How To Get A Girlfriend Quickly Without Wasting Time -> https://youtu.be/W2qSRjzWXMk

#1 Women are very motivated by a fear of loss (FOMO or Losing Out on You)

Why is nobody talking about this? Women often (without saying it) want a man that she feels is slipping away and so she can catch him.

A lot of men when approaching the ‘’getting a girlfriend’’ stage think about showing all their ‘’good qualities’’, talking to her often and courting her.

The intention is good, but it almost never produces the desired end result which is getting a girlfriend. So the strategy is shit…

Why it’s shit is because you are predictable and… Replaceable. There are many, many, many men who are trying to court her especially if she’s a top tier woman.

#2 The answer IS TO HAVE FOCUS ON ELEVATING YOUR LIFESTYLE AND SOCIAL POSITION

Yes YOU want to talk to girls, invite them out and make moves to get laid, but instead of being overly invested in their BS (making you wait or saying things like not tonight)

You want to be so caught up in making your next moves that her resistance towards you is just noise.

You’re thinking about becoming the best DJ on the planet or the best Football player or writing a book that you know is going to set you apart from all the other writers.

You also have other girls that you are making moves with.

The problem for a lot of guys is that the initial strategy of heavy courting or a lot of initial investment is that it makes it harder to

  1. Focus on your own lifestyle because you are pouring a lot of energy into the woman
  2. Making time to make moves on other girls.

Both of these combined will trigger her ‘’anxiety’’ or ‘’fear of missing out’’.

She will also know that you are a man that’s going places and so this will really be a positive impact on her as well.

You now are inconsistent and unpredictable and so therefore you are exciting!

The game is about being exciting!

Women want to be in relationships with exciting men! Not reliable men (unless they pass their 30s)

So this post is more about if you want to land girls from 18-29 which I think is mostly what all the men reading this want.

Cheers,
Jayden