My dillema

FraterGGNM · 2016-09-10T19:53:59+00:00

That "being alive" feeling you get from "love" is a bunch of reward chemicals driving you into mating behavior. Do what you will with that information.

Saintmyname · 2016-09-10T19:04:38+00:00

Love doesn't exist. It was invented to sell goods and lies. What you consider love is a momentary infatuation and like happiness or any other emotion, it fades.

byers18901 · 2016-09-10T19:01:49+00:00

Get a dog. It will love you unconditionally. Unlike any female companion you will ever have.

Obviously if you feel like rolling the dice knock yourself out. Just be careful.

And it sounds like you need to read The Manipulated Man. I believe it is in the sidebar here. If you don't see it hit up /theredpill.

Out of curiosity what was the longest relationship you had?

Talkytalktalk · 2016-09-10T20:06:00+00:00

Yeah. Being nagged is awesome.

Zawiar · 2016-09-10T18:49:40+00:00

Being MGTOW is great and it is logic and absolutely a great protection from not being hurt. But . . . . living a life without being in love is like living a life being a zombie empty.

I know this feeling, believe me. But listen: "Love" is just a drug. Period. What you are experiencing now is the withdrawal.

When I got the bug I started to fell alive again but I just didn't want to accept it and it was not the time and place for that. So I stick to my goals and abandoned her. Now that I have reached my goals I realized that it didn't matter, it was pointless. I miss a chance to be alive. That is a lot more important that other stupid goals. Now I enjoy a wonderful life being dead inside even if I have money and stuff.

I give you another goal to achieve: Learn how to love freedom. If you master this, you will be extremely happy with your life, believe me. This was the path I've chosen one year ago as I was in the exact same situation, and it helped me.

nigelh · 2016-09-10T21:29:16+00:00

If you want unconditional love get a dog.

Dokushindansei · 2016-09-10T21:12:55+00:00

I Feel love is more than just what you feel for a woman. Love to me is the feeling that you are blessed. Blessed with the opportunity to have an extremely special moment that may never happen again.

Love is also a one-way Street. You can feel love, but it doesn't ensure love. And I don't think love only happens when a woman's in the picture.

I'm finding that I currently love myself. I love the situation I'm in, the people around me, the opportunities I've been given, and my desire to keep going forward with them. Not every day is perfect, but I love that it's not all the same either.

I don't feel dead inside. I feel happy to be alive.

blue_magoo_62 · 2016-09-11T01:20:32+00:00

you're born alone and you die alone and even when you're around someone you're still alone. don't be afraid of it.

Massgumption · 2016-09-11T07:03:21+00:00

Find something creative to pour your soul into, this is a far greater rush than love, also cultivate your friendships and you'll know what real love really is, I.e to genuinely care (and be cherished) by people who have no ulterior motive such as physical attraction/utility. As people have said before, love is indeed a chemical reaction..

...failing that give mushrooms a go one day with someone you absolutely trust, this will give you that hippy bullshit feeling that will blow love out off the water and put things in perspective!

Title	My dillema
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	6
Comments	20
Date	September 10, 2016 6:28 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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