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| 83 | Plate of 1yr recently got told she has cancer and is starting treatment soon. I'm experiencing feeling I haven't had before. Possibly not TRP related. Just after some advice or something.The Autists have truly run amok. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Question for People that are 35+ and singleI think this is a very valid point. Most people would be about retirement age once your kid is about a teenager, which would for sure have its bonuses. But there still stands some other points, one being physical health. These adopted parents maybe were quite lucky in that their health stayed pretty good later in life? Also...what age were the kids? I don’t for one second believe you can’t be a great parent when you’re 50+, I just think it’s better to be a little younger. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Question for People that are 35+ and singleNice, an apt quote thanks for that, expresses the notion a lot better than I ever could. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 07:41 PM |
| 7 | Question for People that are 35+ and singleTotally agree. Kids at 50 is absurd. You’re gonna be grandpa age when your kid is in his 30s. IF you even make it to their 30th that is. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 05:02 PM |
| 19 | Question for People that are 35+ and singleThat “pool of girls” point is so interesting, that should be a fucking post in itself man, honestly. I’ve mentioned it before that I used to dress very “indie” in the mid 2000s in the UK, I was young and good looking and the girls interested in bands/indie music/etc knew I suited that type/frame and fucked me ad nauseum. However, girls outside of that weren’t that interested. I think your attractiveness goes up or down depending on which world you are inhabiting and how well you inhabit it. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 05:00 PM |
| 4 | I lost my frame for one moment and it cost me big time. Don't lose your frame.“Autistically followed advice from internet strangers on how to act in the real world and it all crumbled apart” Jokes aside, it kind of sounds like (maybe I’m wrong) that you treated her the way because you were told she’d like it. Unfortunately it’s not universal. Apologising was not what fucked this up, pretending to be something you’re not, did. “I was strong and confident and dominant and this is so in built deep down into my core that when you reject me it will write on the internet about … | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 06:55 PM |
| 1 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksYep, this. OP is trying to rationalise her behaviour. Doesn’t sound like he has abundance. A few years ago before TRP this is the EXACT type of indirect way I’d get into the vicinity of a woman. If drinking alcohol together is mentioned it’s a red flag, because like others have noticed, that’s just a way of things happening and being able to blame the drink. It also adds excitement. I get it though OP, in my head when I imagined a girl being friends with a guy for 10 years and then meeting up, i… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 09:28 AM |
| 45 | Girlfriend and parents died in 2020, I can't take it anymoreBig love brother, we’re here for you. Don’t give a FUCK about alpha or beta or any fucking bullshit. Reach out, see friends and look after yourself. Your brothers are here for you. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 12:39 AM |
| 2 | One trait that distinguishes alphas from betasI agree to an extent. I mean genuinely nuanced information, I don’t mean the guys who ask for cheat codes/easier ways of doing anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/21 06:09 PM |
| 8 | Is Black Pill full of shit?It’s very dangerous, it reminds me of religious thinking, that everything we believe is off bounds from criticism, and any criticism must come from fringe crack pot groups because all the ideas and beliefs are so perfect. Dangerous. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/21 02:10 PM |
| 12 | Is Black Pill full of shit?Wow, if ever there was one statement that epitomised what’s wrong with TRP currently, it is THIS. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/21 01:24 PM |
| 15 | One trait that distinguishes alphas from betasThis is true EVENTUALLY, but I don’t get why new guys who want to ask for specific info on askTRP get burned so much. We get it, you know TRP, but why act like you can just read something and automatically start acting that way? Reality doesn’t work that way. This is some Mark Manson level “hey man, just stop giving a fuck, okay?” Yeah it looks cool when you can give advice out made for a reality that is completely binary, like psychology, culture and personality doesn’t exist. Also if you just … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/21 10:37 AM |
| 158 | I’m legit an asshole what do I doThis is what happens when dudes discover TRP and spend too much time on it. Way over-compensating. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 10:34 AM |
| 7 | How do you mentally prepare yourself for the day?Ahh okay that makes a lot more sense. I think it's a little disingenuous to put forward that type of routine whilst also having a lot of chores taken care of. I think a lot of guys need to start with good, small, adaptable habits rather than staring at "discipline porn" and jacking themselves to hell. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 10:26 AM |
| 26 | How do you mentally prepare yourself for the day?This is like YouTube morning routine video cringe on crack. “I wake up half an hour before I go to bed...” | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 09:32 AM |
| 31 | Are all girls aged 18 to 30 the fucking same or what?Don't think you got it, chief. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/20 09:06 AM |
| 3 | Daily reminder: don’t be a bitchHere we are, Mr. I Know TRP - lIfT, FInAnCe, sIdEbAr, dGaF, no U Autistic. He’s not bragging, he’s sharing it to show in-game that this attitude yields results you wouldn’t expect (if you don’t know TRP). Getting so bored of guys discovering TRP and making every askTRP post a put down because they’ve done it wrong, get a life. How come you’re not busy lIfTiNg and fInAncIng? | /r/askTRP | 23/11/20 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Serious question, how do you guys have the time to chase girls?yeah it can't be a brag because reading between the lines it seems like you haven't gotten laid in a long while. how could you? you're sO bUsY. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/20 03:36 PM |
| 9 | Serious question, how do you guys have the time to chase girls?If you have such little time, what are you doing on Reddit? | /r/askTRP | 17/11/20 02:58 PM |
| 18 | Serious question, how do you guys have the time to chase girls?So was this a genuine question or a humble brag? Kinda hard to tell. If you went out drinking a few times a month, chased some snatch, and missed a few days of the gym, you won't, in fact, turn into a 98-pound weakling. Have some fun, take a day or two off once in a while, don't be so spergy about it. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/20 01:26 PM |
| 6 | Can we please ban newbie posts that clearly haven’t read the sidebar?this dude posted a (now legendary) post on askTRP, which he has since deleted cos everyone was calling him a giant sperg. it was the most cringey post in the history of askTRP. he said something about telling a girl to fuck off, made her cry and then told her he needed to "get a juicy pump on" (lift weights) instead of fucking her. something like that, fucking hilarious. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/20 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Can we please ban newbie posts that clearly haven’t read the sidebar?hahahahaha, dude whatever i'm getting a juicy pump on. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/20 11:29 AM |
| 4 | Can we please ban newbie posts that clearly haven’t read the sidebar?you're so red pilled you're scouting reddit for coke prices? (sorry for the profile dive - but wanted to check your credentials). who the fuck is taking red pill advice from you? the sidebar says numerous times to not fuck with drugs, to be good enough within yourself, to live a healthy life and not fuck your body/head up. have YOU tried READING THE SIDEBAR? edit: OMFG its the "juicy pump on" guy. dude you are a TRP legend (and not in a good way) hahahaha. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/20 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Why do Red Pill Content Creators appear so shady?I agree for the most part. The vibe I get from Rich is that he’s a pure finance guy. I’ve noticed whenever the others talk about game or sex or whatever, he seems to switch off and not add much. He’s confident and successful but yeah, he’s not super interesting. He USED to be, but he’s chasing the YT $$ with those videos like “top 5 things you need to know to be RED PILL”. Even Rollo criticised it on a podcast, saying it was turning TRP into a cheap money grab, kinda like OP is stating. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do Red Pill Content Creators appear so shady?I agree man, and whilst he is one of the worst culprits for this (he would admit it himself) Jon MLD has some really insightful videos. He goes through real life situations, or even gaming girls in real time and record it. Then him and Rollo will go through and Rollo will break down the psychology of it. Seeing RP in real time is a whole different level if you ask me. But of course the Jon MLD detractors will say otherwise. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 03:55 PM |
| 1 | All the YouTube redpill personalities except for the official channel are just chumps. Anybody else feel this way?Yup - nailed it. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 10:22 PM |
| 1 | All the YouTube redpill personalities except for the official channel are just chumps. Anybody else feel this way?it was an interview with anthony from 21 convention. i believe its been taken down now. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 05:44 PM |
| 11 | Nofap and coming on too strongChances are some girls flat out aren’t gonna fuck on the first date and you can’t “game” it out of them. I admit you should at least give it a shot, but don’t feel like you’ve done something wrong. Women don’t all think alike. I’ve had dates where the girl just had a massive ASD and some who were just DTF from the get go. Here’s a secret: whilst women are as biologically inclined as men, this doesn’t mean they all think the same. Something TRP really needs to brush up on. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 01:46 PM |
| 1 | All the YouTube redpill personalities except for the official channel are just chumps. Anybody else feel this way?Mate check out videos of GLO if you want to see the last man on earth to take advice from, chriiiiist. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 09:35 AM |
| 16 | All the YouTube redpill personalities except for the official channel are just chumps. Anybody else feel this way?"refuses to lift" christ TRP is fucking doomed. Edit: I meant the idea of saying that someone refuses to lift is fucking dumb. Who gives a shit? Yammering on about lifting 24/7 is idiotic. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/20 09:47 PM |
| 9 | All the YouTube redpill personalities except for the official channel are just chumps. Anybody else feel this way?i actually 100% feel it's the opposite. try and find an interview with GLO on youtube, he is an absolute chump. i would much rather believe guys who speak on camera, write and have businesses outside of reddit. you have to think man, if these guys are living such red pill lives why the fuck are they constantly patrolling reddit. the REAL red pill guys have left this cesspit. askTRP is good because others (lesser known) get to share their views and some are really interesting. but other than that… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/20 09:44 PM |
| 14 | Rate my tinder profileholding a drink ABOVE your wasitline? bro have you even read the sidebar?!?!? what weak shit is this????!?!?! | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Is ignoring insults ever a sign of strength?Appreciate the advice here. The description was more for context (as in, I don't have man boobs or extremely long hair), which would probably garner these types of comments no matter what. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/20 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Is ignoring insults ever a sign of strength?Yes this is what the heart of my question is getting at - do I simply ignore or do I make some kind of point. Tryna work out if ignoring him is a weak option or not. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/20 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Is ignoring insults ever a sign of strength?So throwing hands wasn’t what I was insinuating. I guess it was more of a question of whether it needs any kind of reply, if ignoring it looks weak or if it’s better to have some rebuttal. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/20 11:22 AM |
| 7 | Girl tried to shit test me about other guys."..cause I didn't care" makes 1500 word post about her on the internet | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 05:40 PM |
| 4 | Girl tried to shit test me about other guys.I don't mind people asking for sure, that's the whole point of the sub. But why post saying stuff like "because she knows I don't care" and "because I have abundance" but then post here because you are worried you did the wrong thing toward this ONE girl. Hopefully he sees the irony. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 05:38 PM |
| 12 | Girl tried to shit test me about other guys.Little does she know he’s got fuck all abundance cos he’s writing paragraphs about her to strangers on the internet | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Why get into an LTR?Haha id love to see how that would work out for ya. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 11:55 AM |
| 3 | I've compiled a list of the top recommended books for men from 56 of the top blog postsThat’s a great point. I think the mere act of reading self-help tricks you into thinking you are actually improving. Don’t get me wrong, it’s great to make a start but I am guilty of making myself feel better simply by reading this type of stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/20 07:48 AM |
| 18 | I've compiled a list of the top recommended books for men from 56 of the top blog postsI’m really glad this list included fiction. Get way too much dumfuckery on here saying “duhhhh non-fiction = real duhhhhhh fiction = fake duhhhhh”. Honestly if that’s the most critically you can think about writing you are doomed already. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/20 11:22 PM |
| 3 | What experience helped you find the red pill?Met a girl and started to really fall for her. Went from the cool guitar player (and general player) to the needy, jealous and “caring” boyfriend. This jealousy made me incredibly anxious about the whole relationship. Leading up to this point I had given up most of my hobbies and was spending lots of time with her, as much as possible. The funny thing is that this girl (an American, I’m British) was CONSTANTLY spouting RP at me, and I completely ignored it all. All she wanted was an RP boyfriend… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 07:57 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill recommended movies?Yeah cos art doesn’t reflect real life and never has /s | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 04:03 PM |
| 5 | Red Pill recommended movies?Rollo mentions Blue Valentine as an example of what happens in a BB LTR | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 04:03 PM |
| 1 | are all types of piercings a red flag?I totally agree. But no-one actually said “covered in tattoos” they just said “tattoos are a red flag”. Also - what do you do if you yourself have a lot of tattoos? It kinda goes with the cultural territory no? Side note: where are you from? | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 08:34 AM |
| -1 | are all types of piercings a red flag?Tattoos are most certainly not a red flag. Most people who say this are most likely Americans who come from small towns or cities. If you used this logic and grew up in Berlin you would probably have to fly to Bavaria to get laid. Tattoos are culturally different. Would you like to find a girlfriend in Amsterdam who doesn’t smoke weed? And why not? It’s a part of the culture there and would be absolutely no red flag. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 07:42 PM |
| 7 | TRP likely banned tomorrow. What were your favorite TRP moments?The “get a juicy pump on” dude who posted in ask TRP | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Feeling mega shitThis is perfectly normal dude. Happened to me when I moved abroad - don’t feel down because homesickness can be one of the strongest feelings you can get. Things are opening up soon - bars and gyms should be early July I believe. Don’t be ashamed to just go home for a weekend or something, but don’t give up cos times like these will make you way stronger in the future. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 09:15 AM |
| 4 | Insecurity in a relationship is asking to be broken up with.But doesn't Rollo talk about 'alpha vulnerability'? I forget what it is exactly, but something like 'once you've proved yourself an Alpha, you can be sensitive/vulnerable and it gives the woman a dopamine kick that she was able to get the strong Alpha to drop his guard for a second'. Maybe I am wrong here though? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/20 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Treat Your Life Like an RPGWow the irony seems really lost on you too my dude. The Matrix is a film. You're taking ideas from a film and he is taking ideas from computer games. Taking ideas from virtual worlds is the "exact opposite of the Red Pill". But in reality, it doesn't matter where you take metaphors from because they are metaphors. It matters more about what the writer wants them to represent. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/20 12:33 PM |
| 8 | What went wrong?Yep - this. I’ve been reading up on game a fuck tonne lately and they basically say a number close is good enough. Same day fucks are unlikely/difficult. Also why would you just wanna go make out? Are you 15? Also comfort is a huge part of game, and it seems like there wasn’t enough comfort here, she’s not gonna go walk to a park unless you’ve proved beyond doubt that you’re not a murderer, or a weirdo. Also seems like you should have just been about having some fun too, not thinking so much abo… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/20 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Let it die? She’s gone cold, no contact for 7 days now.There was a lot more to her shift in language than just a shit test. Also, when a woman goes super cold on you I highly doubt she’s bothered enough to shit test you anymore, she’s done already. In this example this is not a shit test, it’s a pressure flip in order to justify her monkey branching. And definitely not a playful flip either. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Girl texted me months after out of the blue, did I handle this correctly?Yeah, really if he didn’t care he wouldn’t still be talking about her. I gauge from this that he acted like he doesn’t care but he obviously does, because he wants to know what would have kept her, by asking red pilled guys exactly how to get her when he quite obviously lost her. Had he not posted here, I assume he 100% DGAF. In future if you want to spin her as a plate and haven’t spoken in a minute then just chat and ask her out for a drink or something. Way more chance of gaming her in person… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 03:35 PM |
| 40 | Let it die? She’s gone cold, no contact for 7 days now.Yeah I fuckin hated that, tryna use explicitly laid back language to juxtapose his apparent alarm and rattled state. She needs nexting IMO. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 05:36 PM |
| 5 | Let it die? She’s gone cold, no contact for 7 days now.This happened to me in an LTR and sadly was a sign from her that things were done. I was BP as fuck at the time and it rattled my mental health and anxiety. Act and think as if it’s done, DO NOT keep trying to get answers. Go completely cold on her and go do something fun (depending on your C-19 lockdown situation). | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 05:35 PM |
| 1 | "Shes not yours but your turn" makes me not want to do anything with a womanMore like "i'm not hers, it's just her turn". | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 09:12 AM |
| 2 | How To Get Laid In June 2020I think you’ve missed the point of the post my guy | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/20 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me over text, started hoeing around immediatelyDude be incredibly thankful you just found TRP. Most find it after a horrendous break up like this, but you will get some HARD truths thrown at you. People will sound like they're being harsh toward you, but we don't believe in sympathy toward stupidity or blue pill ideals. Once you start reading the red pill and it's ideas, what happened will all make perfect sense to you. It will also start you on a path to becoming the very best version of yourself and to never be fucked over like this ever a… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Failure to internalize TRP after 4+ years. Can therapy help?Dude that’s so weird this is pretty much the advice I give out myself. My theory, very in line with yours, is that no single one of those things will help a great deal, or solve any issues, however all of these small changes add up (“compound” as you say) and overall they create large scale change. I’m actually working on a Mental Health Compendium, a blog/encyclopaedia that has entries alphabetically for advice such as this, under this theory. Don’t know if your gym has a sauna or steam room bu… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/20 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Failure to internalize TRP after 4+ years. Can therapy help?Maybe try switching lifting for cardio, or incorporate cardio into your regimen. I used to swim a fuck tonne and use the steam room after (lots of mental health benefits from both). The next day at work I would be noticeably calmer, more collected, relaxed and happier. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/20 08:10 AM |
| 0 | Failure to internalize TRP after 4+ years. Can therapy help?Do you have a meditation practice OP? | /r/askTRP | 26/05/20 05:48 PM |
| 29 | Failure to internalize TRP after 4+ years. Can therapy help?This is an amazing comment but kinda feels like you’ve maybe missed OP’s point. It’s not that he doesn’t know or misunderstand what he should be doing, but that doing such things has not integrated TRP into his deeper mindset or settled down to his natural/mental/spiritual core. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/20 05:47 PM |
| 0 | Dads wife left him and he is devastated. I recently took his guns per his request. What can I do to help?I’m assuming this is in the US. When people say puppies I generally assume they don’t mean rescue. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 07:05 PM |
| 18 | Dads wife left him and he is devastated. I recently took his guns per his request. What can I do to help?Do not get two puppies, that could be really costly and a lot of hard work. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Ways to get over threat of physical pain?Yeah it seems like martial arts has so much more benefit than baseball. Reckon Karate is an option? | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 07:57 AM |
| 14 | Men in your 40s - if you can turn back time, what do you wish you knew in your 30s?I am in the exact same position brother. Read No More Mr Nice Guy again recently and it made me realise I need to cut it not constantly try to fix it. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 10:43 AM |
| 2 | I am beta as fuck! Just discovered this, this is my awakening.I went through a break up that destroyed me but it created something far far better in the end and eventually became THE turning point in my life, it lead me to TRP too! I know it’s not cool to mention him round these parts but Jordan Peterson is good on this subject of betrayal and the way it makes you feel and the way it shifts you into somewhere totally different. Try and find it if you can, it helped me (but his teachings are definitely not all Red Pill so stick to that part for now). | /r/askTRP | 22/04/20 09:39 AM |
| 0 | Own your shit.In an LTR how do you take responsibility and accountability without becoming the bitch of the relationship? Don’t want to start admitting everything is my fault all the time. Or is that even that bad of an outcome? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/20 09:32 AM |
| 2 | How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic.I had some of the same issues but really what it comes down to is how you’re spending that 40 hours per week. For example, I worked normal boring ass stale office jobs or bar jobs working these hours and hated it, couldn’t wait to get home. Then I took a year out and did a research based masters (like a mini PhD) and would regularly stay doing research until 7/8pm in the evening and barely take a lunch break. I was interested, focused and my time felt like MY OWN instead of someone else’s. I als… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Meditation apps10% Happier. Anything by Dan Harris is really good for starters. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Girl mad because I put her in her place. How would you have responded?This. It’s like a “prove you’re not a faggot by fucking me good” thing. Sounds like you got antsy at her for this and she probs felt stupid or disengaged from the sexual element. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 11:27 AM |
| 3 | Is doing drugs a red flag?“If I bring some coke and invite 2 girls over it will definitely end in an orgy” - a 13 year old | /r/askTRP | 04/04/20 08:40 PM |
| 55 | Is doing drugs a red flag?This seems culturally relativistic to me. If you live in the US outside of NYC or LA, I’d say kind of a red flag. If you live in Europe in somewhere like Berlin you would be hard pressed to find someone who hasn’t tried drugs, or somewhere like London. Most people who see it as a major red flag are probably American and originate from small - medium sized towns. But that’s just my opinion, could be wrong. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/20 05:10 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else miss having a girlfriend? (srs)Very true. They set boundaries and don’t always placate the woman, all the do is strike a balance and it works. Some of these guys have been with their gf 12-13 years (and they’re 28-29). | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 10:09 PM |
| 20 | Thank you TRP. But my time here is up.Sounds like he’s going the opposite of MGTOW. What you smokin? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/20 06:39 PM |
| 39 | Anyone else miss having a girlfriend? (srs)very much this. TRP lacks specificity and complexity on a lot of issues. this works on some subjects such as relationships because making big claims, like tabloid newspaper headlines, gains more followers than it loses. it gives followers this feeling like they've uncovered a secret and anyone who doesn't know the secret is fucked. i know many men with perfectly happy relationships, plenty of money and doing perfectly well for themselves. i then see the aspect of many TRP followers who still see… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 03:23 PM |
| 3 | During quarantine I am learning to code for web development - any tips to move toward this career/side-hustle wise?Should really have stipulated. I started the course before but during quarantine will more than likely complete it. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 07:27 PM |
| 2 | If you shouldn’t “defend” yourself to your LTR, how do you deal with accusations?Hey thanks for this, really great answer and left me plenty of things to mull over. I probably should have explained in more detail a couple of things you touch on RE: the specifics of this relationship. i feel 100% completely free to walk away at any time and i really don't think it would be a huge blow for me. i would work on myself and get back out there no problem. the other thing is that...whilst knowing all that, i don't think a few arguments are enough to warrant walking out on a 2 year L… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 06:37 PM |
| 1 | If you shouldn’t “defend” yourself to your LTR, how do you deal with accusations?Yeah I need to retain my sense of ease and stoicism more often, thank you! | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 05:59 PM |
| 1 | If you shouldn’t “defend” yourself to your LTR, how do you deal with accusations?Thanks for this. Could you elaborate on that last point a little? | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 05:45 PM |
| 1 | What are good examples for RP/BP movies ?Youth in Revolt is a great example I think. He wants this girl and basically creates this DGAF alter ego. The films message is kinda BP though. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/20 06:25 PM |
| 14 | If one of the core tenets of TRP is to be muscular as fuck (bodybuilding), then why are some figures of this community out of shape ?Yeah I don’t really buy the mods/endorsed members thing. Some of em are still absolutely full of shit, got twice as much sidebar reading experience than they have real life experience. As a reply to your post I think there’s a difference between the red pill as it is on this subreddit and the red pill in the ‘manosphere’. Generally the guys in the manosphere or the guys who do that 21 convention shit are incredibly cringe. They did some trailer last year for some red pill convention and it was T… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/20 05:39 PM |
| 7 | She hates you for committing to herI’ve seen many people in this type of relationship. Some women will, most wont. I don’t ever think I’d give myself over to any woman, I would want to remain in control. But I’ve seen it happen. Stop acting like the world is black and white just cos you read it on the internet, it’s complex. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/20 02:48 PM |
| 0 | She hates you for committing to herI feel like this kind of thing is really useful to know. But also, like many of the ideas on TRP, to acknowledge that there are some women who desperately crave and will honour you if you 'settle down' with them. I have seen it happen many times where it works out completely fine, but also seen the opposite way too. I've had it thrown back in my face too. I feel like too much of TRP is 'body armour on a bike' advice. You wouldn't wear full body armour to ride a bike just because you don't want t… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/20 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Whenever my sleeping pattern goes to shit, I start losing grip of being on my missionI’ve had this a few times. The way to get back to it is set your alarm for 30 mins - 1 hour before you’ve generally been waking up. So if you’ve been waking up at 12, set it for 11:30 etc etc. Keep doing this even though you’ll wake up tired and cranky. If you don’t live alone get someone to pull your ass out of bed when you want to. It’ll take a good few days to be waking back up at a good time but this works. You can’t just try setting your alarm for 6am and all of a sudden have solved it. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/20 08:12 AM |
| 1 | How to be stoic without being a pushover?So what’s a stoic response to a drink on the head? | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 06:01 PM |
| 2 | How to be stoic without being a pushover?Unfortunately I haven’t yet run into this problem, just thinking about it going forward as a way to build myself up. I feel like this is one of the best responses that actually connects with Stoic philosophy rather than alpha-bro philosophy. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How to be stoic without being a pushover?How does this connect with Stoicism exactly? | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 05:58 PM |
| 1 | How to be stoic without being a pushover?This is the kind of advice I was after. Clear and actionable, thank you. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 04:27 PM |
| 1 | How to be stoic without being a pushover?Briefly. I found the initial form of the book a little jarring where he’s saying what he learned from different groups/people. But more generally I want to know: is my question answered in Meditations? | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Utilise body language and reticence to bypass shit tests.100% this. Spergie as hell. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/20 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Utilise body language and reticence to bypass shit tests.Sometimes the fucking advice on here reminds me of this scene from Phoneshop: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=msfIAUDJ8CI | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/20 06:19 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of medication for social anxiety?Try Kratom Tea | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Can we stop with this “just dont bring ur gf to the club” advice? That’s literally one of the dumbest comments I keep hearing on threadsSo much bullshit on ask trp these days. The other one I cringe at is “dump/cheat on her bro....if you don’t do it first it will just happen to you”. Like Jesus these people have literally just stopped living actual normal lives. Ironically so shit scared of getting hurt, which is a part of life (not to be confused with getting hurt cos you’re an idiot/pussy), whilst maintaining a confident “alpha” personality. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Jealousy of friends success/life makes me feel shittyAn excuse for what? | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Jealousy of friends success/life makes me feel shittyObviously I know what I’m doing and thinking are wrong otherwise why would I post to asktrp? I was giving more context to my original post because it lacked relevant information. I’m looking for actionable ways to stop being a little bitch, not ways to be comfortable with it. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Jealousy of friends success/life makes me feel shittyI didn’t say I don’t have a job or work hard myself. I’m educated to a postgraduate level and I work a fairly well paid job, just not quite full time hours as it’s genuinely bad for my mental health. That’s not the same as “don’t want to work”. When I said that he was “in charge of his time” I meant that sometimes he spends hours on his lunch break and goes drinking midweek etc. Apparently he got lucky with his phd project and it all worked out. A lot of this type of thing. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Been in an LTR for over a year and have lost sex driveDiet is decent, consists mainly of chicken and vegetables with some grains and/or sweet potato. Sometimes switch chicken for pork or mackerel. I have eggs for breakfast usually. Vitamins I take zinc and omega 3 currently. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/19 12:53 PM |
| 1 | How can I learn how to talk slower and enunciating better?Probably a fairly random example for you, but there's a actor from The Walking Dead called Austin Amelio who plays the character Dwight. I know him cos he's a skateboarder and has a few interviews on YouTube. He talks in that cadence, much like Matthew Mcconaughey, where he doesn't stretch into those higher tones. It comes off sounding very chill and composed - shit-together type of shit. Check him out. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Women don't want to be your fucking motherOne thing that really got me angry was that a similar thing happened to me but with a FEMINIST. These women who preach that men should "show their feelings" and not to worry about "being a man". So you show your feelings, and you don't worry about being a man...and then you get completely hung out to fuckin' dry. The feminist hypocrisy is staggering. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 08:38 AM |
| 2 | Lifting is not nearly enough: RUN!Thanks for the essay, sperg. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/19 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Lifting is not nearly enough: RUN!He never, even once, asserted that it was "somehow alpha" or any more masculine than lifting. So you lift so that women will fuck you? Congrats, maybe she wants you to do the dishes for her too? Get to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/19 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Don't Hesitate; Great Example Of A Man's Mission.I felt like Alex Honnold in Free Solo was like this. Told his gf that the highly dangerous act of free soloing El Cap was worth more to him and his individual success than his relationship with her. Told her it wasn't enough to be "cosy and safe", loved that. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/19 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Lifting is not nearly enough: RUN!Wow its weird you posted this, I've wanted to post this same thing for a while. For me it comes down to this: if you want to improve your mental health than do CARDIO, not LIFTING. You really hit the nail on the head with this and it's really irked me for a while that lifting is the go to on TRP. I at one point was swimming 3 miles a week, 66 lengths of the 25m pool I go to and I was feeling GREAT! I felt confident, calm and effective. Fast forward, I now lift 2/3 times a week and I do not have … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/19 01:52 PM |
| 4 | Lessons Learned Behind a BarI've been thinking a lot recently about "fit your stereotype well" so it's weird you bring it up here. It's SO true in my experience. When I was about 15/16/17 indie music was really big in the UK and I loved it and got the haircut and clothes of my favourite indie artists. I was getting pussy effortlessly back in those days and I think part of the reason is fitting into the stereotype because it's exactly what certain girls were looking for, I didn't try because I wanted pussy I just thought I … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Career AdviceOpen to looking into most things. My strengths are analysis/evaluation/writing/IT/admin/academia/research. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/19 05:04 PM |
| 6 | How do you deal with american girls?I'm British and both my and a friend of mine have dated American girls and they are way worse than any British/European girls I have dated. I dunno whats up with them, but she's the reason I found TRP (a good thing I guess). I wish TRP accounted more for cultural variables but there we go. Stay away if you can. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 11:15 PM |
| 3 | LTR came home drunk and upsetI don't know where you guys are from but I'm from the UK. Nearly every single person I know has a gf who once in a while goes out drinking with friends. It's a big part of the culture where I'm from. This is one of the TRP rules I think actually does vary from place to place, drinking culture in the UK is very different from the US. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 01:55 PM |
| 1 | LTR came home drunk and upsetIt isn't like I'm not aware of this as a TRP rule/suggestion. This is actually the first time this has happened and where she didn't invite me out, I was actually busy all evening and didn't finish what I was doing until 11pm. She went for dinner which turned into drinks (though I suspect this was maybe always the plan I don't know) | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 01:54 PM |
| 3 | 9 month LTR that worshipped me cheated on me. Lessons I've learnt + What should I do?What do you mean by "hamstering" exactly? | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Should I be careful after making relationship exclusive?Neither of your replies even answered the question I asked. At all. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Should I be careful after making relationship exclusive?This is great shit man - very informative and useful. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Should I be careful after making relationship exclusive?Yeah it is...I was asking more for clarification on the words/phrases used on TRP not clarification on what my relationship actually is. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Best way to get over ONEitis - Monk Mode or Sleep With More Women?I have been going through a very similar thing. I think shoot for abundance and put some distance between the two of you. I know, doesn't seem like enough hours in the day...but gaining a little abundance will go a long way with helping your oneitis ease up, it's hard though because whilst you're in that state of mind you can't envisage how you would feel with other options. But like I said, put up some distance and shoot for abundance. You can use the distance to focus on your mission without g… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 11:39 PM |
| 11 | Best way to get over ONEitis - Monk Mode or Sleep With More Women?I've asked this question a few times and got some good answers. Generally people said getting abundance is more important, and I happen to agree. My whole mindset changed once I gained abundance and oneitis diminished. Probably won't disappear but enough to help your mindset. I thought about the solitude option myself, but you might still run into the problem down the line. Really it seems way better to practice being in the thick of things rather than standing on the sidelines. Also: put some d… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Got oneitis for FWB: make plate or next?She's a "party girl" so she never should have been FWB anyway. Demoting because i'm giving too much of a shit, thought it would be a good way to gain distance. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Got oneitis for FWB: make plate or next?I think you misinterpret what I meant. I meant to get rid of the oneitis for this girl, then DEMOTE her to a plate. I no longer have other options but this is because (stupidly) I dropped them, somewhat because I didn't have the availability to spin them properly. My question is whilst I try and spin more plates would it be better to drop her altogether or just demote her to a plate. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Got oneitis for FWB: make plate or next?make her a plate AND spin others? (by the way the "finding abundance" bit meant trying to spin other plates, that's definitely my plan, just wondering what to do with her) | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How to handle feelings for FWB?I understand this premise, I really do. I think it's just going to be a fairly long road to forget my conditioning on this one. Do you have any advice for how you became stronger in this regard? Was it simply to raise SMV and get abundance? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Rules around FWB: when is it okay to do 'nice' things?Thanks for the added input. The weird thing is I do keep up with this, we usually go for a few days without texting. Some people before have said this is a sign that she has low interest but definitely doesn't act this way in person. I get the feeling she's 'playing me at my own game' (she started to leave long gaps between replies because I often don't reply straight away) and/or she doesn't want to come across as keen (I feel like I'm the first guy she's hung out with that doesn't want to marr… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Rules around FWB: when is it okay to do 'nice' things?The problem is I'm trying to remain fairly scarce, mainly by keeping busy etc. So I'm not texting her much and seeing maybe 1/2x a week. Feel like this seems like I'm removing my attention? Though scarcity is working, it's keeping the whole thing feeling fresh. That's why I asked about texting in the FWB category. Funny you say that last example cos I took her and did that very thing last week. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Anyone in the UK noticed any major/minor differences in gaming/red pill theory as compared to the US?In the UK you mean? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Is it at all helpful to state you're not seeing other women but still not exclusive?So is it best to say you're not? My answer dodging makes me look like i definitely am (i am but thats beside the point) | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you keep 'dating' plates or can you just fuck them?Yeah I was thinking the same on the last point. I enjoy her company and we fuck every time we hang out so it shouldn't be a problem. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Do you keep 'dating' plates or can you just fuck them?Comedian of the group | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you keep 'dating' plates or can you just fuck them?I'm fairly new to TRP (3-4 months), and I managed abundance quite quickly but then I couldn't manage this girl as my main plate because I didn't realise how easily they slip into thinking you want to fuckin marry them just because you go on a few dates. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Do you keep 'dating' plates or can you just fuck them?Funny you say that because after literally 3 times hanging out this girl tried to give me the talk. I'd probably say shes more a FWB but she's definitely angling for more. That's kind of why I asked this question because I felt like by keeping on with the date thing I was making it seem more romantic than purely sexual. What happened to your plate? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Alpha Validation versus Beta ValidationExample of a guy like Kanye West does not directly work. Ordinary woman compared to the schedule of a music superstar (touring/recording/writing duties) would simply not comply. My theory was that showing Alpha traits are surely going to make a woman jealous/controlling? She sees the prize she wants and does not want another woman to have it. Someones even moreso than with a Beta guy she feels comfortable with? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Alpha Validation versus Beta ValidationSurely a girl would show jealousy/controlling tendencies around an Alpha? Or would they not be close enough for this to even be a thing? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/18 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Plate keeps trying to make me jealous when we're out on nights out - next or leave alone for a while?Yeah that's the snag, she's actually the hottest/most fun plate to hang with. The sex is amazing. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Plate keeps trying to make me jealous when we're out on nights out - next or leave alone for a while?I posted about this on here when it happened. I was out with her and her friend and she wanted to ask what me and her were, because she knows I have other girls and really doesn't like it. I tried to let her know but she took it fairly badly and did that, simply in order to make me jealous. She basically wants a relationship and hates me seeing other women. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 02:27 PM |
| 1 | I done fucked up and need help/advice/smack round the head.Have seen her once since that happened...would it be more beneficial to see another plate to establish abundance or at this point would it not matter? | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 10:24 PM |
| 1 | I done fucked up and need help/advice/smack round the head.Yeah that really is the play here isn't it. It's not so much I'm trying beat myself up by posting this...it's more to gauge where I fucked up most and how badly I did, in order to learn from it. I agree about the taking it too seriously part though, need to up my abundance mentality. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 10:18 PM |
| 0 | I done fucked up and need help/advice/smack round the head.She is deffo just a plate anyway. To be honest, she mentions me seeing other girls a lot, usually in a joke kind of way. I think her feelings about this have been building for a while and it just came out. As far as I can tell she regrets doing it and is afraid she fucked up. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 10:17 PM |
| 1 | I done fucked up and need help/advice/smack round the head.Thanks man, appreciate the feedback. Any use in delaying when I see her? It's usually every weekend but thinking of seeing another plate to up my abundance mentality. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 10:15 PM |
| 1 | I done fucked up and need help/advice/smack round the head.Thanks for this. Glad it sounds like it's not the total shit-show I thought it was. Will definitely learn from this in the future, still early with plate spinning and it's definitely a learning curve you need to experience rather than read about. Btw - being drunk in all this certainly didn't help, I think that's where my reactions faltered somewhat. Would there be any use of not reaching out too soon (I.E. usually see her on weekends but might be good to see other plate this weekend instead?). … | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Plate rarely/never texts to meet, always me asking her: is this bad?I did read that one. Kind of confused me though because it seems as though she really likes me and (albeit drunk), tried to make a point of asking "what we were" at the weekend, and she didn't like being told it probably wasn't going anywhere serious. Not sure if she remembers but it definitely seems like she's into me, that's why the not texting thing was weird. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | How often is too often to see a plate?Okay that clears it up somewhat. Didn't know if once a week was going to look like a lack of abundance or not. Nice one. Out of interest: are you somone who sticks to the 'only text for logistics' idea? | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 10:26 PM |
| 1 | How often is too often to see a plate?I hear ya, just wondering what kind of number would make it look like a lack thereof. Cheers for the answer. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Plate is saying she's gonna make me "work for it" [sex] on our next date.Thanks, is helpful to keep the playful thing in mind. I do sidebar, although it's not imprinted in the inside of my brain just yet. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Plating an ex?I should say: it's not out of desperation or lack or alternate options. In fact I think there's a kind of sadistic aspect to it, whereby if I plate her I kind of get one over on her haha. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/18 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Plating an ex?Essentially, she had been in a LTR before she met me. We then became fairly long term (well...5 months). Then it was a combination of her wanting to be single (she was 23, I was 26) and me being a little beta bitch about it and lost my confidence. So that, basically. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/18 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Is texting too little ever a problem?Yeah that makes sense. That would seem natural to me and something I've done in the past (and then of course, as a beta douche, overdone to the point where all mystery was lost). This is more just the best way to keep a new plate as I am new at all this, would be frustrating to lose first 2 plates because I text too little. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | It's Not HerI agree a lot with this. You should never be taken for a fool, but ironically, to me at least, there is something ironically BP about being hurt by a girl and then completely running away to TRP side of things. It's like yeah okay, don't get shit on but also pain is a part of life and you'll grow because of it. Avoiding pain is what pussys do. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/18 05:29 PM |
| 1 | First f-close and was too drunk to fuck. Damage?^ this is true | /r/askTRP | 02/06/18 12:59 PM |
| 1 | First f-close and was too drunk to fuck. Damage?Hahaha - well we fucked a little but not properly, I probably should have stated. I also held my breath for 2 hours. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/18 10:37 AM |
| 1 | [Hypothetical] What would be TRP way of acting if you're on a date and the girls starts talking to another dude?Thanks for this man, lots of good advice in here. My natural instinct would have been to kind of sit back and leave it, like if I look chill and uninterested about it, that shows that I am in control. But I guess what you're saying is, after a while maybe take it as a sign that it isn't gonna happen and you should just bounce anyway. My counterargument would be that leaving would make me feel more BP. Then again I guess with abundance mentality you needn't care about it all too much? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 01:33 PM |
| 1 | [Hypothetical] What would be TRP way of acting if you're on a date and the girls starts talking to another dude?Thanks for the input. The thing I am tryna toe the line on, is like, doesn't leaving the place and saying "something came up" sound kinda BP? or I guess staying there and doing nothing is? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 01:31 PM |
| 0 | Is self-deprecating humour the same as showing a lack of confidence?As I said to someone before: I only meant the odd joke, like 1 or 2 on a date. Not an entire night of ripping into myself. Obviously coming from a place of confidence, and in some respect it would be agree and amplify. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 10:01 PM |
| 0 | Is self-deprecating humour the same as showing a lack of confidence?I wish I had made it more clear when I posted: I didn't mean an entire night of self-deprecation. I understand that would get old reaaaaal fast, I meant maybe the odd joke or 1 or 2 times. Like basically in a situation where I naturally want to make a joke like that, that I don't freeze up and think "actually I should stop that and make a joke that makes me look cocky instead". That make sense? The general consensus seems to be to stay away though, so I will keep that in mind. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Question on meditationUnless we're both insane... | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Question on meditationI've had maybe 4-5 experiences like this. I've meditated over 5000 minutes so they're obviously rare. Usually around the 15 minute mark on these occasions I would become HYPERaware and everything slowed down. Then it felt like I was kinda tripping and lost part of my ego. Sounds like new age bullshit but this was my experience, it was fucking amazing. "If LSD is like being strapped to a rocketship, meditation is like putting up a sail on a boat" | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 09:26 PM |
| 5 | Question on meditationIt probably depends on the type you do. I personally do Vippasanna (spelling?) which is essentially focus on the breath medidation. However it's meant to be zeroing your focus in on your NATURAL breath, as opposed to forced or controlled. I believe this is important to get into the mindset of "your body will breath on it's own, but you can decide to put your attention on it". As far as I can tell anyways. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Do You Even Lift?I'm the same with the sauna man. Absolutely love it. I combine this with swimming and feel great. Don't lift yet though. Not sure where to start. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Do You Even Lift?Can push-ups and body weight exercises count for this? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Do You Even Lift?I'm a lifting noob. When people say lifting what are the basic things they're talking about? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 12:11 PM |
| 3 | Do You Even Lift?Can I use swimming as a way of doing this? I swim fast and a fair amount too, never slack and am always motivated to go. It's getting me a great physique etc. Just wondered if I am okay to carry on with this rather than actual lifting? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/18 11:06 PM |
| 12 | How To Approach Women With ConfidenceReally like the marathon analogy. Really makes sense. I was never one for approaching women. Then at the gym a real hot girl comes into the sauna who I'd seen earlier. After a couple of minutes (of thinking "she definitely doesnt want to speak to me and wants to keep herself to herself" I just asked her a question. Just didn't listen to my brain and went in. Lo and behold she sounded perfectly into not only answering my question but carrying on the conversation. This also happened later in the g… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Tinder date with F-close. What it looks like when gaining a plate goes right, and how many lessons you can extract from it.OP - whats a good way of getting back into your apartment and then closing. Like is netflix and chill a legit good idea? I feel like there's not much room for kino if you're both on a bed watching a laptop? Know what I mean? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 02:35 PM |
| 1 | HB9 on Instagram keeps liking my photos (specifically photos OF me). But she has a BF and a kid...advice?fof? | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 09:51 PM |
| 3 | [FR] First Tinder date with TRP knowledge.I had a real similar experience myself man. I think going on a lot of dates helps (with women generally not the same one). It will boost confidence and add to abundance mentality. I mentioned I got back out on the dating scene and people here were really supportive (I'd been through a bad break up). So I'll reiterate what they said to me: fuckin KUDOS just for getting out there man. Truely, be happy you did that, the rest will fall into place. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/18 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Trying to plan second Tinder date and need adviceThis was bad English, I meant to say that she escalated the convo to sex but I, stupidly, didn't escalate anything myself. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Trying to plan second Tinder date and need adviceThe main thing isn't to be "alpha" or "avoid being beta" Yeah this whole part of things I do understand (I think). Its moreso the specific ins and outs I'm trying to get correct. I mentioned to someone else: to tow the line between being a guy who doesn't give a fuck but not being so much that way that I miss out on opportunities when they come knockin'. I appreciate the rest of the advice and will get out there and escalate. Thanks dude. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Trying to plan second Tinder date and need adviceWow thanks man this really clears it up in my head. I am trying to tow that fine line between truely not giving a fuck and being your own man, but on the other hand being too in that direction to miss out on getting laid. But this explains it really clearly for me so I appreciate that. When I mentioned in my comment about getting drinks I definitely didn't mean with no intention to escalate, I just meant moreso like am I okay doing that as an activity as opposed to something different. But I get… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Trying to plan second Tinder date and need adviceThanks for the advice. However, I meant that sentence more specifically with my situation. Like in my example where she said she's deciding whether to meet Friday or Saturday, I don't know whether I sit back and wait or I text her to either ask or tell her which day. Does that make sense? The escalation I will get used to, it's all new to me so I'm bound to have some strikeouts along the way. Also gotta up my confidence gradually. I'm already way more confident than I've been for a long while so… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Trying to plan second Tinder date and need adviceThanks for the reply and I appreciate the encouragement. Yeah I wish I'd have read more before I started but I feel like it's the first of many so I won't get too hung up on it. She wanted to go see a film for the first date but I said no, dunno if that was a good idea. Stupidly, she escalated our Tinder convo really quickly to sex, but as I mentioned, I never escalated just through trying to get back out there and not put too much pressure on myself. Is it bad just going for drinks again? Also … | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 10:30 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread May 16What do you guys recommend if you're in a relationship and you suspect (but don't know) that you're GF is cheating on you? Or wants to? Whats the Red Pill way of reacting to this, without coming across as a huge paranoid asshole? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 03:28 PM |
| 5 | Stop Thinking Like a BetaThat's my major gripe with red pill philosophy - its like on the one hand "yeah fuck what these women think you do you man, you're a worthwhile person" and on the other its "OMG what are women thinking? how do i up my game??? how to impress women???" and saying shit like go get ripped and get a fashionable haircut. its like yeah i agree with both points to some extent but a lot of these dudes dont see the irony in it. i banged the hottest girl of my life so far when i was unemployed, living with… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/18 10:18 AM |
| 2 | The Problem With Nice GuysThe problem with this whole approach (don't consider myself a nice guy but also im trying to become a lot more confident with women) is getting some actionable advice for this? in the context of a one on one conversation how would this work? whats an easy way to show you're not a 'nice guy'? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/18 11:23 PM |
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