ZigsZag Archive

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–	How do I view myself as “sexy” when no woman has ever wanted to have sex with me? You gotta tell yourself, or you gotta get someone else to tell you, or you gotta "fake it till you make it" 1) like the guy below - just tell yourself in the mirror, until you believe it. This can be hard, because you, as (assuming, here) dont know what a sexy male looks like. sure everyone can say that brad pitt looks sexy, but i also know plenty of girls who think vince vaugh, fat chris pratt, and skinny michael cera look sexy. Its important (again, assumptions) to remember that in general gir…	/r/seduction	06/08/18 11:47 PM
130	I'm 26 and I have Asperger's, I'm a virgin and the sexual frustration is driving me insane, is there any way I could be attractive to a woman? Hello Friendo. I also have aspergers. I'm a little younger than you, (only 25) and my symptoms are a bit more mild than yours are. That being said, I would say I am A) a huge fucking nerd (in terms of playing video games and watching cartoons). B) im not very extroverted. C) i am not bad with girls. The pieces of advice i can offer, in order are A) go to r/seduction. accept that its terrible advice from mostly terrible people, but it can be a good way to get "fired up" and think about things. if…	/r/seduction	02/07/18 05:32 AM
–	ex girlfriend i'm still very much tied up on, and am ignoring, texted and asked if i was ignoring her. I like TRP because tough love is the only thing i listen to - Thanks bud.	/r/askTRP	22/01/17 05:19 AM
1	I kissed a work colleague in a nightclub on our first time out, what to do next? this is going to sound super simplified, but: Kiss on your second time out too, dont worry about where you'll go. if it's a good club, then escalate - last time it was a peck? this time make out. Last time you grabbed her ass? This time lift her onto a table or press against a wall. your goal is not to get her to have sex with you, it's getting her to want to have sex with you. do your best not to make it strange that you kissed, figure out if you both want to be in a relationship, and deal with…	/r/seduction	31/08/16 06:53 AM
3	Seriously, I really just don't know what to say alright, easiest way is that you have to make it clear what you want. you have a lot of friends, or a lot of numbers, or talk to a lot of girls, cool! that's not the same as shudder "closing game". There're a few things you can do, and I'll tell you want i do. First, most importantly - have a look at your friends who are "more successful" - which in this case probably means: Wakes up with someone. you say you dont want to be creepy or get a rep, and that your frat has a good rep and everyone lik…	/r/seduction	31/08/16 06:45 AM
–	Seriously, I really just don't know what to say Ironically - this is where i excel! I'm a tooootal nerd. Not unattractive, but definitely taller and lankier than Adonis was. A lot of the PUA shit on here is just that- its shit. dont read too much into negging, or any of that. it's generally good psychology, but you're not trying to trick someone into fucking you. thats important so let me repeat it: DONT TRY TO TRICK OR MANIPULATE SOMEONE INTO SLEEPING WITH YOU. now, your problem is the exact opposite of mine. I have NO IDEA how to get cellph…	/r/seduction	31/08/16 05:47 AM
1	When is it better to listen to your gut or your friends? in general, your friends are gonna have a clearer understanding, assuming they know everything that's going on (IE, watching you flirt at a bar or party). Whether they give you better advice is up to how good the advice from your friends and gut are. If your friends say "she's really into you!", she probably is, but that doesn't necessarily mean you should go for it. Case in point, my circle of friends will always tell the person to go for it, no matter how crazy, obnoxious, or "differently attr…	/r/seduction	31/08/16 05:39 AM
–	Friend zoned, is it permanent? this is going to sound pretty horrible, but all the advice below is good but depends on one thing: Do you want to be her friend if you aren't Bangin'? if not, then ask her the fuck out, tell her you're into something more. or get a little drink - a BYO or wine-heavy dinner is good- not so drunk that noone is actually making bad choices, just drunk enough that you can pretend your normal social rules are gone. (i call it book-club drunk). and see if anything happens. If you want to be friends, be…	/r/seduction	31/08/16 05:03 AM
2	FR: Unbelievable Luck or Solid Game? text her first, dont ask about a decision, remind her you're alive without being needy. If she's moving on friday text "hey, come have drinks with me at X on thursday before you leave" or something. I think consistently that people overthink the "oh, should i text first or does that make me seem desperate". Often the answer is; "No, it makes you seem like you want to (see/get together with/fuck) that person."	/r/seduction	31/08/16 04:57 AM
1	What am I doing wrong? It's also, in my experience at least, a good idea to actually show people what you want. you want a relationship? go on dates. You want a friend you fuck? netflix and chill. You want a one night stand? cold turkey never talk again. Interest will always diminish over time, "striking while the iron is hot" is key.	/r/seduction	31/08/16 04:54 AM
–	What am I doing wrong? er, it's tricky without context, but it depends on what hanging out means. It's also tough being female on here, it's pretty red-pill no matter how people argue it. Try to make plans to actually see them, like in a context where you both know its romantic. It's great to go to the mall or the beach or something with your friends, but if you want things to grow, be more forward. Ask them for the terrifying "date". If they say no or divert you off, then they might have thought it was a one night st…	/r/seduction	31/08/16 04:52 AM