| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 92 | Why are men like this? | RANT | _narrowstraits_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:38 PM |
| 69 | When your ex messages you on Google docs | #JustLVMThings | _narrowstraits_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 04:51 PM |
| 64 | This is just so dumb it makes my head hurt | LVM LOGIC | _narrowstraits_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 03:36 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | "If we ask for consent we're afraid you'll say no so we just do it while you're unconscious and hope you'll never know the difference." Thankfully the laws are changing but in many states doctors are still allowed to perform unnecessary pelvic exams to women under anesthesia without their consent.I thought the speculum was to look at your cervix? Is it not? Legit question not trying to start anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Banned from other subs just for being a member of FDS?Tbf you don’t have to be a mom to know when some shit is dumb af. I do have sympathy because being a mom is hard, but not too much because these women simp for lvm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 01:05 AM |
| 1 | I think this is supposed to be a joke, but I’m certain there are men who feel this way.He’s too ugly for that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 12:43 AM |
| 7 | Why do people call women materialistic for wanting nice things?What’s bad about lab grown diamonds? I thought they were better than natural ones because of all the human rights violations in the mining of diamonds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 11:15 PM |
| 29 | If he gets a boner when you cry, RUN. That is a Pavlovian response from watching too much violent abuse porn. He has literally trained his brain to be sexually aroused by women's pain.Oh sorry. I forgot the whole KiNk movement poisoning things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 10:58 PM |
| 22 | If he gets a boner when you cry, RUN. That is a Pavlovian response from watching too much violent abuse porn. He has literally trained his brain to be sexually aroused by women's pain.Do people genuinely need to be told this? I’m not the brightest but this seems obvious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 10:16 PM |
| 16 | I'm a porn addict, my wife forced herself to watch with me instead of asserting healthy boundaries. Now we are divorcing, she resents me. It couldn't have been the porn. Anyone? 🤡Right? I read this and got jealous. A house? Good kids? Travel? Sounds beautiful. Only thing spoiling it seems to be him and his nasty habits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 01:27 AM |
| 7 | Men frame women's sexuality as desiring to be looked at, as passive object brought to life by lustful male gazes. Women's sexual desire is suppressed by men using shame and gaslighting.Thanks for the book recommendation! Love me a good citation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 01:09 AM |
| 7 | Gaslighters typically begins gradually, with a snide comment or critical remark disguised as a joke. They may then deny having said or done something, tell blatant lies and eventually wear down your sanity. The more aware you are of their techniques, the better you can protect yourself.Hey OP (or anyone else) I have a legitimate question for you. As someone who is got diagnosed medical problems that lead to a goldfish memory, how do I avoid unintentionally gaslighting? Obviously I don’t go “sorry u feel that way bb”, but like often I deadass don’t remember certain events happening and it’s hard to bring that up without being a dick. I’d stay quiet, but at the same time, sometimes events don’t happen as the other person remembered them and my memory is correct. I can’t really d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 01:05 AM |
| 20 | Fat lvm hitting on fit womenYour boss ain’t a HVW. Homies don’t do each other like that. She might be a cool person, but no more dating advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 12:55 AM |
| 25 | Finally this depraved bullshit is facing some backlash in young malesPro tip: don’t give your exact age on the internet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 11:05 PM |
| 3 | I hate (priveledged) sex workersI just want to say something about terminology that really bugs me. SEX WORK IS WORK. I hate it, it’s bad and degrading but IT IS WORK. Whether you think something is a worthy job or not doesn’t make it work, it’s the money changing hands for a service (this one is women’s bodies, blech). Why are we getting bogged down in terminology. Being “work” or not isn’t what makes the argument, it’s the fact that it ruins lives that’s the problem. For example, child labor is work. Is it good? No. Is it wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 12:14 AM |
| 2 | I hate (priveledged) sex workersIt is work it’s just shitty. Like child labor is work just crappy work. Sex work is work, but it doesn’t mean anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 12:05 AM |
| 4 | If being a straight heterosexual man means you're attracted to women then there are not that many straight heterosexual men out there. Most men ARE NOT attracted to women, they just like girls.I hate this because it’s right. I have a lot of juvenile traits, like big eyes and small body, and men get DISAPPOINTED when I say I’m 19. It’s just the novelty of being the one to ruin a new toy. Once you’re not new, they don’t care. I’ve had men do a 180 and say I’m fat and used up right after “complimenting” how tiny I am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Why we don’t do clapbacksHow are you not going to respect your own time. It’s precious! Why waste it on someone nasty when there are a million other things to do. That’s the whole idea. You are important. Too important to waste breath and brain cells coming up with a clap back for someone who’s basically illiterate. You’re just playing yourself by giving it away freely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 11:23 PM |
| 2 | What are physical insecurities that a man has drilled into you?I just wanted to say I love your writing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 11:15 PM |
| 4 | Just an FYI if you are on birth controlSource? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 06:25 PM |
| 4 | You should still get std tests even when you are in a relationship.Which ones??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 11:42 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inHe died nvm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 09:59 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI’m at a loss here. My life has kinda gone to shit. I’m a college student who was supposed to be at home for spring break and now I’m taking care of my dad full time. He was disabled and then he got into a car accident, he now requires full time care like a baby. My boyfriend has moved in and we’re taking care of him but I’m at a loss as to what to do long term. We’re both college students doing online school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 03:09 AM |
| 5 | Guy begs and pleads with me to keep him entertained during his flight 🤣A begging face like the kind animals and small children make when you have treats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 02:57 AM |
| 34 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.Bisexual here! Sadly I’m just a skinny chick who has a boyfriend, not a 500 pound landwhale who eats cats and men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:00 AM |
| 12 | COSMO wants y’all to know that Armie Hammer’s Cannibalism Fetish isn’t the problem here and people are “distorting” it. Because nothing screams “safe and sane” like Cannibalism Play.What in the pickme fuck? I knew cosmo was bad but I figured the line would be drawn at fucking vore. What a joke. Wanting to harm your partner isn’t normal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:13 PM |
| 10 | Rape by deceptionThank you for sharing your story that must’ve been hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 11:02 PM |
| 2 | My flair got upgraded 😎Oooh flair check time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 12:02 AM |
| 1 | I don’t even have anything to say but I am disgustedI almost accidentally downvoted you out of instinct because this post was so gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 09:40 PM |
| 19 | Sex with a HVMAlso remember that some people are naturally dryer so lube might be necessary. I didn’t enjoy sex until I started using lube | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 10:57 AM |
| 2 | Scrote is mad in the comments 😂I got my 10 year old cousin a ring like that. Money aside, what man is STUPID enough to think a ring like that is fit for a grown woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 03:46 PM |
| 2 | When older men shame younger girls that they need to have kids ASAP for biological reasons, but still think they are forever fertile. Rant in the comments:My mother didn’t end up freezing her eggs, but she got a fertility treatment which is basically what they do before they take your eggs. She said she had to give herself shots everyday and she gained a lot of weight. I would say it’s a good call if you’re 200% sure you want kids, but not something to do if you’re on the fence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Random Things That Are An Immediate Swipe LeftWhere the hell do you live if people call themselves cannabis farmers? Isn’t that illegal? Who is stupid enough to incriminate themselves to sound cool on some dating app? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Random Things That Are An Immediate Swipe LeftI want to join their group! That sounds empowering as hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 07:47 PM |
| 70 | I raise you Over 30s Midwestern LVM starterpack.No dead doe dripping blood :( just not the same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 01:00 AM |
| 5 | Women who are not similarly women-centered will take you for granted.Sigh. I’m locked down in a rural republican state and I’m having so much trouble. I know I’m strong enough to be alone I just don’t want to ya know? Never been terribly social but this is a bit much for me. What do you do when you’re all alone? FDS or not, humans need socialization. And I’ve already got a dog. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Not funny in any way, shape or form.I am so surprised he didn't get a right hook to the gut the first time he tried... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 07:05 PM |
| 28 | What I achieved a year after breakup vs what my ex has achievedGood for you! Don't let him take up space in your head though. Use your energy to continue what you're doing, not keeping tabs on a piece of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Husband tries to convince wife to let him buy a sex doll. Wife’s self esteem is low due to people in his social circle criticizing her appearance. A lot to unpack here. I think we have a rescue mission.Pleaseeeeee send her FDS she deserves better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 03:22 PM |
| 3 | I Don’t Think Women Talk about Childbirth EnoughThank you for the good sources I really appreciate this. About to boost a school project! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Do any of you have HVM dads?Yes! I love my dad so much. My earliest memories were of him taking off work to take me on hikes and paint my nails. He learned how to style my sister and I's curly hair (well!) despite having arthritis and gout in his hands and being half blind. When he and my mother divorced (they just grew apart, nothing terrible), he didn't fight for custody of us and focused on keeping family life consistent. He quit his job more than once to be able to take care of my sister and I, moved across the country… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, expecting a father to support his child financially is LITERALLY MURDERWhy fucking have kids if you don't want to pay for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 01:58 AM |
| 11 | Feminine "hygiene"Doesn't it mess up your ph which makes the bad smell? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 07:30 PM |
| 8 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits continues their Pro-Pedophile agenda by smearing FDSers concerned about protecting gay youth from predatory adult men as “hateful”. Makes extremely homophobic claims that FDSers are “Political Lesbians”.I don't understand this at all. Aren't most women in FDS on here because we're tired of men's shit, including rape? Nobody here is saying rape is okay. If anything, we're stricter against rape/abuse because even the precursors are not acceptable behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 09:50 PM |
| 1 | The HIGHEST Level Of Attracting WomenYou literally do use tactics? You mentioned a mascule leading power in your post? Reading comprehension? First of all, men do not own their women, they are simply partnered. Growth is good, but you model a romantic relationship as a teacher/student relationship, which is frankly disgusting. Everything should be mutual and equivalent. You wouldn't know women if one hit you with her purse, which I'm sure has happened before. This may work in the 50's, but in the modern world you are a disgusting l… | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 04:31 AM |
| 1 | The HIGHEST Level Of Attracting WomenGoing through your profile...disgusting. I will say you have a knack for finding women at a low in their life, that's the only way these dumb tactics would work. I don't know how to say it, but you're just fundamentally wrong. Yes you are successful in finding partners, but with unbalanced power dynamics such as the ones you talk about, you will never create a healthy relationship. Sorry your mommy didn't love you enough. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 04:23 AM |
| 1 | The HIGHEST Level Of Attracting WomenThis is actually just the worst thing I've read on here. Women do not want a God, and do not want to be lead around like a dog. You are arrogant, narcissistic, and quite possibly stupid. Women (I know this because I am one) want a partner. Not your masculine leading energy or whatever buzzword you pulled out of your ass. Please go get some help. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 04:19 AM |
| 2 | When Keeping it “Woke” Goes Wrong. Male Vegan Activists brand women with hot irons to demonstrate what “Animals Feel Like”. TRIGGER WARNING/NSFW!!Wasn't there a literal cult that did this to women? Like a sex cult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 07:56 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on AbortionThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on AbortionDo you have a source? Very interested in this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 07:15 PM |
| 4 | I was reading an article about 23 ways that exes try to Hoover you back in. My ex has done at least half of them just in the last few weeks. Sound familiar?What is hoovering? Can you send me the article you read? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, what's the worst excuse you've heard for men performing poorly in bed? For me, it was," the hotter the girl is, the harder it is for the guy to last long. It's a compliment to your beauty."I know this isn't the question but here's a good reason: change in medication or just some medications in general. Happens to men and women. Although doctors don't usually tell women because they assume women aren't focused on sex, so be sure to look up the side effects of your new medicines. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 07:29 PM |
| 1 | This is just so dumb it makes my head hurtThank you for letting me know! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 05:52 PM |
| 36 | This is just so dumb it makes my head hurtI literally had to explain to my friend why it was dumb as hell to force a number out of someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 03:42 AM |
| 32 | This is just so dumb it makes my head hurtProtip- If someone doesn't want to text you back, don't make them. This is terrible advice, the original protip is the way to go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 03:38 AM |
| 1 | The worst advice ever. There is like a million reasons they might forget to call you/ be shy themselves or just simply think you’re “meh” at first. Grab life by the balls and you call them! Its all on you.This is literally terrible advice lol. I guess this is why you're still looking though. | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Been wondering for some time; how many neurodivergent women are here?Omg same here but I'm younger. Do you have any advice for someone bipolar in college? I'm medicated but things aren't perfect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 01:51 AM |
| 2 | When your ex messages you on Google docsI've heard of people reaching out through venmo but they usually pay go instead of asking for money. Glad you're done with his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 10:47 PM |
| 3 | When your ex messages you on Google docsIt's his document that I edited (ie wrote) in my pick-me days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:07 PM |
| 81 | When your ex messages you on Google docsI thought I blocked him on everything! Not google docs apparently... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Except none of ‘em are ever this fit.His sperm is all dried up how's he think that is gonna work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Most**Ex boyfriend kept rubbing my pubic mound, like the part with the hair on it. What a joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 11:52 PM |
| 2 | What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice?I love my dog too! She's the best at sniffing out a LVM or LVW. Anyone that doesn't pass her test doesn't even get let into my house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Notice the Way His Dog BehavesCould you go to an event with a therapy dog or something? Like meet a really well trained dog that's calm so you can get used to them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 02:09 AM |
| 1 | could it be possible that there are women diagnosed with BPD (borderline personality disorder) who are simply wayward pickmes?You realize that BPD has nothing to do with upbringing and is mainly chemical, ie heritary? Your observation is of a limited group of people not necessarily reflective of the whole group, which you are using to create a stereotype. I'd recommend you look more closely into BPD before making a blanket statement, I say this being a bipolar woman myself. Also let's not have a knockdown dragout in the comment section, we're all here for FDS and to support each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 09:44 PM |
| 1 | What are some FDS teachings you wish our society would teach young adults? What are FDS teachings you wish were role modeled to you growing up? What information do you think should be taught in schools and other settings? If you had to learn them later on, when did that moment "click" for you?Could someone help me with where to start with financial literacy? I've been fine managing my budget with a minimum wage job but I just got a good chunk of money and have no idea how to use it beneficially. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 08:23 AM |
| 2 | My heart breaks for her. Wish I didn't read this.I hope she sues him for the damage he caused, i bet she has record of the plants she had. It wouldn't fix it, or even come close, but legal revenge helps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 07:51 AM |
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