TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

_fishoutofwater_ Archive

View 3 posts and 54 comments by _fishoutofwater_ on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
3

Welp
/r/MensRights18/01/20 02:19 PM
-3

No one said women don’t do the same thing.....
/r/MensRights18/01/20 02:18 PM
2

You finding my comment demeaning doesn’t mean I intended it in that way & I even explained myself.
/r/MensRights18/01/20 02:04 PM
3

Yuppp. The same thing happens to some young women btw.
/r/MensRights18/01/20 01:56 PM
11

This has nothing to do with intelligence. This has to do with perception. Probably because men are receiving less compliments, their perception of a compliment from a woman now = romantic interest. I don’t know how it was in the past, but this is how it is now.
/r/MensRights18/01/20 01:39 PM
32

Feminists are a cancer to men and women. It’s unfortunate though just how hateful they are against men. They’ve turned the whole world against you and made it normal to use really cruel language.
/r/MensRights18/01/20 01:29 PM
-23

From the female perspective, the reason some women stop complimenting men is because men take it the wrong way. Saying “hey, you did a great job solving that problem” may result in miscommunication and thinking there’s some sort of love interest when there isn’t. I’m sorry that this is a problem in the male community. I do hope men become more supportive of one another.
/r/MensRights18/01/20 01:17 PM
47

Is this a joke? Are we going to deny that trans folks are born a different sex? This is literal FACT. Get over yourself. Ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:02 AM
1

This is a pretty asinine comment. Growing up with love doesn’t erase the trauma that comes from living in poverty, missing a parent, experiencing neglect or abuse from a close loved one or even a friend, etc. The statistics simply aren’t on your side. They are on OP’s. If you grow up without a father in America, you are 4x more likely to be poor, 7x more likely to become a pregnant teen, more likely to have behavioral and substance abuse problems, more likely to go to jail and more likely to go …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 12:46 PM
1

No, she did not mention race. She mentioned HER race to provide info on what she does. She did not attribute the overall post to race. Again, it’s not anecdotal that there are more poor white people than black people in America. This is fact. The reason there isn’t evidence on what poor white people do is because nobody cares. If you want to know how poor or disadvantaged white people engage, go visit your local orphanage. Again, the reason that a word may be attributed to one race or ethnicity …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 12:27 PM
1

She mentioned race because minorities in general tend to have low socioeconomic backgrounds. And believe it or not, this includes white people (i.e. middle easterners; yes, they’re considered racially white in the US). For the record, I know white people who grew up in the ghetto, and that’s literally what they call it. They refer to it as such because that’s what it is. Being white or black doesn’t change anything. Also, the reason that it’s attributed to one race is because one race uses that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:59 AM
4

She didn’t mention race. All the terms you’ve used can be applied to anyone who comes from a low socioeconomic background. In fact, there are more poor white people in America than black. There are more white “hoods” and “ghettos” in America than black. YOU are the one who’s attributing these terms to a specific race.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 05:38 AM
22

This is why complete abstinence is a good plan. Men are not worth the heart break, the STDs, or the disappointment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:09 AM
2

I understand, but I don’t see the motive to do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:25 PM
4

No. She’s not referring to them. She’s saying women should vote in their best interest AS MEN HAVE BEEN DOING. Not as politicians have been behaving. My goodness. This is so straightforward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:12 PM
2

Read the whole speech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:10 PM
3

How did you even reach this conclusion about me? I never said I’m anti abortion. All I said is that men and women equally support legal abortion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:10 PM
4

The full speech was about women’s choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:06 PM
2

I haven’t noticed any trends with a man’s relationship with his mother but I’ll be sure to look out for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 04:40 PM
3

That’s interesting. I’m guessing the good guy who doesn’t have sisters learned how to be a good man from seeing how his father interacted with his mother. But I also think those are rare, good men in general I mean, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 04:28 PM
7

Because they learn the true nature of men through their brothers telling them or just being the LVM we all have contempt for. So true. I wish I had a brother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 04:25 PM
29

100% agree. The good men I know also happen to be close to their sisters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 10:35 AM
5

Yeah I don’t understand my flair either 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 08:30 PM
23

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 06:12 PM
240

If you don’t shame women for being single, how are you going to convince them to settle for trash men and toxic relationships?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 05:53 PM
8

Yup. Me too. My issue is that eventually even taking actions stopped working. Couldn’t keep arguing every single day for really simple things to be honored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 04:20 AM
10

What an incredible partner. So happy for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 04:08 AM
22

I understand, but I also think there’s a difference between someone postponing a task and just blatantly ignoring your request the 20 times you’ve asked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 01:30 AM
41

Talking to someone who doesn’t care about you and how you feel is futile. If your partner cares, always use your words because it’s the adult thing to do. If you’re dating someone who doesn’t care about how you feel about something or the fact that something’s bothering you, you can use your actions until it drives you up the wall and then the relationship collapses because this is simply not a sustainable way to do things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 12:43 AM
4

You are so young and so accomplished, I’m proud of you and you should be proud of yourself too! Sometimes it seems like a relationship is amazing and almost like a necessity to be happy, especially when you’re surrounded by people who are in one and look insanely happy. I’m here to tell you it’s not always what people make it out to be. It’s not a relationship that you should be desiring, or even a partner. It should be a GOOD man who wants to love you, honor you and respect you. Who wants to ap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:14 PM
5

As much as I don’t want to say it’s you, I think self reflection is good. There may be some behavior you have that is making it difficult for someone to bond with you or may just be irritating to some. Try asking a family member or a close friend for their opinion, but make sure it’s a trusted source. Also, it could just not be you, but the guys you pursue or allow to pursue you. The bottom line is that you need to self reflect and see what went wrong, where, with who, and why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:04 PM
18

Seeing how Hillary stayed with her husband after he lied to her and the entire country and preyed on someone using the power dynamics is just nasty. Hillary is also known for switching to whatever view makes money. Home girl was once against LGBT marriages, was and still is openly racist to black people and Asians, stole from Haiti, was responsible for many disastrous coups in the Middle East, and the list goes on. Hillary is about as true to her truth as I am close to being Adriana Lima.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 04:53 AM
17

Yeah. The mommy complex is unfortunately tied to many cultures; i.e. Desi and Middle Eastern.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 03:18 AM
3

The solution to this is to resist rushing into a marriage, not to live together and risk pregnancy, put yourself in direct danger with an abusive monkey, and entangle your financials. With that being said, I’m really sorry you found yourself in this situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 10:53 PM
24

A lot of the time we lie to ourselves and say these words are just words and they don’t mean them and it doesn’t hurt. It does. It especially hurts that these are men we trusted enough to open up to who then go and call us these names and try to wound us really bad. Men are legitimate jerks. Deep down I want to believe in the “not all” rule, but it’s getting exceedingly more difficult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 09:22 PM
39

100% agree. It’s really hard to know someone loves you but isn’t willing to lift a pinky to honor you and make you happy at all. It actually makes it harder to leave because you continuously keep thinking his love will make him change his behavior. Here to tell you it won’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 09:17 PM
2

Research shows that couples that live together before they get married are more likely to have their marriages fall apart. Would not recommend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 06:30 PM
48

Let’s also not forget how BEYONCÉ got cheated on by Jay Z 🤢🤢🤢 how he got her to even go out with him is BEYOND ME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 06:30 PM
29

If he’s too busy to fly out then he’ll be too busy to hang out with you when you fly out to see him. This is way too sus. He could have all the money in the world and still be a psychopath. You don’t know this guy and I think you should prioritize your safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 04:26 AM
21

No I’m saying why doesn’t he fly into your town? why is he offering to have you fly out instead of coming himself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 03:43 AM
29

Why doesn’t he fly out to meet you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 03:41 AM
23

Your virginity is not a burden. Stop giving it much thought. If anything, a HVM will appreciate it more. Don’t lose it to some rando on the internet. NO LOSER DESERVES A PART OF YOU YOU CANNOT GET BACK. Keep waiting for the right guy. It’s worth it, I promise. You do not want to regret doing something with something, which you will if it’s some rando loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:40 PM
12

Honestly just the fact that you’re not cool with it should be a good enough reason for him to let it go. And yes, I 100% agree with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 06:07 PM
57

No. Just no. My boyfriend himself is completely against it and thinks it’s incredibly degenerate. The concept itself is so stupid. Why are you “celebrating your last night of freedom” when you chose to get married bro? And why would our boyfriends want to go to these parties to help someone celebrate something so pathetic where most of the time things go south? No thanks. Would rather not risk my relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:55 PM
3

Nothing you asked for was unreasonable or excessive. This is all normal, and even simply expected with HVM. My boyfriend never needed to be told not to follow other women or like their posts. And following people’s private Instagram accounts with only a handful of people is sussss... we all know finstas are not always PG. don’t feel like you lost something, you really didn’t. Breakups are just tough initially because you’re thrown into a lot of change at once but eventually that’ll become the no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 02:31 AM
80

Men like this are actual filth. And the thing is, even if she worked and earned her own money he’d critique her and try to police her spending on the premise that she’s not saving fOr ThE FaMiLy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 01:33 AM
2

I’m the exact same height, minus a kid. I think losing weight is possible without surgery. Sure, you can’t do much about stretch marks or excess skin, but you most certainly can lose weight if you really want to. It takes a good diet and setting aside 30-45 mins everyday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 01:30 AM
9

What is he doing following these girls on Instagram for? Like, what’s the purpose? Let’s assume they’re acquaintances because let’s be real, he doesn’t see them as friends; WHY does he need to see their pictures? And at the expense of his relationship? That’s so ridiculous. It’s also incredibly sus to not want to post about your relationship a year in. I didn’t want to post in the beginning either because I believe in the evil eye and didn’t want gossip. But a year and a half in I’m literally fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 01:25 AM
9

I’ve done this a hundred and one times but we always end up getting back together so that’s a different story. Just block him and get rid of anything that has his memory on it (gifts, pictures, clothes, etc). The humiliation will eventually subside. He’s a depraved man and whether or not he gets back with his ex won’t matter in the long run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 01:20 AM
6

If you’re in a relationship with a good man and you want it to work out, cut your past off completely. Why are you engaging with someone who treated you poorly; to tell him? He knows, he just doesn’t care. Block them all and move forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:59 AM
54

I would include a description of this loser in the letter because more than likely he won’t own up and no one else will rat him out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 08:58 PM
3

In Arabic whenever a woman is old and unmarried they say she missed the train. So one time I said this in front of my mom and she said “better for you to miss the train than for it to run you over”. We all long for a life partner to love and be loved by, who will be our confidant and person to turn to when life gets hard, but unfortunately that’s just getting more and more rare. Life is already difficult enough as it is on its own. No need to get married to the wrong person and suffer even more …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 04:28 PM
1

My boyfriend’s dad is an angel but his mom.... not so much. Sadly this advice isn’t applicable to all cases. If anything, I feel like some mothers (particularly ethnic moms) encourage their sons to be entitled things that think women should bow down at their beck and call otherwise WOMEN BAD. And the rationale behind it is these women want someone to serve their son AND the family. It’s actually a whole other disaster that may just pertain to certain cultures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 07:19 AM
8

This is awesome! Would like to just say that if he is actually serious about you, don’t let the age get in the way! You guys could have a wonderful future together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 07:09 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter