Plating an ex?

theeworstyasuo · 2018-06-16T18:23:48+00:00

Dont plate an ex, i know you are using the excuse "she was great in bed ill just fuck her" but this never works out, trust me i tried and thought the exact things you are. It is not worth it.

dingleburry_joe · 2018-06-16T16:05:32+00:00

I've done this before. The thing is this sub mentions abundance mentality as prime, even when your not getting any action because of the principle. Better to have a solid frame and having some sense of self-worth than a constant supply of pussy. Just in my experience, I broke up with her, was very dominant with her and did the fuck what I wanted to do. She was obsessed with me, wanted to marry, crazy, etc.

At the time I was banging another chick and told her I wasn't looking for friends or relationship. She was still down cause she wanted to be with me and thought she could convince me. It was only sex and I continued to fuck the ex for a few months then she found a new bf. Was actually happy for her tbh.

What I found out was that I wanted that extra luv lol. At any point she could have screwed me over big time or did some crazy shit. While the action was awesome cause she was brazilian it could have easily went to shit. I was lucky. I don't know your story but there's always a risk. I would focus on abundance mentality and red pill principles first and foremost. Don't think with your little head it will destroy you.

CrikeyKay · 2018-06-16T15:32:13+00:00

Why did you break up?

RedSkeller · 2018-06-16T16:10:28+00:00

Invite her over for any reason and fuck her. If she’s interested she’ll show up. Other than that it’s not bad if you can remain unattached

redxpills · 2018-06-16T16:41:46+00:00

Truth is if you still can reach her and she's still replying your messages and still able to meet, etc, chances are she's still fuckable.

As long as she's not sort of crazy chick and seems enjoy with you fucking her, it will be okay until you or her getting bored or wanting to stop

ECoast_Man · 2018-06-16T19:17:53+00:00

Normally it's a bad idea, but in your situation it isn't so bad. You only dated for five months, I say it's do-able, but I question your abundance mentality. Just make sure you aren't banking on this.

Normally you get people who have no abundance mentality, dated a girl for five years and want their cake and eat it too. They think they can have the best of both worlds - the girl they remember, and other girls. Then it's great at first, and then you find out she fucked ten dudes in the two months you've been apart and is still speaking to five of them. Then you realize this girl was nothing like you remember since you knew LTR-her, not single-her. Then they freak out and get butthurt about it. This isn't written in stone, but this isn't advisable for newbies.

Title	Plating an ex?
Author	_nein_danke
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	June 16, 2018 3:09 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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