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It's such a silly question

Zepp_BR · 2026-05-01T02:55:44+00:00

But how do you actually go out to bars or whatever asking as a 39+ man and engage into conversations with people who all have their friends with them?...

Zepp_BR

May 1, 2026

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Title	It's such a silly question
Author	Zepp_BR
Upvotes	3
Comments	2
Date	May 1, 2026 2:55 AM UTC (3 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1t0h5oi/its_such_a_silly_question/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/its-such-a-silly-question.1579313 https://theredarchive.com/post/1579313

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[–]epimpstyle 1 point2 points3 points 3 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Sometimes, you’ll notice one woman in a friend group who’s more talkative and expressive, with open body language... it’s a clear sign she has a higher energy level. That type of person is approachable, and the easiest move (if you’re holding a drink) is to catch her eye and tilt your glass for a "cheers". If the group has low energy, I prefer not to bother... unless there's eye contact, though that rarely happens. More often than not, I see 1-2 women peel off from the main group to buy something, go to the restroom, or head outside... that’s the green light for me. Mystery Method is specifically designed for cold approaching in bars and other indoor venues. It's not about trying your luck and see what happens like a high or horny teenager, it's about using subtle nuances that help you not look like a weirdo even if things don't go according to plan.

[–]Zepp_BR[S] 0 points1 point2 points 3 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link