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aBitClearer/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 03:39 AM
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My understanding is a bit different. Iceland was never part of the EU, but did petition to be part of the EU after Iceland's banking system failed in 2008-2009. Six years later, when Iceland's economy started to grow again, their government withdrew the bid to join.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 06:13 PM
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Yeah I got ya, but it is true! Fortunately, I only have 18 months to go, and that money will be mine again.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 04:59 PM
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And it is certainly not worth $3000 every month, which is what I pay in what another TRP bro called "mommy support". And that's before taxes, so I have to make ~$6000 to cover each payment!
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 09:16 PM
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reinstated
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 04:09 PM
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If you really want, go with someone else A rare spark of honesty and fairness in a woman A cuckqueen woman would be honest in saying that, but this gal is no cuckqueen. Khan is another blowhard mouthy bitch, who has the indecency of discussing her sex life, or lack thereof, on TV. She should be ashamed for airing her dirty laundry for all to see, but instead, uses her position to gain validity for how she feels. not that bad for 46 She's a 4 to 5 max, and could easily be a trany. Give her the "T…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 07:48 PM
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“We have done a deplorable job of helping parents understand food as a prescription for health,” Lustig said by email. “If a parent does not understand the value of food choices, how can you expect their children and the next generation to have any better understanding?” How can ANY PARENT these days NOT UNDERSTAND the value of food choices? They understand alright, but refuse to eat accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 06:46 PM
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Why call the cops if you didn't want her arrested?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 09:58 PM
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It's just that men don't want to appear weak I am one of those men, or I was one of those men. My ex-wife slapped me in the face repeatedly and even punched me closed fisted in the back. Did I call the cops? Nope, and I regret that choice. If that ever happened again, bitch will go to jail and I'll sue her in civil court. Beg to differ, but the police do take it seriously where I live in southern California.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 09:08 PM
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Over the years of my failed marriage, my ex wife used to slap me in my face for no reason other than she could. I never slapped her back, but instead, would pleadingly ask her why in the world she would do this to me. My BP feelings were hurt so badly, and I could not imagine what possessed her to commit such regular acts of violence against me. Her response? Her- "A woman wants to slap her man around every now and again, so stop acting like a baby and take it like a man!" Although I considered …
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 03:42 PM
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Because I am high value my life with women and sex has been a struggle. No one wants me to succeed. I'm probably missing your point here, as I come from the position, one my father taught me, that people are attracted to success and want to surround themselves with those who have it. It's like the saying, "a rising tide raises all ships".
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 08:04 PM
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My LTR was particularly bitchy with PMS last week. One min I was superman, the next I didn't love her, so I told her she couldn't come over until she got her act together. Boy did that change her tune. Since then, as soon as she walks in to my place, I've been fucking her face and making her choak on my cum, and lord has she taken my orgasm to the next level. She blew me four times last Saturday night, and vigorously at that, made the initiations every time. Period gone on Sunday and fucked her …
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 10:13 PM
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Well gents, it gets WAY WORSE the older a slut gets. About a year ago, I was picking some low lying slut fruit on OKQ. Thin, attractive 40yo blond woman's profile reads like "I'm a whore but I fuck for free", get her number and we talk, or, better put, she talks, and talks and talks, and I let her. All I asked her was what lead her to post on OKQ and she declares that she's been on all the hook-up websites and now wants to "settle down". Me- "So I'm on of the lucky guys who gets to throw his hat…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 06:24 PM
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Yeah well, that's a nice fantasy, but I'll never talk to that cunt again if I can help it, and she'd never believe that anyways. But thanks for the pleasant daydream!
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 08:57 PM
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See my comment above. You just can't make this shit up!
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 08:13 PM
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On this very day, I (well, my company) received notice from my county's child support dept. that all child support payments are now to be paid from my employer (me). It is such a waste of taxpayer money. I'm not behind on payments, and this is only part of my ex's scorched-earth policy regarding me. This money is the ONLY income my ex makes and she's trying to get more, since she only has a little more than a year and a half left before her little cash cow (our daughter) turns 18!
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 08:12 PM
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The irony is that when you fail to punish you are abdicating your responsibility and though you might think you are "being nice" she's feeling that as your cowardliness in dealing with her. Nicely put. Her brattiness seems to increase the nicer I treat her, and that nicer comes from the deeply ingrained beta me who I am vigilant to exorcise. Make those rules... be kind and gentle, but firm. Suppose it's AWALT that a high-performing professional woman craves boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 08:28 PM
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OP's post and your response comes at a perfect time for me, as my LTR is getting a bit too comfy with certain must dos in our relationship. Every morning, there are several acts she must complete, whether we are together or not, but this morning she missed a big one. I saw it as a shit test but didn't quite know how to handle it because I also am getting a bit too comfy. So I told her what her punishment was and gave her a deadline. Her response, "Yes Sir!".
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 06:27 PM
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Excellent post, nice and concise. My LTR is regularly renegotiating, expecting more from my time and attention, while asserting desires for higher levels of commitment from me. Thus, I am ever vigilant to see these shit tests as such, and maintain that she continually meets and even exceeds my conditions of satisfaction. The way to my "heart" is not through my stomach!
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 08:25 PM
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If you start explaining things to me a different way using logic and reason, that's just worthless man-splaining. You're being arrogant and mean My gal's been acting bratty lately, so I had a talk with her. After glancing out my kitchen window for a moment, I turned to meet her "I'm totally pissed-off at you right now" look, and I said, "Wow, you look really pissed". She said, "Yes, I am really pissed. It's like all you're saying is 'It's ME-ME-ME-ME-MY FAULT!'", never acknowledging her brattine…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:43 PM
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Drugs aren't the answer(a message to your username), and although I felt somewhat insecure, I maintain that I handled this situation better due to TRP than I would have had otherwise. The red pill takes time.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 05:29 AM
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Much of what you wrote rings true. A simple "no" would have sufficed and the future implication you refer to is a fantasy, so thank you for pointing that out. I have a large capacity to deceive myself. That said, this happened almost a year ago and has never happened again, but if it does, a simple "no" will do. What is it you'd have me ask her??
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 10:25 PM
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That made me laugh out loud! Thanks for the witty summation.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 08:17 PM
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About a month into my current LTR (about a year ago), my gal asked me if it was okay (a good sign) if she went out with one of her girlfriends to watch Magic Mike XXL, a movie where Channing Tatum pays a male stripper destine for his one last great performance. It would be the two women along with some gay friends of my gf's friend. They would watch the movie and have some drinks afterwards. But for TRP, I would not have handled this situation the way I did. First, I knew this friend regularly w…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 07:41 PM
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They cover for her so that she'll cover for them. When my ex-wife began to cheat on me, it took planning, and that took a cell phone that was not an add-on to my phone, so one day, one of her besties used her own credit card to get my ex a new cell phone. But this fat cow friend would not be a good wing woman to attract men at dance clubs and bars, so another good-looking and slender bestie stepped-in to cover for her while they were out. I saw both of these women many many times throughout my e…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 06:47 PM
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I live in California, own my own company and was married for 10 years. Some 12 years ago, I had two other partners, and when I bought them out, I also had a post-nup written. That post-nup made the company my separate property. My then wife had to get her own attorney to advise her on the potential drawbacks to her if we divorced and that the only one that mattered was that she would get nothing, zero, zip, NADA! In order for the post-nup to be legally binding, she had to find the attorney by he…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 08:18 PM
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My ex-wife cheated on me with an old, fat looser for about a year. He was sort of a daddy figure to her. So i bugged her computer and found out EVERYTHING!' When she finally confessed, she told me that I should not have even cared and just let her get it out of her system. We were on a walk, and I remember turning to look at her when she said that and her face was filled with disdain. She was really irritated that I had the gall to care what she was up to!
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 06:56 PM
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Very well-written post here OP. I've owned a small and very profitable business for 15 years. We have had a near 70% drop in revenue over the last 7 years, but I make almost exactly the same as I did when things were at their best. How can I do this? *1) All new business is paid in advance thru company check, wire transfer or by credit card. I'd rather loose 2.5% on CC transactions than take bad debt any day! *2) All N30/45/60 customers are held to terms, and if they fail to pay on time, new shi…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 09:30 PM
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I shared too much: I shared almost everything, and that was my error. I've learned from it, and now have an understanding, albeit foggy, that details of my emotional struggles are to be minimal if at all. My SO knows I have 50/50 custody and she would have been surprised when she didn't see my daughter on my days, so perhaps telling my SO that my daughter is staying with her mother for a while would have been sufficient.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 10:38 PM
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" Likely because she was not looking forward to being single or she felt dread at the thought of you being with another woman" She is an attention whore and, although she is more than willing to have a FFM threesome (she is attracted to women), she does not want me to be with another woman without her, and certainly not without her permanently. As to your second point, I lead our sexual relationship. She never denies me anything I want, anal, oral, pictures, videos, role-play, and even threesome…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 09:45 PM
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I should clarify that I've been going thru some very very difficult custody issues with my ex and our daughter, who is 16, now, and that I informed my SO that I was going thru something (this was about a week prior to the nuke) and that I would fill her in once I had more information. Well, when I did fill my SO in, she went totally ballistic, showed me no compassion, no empathy and no understanding, only an interrogative barrage of questions and insults where I ultimately lost frame, got very a…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 09:25 PM
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This is one aspect of TRP I want to have greater understanding of. I have an LTR (7 months) and dumped her hard a month ago (took all her shit from my home, put it in a plastic bag and hung it around her door with no explanation). Two weeks later, I conditionally accepted her apology and took her back only as a FWB. I asked her to show up at my home naked, write me a check for $500, take a pic of it between her teeth and text me the pic and wait for me to let her in. Worked like a charm. Since t…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 07:55 PM
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Anyone else notice she's a dog? Who's boning this gal? And to wait for 10 months for sex must mean she's worth it, right? That said, her defense of dick-pics is a good read, and I must say I don't disagree with her reasoning therein- XOjane
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 06:17 PM
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"Yes, you run up the mountain, but the mountain also runs you up it"- Alan Watts
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 07:02 PM
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Happened twice with my batty ex-wife. Wasn't right after the wedding though. First time, she cut both her 14 year old daughter's hair from past mid-back to stubble, then did the same to herself. When I got home that night, the ex-mrs was still cutting her daughter's hair, not that there was anymore to cut!@ It was a total and complete nightmare for me and my step-daughter. Crazy ex just laughed and said that she just got started cutting and could not keep the sides even, so she kept chopping awa…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 07:51 PM
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This is the response OP needs to digest. Too many communications get screwed-up in texting. OP opened a can of worms here.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 11:23 PM
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" I told him I had an old hard drive from a broken laptop that I wanted him to look at. This is the part of this tale that I just don't believe. If a woman wanted to keep her past in the past, why would she endanger herself by volunteering an evidence bag that could easily expose her? And her wording is odd too. "...I wanted him to look at" seems a larger desire on her part to expose herself. Perhaps I am reading into this, but, if this story is true, perhaps she wanted to out herself.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 08:33 PM
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What makes this gal think that sharing this info with the world is a positive thing? She must, otherwise why write it? Another example of women's lives being an "open book", I suppose. And another example of why men should keep their lives closed. What self-respecting man who reads this article would want to settle down with her?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 09:27 PM
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Yep, now a day later, and calmer, I totally agree.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 08:10 PM
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WOW! Great post OP and so very timely, as this last weekend reminded me just how true OP's words are. Three months ago, SO of one year unceremoniously and coldly disposes of me over the phone in 3 short sentences. I replied, "OK" , and hung up. I knew then that ANY response to her would be futile. Over the last few months, she reached out to me thru emails and texts, trying to lure me back. I resisted. This weekend, I failed. She made a social request of me, which I granted- details unimportant.…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 11:17 PM
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Appreciate your response s_f, and I may just do as you suggested, with a slightly different context.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 10:09 PM
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I recall exactly where I was some 13-14 years ago when my EX wife shared this piece of wisdom. It went something like: EX- "I know why people cheat on their spouses" Me- "Really" EX- "Yes, it's because they know they are not supposed to" Me silence EX- "So, I think if people agreed that they could have an affair, that permission would take away the sense that it's wrong, and that then they would not cheat. But there is only one rule: they can only have sex with another person ONCE, and use prote…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 07:50 PM
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This is a spot on analysis of how I behaved and how my ex-wife responded during my 12 year marriage. I built custom wood boxes, lined them with velvet (she loved boxes), I compiled a book of all the love letters I wrote her, built a website for her (a Valentine's Day gift), surprised her with a new car, jewelry and the like, and what did it get me?? nothing but contempt she cheated on me totally disrespected me in public as much as in private In couples therapy, she told the therapist that all t…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 06:36 PM
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On OKC, so many women say they want their date to be "dark and mysterious". I selected "wholesome". Wondering where that's gonna get me, being that I live in California.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 07:38 PM
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Did she spit or swallow? Spit= possibly her first bj Swallow= cocksucker
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 08:49 PM
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My dad has told me, "Son, if you want to help others, sometimes you have to be a little selfish".
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 08:43 PM
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First blow job I received was when I was 18. It came from a married woman, mother of four boys, who cheated on her husband with reckless abandon. After her shift one night, we went to my truck to make-out. This was in a grocery store parking lot. I sported wood, but she said she "had to get back home". Without thinking, I said, "you gonna leave me this way?", putting her hand on my bone. She says, "Guess I can give you a little head, and bam! A few mins later and my DNA was shot down her cheatin…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:09 PM
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Ordered "The Natural" by Richard Ruina. Thanks for the list!
/r/RedPillBooks04/09/14 05:01 PM
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Nothing hotter than a fat chick who cusses like a sailor.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 04:40 PM
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Why tell a woman you just met and just want to fuck, about TRP?
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:05 PM
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Been back online w/ POF and Match, and noticed many women write how much they love to laugh, have a good sense of humor, and are a little sarcastic at times I have a sarcastic side don't mind a little sarcastic humor Blah-blah-blah Sarcasm is veiled anger. Once their veil is pierced, we get a glimpse into their minds, and have the opportunity to be one more cock on their carousel, or just bail. Then again, so much of TRP is knowing how women's minds work, and using that knowledge to our advantag…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 10:20 PM
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People need to accept your histories as a part of who you are. My husband definitely does not know the #, doesn't want to know (how does she know this, did she ask him?) and I don't ever plan on telling him I wont' tell him 'cuz it doesn't matter Sex should be talked about openly and honestly Did this cock expert even read her blog for any mistakes or inconsistencies? Answer: why should I edit my blog, when everything I say is true and honest?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 12:18 AM
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Hired a PI some years ago for business purposes. Asked him about following cheating spouses and gathering Intel. He told me women are way better at cheating than men. Women are careful and so secret, while men tend to be the opposite. Said it was very easy to catch a man, not so much a women, as he had much more surveillance to do, which cost the husband considerably more.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 10:01 PM
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First blow job I ever got was at freshman orientation (college). Volunteered that she was cheating on her bf. Saw her 2 years later on campus, told me she was getting married. That night, I pumped her starfish. Go figure. Lost my virginity to a leather and fishnet 17 yo hottie. Started with making out, then hands everywhere, when she too volunteered that she should not be doing this, as she had a bf. They had discussed her straying before and she promised him she would be true. Mind you, she is …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 09:55 PM
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It can go either way, but my suggestion would be, only do it when you want to. Doing something when you want to is an expression of boundary power, which is an Alpha trait. My humor used to be full of self-deprecation. That was then, this is now and it is rare that I want to put myself down.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 01:52 AM
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Hummm, lemme see- fat, angry, ugly, adulterous woman, who confuses abject stupidity with something akin to virtue, brags about having all her holes filled by different lovers, and posts it for all to see on the web.... How would anyone in their right mind think that this person is mentally healthy?
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 12:29 AM
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Glad you made this point. Just this weekend, I was beaten to the break-up by my ex-GF. Her stated reason was that she thought my communication with her would improve, but it had not, so it just wasn't going to work out for her. The real reason she moved on? Briffault's Law. I made it clear to her that she was not moving in with me, and I was never going to get married, two things she wanted from early on in our nearly one year relationship. She is in debt, 50 yo, fit and thin, but O/A a 6 on her…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 08:24 PM
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Ah....correction...Christian girls of the Catholic faith are the sluttiest.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 11:24 PM
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No advise on "can't hang with x" scenario, but when it comes to after school activities, and weekend parties, I always check-in with the parents who are responsible for driving etc., and even go to the home where the party is, and check the place out. I always ask if a parent will be present and if it is a sleepover, that no boys be permitted to stay. My daughter is 14, and so far, so good.
/r/RedPillParenting20/08/14 11:16 PM
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Yep, lying slut on the marriage alter is bad. But I dont think she was all that bold not to play the role of virginal bride. What was she supposed to do? Deny being a virgin? If the pastor knew she was not a virgin, then he is a liar, complicit in in sanctioning a bad faith marriage contract. Perhaps your mutual friend should tell a little birdy about the brides past, so the groom can get the scoop, confront his slut, and ask for an annulment. Also, a person is decent, or they are not. There is …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 10:58 PM
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Excellent advise! Since my family support payments were stepped-down in structure, I started to save the money that would have gone to the never-worked-a-day-in-her-life ex. That started last year. Now I have saved enough to remodel my kitchen, which is in dire need. This year, all I have is child support (3 grand a month), and have an additional $1500 to put into savings. It took 7 years to get to this point, and I am savoring the savings!
/r/becomeaman20/08/14 07:31 PM
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"Or you could just tell the truth, that you're freaking engaged " This is SPOT on! When my cheating ex used to go out on a Friday night with her slut GF (same woman who shamelessly hit on me some years before), and would come home with calling cards from men she met that night, I'd ask, "Why did you, a married woman, take the cards?", or, "why didn't you tell them you are married?". She appealed to her own safety, in that, taking the card was harmless (and keeping it too??? for future use???), b…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 05:57 PM
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Losing my frame due to anger used to be my number one problem. My boundaries were all out of whack, I would stuff issues deep down, instead of confronting them in the moment, and then, when my tipping point was reached, I would explode. Though I never got physical, I would rage, then after coming down, would feel guilty, then over apologize, then later think, "why did I apologize, it was her fault, I am the one who was offended", then the process would begin anew. Lust? Sure that too, but not in…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 11:04 PM
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My EX-wife used to slap me in the face for no reason whatsoever. Sometimes she would lie in wait and surprise the shit out of me, sometimes it was a slap while passing each other in the hallway, and then there were the times in the kitchen while my hands were full. The slaps were not particularly hard, nonetheless, I developed a kind of tick, where I would anticipate the slap, but none came. She would say, "What the fuck are you doing, did you think I was going to slap you?". Other times, she wo…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 10:37 PM
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Recovering BB checking in with an affirmative on believing that "good communication keeps couples together"......yeah right!! Stopped "communicating" with my now EX-SO, she read the writing on the wall (that I had no respect for her and was about to next her), told me things were not working for us, I said "OK, BYE", and hung-up! I do feel kinna good about that.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 12:15 AM
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I live in an area filled with women ranging from fuckable to hot-as-the-hinges-of-hell, and I still play the internet dating game. It is AA, fear of rejection, fear of looking like a fool....well just a ocean full of fear that I feel. Yet, I am quite successful with online dating. First encounters by emails or messaging (easy), then follow-ups on the phone (easy)typically go well. I do though, see myself as copping-out by not at least trying more in live situations, in favor of the safety of my …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 11:47 PM
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Prior to me swallowing the RP some two months ago, this advise would have sounded crazy to me. In fact, it would sound like the man giving it would be no more than a "womanizer"! Of course, I would secretly be envious of him, and his ability to maintain his freedom, and get more and better pussy than me. To my SO, I would beta-bliss-it-to-the-max, and say all the things I thought I should say, in a vein attempt to both buttress my faltering ego, and play WK to her.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 09:51 PM
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