| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 10 | I thought I was getting "ok" at this | Inner Game | Zepp_BR | /r/seduction | 08/03/26 11:46 PM |
| 5 | It's such a silly question | Inner Game | Zepp_BR | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 02:55 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Direct or non directI'm sorry, but what's an indirect approach? | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Why are dominate alpha male traits like possession frowned upon by women but by not caring it is not?What the fuck | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 09:56 PM |
| 1 | 43M – Married but feeling confused, misunderstood and unfulfilled, looking for chatI only assume consent in all parts involved | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 12:16 AM |
| 10 | 43M – Married but feeling confused, misunderstood and unfulfilled, looking for chatGo talk to your wife, cheater Fix the part of your relationship where you're responsible | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Tips for success at Zumba classesAlso, Zumba is cool | /r/seduction | 23/05/26 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Just A Reminder…..Why so angry? | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you think a relationship can be the same after a threesomeI'm too much of a noob to answer that | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 02:47 PM |
| 3 | The Only Way To Know If A Woman Really Likes You…..That makes sense, yeah. And it's not even just about women. It can be easily said about everyone | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Anybody here that started approaching in their 30s?By putting your "dad energy" on your approach you're attracting women who don't want kids? lol, awesome | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Anybody here that started approaching in their 30s?That's super important, man | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 06:05 PM |
| 0 | Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way?In MY experience: My father was murdered when I was 10 Then my stepfather was sent to prison when I was 12. When I was 14 I found a quirky girl who liked me. We ended up together. She had BPD, something I've never heard about it. After nearly 17 years of relationship, I left: Cheated on, taking SSRI and anxiety pills, victim of a abusive relationship. Now, I kind of lost all those "formative" years I needed to talk to women. | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Does joining pilates classes to make female friends or eventually dating/hookup ever work?Sad, but true lmao | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 09:27 PM |
| 9 | Unwanted WingmanI'm not sure if that's a wingman | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 08:25 PM |
| 472 | Does joining pilates classes to make female friends or eventually dating/hookup ever work?Brother, I'm going to be honest with you. Last time I took Pilates classes I was in so much pain that I forgot women existed. The only time I remembered them was when I was suffering more than they were. | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 06:25 PM |
| 3 | I approached and talked with a girl for the first time.hence my comment above | /r/seduction | 07/05/26 06:56 PM |
| 20 | I approached and talked with a girl for the first time.FUCK YEAH, BRO Also, people are usually as ugly as they think themselves to be. | /r/seduction | 07/05/26 06:51 PM |
| 3 | She acts like we’re dating in class… then dissappears. Am I reading this wrong?She's using you to massage her ego. I've been in that situation before. Do you want to know what happened? She made out with someone else in front of me and then said "We tried to be careful you didn't see". So, you're just getting played. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 06:54 PM |
| 7 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?Are we talking about dices or granades? Why do I need to run?? | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 01:31 AM |
| 1 | It's such a silly questionMystery method? Alright! Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 05:35 PM |
| 6 | I realized I notice something very specific about guys…OP is IA porn slop It literally posted on AI subs | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 12:35 AM |
| -1 | why do men hate it when u play their gamesWhich ones? | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 08:47 PM |
| 23 | Is pipe-smoking a turnoff?"M'lady, would you enjoy a puff of my pipe?" | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 08:37 PM |
| 4 | Is pipe-smoking a turnoff?I mean, for some people, yeah. For others, maybe not. And I don't wanna judge, so, yeah, some people like, others not. I would never be friends whose hobby is smoke and feel proud of looking like an old train pumping smoke, but that's just me. | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Filtering for cool tall/thick womenBut there is. Women's basketball, according to the TV lmao | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 01:27 PM |
| 7 | Is it possible to talk things out?Op, what did you do? | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to talk things out?Makes me think there's a tiny bit more guilt involved and he doesn't want to say it | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Do women find it attractive when men wear thongs or men’s lace panties?There are probably some who do it, but I guess it's a minority or extremely contextualized, like in a fetish scenario | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 08:37 AM |
| -4 | Unsuccessful Attempt at Attracting Women at Night ClubNo, but you gotta be sigma. You gotta make her buy you a drink instead. Or even better, neg her until she buys a drink to a stranger, makes out with him in front you and you can call yourself a leader | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 08:08 AM |
| 9 | How do you handle ambiguous answers to a date invite?In sales we learn "only a hard no means no". I mean, that saying could lead to a LOT of trouble in the dating world, but not really in asking someone on a date. Maybe she does need to confirm something will happen, maybe she needs to talk to her girls to evaluate you, maybe she asked her main FWB and she's awaiting for his response. The truth is: it doesn't matter. What it matters is: you ask again. A little different this time. "So, did you get the confirmation?" There's a line between take act… | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 08:07 PM |
| 5 | Dm meWow I feel seduced lmao. Reported. | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 07:04 PM |
| 5 | What are some good book recommendations on approaching?No one learns how to ride a bike by reading a book | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 01:34 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else only struggles against girls they really like?I do. Ugh | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 06:33 PM |
| 18 | Girlfriend did not like one of the gifts I got her for bday and she asked if she hurt my feelingsWhat the fuck is this | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Miami weekend: lots of social motion, very little real escalationHey, did you get your money back? I'm gonna read your book (post) tomorrow, sorry I didn't give you a thorough comment | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Common dating advice does nothing for the average guy actually strugglingHey bro, happy cake day :) And good, honest advice. | /r/seduction | 18/03/26 08:19 PM |
| 7 | Time wastersAgree. There are women who are just using you to feel better about themselves. In time: I was chatting with a girl just like this for over a year. All the flirting, all the phone calls. We ended up travelling on a weekend to a nearby city. She ended up making out with someone else in front of me. I don't talk to her anymore. | /r/seduction | 18/03/26 05:12 PM |
| 1 | What to say when things are going well?Lmao | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 01:37 AM |
| -7 | Everyone says join a club. I did. Here's what actually happenedThat's a gross simplification and you should know that. Read the topic, bro. Just.. read the topic. I won't argue anymore. | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 09:37 PM |
| -5 | Everyone says join a club. I did. Here's what actually happenedOP thought he was following a playbook to drown in pussy when in reality he was following a playbook to actually be a human. That's all what happened. His goals, mind space and behavior were all in the wrong place. | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 07:31 PM |
| 6 | Everyone says join a club. I did. Here's what actually happenedYeah, I'm glad you guys noticed that. OP was definitely the creepy one. And he wasn't even ashamed of it. | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 05:53 PM |
| 4 | To the women of this subWrong. We all know there are no women on the internet | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 06:25 PM |
| 3 | I thought I was getting "ok" at thisDamn that's poetic. Thanks, man! | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 10:17 AM |
| 34 | Miami exposed how bad validation seeking really is.Could be worse. Could be 6k haha | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 02:29 AM |
| 115 | Miami exposed how bad validation seeking really is.You're the guy that spent like 6k in a strip club from 2 days ago, aren't you? I'm glad you're getting a lot of thought about your whole process, man | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 02:25 AM |
| 1 | I thought I was getting "ok" at thishonestly the biggest trap is when a few bad experiences make u start overanalyzing every interaction. And that's exacly what's been happening in the last weeks. it sucks a lot | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 07:29 PM |
| 1 | I thought I was getting "ok" at thisWhy? | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 02:31 PM |
| 1 | I thought I was getting "ok" at thisBeautiful words, man. Thank you so much for them. | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 11:53 AM |
| 1 | I thought I was getting "ok" at thisThe predictable outcome of this is that you need to tie your ID and self esteem outside of women as well. That's absolutely true, man. Most of my therapy sessions are actually about that. | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 11:53 AM |
| 2 | I thought I was getting "ok" at thisThe pattern is basically that situationships or fwb’s are seasonal. It could be coincidence but I’m not too sure. This fwb said the same thing last year. Said she really preferred having sex in spring and autumn, where it's not too cold or not too hot. Maybe there's truth in that. | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 11:47 AM |
| 1 | I thought I was getting "ok" at thisThanks, brother! take up mindfulness and positive affirmations to change that loser mindset. I do need that. My mind can be my worst enemy sometimes. | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 11:46 AM |
| 2 | I thought I was getting "ok" at thisYou were outcome independent and you had options and they could feel it. That vibe is literally the most attractive thing a guy can have and you had it naturally because you were new to it and maybe didn't care too much about it. The moment you start showing neediness is when attraction/tension starts bleeding fast. Absolutely, man. It's like a switch and the guy who had three women wasn't chasing and wasn't overthinking every text, wasn't second guessing himself. Yep. I was feeling free. Even i… | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 11:43 AM |
| 7 | How do I ask a guy I went out with a few times a couple months ago if he wants to hook up?Thank you, swarley | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 08:43 PM |
| 13 | How do I ask a guy I went out with a few times a couple months ago if he wants to hook up?It's just a joke man, don't worry | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 08:27 PM |
| 1 | What’s a high body count?If you want to have sex and meet pure women, I'd like to introduce you the idea of having sex with other men. Differently from gay people, it will be your choice, of course. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 07:16 PM |
| 2 | What’s a high body count?(sexual partners, not corpses). that's an extremely important difference. Also, I'm glad you came out from the hole that OP fell deeper. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 07:14 PM |
| 4 | What’s a high body count?You're the one who wants to fuck women and yet belittle them for fucking men. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 06:23 PM |
| 5 | What’s a high body count?THE HOLE IS GETTING YOU, BRO. DON'T! look at me! Don't! | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 06:22 PM |
| 49 | What’s a high body count?Brother, don't go down that hole. DO NOT GO DOWN THAT HOLE. It'll only bring you pain and misery. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 05:56 PM |
| 89 | How do I ask a guy I went out with a few times a couple months ago if he wants to hook up?i PRAY TO GOD A WOMAN INVITES ME TO DO SOMETHING - ANYTHING. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 05:34 PM |
| 2 | What are you guys doing to address your insecurities?I'm trying. It's hard :( | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 02:29 PM |
| 4 | What are you guys doing to address your insecurities?English is not my first language and this is a vocabulary I'm not used to writing/speaking, so bear with me. Acts of self love, acts of being comfortable with my own presence, mindfulness breathing for my anxiety, mindfulness writing to deal with emotions, imposing limits to others, strangely "do to myself what I do to others", and the general spend less time in the cellphone, read more, go out more, specially alone | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 01:57 PM |
| 7 | What are you guys doing to address your insecurities?Therapy and trying to do what my therapist asks of me, mostly | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 01:49 PM |
| 25 | Women become assholes when I pursue their friend after they rejected meOh, I'm glad you said it. OP sounded a lot like a douche lmao | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 10:58 PM |
| 3 | 2 Questions: Do you think the girl I'm (not) dating is a hoe and how do I progress this relationship to where she wants to have sex with me?Jesus Christ some of these comments. OP, cut your losses and forget about this girl. Or better yet, give yourself some respect and forget about this girl. You have already tried to be honest with her and say you want sex, but she doesn't. She won't change her mind anytime soon, so, cut your losses and just leave. You don't even have to say anything to her if you don't want to | /r/seduction | 22/02/26 12:06 AM |
| 19 | Is spawn camping unethical?What the fuck | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Train your pickup musclesIt's kind of easy to start small. A "good morning", "nice tattoo", "oh wow, where'd you get that hat?" goes a long way | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 03:11 PM |
| 48 | Just watched my natural friend open a set (a girl and her boyfriend) and it was beautiful.I think op has the tism | /r/seduction | 01/11/25 09:15 AM |
| 8 | 20 truths about seducing women that transform ordinary men into magnetic menMambo. Or, #5 is for the VIPs only | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 12:23 PM |
| 29 | Shes hot but she’s a sexually repressed virginWhat the fuck is this comment section | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 01:49 PM |
| 1 | I just cold approached at a bar and the rejection stung more than the appsJesus, it started well and then... Wow | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 12:18 PM |
| 14 | How do you guys handle girls fishing for drinks?That's some HR training ahit | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 09:24 PM |
| 3 | I've used AI to help me with cold approaching. Is it ethical?It's an ad | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 06:46 PM |
| 5 | Why will women suddenly turn their backs on you?Go to a dentist, brother. Please | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 09:19 PM |
| 2 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?Jfk, lol | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 05:42 PM |
| 1 | 6 Signs Signs Someone is in Love with YouSix things you'll read about but not experience it Nice, thanks! | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 07:00 PM |
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