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Wouldn't this mean marrying a virgin would be good if planning a long-lasting and happy marriage? Why is this so (these charts)? Why does marriages with female virgins last longer? And why are they happier?
/r/MGTOW01/06/17 06:12 PM
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Okay I understand
/r/MGTOW27/05/17 07:17 PM
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A question: Why do people stay together even if the woman doesn't love him/is annoyed by him/his weaknesses/etc.?
/r/MGTOW27/05/17 06:59 PM
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Ah I understand So a man will built this kind of bond with her (becoming "friends", accepting her strengths and weaknesses, blabla) and will stay with her because he chooses her over other female friends because he can have sex with her. A women, because Brifault's Law, will never orientate themselves on sex but on opportunities and they will see that they are "better" males than you and thus she wouldn't be willing to accept your weaknesses for example and thus this kind of "friendship" with yo…
/r/MGTOW27/05/17 03:56 PM
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True but the same can be said about woman who only choose you over her male friends because you fuck her But nevertheless she will start to "love" you, so you will. And you can't deny that. It's not infatuation anymore, but she will value you as a "best friend to have sex with". She will value your character, and so you will (of course if everything will go well theoretically). She will "love" you as a person, just like you her...
/r/MGTOW27/05/17 03:43 PM
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So tell me with rational arguments why this shouldn't be true? I mean a couple has experienced so much during infatuation. After infatuation you obviously see how the person really is, with all her strengths and weaknesses. And why shouldn't you (and the person - here a woman - you) love her for as a person, like a friend? So if everything goes well you'll end up having a deep friendship with sex
/r/MGTOW27/05/17 03:30 PM
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The argument is that it should not be a "super-form" of infatuation, its about the relationship getting deeper because you start to love someone "as a person" (or you start disliking this person because of his character). It's like loving your mother or sister with the exception of being it also a sexual relationship. This is what I've read numerous times (so I can't give you sources, i am also from Germany and i read this is German...). I was never in a relationship and I don't know if this is …
/r/MGTOW27/05/17 03:20 PM
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Aright but I don't mean the bond during infatuation, i mean the bond after infatuation. Because I heard that after infatuation you actually truly start to "love" someone, because it is not an infatuation anymore but a "true and strong bond which was created during that time", this is what I mean.
/r/MGTOW27/05/17 03:11 PM
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But there has to be some kind of bond between man and woman in this case. They experienced so much together and thus it is very strange that there would be no bond all after that. I understand what you say but we can't deny a bond, can we?
/r/MGTOW27/05/17 03:01 PM
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The trick is to stay fluctuating between the first 3 stages. That is what people mean when they say marriage takes work But in reality this hardly works?
/r/MGTOW27/05/17 02:49 PM
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So you mean that this bond/stage after infatuation will fade sooner or later and both male and female will be frustrated with each other?
/r/MGTOW27/05/17 02:48 PM
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But nevertheless you created a bond with that person (and that person with you), I mean you spend so many time with her and she with you and so many experiences you had, some kind of bond must exist on both sides, doesn't it?
/r/MGTOW27/05/17 02:47 PM
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Ah i understand
/r/MGTOW22/05/17 10:58 PM
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And what about boosting my Testosterone in general? Following this logic it would also decrease my oxytocine levels and thus making me less romantic in general, without and with a girlfriend. Or does this craving romantic involves other chemicals instead of oxytocine?
/r/MGTOW22/05/17 10:52 PM
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Okay that's true on the other hand
/r/MGTOW22/05/17 02:44 PM
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It's called oxytocin, and it's a hormone which women feel but men not so much because testosterone counteracts it I mean this part. This literally means more Testosterone = more contradiction/counteracting to oxytocin = less romantical feelings? Maybe I've expressed myself wrong
/r/MGTOW22/05/17 02:43 PM
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But let's say she manipulates you subconsciously. So consciously she "loves" you, so what is the point now? I mean we men also consciously "love" women but in fact we only love her looks (that's why we normally don't like fat women as (sexual) partners). I guess we are all fucked up. But nevertheless escorts with girlfriend experience would be more fake than a woman subconsciously manipulating you BUT consciously "loving" you (so it isn't acted like in an escort)?
/r/MGTOW22/05/17 02:29 PM
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But what if women actually just want intimacy and to cuddle? Why should all women make a big conspiracy out of it? Why should ALL women manipulate them consciously/willingly? Don't worry I am still a mgtow this is just advocatus diaboli speaking
/r/MGTOW22/05/17 02:05 PM
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The irony is I got through it, two times, in fact it was only infatuation which was rejected (so yeah I got dumped). But nevertheless I feel this crave, despite that I got OCD/depression/paranoia and partly suicidal thoughts because of it. You see how irrational and stupid it sounds? But the emotional world of one individual doesn't necessarily has to be rational though...
/r/MGTOW22/05/17 02:04 PM
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I had a thought which apparently can be used as an argument against mgtow (don't get me wrong I only play Advocatus Diaboli here I am still a MGTOW). Women don't fall in love with the person of who you are, but what they can benefit from you (Briffaults Law). But kind of the same for men: I don't fall in love only because she "has a great character/personality", I fall in love because of her looks. But: After man und woman are together for some time, like 1/2 years, the infatuation will dissolve…
/r/MGTOW22/05/17 02:01 PM
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I see it like you, man But how to find the "passion"? Just trying and eventually finding?
/r/MGTOW22/05/17 01:59 PM
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Yes it's the oxytocin! So regarding your answer more testosterone is the solution to crave romanticism less, right?
/r/MGTOW22/05/17 01:58 PM
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I had a thought which apparently can be used as an argument against mgtow (don't get me wrong I only play Advocatus Diaboli here I am still a MGTOW). Women don't fall in love with the person of who you are, but what they can benefit from you (Briffaults Law). But kind of the same for men: I don't fall in love only because she "has a great character/personality", I fall in love because of her looks. But: After man und woman are together for some time, like 1/2 years, the infatuation will dissolve…
/r/MGTOW22/05/17 01:56 PM
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I already jerk off like a Maniac haha but I don't mean Romantic love in a sexual way but simply in a romantic way. Like you and your partner cuddle with each other in bed and just spending time and "loving" each other. If I will go to escorts which have the girlfriend-experience its like I know that this is fake and thus I won't enjoy it, so making anything in this direction is pointless for me
/r/MGTOW22/05/17 01:08 PM
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I guess I have no other choice
/r/MGTOW21/05/17 02:41 PM
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No, they'd blame me for being "dumb", ignorant and egoistic. You don't know a polish family, if I would show them these stats they won't believe me or they would say that "I have to be sure about my partner". So nope, this is a very bad way.
/r/MGTOW20/05/17 07:16 PM
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Haha świetny pomysł
/r/MGTOW20/05/17 12:12 PM
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Przy takiej reakcji to moja rodzina na pewno pomyśli sobie że jestem gejem. Masz rację będę dalej mówił że przez szkołe/studia nie mam dużo czasu na takie pierdololo i tyle
/r/MGTOW20/05/17 11:38 AM
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Też jest opcja jednak już to mówię cały czas...
/r/MGTOW20/05/17 11:29 AM
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Oni nie są źli na mnie, żeby to nie tak zrozumieć. Jest jeszcze jeden gość w rodzinie ma 28 lat i jego zawsze zachęcają do związków i dziewczyn, ale oni go mimo tego dalej lubią i kochają. Chcę tylko żeby to ude mnie przestało, na przykład byliśmy na uroczystościach wybuchu drugiej wojny światowej i oczywiście byli dziewczyni harcerowe jake nosili chorągwie. Moja babka tylko mnie pyta: "Jaka z nich jest dla ciebie ładna?". No kurwa przecież to jest chuja takie gadki
/r/MGTOW20/05/17 10:58 AM
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But i already used it (when I was 15)! And I don't want to become a priest!
/r/MGTOW20/05/17 10:19 AM
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You obviously don't know what a polish family is like
/r/MGTOW20/05/17 10:18 AM
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When I tell this they would hate me for this, because I am an "Egoist"
/r/MGTOW20/05/17 09:57 AM
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This is also good, but they wouldn't understand it because they're too much into this romanticism
/r/MGTOW20/05/17 09:52 AM
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I guess I tell them this, "Sorry but time has changed, we are more in favor of self-improvement/studying/etc"
/r/MGTOW20/05/17 09:50 AM
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You are 19 years old. Why on earth are they pressuring you already? You live in the Mid-west or something? No but I am from Poland and there, especially the older generation, is completely blue-pill and they expect you to get a girlfriend as soon as possible. I remember that it all started as I was 13, because this was the age my cousin got (his current!, he's 20 now) girlfriend. This is a complete different world, my dad understands me why I don't want to get married, he even warned me from mar…
/r/MGTOW20/05/17 09:49 AM
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I understand it, but good luck in trying to hold this 7-Day-Cycle. Look up for "Chaser Effect" for more information
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 01:17 PM
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This sounds too much of a conspiracy - maybe on a subconscious level, but definitely not conscious, she doesn't even know me
/r/MGTOW26/02/17 07:34 PM
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I tried to convince him, miserably.
/r/MGTOW26/02/17 05:26 PM
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Yeah the part is that his gf looks literally like a slightly overweighted guy. Her hair is short, so is makes her look even worse. I highly assume she's a feminist because obviously she doesn't care about looks.
/r/MGTOW26/02/17 02:31 PM
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yes, this is what we are, machines to make money, with no right to have feelings So true, sadly. I am really sorry for your loss, my heart is in pain reading his story
/r/MGTOW26/02/17 01:19 PM
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I am in school yet. There is a possibility to send roses which are given to the person on Valentine's Day. What I did is I sent a rose to my (male) classmate to make a fool out of him. I am looking forward seeing his surprised face and seeing him asking around every girl haha he's so super blue pill 😂 This is how I am spending Valentine's Day
/r/MGTOW12/02/17 10:04 AM
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As i told my dad that why I don't want to marry (literally "I don't want to make the same mistake as you did") he just said "I understand you, my son" (not in a ironic manner). Instead of my dad, my grandmother wants me to have a gf. Every fucking time I meet her she's like "Cut your hair short (I have long hairs) no girl will be interested in you" or "with these new glasses girls are gonna throw at you". It's sick, i fucking hate it.
/r/MGTOW03/02/17 05:30 PM
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Yes this is exactly what I mean haha
/r/MGTOW02/02/17 07:19 PM
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No, they behave like a "good girl" /childish girl to their friends especially male friends
/r/MGTOW02/02/17 07:18 PM
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It's not about self-control here, it's about that they try to behave like a "good girl" and this is fucking childish
/r/MGTOW02/02/17 03:28 PM
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For me MGTOW is freedom. Period.
/r/MGTOW27/01/17 06:22 PM
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All men are pussy worshipping manginas that throw all friendship and values overboard for pussy. Ist echt so leider :( I am from Germany as well and I can confirm this guy. My best friend of 4 years has "suddenly" no time for me because he got a girlfriend. Whenever I try to make something out with him he's like "I am at my girlfriend's during weekend". Great men are dying
/r/MGTOW21/01/17 09:49 PM
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Here's a short list of what you'll encounter over there: Sad circle jerks of social justice blue pillers using their own tears for lubrication. Feminists. Evangelists. Socially awkward, self-loathing fapstronauts engaging in female pedestalization. When someone mentions their "strange porn fetishes" you should know going in that what they consider "strange" and what you consider "strange" are going to vary widely. This is so true omg. I do NoFap as well but I left the community because this was …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 12:15 PM
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Yeah, that's cool haha In 2017 I am gonna learn playing guitar, I am not in favour of taking too many goals at one time
/r/MGTOW01/01/17 07:19 PM
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To be honest: Nothing, besides becoming a MGTOW
/r/MGTOW01/01/17 07:15 PM
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In their appearance, they often look quite boyish Yeah I know this too well, I am 19 years old but everyone gives me max 15 years
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 11:06 AM
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Freedom > "Love"
/r/MGTOW26/12/16 10:16 PM
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Mit 14 biste viel zu jung bruder, dass du denkst dass du bereit bist sind nur deine Hormone. Genieß deine Kindheit noch, warte ab
/r/MGTOW26/12/16 10:09 PM
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She is intelligent - She knows how the market works, there is a demand for men who want a NAWALT, so they get a "NAWALT"
/r/MGTOW20/12/16 07:40 PM
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😂😂👍
/r/MGTOW18/12/16 09:38 PM
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Man I have sleep apnea too :/
/r/MGTOW17/12/16 10:44 PM
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Same thought
/r/MGTOW15/12/16 05:12 PM
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I wouldn't call it "Nationalism" because men are certainly not a nation/ethnicy. Men and women are the two varieties of humans. But I feel you bro: It's the MGTOW "ideology" (I don't want to call it an ideology but I honestly don't know any other better word for it) which holds us together. There isn't a "Death-Metal-Nationalism" e.g., you see the point? But I know what you mean. What a men is, is currently defined by the standards they got to hold up. Standards which are ridiculous and don't sh…
/r/MGTOW12/12/16 06:36 PM
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Bro, I am 18 and a MGTOW, it's not specifically about age it's more if you agree with the reality of women and if you are not lying to yourself (maybe you are like "I am a MGTOW fuck women" but secretly are using MGTOW as a ventile for being a frustrated single)
/r/MGTOW04/12/16 10:21 PM
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I overcome it by loving freedom instead: Free, wide land outside the plantation
/r/MGTOW02/12/16 07:25 PM
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I can be my true self which I used to be before I felt in love with 15: spontaneous, happy, funny, relaxed
/r/MGTOW23/11/16 02:12 PM
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It might be easy if you've never actually had pussy before or any form of other relationship with women. Because of this, I am thankful to god every second of my life that I never had any relationships, let alone sex. I am a 19-year old unkissed virgin haha, and I am planning to stay so. I can imagine, that if I'd experienced something like that, my mind would've been too manipulated to even (fully) accept MGTOW. MGTOW reality is causing me pain. Actual physical heart ache. It's like Sandman fro…
/r/MGTOW22/11/16 08:33 PM
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It's occured to me just watching from the sideline, that mgtow spends alot of time whining and hating about/on women, instead of actually discussing how we can improve our lives in the absence of women Exactly! We left the plantation behind, why should we then still complain about the plantation instead of building up a new life in the outback/outside the plantation? We attach ourselves to this general philophosophy for a reason, most of us have faced some really hard times and alot of suffering…
/r/MGTOW21/11/16 11:04 PM
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However online is a totally different story. You would do better then me merely for passing that silly standard Exactly, online women have more choices/can be more picky, so obviously they pick guys over 6'.
/r/MGTOW20/11/16 10:57 PM
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They'll tell you want you want to hear. THIS!
/r/MGTOW19/11/16 11:23 PM
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Gamer girl are gamers because they want to impress other men to exploit them (in more economical words: there is a market for men loving gamer girls, thus there are females who use this for their own advantage in being a gamer girl)
/r/MGTOW19/11/16 05:19 PM
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I was in love two times, one time I suppressed my feelings for her so I got depression and OCD, and then I got lied by another girl (Quote: "I already got a boyfriend. Lol"), which has made my OCD much worse. This high of being in love is too much for my hormonal system, every time I got OCD, depression and shit (as far as my research is right it's because of low serotonin levels then). And so, biochemically, I am kinda forced to be a MGTOW. But without my hormonal imbalance, I would guess that …
/r/MGTOW14/11/16 08:15 AM
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Kinda classical music, more opera
/r/MGTOW13/11/16 10:49 PM
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Listen guy: I was in the exact same position as you, I also got in love with girls who seemed to be oneitis. One girl I actually never asked out, I tried to suppress my feelings for her. Even if some MGTOWers would say I am wrong, I give you this piece of advice: Don't suppress your feelings for her! Not because you should approach her and stuff, hell NO! It's because suppressing your/this feelings will give you 100% depression and stuff, this is what you definetily don't want. Instead of suppre…
/r/MGTOW07/11/16 11:42 AM
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Lengyel, Magyar - két jó barát Együtt harcol s issza borát I think it explains very well from which country I come 😂
/r/MGTOW01/11/16 11:29 PM
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Men are more risky than women, so they rather decide to jump down the bridge than a women would do
/r/MGTOW30/10/16 09:24 AM
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I am glad someone posts here about NoFap. It's right, that a large amount of people in r/nofap do it only for being a chick-magnet. Of course, if you are a MGTOW, your reasons to NoFap should be other reasons than getting women, like increased energy or acne-loss (as for me). Of course, if you went for like idk 100 days, and if you're not in a flatline, you are possibly getting irritated mentally, possibly thinking irrationally like "Yeah, maybe MGTOW is wrong, so I can chase women", because you…
/r/MGTOW23/10/16 09:34 AM
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Yes, definitely. Thanks God this time is over
/r/MGTOW15/10/16 06:51 PM
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MGTOW was my salvation. Before discovering MGTOW, I was a pathetic guy whining about not having a girlfriend and that shit. Of course, I could've done my research on dating and stuff, but MGTOW came as the first suddenly, I don't even tried to search such stuff (if love is real). And now, with the truth on my side, I can confidently tell you that I like to see MGTOW as my emancipation of the craving for having a relationship. Now, I think that fucking this shit as a whole is much better than try…
/r/MGTOW04/10/16 03:23 PM
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I am an Incel and, as stupid as it might sound, I am proud of it. I am proud of my advantage for natural ghosting, for not letting women even get interested in me. I don't have to deal with them, because they don't want to deal with me. I am free of them. I am an Incel MGTOW: I know, that I am an absolute 3/10 for women. MGTOW was my salvation: When reaching rock bottom, I discovered MGTOW and it enlightened me: I don't have to "suffer" anymore the pain of "being alone", I can leave the plantage…
/r/MGTOW28/09/16 06:56 PM
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Listen, I am an Incel myself, I don't want to describe why but believe me: Girls don't want me, unless I got a bunch of money haha. This is a bliss if you are a MGTOW, because no girl will fight for you. I also believe that MGTOW would be the salvation for Incels, because they are mainly complaining all the time about how envy they are about others being in a relationship. Actually, MGTOW is my salvation, just because of MGTOW, I am able to forget this cunt which rejected me and gave me a deep h…
/r/MGTOW25/09/16 04:37 PM
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Somehow, Briffault's Law has to function, not depending if she really understands redpill and stuff. Women (evolutionary/biologically) have to love what a man can offer to her, not the man himself! AWALT
/r/MGTOW25/09/16 09:56 AM
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You get it wrong, dude. Women love bad boys because they subconsciously know that bad boys would defend her and their children better than nice guys (because they are more aggressive).
/r/MGTOW23/09/16 07:36 PM
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Better being a free "loser" than an enslaved "winner"
/r/MGTOW21/09/16 03:52 PM
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Amen!
/r/MGTOW17/09/16 07:47 PM
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The main idea behind this was one article, I've read (I don't know where), that men and women can't be "friends" because, on both sides, they always will subconsciously try to mate. And with all that MGTOW knowledge, there may be a point in not being friends with women. It's just a theory, I just want your opinion
/r/MGTOW17/09/16 02:06 PM
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I am catholic and I think MGTOW is absolutely compatible with my faith. Look up at Matt 19:12 Some are incapable of marriage because they were born so; some, because they were made so by others; some, because they have renounced marriage* for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Whoever can accept this ought to accept it.” Those who are incapable of marriage are (amongst other) MGTOW, the people who took the red pill and have understood MGTOW. MGTOW are incable of marriage because they know the tr…
/r/MGTOW14/09/16 01:09 PM
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No, I would like, he'll be smart enough to check it, but I am afraid that the situation will be extremely stressed and confused at home (he already got stress with my mum and mgtow would be the best thing for him now), and that everything will worsen.
/r/MGTOW13/09/16 07:24 PM
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Dude, I got also paranoid about this topic. What if a prostitute films the whole thing and then she extorts me with this? Or what if a prostitute got STD?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 10:27 AM
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In which situation would you rather be: Being 46 (I assume you are young), fat and facebook-stalking her or driving your Harley down Nevada's desert and actually enjoying life by doing things which would be impossible if you'd got a gf?
/r/MGTOW12/09/16 10:04 AM
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Reminds me of Beavis and Butthead "Pornography" as the teaching of porn
/r/MGTOW11/09/16 09:45 PM
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They are several types of women, depending on the circumstances. But all women have one thing common: Briffault's Law, either consciously (e.g. bitches) or subconsciously (e.g. SJW)
/r/MGTOW11/09/16 05:23 PM
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I know, but living without it is being dead. This is exactly the same thing a heroin-addict would say about living without heroin. Dude, it's just withdrawal, just as I said, learn to love freedom, you'll see it's much better than some chicks.
/r/MGTOW10/09/16 07:56 PM
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Being MGTOW is great and it is logic and absolutely a great protection from not being hurt. But . . . . living a life without being in love is like living a life being a zombie empty. I know this feeling, believe me. But listen: "Love" is just a drug. Period. What you are experiencing now is the withdrawal. When I got the bug I started to fell alive again but I just didn't want to accept it and it was not the time and place for that. So I stick to my goals and abandoned her. Now that I have reac…
/r/MGTOW10/09/16 06:49 PM
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