YouTube_says Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
26	[FR] "We're not gonna sleep together tonight". Makeout and #-close. (help needed)	Field Report	YouTube_says	/r/seduction	09/02/14 05:01 PM
7	[FR] Back in the game after exams. In need of some discipline!	Field Report	YouTube_says	/r/seduction	06/06/13 02:35 AM
4	Need help with kino during first date		YouTube_says	/r/seduction	06/08/14 08:35 PM
2	[FR] Alright Seddit, it's been a while. Mildly successful night, but in need of some perspective. Almost became "the guy to avoid".	Field Report	YouTube_says	/r/seduction	09/10/13 12:27 AM
1	[FR] First time out clubbing alone. Surprisingly great results! (long, w/highlights)	Field Report	YouTube_says	/r/seduction	27/01/14 03:25 AM
1	My greatest weakness when flirting with strangers: the eye roll. How do I deal with this?		YouTube_says	/r/seduction	16/01/14 04:26 AM
1	[UPDATE] on LMR-girl. Today I got double-LMR:ed (actual help needed)		YouTube_says	/r/seduction	11/02/14 10:34 PM
0	[FR] First date after OkCupid. Bonded really well.	Field Report	YouTube_says	/r/seduction	21/11/13 01:13 AM
0	What would you say is the defining difference between the two guys' actions in these scenarios:		YouTube_says	/r/seduction	17/01/14 02:36 AM

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1	Need help with kino during first date that idea has definitely crossed my mind, and if it's true, I don't blame her. I basically wasn't having fun, instead I was focused on why I haven't kissed her yet. But I'm pretty good at reading people, and to be honest, since the start, she was barely trying to be intimate/seductive. It was just me making all the effort. Going back to last weekend when I approached her after a night out, I touched her a lot, and even tried to kiss her, but her excuse back then was that she was too shocked and …	/r/seduction	06/08/14 10:22 PM
1	Need help with kino during first date good advice, thanks. I think my problem is that I can't set the mood back to match the first time we met, so I turn cold and try to redeem myself with short spurts of kino, but fail.	/r/seduction	06/08/14 09:52 PM
0	Need help with kino during first date bitch please, you've misunderstood a lot. Let me break it down for you. I never said I asked if I could kiss her. I told her, and then I went for it, but she turned away, maybe because she's already seeing someone... Window shopping is a great way to change venues and have stuff to talk about. She never told me about the other guy, so I had no reason to resist kino. She gave me her number and agreed to a date. That's usually indicates her interest in me.	/r/seduction	06/08/14 09:40 PM
1	[FR] Edgy girl from class. Same day f-close ...and when I'm not tired, I occasional jerk off prior to flirting. That way sex isn't on my mind when I'm kissing her.	/r/seduction	19/02/14 04:41 PM
1	[FR] "We're not gonna sleep together tonight". Makeout and #-close. (help needed) Check out the update! :)	/r/seduction	11/02/14 10:37 PM
1	[FR] "We're not gonna sleep together tonight". Makeout and #-close. (help needed) Check out the update! :)	/r/seduction	11/02/14 10:37 PM
1	[FR] "We're not gonna sleep together tonight". Makeout and #-close. (help needed) This has worked in the past for me. Take it with a grain of salt though. That much begging in front of a girl is never attractive. If you want to take her home, you need to break it up into planned steps. E.g. "hey let's take a walk", then walk past a burger joint "let's get some food" (create comfort, spike attraction, make her feel good). Now, mention your dog and how awesome he is, or how you're a coffee enthusiast and grind your own beans for the perfect taste, or how your rich friend came o…	/r/seduction	10/02/14 01:10 PM
3	[FR] "We're not gonna sleep together tonight". Makeout and #-close. (help needed) Very solid advice! I too am willing to bet there are personal reasons behind the LMR. I'd like to call her soon, but I'm really busy catching up with work as I'm travelling abroad for 4 days next week. Though I do have to meet her before I leave to prevent the energy from dying.	/r/seduction	09/02/14 07:16 PM
8	How to tell if she's giving you "the look"? This is the best answer. You really have to condition yourself towards it. It helps a lot if you start "the look" first. Look at her and think "I want to fuck you". My best explanation is that their eyes seem to be smiling at me. Sometimes it's dead obvious. She gazes deep into my eyes and then glances at my lips.	/r/seduction	09/02/14 04:31 PM
1	OK so girls grind on me a lot, we dance, have fun, but I have never pulled this way. How do you guys take things further? Great post. Left me with a lot to consider, thanks! I've never ever asked a girl in a club if she's free the next day. Mostly because they sound like total screening/interview questions. Do you straight up ask her, as if planning a date? I'm thinking it'll be hard to isolate without kissing her first (if you've met on the dancefloor). So maybe a quick kiss to establish interest and then drag her to a more secluded area.	/r/seduction	27/01/14 11:22 AM
0	OK so girls grind on me a lot, we dance, have fun, but I have never pulled this way. How do you guys take things further? this happened to me this weekend (check out the FR)! As soon as I make out with her it turns into a game of "do I keep doing what I want and likely lose her in the crowd, or follow her desperately until we decide to leave" She's definitely not gonna leave her friends, so what do you suggest I improve if i'm aiming for the f-close same night.	/r/seduction	27/01/14 03:27 AM
1	What would you say is the defining difference between the two guys' actions in these scenarios: It's a serious question. What's wrong with hypothetical scenarios? You see them presented in pickup books all the time. Truth is I don't know the answer, hence asking :)	/r/seduction	17/01/14 08:48 AM
1	[FR] Back in the game after exams. In need of some discipline! My approach comes off as an immediate friendzone as oppose to a potential hookup. I'd say I need to practice on immediately coming off as flirtatious.	/r/seduction	07/06/13 10:31 PM