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| 12 | Response for when a girl says "Tell me a secret."Make her work for your secrets. I.E. make it a game for her. Be mysterious and make her feel like you dont tell many people your secrets. | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 11:10 PM |
| 1 | I want to share a story that disturbed me from tonights events.A lot of people bad mouth pick up. It makes sense that the idea of pick up would have a negative connotation from people who don't understand this community. I don't even think of it as pick up artistry. I think of this community as a group of men who want to better themselves, and one of the aspects we want to better ourselves in is our ability to socialize. Not everyone is great at socializing, so like any skill we have to practice and learn its nuances to be better. I don't see any shame at w… | /r/seduction | 27/02/15 02:23 AM |
| 2 | 5 natural, playful openers for guys who hate canned linesGreat post, thanks! | /r/seduction | 24/02/15 11:59 PM |
| 3 | Fun conversation points, games etc. you use when getting drinks with a new girl?I see your point. However, just make sure you avoid sensitive topics, or delve into them slowly. As for her making mean assumptions about you, you should be comfortable enough with yourself to deal with/ deflect the topic. | /r/seduction | 24/02/15 11:50 PM |
| 6 | Fun conversation points, games etc. you use when getting drinks with a new girl?I'm not sure if you have one but in my city we have a barcade (arcade/bar) and some of my best dates have been there. You can sit, talk, and drink for awhile. Then if the conversation starts to die you can play arcade games (Area 51, Need for Speed, air hockey etc), girls always have a blast and there are plenty of chances for bets and Kino. Every date I've had there has resulted in the girl coming home with me | /r/seduction | 24/02/15 05:07 PM |
| 75 | Fun conversation points, games etc. you use when getting drinks with a new girl?Tyrions (not sure if that's how you spell his name)drinking game. Basically, you take turns making assumptions about one another, if you're right the other person drinks and you guess again, if you're wrong you drink and pass turn. Fun game. Conversation topics, usually family, occupation, aspirations, if you can reminisce with her about good memories that usually builds a pretty good emotional bond. Another game (usually I don't play this one unless the conversation dies down because the girl i… | /r/seduction | 24/02/15 04:52 PM |
| 2 | I've helped 1000s of men with their dating lives... So I created a Udemy course called Dating, Relationship and Conversation Skills For Manly Men and I’ve decided to give it away for FREE to the Seddit communityThis looks great! Thanks a lot, can't wait to get started. | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Making out tips?There are a lot of different ways to go about this. So, if you're making out with a girl, generally your hands will be moving up and around her back or side, just general petting. You can slowly move your hands down her back and grab her ass a bit. Then try moving your hands up along her side and feel her up through her shirt a bit. Eventually you can go down and up underneath the shirt. After feeling her up underneath her shirt, move your hand around to her back and un do her bra. And you can f… | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Sent to Me by Girlfriend...Solid list of Questions to Establish Rapport/ Connection/ WhateverYou only really need to pick a few, then you can build conversation off of her answer. Also sometimes random isn't all that bad | /r/seduction | 13/01/15 11:52 PM |
| 2 | How to make her WANT you.Great post, thanks | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 06:32 PM |
| 9 | Continuing a drunk conversation.Ask her to come watch a movie or something and make moves | /r/seduction | 02/01/15 12:29 AM |
| 1 | I'm sick of dumb girls.Yes! | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 07:46 PM |
| 3 | How do I keep her interested? Kind of a [FR] as well, need advice.Hey, you're cute, I'd love to get to know you. Let's go (insert activity: ice skating, ice cream, think of something fun and try to think of something not cliche) | /r/seduction | 23/12/14 09:07 PM |
| 4 | Socially awkward.. Not good with first impressions. Would any indian or any girl be still interested in me?Get something going on | /r/seduction | 22/12/14 04:43 PM |
| 11 | This sub places a lot of emphasis on building yourself for the sake of being a better you. What skills would you recommend someone just starting to refine themselves take up?Workout, eat healthy, meditate, read, get outdoors often, learn to cook. In General strive to be a better man. Ultimately, you should figure out what makes a better man and strive for it every day. Do what makes you happy, this will make you more confident. | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 08:02 PM |
| 3 | How do i get him to take charge?I agree with /u/ilovedasimps. It's pretty selfish to expect him to wait for you all that time. If I were him and a committed relationship is what I wanted I would distance myself from you too. I think he is taking charge by distancing himself. He wanted one thing and that may have changed now, you can't blame him for that and you can't force him or expect him to be with you. | /r/seduction | 20/12/14 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Tried calling. She didn't pick up. Her voicemail is full. What do?Haha glad I could help, good luck! | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 05:47 PM |
| 4 | Tried calling. She didn't pick up. Her voicemail is full. What do?Text her? | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 05:42 PM |
| 0 | What should I say in my "About Me" on Tinder?Search tinder in the reddit sidebar and look at posts in seduction or askseddit. Honestly I just made a tinder and that's where I got an idea... | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 12:12 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You at UO? | /r/seduction | 14/12/14 06:57 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]UO? | /r/seduction | 14/12/14 05:28 AM |
| 1 | How to hook up with your hook ups hotter friendsI don't think you will lose your chance with all of them. Just don't be an asshole. Be mature, tell the girl your intentions (not looking for anything serious, just having fun, etc) and move on. | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Living with dad for a semester... Seems to be a huge turnoff and I lack logistics. What do I do?Make your dad your one of your best friends | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Fifth date--need help escalating physical contactPut your hand out and say "Can you hold this for me?" as if you have something in your hand that you want her to hold. | /r/seduction | 31/10/14 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Girl walks up to me while leaving and tells me "I think you dropped something," it's her number.Haha that's not too cheesy. I like that one | /r/seduction | 31/10/14 05:58 AM |
| 5 | Friendzoned after sex?Next and move on man. Don't waste your time. If you keep going for it she will either string you along or push you away. You could ask her to wing man for you though and see how she responds. | /r/seduction | 31/10/14 05:56 AM |
| 2 | Hi, this my first post on seddit.Read Models by Mark Manson | /r/seduction | 31/10/14 05:53 AM |
| 1 | How? Step-By-Step: Texting Rules and GuidelinesHonestly, I just skimmed this and most of the suggestions/examples seem needy to me. | /r/seduction | 31/10/14 03:26 AM |
| 2 | What are some date ideas?Barcades are really fun if you have one in your city | /r/seduction | 25/10/14 12:13 AM |
| 41 | Date brings friend along with her, has this happened to anyone else?Agreed, OP is getting played. Be assertive or forget about her. Too flakey and too many games. Waste of time. | /r/seduction | 04/10/14 12:33 AM |
| 4 | What does it mean when the girl tells you to stop looking at her 'that' way?Definitely had this happen to me. I had met this girl, we went out, she told me she liked me but things are too complicated right now. Fast forward to a week later, we're at this block party, being flirty all night, guiding her around by her hand or my hand on her back. towards the end of the night We're hugging but looking at eachother, she's telling me things are too complicated right now, but I'm just looking at her. She says "Stop looking at me like that" and gets red in the face/ shy. I did… | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Logistics of the F-close in college?Unless your roommate is a douche he'll be fine with leaving for an hour or so. And when he does, you take that girl and fuck her right in the pussy. | /r/seduction | 16/07/14 04:36 PM |
| 21 | Make seduction a hobby, not a job.Having this attitude will not only help you be happier but it will make you more successful | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 11:59 PM |
| 0 | My solution to approach anxiety. Real stuff here.Haha! | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 04:04 PM |
| 3 | I need your help, I've just realized that I fear a "yes" more then a "no".Honestly, man, the sooner you can start conquering your fears, the sooner you can start to truly live. Good luck out there | /r/seduction | 13/07/14 08:19 PM |
| 5 | I need your help, I've just realized that I fear a "yes" more then a "no".I used to fear a yes as well. At first I was the most unconfident person you could meet, then it turned into simply I didn't want to have to deal with the stress of going on a date or entertaining. Because, honestly, when you first start it can be scary, stressful, and draining trying to remember all that you have learned, trying to thinknof when to escalate and use kino, etc. But seriously, just do it. The fear will go away sooner than you think, you just have to get out of your comfort zone. J… | /r/seduction | 13/07/14 03:45 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate and beyond #close during daygame?No problem, one of my biggest problems is over thinking what to say... unless I'm giving someone else advice haha | /r/seduction | 12/07/14 05:25 PM |
| 1 | This sentence has helped me so much. Maybe it will help you as well.Great post, thanks op | /r/seduction | 12/07/14 04:44 PM |
| 6 | How to escalate and beyond #close during daygame?Ask one of them to show you around when they're off work or ask them "where's your favorite place to get a drink?", "cool, I'll see you there tonight at 7" or whatever. Smile and be seductive. If she's interested she'll likely say yes or give you a better time. Say it seductively so they understand your intentions. If they say yes give them a meet up time and location. Meet up, hang out for a bit, escalate, grab a brew, fuck. | /r/seduction | 12/07/14 03:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Barcades are an incredible first date venueIt definitely caught me off guard. But the guy lives in another state so I figure I'll just have fun with her and see what happens. | /r/seduction | 08/07/14 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Setting up a hangout with girls that you barely talked to that night"Hey, this is X from X, lets grab coffee on X at X" | /r/seduction | 06/07/14 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Having trouble getting laid? Get different friends.What if I'm having trouble finding friends? | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Saying "I'm excited to see you""I hope you're ready for some delicious burgers and (some comment about the movie you're seeing)" | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Saying "I'm excited to see you"Something like "I hope you're ready for X ;)" | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Saying "I'm excited to see you"What are you guys planning on doing? | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Saying "I'm excited to see you"You can usually come up with something better if your sole purpose of texting her is to remind/confirm plans | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 01:23 AM |
| 2 | [FR]: Never go out with a dead phoneIts always hard for me to remember its sometimes not always me haha. I'll just have to wait to see if she texts me. Thanks for the reply! | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 08:52 PM |
| 2 | [FR]: Never go out with a dead phoneThanks man, solid advice. I like the texting myself idea. | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 06:57 PM |
| 1 | [FR]: Never go out with a dead phoneHey thanks man, I really appreciate it. Solid advice, I'll definitely work on it and thanks again for taking the time to respond! | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 05:23 PM |
| 1 | [FR]: Never go out with a dead phoneAlso, do you have any pointers on establishing a comfort point or what it kind of looks like once you reach it? | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 04:37 PM |
| 1 | [FR]: Never go out with a dead phoneAwesome response, thanks for the advice. I definitely felt like we had gotten comfortable towards the end when we were singing and slow dancing. I also had cleary stated to her that i wanted to take her out on a later date, maybe it didnt click? Still new at all this and I appreciate any advice. | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 04:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR]: Never go out with a dead phoneThanks, I definitely should have closed the number the old fashioned way. Everything was going very well. Towards the end she seemed really tired/out of it, as was I. By this time she had been initiating kisses. Hard to say why she's bailed. Maybe she didnt see me on her way out? I had moved. Earlier in the night I had walked off and she had come to find me and asked why I left so its hard to say. Girls are weird. | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 04:18 PM |
| 1 | I remember approach anxiety...barely. And 9 years later...Exactly. I'm terrible at being able to tell when its time to call it quits. More often than not I get incredibly mixed signals and its hard to judge what to believe. | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 05:33 PM |
| 2 | I remember approach anxiety...barely. And 9 years later...Thanks for the encouragement, man. Sometimes the trying gets tiring... | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 04:48 PM |
| 1 | PUA: Mom Edition [NSFW]Yea its about a dude banging his mom | /r/seduction | 03/06/14 06:16 PM |
| 1 | PUA: Mom Edition [NSFW]Why the hell did you link to r/incest? | /r/seduction | 03/06/14 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Tinder and texting bail?Girls are weird. Move on | /r/seduction | 03/06/14 04:47 PM |
| 8 | [FR] "Well, isn't that a cute dress?" Day game approach, instant date, k-close.Definitely a clear forward move. Its seems like you'd have to be pretty precise with timing with something like that. Like you mentioned, it could be construed as offensive. I guess it depends as well on if you're looking for a fuck or a date, as it could act as a sort of screening process. Good job on the close, man and thanks for the FR! | /r/seduction | 25/05/14 03:25 PM |
| 18 | [FR] "Well, isn't that a cute dress?" Day game approach, instant date, k-close.How did she respond to your comment about the dress looking better on the floor? | /r/seduction | 25/05/14 03:13 PM |
| 1 | My experience approaching a true 10Good luck out there, ass_fungus | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 02:36 PM |
| 5 | My experience approaching a true 10Now I cant sleep, you fuck | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 01:23 PM |
| 1 | "I don't want to start anything because you're leaving soon" A barrier we've all faced. What's your way of going about it?I like yours | /r/seduction | 05/03/14 06:26 PM |
| 30 | "I don't want to start anything because you're leaving soon" A barrier we've all faced. What's your way of going about it?"Lets have as much fun as we can before then".Something along those lines. | /r/seduction | 03/03/14 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Principles to Live ByIncredible post, thank you! | /r/seduction | 20/02/14 03:51 PM |
| 10 | Why holding your frame is so very important.You are a good man, ARealSocialIdiot. Thanks for the post. | /r/seduction | 18/02/14 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Practice in the work placeI like this, thanks! | /r/seduction | 17/02/14 09:10 PM |
| 5 | Observations from week 0 of being single after an LTRGreat post | /r/seduction | 16/02/14 07:50 PM |
| 4 | How to have endless, interesting conversationI think (hope) he's joking. | /r/seduction | 13/02/14 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Use this text right now.And you better have some damn good answers yourself | /r/seduction | 28/12/13 02:57 PM |
| 0 | First message to a girl I met recentlyYou might as well add her. Why not? If it comes up how you found her just say she was a suggested friend in your area or you happened to be searching for a girl with her same first name. I mean two months is a stretch but whatever, might as well give it a shot but don't invest much in the beginning. First just message her and don't really directly apologize but offer to make it up to her by buying her a drink. " hey I know it took me awhile to get back to you, I could make it up to you by buying… | /r/seduction | 18/12/13 05:10 PM |
| 4 | Girls that fail to mention they have a boyfriendDo not wait around. Don't just stick to one girl right away. Keep your options open and don't put her on a pedestal. Stay friends with her though | /r/seduction | 08/11/13 06:31 PM |
| 4 | Girls that fail to mention they have a boyfriendI had something similar happen to me. This girl agreed to a date with me, gave me her number, and then told me she had a boyfriend. Wtf. | /r/seduction | 08/11/13 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Palm ReadingShe was out with you 2. The palm-reading trick is a way to escalate. If she's already interested in you it will give you a chance to hold her hand and flirt. If you just walk up to a girl and do this it seems really cheesy. | /r/seduction | 05/11/13 07:19 PM |
| 60 | I just cut myself off from reading all "pickup" related material and did the 100 set challenge in one month. OMFG'Progress is progress' is the way I see it. | /r/seduction | 03/11/13 11:14 PM |
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