Hey, so all summer I've been away, studying for some summer credits, hitting the gym / diet and I've lost a lot of weight, got new clothes, new hairstyle and the likes, thing is when I get back next week I'm still going to be insecure, despite compliments I get now on my appearance (I honestly do look better).

I have a few questions:

Honestly, I've been reading this stuff and practicing it a bit for more than 6 months now, but me being unattractive made it difficult (Straight up "no you're ugly" type stuff when trying to dance or talk to girls), but I kept going, anywho, I now have this straight up fucking urge inside of me, I've never felt as much as man as I do these days, I just want to go out, grab chicks and dance, kiss them when I want to, tell them exactly what I'm thinking, just fucking be a man you know? I'm not sure what to do with this but I like it, I'm just wondering if I should tone it down or just let my instincts go wild...at this point I don't even care what I lose.

My question is: Should I be more serious or playful? When I'm more serious I feel kinda boring but not somebody who is fucked with, and when I'm playful I can't see how any chick would want to hook up with me, I feel like that guy who makes them have a great time and laugh and shit, but not go home with me, I guess i need to find a middle line...how do I do this?

Yes I'm pretty much a noob, but like you guys said I was working on myself first, no worrying about girls for 4 months, getting in shape and progressing in my life, finding some hobbies, now I want to go back and just fuck all of my old girl friends who I find attractive, I feel like a caveman and it's incredibly difficult to tone down.

Also, should I bother with the girls I already know? Or just keep them as friends and find some more girls..I find one of them to be quite attractive but not in a one-itis way, if it's not worth the trouble I'll just leave them alone.

Thanks for help, these answers are weird but I am legit confused lol.