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Learn to meditate. Practice it, internalize it, live it. Seriously. I am, like you, hardwired to overthink every possible little thing in every interaction. The practice of being present will change your life. After a couple months of practice you will learn to "shut" your brain off and just enjoy what comes your way. The only thing you should be thinking is, "this night already so epic, what can I do to make it even more epic?" With this mindset, you will conquer, with or without friends. Godsp…
/r/seduction21/08/15 03:02 PM
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You're going to find that sleeping with "very hot" women is virtually unfulfilling. Sure, you're going to feel great and if it's the first hot girl you have you're going to feel validated but once you cum, her external beauty is going to diminish in your eyes -unless you like her for more than her physical appearance. This goes back to the principle that we don't do pickup for the validation, we do it for self improvement. Thus, your goal shouldn't be the hot girl. Your goal should be to become …
/r/seduction17/08/15 01:00 PM
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The opposite is true for me. I was never a huge weed smoker and I keep it on the down low usually. However, recently I've been getting into it a lot. Using it as conversation starters, talking about my experiences, etc. Female potheads are some if the chillest women around and I love spending time with them. I've gotten laid several times off of upping my weed consumption to 1 or twice a week, and I love it. I think the takeaway here is not to let any one thing dominate your life. You don't want…
/r/seduction15/07/15 06:00 PM
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You're fairly new to this so allow me to give you some token advice, friend. Whenever you are doing something (and this applies to life just as much as seduction), ask yourself if everyone else is doing the same thing. "If you find yourself on the side of the majority, it's time pause and reflect" -Mark Twain. Every chodey loser in the world does a movie date. It's cliche, it's boring, and it lacks intimacy. Seduction is, in a nutshell, being the kind of man that stands out from the crowd.
/r/seduction10/07/15 12:56 PM
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You are adorable, and your comment is adorable. You should feel adorable.
/r/seduction07/07/15 08:58 PM
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This shit should be stickied and placed on the sidebar. Excellent work, good sir. None of these concepts are anything new in the seduction community, but not enough people believe and internalize them. The people that are truly good at this, think the way you do. You're well on your way, friend. Good job.
/r/seduction01/07/15 01:57 AM
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This. I cannot emphasize enough how important "Models" is for developing inner game. This book will help you immensely.
/r/seduction25/05/15 05:31 PM
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No such thing as too much too soon my friend. You have grazed the surface of what is possible. You always keep your options open, and always approach even when you don't feel like it. Get into the abundance mentality and that will seep into your sets, making you even better. Awesome FR man, keep it up!!
/r/seduction25/05/15 05:11 PM
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Never. You never implement canned material. Recited openers, witty one-liners, a phrase or a sentence that you learned off the internet, the use of these things stem from a place of insecurity. It instills that you do not have the natural ability to talk to women unless you recite something you read in a player's blog post. Go out there, approach, approach, approach, and find your own personal style. Develop your mindset, and make your words/style entirely your own.
/r/seduction19/05/15 06:14 PM
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I'm proceeding under the assumption that you just want to hookup with this girl and don't see her as a potential girlfriend. The fact that the two of you seemed like a couple each night means that she sees you as boyfriend material. This is bad. You don't want to be the cute little puppy boyfriend she rolls out to her friends and gives mediocre sex to when she's in the mood. You want to be the goddamn irresistible Ryan Gosling motherfucker that takes her home and fucks her brains out until she c…
/r/seduction19/05/15 06:05 PM
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You're not going to be amazing right off the bat. The biggest tip I can give you is change your mindset when you go to the party. This that you're doing now, has to stop. Quit over thinking, quit over analyzing, and stop using words like "beta" and "alpha" and trying to qualify yourself as one or the other. Go to this party thinking, "I am going to have a ton of fun and enjoy myself, women or not. I am going to talk to and be friendly to EVERYONE and talk to all the women I find attractive, rega…
/r/seduction19/05/15 05:54 PM
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Take the time to watch (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OiFRFs-Oby4)[this] and you'll be set. Handling multiple women isn't that difficult as long as you're genuine with your intentions. I personally don't agree with the "leading on" thing. I won't ever mention it outright but if a girl asks me I'll be honest and say, "I don't want to be in any kind of monogamous relationship right now, as I don't have the time or patience at this stage in my life to have one, and it's a very big commitment I do…
/r/seduction19/05/15 05:43 PM
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I'm just going to add my two cents here. I believe that everything in game has a balance. If you're too confident, you come off as egotistical and narcissistic. if you're too persistent, you come off as thirsty and needy. Conversely, if you're not forward enough with your intentions you get friend-zoned and if you're not willing to put yourself out there and let your ego get bruised every once in a while you are never going to improve. Similarly, using humor in game requires a balance. Some peop…
/r/seduction18/05/15 01:46 PM
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This is an interesting notion. I have to say I have not run into this experience before, but I reckon when I do, I'm dropping game to officially date this girl. I think the severity of this girl's effect decreases with age. You're going to meet a lot of women that you think are really cool and amazing. Truth is, there are a lot of really cool and amazing people out there and the more you socialize and thrust yourself into the world the more exposed you will be to those that change or impact you …
/r/seduction18/05/15 01:39 PM
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Romance novels are shit. Romantic films are shit. They pander to the surface emotions of a woman. I could write a whole damn book on why these things are ruining relationships and marriages, but here's the jist of it: Women say they want a man to chase and chase. To sweep them off their feet. But! He has to be exquisitely handsome. He has to have an amazing body. He has to be tall. He has to be very smart. He has to be rich (or at least have the characteristics or a wealthy and influential man).…
/r/seduction18/05/15 01:31 PM
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I agree with your comment, except for the "be yourself" part, and here's why. This phrase inherently implies that you don't have to change or improve yourself at all (which goes against our philosophy regarding attraction). A lot of guys definitely are themselves with women, and they never have any success. I prefer the term, "seek to be a better version of yourself everyday". Like davidjascha said, we can't all be naturals, but we can all improve our lives enough to make the attention of women …
/r/seduction18/05/15 01:23 PM
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It's better than being called repulsive or creepy or weird or any other vague word for a rapist that has a negative connotation. As previously stated however, it's not "sexy". She's not going to fuck your brains out tonight because she called you "cute". Nevertheless, you can definitely run with it. And here's how: escalate, escalate, escalate. You have provided the girl with a large amount of comfort, now you need to provide sexual tension. Flirt with her, touch her, make her feel wanted and se…
/r/seduction17/05/15 01:09 AM
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These questions are more into night-game and the minor nuances of one night stands. I suggest you post this on /r/askseddit by posting a specific interaction. That way people can give you solid advice that is tailored specifically to your situation. Something happens between the K-close and the lay where you fuck up, and the information you're giving us is currently too vague to pinpoint it. Props on getting this far though, keep it up. You're close to god-mode.
/r/seduction17/05/15 01:06 AM
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I believe this stems from the notion that you are outcome oriented. You expect sex or at least making out to happen because you're on a date so you start losing your shit internally and it seeps out into your personality. Quit thinking about the outcome and force yourself to ignore any and all expectations. Remember, she is on this date because she likes you. It's not your job to perform for her and be rewarded for sex. Your mindset for ANY interaction with a girl you are interested in should be…
/r/seduction17/05/15 01:01 AM
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He's look at things the opposite way. How to react to polite declines, and how to prevent them from happening to him as much.
/r/seduction17/05/15 12:56 AM
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No. This is a bad idea. Do NOT date girls you are not attracted to. If you hit on everyone with a vagina you come off as an asshole that is trying to get his dick inside anything. Have some standards, screen and qualify the women you go out with. Light flirting with a lot of women is fine, but don't lead anybody on or use someone as practice, it definitely looks desperate.
/r/seduction17/05/15 12:49 AM
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You have poetically summed up my thoughts exactly. I was going to post something along those lines, actually. Night-Game is so cliche and obvious. Some of my greatest experiences with women have been with day game approaches
/r/seduction16/05/15 02:56 PM
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This is a great idea. Reminds me of another very polarizing move that someone on here recommended a while back. It was a blog post. I'd give credit where credit is due if i remembered the name. Anyway, the guy would lock eyes with a cute girl, grin at her, and wave her over. If she came over, it was a sign that she was compliant and 9/10 he would go home with her. On another note, it seems that you are very good at opening the interaction, but something happens between the opening and the F-clos…
/r/seduction16/05/15 03:25 AM
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Cocky and confident are not the same thing. It seems you are familiar with the techniques to game a girl, you have the outer game. You are missing your inner game, and this is what you must master. Best of luck.
/r/seduction13/05/15 05:08 PM
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Stop putting women on a pedestal. Stop being so goddamn outcome independent. Stop putting so much pressure on yourself and the women you talk to. You're trying too hard, you're thinking too hard, and you're pretending to be something you're not. Stop putting ratings on women like they're trophies. Girls can sense this, especially the very attractive ones, and they can subconsciously feel that you are pretending to be something you're not just to sleep with them. Homework: Read "Models" By Mark M…
/r/seduction13/05/15 05:05 PM
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THIS. Gregger90's got it. If your mindset is, "I'm going to pretend I care for long enough in hopes that she'll sleep with me", you're approaching from a place of neediness, and you're STILL putting the pussy on a pedestal. This sub focuses on the nuances of game, but what it cannot teach you is how to become a better man. The ultimate mindset you want to be in is, "why would I want to sleep with this girl? Other than sex, why is she worth my time?" Girls pick up on this and believe me, this is …
/r/seduction11/05/15 09:25 PM
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This is my life right now. I am in the same boat. I've been dating her for about a year and a half though, and we had a long heart to heart conversation about my feelings and her feelings. We've decided on an open relationship, and that is my current state of life. She is playing around with other people, and so am I. We've set ground rules, and things so far have been going pretty well (it's been about 2 months since we started this). I'm not saying this is what you should do, but you should de…
/r/seduction18/03/15 10:01 PM
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You are obviously aware of escalation. You know what to do, and you know how to do it. The problem is your mindset. Now I don't know you personally so take this advice with a grain of salt, but. You attach to a girl way too much. You need to get into a surplus mentality. When you get into the mindset that there are literally thousands of girls that go through your life that you can talk to and get with, a single girl isn't a big deal, and going for it is a lot easier. Honestly, if I had seen her…
/r/seduction18/03/15 06:04 PM
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I understand where you're coming from man. It sounds like you're looking for a relationship, and that is perfectly fine. I'm going to warn you though, if you don't escalate as much as possible, most girls won't be as interested in a follow up date (unless they reaaaaaally like you). It's good that you cut things off and established boundaries for rejections. Work on finding other women to talk to for the time being, and hope for a text back. It's not good to get hung up on a girl though, so don'…
/r/seduction16/03/15 10:17 PM
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That is a really good response. I am using that!
/r/seduction16/03/15 10:10 PM
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"Hobbies" is a loaded word. roflharrisgun has it on the money. As long as you're passionate about what you do, and can talk about it it an interesting way, you are set. Case and point: Work on improving your self esteem and confidence (AKA inner game), as this will help with AA. You are still young, so you have a lot of time to improve. If you want suggestions for hobbies, I would recommend something that provides a lot of personal benefit. Don't do anything that you're not passionate about thou…
/r/seduction16/03/15 10:07 PM
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Call. It definitely sets you apart from the average guy. Don't text AND call though. And if you call and she doesn't pick up, either leave a voice mail, or send a (flirtatious and playful) follow-up text. DONT do both!
/r/seduction16/03/15 09:57 PM
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Honesty is the most important thing during an interaction. This is actually something I struggle with currently. I'm not looking for a relationship with any girl, but I'm not a huge fan of one night stands (just not my style). If FWB is what you want, you definitely should be communicating it BEFORE sex. That being said, it is also important not to say it too soon. You're going to have to play around with this. What's worked for me (somewhat, take this with a grain of salt as I'm still developin…
/r/seduction16/03/15 09:54 PM
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College campuses are hands down the best places in the entire world to pickup women in the 18-21 range (I'm assuming you're within this demographic). The general rules of pickup apply on college campuses. The only extra advice I could give is, go into the interaction with clearly defined goals. Usually I would advise against this but being in a college campus (you don't go to) is a special case. The best part about college campuses is that you can approach a very large pool of women in a relativ…
/r/seduction16/03/15 09:43 PM
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The problem with advice on a specific girl is that it's very difficult to know exactly how well you did and how likely you are to successfully escalate with this girl, because we weren't there. So here's what I suggest for next time, based on the information you provided during this interaction. Aim to make your intentions known as soon as possible. You don't want the girl to think you're just a "nice guy" that is interested in being friends with her. The way to do this, is to flirt with her. A …
/r/seduction16/03/15 09:35 PM
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Submissive does not work very well for a man. You always need to aim to escalate the interaction. If you can't do this, i'm afraid you're not going to have much luck. Most girls aren't going to make the moves for you, you need to take control.
/r/seduction16/03/15 09:31 PM
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Your post is painful to read... as the gays would say, "on so many levels".
/r/seduction16/03/15 01:58 PM
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Congratulations on getting out there and making such a big (And arguably powerful) change in your life. Just an important word of advice: You said that you hit rock bottom and this is what compelled you to start doing instead of just reading. This is very good, but now that you are in the game you have to make sure that you do not tie your self-esteem and confidence to the women you approach or interact with. As you have already experienced, you are going to have days where everything will click…
/r/seduction16/03/15 01:36 PM
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Im going to proceed assuming you want an actual relationship with this girl. You cannot come off as needy or clingy when interacting with her. Express your interest, and ask her out on a date in an assertive manner. This will establish the kind of relationship you are going to have. Be kind, but dominant. Eg: "do you want to go on a date with me sometime?" Vs. "I'd like to spend time with you outside of class. Come get pizza with me tomorrow, I know this amazing place just a few blocks from here…
/r/seduction15/03/15 10:47 PM
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I think these blowouts stem from a lack of pushing the interaction. You must be able to convey your intentions as soon as possible, and always shoot to escalate the interaction. A playful touch. A kiss. A number. A date. Always. Escalate. The best way to do this, is to be honest and straightforward. Make sure you convey (either through body language and tone or by outright saying it) that you are sexually attracted to her and want to take her out. Without escalation, you're not going to get anyw…
/r/seduction15/03/15 07:33 PM
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Yeah. This doesn't work with gorgeous women though. It's a tactic to employ only with the average girl. Don't overuse it, either. It's simply my go-to when I don't have anything more witty to approach with. This is why cold approaches are even possible. Because it conveys confidence and spontaneity. Try it out and let me know how it works for you.
/r/seduction15/03/15 02:20 PM
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I have mixed feelings about the "I have a boyfriend" response. Sure, sometimes a girl will say that just to get you off your back, and other times she genuinely has one and is loyal (which in my eyes makes her even more attractive). But in both cases, I believe it's a lost cause. If a girl is giving you excuses like that, she obviously doesn't care enough to continue the conversation, and there's not point in me trying to convince her of something when I can just have a fresh start with another …
/r/seduction14/03/15 10:47 PM
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I don't agree that there is no way to present yourself to increase results. There is definitely a right and wrong way to do cold approaches, and you're right, being monotone and mellow is not the way to do it. What's worked best for me is honesty/spontaneity. You would be surprised how well, "I saw you from over there, and I knew I would regret it if I didn't come and talk you" works. Girls LOVE spontaneous and romantic shit. If you frame the approach into a "once in a lifetime", "only happens i…
/r/seduction14/03/15 10:41 PM
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"Player" is such an abstract term. It has a similar (though not exactly the same) connotation as the word "slut" or a girl that is "easy". It all comes down to how YOU feel about yourself. Things could be misinterpreted when you are pursuing multiple girls, so you have to make a choice. Would you rather just pursue one girl at a time, or achieve your potential and choose from a pool of women? This doesn't meant you have to sleep around with several women or have several girlfriends; a lot of peo…
/r/seduction13/03/15 01:36 PM
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I took a public speaking class a few years back. It's amazing how many tricks on public speaking and approaching women overlap. My advice: Practice projecting your voice from your chest. It takes some practice, but essentially aim to push the air out of your mouth with your CHEST, not your throat, or your stomach. It also helps if you talk slowly. Focus on enunciating every word as it flows out, and be calm. Good luck.
/r/seduction09/03/15 04:02 AM
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In loud areas like this where long conversations and isolations are not possible, your goal is to stand out as much as you possibly can from the normal rabble. Personally, I like to tell her something completely outrageous or random. If nothing else, it conveys that I am different from the normal guy that goes into "interview mode" when talking to a girl. Stick with outrageous. The more outrageous, the better. I've gotten numbers by saying things like, "random question, do I look gay to you?" Or…
/r/seduction08/03/15 10:59 AM
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Here are a couple tips for you. First, you need to get out of the mindset that this one girl is the girl for you. Getting rejected, isn't the most horrible thing in the world. Nobody has ever died because they were rejected by a complete stranger. Once you get into a surplus mindset (the concept that there are literally hundreds and hundreds of available girls where you live, thousands even, if you live in a major city), approaches will be a much smaller deal, which will make it a lot easier for…
/r/seduction02/03/15 11:07 PM
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Don't overthink it. I don't want to give you a line because approaches shouldn't be rehearsed, girls can smell that from a mile away. If a girl starts teasing me, I usually use self-deprecating humor to redirect things.
/r/seduction02/03/15 10:54 PM
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High fives are great Kino. What's worked best for me is acknowledging the elephant in the room as soon as possible. The longer you wait to mention that you find her attractive and you're bothering her because you want to hit on her, the more awkward things get. What I usually do is stop the conversation mid way and say something like "honestly, I didn't come for the fashion advice. I actually want to talk to you because I find you very attractive and I'd love to take you out sometime.." and the …
/r/seduction02/03/15 10:49 PM
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Don't worry about negs. For now, just focus on getting out there and having more night like this, until you're become more comfortable in these environments. As others have said, negging should naturally, so don't stress over it right now. Just focus on gaining experience in the interactions, and you'll slowly get better at it. Awesome job putting yourself out there.
/r/seduction02/03/15 02:39 PM
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Always remember to escalate the interaction. Great job pushing yourself out there. As you become more comfortable in these social situations, seek to get a number or an instant date out of the interaction. If they're on duty, a simple "When does your shift end? I'd love to take you out for coffee" should suffice. Keep in mind this will usually only work if you have previously acknowledged the fact that you are sexually attracted to her, in your conversation.
/r/seduction02/03/15 02:18 PM
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I embrace it. Perhaps this is me being narcissistic, but as long as you don't go over the top with it (or you at least add a sarcastic tone when you say it), girls can appreciate a guy who's confident enough to call himself attractive. Physical appearance is a part of attraction. It certainly isn't the most important part, but it is a factor. Acknowledging the physical attraction in both parties (by calling her attractive, or yourself attractive) is a sign of confidence. Again, as long as it isn…
/r/seduction02/03/15 02:13 PM
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I've had the most success with taking a girl out for coffee. It's part of my "vetting" process. Subconsciously, the girl knows this is an interaction to see if we have chemistry so it puts the pressure on her to be "worthy" of a second date. Consequently, there will be times when the coffee date turns into a dinner or a movie, and then sex back at my place. I don't mind spending half a day with a girl I like, and the sexual tension that builds during several hours almost always has her saying "y…
/r/seduction28/02/15 04:35 PM
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"My philosophy is if I can't impress you with my logic I'm going to baffle you with my weirdness. Prepare yourself, I'm coming for you". A little cliche and quite weird, but has worked fine for me.
/r/seduction19/02/15 02:38 AM
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