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| 2 | Girl I matched with on Hinge a couple nights ago. Her reaction reminds me of the “So no head?” VineI just posted the 18 texts and my last text to her before them in another comment. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/04/21 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Girl I matched with on Hinge a couple nights ago. Her reaction reminds me of the “So no head?” VineI just posted them in another comment, since a few people were asking. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/04/21 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Girl I matched with on Hinge a couple nights ago. Her reaction reminds me of the “So no head?” VineI posted them in another comment | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/04/21 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Girl I matched with on Hinge a couple nights ago. Her reaction reminds me of the “So no head?” VineFor those asking: Part 1 and part 2 of relevant texts | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/04/21 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Is it fair to say most women wouldn't have swiped right on or hooked up with their husbands?These are both extremes; I think the real answer isn’t so black and white. Women don’t necessarily want stability. They want what most people want: consistency. They want their bf/husband to be the same person he was when they first met, because that’s what attracted her. Now, I’m not saying that he shouldn’t grow and mature over time, but the fundamental parts of his personality should more or less stay the same over the years. The problem is that a lot of guys are pretending to be something th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Feminist shaming tactics needlessly cause lasting sexual repression or guilt in a subset of men most sympathetic to feminist concerns.Physical attractiveness has literally nothing to do with OP’s post, but ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/20 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do.That’s true, but most guys can grow at least some facial hair. Even a mustache is still better than nothing, unless it makes you look like a pedo I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 09:01 AM |
| 2 | Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do.Nah, the unattractive-ness comes from when men try to save their hair even though it’s a lost cause. Shave your head and grow a beard when you start thinning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Why do we always talk about female hypogamy and not male hypogamy?Which one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Why do we always talk about female hypogamy and not male hypogamy?I’m confused, you clearly both agree: Women are hypergamous, what a shock | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Can you give a concrete example of an "80%" "sub-par" male?Marshall & Ted from How I Met Your Mother | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Woman complained she didn't like the window replacement. She got her money back.r/madlads | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/11/20 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Why shouldn't men view women's offer of "friendship" like a second-place trophy/consolation prize following a rejection?Oh. Yea I agree, I thought you were saying that he can't just tell her he doesn't want to be friends with her without saying she's undeserving of friendship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/20 05:20 PM |
| 8 | Q4Women: Why shouldn't men view women's offer of "friendship" like a second-place trophy/consolation prize following a rejection?That’s not what he said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/20 12:47 PM |
| 2 | This sub seems to be made up mostly of "perverts", incels and bored wives, am I wrong? :)I suppose so, although there isn’t really another concise way to describe what I’m talking about. If you’re curious, head over to r/troubledteens. They describe it pretty well in their side bar. TL;DR, it’s an industry that profits off the abuse of children and teenagers. Most troubled teen programs are entirely unregulated and have no oversight. Some have even gotten away with children dying on their watch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 03:43 PM |
| 3 | This sub seems to be made up mostly of "perverts", incels and bored wives, am I wrong? :)I agree, really does feel exhausting. Although, as much as I hate the "just be yourself" advice, I've learned that there is some truth to it. I've been taking a lot of time to find out what specific traits about myself attract people, and which ones tend to push people away. That way, when I'm ready to start dating again, I'll have a better idea of which things I already do naturally to "showcase" or "put on display" and which traits I should try to either keep hidden until I know a woman really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 03:22 PM |
| 2 | This sub seems to be made up mostly of "perverts", incels and bored wives, am I wrong? :)I definitely fit into the “high functioning autism” category. But also, I’ve always done horrible in the dating world. I usually just lurk on this sub, a number of other subs in the “manosphere”, and several generic dating subs because I’m trying to get an idea of what to do, what not to do, and how to better myself once I’m ready to put myself back out there. I’m a 26 year old single dude, if that helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Is there a gender difference when it comes to male and women and how they feel about compliments on appearance?I know this is /s but her eyes did the thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/20 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Is there a gender difference when it comes to male and women and how they feel about compliments on appearance?What if you’re working in a customer service job and a guy compliments something that you’re wearing (that isn’t part of your uniform)? For example, I was at Starbucks and I complimented the barista’s facemask. It was a snakeskin pattern and I thought it looked cool. Obviously facemasks are part of their uniform, but none of the baristas were wearing official Starbucks masks or anything like that, so I figured it was a safe compliment. She smiled and said thank you, and that was that. I ordered … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/20 10:02 PM |
| 2 | The red pill assertion that the male prime years are between 35-45 is hogwashLiterally the only reason that’s when men hit their “peak” is because most of the time, that’s when they’re at a point financially where they can finally afford to date whoever and however they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/20 11:36 PM |
| 12 | Couldn't crosspost, but didn't wanna pretend I found itThis...seems like satire | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/08/20 12:07 AM |
| 4 | OLD would be a lot easier for young men, if older men would stay in their lane....I think they were just exaggerating/being dramatic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/20 08:22 PM |
| 2 | If a woman's value decreases with age and n count, how is hypergamy possible.Never underestimate the power of thirsty simps on the internet, that's all I'll say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/20 04:23 AM |
| 6 | BruhFor science, right? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 21/07/20 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Women constantly try to water down the meaning of cc riding?Why do you think he hates women? And by the way, I was actually curious to hear your thoughts on what he said about women staying in bad relationships with alpha men, but never in bad relationships with beta men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Women constantly try to water down the meaning of cc riding?Please explain how I’m projecting my feelings. I’m not angry, but when someone says “ WeLl YoU jUsT hAtE wOmEn!1!” It usually comes from a place of anger. I would especially consider this to be the case for you, since it seems like that’s what you fell back to once you ran out of logical arguments to make against u/TheJim66. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Women constantly try to water down the meaning of cc riding?It seems like you got angry when you ran out of good arguments. This is a place for debating, not angry, emotionally charged reactions. EDIT: a word | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Women constantly try to water down the meaning of cc riding?Straw man argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Can you date without dating apps?Especially in the US, it seems. I appreciate the advice, friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Can you date without dating apps?Teach me your ways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Can you date without dating apps?That kinda rhymed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 09:44 PM |
| 2 | What's the bare minimum for you in a boyfriend?I’ve always figured that it was a simple explanation like that. Like they changed their minds or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 03:02 AM |
| 3 | What's the bare minimum for you in a boyfriend?Thanks, I appreciate the advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 03:01 AM |
| 3 | What's the bare minimum for you in a boyfriend?I see what you mean. It can be difficult learning to approach if you’ve never done it before, especially for someone like me on the autism spectrum. I definitely pay attention when I’m trying to set up a date and the girl says she’s free on a certain day, but even after I ask then I’ll usually get ghosted. Like, am I asking too soon? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 02:29 AM |
| 5 | What's the bare minimum for you in a boyfriend?That all makes sense, and I agree. Can you give me a couple examples of what you consider to be a “perfect opportunity” to ask a girl out? It seems to me that most of the time, women are way too subtle but they’ll think they’re being super obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 02:01 AM |
| 2 | What's the bare minimum for you in a boyfriend?What do you consider to be “low social skills”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Average PPD MaleLol maybe. What would you suggest I do differently, then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 08:10 AM |
| 3 | Average PPD MaleI actually go to church every Sunday. I'm pretty sure that if none of the women I've met there are capable of being faithful, then it's just not possible. All of the happy, married couples I've met have said they met in church, or through church, or through Christian friends. All of the women I've (casually) been with are women I've met in person, and I only met one of them in a place where you'd expect to find unfaithful women anyway (a club). I live in the bible belt, in a pretty conservative … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 07:57 AM |
| 5 | Average PPD MaleI literally just want to be with a woman who I can trust enough to not cheat on me. Surprise surprise, no one I've met since discovering TRP 3 years ago is someone who could meet that extremely low bar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 07:33 AM |
| 17 | Average PPD MalePlease link me to literally any highly upvoted comments/posts on r/theredpill that say this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 06:49 AM |
| 1 | TRP was meant for Average Frustrated Chumps not Bottom Tier OmegasWhat about the autists? There’s nothing you can do to fix autism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Am I in the right place?They basically are, yea. I don’t know much about Hillsong but there are a lot of things about Elevation that I dislike/disagree with. Two examples being that they preach the prosperity gospel and their senior pastor seems to be one of those “untouchable” celebrity pastors. I do see your point though, I do still plan to attend one of their services sometime just to see for myself. | /r/RPChristians | 29/04/20 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Am I in the right place?Thank you. I’ve already been really lucky in one of those areas. I’m in a life group that meets every Thursday night. They’re a solid group of guys and they’re diverse in their relationships (meaning they’re a good mix of single, in relationships, engaged, and married), and for two years now we’ve met every single Thursday night without missing a week. Even in the face of this quarantine, we’ve still made sure to get on zoom every Thursday night. They give me tough love when I need it too, which… | /r/RPChristians | 28/04/20 09:20 AM |
| 9 | Am I in the right place?Thank you, I probably needed to hear this. To add to this, nobody has even been to church in months. That first Sunday back at church once quarantine ends, everyone will probably just be happy to be back in the company of actual people again; anything weird I might have done/said in the past will be the last thing on their minds. We’ll all be there for fellowship and fun, it’s easy to capitalize on that. | /r/RPChristians | 28/04/20 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Does the Naked Man work?Plenty of unattractive guys get away with a lot too. You and I both know that while attractiveness is important, it’s obviously not the only factor at play, otherwise half the people on this sub still wouldn’t be getting laid after taking the pill. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 11:38 AM |
| 11 | Ran into a girl from high school I used to orbitI don’t think that the way she turned out is what made me so happy. I actually felt a combination of pity and guilt for her. What put me in such a good mood was more so the reminder of the progress I’ve made since the last time I was friends with her. The disconnect between who I am now and my high school beta self is huge, and that makes me happy. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/20 02:39 AM |
| 4 | Ran into a girl from high school I used to orbitI was obviously exaggerating a bit | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/20 01:21 AM |
| 14 | Ran into a girl from high school I used to orbitWell I’m definitely not attracted to her anymore after seeing her again. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/20 01:11 AM |
| 13 | Dead bedroom in long term relationshipsGo take a look at r/deadbedrooms. I was surprised to find that most of the dead bedrooms on there are women who aren’t getting sex from their husbands, not the other way around. Porn addiction and frequent masturbation among their husbands also seems to be a common thread in most of these dead bedrooms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 02:27 AM |
| 1 | My red pilled bro made me check myself and gave me the solution to my problem without even realizing itIs that in the sidebar? I haven’t seen it but I want to read it now, it sounds like a good concept. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/20 09:00 PM |
| 31 | Alpha Behaviour - an angle worth consideringI think you misunderstand what he means by “making rules”. He’s talking about the rules women make for themselves. It’s the bullshit you hear women say like “I won’t go out with any guy who does/doesn’t do xyz.” Or “I’m not dating anyone for at least a year! I’m just going to focus on myself!” Or “I’m new here, I’m only looking to make friends right now.” Then, not even a few hours later, she’s breaking all 3 of those “rules” and taking a giant alpha dick up her ass in the bathroom at a club. Wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/20 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Are LTRs actually possible?Yes. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 06:18 PM |
| 7 | Are bluepilled men really ok being emasculated by the insanity of modern society, or is there more to it?Ok I’m curious, pm me more. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 12:34 PM |
| 13 | If you were an introverted 30 year old who didn't need a job, but wanted to get one in order to meet people, where would you work?Volunteer firefighting. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 05:30 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to girls who like to subtly brag about their sex life and or the attention they get from other guys?Damn, that’s a good point. I didn’t think about it that way. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 05:33 PM |
| 1 | TRP biggest mistake is assuming women have same attraction pattern as menHave you ever actually read anything in TRP’s sidebar? I mean, you’re correct in the sense that they do encourage things like lifting to make yourself more attractive, but they tend to emphasize making changes to your personality. They list out specific things you can do to accomplish that as well, like doing things to take care of yourself and put yourself first. They encourage pursuing hobbies, advancing in your career, traveling, and forgetting about women until you have learned how to be hap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/19 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Journalist admits she was a slut in youth, and now has no trust in her husband w/ 2 children, wishes she was still on Carousel.Can someone please explain to me what the hell the “purple pill” is? I’ve looked at the sub and their explanation made no sense, it just sounded like hippie nonsense. Is it supposed to be a mix of the red and blue pills? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/19 05:31 PM |
| 53 | Journalist admits she was a slut in youth, and now has no trust in her husband w/ 2 children, wishes she was still on Carousel.I’m confused. It does kind of seem like she’s saying that in the middle of the essay, but she concludes it by basically saying that she made the right choice in marrying him. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/19 03:43 PM |
| 1 | My ex rinsed me dry financially, threatened me with a knife and tried to suffocate me. What should I do?If you post the video, you will only further hurt yourself. Light switch effect could (sort of) come into play. She’ll victimize herself and turn the blame on you, and everyone in her life will go along with it because she has a vagina. “What did he do to make her so angry that she would threaten him with a knife? She must have been so scared!” “What did he do right before he started recording? He probably antagonized her, so she was just defending herself! What a queen 😍” And other iterations o… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 06:55 PM |
| 1 | I’m being a dick, why is she responding so positively?I do, I guess this is just cognitive dissonance or something. I didn't really believe it until now. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 11:01 PM |
| 1 | I’m being a dick, why is she responding so positively?What makes you think that? | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 10:36 PM |
| 1 | I’m being a dick, why is she responding so positively?Yes. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 10:35 PM |
| 2 | I applied TRP to my professional life and it worked very well. Why doesn’t it have the same effect in my personal life yet?You’re right. I keep telling myself that I don’t need validation from anyone but I’m apparently still looking for it and I didn’t even see it. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 11:11 AM |
| 3 | I applied TRP to my professional life and it worked very well. Why doesn’t it have the same effect in my personal life yet?What he said | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 02:05 AM |
| 2 | I applied TRP to my professional life and it worked very well. Why doesn’t it have the same effect in my personal life yet?Yea I am, I mentioned it in my post. That makes sense though, I’m going to start building a new social circle, or at least try to branch out a bit | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 12:32 AM |
| 8 | I applied TRP to my professional life and it worked very well. Why doesn’t it have the same effect in my personal life yet?I’ve noticed. Tbh, dealing with the increased amount of shit tests at work has actually become fun for me. I almost wish that people in my social circle would start throwing them at me too, but I feel like they’ve already decided my place, and that’s where I’ll stay no matter what. I’m probably going to do what another commenter said and start building a new social circle. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Machiavelli says get attention at all costs. How?Ok but now I’m confused. Why should you lift, then? I get self improvement but most people here want to self improve so that they can get laid, right? | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 12:28 PM |
| 1 | How do my existing male friends factor into all this?I know, but what I’m saying is that I don’t see any reason to leave this friend group. They’re good friends who want me to succeed in life. They don’t bullshit me or try to avoid hurting my feelings; if I’m screwing something up they’ll tell me. Basically, I’ve never seen them exhibit any typical blue pill behavior. So how do I know if I need to cut them from my life? | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 12:49 AM |
| 1 | What are some good examples of “red pill music”?Heavy metal/rock. Hollywood Undead has always been my favorite band. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | What are some good examples of “red pill music”?I’ve been listening to the same 4 bands since I started high school almost 10 years ago, so I’m looking for new music to listen to anyway. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 07:29 PM |
| 1 | What are some good examples of “red pill music”?My girlfriend broke up with me 6 months ago, and that’s when I started listening to that stuff. Listening to it still makes me feel depressed. Ever since I stopped, I’ve been feeling much better. So I even though I “like” music like that, I don’t like the way it makes me feel. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 07:03 PM |
| 25 | Mistakes Nice Guys Make and How to Fix ThemSomewhere in the sidebar it says that texting is only supposed to be to schedule a meetup, then here it says that trying to schedule a meetup too soon over text is bad. Which is it? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/19 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Ex girlfriend tried to get one last good punch in; it (sort of) didn’t work.You’re right, and I’ve already decided I’m done talking to her as of today. I’m stronger than this. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/19 08:19 PM |
| 13 | PSA for young men: You will almost *inevitably* get stronger over time as long as you don't fuck things upWhat can I do if I’m already 25 and I’m just starting out in my lifting career? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | If you woke up in the body of a 20 year old chubby nerd with no friends - what steps would you take to turn him into an alpha male?What’s bjj? | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 04:26 PM |
| 2 | So basically her having a boyfriend means absolutely nothing?I got into bowhunting. It’s really fun and when I kill a buck I get enough meat to last 6 months or so. It’s unfortunately not that unique of a hobby where I live in the south, but most consider it a “manly” hobby and it’s at least more unique than gaming. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 04:01 PM |
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