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not many people understand the importance of inner game. people only want to know the tricks. focusing on yourself and then applying the tricks is what will get you long term success
/r/seduction02/10/19 07:52 PM
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Take out some time and read, "The Game" and "Book of Pook"
/r/seduction02/10/19 07:46 PM
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Point Noted.
/r/seduction19/09/19 11:02 AM
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Read The Book of Pook
/r/seduction01/09/19 06:28 PM
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great man! keep pushing you got this.
/r/seduction01/09/19 01:29 PM
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Why do you need others to make you feel confident mate? i suggest you to develop yourself in such a way that you dont need others around you to feel confident. Its like "give the man a fish and you feed him for a day, teach him how to fish and you feed him for lifetime" kinda thing. Anyway, good luck
/r/seduction01/09/19 01:25 PM
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I cant help here i am afraid
/r/seduction17/08/19 02:45 PM
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1) Ofcourse you should let her know youre interested in her, but in a smart way. Don't go drooling over her looks and smile and shit like that, millions of guys tell her the same thing in her dms. What can be done is just praise her dressing sense, social awareness or stuffs like that which one generally develops not something that a man is born with. Dont make it tough dor for yourself, apart from that it is very important to establish the fact that you can walk away too. Dont let her know she …
/r/seduction17/08/19 11:21 AM
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You could try multiple dating and then focuse on all the ladies, that way you wont end up with only one lady.
/r/seduction17/08/19 11:09 AM
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Yes man , willing to crash and burn is important no doubt. And kudos to you! Keep shining!
/r/seduction08/08/19 07:32 PM
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Be your best self. If you guys end up together she will remember this meeting forever. So you know you have to be well groomed and at your best. But my bro, dont take pressure. Often people give their best when they are carefree. So chill and act like the prize. You are awesome im sure. Dont be the nice guy tho, i am saying this over and over again, people ruin their chances by caring too much. She doesnt need a father to pet her but a man who could stand up for her. Be that man what i believe y…
/r/seduction08/08/19 07:31 PM
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Get to meet her first and then build up a conversation and make her feel comfortable. But dont be the good guy. Try a bit of banter too. Be the alpha. Always better if you make her feel comfortable cause of the fact that she is shy and all as you mentioned. From the first meet, build up for the second. Then by the end of second meet she should be comfortable. Try not texting too much man. That kills the personal touch to a conversation. And if anytime she mentions that youre too young for her, u…
/r/seduction08/08/19 05:15 PM
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You could simply start working out and go with your plans to approach. You donot have to wait long enough to lose weight. Working out will put you in a better mental state, the fact that youre willing to lose weight before approaching women is a shit excuse that your brain is giving to keep you in the comfort zone. Hence, donot consider it. We have all been rejected! Even the best ones. So dont take it seriously, there is nothing wrong with you. Keep going and keep hustling. Youre a champ! But w…
/r/seduction18/07/19 02:58 AM
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If a girl had dropped those bombs on me. I would fail miserably, take them personally and then engage in a verbal spat
/r/seduction18/07/19 02:53 AM
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Dude donot offer to pick her up. Ask her to meet you where you plan to go. And dont take so much pressure. Youre the prize, remember that. Be a nice person and speak politely. And make sure you make casual physical contact like really casual ones while talking. Dont get too far with it. And keep firm eye contact. Nothing more. Be yourself and speak your heart out without any fear. The moment you think what shes thinking about you, its the moment you screw it up. So get on my champ!
/r/seduction15/07/19 06:51 PM
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The cat string theory man! You gotta play the push pull. Give a backhanded compliment. Dont fall all over her. Be the alpha she wants inside her
/r/seduction15/07/19 06:45 PM
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Good man! The fact that you improved yourself only for yourself and nobody else is very good. Keep going. Keep interacting.
/r/seduction12/07/19 08:17 PM
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Look its simple. You need to develop an abundance mentality in order to say these words. You need to believe that there are bundles of girls for you. So where one is fucking you over by asking this lets be friends shit. That destroys your intent. So better play to your powers. Trust me anything said with confidence and right tonality can persuade any girl
/r/seduction12/07/19 02:48 PM
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It shows intent , confidence and puts you in a higher social status. Lets them know you will do things your way. And the best way to find out is to try infield. In the game, possibilities are endless.
/r/seduction12/07/19 04:41 AM
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Listen next time anyone puts you in such a place by limiting you as a friend, simply say- "umm... I cant promise anything like that. Friends dont put each others into boxes like that. All i can promise is not to do anything untill both of us are ready, willing and comfortable."
/r/seduction12/07/19 04:19 AM
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Yes exactly. Well done. Your intent would never be served if you had went out with the group. Stay true to your intent. Always.
/r/seduction09/07/19 06:49 PM
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Dude never go along with her group. Cancel the plan at the last moment (a day before). There is no point going with her if she carries her team around. You are above this. Next time when you ask her out, make sure you let her know that it will be 1v1.
/r/seduction09/07/19 06:44 PM
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Donot do it! The game is interesting but don't make it your lifestyle.
/r/seduction09/07/19 06:19 PM
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Go there man! Meet new people and who knows you might end up finding someone great. Its better than staying back home and warming your ass
/r/seduction09/07/19 06:18 PM
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Hahah, how old were you when you realised that the letter Y in "Your Girl" was silent 😂
/r/seduction09/07/19 09:08 AM
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No no. After you have planned the date. You should not talk about the date in a super excited context. What you did when you asked her out was normal. So dont fuss about it. Now when you text her, don't talk about the date. You could do that 2 days before the planned date. That day you could ask her "Tell me 3 things that we should do when i take you out?" See, this would help plan the date accordingly
/r/seduction09/07/19 08:59 AM
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My man, if you feel like texting and having a good convo then do text. But while texting dont show that you are excited about the date and stuff. That would lower your social value. Instead 2 days before the date you could hit her up to confirm whether the plan was still on or not. You could ask her how her day was but small chit chats would be better imo rather than long passionate conversation. Keep the long passionate convos up to you when the two of you meet. The problem with most of the guy…
/r/seduction09/07/19 08:49 AM
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Its not a quote lol, just came up with it. And yes, we're in it together! PickUp-Buddies Lol
/r/seduction08/07/19 07:52 PM
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Dude, this is me. Same stuff happens to me. I just cant find the balls to do it. Thoughts like "Youre better alone, you dont meed them" comes to my mind and i pull off. Facing this since last 6 months. But still i hope theres some light at the end of this tunnel and better things are waiting once we start. To start is to do. So go for it man.
/r/seduction08/07/19 07:28 PM
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Look man texting game has been outdated now. Better do the right thing which is to converse in person. That would develop your personality to and have an interpersonal touch to it. Texting doesnt reciprocate proper human emotion. Words can be misunderstood.
/r/seduction08/07/19 06:44 PM
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Well open both of them up. Do a best friends test. Demonstrate value to the set. Then neg the one youre attracted to. Dont give her the attention you want to and then after a while hit on her and ask her out. By that time, impress her partner who is the distraction.
/r/seduction08/07/19 06:37 PM
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There is no feeling lonely in a healthy way. You always feel lonely in an unhealthy way. But bro, you need to get it that this is a part of life that you cannot change. You just have to cope up with it and the best way is to love yourself first and above others. Be absolutely selfish when it comes to self care
/r/seduction08/07/19 06:35 PM
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Trust me you can never stop feeling lonely, even if you find the lady of your dreams. Its just a part of life. What you can do is, you can learn to love yourself and enjoy your own company and make yourself a priority.
/r/seduction08/07/19 06:06 PM
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Tell her how you feel. And then follow it up with this text.. We have this idea that love is supposed to last forever. But love isnt like that. Its a free flowing energy that comes and goes when it pleases. Sometimes it stays for life, other times for seconds, a day, month, or a year. So don't fear love when it comes to you simply because it makes you vulnerable. But dont be surprised when it leaves either. Just be glad that you had the opportunity to experience it.
/r/seduction08/07/19 06:03 PM
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Haha thanks man.
/r/seduction07/07/19 08:33 PM
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Theres this book called, "The Secret" preaching the law of attraction that i read recently. Which was pretty good and then theres "The Game" by Neil Strauss that helped a lot. But dont be dependent on these books. Just learn from it and apply it your way. Remember you are different and special.
/r/seduction07/07/19 08:11 PM
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Yes bro, i know. I am searching for my inner self rn. When i find the answer, i will do stuff. I believe. But that needs some time and patience. Let's see how it goes through.
/r/seduction07/07/19 08:09 PM
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Look man, never do this stuff through someone elses perspective. Just explore and improvise yourself. Who knows you may develop a better method? We are all different. Thats our superpower. But the basics, as per me, should be kept in mind always.. 1) Approach with intent. Never approach a girl just because shes beautiful. Approach only when you feel a strong connection. This means she could also be a HB4. But when you push yourself. Be true. Have a conversation. 2) Expect nothing. This is where …
/r/seduction07/07/19 08:00 PM
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Its been 5 years for me man. But dont worry. Dont take this stuff personally. Just keep doing it not out of desperation but as an act of improving your social stand. Funny how nice advice i can give but can do absolutely fuckall for myself lol.
/r/seduction07/07/19 07:42 PM
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Hey my name is XYZ but you could call me yours
/r/seduction07/07/19 07:40 PM
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Let me tell you something my man. its been around months since i have been finding the balls to approach women and yet i havent found any. The fact that you went up to 3 HBs in a single day motivated me. Youre better than me here. Keep going and keep sharing. So dont look down on yourself. You are a special guy who is willing to improve. So chin up champ!
/r/seduction07/07/19 07:36 PM
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My man , well done. I have chickened out all of the times when i went out and then regret as fuck when i return home. I wish I could change that but now I am working on it and am sure that there are better days down the tunnel waiting. Reading your story game me a good feeling as i could connect with how you felt during the approaches. Just glad you found the balls and hope you find the stunning better half of yours ASAP and have a blast.. cheers.
/r/seduction07/07/19 07:31 PM
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Dream first date doesnt exiss.......
/r/seduction04/07/19 06:03 PM
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1: what if i approach a girl who is out of my league and she just shoos me away in front of everyone. I will become a joke 2- what if her friends laugh at me and make fun of me. 3- what if i just start mispronouncing stuffs and just cant get my voice out of my mouth when infront of a girl 4- what if i get slapped 5- what if everyone out there looks at me and judges me 6- what if she insults me by saying that i dont deserve her Mind you mate, already i have 0 confidence and the thought of losing …
/r/seduction29/06/19 06:17 PM
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Man even i have been facing the same odds lately. Whenever i see a girl who is damn attractive i just want to go and say a hi. But then mentally i fuck this up and reject myself and then i persuade myself that my life is better off and mind you i havent dated in the last 5 years. Trust me it feels the worst but i am trying to bring about a change and i feel thats what matters. I know about the 3 sec rule but still dont have the guts to follow it. God help me guys!
/r/seduction26/06/19 02:43 AM
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Well that sounds weird
/r/seduction24/06/19 07:15 AM
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This was everything but short
/r/seduction24/06/19 02:42 AM
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Very well said! Small things that nobody talks about.
/r/seduction23/06/19 06:06 PM
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That escalated quickly, okay i'll use it
/r/seduction22/06/19 12:38 PM
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Yo dude i dont wanna offend people
/r/seduction22/06/19 12:14 PM
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Gotcha! Thanks
/r/seduction22/06/19 10:45 AM
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Logistics as in? Sorry i am not familiar with these terms.
/r/seduction22/06/19 10:08 AM
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Yeah mate. Thanks though! Any texting advice to improve my texting game?
/r/seduction22/06/19 10:03 AM
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Lol no she aint like this atleast.
/r/seduction22/06/19 09:03 AM
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Nice try. And moreover beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder mate
/r/seduction22/06/19 08:51 AM
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Man its been about 5 yrs since i broke up already have had quite a few crushes and yet never could approach one cause of the fear of rejection and whenever got to text anyone ( if got lucky enough to get their no's) would end up playing the good guy card and then everything fall apart. Need help brothers
/r/seduction21/06/19 08:04 PM
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