the men in these relationships without solving the mirror image that is in the women in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 06:45 PM
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And it is a guy thing to be all kind and solicitous and giving and ok with her having control over the small decisions of her life before the woman is dependent, and then become a nightmare and start wanting to micromanage the exact shade of every damn lipstick she buys and throwing tantrums about burnt toast after she becomes dependent in order to raise his kid. Humans suck sometimes. I'm glad divorce exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 06:10 PM
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Men do that too, hold out expectation things will be one way when there are kids and then suddenly tada you're trapped, it is a totally different way now! It is a human thing to take advantage of a trapped person who is trapped by wanting to do the right thing, not a woman thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 06:00 PM
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You got nothing I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 05:46 PM
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I get it, you want to defend traditional gender roles, and men's power and status within them in particular. If understanding the real costs destroys your ability to function that way, you'll refuse to understand. That's what you're about. That's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 05:33 PM
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Nah the kiln wasn't me. It is a reworking of someone else's story, using a different hobby but about the same expenditure and dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 04:57 PM
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Traditional gender roles have some pitfalls. One of the major ones is that they encourage people to see what their partner "should" be thinking, doing and feeling within those roles as just a given... a product of being a man or a woman and something that should just be automatically and painlessly produced, and not something that actually comes at a huge personal cost to produce. This inevitably results in a lack of gratitude. Gratitude is a wonderful thing for relationships. I daresay if you h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 04:39 PM
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Young men of no particular quality just rate themselves too high, they place that 5/10 tag on a young woman who is too valuable and on a young man who is not valuable enough to warrant it. I'll be blunt about this. If she's 22, lower middle class or higher, not more than mildly overweight, and free of major obvious physical, mental or financial deformity but hasn't got much more going for her than that? She's an 8. She's great breeding stock. Is she hypothetically identical to a male of similar …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 03:53 PM
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Because it puts someone else on the hook for whether the decision is the right one... and the decision is too pivotal and too reliant on intimate knowledge of a person's needs, limits and priorities to be best made by anyone other than the person it has the most impact on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 03:09 PM
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No-one with any sense is going to answer that question for you. It is down to you to come up with your answer, that applies to you. The majority of the things you would do to get a woman are also useful to you personally when it comes to living a successful prosperous life in which you are able to be happy with yourself, your health, your options. How about you do this... make a big list and strike out all the things that are useful ONLY for finding women. The rest of it? Start doing that stuff.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 09:20 AM
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I'm not a NiceGuy, I'm not a guy at all... but I think the NiceGuy dynamic is somewhat along the lines of the long-term unemployed dude who always thinks he knows how to do anyone's job much much better than them, just because he can find one or two things wrong about how any employed person he knows is doing their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 04:17 AM
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/u/whitetrashcel
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 03:56 AM
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"I'm not incel but they're making some good points over there and their jokes and memes are top tier" heh. Let me fix that for you. "I say I'm not incel but I don't just lurk there I actually post there a whole fucking lot."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 03:03 AM
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Ah, another magnificent gentleman from /r/briancels
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 01:50 AM
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eyeroll
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 12:23 AM
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You're actually dumb, You're dumb AND not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 11:56 PM
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And somehow this means it is in our interests to make sure murderers breed?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 11:55 PM
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Wrong What a silly way to argue... might as well join you in the sillyness though because it seems like fun. You're triple goddamn wrong wrongity wrong. Well that was fun. But I can provide sources And haven't. Not that I'm asking you to, your arguments are generally quite dismissable based purely upon common knowledge and logic. It's not about having a dick or not you dolt its how our brains are wired differently. Oh it isn't about your dick it is about how you THINK about your dick. Such a hug…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 11:32 PM
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Naw dude, incels who are shot by police have been Darwinned.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 11:26 PM
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I took responsibility by divorcing him. Worked like a charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 11:24 PM
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We cure it in the long term by letting the police shoot them so they don't pass on their murder genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 10:15 PM
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To be blunt, if some guy kills a bunch of people because he couldn't get laid then he for sure was one whose genes we didn't want and who it would have been unreasonable to offer responsibility for a spouse and family to. Very sad for the handful of victims these guys take from us each year but no argument for placating these guys by letting them pass on their murder genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 09:56 PM
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Addiction, it damages their interpersonal skills so much so that they can't speak on the phone. They speak better on the phone than my generation who grew up with fixed line rotary phones ever did at their age. Some studies have paired it to bad grades. There's always something people are expecting to carry the can for bad grades. Rock and roll. Playing pool. Listening to too much cricket on the radio. You won't realise that it's doomed us all until it's too late though You're just trying to pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 09:46 PM
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Trust me, guys get pissed too when they think you're committed and then you say nah, it is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 09:39 PM
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just like technology is destroying today's youth now Ah yes, for values of "destroying" that include "assist them to keep in contact with old friends, place more information in their hands and give them more opportunities" This was simply the trouble that patriarchy had been building up for us the past 1500 years or more. There's only so far you can go insisting that one gender gets almost no say in who reproduces before you've got real genetic trouble on your hands. Feminism may well have saved…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 09:12 PM
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But what got you off at 20 is probably going to get you off at 30. I would sooner eat my own vomit than have sex with the man I was married to at age 20, or anyone that reminded me of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 04:31 PM
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What has happened is that women have less incentive to PRETEND to be attracted and aroused by men who have been increasingly less desirable to them over many generations, due attractiveness (and especially male attractiveness) having been systematically sidelined as a reproductive factor in favor of wealth. The recently overturned system favored whoring (if you take whoring in the broader context, of faking for profit a response that is not actually felt) and favored it heavily. If anything it b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 08:24 AM
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You say that like it is some bit revelation and I'm supposed to be upset by it. Dude, it is just reality. If tomorrow all men who did such things ceased to be willing to do them despite the financial incentive then yes it would be down to women to sort out what was to be done instead. Things would have to change, maybe there would be less asphalt and more brick paved roads, maybe less paving and more asphalt, everything would have to be rejigged just like everything would have to be rejigged if …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 04:01 AM
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Feminists say men are not entitled to sex but they might as well say they are not entitled to love, romance or companionship since you get sex from those things. Well duh. You know all those romance books that cheap book exchanges used to be full of? Yeah, that's women buying three romance novels a week for years and years and years. Often married women who were not getting decent levels of romance, or love or companionship. Women fucking KNOW that no-one is entitled to these things, we daily se…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 06:00 PM
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Or like a normal skinny girl who does lift. The handbag on the seat? The shaved underarms? The bra strap?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 02:10 PM
4

Nah I'm fine, not on the market. But I still know I'm not really seen unless I'm pretty much jumping up and down waving my arms. It is OK, there's upsides to it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 05:17 AM
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I'm a 48 year old woman so effectively invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 02:11 AM
3

What are the proofs that TRP is incorrect in its assumptions? {Quantitative data only, please} You want me to find large amounts of quantitative data to disprove your qualitative assumptions that are both numerous and varied in number? Yeah fuck this noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 12:32 AM
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Well yeah, there's no need for resource guarding in general and especially not at this point. She talked to the people who were hanging around the kitchen... hanging round the kitchen usually means looking for stuff to do. She wanted people to go do stuff... that stuff being take part in the first conversation I have with her old friend so it has less chance of ending up feeling like an interrogation about myself and my suitability. The other people were fine with it because they were looking fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 12:22 AM
1

I'm at a party with someone and that someone is my link to the person hosting the party. We showed up, some practical stuff was done, and then the person hosting the party, my person and some others moved off to have some conversation. It is polite and seemly at this moment that if I don't have anything clearly more pressing to do (sudden attack of loose bowls, car is on fire, hiccups) that I go get to know the person hosting the party better and am introduced to whoever she wants to introduce m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 11:45 PM
1

I was about to answer the questions and then I realized how totally fucking tedious height is as a topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 03:50 PM
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People well into their working lives do not fit well with those who haven't properly started yet, there's still that hurdle of what the person is going to do when they graduate and look for work. And there's a big power difference that is bound to equalise or even reverse, causing seismic shifts in relationship dynamics. If she's mature enough at 18 to see something in your 28 year old self that is better than the 18 year old boys around her, at 21 she's going to have overtaken you and be seeing…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 06:22 AM
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Yet to see this Oh well then, you're hanging out with women who've got the hell over that instinctive caregiving response. also the cognitive dissonance in this response is amusing. Jam your amused mastery up your bum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 02:35 AM
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Why do so many women just sort of automatically do the dishes whenever they are at some guy's place? Some patterns are, I guess, just sort of comfy. The old guy who brings stuff for your aunt may have figured he's beyond obtaining a sexual relationship but still wants someone to go into elder care with him eventually. He might be buying stuff for more than one woman, in hope. People have a different attitude to money when they reach old age with a plentiful supply. The drug addict might be usefu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 11:39 AM
1

For all relevant purposes anyone (male or female) who likes having a partner at all is wired up to be able to be accept a suitable new partner during their most fertile and productive years after an old relationship becomes for whatever reason irrelevant. It is only in the past eighty years or so that human mortality during the most fertile and productive years has fallen to the level that we find young widows and widowers to be an unusual thing. Even disregarding that, we have for most of our e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 07:53 AM
3

Oh well, you guys sound juvenile.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 05:33 AM
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How old are you? I mean I get it that teenagers don't have the life experience to deal with this but some time in your early twenties you should all have been around the block a bit and have got the fuck over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 05:13 AM
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Awkward but acceptable, so long as some reasonable amount of time has passed and both of them have since dated others, and it wasn't a famously acrimonious breakup. But one of you needs to tell the friend, it is rude to let them hear if from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 05:03 AM
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Your first step would be to stop blaming your parents for the things you fail at. So much this. How do I adult? Stop being a child. I think the next step is give yourself credit for the ways in which you are already being a man. It is highly unlikely the glass is not already half full. After that... sensible useful attainable goals, break big goals into smaller goals, keep progressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 04:02 AM
2

Just about everything in life is a disaster waiting to happen. Driving a car. Having a job. Owning a home. Credit cards. Friendships. Relationships. What we do is we learn the skills and knowledge necessary to make sure there is a positive experience not a negative one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 11:16 PM
2

When good things "just happen" the specifics of them are often unexpected but there was still in most cases a deliberate and persistent effort to live the sort of life in which certain sorts of things can just happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 11:12 PM
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It is entirely possible I am in part mistaken about dancing, I have some fairly complex opinions on it and they are still developing. Yet I know enough to know that OP needs to stop and give a thought to dance in general, what makes it different to other forms of movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 07:21 AM
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It doesn't exist as a creation of the person who just wants to be friends. It exists as a creation of the person who then can't deal with that situation constructively. It is entirely in the mind of the person who regards themselves as being in the friendzone. Put it this way. Imagine a friend says to you at 4pm "hey imma call you tonight" and you then sit down on your sofa with your phone out next to you without moving and say "hey now I'm in the wait zone" and you wait there until 9.15 pm and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 04:24 AM
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Look, you clearly haven't made the slightest effort to understand dance in general before attempting to assign meaning to one sort of dance. It isn't unreasonable to expect people to put in a bit of effort themselves on questions like this. This isn't like maths where there is one answer and the steps to it are easily described. I could give you my answer but it wouldn't be the answer you need, the answer you need is your answer as formed after you've got yourself a decent grounding in the under…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 09:29 PM
2

Like if the father of my very real children decided to disown them? Well of course I'd lose the guy not the kids, what do you think I am? Kick his manky butt to the curb and ride off into the sunset with my daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 09:17 PM
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No dude, giving you an adequate understanding of one of the major cultural forms (that you have, no doubt neglected thoroughly until now, in favor of porn and games) is not a matter for a few lines on reddit. If you want to understand dance you need to be the one to make the effort. Suffice it to say, the relationship between dance and sex is complicated, subtle even when it is blatant, blatant even when it is subtle. If you aren't anywhere near understanding it then that is because you've chose…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 09:13 PM
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Maybe any one particular form of dancing is best understood from the perspective of making an effort to understand dancing in general first, then the dance culture that it comes to us from, not from trying to shoe-horn it into a broader philosophy about something else before you've even come to an understanding about dancing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 09:03 PM
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Whenever I've left someone it has been in exasperation that three things were happening a)I would be significantly better off by myself than without this man b)this looked to be a long term situation not a temporary one c)he could easily fix the situation and had been repeatedly alerted to the situation and its impact on me, but felt he didn't need to fix it. At which point it was time to say goodbye, because who has time for this bullshit in life? At no point has ability to get another man or w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 07:53 PM
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Oh so it is yet another one of those things where TRPs are so tied up in what is happening to them right at this instant that they ignore what is happening to other people and in the broader picture. And somehow they have the gall to accuse other people of solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 07:45 PM
2

Most men don't particularly find other guy's feelings about sex particularly relevant or valuable most of the time either. If a guy's getting laid he generally doesn't care if other guys he has no real relationship to aren't. He's a winner, they are losers, they could be winners if they bothered to, case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 02:22 PM
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I believe that within committed relationships, when you count not just number of sexual encounters but also the content of them it is about 50/50. Plenty of guys just won't lick pussy. I believe that women also gatekeep commitment. A guy needs to be in a very specific relationship to a woman's desires before he gets to gatekeep his commitment. Plenty of guys have been unwanted by a woman even as an orbiter with oneitis... she "let's be friends" and then pushes him against his will out to a point…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 02:00 PM
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Gatekeeping sex is also in a very real way gatekeeping LTRs... an LTR just isn't going to happen without sex. I mean it isn't like unattractive men can just walk up to pretty women and say "hey babes... LTR?" and then the pretty women will take them home install them in their apartment fulltime and fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 01:49 PM
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If you ever say no, you're a gatekeeper. Most men get to be gatekeepers too sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 12:52 PM
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Can't really say I disagree. A human being can be one of the most versatile of assistances to another human being there is, those who can't get it together to be better for another human being than their absence would be can't really expect to have relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 12:24 PM
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you will never understand how men feel about sex How men feel about sex is usually irrelevant, that's a cold hard fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 11:29 AM
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Like a great number of women I don't have sex with men I don't have a fair idea about first, because finding out what guys are really like first is the way to end up not being stalked by garbage trash. ONS with a comparative stranger are out of the question no matter how cool he seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 12:07 AM
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Tone down the fucking snark, would you. Some of us have actual jobs. If you want to be taken seriously when you just drop a name as being evidence, then that name had better check out or after a while people just can't take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 05:53 PM
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I didn't follow this stuff too closely, so my Piven data turned out to be outdated. Typical. Eric Greitens. "But muh mailing list" - if not for the rape accusation, no-one would have ever cared about mailing list. The mailing list stuff was a felony. It doesn't matter how much you employ minimizing language, it was a felony and there was enough evidence. Sooner or later his fast moving upward political career trajectory had the potential to be shot down by the fact he committed a felony. The way…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 05:11 PM
2

Conspiracy theorists are stupid. Big old bunch of thickos and most of them men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 03:50 PM
1

Well duh, there was a spike in the number of young people as a percentage of the population, you may have heard of baby boomers? There was also cheap housing so kids could leave home earlier, more well paid jobs that you could leave school to go work so lots of teens with paychecks, cheap alcohol, and heroin becoming more of the thing so all of a sudden there were lots more people with expensive illegal habits. Also in the USA the drinking age was on average lower too. And law enforcement, legis…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 03:46 PM
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Gotta confess, I don't believe in it at all but I fucking LOVE doing tarot readings. Put those cards down and tell a story using them so fucking satisfying even though it is crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 03:34 PM
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So much this. Some men seem to have a mile wide blind spot about how hard it is to persuade one other person to keep a secret for more than a few months, let alone several hundred keep a secret for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 03:33 PM
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I said "someone" that's a singular. He's been accused by at least 5 women at this point, and they have between them eight backup witnesses that each have given evidence that the stories they now tell were shared with friends well before they became aware of the other womens' stories. None of their stories has been disproved either, which one would think would be easy enough for someone who has an agent who takes care of large amounts of his scheduling. That's just too many people for this to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 03:30 PM
1

Sweets, lollies, confectionery.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 08:16 AM
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interact with you and give you free attention You see these sort of beliefs are why some guys (most notably the TRP spergs) will never properly enjoy living in their social environment and will consistently spend most of their time in retreat from it leaving them then wondering why their social environment isn't spontaneously producing opportunities (both professional and sexual) like they think it should. They've got no actual clue about the value of paying attention to their social environment…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 04:20 AM
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Well you're probably even then still best off saying "yeah we're good" when she offers friendship... then just not getting together deliberately and not making any real effort above friendly chitchat when you see her incidentally, that's still the socially apt thing to do that indicates you're not full of asbergers genes. Edited to add: I mean seriously, to do otherwise than to accept some sort of friendship at that point is to admit "I'm willing to offer relationships to women who I'm pretty ce…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 01:07 AM
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Because you're the one who started the fakery by trying to fake friendship to get comfortable to make an offer of sex/romance. If you don't want to look like the total garbage trash you are, you're best off not letting the world know the friendship you initially offered when trying to get close to the girl was totally fake. Since friendship covers a huge amount of ground from "know each other and are on friendly terms" to "would help this person hide a body" that's not real hard to do, just pick…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 01:02 AM
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Actually if you've gone about the already morally dubious tactic of giving someone to believe that you want to be their friend because they seem like an interesting person and worthy of friendship when really it is something else you are after, it is kind of arsey not to find a gentle way of letting them down when you discover they aren't related to the hiring manager at the place you want a job/willing to fuck you/ able to get you free tickets to football games/whatever else it was you were aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 11:12 PM
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Yet if someone complains that all his job applications are being rejected, would people tell him "you're not entitled to a job!!"? They do, actually. If you're going around saying "where's my job I've been applying but not getting anywhere" then one of the first things people tell you is you've got to change yourself to be the person the employer wants... get more qualifications, volunteer in that field, do work experience etc. If you then say you shouldn't have to change, you will be told quite…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 11:03 PM
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I've yet to see a man's established career destroyed solely because someone made a sexual allegation without providing evidence. I mean sure if he's got a huge amount of other issues then the whiff of a need for investigation might tip it, but whatever, if a woman has a huge amount of other issues then a whiff of needing to pay her maternity leave might also do it. There's a reason "don't get your meat where you get your bread" is a longstanding (and when worded in a less confrontational way, we…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 10:56 PM
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Even the fat ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 11:10 AM
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Can't see what the big deal is, some women end up damaging their careers by having babies at the exact wrong time or too often, some men end up damaging their careers by trying too aggressively to spray their genetic material up women who aren't thrilled by the idea. In both cases there are also measures in place that reduce the impacts but do not eliminate them... took a dog's age for Weinstein's actions to go from being an open secret to being common knowledge, for example. Swings and roundabo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 11:08 AM
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There's always been a fair amount of sexual assault directed at lesbians, and statistically speaking sexual assault carries a lethal risk with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 09:52 AM
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And writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 08:51 PM
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Most of them aren't real original. Imagine if you divide people very roughly according to two variables... are they STEM focused or are they arts/people focused, are they plodders or are they inspired? TRPers for the most fit firmly into the plodding STEM types quarter of the chart. Because they are plodders they ain't got jack shit of their own in the way of original thought, it is mostly stolen or borrowed or begged or cajoled or learned from others. They are incredibly dependent on going to o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 10:42 PM
3

Yeah whatever, you get what you pay for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 07:31 PM
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Well I can only speculate, but I think the reasons are probably the same as guys but with a slightly different balance between how much for each reason. Bored with the relationship but got too much invested to end it, just enjoy having more than one, feeling the control their partner exerts in their life starting to chafe and want to regain a sense of control, too gutless to end the relationship, poor impulse control, sociopathy, self important sense of entitlement, seeking a retreat from regula…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 06:23 PM
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OP wasn't asking whether tropes in general are as relevant to women as to men, just about two particular tropes. I don't think anyone would have argued that there aren't tropes that appeal particularly to women or that tropes in general are appealing to human beings. Those particular two he chose, yeah those are favorites of heterosexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 10:19 AM
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Why do you think low value guys should want to marry single mothers? Because they want someone who meets a certain looks standard, and they haven't got the SMV or RMV to pay for that that without accepting some sort of scratch or dint on the merchandise. I mean seriously there's only so many ways to get an SMV 7 if you're an SMV 5, and that's one of them. Why is it low value dudes have trouble understanding this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 09:22 AM
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grew up on Tarzan literature or the Disney movie are now probably middle-aged and married, while the ones that grew up on Loki and Thor are still in their teens/early adulthood. Well duh, of course I'm correct. Was it a surprise to you? Middle aged women are the bulk of some ships that are far more recent than their childhood. They write maybe 80% of Hermione/Snape, for example, and Hermione/Snape is one of the biggest het ships. There's plenty of Marvel fanficers that are middle aged women. Yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 09:15 AM
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You know how some religions have a test of fellowship? The Seventh Day Adventists throw you out for smoking, the catholics have the nicene creed, if you're a jew you get your foreskin removed, etc? Well I think we need to come up with a small list of things that if you're single and of SMP/RMP age and are not doing them you just aren't trying and we stop regarding you as a part of the SMP/RMP at all and we stop listening to anything you have to say about your outcomes from the marketplace and te…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 04:14 AM
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There's girls who like Thor, but I think the thing about Thor is he's not moronically stupid... he's just kind of average intelligence and he's out of his normal environment and he's having to hold his own among a lot of really smart heroes and villains that he plays as a foil to? Also he's got a hammer and everything is bound to start looking like nails. There's a bunch of moments in both the Marvel universe and in Norse mythology when it is clear he's not retarded. One could reasonably assume …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 03:05 AM
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Pretty much, it is a classic example of trying to downplay disadvantage by reframing a major part of the disadvantage as being a huge advantage. OMG unemployed people they so lucky they get to go to the beach whenever! Construction workers get so fit! The peasants have such an idyllic life never worrying about their estates and business ventures! Housewives get to go shop for groceries all the time, all that coupon clipping is a great hobby, look at them having such fun on their husband's dime! …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 02:46 AM
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If it were ethically possible to do this almost every guy would agree to that being fair in a heart beat. And barely one guy in a thousand who wanted to abort would even hesitate to go through that ordeal. Yes but would you advocate and support it right from the get go, or would it be a little bit of "equality" that you'd try to slip your changes through without considering? Are you really as selfless and equality minded as you expect women to be? I don't think so. OTOH would you agree that any …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 02:19 AM
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This. Men wanted two things out of this... not to have to feel bad about the behavior of men in general and obliged to take action when they consider the many starving kiddies of deadbeats, and to be able to if necessary marry a single mother and have her ex pay at least pay something towards the kid he made. What I find hard to puzzle out is why so many low value guys can see and like viscerally feel the downside that is very unlikely to apply to them (might have to pay child support to a ONS) …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 11:53 PM
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Comparatively little fanfic about Tarzan. And of course things get sexier when you add Loki.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 11:05 PM
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Would you be willing to make a physical ordeal equivalent to an abortion be the price paid by a man for avoiding child support obligations? Would you be willing to make a physical ordeal equivalent to childbirth be the price paid by a man for any sort of ongoing right over his own children... be that within a marriage or without marriage? If a woman dies in abortion or childbirth should we kill the man who got her pregnant? Because that would be what would need to happen if you literally wanted …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 10:28 PM
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Childless people don't know shit about how much of the opinions they hold while childless are going to be overturned by the reality of that newborn. I can just imagine two naive idiots agreeing to something that it is dumb to be too fixed about, and then after the baby is born only one idiot changes their mind. Imagine if the kid is colicky and a pacifier is the the only thing that comforts, and the smarter idiot realizes that the baby had better just have a pacifier for a few weeks and the dumb…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 05:30 AM
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However many men in the West do not come close to tapping their psychological strength potential and are in practice psychologically weaker than women. Yeah whatever, nobody gives a shit about what people think their potential is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 09:34 AM
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Highest rated one I knew well enough to greet in the street was around the 2400 mark and an IM but to be blunt the guy I know who peaked round 2250 was a more all-round brilliant dude and i spent a lot of hours around him due to chess coaching for my kids. I've met a few grandmasters in passing but never hung about with them. Ian Rogers is the closest I've come to having much interaction with a GM, he seems quite nice, easy going and decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 04:30 AM
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Yes. In my past there's a chess master or two, a lawyer of exceptional brilliance, a comedic singer/actor and an opera singer who fit that bill. It is OK to be ordinary. one of the things that get used to manipulate people is the desire that gets instilled in us quite young, to not be ordinary. That desire creates a bottomless pit of need. The sort of conversation OP has started tends to end half the time in "well what do you think is special about THAT, huh? So ORDINARY." So it is sort of just …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 02:34 AM
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Most of it has to do with guys refusing to believe they were crap enough for a woman who once believed in them to lose faith in them without another guy being involved in the "ah-ha" moment... combined with men observing that women are often reluctant to repeat the mistake they made in choosing their last boyfriend. I mean seriously, don't be surprised if you've spent four years driving your live-in LTR insane by not being responsible with money, having a smoking habit that you indulge in withou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 10:50 PM
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I'm just an ordinary human being of ordinary levels of functionality and persistence... some things I'm above average at and some things I'm below average at but in general I'm an ordinary human being. I have skills, resources and status but it is all quite ordinary. When I work as a team with another ordinary human being and we manage to make it work out we are both substantially more effective, things get done quicker and there's just more to go round. We all get more cups of tea we don't make…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 09:47 PM
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Damn right. The answer almost always is "Where it usually is and you haven't even checked there yet have you?." And when it isn't that, then the answer is "Probably where you last left it." And when it isn't that it is "Have you checked the salad bowl you keep on your desk and throw everything small into?" And like one time in 10,000 the answer is "Oh I've got the scissors in my hand right now because I'm opening envelopes" Grrrrr. One time in 10,000 my input is relevant. Rest of the time? Just …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 11:31 AM
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They complain about anything at all when they are unhappy, and they are unhappy when they don't have women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 01:32 AM
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Well there you go, that's your solipsism speaking. Because you're not entirely certain that other individuals exist outside of their relevancy to you, you see women's actions in terms of what you hope or fear the outcome for you will be, not as products of the woman's thought processes that are complex and personal and in which you are not a particularly significant factor compared to a million other things. When a woman is sensitive or kind to unfamiliar men maybe it means she wants to fuck... …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 01:24 AM
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Dudes who aren't substantially in the incel dynamic aren't in general complaining. Even divorced men... if they are still getting easily laid to the standard they want and didn't experience a massive reduction or interruption to "service" then the child support and property settlement get taken in stride, part of the cost of doing business.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 11:21 PM
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nah thats only incels. No. It is most men. Sympathy is like some sort of damn aphrodisiac. Want an 8 guy to fuck you even though you're a morbidly obese 3? Find his deep secret hurt and shame, get him alone, apply forgiveness and understanding. He'll try to crawl right back up that motherly womb of yours. Pitiful creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 02:52 PM
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NAMALT? Well whatever, enough men are like that, that for the purposes of a woman extending empathy to dudes she doesn't want to fuck, they might as well all be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 09:15 AM
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The trouble with having empathy for dudes is it always ends up being translated into "well if you understand so well why won't you fuck me"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 06:28 AM
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Yep, can confirm. it's not the all the cringey sexism and toxic outlook on gender relations, what really burns my buns is men knowing that I'm secretly attracted to guys who are hot and have jobs sporfle
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 03:23 AM
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It is a known way of improving people's face to face communication skills. It works from the very first session, you start getting told not to do things. Stop "juggling with your hands, quit that shifty sideways look etc. I did some of it in the early 90s when I was studying for an interview-heavy career. Of course the equipment to do it is more accessible than it used to be, you could cobble something together pretty cheap now I'm sure... your phone, your old phone, a computer, some software, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 08:48 PM
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I suspect that videoing their casual conversations with a camera on them and a camera on the other person then playing those conversations back in split screen and providing analysis of how it went down would be a useful tool. But ummm, that's a lot of effort to go to just to help some loser get his genes out there. I mean seriously is this even a venture we want to attempt? Not like the world really needs more people, someone has to refrain from breeding, might as well be the social retards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 01:44 PM
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I've never broken up with specific intent to get with anyone else. I mean I sort of know it might happen (but not with who it might happen) but mostly I had the pain of the breakup going around and around in my mind taking up 90% of my capacity to think and feel and was relieved to be getting out from a situation I hated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 05:51 PM
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You can make a pretty good case in a victim impact statement for both of them being quite harmed by the experience. The virgin has a really bad first experience which may be extra hard to get over, the woman who uses sex as her main hobby and source of stress relief is facing a different sort of damage to her ability to enjoy life. None of it is about market value. BTW your post is a garbage post. You are a garbage poster.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 05:44 PM
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The TRPers are certainly more nasty to fat people. And TRPs think fatness is the main cause of ugliness in this current era.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 05:33 PM
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Well, some women are possessive, so they don't like that, if they decide to have casual sex they don't want to also be sticking around to see you running after other bitches. Aaaaaand pretty much all men get possessive about women they spend a lot of time with and fuck. Even though those men may still want to fuck other women, they start having more and more complaints about the woman fucking other men. Oh they might find ways to couch it in terms that don't threaten the whole fuckfest the man i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 12:54 PM
1

I should have made the effort and fucked around casually despite not being particularly inclined. I didn't get any benefits at all from not fucking maybe four or five guys casually before each of my LTRs and I sure as fuck felt like I had fewer options because of having less experience. I limited my N count and regretted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 11:41 AM
1

When women aren't there to find someone they aren't there to talk either, they just want to rubberneck at the male trainwrecks. I mean seriously have you ever gone looking at guys' profiles? I sat next to my daughter as she flicked through maybe twenty profiles and didn't find a one worth approving. It was a profoundly cheering experience in some ways, you come out of it with a fairly solid appreciation of exactly how sane, decent and organised you really are. I mean would you post a picture of …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 02:58 AM
1

I learned what I needed to learn about a bunch of things I needed to learn to be free and in control of myself, he finally got the fuck out of his parent's house? I mean it isn't like we were either of us happy for more then the first third of the relationship, but it did the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 12:22 AM
1

Doesn't make it any less of an arsey thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 04:08 PM
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Men convey information, women convey feeling. What a load of bollocks, guys are all about sulking which is the very definition of conveying feeling while stoppering down on information.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 04:07 PM
1

Well this is the point at which she's becoming willing to call off the dating. How much of what happened before was him being really good at faking being decent... or him actually being decent because he felt gratitude initially but now takes her for granted... or her just ignoring because she desperately wanted to believe... well we'll never know. But whatever, saying "Who are these men and why is anybody dating them?" is just arsey. Deeply unpleasant human beings date. They work on hiding thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 04:04 PM
1

Dating is the process by which one attempts to discover whether a person is too fucked up to be a spouse. If it was possible just to straight out tell 100% reliably that someone was rapey or abusive or a compulsive liar or bad with money, then dating would not be necessary at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 03:21 PM
1

If you have had sex with someone in the past, and likely would have had sex with them in the future, then it's implied that you will consent unless otherwise stated. No, no it isn't. And especially not when there are other aspects of the situation that indicate that sex would be actively unwelcome, such as having argued, the person being asleep, them making annoyed noises. There is no assumption that anyone in the world is always going to be ready for sex. All of us have times when we are not re…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 03:16 PM
3

Get a new job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 02:10 PM
0

Well maybe we run with different crowds, and like draws to like. Because in my crowd there is like one guy who has been into that sort of stuff and it isn't even like we've ever known him to find success that way, quite literally all his partners we know of even those of his ONS that we know of (and oh is he eager to tell, lol) came from his social circles and from activities where the approach is at least a little warmish. Social circle game works. The reason PUA exists to try to make your cold…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 11:11 AM
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Well yes of course women know they can. It just doesn't make sense to actually do so most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 06:30 AM
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But why would they if they aren't feeling it, it has lots of bad user reports (all the guys who doan wanna) and other methods work to their satisfaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 06:09 AM
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No. There are plenty of men who have partners but have never made a cold approach in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 07:01 PM
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so why only one side should submit themselves to it? But. They. Don't. Have. To. Social circle game works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 06:31 PM
2

They are in about the same range.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 06:28 PM
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I don't understand why men can one moment complain about the woes of making cold approaches, and the next start insisting women should make cold approaches. You quite literally just told me why making cold approaches sucks, this is not a solid argument for women to start it is a solid argument for you to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 04:39 PM
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Q4All: Do you think the stigma against sex work is an injustice and will / should it ever expire? Well for starters, every form of sex work has its own stigma and the stigma varies. Most people have a different opinion of someone who writes smutty romances than they do of a hooker giving $10 blowies in alleyways. But anyway, I think the stigma associated with prostitution is very difficult for prostitutes to live with, there's strong elements of injustice to it but I hesitate to call it a comple…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 03:50 PM
2

I'd ask him what he'd had done. I mean obviously a mole removal is different to a scar revision is difference to nasoplasty for functional purposes is different to nasoplasty for cosmentic purposes etc etc. When someone says "plastic surgery" is means nothing very specific about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 01:49 PM
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Can't challenge your view on that one, we see it all the time here, unspectacular guys who are obsessed that the system is broken because men like them (who they of course define as both good and attractive) aren't getting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 01:06 AM
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Oh, so to "win" I'm supposed to magically believe that the love of my life will just happen to die after not before me, despite all statistics saying otherwise. And if he dies before me then I'm supposed to do what... find someone else and attempt to create a bond when we're at an age when everyone is old and sore and fixed in their ways and none of us are really into sex quite so much? There's just no way around it, most women and a fair few men die alone. Get a partner? He probably dies first.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 01:00 AM
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Pffft. Men stop loving equally easily, they are just more likely to see having a household where everyone is unhappy and neglected and disrespected in their own home for the rest of their lives as the best response to no longer loving their spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 09:31 PM
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Lmao I doubt a single guy going to these events would have much luck. It's probably just like any other dating scene, completely flooded with horny men. It's not a dating scene it is a networking and social circle scene. It doesn't tend to have the same sort of costs and inputs required as dating does, munches for example are usually at fairly casual cafes and no-one much cares if you order a meal or just a coffee, if you stay three hours or thirty minutes. And the cafe is usually near other stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 08:41 PM
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See whether you can start appreciating the bands and the music. Read about them, own the music and play it at home, have informed opinions. When all else fails... when you end up looking like a straight edge dork because you are one... if you genuinely appreciate the music that's a layer of credibility right there, you're not just some sleaze, you have a reason to be there. Won't specifically help you get laid, will cut down on the number of adverse incidents. Also... have you thought about lear…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 07:51 PM
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Yes, well, "they" say whatever they can to make it seem like for women it is all sunshine and roses and we ain't never got to deal with hard shit and tough luck then shut the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 04:52 PM
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We are by nature social creatures. By removing people from social experiences you harm their mental health. Social media has a huge role to play in this. And we now have a generation more comfortable on a screen than talking to humans in person. That generation is experiencing record highs of anxiety and depression. I've got college age kids. Social media works really well for them to keep more easily in touch with old school friends than my generation ever could. They are always heading out to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 10:08 AM
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Of course I'm likely to die alone. I'm a woman. There's four times as many women in the local aged care home as there are men. This obsession with finding someone so you can avoid dying alone makes more sense for men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 09:25 AM
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Oh of course there will be plenty of men doing the right thing. Just as there are plenty of women doing the right thing. But they aren't the issue I'm talking about or the issue the OP is talking about. I mean I guess I could go to the OP and say something similar to what you said, accuse him of all sorts of stuff just because he wanted to talk specifically about a group of women who do the wrong thing? Should I do that? Should I call him out on having "an irrational hatred of women" or "not bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 01:42 AM
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It is fairly common among people who have had broken certain aspects of their sense of moral self. Commonest way to do it is a difficult to afford addiction, leading to prostitution, and then from there onto accepting that lack of authenticity in relationships is just to be expected. Next most common way is to have grown up somewhere that they let you starve in the street if you have no money, and to have as a consequence decided that not getting more money is akin to accepting death. That said …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 10:33 PM
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If you have a harder time you gotta work harder for the same results. Well if getting a woman to fuck you is the same result as getting a man to fuck you, why don't the whiny guys complaining about how hard done by they are just fuck other men? If you wouldn't exchange it then it ain't the same thing, The tall woman and the short man will each have pretty much as much trouble in dating as they are willing to put up with. And they aren't after the same results.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 10:27 PM
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There's a difference between "who had a harder time" and "who has to work harder" Nobody has to work any harder at dating than they choose to. But things that one has chosen to do in the past, they are fixed, settled, one has no more choice over them, one did what one did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 09:29 PM
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Custody doesn't need to be formally revoked for a situation to exist where the other parent is legally expected to step in and provide care. The sort of custody that gets awarded in custody cases doesn't actually end the noncustodial parent's parental responsibility. If you go allowing some divorced fathers the option of sending their ex to prison then a lot of them are going to do it no matter the consequences to their kids. A lot of guys just lose their minds when faced with rejection, divorce…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 06:17 PM
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Furthermore, their lies should be considered emotional abuse for the purposes of both child custody determinations and domestic violence charges, and they should have their custody revoked and be sentenced to prison accordingly. If the father does not then take over care and custody of any of the other minor children of the relationship that are actually his by blood, is he guilty of child abandonment? If he wants to put the kids up for adoption, does the woman still have the right that in most …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 05:50 PM
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You can meet each other just fine in real life and then still go check out each other's social media before you go about bonding in any meaningful way. The current rates of depression and anxiety have to do with increasing income inequality and financial uncertainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 02:47 PM
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Neither. No-one has to date. Finding a sexual partner is optional.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 02:38 PM
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Jackass best moments https://youtu.be/AHx4Ik9r20w It's a guy thing more than a girl thing. Tell guys to stop buying it. Girls buy a little girl pain too but they've got higher standards for whether the pain is deserved. https://youtu.be/VZpMlm4xYG4?t=1m5s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 02:29 PM
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And really what do you spend your money on when you are a single guy? If you're going to go travelling for pleasure anyway and would get twice the pleasure from having a traveling partner, then it makes sense. I've known a lot of people take best friends or relatives on trips and pay their way, a traveling partner is something that enhances travel. It isn't my thing... I mean like none of it... not the spending money, time and my nerves on travel for fun or the casual sex... but if it makes you …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 02:19 PM
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Just about every time someone says "you should never" and the thing you should never do is something dating related that isn't actually illegal or threatening or straight out terribad, then they've made their advice highly suspect. There's nothing illegal, wrong or straight out terribad about PMing someone if you've got what it takes to be lighthearted, polite and unthreatening over PM. There are things you probably should not do most of the time, because you don't like the results most of the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 02:11 PM
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Sometimes I feel like viewing a prospective romantic interest's social media before getting to know him well diminishes the mystery and affects the bonding process. Thoughts? Only idiots desire to fall in love with total strangers they know nothing about. Before social media is was common to ask around about someone who you were interested in but did not know. Damn right social media disrupts our ability to bond with total strangers, that's a GOOD thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 01:58 PM
1

Imagine you live in a small country town in an era when there is actually a shortage of agricultural and cottage industry labour, and children above about age 7 are an asset not just a liability. You have a choice of a widow with four children whose husband died when the Plague swept through four months ago, or a childless whore just returned to the town because after the Plague a lot of men without wives who had become habitual users of prostitutes were able to marry widows and now the whoring …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 06:29 PM
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Don't marry before you've lived with them a few years is my advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 04:11 AM
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I've experienced it myself but I've also had friends share their experiences. Pretty much if someone lies to you all the time about little things over a long period like three or four years it wreck you just as bad as being lied to about big things like fidelity a few times. One little disappointment and betrayal after another, eventually your heart no longer believes any of the little things are real. Eventually you have entire interactions with yourself where you disappoint yourself ahead of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 03:25 AM
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Lies and/or omissions to keep things sweet or get praise in the moment. They don't even have to be about the big things like infidelity. Yes of course dear I have done the dishes... then when you get home and want to start cooking dinner immediately all the kitchen and dishes are still dirty and you don't even have the chance to get takeout while still in town. I did so much job hunting today... but have no idea what jobs I applied for. I'm so proud of not having had a smoke for five days... sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 01:56 AM
1

Well there is the small matter that some rapes don't actually involve the perpetrator being aroused, or indeed the perpetrator using their own body parts in the penetration. I mean let's imagine I took against what you'd said in this post so bad that I put a lot of effort into tracking you down, and one day I showed up at your house with a taser, zip ties and a broomstick, to perform a little vigorous nonconsensual broomstick violation of your anus in order to demonstrate the point. That would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 08:33 PM
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Fuck the pothead, marry myself, kill the alcoholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 02:36 PM
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I think the problem is that you're an actual illiterate. I'm sure you are autistic, I'm just not sure whether you are high or low functioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 02:07 PM
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I think it just adds to the decision confusion and anxiety for the autisto dorks who are pretty damn confused and anxious to start with. The fact that inviting someone to a $200 first date is an option just sends them into a tailspin that when they get rejected it may have been because they didn't take that option. So then they go take that option of the expensive date and they still don't get laid and they are then spinning around in their internal world made of anxiety and resentment and obvio…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 02:02 PM
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But if a guy suggest you two meet up for drinks as a first date, I think it's a bit ridiculous for you to expect him to buy you a drink. Depends how he words it... if he says I'm going out to the pub on (date time) do you want to go with me? Then we all buy our own. If he says "come out with me on friday let me get you a drink" then he buys me a damn drink because that's what he offered. If he says "let me take you out drinking" then he's buying the lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 01:41 PM
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The alternatives include meeting women through activities that allow socialising and take the place of dating and asking women out on activities that have zero or negligible cost. What the fuck is the damage of guys like you, that women tell you over and over again that they have had relationships that involved roughly equal dating expenditure, they have seen relationships that never involved a "steak" in the early stages and past the early stages the "steak" was pretty much an even responsibili…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 01:31 PM
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I'm not one for casual sex. I especially would never make a casual approach to someone who I think has emotional needs that are greater than usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 10:03 AM
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Do you view the workplace as a place to find dates? If not, why not? You've got to ask yourself the question, how important is this job to you? Dating in the workplace can get messy real quick. Might not bother you at all if you're fifteen and this a burger flipping job and you've no debt and money saved in the bank. If someone is interested in you and you don't date colleagues, how do you break it to them if they are forward and how did they take it? Thanks for the offer but I'm not interested.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 09:59 AM
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If you're passive, if anyone picks you up then chances are they are going to want to take advantage of that to use you for things you don't always agree with. You will attract only those who want to be boss of you for their own sake, not for your sake. Oh they'll say they love you but what they love more than anything else is their own way. This goes for women too... they are more likely to get picked up than a passive man but that doesn't necessarily mean that joy will come of it for them what …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 09:50 AM
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I have no clue why you keep saying "steak" over and over again. Metaphor. Sometimes the steak is steak, sometimes it is a trip to the movies, sometimes it is night at the opera, sometimes it is a weekend in Paris. Surely this is fucking obvious by now? Is English your first language, was it the first language of the person who taught you English? Do we even middle school English lessons anymore ffs? It's not a "small minority" of women that prefer the man to pay for them, it's actually the major…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 09:37 AM
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For many guys the thought they can just go to the gym and work hard, work harder, take supplements, maybe take a bit of T or something similar, get everything looking right and then there is not other work to do is the relief from their stress over their own value. I think the guys who believe that women on average love the gay aesthetic more than a more practical and easily achieved sort of strong fit body just really really want it to be all about the body and only the body, because they find …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 09:21 AM
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And I never forced you to reply to me, so if you don't want to talk feel free to stop posting. Why would I stop? You're starting to get frustrated and having to defend your bullshit enough that you're feeling pressed and your blood pressure is rising. This is fun. Look, if you're constantly coming up against the very small percentage of women who are primarily after the free steak rather than seeing it as something that makes possible more dates and a wider search pattern(most women would rather…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 08:36 AM
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Again, nothing more than an assumption that women aren't bothered if you don't pay for anything. The ones that don't aren't a problem to either of us, so why would I be discussing them? Just let then do their thing, maybe some of the guys who spend a lot on steaks should watch what those guys do. Second of all, you invent the idea that men simply naturally, on their own want to pay for their date's meal despite the woman's wishes. I've never said anything like that. Men issue invitations that br…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:34 PM
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They desperately want to believe that women are most attracted to the same muscle dudes that gay men are most attracted to. I like Putin's body, pity it is attached to a guy whose ethics I don't even want to share a hemisphere with. I would choose a Putin style body over this style of body http://fittesthotguys.blogspot.com/2015/05/gay-icon-tim-gabel.html
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:04 PM
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But we don't expect that? There's no going up to random guys on the street saying "buy me a steak"... it is a circumstance that only arises when a guy plans by himself at his leisure that he wants very much to eat a steak dinner with a particular woman he's not yet close to, and then decides at his leisure, in his own time, using as much time as he wishes to take that he will issue that specific sort of invite rather than any other of the many sorts of invite he could issue, thereby causing a si…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 06:39 PM
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Sounds like a much better idea to me! I mean it is still kind of gross... the doll can still get splooge in her hair and it not be noticed etc. But a fresh vaj would go a long way to making it better. actually, maybe they could just put the vagina in a baggie and send it home with the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 06:33 PM
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All I said is that it seems unfair to me that despite women being wealthier on average than men, they still expect men to take care of them financially. Sigh. A particular women expecting that a particular man who has of his own volition asked her to a particular not-cheap place to eat a meal will pay for that whole 'spensive event that he has planned and suggested is not women in general expecting men in general to take care of them financially. It just isn't. For starters, most women never rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 05:03 PM
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A bit. I mean i'm not going to pull a dildo out of a hard rubbish collection box no matter how well designed, lightly used and useful it looks, and dildos are heaps easier to sanitize than fake vaginas. And you just know the cleaners at a sex bot hotel are going to be on minimum wage, or be working for cash and not even getting minimum wage... and possibly working more than one job. How good a job are they gonna do, just good enough for what they have neglected to clean not to be noticed? Why is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 04:44 PM
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But you don't have to pay for anyone's time. You can not make an offer. Everyone can issue an invite to an expensive date. Women generally don't. That's what they choose. You don't like that they rarely choose to invite men to eat a steak at their expense? Tough shit. Men can choose that way too, if they wish, they can choose not to issue those sort of invites. A lot of men do choose not to issue those invites, they explore other strategies. Choosing to issue those invites comes with advantages …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 04:30 PM
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Painful treatment of sensitive parts usually has a fair chance of getting anyone to withdraw consent. A really awful smell puts some people off. Anything that looks like an infection or infestation. Visible poor hygiene. Sobering up a bit with an adrenaline rush can do it too... you've been a little drunk maybe and going with the flow and then BOOM the rush of the situation floods you with enough stress hormone to make you focus and then you add up all the red and yellow flags and oh fuck what a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 04:07 PM
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I don't even know what you mean by this. Is English your 5th language or something? You know what? You need to stay unhappy with the way things are and unable to understand why they are that way. Now you've got snippy I'm becoming increasingly less sympathetic and more amused by your predicament. Next time you pay the check... know that I'm laughing. You're an object of amusement. Why do women still have the decision making power if they have most of the money? Everyone has the power to decide n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 03:54 PM
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If someone gets nakey because they intend to consent and then something happens that causes them to feel consenting is not appropriate any more (his dick has obvious untreated warts on it? her fat folds stink like gorganzola? can't take them seriously after they tell you the weirdass fetish they need to get off?) then chances are the person who decides not to consent at that point is also feeling disappointed in the events of the evening. This does not mean that ploughing on in spite of the wart…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 03:42 PM
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I absolutely would like a world in which I don't pay for dates. You do have a world in which you need not pay for someone else on dates, you can ask women to participate in activities that don't cost or that cost is negligible for, or you can give them the option to show up at casual group activities like a regular group of friends that meet at a cafe. These are all things you can do right now. "Hey how about seeing the New Year's/Australia Day/Moon Festival fireworks together... I'll bring a bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 03:26 PM
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Basically, if a man thinks women are wonderful, you have to tell him all women are trash, and then maybe he'll land somewhere in the middle. Men only function when they are lied to?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 02:17 PM
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Do you think that as long as a guy pays for dinner, the average hot girl will go on dozens of dates per week or something? That's silly. I believe that the hottest 20% of girls participate in probably about four times as many first dates as they would if first dates were not in general paid for by the person who did the asking. This probably means their sampling of the male market extends in the portion of the male market that can afford to pay for dates about twice as far down the rankings of o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 01:52 PM
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Didn't you read what I wrote? The most in demand young girls, the high smv/rmv ones that are all the time being asked out to the dates that actually cost a significant amount, they aren't going to buy that many good dinners out of home, ever. Why should they? Young men aren't buying dinners out of home that often either. Average young men might ask a girl out to dinner maybe once or at most twice a month. Right now we've got a situation where if a very high value young woman is available and loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 09:57 AM
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This isn't co-workers grabbing lunch together. It's a date. The two people involved are screening each other for sexual and romantic compatibility. It also isn't like the person who is being asked on a date is really free to just bring others along too, like they would be if it was a casual decision to go get lunch. They also aren't really free to go then just say "oh no you get a meal, something came up and I'm going to need to just order coffee and a snack and leave in about half an hour" like…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 02:09 AM
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When it is just the girls at home I can put a whole roast on the table and let people carve and serve themselves and there will be appropriate portion control and leftovers. If there's a guy there too there will never be leftovers if I do that. A guy will stagger away from the table barely able to walk rather than let choice meat be put back in the fridge for later. Guys also tend not to serve themselves up some of every vegetable if you allow them free access to bowls of veggies. They'll tend t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 12:54 AM
1

Lazy low effort post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 12:36 AM
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Women generally only do that so enthusiastically when in a group, and they also don't limit their behavior to when the celeb is looking directly at them and only them. It is about the girls standing next to them and having a group experience and sharing group understandings more than it is about the celeb. I mean a celeb can be sexy but if we decide to schlick to thoughts of one we don't get much more worked up than usual for schlicking. Think like the equivalent of a bunch of guys leaning out a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 12:34 AM
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Just leaving this here. https://youtu.be/N37x4GgDVBM?t=7m31s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 03:46 PM
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It just seems like one of the ways things could turn out if the very attractive and in demand girls (who are usually young and thus have not a lot of income) were to be forced to take on paying half of all their first dates. They'd have to budget for it (like guys who ask them out do now) and they'd have to place limits. There would be a lot more "yeah give me your number I might get back to you" and it is possible some women would insist on group dates... as in "yeah I've been asked out five ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 03:12 PM
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I'm just wondering, how so you think a man should take it if a very pretty woman answered his date request with "Well I'm newly single and looking, and you're a charming good looking guy, but turns out I get asked out a lot... and I always pay my way so I can really only do so much dating because it just gets too spendy. I limit my dating to dinner on Fridays, always somewhere I can order steak because I don't mind buying myself a steak occasionally. This means there's sort of a wait list for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 02:58 PM
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Well yes. Due to my tendency to LTRs and a generally low key lifestyle in my youth involving lots of casual freeform social contact I've had two first dates that were worthy of the name. The first was my idea, we went on a guided tour of a local attraction that was a short term offer... it cost just a few bucks (less than a cup of good coffee) and I brought out my money to pay but he was earning about five times my income and he said no he'd get it and so I let him pay. Much fun and little expen…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 02:30 PM
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No real scotsman, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 01:24 AM
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Pretty much these are guys who aren't going to expend effort to be successful while other guys don't seem to work at all for success, unless they are given a narrative that lets them feel angry while doing so. BP = being angry is pointless and unjustifiable, working on yourself can help, most guys can get enough success to have a decent life but if that's not you anger is still unjustified MGTOW = feel angry, very very angry, keep feeling angry and don't do the work. TRP = feel angry and let tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 06:07 PM
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A smug self-important cheese grater.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 01:35 AM
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Let me put it like this: listening to feminists makes getting laid harder. Being a weakling and a sap makes getting laid harder. Listening to other people's viewpoints doesn't make a man a weakling and a sap. Feminists are the scapegoat not the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 09:20 AM
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Why would the average man support feminism when it makes it harder for him to get laid? Oh pish, it doesn't make getting laid harder, it just makes getting laid easier for some guys and in response other guys who are getting just as little casual sex as ever feel like getting laid has become harder. I'm sure youd have plently more male supporters if youd just slip the panties off for beta Billy every once and a while. If he's beta he has picked his game, he needs to make more money if he wants h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:21 AM
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Yeah pretty much this. He didn't just like beer, he was a frequent and sometimes aggressive drunk. He maybe still is that way... and obviously isn't going to be any more honest with us about his current status with regards to alcohol than about his past status. Is he lying to himself too... would that make this better or worse? Why not just find someone without this problem with the truth? There were other candidates for the job, there was a short list, why not look at them? Sometimes when you g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 05:08 AM
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Empathy is not the solution to everything. I can very well understand how shitty it must feel to be ignored and brushed off... heck I've been ignored and brushed off pretty damn savagely, guys don't know what it is like being a tweenage girl dealing with tweenage girl friendship groupings but my memory of that era in my life is fresh and vivid. But guess what? I also know that if I'm the only one not ignoring and brushing off someone, I'm likely to end up with them firmly attached to me like a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 03:26 AM
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How can you even begin to understand the pain of being an incel? I am fortunate enough to have only had to withstand 21 years of it. I'm supposed to feel sorry for you because you were incel as a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 02:35 AM
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Everyone is obsolete eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 11:33 AM
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I thought god was Alanis Morrisette.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 09:29 AM
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Yeah you keep tugging away at that, it will fall off eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 05:25 AM
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Vegetarian women have more delicate faces, especially longterm vegetarians. I like my face sturdy, pass the steak.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 04:48 AM
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Your point is inane. All those guys gotta do is stop whining and we'll leave them alone to rub their own dicks as much as they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 04:43 AM
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I'm fine with them dropping out, failing to wipe their arses and just in general acting like people who hate themselves too much to make effort at anything other than activities the rest of us think are straight out self medication. Is sad but tolerable if I avoid contact with them, I'll just get on with my own stuff and forget they exist. It is when they start going out of their way to blame other people who have no relationship to them for the consequences their self hatred has had on their li…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 03:29 AM
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You literally are just enunciating that these guys are complete unmitigated failures with nothing going for them at all. I'm sure the characters they play in online games manage to level up quite a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 03:10 AM
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OK so the beating goes the other way in your case.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 03:01 AM
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This is why you don't understand MGTOW because your premise wouldn't make sense if your interests don't coincide with women then why would you make all that effort, who're you trying to impress? The vast majority of the efforts necessary to being acceptable to a woman are also necessary for a man to be truly acceptable to himself. Why uproot your entire life for a bitch? If you'd been doing the things that would actually keep you happy and healthy without a woman, then the extra stuff that pleas…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 03:00 AM
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when you have a movement stating it’s about equality Only parts of the movement say it is about equality, equally large parts are just about the removal of oppression of women. Look if you don't like it when patriarchy shits on you too in between its efforts shitting on women, maybe you've got to speak up for yourself and stop expecting momsy to do your speaking and wipe your bum for you on this one. Mom is busy, deal with it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:52 AM
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Not as much as when your father beats you to a bloody pulp, sonny boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:48 AM
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Dude, there's plenty of introverts who get out there and socialize and pick up social skills because they know what is good for them and know they are worth it, just as there's plenty of extroverts who stay home and learn skills that take a lot of alone time (like for example, playing a musical instrument) because they know what is good for them and know they are worth it. It isn't rocket science it is Adulting 101, sometimes to stay out of trouble and on track for the outcomes you prefer you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:10 AM
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Usually they are low SMV and RMV because they hate themselves and are unwilling to improve themselves for their own sake. Get out there and learn social skills? Nope. Talk a fucking walk, stop eating crap and try to lose a bit of that adipose tissue? Nope. This means that they end up in a predicament where in their minds, all the justification for improving themselves rests on the shoulders of women being suitable motivators. That's a lot of burden to carry, to be the reason why another human be…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 12:56 AM
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Lol, your porn tastes are showing in your assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 12:38 AM
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I hope no-one has male children. Men are trash. Feeling better now someone agrees with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 12:34 AM
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No, that's not precisely what they say. They say "We're firmly against the bits of your oppression that need to be dismantled to deal with our own oppression. The bits of your oppression that don't need to be dismantled to free us... well maybe to get something effective done about that in your lifetime you're going to have to hurry up do something about that yourself because we're still busy dealing with our own oppression and quite frankly it annoys us having you appoint us to fix all oppressi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 12:32 AM
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That TV show is intended to provide a spectacle that creates a fuss by provocative viewpoints and thereby attracts viewers. The guests are chosen for this, the audience is also a planned part of the performance and worked up carefully by experienced wranglers to get the desired result. And it worked... the OP has done some of the publicity work for the program and it is just that little bit more well known because of his efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 12:23 AM
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I'm not going to run around like a crazy thing weeping "oh the poor menz" about a fairly isolated sort of incident on the other side of the world from me, that the criminal justice system seems to be dealing with quite reasonably. Some guy got his dick cut off and insinkorated, that sucks, if you can't point to at least say 100 other incidents this decade of guys getting their dicks cut off than whatevs, it is just one crazy person and a knife and existing system got it covered. An oddity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:56 PM
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Men could be 100% of rape victims and absolutely no one would care. If not even other men would care then may I suggest you guys have some work to do on yourselves before you get all bitchy and cunty about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:49 PM
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Most male DV incidents where actual physical damage occurs are son/father or brother/brother fights.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:48 PM
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He's up there on a cloud, sitting across a big fluffy cloud table from Amy Winehouse who shoulda gone to rehab.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:30 PM
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I think the incels come here during their refractory periods when jacking it to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:28 PM
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Because you're not good enough. Why are you even asking this question, you know the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:26 PM
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Men! Give your love to a cowboy man. https://youtu.be/6X9tBHX_Fl4
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 04:20 PM
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I'll bother giving a shit about it as more than an oddity when you've got enough guys with their dicks cut off for a #metoo movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 04:06 PM
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Yeah whatever, he'd be a 30 year old balding guy with HGH belly by now and you know it. He's better off forgot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 03:59 PM
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Most men are trash. Plain straight out trash. The ones who can't hold down a relationship are even trashier. Picking through tonnes of trash looking for salvageable items is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 03:51 PM
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Because you're not worth losing weight for?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 09:40 PM
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I'm a woman. I'm fine if you treat me how you are expected to treat other men in polite company. You know... politeness? That thing that helps keep us all from attempting to rip out each other's throats metaphorically or literally. If we were, for example, at a friend's place playing board games, you might elect not to call me fat in front of all our friends or comment on my N count. I might choose not to point out that your ex is now dating a mutual friend or that your baldspot has grown. A cer…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 12:52 PM
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I've got no major problem with reddit deciding that any community could do with quarantining. Even if reddit decided to quarantine a community that is obviously useful and harmless... for example if it decided to quarantine /r/mycology because stinkhorns look like scalded dicks dipped in shit... I'm only going to be a little annoyed, not a major problem. Reddit is a freaking business, these are not just ethical decisions they are business decisions that influence the sustainability of business a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 01:29 AM
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Most recently I noticed this at my job. A regular employee, 22F, pretty hot, recently started sleeping with one of the managers and since then she's become unbearably shitty to the rest of us. In this case it isn't that the guy is high status. She likely had other boyfriends before him that were high status but didn't start giving you hell until now. It is that he is high status with direct authority over you. She's just an individual who cheerfully lets her inner jerk out to play when she can a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 11:42 PM
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Humans are very influenced by cultural narratives... cultural narratives explain in memorable ways the patterns of what is possible, and humans do tend to prefer to want things they think are possible. Narratives also tell us what to watch out for... Little Red Riding Hood, for example, should not have dawdled in a wood full of wolves, and when she got caught up with by a wolf she should have lied to get out of there without telling him where to catch up with her. Anyhow, cultural narratives hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 05:41 PM
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but when they fail and complain, Then fail and don't complain. People don't like complain. They've got enough fail in their own lives, they don't need your fail spilling out everywhere they have an ample supply of their own clogging up their days. I've got a zillion things I could complain of, I maybe get to discuss half a dozen of them a week and only shallowly with folks I know are cheerfully up for it. Don't complain and people won't be a little mean and direct you do just anything if it will…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 02:25 AM
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It isn't subjective! Then proceeds to talk a lot of subjectivity at me. Pfffft. There is no such thing as a league. There are women you are going to face more or less competition for, with other men or with the woman's sense of what she thinks she can get for herself or with her low opinion of you. But in societies that do not enforce caste systems or intensive and rigid social stratification you are not totally locked out of that competition for any woman (other than close relatives or underage…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 01:24 AM
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Or he could be simply the best games night host anyone in town could ever imagine. Or he could organise the greatest camping trips and play guitar and sing around the campfire. Or he could know everything there is to know about some of the more difficult aspects of cosplay costuming and be able to make just about anything. Just be good at stuff. Pick some stuff to be good at and find an angle on that being good at stuff that fits well with other people. No man should be truly average. Even if hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 11:42 PM
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Oh ffs. He needs to be the one to choose what to become because he knows what strengths he can build on in what he already is and he should know the marketplace around him too better than I do. If he's having trouble working out what to do and how to change he should just start out changing in a direction and keep reassessing until he understands himself and the marketplace better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 11:24 PM
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[Q4Women] How long does it take the average woman (you and your friends) to find a bf? Everything is down to how needy she is of the stuff that isn't sex. The more she needs, then if she's refusing guys who do not meet those needs the longer it takes. What's the longest dry spell you have had? Were you unhappy about it? Outside a relationship? Days. Inside a relationship... while trying to make it work but either him or me not feeling like sex, totally miserable all the while? Years. Have you ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 11:20 PM
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Testosterone makes men want sex more than women. Young men especially want lots of sex. True. There are however things women tend to want more than men. Men here call it "commitment" but it is really a bundle of somethings subtly both more and less than commitment. The average man cannot consistently get casual sex ... If he's young and full of natural testosterone and energy and not getting sex to distract him and drain the T away, why is he staying average? He should be a whipcord ball of musc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 11:02 PM
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https://youtu.be/U4jvm0rLkgs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 09:12 PM
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I think those higher status guys who have empathy for the good looking girls they date often end up pissing off a lot of low value guys real bad. Betcha Harvey Weinstein had a big old self pity sesh whining to himself about girls liking bad boys after Brad Pitt told him to fuck off or die.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 02:16 PM
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Your post would have fitted into purge week better, why did you not wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 05:56 AM
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Has purge week started? This is very purgey stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 05:54 AM
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Meh, if someone is fucking off out of a relationship they're probably leaving all the groceries in the cupboards and freezer, most of the furniture and furnishings, the appliances, most of the electronics. That's just how it is most times. When all is said and done, the size of the total cake documented and calculated, then cut and slices distributed by a judge, the fuck off fund is just a few crumbs in a larger whole. People should totally keep fuck off funds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 08:10 PM
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"Well at least he doesn't/isn't/has/does..." as a reason to keep dating a guy or living with him and becoming more attached and involved despite the fact he's in some major way worse than having no-one and has no drive to become otherwise. I've mostly heard this advice coming from women who have unhappy or no relationship themselves and just want to see the entire world settle down and pretend to be a Disney movie whatever the cost. He spends all evening on the couch watching TV and gradually ed…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 07:57 PM
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ROTFLMAO you have absolutely ZERO clue about life. Most people don't even realize they are taking risks. Now go away. Are you talking about things most people put out of their mind like the risks in crossing the road? Is this what all your fuss is about, to get a girl a man might have to cross the road, drive a car, leave his house? That he's not going to have girls just deliver themselves to his front door? That they might think him outrageously risk averse for not taking the same risks everyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 05:46 AM
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I think that in parts of the world where people actually have something to lose demonstrating that one is willing to risk one's life becomes horrifying not exciting to most onlookers who aren't young men who also enjoy taking risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 04:28 AM
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But most women would never fuck men who never aspired to take risks like that. Do you live in some sort of poverty stricken ghetto or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 04:19 AM
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But men still die taking risks in order to prove themselves as worthy mates. Young men also wrap their cars around trees when there is no-one around to see how fast they are going. Most people who aren't young men think young men need to stop this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 04:05 AM
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Is the mating game not a crapsack world for men? I think it is probably better than it has been in most of history. I mean for starters, in the modern era you're less likely to end up dead just because her family took a dislike to you or thought you were a player.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 03:43 AM
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You have a little line above your head and it gradually goes from green to red depending how full it is. Hover your mouse over it and you will be shown an exact figure. Is your sperginess satisfied?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 10:21 PM
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Some people's blood lines end up as part of the pruned material of the family tree, due to his genetic issue and her risk taking that's a branch that is likely in for at least a partial pruning. I can't see it as evidence of the system itself not working. The system works by pruning. "we all us, all 7 billion or so of us, managed to avoid the pruning, YAY!" would be a worrying announcement considering the nature of the system. And I don't care if you say it is evidence of her judgments not being…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 10:13 PM
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It is light hearted and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 09:16 PM
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Well if that definition is working for you and leading to you having the sort of flirting experiences you want, feel free to adhere to it. Might want to keep in mind not everyone you deal with agrees. People like their sexual nature to be seen and noted even if everyone intends to go no further than the seeing and noticing. Flirting is one of the main ways that is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 12:08 PM
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Flirting, just by itself, is something. It may or may not lead onto other things, but it is also something all of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 11:51 AM
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Strip clubs are one of the few remaining places where men and women can sexually express themselves freely If they've got really boring sexual desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 11:50 AM
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I can't see how either the customer or server can call it flirting when they both know that nothing will happen. Flirting IS something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 11:44 AM
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Even if she is a single mom in a low rent neighborhood she still has a bare minimum of a chance. The guy who got selected out, doesn't. He could have spent every spare penny on hookers. Hookers sometimes get pregnant to johns. He could have donated sperm to a sperm bank. He had a chance. But hey, according to nature, according to the deplorable world of reproductive theory she still deserved to reproduce so she's obviously still worthy. She had the chance to reproduce because there was a guy who…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 10:10 AM
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I don't really give so much a shit about the truth or otherwise of this particular instance, it will all work itself out and I'm not American. Hopefully you've got provisions in the USA to take a little more time and effort over a process when these things are raised as issues. What I do not agree with and yet I've been seeing all over is the thinking that goes that just because the legal system goes a bit lighter on under 18s that means victims have some sort of responsibility to recontextualis…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 03:53 AM
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Yes, because she got to procreate, first and foremost. You're thinking like the gender that is evolved to be ready to take up the option of skipping out on their kids, because the other gender tends to limp back to their own parents and pick up the pieces. That's not what she is. Low value guys have their tragedy, low value women get their own tragedy. Saying "but she just gets given what I want most" is meaningless if what you want most isn't what she wants (high quality well-resourced kids) an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 03:22 AM
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The job of men is to get pruned back, the job of women is to sometimes be pruned back a little but mostly provide the material that gets pruned. So therefore one might deduce that if a low quality woman manages to breed (by no means a done deal... chlamydia and other forms of PID hit the poor and stupid more than the well off and smart) , her children and grandchildren are likely to face "pruning" of one sort or another at a far higher rate. It isn't exactly a pleasant fate, to watch one's kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 02:20 AM
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I mean, if your dad was shitty, then wouldn't it inspire you to get a non-shitty partner? Yes and no. People don't tend to work out precisely what their parents' damage was until they have kids themselves and/or witness their siblings and peers parenting up close, and re-examine the historical relationship using their new understanding of what a child is and what their parent should have been about. In some way you need to be shaken into actually seeing yourself as the child you were. Children d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 04:19 PM
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People who have traditional thoughts around gender are always pointing out to women that men are violent, rapacious and untrustworthy. Don't go out alone at night you might meet a bad man on a dark street, don't reject men brusquely they might get angry, don't make your husband angry, don't fight back you'll just get beaten etc etc. Men are like tigers... I mean great if you can persuade a tiger to fight your fights for you but on the whole tigers gonna eat ya. All radical feminism has to do is …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 10:06 PM
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The only thing I'm terrified about sex dolls becoming more of a thing is that one day I'll be on a crowded bus or train and some sad little guy will bring his manky smelly old sex doll in on a wheelchair and it will be taking up space and I'll call him a fuckwit and he'll defend his "wife"'s honor and I'll end up in prison for putting all my spare change in one of my socks and beating him about the head with it. Pretty much the same reason I'm a little terrified of fur suits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 05:48 AM
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revenge hoping oh i do like that I also hope it sounds good rewritten as a german compound word
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 01:38 AM
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I'm sleep deprived and not perceiving things all that clearly... but aren't your definitions kind of circular in the way they rely on each other? i don't think there's any "should" about it. It works out that couples are similarly attractive a whole lot but there is no should. Sometimes populations don't contain equal numbers of men and women for example, obviously if there's 100 men and 10 women those women should choose the best men they can. Sometimes there's weird things with age distributio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 01:28 AM
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1) Hmmmm, confidence is often good but it can go over the top into assholishness which is not good. 2)Hate jocks, have always hated them, if all the footballers were put up against the wall and shot the world would be a better place. 3)I like a little muscle but nothing like most guys wished they look like... and for me it doesn't have to be particularly obvious muscle. If it is obvious there had better not be a lot of it, we're talking wiry not ripped. If the muscle is less obvious then I'm wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 06:44 PM
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Oh ffs, whether it is "worth it" is a personal individual decision, not something we should be attempting to discern the correct answer to for large groups of people. There are probably people out there who will try but never have much success... and yet in hindsight will still see it as worth it. There are probably people who will try, have what other people see as success, then decide it still isn't worth it. That's totally down to them and so it should be, the decision is too big in a person'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 06:14 PM
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Ok. First... about friendship. Let's talk about it. Any adult who is even slightly socially competent manages their friendships. I can be friends with this person but when they ask me to buy weed with them I must say no because it leads nowhere good. I can be friends with that person but I must carefully consider to what extent I am willing to be a shoulder to cry on in her interminable dramas. I can be friends with this other person but when he asks me to give him my cousin's phone number that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 11:45 AM
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Well hello bot. And yes it is cheering to think that after a few squabbles with the school and some stubborness on my part my kids were eventually taught to read by the people we pay to teach them to read, and now read as teens quite well indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 10:32 AM
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There are also schools where they don't actually seem to bother to teach kids to read. That last one nearly got me homeschooling. I believe that the core mission of a school is to make sure the little darlings learn some basic skills in reading, writing and maths. I believe that parents should not have to do this stuff because parents have their own things to accomplish with their kids, and parents forgo the company of their kids for the best hours of the kids' days, so that schools can do what …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 10:28 AM
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Why would anyone want to support a spouse who doesn't want to work (sorry household chores are not equivalent). Raising kids and keeping a house reasonably presentable aren't nearly as hard or time consuming as SAHMs assert. If you want quite large number of kids the math on that changes. Almost no-one has six or more kids without someone staying home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 09:54 AM
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I don't think this is one of those things where comparison works that way? I mean obviously the girls that are online are there, checking their social media and dating apps as regular as they've each decided they should. And the girls that take a walk down the street to the local cafe are there as regular as they've decided they should be. And the girls who go out to bars, the girls who like to dance, the girls who go to meetups of various sorts etc. They are doing all this different stuff. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 10:43 PM
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One place where rejection issues can stem from is the fact that a man that is a 7+ still has to be the pursuer even when he's dumpster diving, and he can still be rejected by a woman that's a solid 4. A lot of rejections have nothing much to do with attractiveness as quantified into a number out of ten. A nonsmoker might reject every smoker, no matter how high their SMV. A person who likes a certain dignity in life might reject every profile full of horsing about and drinking too much. We've all…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 10:19 PM
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why should a man pay child support for a decision of a woman? Well, I don't particularly feel like debating abortion or child support right now, but I do think it does take pointing out that when unwanted conception has occurred, the result of TAKING NO DECISION AT ALL is a baby as is the result of JUST NOT NOTICING WHAT IS GOING ON UNTIL TOO LATE.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 09:45 PM
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I suspect it is because gyms are full of disproportionate amounts of guys messing with their T levels. So encountering unpleasant and annoying men at the gym who are aggressively into their gym activities is kind of a thing. Maybe you should just chill out and get over it and go about your business? Shit happens and one's fave activities cop a bit of flack. There's nothing really wrong with wearing Uggs and yoga pants and enjoying pumpkin spice, for example. Or being a girl who is really really …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 09:58 PM
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I like how you start out by asking how many here have kids, which is a low key way of asserting yourself as an expert. I'm not an expert, rather it is that most people here lack any sort of expertise at parenting other than having observed their own parents... several decades ago and through the eyes of a child. Bonus for then jumping right into advocating for choices that are miles away from what most parents do. It now normal not to circumcise in a great number of countries including the one I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 04:00 PM
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Kind of wondering how many people answering here have actually raised kids. I'd provide it to a child who was of an age to have some sort of understanding of the issues involved and wanted it for themselves. I would not compromise any of the normal healthy functions of my child's body unless it was medically necessary or the child could give what I feel to be sufficient approval. I don't believe in circumcising babies or piercing their ears either. If it can reasonably wait until they are able t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 12:01 PM
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Nah, just someone with a different set of priorities to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 11:25 AM
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You ever been on a carnival ride that spins real fast, called in many places the gravitron? That's a bit like the class system. If you're at the centre and don't move away from the centre, just work normal hard and do what is expected you tend to stay there unless there's a revolution or you get sabotaged. Take a small step away, you feel the pull, take another step, more pull. Eventual result is being pulled to the outside, pressed hard and unable to get back. Sometimes the carnival ride slows,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 11:22 AM
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What is pair bonding anyway? I mean is it like a "real" thing or just a label we've applied to a bunch of shit we don't fully understand yet? It obviously isn't a real thing. Deliver me 5kg of pairbond in a glass flask kthx. Oh so it isn't a substance... then show me the imaging devices that detect and measure it. What they are saying is that women who have diverse sexual differences behave differently to women who haven't had diverse sexual experiences. This is somewhat true about everyone and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 11:04 AM
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It isn't really that moronic. Most times the woman is contributing to the house too and together they can afford a better house then they ever could alone, it isn't a case of him ending up with a lower standard of living. In the cases where he's straight out buying a house then usually it is because she wasn't too post wall to make a baby or occasionally it is because he's a fair bit older than her and she's cute even if she is 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 08:52 AM
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The upper middle class more easily get to choose why they pair up because they can afford a wider range of arrangements in their life. As do, oddly enough, the lumpenproleteriat... who really can't afford anything so being provident tends to be less often a thing chosen because it is the clearly best choice and more chosen out of pure stubborn doggedness. A lot of times if we look at what the UMC do choose out of all the options available, we see they choose their life partners with a sense of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 08:47 AM
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Yup. If someone falls in love with your facade when your facade is drastically different to your true self, you aren't actually being loved. Guys who aren't genuinely sociopathic etc genuinely want to be loved, running a facade systematically sabotages that. Yup. To have one's value increase in one's forties from average to extreme (which essentially is what will be needed to get girls in their twenties) involves massively increasing one's social status or wealth. That's really the least likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 12:23 AM
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I think there's not enough acknowledgment that most men's focus becomes more provident and less thrillseeking as they age. They start preferring to do things like sleep/fuck in actual beds most of the time, wake up to a clean kitchen, not have to deal with crazy shit, put money away for retirement, have savings, own their own house etc. Thus the urge to pair up in order to have a better standard of provisioning isn't only a girl thing... it is also overwhelming a lower middle class to upper work…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 08:19 PM
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People should pay for dates if they find paying gives them a worthwhile advantage. They should not pay for dates if they do not find this to be the case. We should react to other people's willingness or not to pay for dates in a similarly self-interested manner. Nobody is obliged to make the search for love and sex while maintaining an effective personal budget work out for strangers. Nobody is obliged to make access to themselves cheaper or easier for strangers. Obligations to make things like …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 10:01 AM
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I recently made a discussion about One day ago is recent I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 10:05 PM
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Some people might say it was endearing. And those people would keep it around as a pet, but if they have the slightest bit of compassion they wouldn't breed from the poor suffering thing and make more poor suffering things. Look you know what those guys have to go do, you just think it is too much stress and work for them. Well whatever, if meeting girls is too labor intensive, too stressful, demands too much change from them, then they've got the low-stress sexual safety net... porn and masturb…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 09:47 PM
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The prospect of approaching thousands of people, and trying to make inane chit-chat with them, is horrifying. I worked for a burger place when I was a teen. When working front counter we were expected to make casual conversation with customers while they wait, to make them perceive time as having passed quicker. It feels quite difficult at first but really isn't that hard to learn. You get better at it. You learn what sort of conversations different sorts of people like. It stops being a burden.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 09:00 PM
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But again guys can fail in spite of being more attractive overall (as opposed to more unattractive overall) if the social networking opportunities just aren't there. Oh ffs. If it isn't a small town the social networking opportunities are there. Gossip / chinese whispers can affect guys' success in dating. In a small town. Not so much in the medium to large cities most humans live in. Fear of being creep shamed and other feelings of inadequacies can prevent guys from even making a move which the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 08:48 PM
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For average men, I'd be willing to bet they get less than what they want out of their wives. Only fair, since an average man tends to give a woman less than what she'd want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 07:25 PM
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There might just not be many women in their workplace or clubs/societies they go to. Even if they try new things there even if, lol, even if. even if what... they actually want to get somewhere? ha. here are not always adequate opportunities to meet new people; Oh bullshit. Bullity bullity bullshit. They're just not trying. I'm sure they've spent more hours thinking about how to find their fave sort of porn than they have spent thinking about how to find real live women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 06:31 PM
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They find it comforting on many levels, like a baby with his binky.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 04:50 PM
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If he's falling short despite living in a location where reasonable amounts of the women he likes exist (small towns have their own unique dynamics) then he's not attractive. Maybe because he stays home instead of getting out (can't be attractive to women who don't see him) maybe because he never does anything to to engage with said women (attractiveness is limited without interaction) or maybe just because he overestimates his own attractiveness. Courting has always been work, hard work. Techno…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 04:36 PM
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This is one of those sort of questions asked by people who systemize too much (spergs, mainly) and don't have much intuitive feel for social situations. They expect everyone else to be able to boil down to simple broad instructions something that is really a delicate art. "has boyfriend" includes a range of things "shows interest" includes a range of things "escalate" includes a range of things And framing the entire context... what are the social structures around you and how could they be scre…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 03:53 PM
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If a man claims to be genuinely good, strong, noble, dependable, virtuous, healthy, well formed, socially adept, possessed of healthy masculinity, moves appropriately through the world around him... and yet can't convince just one single attractive female of that fact to the point that she's willing to receive his seed, then I'm not sure what to say about that other than he must be lying to me? Look, just about everyone has some genuinely attractive qualities. Elliott Rodger? great cheekbones, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 02:20 PM
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Timidity, poor social skills, overly high standards, living in a small town and unwilling to travel, spending all his time hung up over a woman who doesn't want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 07:16 PM
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Fat acceptance has been a popular movement because all women can feel like they fit in if they do not have a healthy BMI. Well fat kind of is normal now, I mean just saying. But in the long run, telling women they are not fat, Fat acceptance reclaims the word as a neutral descriptor, it is not in any way about avoiding the word "fat" they are beautiful just the way they are, Beautiful is complex and subjective just as handsome is complex and subjective. Some fat women are beautiful, can't be hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 06:10 PM
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The guy you are dating is worthless and will betray you, dump him now before you waste 6 years on him... you are with each other because you represent escape to each other not because you are good for each other. Start doing art, yes I know the entire family regards it as of less worth than a lot of other things, but trust me, do art, it is something you will stick with even when you're tired and overworked. Get the highest paying job you can immediately, drop out of school, and buy as much real…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 02:46 AM
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I find young women to be friendlier and more open with me than I've ever known them to be before, but then again I'm a crone now and therefore don't fit into the category of competition or predator. And I'm not meeting them at bars or asking them prying questions at work. Look, when you're a young woman sometimes freezing a person out is a way to avoid future awkwardness and difficulty. Social norms pretty much deny young women the right to access certain sorts of assertiveness without paying a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 02:35 AM
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using my common sense, what could be so great about... ...about eating food? I mean first you've got to masticate it into a smooth pap using an orifice that is full of germs, then you have to use muscle movement to physically force it down a flexible flesh tube (a process that occasionally goes wrong and results in choking to death) into a pit of acid you keep inside you only by virtue of the fleshy walls of that pit being coated in icky mucus that renews itself endlessly. From this pit after th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 07:43 PM
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This is because the "red pill" is the only place where male perspectives can be shared without holding back. Unless of course those perspectives are particular forms of incel perspective, perspectives that involve certain racial gender dynamics, or perspectives that vary from TRP ideology strongly, articulately and without apology. They are actually pretty damn restrictive about what you can say and how you can say it before there is a pile on, deletions and/or the ban hammer. I mean I'm not nec…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 12:09 PM
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Yup. My cohort (late forties) was probably overall the one most scared by AIDS. I mean not saying that there weren't older people who it affected more (all their friends dying for example) or particular younger people it didn't affect more but if you look at the overall % of cohort with reasons to panic (none of us were in LTRS we were all starting out single at the height of the uncertainty) we were the centre of gravity of the panic. We weren't the most vocal, we weren't the ones doing the mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 04:12 AM
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Why can't they look for someone their own age? Oh hon, you need to learn a bit about the world. Most of them do have someone their own age available to them all the time, and that's precisely why they've got time and energy to waste on chatting up young girls who rarely welcome it. Some of them would fuck you if you let them, others wouldn't and are just playing with you... y'know for shits and giggles, to see you get flustered, to raise a blush.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 02:48 AM
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If men just didn't initiate, women would get around to it sooner or later... definitely in time to have a couple of kids or more for those who want kids. The reason you initiate is because other men get there first while she's right on the brink of thinking "hey maybe what I want is..." but hasn't got round to picking a target and initiating. This is not a problem caused by women and it is not a problem women should have to solve. Women are set to a level of willingness to initiate that would se…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 11:15 AM
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Don't let narcissists raise them. A narcissist is the enemy of his or her child developing a resilient sense of self. A female narcissist will raise sons who are at best forever somewhat in the role of henpecked husband or gay best friend to her, a male narcissist will raise a son who is never permitted to seriously challenge and eventually beat his old man at anything. A female narcissist models a particularly toxic form of femininity to her son before he is old enough to reject it as unaccepta…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 12:19 PM
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You know very well what I am talking about and just want to waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 02:39 AM
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It is pretty much impossible to formulate a single solid and encompassing objection to such a grab bag of components that tend to be quite different things, often contradictory and are used as the believer feels necessary to avoid things the believer doesn't want to deal with. So no, your TRP philosophy is too disjointed to argue against as a whole other than by saying "whew what a mess full of contradictions and logic holes and projection and rationalisation everywhere you look!"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 02:28 AM
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It tends to be assumed but actually having the talk is advisable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 02:22 AM
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Faking niceness may work to help get you married in a society where everyone is forced to get married and courtships are not lengthy. Sooner or later someone who is having trouble themselves finding a good partner will fall for it. But once you're married one of two things will happen. She will discover you are not what you painted yourself as and she will feel cheated and have contempt... in situations where divorce is impossible this usually translates to being a willingness to cheat. Or she s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 02:11 AM
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Skepticism is a wonderful thing, without it we fall for bull shit like TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 01:58 AM
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Do you object to TRP based on ethical grounds? I think a lot of y'all are shitty people if that's what you're asking. But really TRP itself isn't coherent and consistent enough to object to as a whole rather than object to the bits of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 04:40 PM
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Look there's nothing wrong with someone wanting a partner who is better than them, especially if that is what it takes to seal the deal. Sometimes people are so happy alone or find the emotional stresses of relationship so costly that the only way it will work out is if they find a partner better than them on many measures. The only thing that is really wrong is when someone attempts to make that failure the market's failure to meet their desire for a better partner anyone else's problem other t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 03:54 PM
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You haven't ever walked down a street past a jeweller shop and the girl you were with started veering in that direction while holding your hand and looked in the window?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 12:18 PM
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Yes well it is a big deal if it has been going on for months and he's been systematically lying while feigning increasing emotional intimacy... nobody likes that, it always sucks, most guys also find that horrifying when it is done to them and a girl they thought was going to be in their life for years says "well it has been fun this past three months and I know I was always dragging you over to jewellers windows and admiring engagement rings but now I've not got room for you in my life just bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 11:22 AM
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I doubt women would be sympathetic to a man who complains about being divorce raped when his ex-wife showed all the signs of being a gold digger, but his excuse was "well, once in a blue moon a genuine good, loyal woman says the same things as a gold digger, in the same way, so I rolled the dice (while the other day he was complaining women are such devious tricksters and it's impossible to spot a gold digger). Well that would be because there's a difference between rolling the dice when the dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 10:58 AM
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Oh yes, even those old ladies in the nursing home who are appalled by the thought of a man still love it when the staff put their lipstick on them and help them pick out an outfit that matches. There's something badly wrong with someone who doesn't bother to fix themselves up at all unless it is for a specific goal. Healthy mammals keep their fur in good order, the fleas hunted down and their butt licked or wiped.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 10:44 AM
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People are complicated and they do things for multiple reasons. Clothes and such are complicated too, especially women's clothes. I mean one day you can wear red nailpolish because it is sexy and another day because it contrasts snappily with your blue shirt. Same with going to the gym I guess, one day it is about just working off some emotions and feeling healthy and the next day you're really thinking about getting impressive shoulders to attract women or impressive buns to attract men and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 08:03 AM
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Like if a guy said "omg bby u r most beautiful queen" I'd immediately know he's trying to trick me, regardless of how hot he is. Or maybe he's just a confident sort of guy who has options and value and doesn't feel the need not to let on that he thinks a girl is great? Sort of the inverse of negging... he demonstrates his own security in his level of attractiveness by showing he can build a girl up because nothing is going to build her up too high for her to be out of range. Of course the compli…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 05:34 AM
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That's why guys who have rat faces might consider getting good at doing stuff. Women are attracted to competency, accomplishment, and status too. Look at the diversity of things women are attracted to. The real problem in men is rarely their looks. It is usually lack of social skills and understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 03:32 AM
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Okay but here's the same issue again. Did she really not notice that the guy was abusive\controlling BEFORE actually marrying him? Cause I have a very hard time believing that he was just superhusband for multiple years, but as SOON as his wife quits her job, he turns evil. That's not how humans work, dude. It is how some human beings work. The asshole only comes out when they get more power over someone else than that person has over them. Nobody would complain if people just pursued their look…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 02:59 AM
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Yeah, well, parents of autistic kids sometimes have to take what they can get in terms of improvement. Little improvements loom large. A mother jubilant because her 7 year old wore shoes today for a whole hour, a father in tears because his fourteen year old son finally was willing to go up to the counter at McDonalds alone and buy a sundae. Today Rebecca only flapped her hands twice during dinner. Yesterday Aiden used a spoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 01:52 AM
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Well yes, partly that, they think sex wouldn't be too awful. They also probably just want to be around the guy a bit in case he likes them enough to have the relationship they want, and sex is a often a shortcut to that... and it is rare that a guy truly is only into ONS, most guys even players are up for short term flings. Plus a bit of lying and misdirection on the guy's part... I mean you may be able to tell but he isn't crafting the deception to fool you, is he? It is the girl's ongoing resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 01:45 AM
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Define this female "failure". I bet it's different than the male version. One form of failure is when she marries a guy who seems pretty decent, has a couple of kids and both agree she should give up her job to raise them, and then as soon as she does that he stops pretending to be decent and turns into a controlling asshole who thinks they've got no option but to accept him becoming a petty tyrant and bully everyone in the family... and she's faced with either a lifetime of misery for herself a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 01:33 AM
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I presume it is the same way guys just can't seem to tell who is a crazy bitch who will get pregnant on a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 12:48 AM
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So you're saying women's pickiness and ego get in the way of them having a more relaxed, happier life? Pffft. I don't want you putting your crapulent words in my mouth any more than I'd want you putting your dick in my mouth. Just stop with that shit. I'm saying that women get to work hard too for success in the SMP and RMP... they get to work and often enough too they get to fail despite hard work just like men fail despite hard work. Their priorities just happen to mostly be in a different ord…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 12:30 AM
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This. Meeting a stranger for sex is an incredibly risky activity which most women just don't do... and most of the few who have done it have only done it a few times. Those who do it routinely weekend after weekend are unusual creatures. The physical risks for women in doing this are much higher than the risks for men. Of course those women who do it are going to only do it when they are getting something extra out of the deal that they wouldn't be getting from just making a comparatively safe F…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 11:18 PM
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Well with kids who are on the spectrum you've just got to attempt to make what progress you can. It isn't an illness it is a disability and it is pervasive and making progress is complicated. I don't think we can necessarily tell just from the face he presents to the world in this story exactly how much or what his parents do, have done and will keep doing to try to get him to be more adept and motivated at dealing with his life or what challenges he has presented to them. I don't think it is ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 10:34 PM
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"Why is it that I have to do all the peacocking and she doesn't?" What do you think the dollar value of the female cosmetics industry is compared to the male cosmetics industry? Female hair services and products compared to male hair services and products? Cosmetic surgery sold to women vs cosmetic surgery sold to men? Cost of female garment industry compared to male garment industry? When we start talking about what is measurable rather than just about the strength of your feelings, your argume…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 09:43 PM
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Oh well, then if in this scenario I'm a narcissist I guess I'll do whatever I think will work out best for me and work hard to present it to the world as evidence of how fluffing wonderful I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 10:01 AM
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So what do you fine folks think? If this was your kid would you keep paying for everything like he was ten years old into his middle age? Well I guess that depends upon what his underlying dysfunction is?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 05:02 AM
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What?? Single mothers are heaped praise in our society! Only when they fit into certain categories. The tragically abandoned good wife whose husband has seemingly gone mad. The widow, especially if she is a military widow. The woman who only made one mistake as a teenager but has since worked day and night to become a prosperous businesswoman. The rape victim who was pro life and too maternal to give it up for adoption. Etc. Just like we excuse 30 year old male virgins if they are in wheelchairs…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 04:57 AM
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Most of the time they skip straight to asking for help, they don't try some serious and persistent reflective thinking first. They should turn first to themselves and analysis of their own experiences and also what they already know for a fact about the world. Isn't it easy to see how vulnerable young men looking for help fall into the manosphere? Yeah, they fall into it either because they have dependent personalities or because they are looking for a narrative that blames others not themselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 11:12 PM
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Well yeah, if you make eye contact the guy might mistake it for interest and try to stick his dick in you... something you generally don't want from randoms who make street approaches. Avoiding male eye contact just makes sense. It isn't weakness and guys would do it too if they got as much unwanted street attention as women do. Just start recognizing why you do it and that you don't need to feel conflicted about it or fight the urge to not make eye contact. You're allowed to make it as difficul…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 06:00 PM
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I just can't see how not giving out free condoms at the community centre can help such a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 04:52 AM
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The focus on social status and the nexus between social status and appearance and perceptions of inherent worth. I hate the effing treadmill it creates. No I am not "letting things slide" if I elect not to cover my few grey hairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 02:59 AM
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In fact the government in most places does many things that have a wide range of effects that actually do end up having the effect of allowing people more effectiveness in the sexual marketplace than they might otherwise have had. Public transport. Any sort of free education. Any sort of free exercise equipment including running paths. Anything that provides social interaction opportunities that aren't costly and bring a lot of folks from different walks of life together in relaxed happiness... …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 02:42 AM
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The opportunities for those sort of thoroughly exceptional exceptions are the sort of thing that people who they'd suit should keep a watch for... but maybe not rely upon finding.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 05:52 PM
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Guys who marry younger are after the looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 04:45 PM
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The working class women don't tend to marry much older than them when they marry within their class. Working class men age very fast, 40 years looks and behaves like 60. Also they don't tend to have retirement savings so marrying an older working class man is pretty much giving up hope for anything other than poverty and drudgery. So yeah, the age gap marriages are mostly a feature of the upper classes, specifically the comparatively newly wealthy who haven't worked out yet why you don't do that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 04:44 PM
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Look at it this way some people aspire to high paying management jobs and there are some people who are totally capable of getting a high paying management job but would rather have an easier job. An older man isn't an easier job. His friends are all old fucks you don't so easily fit in with, and he's going to need to be nursed when he becomes frail aged. yes some women do prefer them. Some men prefer morbidly obese women, some women prefer morbidly obese men. There are those that like amputees.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 04:13 AM
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I'm saying if people can make it work then it is not anybody's business to tell them they are wrong People who believe such relationships are wrong generally don'tell others their relationship is wrong unless they are actually asked about matters concerning the relationship, or they have a relationship where it is appropriate to give advice. There's no massive chorus of "FOR SHAME" from strangers and I would know... my ex husband was nearly nine years older than me and I grew up and he didn't. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 04:06 AM
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If she's extremely socially astute and not a minger, she can have a guy who is closer to her own age and doing well, a gap of five years at most, she doesn't have to marry older and put up with old man boobs, lack of energy from her husband, her husband's boring and jaded older friends, a retirement spending the lively parts of her old age looking after a man who is now frail, the increased likelyhood he will die first and she will die alone and unwanted once she is frail herself. I mean serious…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 03:12 AM
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The 40 year old will most likely weigh the benefits and consequences and decide that a woman like age 25-30 is a much more sensible age gap. Even a 25 year old is baby-ish among 40 year olds. Especially when you are talking highly competent and prosperous UMC 40 year olds. A 30 year old could cope if she's incredibly socially ept... but if she is all that and pretty then she's probably going to be able to find the 30 year old equivalent of that 40 year old who wants her for an age gap relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 03:02 AM
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I agree, he will face social disapproval for dating someone that young. However, that doesn't necessarily make him wrong or his actions unacceptable. He'll still be not able to have a normal social life with people his own age. And it is quite reasonable to drop people from large amounts of your social life if you find their partner to be a bore and a drag. In particular it is reasonable to drop them from group activities you organise... parties, dinner parties, that sort of thing. Anyway, the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 02:10 AM
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No-one is legally preventing a 40 year old having sex with or marrying an 18 year old. Don't expect to be treated the same though. Even if your friends are receptive to the general idea of the age gap and look at your particular age gap relationship and decide you're not a creepy manipulative jerk, an 18 year old just isn't the same sort of fun as other 40 year olds are. 18 year olds are pretty much kids who socialize best with other kids. There's a reason why I don't think "Oh I'll invite that …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 01:19 AM
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Deep emotional bond? Depends upon the nature of the bond. I mean obviously people still make friends, love their kids, etc. Not evry deep bond is romantic. For example I'f my partner was a soldier I'd expect him to form deep bonds with other soldiers. Sending naked pictures is so dumb that I just can't imagine myself staying with someone who does it. Texting erotic messages? Yeah, that's infidelity. Maintaining a dating profile? Pretty much, unless the couple do so together as a couple looking f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 03:01 PM
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What she did isn't particularly nice or considerate but it isn't worthy of outrage, more like just a bit of side-eye. And any guys who didn't walk away and yet are complaining now, well they probably need to have a think about why they didn't because as far as I can tell it was incredibly safe to do so compared to most of the situations where people go on a date and find their date had drastically different plans for them than they envisaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:36 PM
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It is possible to believe something to be true and adhere to that system of thought when in quiet contemplation without actually following that up with real life actions that are congruent with those beliefs. The classic case of this is the devout priest who is also a vicious sociopath using the power of his position to indulge his sinfulness all while kind of knowing he's going to hell. The existence of priests like that doesn't mean that catholicism doesn't exist, nor does it mean those priest…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 07:46 PM
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So pretty much you are saying that she should leave him if he becomes unfuckable due to being a fat fuck... and the point of that isn't her implementing her own values or implementing her husbands' values or even implementing the values of the marriage as a whole... the point of that is to implement u/LewisCross own personal values. Because obviously that's the most sure and certain and relevant thing about this relationship between two other people who aren't you. You're hella solopsistic... wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 07:28 PM
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But surely he's capable of making that decision to divorce for himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 02:08 PM
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Wouldn't that depend on why she's feeling that way? I mean let's say he decides to get five extra meals a day from the mcdonalds drive through, puts on 400 pounds and now his penis can only be found if she digs for it. Surely under those conditions just sticking around is enough pulling her weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 01:55 PM
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He's a public embarrassment and you don't have to tolerate it. This would be the case no matter who he is yelling at. You're at a goddamn restaurant ffs. Jesus fuck, does the manosphere make people lose their minds? You walk out on that asshole and his bullshit, that's what you do, and reconsider ever going anywhere with him again, probably reconsider the entire friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 07:34 PM
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Can you explain the gaslighting part? That's not gaslighting. She's flirting by saying "yeah take another look at that bra strap take a good look"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 03:02 PM
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I'm not a superwoman, my standards are quite achievable by normal mortals. I think I'm like most women this way. What we want isn't so difficult. If a guy doesn't sort laundry adequately despite having the principles explained to him he is obviously either mentally defective or doesn't have the sort of personality that takes pride in a job well done. Neither of which is terribly appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 12:43 PM
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Very disruptive if you were in the habit of long slow afternoons and evenings of lovemaking. I think this is probably one of the reasons why there used to be expectations of celibacy before marriage and then pressure to get pregnant as soon as possible after marriage, it wasn't just that illegitimate children were being avoided, it was also to avoid peasants ever forming the expectation that sex was to be a bigger part of life than just an brief highlight. Best strategy to have a healthy sex lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 10:53 PM
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I think it is hard to tell, because quite often the things we want aren't actually the things that lead to happiness, contentedness, etc. Sometimes a little more control over our consumption of pleasure leads to happier situations. I would need to see some pretty dam rigorous research (not just "OK cupid says" shit) before I'd countersign that one. However I'm quite happy to agree that most men want situations in which they get to fuck everyone who catches their eye. Just like I'm happy to agree…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 07:08 PM
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Skin and hair. The standards for skin and hair are so much higher for women. I mean given that most of the US is overweight I can see how statistically speaking wanting a slim woman would be picky but then again staying slim really isn’t that hard. I don't think people are all that different in terms of motivations and desire to be slim than they used to be a hundred years ago, the obvious conclusion is yes it is harder to be slim and fit than it used to be, if it was as easy as say choosing to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 10:47 PM
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And the problem just gets worsened by how in courting a lot of guys overstate how generous they want to be. So they each get other locked down and all of a sudden it isn't just that she's getting bored fucking him, he's also getting annoyed at paying for the lifestyle she wants and maybe can't even afford what he implied he was willing to buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 02:53 AM
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I don't seriously seek to challenge their beliefs, despite knowing their beliefs are wrong. I don't regard it as in the interests of women who aren't particularly like that to have TRPers seeking them out. Nor do I regard it as in the interests of blue pill guys to have competition for those women. It isn't in the interests of women who are like that to lose a source of partners. Quite literally the only people whose interests in would be in for TRPers to become less delusional about this partic…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 01:03 AM
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All she's doing is what countless parents do every year, go back to court when they think the order or agreement isn't being adhered to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 05:39 AM
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Like I said before, I don't know who is right in this game of he said she said. Also, as much as Jolie doesn't "need" the money, Pitt should be easily capable of paying the money. It isn't like he's some dude whose truck broke down and he missed a few payments. If he's not paying then there's the question of whether he's just pushing limits in order to gear up to push more limits. A return to court to firmly place this all in the realms of the court ordered and enforceable could prevent a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 08:39 PM
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The UMC SAHM is absolutely a trad-con. SAHM is one of the options for non trad con women when that's what the couple agree on as being appropriate under the circumstances at that particular time in their lives. This includes UMC women. Non trad con woman are not automatically restricted to having a career as their main focus. That's part of the power of not being trad con, it is in the flexibility and responsiveness. I mean I get it, you want trad con to become the mode again. Ain't gonna happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 08:26 PM
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You're conflating "trad con woman" with "UMC woman" with "SAHM woman" so you can play a shell game. The reality is that the trad con woman is pretty much always underpowered compared to a non trad con woman of the same socioeconomic class. She's got fewer options other than to accept a man's power over her. Sucks to be her, unless she is deeply submissive by nature. Most women want the non trad con version of whatever life path they prefer, be it SAHM or career woman. Most women just aren't keen…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 07:58 PM
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I thought conservatives didn't believe in society? Or have you all moved on since Maggie Thatcher? https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/margaret_thatcher_165648 I don't think there's a huge amount of social pressure by women onto other women to have sex. I mean obviously you find the occasional friendhship grouping in which one girl may occasionally feel she needs to keep up with other girls, but those friendship groupings are usually big on alcohol and partying too so well it's just a matter of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 07:35 PM
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Not so much by other girls compared to how they are pressured by men. I mean that's the elephant in this room you're trying to build, isn't it? Men really can't as a group blame women as a group for being sexual... because that's exactly what guys usually attempt to get women to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:49 PM
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Not exactly shaming, more like gentle ribbing. Unless of course there's a general bullying situation happening then everything is a cause to shit on the victim... they could bully one day over prudishness and the next over sluttishness without the victim having done or changed a damn thing. https://youtu.be/4bcCj8W6Ok8
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:44 PM
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She doesn't actually need the money, though, does she? If she did need the money then I would have total sympathy with her. If he's stopped honoring agreements, she needs him to know that if he says he'll do something she's going to do whatever it takes to hold him to it. I think what is best for the children is rather a judgment call based upon whether Pitt is reliable or not. If Jolie has accurately come to the opinion that Pitt is not going to honor agreements, then what is best for the kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:39 PM
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YES, we are below a "fat girl" with the "right" clothes/makeup/hair on the social hierarchy. https://youtu.be/U4jvm0rLkgs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:19 PM
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Oh how terrible the West is, where attractive women can actually include sexual satisfaction in their list of priorities, and the natural result is that there are men who get attractive girlfriends, wives and/or hookups who aren't just doing their duty, thereby making less attractive men jealous. If you don't like the Western world, there's plenty of planes to other places. You could book one right this minute, using your credit card. I'm sure if you've got an engineers salary and no overbearing…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 04:28 PM
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They get bullied at school by girls, relentless bullying of the sort that makes you want to shrivel up and die. They learn not to trust boys because boys can hurt them and no-one will ever care. They have a few shitty boyfriends (the type that are shitty but not bad boys, the sort of man who doesn't actually realize how shitty he is with his whining and neediness and constant demand for his needs catered to while providing very little of the same in return) then realize that any guy who they can…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 04:18 PM
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I would question whether it couldn't remain a private discussion between them, though. Well if she's right and he hasn't stuck to their informal verbal agreement for 18 months then she's probably already discussed the matter with him and has not got much choice but to file in court or to suck it up. And if she sucks up and deals with one thing who knows what other part of their agreements he won't honor? These are people who can fly kids around the world for access visits, that either of them wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 03:56 PM
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And if you're that bothered about your kids being supported, stop going to Africa and picking up new ones! I don't think you can really hold her more responsible than Brad Pitt for that ridic rainbow family... or at least for any of the kids who he is on the adoption papers for. If he signed the damn papers he's as responsible for that shit as she is. All it would have taken is a "no" and not picking up the pen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 04:41 AM
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We regularly see both BPers and TRPers putting up a pretty good show of arguing that significant internal contradictions exist within the other pill. So how can anyone be anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 01:12 AM
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He is just unlucky, he will find a woman eventually. He needs to double down on the "good" qualities he already has (like he needs to get a promotion at work, or he needs to be even more mature). He must have some kind of character flaw and deserves his fate. Or he's socially inept. Or he's got some sort of unreasonable fussiness going on (she has to be Asian when Asians are only 5% of the town he lives in, and slim and love computer games and be a virgin!) and is in denial over what that means …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 10:49 PM
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I think being thought to be a little creepy is a risk inherent in all approaches. I mean there's people I find creepy just because they remind me of other people, or because I know they have various mindsets that skew heavy towards things I find creepy. To some extent any interaction with another person involves a risk of being seen to be creepy. Make an approach with an NRA badge on your jacket... there will be women who see that as creepy before it even becomes obvious you are making an approa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 06:34 PM
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Dude, I know how it feels to have fucked up and not done things I should have in the light of hindsight done. And guess what? I don't expect anyone else to have much empathy or sympathy for me over those things. I didn't have to do those deeds or omit to do other deeds and the simplest of reflections on my part would have revealed the risks I was running. This is called being a grown up. It involves making decisions about what house to buy and whether to get it inspected before making an offer, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 04:14 PM
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Then why are the richest and most successful countries (sometimes happiest too) have legalised prostitution? The same reason they tend to have the best and nicest carb and fat filled desserts. The wealthier you get the more bad but pleasurable crap you can afford. Poor countries tend more having lots of prostitution but wishing deeply things were otherwise. I think you'll find, however, that rich countries still tend to keep prostitution in what pretty much equates to ghettos designed to contain…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 10:07 AM
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I have never met a woman who doesn't participate in casual sex frequently. You got a mother? You got sisters? You got workmates and classmates? You actually leave the house? You notice women who don't look plastic? Whatever, you're interacting with hookup culture a whole lot. Most people most of the time aren't in hookup culture. either because some guy won't choose her It may look that way but the reality is that women and men who aren't participating in hookup culture go for a different look t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 09:54 AM
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Yeah sugar babying/daddying or being used for your wallet is socially accepted. I don't really think it is. I mean obviously it is more accepted than giving or receiving blowies for ten bucks behind a dumpster, but still it is the sort of thing that is the topic of scurrilous gossip. Sort of like abortion. Legal, but generally regarded as something that reflects poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 09:34 AM
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I am made deeply uneasy by the link between prostitution and violent angry men. "dead hooker" jokes are the sort of thing I'm talking about, as is much of the stuff that is recorded as having been said by serial killers about prostitute victims. I think that men who feel that prostitutes will solve their deep desires in a meaningful way rather than just take the edge off are lying. I am also made deeply uneasy by many of the ways prostitutes use men while letting them "in" yet still have contemp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 08:42 AM
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I don't care why men decide to get paternity tests or not get paternity tests. That's a personal matter, internal to the family unit. As for discovering a kid isn't yours genetically after 15 years... well sucks to be you and not to have decided to test, but really no more so than if you did/didn't do any one of dozens of other things we cheerfully let people commit or omit to mess themselves up. If you want to get a kid of yours tested, get them tested. If you want to suggest to other guys to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 05:27 PM
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Well fuck, no wonder you guys have high hospital bills and a bug up your collective arse about wanting less government. Just goes to show how different cultures that seem superficially the same really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:12 PM
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Could you maybe point me to an open acknowledgement of it online by someone actually involved in the process? I mean not just an MRA who thinks that's probably the way it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 03:59 PM
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And hospital staff (usually a social worker) will make sure your name is on the birth certificate (especially if the woman is unmarried). They're trained to get the guy to acknowledge paternity as soon as possible (i.e. while he's feeling all excited about "his" baby). Of course this acknowledgement can and will be used against him in future child support proceedings. That's not my knowledge and experience of the birth registration form... although admittedly I'm not in the USA. In my experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 03:57 PM
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So we are supposed to put in place a whole lot of legislation, administration, collecting and storing of people's personal DNA information and spending of money (whether taxpayer funds or making people pay for tests they mostly don't want) because some men lack the stones to say to a woman "I want a DNA test, I'll go to court to get one if necessary and I'm not signing that birth certificate until we get one" Hmmm. No. Let people who want tests get tests and pay for it themselves. Leave those wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 03:50 PM
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Can't change her. Can only change you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 03:14 AM
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I think you're just the sort of person who would notice a man being told off more than he notices a women being told off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 03:11 AM
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Naw dude, that is when we tell other women to reject him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 03:04 AM
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I've never needed such a thing so i have never sought it out, don't even know if such a thing exists. There are plenty of general works about the role of narrative thought in identity, purpose, planning and mind. For example https://www.amazon.com/New-Theory-Mind-Narrative-Thought/dp/1443887188 and we do know that female sexuality is heavily narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 10:10 PM
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Amazingly enough, disabled people can behave badly and it have nothing much to do with their disability, in fact sometimes they use disability as an excuse. They are just like the rest of us, sometimes they behave badly because they are human. I do think he should have had some assistance with the justice processes involved but anyone who thinks it is a given he'd have gotten off if he had assistance is kidding themselves. I also think that where a person's disability affects their ability to st…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:15 PM
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Sometimes. I mean it is the sort of thing that can be funny or just irritating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:04 PM
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Sure. We could call men women, and women men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 04:55 AM
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That's like "can you explain how to write a poem" or "can you explain how to win a chess game" Sigh. By "projected" I mean projected into the future. She tells a story about you and the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 04:54 AM
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Traits don't get women wet, projected narratives get women wet. Traits (in combination with circumstances and actions) just make projected narratives more or less credible. You can be everything in the way of traits that a woman theoretically wants and she will still not get wet if the story it supports in her mind is a generator of sand not wetness. Edit to add: One interesting thing to note is that autistic kids tend to be really quite bad at composing stories, they develop that skill more slo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 04:22 AM
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People don't like the fact that the only thing that seems to make most TRPers motivated enough to do anything about themselves is if they can be angry and blame others about matters sexual. Like it all has to be some great battle they are fighting against outside forces... always... every moment that involves a woman. Hey that woman over there who is nothing to do with me, what's she doing and how does it screw me over? Hey world, you've got to get guys like me laid or we just won't do our jobs …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 04:04 AM
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In this scenario I'm in the age demographic that this subreddit mainly concerns itself with, the under 40s? A young woman who is not a single mother can do better than a single father. It is unlikely I would choose to date a single father.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 06:19 PM
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People should seriously consider not holding onto very restrictive preferences if they are the sort to fester like a very obvious carbuncle when they don't get exactly their preferences. In that case (which I used to think was uncommon until I encountered reddit) unless they've been monumentally lucky to get their preferences or extremely high value and able to dictate preferences and get them (billionaire underwear model with a great sense of humor?) they need to start getting the fuck over the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 08:45 AM
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The favored scion of the 11th richest family (at the time) in my hometown of a million people once gave me a box of chocolates and flirted with me. I mean I get that's not billionaire territory and its not mick jagger but they did do things like give their kids shopping centres to celebrate graduating from university. He was plenty good looking too despite being a ginger. But there was something off and I just sort of didn't. He later became a heroin addict, lost most of it, in and out of rehab.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 02:15 AM
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"Who would play a game that's so rigged against yourself?" You live, you work, you die. It is all rigged whether or not you decide to breed. I'm not trying to get you to breed. I'm just pointing out that years of emotional and financial toil then death is your reality whether or not you spend that time and effort on self or on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:08 PM
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Sure. If he's still doing it in a week then maybe I've got to quietly pay closer attention and gradually work out what's going on (is he trans, is he likely to turn out gay in a very flamboyant way, does he just like all sorts of dressup roleplaying and is as keen on being a knight as a princess, what gives?) but chances are he's just playing. How will being allowed to wear dresses affect him? He'll know he's free to explore what being himself is in terms of gender expression. I'm fine if my kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 04:05 AM
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Prostitution is something about which it is easy to make a case for an idealized sanitised version of, but when you look at the actual reality then on so many aspects of what it is it gets harder to justify. The moral reason why I wouldn't ever prostitute myself (there are also aesthetic and social reasons I wouldn't) is that it is a form of inauthenticity and lying that goes pretty deeply into aspects of ourselves that comprise identity and ourt basic physical emotional responses. Now in an ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 03:16 AM
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similar moral values, kindness (the real deal, not just doing kind things to make a display so he can be seen as kind), persistence Of your list... which really are entirely peripheral to my actual preferences... I guess I'd like an introverted optimistic man with low body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 08:39 AM
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It’s amusing to me that you would basically tell short men to accept the fact that they are unfortunately genetic garbage unfit for relationships because, well, nature It isn't so much that they are absolutely unfit, fitness is a relative thing, we are probably all a good deal more fit than members of home erectus were but homo erectus still bred. it is that if they are very short they are likely to be an exceptionally poor choice compared to other current options, especially when we're talking …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 03:05 AM
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Start doing social stuff, keep doing social stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 01:41 AM
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He's betrayed first his parents when presumably he was still reliant on his parents and found it useful to have an understanding that the siblings lie for each other and hide each other's behavior to get away with stuff, and then he betrayed his sister to make sure funds were spent elsewhere other than on her. Nobody likes a traitor. They may find a traitor to be useful in a transitory way, but they'll never like or trust them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 01:40 AM
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As for your disadvantages, I genuinely mean no offense, but that’s ridiculous. Those are not disadvantages. You know nothing about how it is to function as a woman in the SMP and RMP. Physical attractiveness is not all there is to assessment of a person's value.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 01:34 AM
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Maybe she's up for a bit of fooling about but not penetrative sex... that happens, sometimes a girl is happy to give a handjob but really isn't in for PIV. Maybe she was indeed up for full sex but goes off with him and his house reveals enough of his personality for her not to want him any more at all ever for anything. Maybe he successfully gave her the impression that he really did just want her to look at something he professed to own and was an actual mutual interest and sex wasn't the point…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 02:53 AM
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Women may prefer tall men on average, and that’s fine, but to suggest that it’s because there’s something wrong with shorter ones is messed up. When you're talking folks who are in the extreme tapering off bits (both extremely tall and extremely short) of the distribution for height in a population then no it is not messed up to suggest that something hinky is increasingly likely to be going on with their genes as they approach the upper or lower limits of the range of values for height. And yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 02:00 AM
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She can have kids with him if she wants, just best not to use his sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 07:35 AM
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I was a deeply unhappy young person and yet hadn't recognised that the terrible sense of daily discomfort I felt was unhappiness and that the reason for it was my father and the way his narcissism blighted the dynamics of the entire family. Just about any boyfriend would have had me thrilled with how wonderful he was (so much better than my WONDERFUL home life he must be a real catch!) and wanting marriage. That was the red flag I missed in myself. I think maybe the red flag call I missed in him…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 09:20 PM
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"I have witnessed recently that women will rather pick a number and be a play thing of someone that excites them than being treated like a princess and be the only woman in the guys life of a number 2 or more guy that she will interact with only if the number one guy is busy." This being treated like a princess thing... exactly what do you mean by that? Do you mean being paid a lot of attention, waited on hand and foot and never said "no" to... because we're wise to that and now know that it sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:49 PM
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Guys who have started behaving badly because they are sexually frustrated are like that one neighbor of yours who has picked up a meth, crack or heroin addiction, has started ransacking cars and going door to door begging for "money for groceries", but firmly believes that everything is still plausibly deniable and everyone should rightfully still be thinking of and treating them like they did two years ago, and what their overwhelming needs does to their behavior is not yet an issue. Of course …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 05:48 AM
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Because the sort of fake that field reports are is wishful thinking. You work it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 06:10 PM
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What about someone who wrote smutty novels for a living?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 06:08 PM
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"Please do not appeal to a higher "morality" or whatever. I want to hear what YOU think a married man is obligated to do, and why. " Sigh. Of course if you don't reckon on people including any sort of higher moral code or purpose in their behavior he isn't obligated. But on the other hand he really can't reasonably claim any protection from other people's contempt because like it or not a lot of people do see having a higher morality as being as important as he sees getting laid to be, nor is he…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 02:46 PM
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IRL I'd tell a 5 foot tall dude that there is just no spark. I'd tell him that even if I liked him just fine and there was plenty of spark. He's a bad reproductive bet. If someone is on reddit in a subreddit designated for discussing such stuff, they've got to accept they might occasionally hear someone's truth and not like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 04:28 AM
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The real issue isn't submerged cities, the real issue is loss of river delta farmland.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 03:33 AM
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I'm not as cute as I used to be but my memory is good. I don't feel any different to when a woman says no... I mean obviously the context is going to be the key not the gender. If someone I've done a lot of favors for does not do a really easy favor for me I'll stay polite but feel a bit peeved and be reconsidering whether I'll do them favors, if someone I have no history of helping refuses to do a difficult favor I feel embarrassed for having asked in the first place. Between those two scenario…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 03:31 AM
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I get it that it is bad not to be able to see the forest for the trees. But if you are going to be climbing particularly high up a particular tree you'd better bloody well be seeing not just that tree but every branch for exactly what it is, not just for its general treeishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 12:29 AM
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For example, if she's like 5ft tall, she would still desire someone much taller than her. A 5ft tall guy stands no chance. There's about five to six inches difference that is down to the different hormone levels in development... a 5 foot tall woman in most communities is not the height match to a 5 ft tall man. A 5 foot tall woman is ordinary short, a 5 ft tall man there's a serious possibility that something unhealthy, abnormal and even possibly dangerous was at work to make him that small. Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 12:05 AM
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Doesn't want it right now, might possibly want it in future if certain conditions are met, doesn't want to outright describe those conditions because there's no surer way to end up lied to than to tell someone what lies they need to tell. She's not "making" anyone chase her. He's in a situation where he has decided to chase. Unless of course he's got not much more sense than a cat chasing the red dot of a laser pointer. Why do woman hold off on sex with guys they are attracted to? Well we're not…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 12:04 PM
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It is weird because people generally don't do it, even well-funded deliberate single parenthood by women is rare. It is untested because it is untested, because people don't really do it. And it is likely to screw up in unanticipated ways because people just don't do it so we don't know what to anticipate and what to do or avoid doing to make it work out OK. Look, either put on your big boy pants and go do it... or don't and realise that not doing it undermines any argument you make that there i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 05:24 AM
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Frats are a communal pool of resources (money, time, effort, expertise, brand recognition etc) designed to support a group of young men's social lives in ways that are consistently responsive to the needs that group identifies. Why the fuck would frat members not have better success at something like finding sexual partners? They've pooled their resources. Like a co-operative. Or a mutual society. Every member of the frat walks around with certain supports and opportunities in his life provided …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 04:06 AM
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Guys with enough money to do that generally have enough money to afford nannies AND wives so the wives stay sweet and unharried longer, when marriages fail they make alimony payments without a blip and always attract a younger prettier wife. Things are pretty sweet for them even without any change. Why would they do something so weird, untested and likely to screw up in unanticipated ways, when they've got most of what they want right now? They don't care whether you get to win, they are winning…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 03:41 AM
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Well it probably isn't rape except under specific very odd circumstances (there's a blizzard outside so she can't leave safely, and you've been doing this for 36 hours and she's at the point in sleep deprivation where it is legit torture?) but I sure don't want the guys who do it to get any chance to pass on their genes (I mean really is THAT what we want humans to be?) so I don't really give so much of a shit if they do end up going to prison. Also I think we should outright pay for an abortion…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 03:17 AM
1

Oh noes still a woman!!!!! Whatever can I does? Dude I wish you many many post wall women messing up your existence, may they plague you when you shop, when you drive, when you lodge papers at government offices, when you are making approaches dates and when you attempt monk mode. whatever you do may "Ahem, excuuuuse me boy..." blight your days then haunt your nightly dreams. We're there, there's an unlimited supply of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 02:18 PM
2

Being post-menopausal is great. You're not full of estrogen any more so there's nothing dulling your edge, you've seen enough of the world to know what you like and what you hate and how the rules can be used to your advantage, and you've got most of the work done that you came here for so you can mess about a lot if you want. And get this... all that bodily fear you used to have as a teenager and young woman? Not there at all. I mean yeah sure you know that if the snot of a young man you are de…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 06:38 AM
1

I wonder... do you feel this about every time a person gets systematically fooled about anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 09:22 PM
6

Also because you aren't so much the one they are attempting to hide it from.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 04:35 PM
2

I think you'd have a more realistic appreciation of how many players are flying under your radar on a day to day basis if the consequence of failed detection was they get to fuck your arse. As it is there's no wake-up call for you when you fail to detect one, of course you think you're doing a better job of it than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 08:43 AM
1

https://youtu.be/YCKpJkplwoU
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 03:03 AM
1

If a man has protected sex with a woman, doesn’t see her again for ten years, then out of nowhere is hit with a bill for child support for a kid he didn’t even know existed, I think there’s an argument to be made for him not owing the money. B A lot of countries do have claim-lodgement cut offs for getting arrears payments of child support. usually there's some sort of leeway of weeks or months for claiming after a child is born or a separation and if you don't start a claim in that time and pus…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 02:09 AM
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I don't support financial abortions for the same reason i don't support infanticide or compulsory paying a woman child support before the baby is actually born. That kid has rights that a fetus doesn't, financial support should be one of them. A woman's failure to abort should not remove rights from a future living child. I do, however, for what it is worth, feel that there should be more options for making a little more sure that child support actually benefits the child in a way normal to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 02:03 AM
3

Why allow people to vote at 18, why not allow them to vote as soon as they want to? Sometimes we codify things, humans like thresholds to be obvious even in situations where the reality is rather more one of uncertainties and gradual change.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 07:15 PM
2

I support easy availability of abortion up until about the six month mark and after that according to medical need. I think abortion and other forms of birth control (yes abortion is birth control, it stops a birth from happening... what it isn't is contraception, dammit) have gone a long way towards reducing child poverty. I don't think it has hurt society in any major way, there's a few people it annoys but when push comes to shove even they tend to choose it for their pregnant teenage daughte…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 05:55 PM
1

He's got the asshole fuckboi hair cut du jour. That is offputting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 05:41 PM
1

If one was looking at the situation primarily from the point of view of providing true equality without concern for the wellbeing of any of the three parties involved, the thing to do would be to whenever a child was conceived outside of a situation where both parents agreed on whether it should exist or not and who should pay for it, to forcibly adopt that kid out, duplicate upon the man's body equivalent levels to whatever damage, disability and pain had been inflicted upon the woman by gestat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 05:18 PM
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Part of the problem with the comparison you are trying to make is that "friendship" in our society has a far more subtle gradient to it and less boundaries and definition around it than "regular casual sexual partner" or "committed relationship" so when you're looking at a situation where ideas of friendship were being manipulated you're generally going to have to spend more time finding out what actually happened and who is being a manipulative jerk and how much. I mean at one end you might hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 06:39 PM
2

I'd rather have something fresh and new to go with my fresh new physique, I mean nothing against him but I'd be kinda over it now and gosh who wants to risk having to get over the same guy twice? Also chances are that due to the previous awkwardness he's waited until I'm very attractive to him... so on the balance of probability I can do a little better than him now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 02:58 AM
1

People behave solicitous around the wealthy and powerful even when they don't want to fuck them, I'm sure that a few thousand years back it was one way you improved your chances of not getting a nasty whack with a bronze sword... pitch your voice a little higher and more gentle, behave in a more pleasing and complying way, fetch the powerful guy a damn drink when he shows up on your doorstep and maybe grab an instrument and play a song rather than hang around looking useless while he eats the be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 02:42 AM
4

I think that guys in Western cultures are under less external pressure to get married than women and that there is an acknowledgement that having kids is going to largely depend on chance and whether the woman he likes best wants that. Most of the whining we hear from guys about being under pressure to find a mate and marry are from guys whose background is not Western. I think just about everyone, male or female, is under pressure financially unless they are from the upper echelons of society. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 08:03 PM
3

I think she'll probably eat less donuts if she gets with a different guy. Lose the weight and the porn addict. Time to shoot the relationship in the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 01:32 PM
1

Making feminism as powerful as it is required hundreds of thousands of women (including a very large number of middle class women) to sacrifice many of the advantages of their position in traditional society while not having actually obtained the advantages of a changed society yet. It required that women be labelled sluts, that they be imprisoned, that they be held down and force fed, that they be mocked, that their value be diminished. They did this because things were really really bad for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 10:49 PM
2

Yup, that's the recipe for ever declining SMV in a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 10:05 PM
1

I think the answer to that one is usually more like "not yet, but eventually"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 09:58 PM
9

They do. Wives buy nice casual clothes for their husbands and then their husbands refuse to put them on when asked just to go on a date to the movies. Wives shop for healthier food, then their husbands go get takeout at 9pm because they feel hungry for fats and carbs. Wives sign their husbands up for the gym and then the husband doesn't go. Wives outright ask sometimes... please lose the weight, please work out like you did in your youth, please wear the nice clothes you look good in them. And t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 09:57 PM
1

Someone who is a proven team player and can function in several roles for the team. Maybe he works well as a captain, maybe he works well as a coach, maybe he works well as sponsor, maybe he works well in a more specialized role... but he plays as part of a team, is flexible in how he does so and he has the wellbeing of the team at heart, and when there are issues of critical importance he will be placing those issues above his own pleasure and whims and expecting others to do likewise. He's not…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 10:15 AM
2

Most men's commitment ain't worth shit, so I guess whatever?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 10:29 PM
1

Of course normal moderately authentic people are going to mock the fakes. What universe do you live in where boob jobs and toupees are not a cause for snickering and mean jokes? The really great thing is that the heavily PUA dudes almost always end up chasing the heavily plastic women, at venues like nightclubs that are designed to add more fakery and artificiality on top of what the individuals are bringing. Guess they do what they gotta do to end up breeding. The rest of us get to be normal pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 12:42 PM
1

It can. really what it comes down to is if you aren't fun you aren't going to have a partner who finds you fun, so find yourself a target demographic whose sense of fun isn't too painfully different to yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 11:09 AM
2

Those men are often boring nerdy engineer types who only provide security rather than fun. I know plenty of nerdy women who love their nerdy husbands and share lots of nerdy fun. If you're not fun it is because you are not fun, not because you are an engineer or because you've got a good job. Or maybe you want the women who find a different set of stuff fun (admittedly nerd girls aren't terribly into model makeup and clothing, being shown off at bars, etc) but you aren't willing to change to fit…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 10:45 AM
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What you mean is that you'd rather be successful at something else. Fine, all very well... but don't go doing the equivalent of biting off the head of someone who says you're great at tending bar because deep down you harbor unrealized ambitions of being an concert pianist and being told you're good at making cocktails just reminds you of what you haven't accomplished. The person who told you that you are great with the flourishes when mixing her drinks is not responsible for the fact you'd rath…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 08:53 AM
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I suggest to you that if someone truthfully describes something that you are successfully being right now, and you feel insulted merely because it draws your attention to your decades of previous failure, then how they see you right now in the present is not the problem, the problem is that you're angry with past you for being such a loser and you're trying to project those feelings of anger and blame onto someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 08:23 AM
2

I have no idea whether the man would/should be considered beta. Is it even relevant, it sounds like a tangential issue. You don't need to be any particular thing to experience violence, you just need to have been in the vicinity of someone willing to commit violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 02:04 PM
6

For when premarital virginity by itself is not enough "they won't know what they are missing" to keep a fucked up culture full of fucked up guys happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 09:22 PM
2

Childbirth was frequently deadly and children were not lifestyle choices they were both essential to the economy and very difficult to avoid creating. Nowadays, both the dangerous jobs and the child birthing are options that for the most part very much safer and individuals can dispense with if they ain't feeling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 07:26 PM
1

I think we need to think about the various components of pair bonding before we go discussing it as a thing? There's appropriate mate selection, there's speed of feeling a bond, there's effective depth of the bond in terms of what the bond makes you do while it is in force and there's willingness to give up on the bond. These are what makes for the critical aspects of a specific pair bond experience. I think having had diverse sexual experience helps a person choose more wisely. If you're not a …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 04:04 PM
1

Mom better keep her trap shut unless she wants to feel these fists. AMALT
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 03:42 PM
10

Now. In the first half of the 1900s, and before, you were working 14 hours a day for 25 cents until you dropped dead of black lung at 30. I'll remember to be really nice to any old miner dudes I meet. Are you a 100 year old miner dude? But let's face it life was pretty shit for everyone in those towns, the women would have been washing clothes in a coal fired copper and wringing them by hand, food would have been a lot of work to organize, childbirth an iffy thing with lasting medical consequenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 12:09 PM
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Guess what? Guys only started caring a very little about the stuff women actually fight hard for and make sure to broadcast their commitment to, they stop caring as soon as the fight in women goes away, and they tend to stop caring as soon as it is not in their personal interests to care. You can promise me that you and other men will fight for the rights of women if women win your battles for you first... and I will not believe a word you are saying. You are lying. You have announced yourself t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 12:03 PM
3

Everyone's disposable This. Men just notice more how men's hopes, dreams and bodies tend to be disposable, are fungible cogs in a machine, manifests in their own life and the lives of other men. They either don't notice the plight of the women giving their entire lives to raising the kids of men who made promises then knicked off to chase more skirt, of women with bodies ruined by childbirth, of women who find themselves having to give up jobs they enjoyed and that promised control over their ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 06:44 AM
1

How do you stop second-guessing? You realize that you are being counterproductive, that risk is inherent to existence, that it is highly unlikely that the choices you make will ever be the best choices but they can be pretty reliably good choices, that you are resilient and even outright mistakes aren't the end of the world, and then you decide to stop fretting and just get on with business. And if you're not capable of that you go to a medical professional and get your generalised anxiety disor…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 05:55 PM
2

I think you will get different answers from them if you put this in the context that most of them will encounter it in. There's this girl in your mixed gender social circle, she's single and so are you. You've never made a sexual approach to her for casual sex because you've not had the chance to do so in a manner that isn't likely to backfire within the social circle. You have just recently decided that going for ONS just isn't working for you and have been getting to know her and steadily comi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 02:53 PM
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Some guys inbox everyone because having any woman at all willing to talk about sex with isn't that bad a thing. Plus y'know there's always the chance of a gobby, and mouths are pretty much the same on everyone. I thought everyone knew this? Anyway, the market sets the price. There is no such thing as "always being able to get someone above your level" if you can always get them they are on your level in that part of that particular marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 11:35 AM
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Well it depends what she wants to pool their money for? If it is to accomplish a goal with him that it is clear they are both completely into ("let's buy a big house up in the hills and have a fabulous social life there" or "let's have a bunch of kids and send them to the best schools" or "let's travel to wonderful places" or "let's get filthy rich by investing") and it is obvious that goal might be enough to see them through life, then I've got no problems with this, it is no dumber than most f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 08:41 AM
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Not enough info. I mean why did I want them then, why did they reject me, why did they change their mind, what reasons have I got to want them now, what are my alternatives? What's going on in my life right now (not gonna leave a LTR for them that's for sure) and what is going on in their life? We've both (especially if in this scenario we are youngish) had formative experiences since then, it isn't like one day he said "ewwwwww no" and then the next day I'm getting a call. I'll think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 08:33 AM
3

Gavrilo Princip totes shot that archduke to please some girl
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 05:27 PM
1

Retirement and end of life planning is part of it. Men die younger on average than women and are on average a few years older than them in a relationship. Let's look at a case where there are no kids or assets to complicate matters, and a 50 year old man marries a 45 year old woman. Pretty normal sort of stuff. For starters lets assume they both retire at 65 as has been the norm and live my countries average for their gender... 80 for men and 85 for women. He'll have an extra 5 years of being in…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 10:37 AM
1

You're wanking a terrapin there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 10:08 AM
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Fat acceptance on the other hand is very much relevant in that regard because the topic is sexually charged. And since not too few women already feel alienated when they aren't considered attractive (by men), the issue of making women feel good about themselves is bound to interfere with male preferences. Dude, all you gotta do if you don't want to fuck a fat woman... is not fuck her. Literally no-one except disgruntled dudes is telling people that they have to fuck anyone for whom they're just …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 10:07 AM
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So how often will an attractive guy get laid real quick with a new woman? Certainly not every night he goes out looking, I worked a Mcjob as a teen, and saw attractive guys out plenty of times at 3am in the morning buying burgers, sad and unlaid. I've also seen the other side of it, the girls who go through that phase, they don't find what they are looking for in a partner each night either. I mean sure attractive guys who actively chase tarty women in the places those tarty women hang out get l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 04:35 AM
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Height is not neutral. Taller men have higher testosterone levels and higher levels of physical and sexual aggression. So short guys aren't just after parity with tall guys, they are after preference to tall guys. Thanks for admitting to something we all suspected. There's plenty of meek and mild tall guys, we've all known them, willowy and mild. There's plenty of hyper aggressive short dudes, we've all known them. Short guys really got to get over their butt hurt. Everyone has preferences. Look…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 03:00 AM
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> They should encourage tall women to look for shorter men, Why? I mean literally... why? Are you saying that feminism should dictate that women should have literally no preferences other ones that are about rewarding you for being a good boy who behaves in a politically correct manner? Height is, in terms of behavior, a neutral preference, like blue eyes or long fingers. And seriously... your P.S? If you're a loser you're probably going to have to date another loser unless you've got incredible…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 01:05 AM
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I'm talking about by comparison with the woman in the other story. if she'd decided like him to remove herself from the parenthood situation pretty much as soon as she was able... shove on a robe and grab her bag and leave as soon as the baby was born... oh well someone else will take care of that adoption thing, right? She'd have been shown on the news and arrested, dragged back. An interesting aspect if this is that a lot of places require the father (if known) to sign off on an adoption, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 02:54 PM
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He knew she was pregnant. If he wanders off without one of those options actually being implemented, he has failed to make a proper effort. Women of course get slightly different options and burdens, but swings and roundabouts. You know what happens if you walk out of a maternity hospital without your baby and before adoption counselling has happened and adoption papers are signed? You get your face splashed all over the media and then when they catch up with you it will be arrest and prosecutio…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 02:45 PM
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He had been told she had conceived. He was told while she was still pregnant. And then he wandered off. What does he think happens when someone has conceived? Usually they produce a baby. As I said there are three ways of dealing with conception that are approved of by society. Abortion. He could have tried harder to support that as an option, offered not just some money for an abortion but emotional support to do so and a pep talk about how she's too young with too much potential to become a mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 02:31 PM
2

Sure. If I was $20 thou a year better off I'd get my teeth done and consider a little bit of filler under my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 01:08 PM
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There are only three ways of dealing with conception that are approved by society. Abortion (not approved of by everyone but in general a workable thing) adoption (which is a formal process approved by a court) or taking on the responsibilities of parent. He has not successfully done any of these in response to the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 01:06 PM
7

Sex work is viable for men if they do what female sex workers do... fuck men they are not attracted to at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 07:01 AM
1

So let's say in that theoretical period of time while you are together but you're cheating and intending on ending it in a big dramatic hurtful flourish, a friend issues an invitation to both of you to go to an event they've got happening... some sort of big party in a few months time... an engagement, a wedding, a graduation party, something big and expensive and important and that is meant to be a whole lot of fun and celebration. I mean you're holding yourself out to be part a couple, these s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 06:58 AM
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It is really something one can only afford to do at the very very top of society where you have the money to pay or the very very bottom where someone else pays or where not paying is seen as the norm . At the very top of society the other fathers fail to be impressed by your actions and do not want their daughters allied with you and so it pretty much precludes you a dynastic sort of power marriage and also a lot of what one might call "normal society"... you will not be trusted and you will no…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 05:43 AM
2

Eh. if you are disposable now you likely would have been disposable back then... but also be less likely to live to enjoy a long and comfortable life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 07:13 PM
1

When men are getting sex the resulting feeling that everything is OK is not something they actually choose to feel, it is largely unconsciously formed and they are diligent in preferring what that feeling tells them to difficult feelings another human being is trying to convey to them by words. They may hear your words, but they know what they feel. Don't fuck a guy you don't want to fuck, he'll only think he's doing right if you do. When you do fuck, for very similar reasons do not fake orgasm.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 06:46 PM
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If I use sex to show my man that everything is OK in our relationship and my life, then I'm never going to get what I need. He will ignore everything I say to him and pay attention to what he feels my actions are showing him. Better he have a wank and a grumble, at least then we're on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 01:08 PM
1

Men want to be sexually desired in the same way those hookup or ONS flings were when you were promiscuous exploring sexually, before you settled down for marriage. They don’t want to been seen as the comfortable option that you were WILLING to sleep with. What people want doesn't count for shit a lot of the time and that is exactly the way things should be . I want to be able to afford not to drive a secondhand car. Guess what? Nobody else gives a shit nor should they. If I showed up in a motori…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:25 AM
1

In general no-one has a problem with the fact that some people will choose to not have LTRs or not to have committed LTRs for whatever reason. Don't want a particular sort of relationship... well then just say no to that sort of relationship, the freedom for people to do this is something we've been fighting hard to get for centuries. You might find the occasional person who gets upset because they want you in particular but I'm sure you'll cope, young attractive women cope with being the target…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 04:30 PM
1

I would advise her to stay the sort of person that could get on just fine without him. Be nice, be patient be kind... and have it be entirely possible she could be gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 02:37 AM
3

A lot of the advice is particularly bad advice for guys in small towns, and will lead to a counterproductive reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 04:25 PM
1

I would never part with my eggs (or embryos, those get donated now too) unless it was to someone who I thought had been fairly adequately screened for having a clean criminal record and moral values somewhat similar to mine. Even if I had eggs or embryos in storage and retrieval was not an issue, I would rather they be thawed than raised by someone I found objectionable and unsuitable as a parent. I guess though if someone suitable was found I'd accept whatever my costs were in producing and har…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 02:01 AM
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Because men don't care so much if they have sex with a new partner who doesn't like them or is not liked all that much by them... that it is a new partner ( +1 to the n count) is often enough. Simple as that. Women are more inclined to reject a guy who isn't all that thrilled to be there with them or they aren't all that thrilled to be with even if in general they are looking for no-strings one off sex. Women want a man who very much wants to be there with them, a man takes what he can get and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 07:33 AM
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"Relationship" covers too much ground here and I get the feeling that if I say yes it will be taken to mean I have agreed that certain things happened in my life that really really did not. I mean duh, who hasn't in high school been sort of convinced via fantasies that maybe the guy they sit behind in History class is the guy they will spend forever with, stopped looking at other guys at all, started a pursuit of sorts putting out indicators of interest, and yet had the common sense to know that…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 04:11 AM
1

I don't get it, there's tonnes of guys get loud and salty about women saying either that they don't want short dudes or will only take tall dudes... and you're probably one of those guys who gets loud and salty and you almost certainly hang out places where there are other guys like that so you couldn't possibly claim that such men don't exist. So how is that different to women getting pissy about men who say "no overweight women" or "height/weight proportionate only"? There's demonstrably no do…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 12:58 PM
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Horrible inauthentic people tend to be on their best behavior until they get what they want, and what you see of someone may not be what the next person is seeing of them because of this. They also put a lot of effort into cultivating easy surface level tricks of attraction... flirting, hair, clothes etc. Horrible inauthentic people learn how to lie and present well because they'd get nothing otherwise and it is easier than becoming a better person and well they are horrible so they've got no in…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 12:25 AM
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I can't tell you when it is always OK because there can always be a complication in an otherwise OK situation that makes it not OK. Approaching at a bar known for pickups, OK right? But maybe not when she is the extremely sober and very obvious designated driver for a hen's night group and is wearing a wedding ring, taking an ibuprofen and has that grim "I'd rather be home with my kids" and "everybody here is pathetic including you" look on her face. Don't approach her man, don't approach her. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 03:02 PM
1

Just wrap the sub up in newspaper and put it in the bathroom bin, it will clog the plumbing otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 11:43 PM
3

I've had good period sex before but it is a time when good sex is less likely to happen. Cramps and mess and stuff. I'm not sure "are you comfortable having" is the form of question that will generate answers that best reflect reality. I mean are you comfortable eating on a sandy beach? The answer is signifcantly less comfortable but that don't mean you'll never have an incredible beach picnic. Fucking weirdo. You don't ignore friends and if I'm a FWB you can be damn sure I want the F bit as wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 11:41 PM
1

Nope, dude, as soon as a kid starts getting socially isolated, sports are one of the things any school based in western culture will push heavily. I've seen it happen over the past decade and a half or so in which my kids have been at school. This is one of the handful of reasons why schools bother doing extracurricular sports even in circumstances where it is clear that the school is never going to get glory and fame that way... you have your sports programs and then you can refer kids into the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 11:25 PM
4

You're confusing a man being high value to a woman as a long term relationship and to society in general with him being high value to himself and the sort of man you in particular wish to be. The Rules is good advice. Sure it has to be tailored to the era, to the local environment, but in general it is good advice to be a creature like no other and give him a bit but keep him wanting more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 02:47 PM
2

" So how do women go about getting commitment from a man how who has no reason to commit? " https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Rules
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 01:08 PM
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A lot of it is mainstream. You just weren't willing to listen until it was all slopped up with resentment, hatred and revenge fantasy that placed your ego injury at the centre of the universe. "Get out and go do something outside." the wisdom of your mamma circa your 8th birthday. "That boy should play a sport, so he can make friends and gain confidence. The wisdom of your class teacher circa seventh grade after you'd been punched by the school bully. Well why don't you just ask her?" wisdom of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 04:56 AM
1

If you, who obviously care deeply about goings on in that subreddit aren't willing to be a dissenting voice in the echo-chamber it then why should anyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 04:48 AM
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The bottom 80% have to deal with husbands who say "yes dear" but don't mean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 01:44 AM
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" So while everyone coddles the girl and tells her to run while insulting the guy for being no good, nobody is insulting the woman when the genders are reversed." Well why not you, why don't you do it? You're someone aren't you? Why didn't you speak up for what you believe? Or do you somehow believe that "everyone" is some monumental "other" and not comprised of diverse people that include you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 01:42 AM
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Sigh. Women almost always want men who make their lives better, who bring something to the table. Good women are also willing to work out how to bring something of worth to the table. What do you have to offer? You're obviously not offering the having and raising of a family, you've committed yourself to two things (retire early, carer for parents) that get well in the way of the expenditure of money and time needed for that. You're not offering a comfortable lifestyle where some woman can move …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 07:40 AM
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And he was complicit in what his sister did, enabled and protected that behavior from parental intervention, right up to the point where his sister was going to get some resources for that could otherwise go towards his parents' general prosperity and therefore be divided between the kids upon their demise. Without his silence her behavior would have been caught and dealt with early enough to not be entrenched. Also note, her behavior clearly started while she was still a minor and he was a lega…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 02:21 AM
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So it was OK him getting his education paid for while concealing his sister's behavior... something that I can 100% assure you a traditional Indian couple would have wanted him to divulge immediately so it could be dealt with... but not OK her getting her education paid for while concealing her behavior. I think the parents should stop paying for anything for him and ask him to pay back what he's had while lying about his sister, and from now on all money that would go to them gets saved for tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 12:25 AM
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"I want to know I brought beautiful children into the world that will go on to share my sense of enthusiasm and dedication to making the world a better place." Quit that, just quit that. That's how narcissists think about their kids and it leads to huge misery. Maybe your kids will favor being laid back about everything. Maybe they'll be free spirits. Maybe they won't give a shit about the world and want to become the most ruthless investment bankers the world has ever known. Your child's life h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 03:58 AM
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If neither of you have proposed marriage and been accepted with a time frame of pretty damn soon, or any other form of commitment equally awkward to back out of (have a kid, get a mortgage together, start a full-time business) it is still a placeholder relationship. Simple as that. That's the reality. If you'd wanted to take a shit and not just sit on the pot you'd have done it already. The immature and dishonest thing is to assume that a relationship you are in that contains no significant real…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 04:19 AM
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He's 21, still a baby. Guys that age are kind of fetus like. His social circles and networks haven't become structured as much as they will in a decade or two, and not a lot is riding on them for him and for his family. With age and time come jobs, marriages, babies, mortgages, assets, etc both for him and for the rest of his family and the rest of his friends. Of course he doesn't see the problems in continuing to have such a relentless cheater as a best friend and being in the habit of enablin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 11:33 PM
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I regard it as my job to raise children who as adults are capable of formulating and enforcing their own limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 08:53 PM
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Once I would have said it was shitty but then I recently asked myself the question well what do you expect up until the point where someone has given you contact details and recieved details in return that involve where people live or where they work? Until then ghosting is a real option that they (and possibly you too!) have deliberately preserved and you bear some responsibility for coming to terms with the fact that the relationship never was all that it just felt for a short time like it mig…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 08:00 PM
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There's a drive in humans... it is the drive that gets us clustering round the anonymous body found on the beach... the drive is to identify who it is (one of our tribe? one of the neighboring tribe?) and what happened to them. Women tend quite strongly to this drive. Especially women who like solving puzzles. A murder is a social/psychological puzzle with physical and social clues. Men tend more to the flip side of the drive... the drive for retribution once the tribe thinks the puzzle is solve…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 12:17 AM
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I think you will find that there are very few people who say that it is always wrong to have a level of concern for n-count, although those few are very vocal indeed. What you will find is a great many people (me included) who think that virginity fetishes disguised as concern for n-count are something a man will need to get the fuck over if he wants to live a happy life in modern western society. He's probably not going to get a virgin and if he does she's going to be much younger and grow out …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 02:20 AM
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They are twins who love and respect each other and they tell each other everything. Zero chance of that sort of arrangement happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 03:33 PM
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A lot of guys exaggerate the difficult of sewing on a button. It ain't that hard, you can learn. I will show you precisely once, and if your attention wanders during the demonstration I will put the task down unfinished and walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 08:58 PM
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Most women with the capacity to have empathy also know better than to express that empathy. Common sense says doing so does not lead anywhere good. I mean seriously I and all the other women reading this are sitting here on our juicy pussies not using said juicy pussies to fuck incels... why would telling an incel that we feel for his plight lead to anything other than first unwarranted hope then incandescent rage? Why do those guys feel the need to seek expressions of empathy from women anyway?…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:04 PM
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Those and the mid forties male ham-slobs with bad photos where they wear poorly fitted t-shirts and squint into sunlight are and will continue to carefully ignore each other. Probably for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 04:40 AM
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Too much incel in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 07:57 PM
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We've got lives to live and things to do. The hunt for cock gets given as much time and attention as we feel it needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 04:18 PM
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Have deleted it instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 04:41 AM
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"Oh hey, if I target women with bad taste in men I'll get more women because those women tend to move from relationship to relationship more often." A year later... "I hate women because it is easier than hating what I have turned myself into."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 05:18 PM
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There's something a little... well not exactly odd but maybe worth paying attention to... about how he has done a bit of direct work with children's charities (not a huge amount of work... I don't think he's a Jimmy Saville) but has not elected to have kids. I mean not saying that having kids is compulsory or anything, but most childfree people tend to be childfree either because they detest kids or because they think kids will lower their material quality of life... he obviously doesn't detest …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 08:00 AM
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Why not bring back marriage 1.0? 'Cos it sucked. Due to pressure against co-habitation (necessary if people were to fully embrace marriage or celibacy as their only option) people found it easier to pretend to be what they were not before getting married, and then who "won" all the battles after they were married came down to who-ever was most ruthless and willing to inflict pain on their spouse. It systematically privileged liars, cheats, manipulators and brutalisers. Children were not better o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 06:33 AM
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Can you imagine the economic impact of 1.5% of kids having Down's? Never will be that many actually born so long as scans and blood tests like the tripple test for soft signs of genetic disorders, amniocentesis/possibly more advanced blood test for confirmation of what is happening with the genes and abortion to deal with the matter are available.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 05:31 AM
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"Attractive" is more than just whether a guy is well-formed. For example a guy who has a lisp, spits as he speaks, and becomes far too clingy far too soon is unattractive as hell even if he looks lovely in photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 05:27 AM
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There's no point in an individual woman ever paying any attention to what an individual man says to her about her pickiness. Most men will think a woman is too picky if she isn't down to fuck him... and most of the men in a woman's life she isn't going to fuck if she's got an ordinary set of sexual appetites as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 09:52 AM
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Yellow flag, it means look closer to work out the reasons for it and then judge the reasons on their merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 07:14 AM
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Yes we do get smelly under our boobs if we aren't careful about it. After a day's wearing if you smell it closely a bra worn by a well endowed woman has a slight smell peculiar to the bit that goes under the boobs, after a week it is an obvious aroma and if she'd not taking care of herself and wears that bra longer it can become quite funky like homeless person funky. This happens even if she showers every day. Luckily boob smell is easier to deal with than buttcrack, thigh crease or fupa smell …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 04:57 AM
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I'm in my forties and have kids who are just becoming adult.. I have a different perspective... several different perspectives because age and experience does that to you. You becoming a legal adult does not end your parents' obligations to you. It gives them a situation where if they so choose they can legally bow out of fulfilling their obligations, and you a situation where you are expected to attempt to look after yourself. However attempting to bow out of fulfilling obligations when the kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 04:50 AM
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There's plenty of people in the world working jobs but not living comfortably.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 09:10 AM
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Most guys don't exercise worth a damn. Unless he exercises enough to build muscle, a guy that height and weight is going to be visibly fat once his clothes are off. Muffin tops, a bit of pooch. His face will be less masculine too than if he weighed less or had more muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:47 AM
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Fat folds smell, and women have a better sense of smell than men... women aren't gonna be so keen on close proximity to fat guys even if there was a thriving fat guy acceptance movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:35 AM
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Margaret Sanger started with pretty much nothing but too many siblings and not enough resources. https://www.plannedparenthood.org/files/7513/9611/6635/Margaret_Sanger_Hero_1009.pdf Now I'm not saying you have to be Margaret Sanger. But if she can go from being laughed at as a child for her poverty to being the driving force that made The Pill happen, you can surely do something towards making a male Pill happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 04:00 AM
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After I turned 18 he called out of nowhere and asked Mom to formally forgive his backdebt so he could get a job again. How was his backdebt stopping him getting a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 03:26 AM
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Well if you put him out by the side of the road no-one else is going to take him, so there tends to be an uproar from the locals (who don't want the desk themselves but really think that desk needs to be somewhere) when you do that. And just dragging him out there is a difficult matter, almost like he's trying to break you for attempting such a thing. In the end sometimes you even need to enlist help just to get that dumb desk far far away from you. Moral of the story, if you see a big, clunky, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 03:22 AM
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Nah the average guy is more like an ugly desk that is really big and heavy but just not designed to gracefully accommodate a desktop computer. You end up committed to him and decorating around him because he was basically going for free, but he's not going to give all that much in return and when you decide "Screw this, it looks like ass and it is not functional" he's going to be very hard to get rid of.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 10:12 AM
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That lever exists, and it's called cash. This. Prior to Brexit it was very easy to go to a country with completely legal and regulated prostitution and pay some cash for sex. Not sure myself how much more difficult it is now but I suspect there's just a little bit more paperwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:13 PM
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Advice? Yeah it sucks, it is clingy and entitled, just like average schmuck's behave towards average women at around age 18 to 25. If the average waitress in her early twenties can cope with this from guys who are a foot taller and twice as strong as her and probably have more money to back themselves up if it comes to court I'm sure Mr Late-Thirties-Doctor can find a way to cope with it from white-collar working women in their 30s. I'll give you the same advice I give young women, familiarise y…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 06:27 AM
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And the statement is used to say that women aren't required to disclose the method in which they choose whom to have sex with nor are women required to disclose the price of sex and if women do disclose the price women are allowed are alter the terms of the price at any point at a later date. Which is totally sensible. Reasons for embracing or refusing sex (especially sex with a stranger) are sometimes intensely personal and involve aspects of one's sexual history that it is quite reasonable not…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 01:48 AM
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Just about all education that is applied systematically, be it by state or by parent, is forced. If you want the little darlings to grow up to be able read, write, make correct change and have half a chance in hell of not voting for fools when given a choice not to, some degree of coercion will be involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 12:32 AM
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