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Statistically men do a lot worse on dating apps than if they would try in real life.
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:58 PM
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There is a nuance you don't see: attention is involved in every social interaction - even if you don't care. The problem is: most men CARE about the type of attention they get. They want to avoid negative attention and gain positive attention because that's just human nature, but that's problematic because if you are constantly avoiding not looking bad or ending up in some negative shit-storm or just not being creepy or weird, then you ultimately have no momentum. It's like driving a car and hav…
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:11 PM
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Don't judge the book by it's cover ;)
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:15 AM
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Firstly, I actually agree with you about being normal but what about this post is implying non-normality? Maybe I am completely biased. But for me a polarizing person is a normal person. He or she is not a robot. The kind of person that will just say whatever he wants and has both normal and also weird or extreme opinions about things because he/she really thinks that way. I'm just so against conformity. People that look at other people and try to fit in instead of expressing/acting on what they…
/r/seduction02/08/22 05:03 PM
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To help you understand if it's even possible! We are not ''detached''. I feel all sorts of things even during a one night stand. It's just that for me to develop deep feelings with a woman it comes not from how attractive she is or even how good conversation we have, that's just the start to even qualify to spend any amount of time with me. Deeper feelings comes from how many months we have spent together and what she has done for me. What value she has actually brought to my life. The point I'm…
/r/seduction02/08/22 04:41 PM
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I'm sorry but this is a huge blanket statement. It gives no real pointers, and I know many men personally whom are very attractive for women, but when we go to bars and clubs together they just sit at the table with their drink and no-one approaches them and they don't talk to any new girls either. They can only get girls from Tinder and their limited social circle. This is simply... Not enough in most cases. Being is not enough, you also have to do, and sometimes a lot. The real formula if ther…
/r/seduction02/08/22 03:48 PM
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I totally understand your point as well, and that's why I often tell women I'm not interested in a relationship to begin with and I do this ''compromise'' with the ones who insist in having one even when I said no. Usually the ones who compromise are bisexual and we can have threesomes and do other things. And they're just open to other women in general, they don't have this super ''catty'' defense around sex. They agree with me that outside what we have if I am going to hookup with someone it's…
/r/seduction02/08/22 03:42 PM
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Agree! I always also up front tell women I am absolutely not interested in a relationship, and then later I only get into a relationship with the ones who actively try to get into one with me! Not as a technique but I am really never interested in relationships unless we have months of history and they have been actively trying to be a big part of my life.
/r/seduction02/08/22 01:48 PM
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I didn’t say that they agree with me. I said it’s my opinion. Any woman who can’t agree is simply not interesting. I also only tell that to women that are actively asking me for a relationship a bit further in us getting to know each other, just to clarify :) but it might slip out of me in the first conversation anyway.
/r/seduction02/08/22 01:47 PM
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You know it! Cheers bro
/r/seduction02/08/22 12:10 PM
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That’s not really a good question in my opinion because it’s logical. Women mostly do things from an emotional standpoint. She’s not logically thinking about whether or not she’s gonna sleep with you, she just does it if she feels it and the situation is right in the moment.
/r/seduction18/01/22 01:10 PM
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I understood, don’t worry! Bold moves are the best. Honestly, I get very very bored if I don’t make bold moves. There’s only so much conversation you can have before boredom sets in, especially if you do it all the time for the last 10 years.
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:38 AM
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I work with TNL a lot. I am their night game instructor they just don't market me publicly! Yes I agree they are really good at what they do.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:04 PM
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I work with TNL a lot. I am their night game instructor they just don't market me publicly! Yes I agree they are really good at what they do.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:03 PM
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There's so much Infield videos online. I have a lot on my own channel which you can watch through the link above in the post. If you want to see more infields I would recommend the channel ''the natural lifestyles''. I work with them as a coach from time to time and they're really good at what they do.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:03 PM
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I'm glad you are inspired! Hope it helps you in the field in the next few days :)
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:00 PM
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el like you were seconds from getting the cops called on you if she didn’t like that Short answer is: we've been talking for a while and if you have a lot of experience with women you can just tell. Also you are probably in the mindset that kissing is a big deal. On a night out I might kiss 4 or 6 girls. It's really not that big of a deal. Girls even do it among themselves all the time. It's just that most guys don't go for it and also think it's a big deal, this is why it doesn't happen a lot f…
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:59 PM
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Appreciate the words! Thanks bro!
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:57 PM
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I know personally that anyone who makes looks an argument doesn't go out and doesn't do well with women. Perhaps this should have been my only one argument. Actually the equivalent is those people who think making a lot of money is impossible or only available to the privileged. How about you show us your results? Because I can, there are even videos of it online and you can see what I gain from thinking in my ways. Everything I write about is directly applicable in the field. The correct respon…
/r/seduction14/01/22 07:08 PM
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You do sound bitter, actually. But regardless I do want to answer you. Personally, I have never found approaching or starting something a waste of time. What I've personally experienced as well as many men is putting their time and energy into the wrong woman or situation just because... ''That's what you're supposed to do'' because you're a man or because you're playing a numbers game. So it's more the ''continuing'' that's a waste of time, not the starting. One of the approaches I did today to…
/r/seduction14/01/22 06:39 PM
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If you think having a purpose, a lifestyle and prioritizing that over women is manipulating you are wrong. A lot of women have told me in person that they're very motivated by the fear of losing out on a man or that he has other options. It's not manipulation to maximize your opportunity with women. Manipulation by definition is exercising harmful influences of others. In this short article I was stating that nobody ever talks about the darker side with women. That they are not just motivated by…
/r/seduction24/10/21 01:45 PM
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The YouTube video is for the people who don't have the energy to read, I'm not here to argue with you. In the video you see more of my experiences. We unfortunately live in a world today where not everyone wants to read a huge long text. And about the bold text, I quite like it like that. Not everything I do is for others.
/r/seduction24/10/21 01:40 PM
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Nothing is sold...
/r/seduction24/10/21 01:19 PM
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Mate you are seriously retarded. My advice is for people who take action. So if you're like me you are already talking to 5-10 new girls every day. It's important to remember to enjoy yourself already without women. To remember that your overall life satisfaction does not depend on women. If being alone is awful and painful that's something you have to work on with a coach or a therapist or by going to a retreat or something like that. Being with yourself should be an awesome experience. I'm spe…
/r/seduction19/07/21 10:14 AM
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Say no
/r/seduction03/07/21 10:36 AM
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I was just saying that if you want to do something with your life then its much easier to do that if you've developed yourself through meeting women. This type of development translates into everything .Of course there are plenty of guys in the world who knows how to meet women and are very good at it who just have decided to do nothing in their lives or be a shitty person. That's their choice. However if the same people you describe decided to be good people or do something with their lives the…
/r/seduction01/07/21 10:26 AM
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Lately I’ve been living, thinking and talking a lot about open relationships, friends with benefits and how to be intimate with women without being monogamous. Still there are some people who are trying to tell me that I’m missing some ‘’extra’’ depth by not doing a monogamous relationship. This is utter and complete bullshit. Mutual exclusivity does not equate to ‘’more feelings’’ or ‘’deeper feelings’’. In the end it’s about how you view your time with women and what you do. If you and the gir…
/r/seduction27/08/20 06:22 PM
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Cheers brother! What part of it seemed manipulative to you? I'm 100% honest with the women telling them that I meet other women and I'm transparent with what I want. I don't see how anyone could be manipulated. I don't feel that I'm missing anything that you could have in a monogamous relationship. I've been in exclusive relationships before and there was no ''extra'' depth there because of the exclusiveness. What I'm doing now still has a bit of that relationship feel but without the extra bagg…
/r/seduction26/08/20 11:38 PM
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Where’s why I think that being a woman’s boyfriend is a very disadvantageous position and that the woman benefits far more than the man does: The boyfriend has to deal with all the problems she has and has to be there for her always otherwise he’s a shitty boyfriend. You don’t have the freedom to explore other women sexually or even try another woman once. If you have sex with any other woman you’re a liar, scumbag and a cheater. Women never leave the game. Any woman that’s monogamous/committed …
/r/seduction26/08/20 09:28 PM
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My best advice is to stay in your own lane. You gotta be so focused on yourself that you don't even see other guys. Every day: work on your approaching, getting man to woman, conversational skills and date/closing girls. This should consume your free time outside work and hobbies. This is also called tunnel vision. Which I think is paramount for success in anything.
/r/seduction15/08/20 10:51 PM
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How To keep A Girl (The High Value Way) Today I want to share some BOSS advice that I got many years ago, but at the time I wasn’t able to fully understand or process it because I was much younger than I am now. Before you read about what I have to share I want to make a huge disclaimer! The best way to keep a girl long-term is to be an interesting guy. A man who has things in his life that is important to him besides the woman. A charming, confident, outgoing guy who knows what he wants out of …
/r/seduction15/08/20 10:03 PM
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Friends With Benefits - How To Handle Jealousy The first thing I want to say is that you have to really want to be good friends and have benefits with a girl. Many guys lie to themselves. What they really want is monogamy or a serious relationship and they’re just ‘playing it cool’ or wanting to impress other people or play some sort of game on the girl. You have make a commitment with yourself to act out how you truly feel inside of yourself. Now if you truly can’t stand monogamy and you don’t …
/r/seduction14/08/20 08:38 PM
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How To Get Friends With Benefits - The Beginners guide! I wish I knew this many years ago when I started putting myself out there meeting women. Set the premise Whenever I meet a woman for the first time my first goal is to set the premise! There’s always an underlying premise to every meeting. There’s a why behind every meeting and I want to make it clear to her through my words and actions that I find her attractive and want to explore the possibility of us enjoying each other. From the very f…
/r/seduction13/08/20 07:15 PM
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It's not about good looks or not.. It's about that you don't have to involve money when she's already attracted to you because this videos is about what to do when you already have a date or an opportunity to make one after you've approached or taken a girls number.
/r/seduction12/08/20 01:46 PM
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Am I? Never think about it... Thank you if you really think that.
/r/seduction12/08/20 02:23 AM
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Too many men have ''money'' as an excuse to why they aren't meeting or can't attract women. This is why I really wanted to dive into this common excuse and give you another way of looking at it. "Nothing makes a man so adventurous as an empty wallet" This is something that’s been incredibly true for me all my life in terms of meeting women. My best dates are always very low-key and oftentimes don’t involve any money at all. I might take the girl for a walk or bring some beer from my fridge or I …
/r/seduction11/08/20 08:05 PM
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Low Chemistry Can Be Overcome! When I met this girl we just didn’t click… Our conversation (at least for me) was boring, but I thought she was beautiful. We spent some time together at the first meeting but there wasn’t any real conclusion. During that meeting I had been honest with her and told her that I didn’t know how I felt for her or what I thought about us spending time together during the day. She thought that it was confusing but at least I was honest. I let it go and texted her two wee…
/r/seduction09/08/20 05:12 PM
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Hopefully my answer to Grandmasters comment can help you. Other than that what I want to say is that it takes courage. I'm willing to walk away / lose any girl that's not interested in what I represent. It's more important for me to sleep well at night knowing I stay true to who I am.
/r/seduction05/08/20 10:21 PM
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This is how I've been creating the friends with benefit type of situation so far and it's worked with conservative girls as well as open minded girls: Sex is a very passionate topic for me and so I always talk about it naturally in various forms because I love it and also because that I want to show that I'm a very sexual person so it doesn't come as a surprise later. I ask the girls a lot of questions: Are you currently dating someone? How's your sex life? What makes you excited sexually? Do yo…
/r/seduction05/08/20 10:20 PM
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This is a date video blog. Here are some rules I’ve been following to ensure more successful dates. Do something low-key A walk in the park. A cafe nearby your house. A drink around the corner from where you live. Something that’s simple and walking distance from your house. I’ve found that doing something low-key in the beginning is very important because you don’t want to send a signal that you’re super into some random girl you met in a bar a few days ago or on the streets. Most likely if we’…
/r/seduction05/08/20 04:45 PM
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😘
/r/seduction17/06/20 07:20 PM
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What is the question? I don't understand
/r/seduction17/06/20 02:45 PM
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Amazing!
/r/seduction05/03/20 05:08 PM
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One approach a day keeps the doctor away :)
/r/seduction28/02/20 04:17 PM
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Just focus on one thing at a time. Most people think in ‘’micro terms’’ aka ‘’what’s happening right now’’ or ‘’how things went today’’. You have to shift to a long-term type of thinking and so you start to build each skill independently over time. Perhaps the next month you work on your eye contact and that is your ONE focus the entire month. Obviously you can still take numbers, go on dates and take girls home and seal the deal, but the ONLY thing you’re judging yourself on is your eye contact…
/r/seduction27/02/20 04:34 PM
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Good point! I wrote the article / made the video keeping in mind that people usually have sex during the first 1-3 meetings usually within the first month and so if she doesn’t have high interest in you after that then all the better it backfires and turns into nothing so it leaves you space to find a girl that really likes you.
/r/seduction26/02/20 09:50 PM
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Video Summary: So you’ve met a girl that you enjoy and like and you guys have spent some time and hooked up whether that is during a one night stand or during a first/second date. Here’ is a very effective / time saving way to see her again: * 1. The setup (before you part ways) The last few minutes before you part ways it’s important to already set up the next meeting in the most high value way possible. As you’re kissing or hugging goodbye, start off with a genuine compliment. Something that v…
/r/seduction25/02/20 05:28 PM
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I think this is a weak mentality that will further feed the initial insecurity that you have if you aren't going for the women that you actually want. Only approach women you actually find attractive and build your skill one day at a time. Another thing is that you're going to get lucky as well during your time approaching and it's important that you get lucky with nice looking girls ;)
/r/seduction24/02/20 02:38 PM
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I usually don’t go anywhere that the girl had invited me if we haven’t known each other for a few months. I’ll just say I’m busy tonight, but if you want we can hangout tomorrow night :) This has given me plus points in the past. I’ve found unavailability to be important. I’m very selective about who I spend time with and so if I don’t know anything about her friends or the party that I’m going to that’s a hard NO from my side. But sometimes I invite girls to spend time with me and my friends. I…
/r/seduction23/02/20 03:51 PM
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Video Summary: Focusing on your ‘’batting average’’ will drastically reduce your results and also cause an immense amount of frustration. It also seriously impairs your ability to have fun and enjoy yourself with women. This is why I’m introducing character based goals instead of result based goals. You set different goals based on the qualities you would like to acquire: Confidence, persistence, charm, humor, fearlessness, adventurousness, determination, calm, integrity and so on... You set dif…
/r/seduction19/02/20 09:38 PM
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Sometimes they come naturally and sometimes you have to create them, it really depends on your overall vibe with the girl. But ultimately it’s your job as a man to make something happen and so my general rule is to first relax and see what happens naturally while on a date with a girl. I take her out and we go for coffee or whatever... during this time I usually just flirt without any touching. Then later I invite her back to my place and still I don’t “attack” her. Putting on music relaxing and…
/r/seduction19/02/20 12:57 AM
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Don’t be hard on yourself. Relax in all your conversations and make sure you look the girls in the eyes (this is more important than talking) If your conversation is basic for now don’t worry, focus more on putting yourself out there and in a few weeks you can adjust based on what feedback you gotten from girls. It’s much easier to micro adjust when you’re taking a lot of action than overthinking things beforehand. Good luck brother :)
/r/seduction19/02/20 12:44 AM
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Congratulations! :) Welcome to the club
/r/seduction19/02/20 12:42 AM
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For sure bro! Trying is always better than regretting that you lost a potential opportunity.
/r/seduction19/02/20 12:42 AM
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Video Summary: If you want to be relaxed while meeting women you have to make relaxation your religion. Most people don’t know how to breathe properly. They breathe very shallowly and that creates a constant state of panic, nervousness and fear. In this state you cannot access you rental faculties such as humor, confidence, charm charisma. They all come from a clear mind. The lungs expand more than the chest area, they go all the way down into the diaphragm. When you breathe expand your solar pl…
/r/seduction17/02/20 07:02 PM
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Check my reply above
/r/seduction17/02/20 06:48 PM
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When you have them as a goal then you start working on one at the time through women. And so if you’re someone who’s afraid then you take the next 30 days to work on the opposite of fear which is courage. This means jumping into conversations / approaching different women. With every interaction your goal is not to get the girl but to become fearless. You start ticking of situations that make you afraid one by one and which each situation conquered you’re one step closer to ultimate courage. Sam…
/r/seduction17/02/20 06:48 PM
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Nice :D
/r/seduction16/02/20 06:58 PM
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I've always made character the goal rather than the girl. Godlike confidence. Charm. Humor. Charisma. Fearlessness. Persistence. Standing up for myself and so on. Women was just the way for me to get to those goals. Much later when I felt as though I had reached all those goals did I actually make sleeping with women my goal. But by that time I had already slept with many women and also I was a very ABLE person, and what I mean with able is that if I met a woman I knew I was a dangerous seducer.…
/r/seduction16/02/20 06:57 PM
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Do you mean a body of text in the comment section? When you post a video link there's only the option of posting a title and the link itself. Nowhere can you write a body of text other than the comment section. If that's what you mean?
/r/seduction29/11/19 12:50 PM
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How did it go?
/r/seduction03/03/19 11:46 AM
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Sounds like low investment from her part, and it’s not surprising since your always making plans and moving things forward. If I was in a similar situation. I would have already called her out on her BS and left if she didn’t change her ways. I would do this very early because later it’s hard to change patterns. Honestly I would recommend you meet her and tell her it’s not working for you anymore and that it’s time for you to move on. You tell her what you feel honestly and that you don’t like h…
/r/seduction02/03/19 11:32 AM
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I lived these kind of situations over and over again when I was a lot younger! Just relax, take a deep breath and create new opportunities with other women (not in front of the girl you like) Don't send anything needy or text her anything at all. Appologizing or going on some kind of mission to get her back is not going to give you 'plus points'. Next casually meet her, joke around and act like everything is normal. Then proceed to asking her out, but a little bit more serious... Like I would re…
/r/seduction22/01/19 08:48 PM
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Acceptance. This is probably the one thing you don't want to hear right now, but often times what's really going to help you is the thing you last want to hear. These thoughts, feelings, emotions are there because there is resistance. You don't want to feel this way, and because you don't want to feel this way it's further reinforcing the state. The state itself is feeding of that energy that you give it. Turn it around... Be the guy that always thinks about her... Be the guy who's distracted...…
/r/seduction07/01/19 07:36 PM
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Why do you assume you did something wrong. That was the point I was trying to make earlier. Maybe she was wrong, and maybe she's not a good fit for you... You see this happens all the time. It's always the guys fault and the girl is almost never at fault. That's why in my own life I just enjoy myself and invite girls into my world and if things don't work out it, I don't blame myself. Yes you should work on being better, but do it for yourself and girls will follow, rather than trying to make ev…
/r/seduction04/12/18 07:33 PM
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Accept that you panic. Accept that you can't keep your cool. Accept that you are nervous. Make moves from this place. Don't try to first get rid of all the things you are feeling and make moves. Be the nervous guy who makes the awkward move. At this rate it's better than doing nothing, and don't forget you are human. It's just like riding a bicycle. You'll figure it out as you are doing it. And... You have to make mistakes. It's soo crazy how guys are trying to meet women without making mistakes…
/r/seduction04/12/18 06:31 PM
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Start chatting girls up on the street and make moves! (Avoid nightclubs and so on) Get tinder + tinder gold. Upload the most bad-ass photos you have of yourself. Every day talk to at least 5-10 girls in person and make the best out of each situation to the best of your ability and each evening check in on Tinder and message/respond to girls. Make it your goal to go on dates and bring girls back home.
/r/seduction04/12/18 06:25 PM
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I know you are trying to figure this thing out so you can do better next time, but trust me! Forget about it. Instead create new situations with new girls or take yourself out to a nice lunch and enjoy the sun :) I made a decision to let all girls go who want to be gone. Don't try to hold on it's like sand running out of your fingers!
/r/seduction04/12/18 06:23 PM
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Are you in a monogamous relationship? Either you move on or you text her and say ''If you are going to be mad because I saw another girl when we weren't together then fine. But I love you and I'm not going to feed this childish thing.'' Then go enjoy your life. While your enjoying your life spend some time thinking about what kind of relationship you want to have and what your boundaries are. Next time she pops back in sit her down and tell her exactly what you want and where you are going or do…
/r/seduction04/12/18 06:19 PM
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Summary: Approach Only 5 Girls During Daygame Benefits are: You start to focus on what’s really important which is to make the best out of each interaction instead of spreading yourself out too thin. You become more selective and pick girls you really like. You waste less time (no warm ups or practice) You have a start (first approach) and a finish (last approach) after that you have time to focus on building a great life for yourself. Most guys don’t have a stop. They just keep going forever an…
/r/seduction03/12/18 08:36 PM
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Each to his own! To say every girl has a yeast infection is like saying every man is carrying a disease, statistically it's not possible. Why do you need honesty or judge a woman if she is a whore or not. There is no point to label women. Just enjoy them, without aversion or attachment. She can be anything, do anything. She is free. You don't need to put energy into making a label. Your self-esteem should not go up and down depending on your situation with women. This can be solved through medit…
/r/MGTOW06/07/18 08:24 PM
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Well I am glad this discussion is being brought up and that there are multiple sides to everything. I say don't care about this Alpha thing whatever it is supposed to be. Go the MGTOW way and just do you but also enjoy women on your down time. When building an empire one must relax as well. Biologically having hookers or... rubbing one out will never be as satisfying as the real thing and also having real sex energizes you in a different way. Specially when you are into the woman and she's into …
/r/MGTOW06/07/18 07:19 PM
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Pitt was enjoying Angelina and hooking up with their nanny as far as I know and who knows how many women he's been with after that and he continues to earn money. He's in a good place bro. We can't argue with that. So what he had some troubles with Angelina, who cares I don't even think he cares anymore.
/r/MGTOW06/07/18 07:09 PM
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I'm living the bachelorhood lifestyle but as a man I also enjoy the hunt. Hookers and rubbing one out will not satisfy the primal hunger that resides within'. Aren't you seeing this as rather defeatist. I think a more healthy approach is to enjoy without aversion or attachment. Your seriously going to argue me on the point of that I am telling you to get your dick wet? At this point I probably care more about your sex life than you do haha... I'm waving the white flag. We are on the same team ma…
/r/MGTOW06/07/18 07:03 PM
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No my friend. I am here for a reason. I want guys to enjoy happiness, success and great sexual experiences. I love what men going their own way stands for. Success, freedom, happiness. Career. But I don't agree with leaving women. You should leave your attachment to women. You can enjoy listening to music but it doesn't mean you have to go MAD if you don't get your music hit for the day. There is a difference between enjoying something and being attached to something. I want this to also be a pa…
/r/MGTOW06/07/18 06:58 PM
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I hear you bro. Honestly. Why not make more money, have great friends, spend time with your bros. I hear you. But part of life is also getting your sexual needs met. The sexual marketplace is an arena. Just like any arena you can learn how to dominate and become a gladiator. If you see it as fun and enjoyable and you don't let the women play their power games by telling them it's not OK, showing that it's not OK and if they still don't get it distancing yourself and meeting someone else then you…
/r/MGTOW06/07/18 06:46 PM
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Read this carefully! One of my most favorite quotes ever! By a woman no less: “Male aggressiveness consists in asking a woman to have intercourse and waiting for her to say yes, or a definite no. Skilful tacticians enhance their chances of making out by distributing their attentions among several women at a time (one version of 'playing the field') thus increasing their statistical chances for a favorable answer, depending on circumstances. This is the height of male aggressiveness that is toler…
/r/MGTOW06/07/18 06:43 PM
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I still don't think just focus on your own success is an complete answer and that's why I made the video. Your own success has to be really defined. It's not just career and money, and lifestyle but also sex life. Just hiding behind money isn't going to make anybody happy. But having sex regularly, going out having fun and also having money and wealth that's a more complete answer. The point is when your woman is toxic you can go out and meet other women. You can become equally powerful by learn…
/r/MGTOW06/07/18 06:40 PM
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GYOW Does this stand for going your own way? As in focus on your own success? If so yes that's a an amazing idea. Each time your woman acts you simply go out and have fun, meet more women and build more success. In fact this type of behavior is far more effective then being butt hurt, for yourself, for your woman, for the world, for new women. I hope I didn't misquote you out of context.
/r/MGTOW06/07/18 06:37 PM
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Did you have a chance to check out the entire video? Later on I talk about how you can equalize the playing field and become just as powerful in the sexual market place. You surpass this field where you are drawing the short end of the straw. Yes women's biological nature can be very manipulative, but if you are in a certain place as a man it doesn't affect you. In fact you are the one who's in charge and the one who has the power anyway.
/r/MGTOW06/07/18 05:41 PM
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And to add to this: if you don’t feel enough you won’t keep the woman that you get anyway because you will self-sabotage, or ruin the relationship because you don’t feel deserving deep down. So you are essentially back at square one.
/r/seduction02/06/18 01:28 PM
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It’s practical. Very practical. Machiavellian. If you are going to talk to a woman, you better be ready to go all the way. This kills any technique or gimmick. To answer your question: you can say anything. It’s not what you say but the place it’s coming from. Hence today’s post. I’ve seen too many people meeting women and not going all the way. Pulling back to ‘practice’ more another day. Usually after the stage of ‘what do I say’ which is even more of a beginner problem. So I’m not saying noth…
/r/seduction02/06/18 01:26 PM
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In life we tend to get what we go for, what we aim for and what our goal is. If your goal is to practice you will become better at talking to women etc.... but there is a huge misconception here. You don’t have to be “good” to be with a woman. We are men and are/is naturally designed to be with women. You could find a woman today in a bar somewhere, or on the street that likes you. And in that moment if you are stuck in “practice mode” you won’t go for what you want. Practicing is not a boss min…
/r/seduction02/06/18 12:18 PM
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Hey man! Glad you're ready to rock it! I would suggest you to sit down and write down some solid goals of what kind of women you would like to meet. What qualities you like in women and what kind of energy you would like to have around you. Think about where you can find these women. Also take a moment to think about your lifestyle and what you would like to do just for you! After that it's time for action! Head to the places where you know these women are. Hit up bars clubs, get on tinder. Star…
/r/seduction21/05/18 07:00 PM
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Plain and simple: For some guys it's easier because they have been growing up in a certain way in a certain environment and had positive influences. Other guys don't have that and have little to no exposure or experience to women. On both camps you have to do different things. For some guys it's just all about getting themselves out there and that's all. For other guys they also have to understand and know social dynamics because they just have ... no clue ... whatsoever ... Because with no expe…
/r/seduction24/04/18 03:50 PM
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Going to change it since i'm such a perfectionist :) Didn't notice, thanks!
/r/seduction19/04/18 04:26 PM
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Great initiative! Love it :) Here's my 5 cents: Whenever you are the aggressor, the person who's actively moving things forward there's always going to be an element of rejection. It's a part of the game, what you have to get better at is handling objections! One objection that I can see now is that for some reason it's just really weird for girls to approach guys in society. Because inheritly it's assumed that girls have abundance and options and are more on the receiving end. Guys will think y…
/r/seduction19/04/18 03:57 PM
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Hey man! I'm glad your expressing yourself honestly like this :) It's okay, enjoy it. Have the jitters. Spend more time with her, have more sex, go to places. Let yourself fall in love. That's why they call it fall in love. You have to fall. Here's the secret i'll give you. Show her how you feel. Don't talk about it. A lot of guys who are having the jitters are giving it away to her in form of words. Show her, but not with gifts. Whenever you are kissing her. Kiss her passionately. When you are …
/r/seduction19/04/18 03:38 PM
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Agreed. And something interesting to observe as well is: If somebody is learning how to ride a bike or dribble a soccer ball. They fall down over and over again in the process of learning or they make mistakes while dribbling. Guys have an easy time to jump back on the bike and try again or keep dribbling the ball. Somehow it's expected that if you are new with riding a bike or soccer there are is a supposed learning curve. But with success with women or dating, so much of the person's identity,…
/r/seduction10/04/18 10:25 PM
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Your thinking too much! Relax. Drink a protein shake or something. It's simple: tell her to meet you when you are free. Let her know in advance. When you meet you go for her. Take her back to your place and go all out. Not with your words, but with your actions. Have sex with her. Done :) She's already piching your abs. Hitting you up and messaging you first. What else do you need? She likes you, why do you beat around the bush and keep her waiting. Be a man and take her. Don't ghost her again. …
/r/seduction04/04/18 02:46 PM
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Don't be logical! If you guys are flirting super hard, don't even talk about what you want or desire for you and her. Just tell her to meet you for coffee or a drink or whatever. Then you take action with her if you really like her (take her back to your place and have sex) Walking away is doing nobody a favour. Lots of guys and girls are with someone that's not the right fit for them. If you can do better why not. Maybe she would enjoy hanging out with you a lot more. I never understood the "I'…
/r/seduction04/04/18 02:31 PM
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Classical shit test, you failed my man! Don't worry, we've all been there. All you should have said was "okay let's be friends, I'm cool with that". Then change the topic. Later when you meet just proceed as usual, touching her, kissing her enjoying her. Don't pay too much attention to what she says. Look at her behavior. After that no matter what happens. Go out and enjoy yourself, have a good time. The problem is that your life revolves around her and she can feel that. Even you toying with th…
/r/seduction27/02/18 11:14 AM
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I love Reddit! I went on your profile and as you know I can see all your posts and comments. In many posts you say you have approach anxiety and you don't feel confident among other things. And even in your comment I feel deep rooted negativity.... They say people's remarks and comments are reflections of how they feel deep inside. Positivity always wins. Go back, watch the video until the end and i'm sure you'll learn something new. I talk about how to get in touch with yourself and your mascul…
/r/seduction24/11/17 08:51 PM
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There are some things in life that can only be discovered when you dive deep :) This video is for all the deep divers out there!
/r/seduction25/07/17 04:53 AM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction27/01/17 01:17 AM
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You didn't really get the article and that's just fine! It's not your fault. It's actually an article that would help if you already are advanced. I know for a fact that you aren't going out regularly and talking to women. If you did, you would know that it's not 'what you say' it's how you say it. How it make the girl feel. You can say literally anything and get away with it. It doesn't have to make logical sense on paper. Especially not in high pressure environments with loud music and lots of…
/r/seduction16/06/15 04:27 PM
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