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Escalate*.
/r/seduction09/12/12 10:28 PM
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"I still wouldn't have done it"
/r/seduction30/11/12 08:09 PM
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Not unnecessary, I still wouldn't have done it, but I am a firm believer that definitely REALLY helped the entire situation go as smoothly, not to say it was the deciding factor, it just did so much it's fucking beautiful, here's what I think it did: Build trust (obviously) "That guy was kinda cute and he trusted me with this laptop after like 3 minutes? He said he was really close but still..." she will definitely 100% be thinking about you no matter what until you return, and this: Demands her…
/r/seduction30/11/12 06:14 AM
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Have you seen what's the top comment in this thread? There are people like that everywhere, but at least they are (usually) called out here :P
/r/MensRights16/11/12 03:47 AM
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I am sincere when I listen to people, but this is also a good way for them to know my sincerity as well, and that really helps when it comes to socializing.
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:19 PM
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The "everyone's favorite subject is themself" line is all you really need to know. When people say "be a good listener" they really mean just let other people talk, interject when necessary / show that you're interested/following along, but really whenever I'm stuck I turn it back to them. I speak less than other people, but I have a good social life because my convo skills are pretty good, also another benefit to this? People say that I'm interesting. Why? Because whenever I do talk it's about …
/r/seduction21/10/12 07:29 AM
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As asked numerous times, honestly what do you mean by this? When I'm with people and they do something I don't agree with I call em out on it, like a lot of guys. Example: last night a chick said "Look at her dress she really thinks she can pull that off?" I said, imagine if somebody you did not meet before came up to you and said the same, would you like that person? It was simple/effective but honestly I hate people who judge unfairly; let alone complete strangers, I am looking for ways to bre…
/r/seduction13/10/12 06:01 AM
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Ouch, yeah especially considering it was at such a 'sensitive' time in your life (5~ out of the 20 years of you being alive), that shit is gonna be hard to get over...but hey man you got this. Just keep approaching and take small steps everyday you know? Aim for a number maybe, then try to practice light kino another time etc. All in good time.
/r/seduction13/10/12 02:55 AM
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Agreed with the immaturity, as stated I realize I'm not even 21 so this is subjective to my experiences, but I guess it was just all getting to me, I never grew to love who I was when dealing with women, I still wanted to be the nice guy...I just knew it would never work.
/r/seduction10/10/12 05:20 PM
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Yeah exactly, can't be doing all of the chasing etc, I've gotten pretty far with this in general since discovering Seddit a year ago, but I sometimes find it difficult to tell if it's a legitimate flake or not, considering I've had many "Why haven't you asked me out again, your with a new girl? what a dick"s happen to me.
/r/seduction04/10/12 09:16 PM
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Ok, thanks man!
/r/seduction04/10/12 09:08 PM
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Alright, like I said i wasn't sure if this was me looking too into it, or she simply meant she's busy, but the maybe had me wondering i would waste my time.
/r/seduction04/10/12 09:08 PM
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Sounds good, she's in my college class so i'll keep it for whatever, but def. gonna stop communicating unless for some generic study session etc.
/r/seduction04/10/12 04:36 PM
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Holy. Shit. Explained my AFC days perfectly.
/r/seduction27/09/12 03:18 PM
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This thread represents Seddit to me, here we have somebody ultimately worried about the tiniest of details, with others joining right in saying on one side "Don't text her, if she forgets she isn't worth it", and the others saying "Text her, it makes her think you're interested in her". Ultimately, it doesn't matter. Being safe is better than you coming back by the end of the night with a thread about being flaked on, I always remind them because if they say no I have time to plan what I'm going…
/r/seduction26/09/12 09:56 PM
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Can you maybe pm me with more details? I find when making dates girls can think it is so serious, as I'm sure that is why I have been flaked on 3 times in the last 2 weeks, so I may actually have to ramp it up a tad when I see her next week. Thanks a lot though.
/r/seduction26/09/12 05:22 AM
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My 9's are my friend's 7-8's, I'm attracted to above average girls, not super models that I can't relate to or feel intimidated by, simply because I'm not that type of guy. So think of 9's as a guy's "Really fucking attracted to her" rather than "The world looks at her and jizzes collectively".
/r/seduction24/09/12 06:48 PM
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An easy thing that I do after getting a girl's number is saying "I'm going to ask you out so be prepared (smile and shit)", it's alright but to be honest it's just the easiest way I found to communicate my intention.
/r/seduction24/09/12 06:45 PM
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For people saying that introversion is just an excuse and cannot be changed / I'm probably just shy etc. I was in fact diagnosed with type II bipolar disorder, by multiple trained professionals in my youth. I do not take medication as I've been living with it since I was 11 years old and feel comfortable controlling it without them, but this does not impact my social life as much as it does others as I've learned to 'pick my fights' in a way, as in I know when I will be incredibly comfortable ar…
/r/seduction22/09/12 08:23 PM
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Hm, that's very true actually. I will attempt to better myself in that regard.
/r/seduction22/09/12 08:19 PM
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I wouldn't say 100% is gold, I'm not that good, but I'd be lying if most of it wasn't very interesting as well, gotta keep practicing I guess.
/r/seduction22/09/12 08:18 PM
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I agree with you, I was the fat kid in school but am now healthy / pretty attractive generally speaking, but despite what many think it's not a sudden "turn into outgoing alpha get girls" mode, I'm the same person. The "people listen" part really struck home with me, but the difference with me is that I am very comfortable with a group focused on me when I speak, I just don't like to speak as much as others, which can make them a bit uncomfortable unfortunately, they assume I'm disinterested whe…
/r/seduction22/09/12 07:46 AM
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My point exactly, what fun are people if everybody is the same anyway? I guess I'm just looking for advice on how to be the best me, I am honestly comfortable with myself, it's just that some other people initially aren't and feel that I am great once I 'open up', which in fact is just me stealing the stage for a little bit.
/r/seduction22/09/12 07:44 AM
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Are there any available? I've been called introverted but I'm not going to lie I'm a bit narrowminded on the topic I guess, I always linked introversion with social awkwardness, I may in fact be introverted.
/r/seduction22/09/12 05:19 AM
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Be congruent! This is typical shit that gets thrown around here without explanation so I will explain an example (in this case me in specific). I am a quieter guy, I'm just more comfortable not having to prove myself constantly or being the loudest. By quiet I do not mean beta, I mean that when I speak it is with thought (although I can talk some serious crap when I'm in the mood), but anyway, following this yes I am sort of humble. "Hey anon, are you good at dancing?" "I can guarantee that you …
/r/seduction22/09/12 03:52 AM
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Pretty much, see one of the core aspects of pickup involves this, being 'Beta' as some call it are those people who do not challenge women, who think they are a prize that they must always put first in order to obtain, when in reality treating them like you would your 'bros' would get you much further. I personally don't hang around with people who compliment me all day / can't think for themselves, those guys are weird. Girls think the same. Seeing a guy who just treats her for how she is is wh…
/r/seduction08/09/12 08:30 PM
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Can you link the video to Tyler being "icy"? Do you mean he just didn't reply to everything they said positively?
/r/seduction08/09/12 07:08 PM
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You're both right... there is a thin line here but I'm an advocate of gender equality, as in women should not be expected to go to some yoga class and see no men, and men should not expect to go to a hunting range and see no women (I was going to say sportsbar or lifting room in a gym but you get the idea). But like anything, yes he should not go around aiming for all of their numbers... he has stated that's not his intentions, he intentions are to enjoy the class etc. But if he sees somebody he…
/r/seduction08/09/12 06:50 PM
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Exactly this
/r/seduction08/09/12 03:16 PM
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Another example that I used last night when HB8 said I looked bored: You look so bored, always this way? "Yeah, I'm the only person I find interesting enough here" It's just a reverse shit test almost, they expect you to defend yourself "Oh I'm not bored it's just..." or "I'm not a bad host I just don't think it was serious" Playful, you don't seek their approval etc. Works pretty well.
/r/seduction08/09/12 02:56 PM
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Don't sweat it, he said it's the "Sad truth that men are shallow" or something like that, we are. But what they're saying is that average women (Women you think are pretty attractive but not intimidated by and you think you can do a bit better than) can be awesome if they are awesome 'inside', so yes there's always the starting point with looks, but an average girl with a super great personality can be wonderful.
/r/seduction05/09/12 04:22 AM
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All of this talk about your looks makes me want to see a picture (no creepin'), honestly you're probably a lot hotter than you think, a lot of above average girls I've met are incredibly insecure because of their culture / advertising thinking they have to be 9's to get men.
/r/seduction05/09/12 04:12 AM
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You. I like you. Smart words.
/r/seduction05/09/12 04:10 AM
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Alright yes, establishing a connection is what I need to work on, how should I do that without being creepy? Only thing I can think of atm is the overbearing "I feel like we belong together" shit.
/r/seduction05/09/12 04:05 AM
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If it were me, I'd look at him and gauge his reaction, if it was really an accident he would say so, or sorry etc. Then i'd say no problem man with a friendly shrug or something. One of my main strengths is indifference I believe, why should I let him bother me at all? People who overthink "Man I should do something I will look so beta" are in fact that.
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:53 AM
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Yep like I said I was way too forward, I talked for like 10 minutes in class but like I said I saw those simple pick up videos where they approach strangers and state their intentions within 5 minutes, thought I'd try it, now I just need to know what to do instead. Any help :)?
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:17 AM
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Forgot to add, I kept thinking that when I asked a girl out she'd say no, so what's the point? I did have more confidence in myself, I honestly think I look good now and dress good, the last thing to improve has to be how I interact with women I find attractive...I did see a simple pickup video a week ago and thought it looked easy, direct approach where they just start out by complimenting her / telling them they were interested, so I figured i'd try it since it's very easy to do, and I hate th…
/r/seduction04/09/12 11:24 PM
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This was a nice discussion, moments like these are why I love seddit. You counteracted his point politely with detail, he replied with his defense, once again in detail. You now understood what he meant, go teamwork!
/r/seduction04/09/12 10:54 PM
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Being attractive has not made a difference as some believe, girls do not approach me etc. like in movies, I have to do everything the same, I just feel more sincere. I wish I wasn't as vain as some people I know, but this is what gave me the confidence needed to do this. If you can find the confidence, you can make it happen too. Girls aren't as concerned over looks as guys, that's the honest truth.
/r/seduction29/07/12 09:06 PM
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I think being attractive IS a magic pill, because of the confidence I have now. Now I'm not worried or self-conscious that a woman would say no to me because I'm ugly or chubby, yes this has happened before, but because I fucked up something with the conversation or personality. This to me is a lot better for my confidence.
/r/seduction29/07/12 06:56 PM
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Yeah with just going with what I want, instinct based it really does give me a lot of confidence, I think thinking of how to act was my problem...and my mind is just letting it take over now. It honestly feels so strange but so great.
/r/seduction29/07/12 01:09 AM
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I honestly did this post as a coin-flip scenario, at the end of it I knew exactly what side I wanted it to land on, and it's the instincts...it just feels too good man, like I'm finally living life how I want to, I came to the conclusion :)
/r/seduction28/07/12 11:24 PM
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Can I just say that your mother, though I do not claim to know a thing about her, would be proud as hell for you. You became a man, and she is proud as hell of you for living life. This is truly touching, good on you man.
/r/seduction28/07/12 01:54 AM
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Oh without a doubt I'm already powerful at that type of stuff, it's just my flow of talking I was concerned about, I know when to hold eye contact, when to break it, when to adjust tone into a deep whisper or build excitement, conversation was taught pretty extensively by my family, useful tool to have.
/r/seduction16/07/12 07:03 AM
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thanks, never visit cracked thought it was some 'geek' thing (I play videogames dw), not sure how well the article stands besides a few obvious mentions of "don't buy her gifts everyday expecting sex", who believes that works?
/r/seduction16/07/12 03:46 AM
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is it this? http://www.cracked.com/funny-3884-5-universal-facts-about-women/
/r/seduction16/07/12 03:22 AM
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I figured, people are complaining about nothing, he did it to add to the photo gents. Great outfit btdubz
/r/seduction30/04/12 05:37 AM
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